Yals University Library. WOMAN'S WORK. SERMON PREACHED ON THE SEVENTEENTH SUNDAY AFTER TRINITY, ST. PAUL'S CHURCH, BURLINGTON, REV. E. R. ATWILL, Rector of the Parish. 'Published by request of the "Y'estry and others. 1869. Ni t- - - WOMAN'S WORK. A SERMON PEEACHED ON THE SEVENTEENTH SUNDAY AFTER TRINITY, IN ST. PAUL'S CHURCH, BURLINGTON, BY REV. E. R. ATWILL, Rector off the Parish. Published by request of the Testry and others. 1869. BURLINGTON, VT.: FREE PRESS -PRINT. 1869. SERMON. I will therefore * * * that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety, not with broidered hair, or gold or pearls, or costly array; but (which becoineth women professing godliness) with good works. I Tim. II, 8-10. These words of Saint Paul to Timothy concern ing the women of Ephesus, his admonition to the wo men of Corinth, and Saint Peter's admonition to the women of the church in general, are eminently plain and practical. In harmony with the rest of Holy Scripture, they assign to woman a definite position in the community, and declare what her duties are. It is my design this morning, in the hope of divine guidance, to offer you a few thoughts upon the subject thus brought before us, viz ; woman's position and duty. So many jocular, common-place and satirical controversies have gathered about ib, that such treat ment as befits this place is difficult, and so much has been well written, that I cannot hope to produce what is new. But the fact that the subject is of deep solemni ty, lying at the very root of our national and domes tic prosperity ; and the other fact that amid the reso lutions, and the articles, and the speeches of the day its true interpretation and bearings are often lost, demand that the ministry be not silent from publish ing the old but undying truth of the Gospel. Now, in the first place, woman's position in the communi ty ; what does the word of God affirm concerning it ? Is she simply the slave of "man, to do his bidding, minister to his gratification, and be crushed under his lordly heel ? Or on the other hand, has she the same duties ; is it for her to enter the arena with him, and relying upon her individual strength, to jostle and fight in the fierce conflicts of life ? In answer to these questions, it may be asserted upon the authority of apostles and at least with the implied sanction of the Master, that woman is not the slave of man. In Christ Jesus, says Saint Paul, there is neither male nor female. They are, says Saint Peter, heirs together of the grace of life. In the Heaven for which they strive in common the Lord tells us that they neither marry nor are given in marriage, for they are equal unto the angels ; and are the children of God. But on the other hand woman's condition, woman's duty does not bid her forth into the world to mingle her voice with the harsh din, and her gentle nature with the rude throes of conflict. It does not indeed concern us to enquire whether the manly or the womanly nature is superior. The agitation of that question is useless. Its complica tions are endless. Be it sufficient for us to know that woman's nature qualifies her for a distinct class of duties. She is designed by creation for a diffe rent kind of service, she developes a peculiar char acter which we do- not confound with manliness. And [ while in mental, moral and physical deve lopment woman differs from man, the peculiarity of each sex is needed for the welfare of the community. As in a compensating pendulum, the metals of which it is made have many of the same characteristics, are composed of some identical elements and yet are va luable in combination only because they differ, so in regard to the qualities of manhood and womanhood in society ; the equipoise of thought, of morals and of religion is only preserved when each sex enjoys an opportunity of unfolding and exercising its own pecu liar character. The mutual restraints and incitements to action thus developed are the safeguards of society. The Bible declares that nature itself teaches u& the propriety of this distinction. And nature is often a divine guide. For those natural instincts and affections which have been debased by the fall, Christianity .respects, refines and sanctifies. But only a distorted reasoning can draw from nature any defence of the claim made in Corinth, and repeated to-day, for the right and power of wo men to do all that men should do. Christianity does not, as some seem to think, render men effeminate ; nor does the christian wo man's liberty carry her away from the instincts and / / graces of her sex, but the love of Christ makes man more manly and woman more womanly than before. " Each sex holds its title by the ordaining of a divine plan, and the displacement of either from its sphere would be a resolution of the whole system into chaos !" What then is the sphere of womanly action, and how should she acquit herself therein ? We answer, that it differs from man's duty not so much in kind, as in range of operation. In many instances, she accomplishes the same re sults at which man aims, in a different way and in a place peculiarly her own. It has been remarked that "while man and woman possess the same men tal characteristics, the distinguishing faculty of man is mental concentration, and that of woman moral impulse. Neither one monopolizes the special de partment but pre-eminently she is intellect : she is love." And if this, involving somewhat of subordi nation on her part, tinges her condition with a drop of bitterness, let us find the cause not in any imper fection of God's arrangement, but by reason of the presence of sin in the world. At the first, man and the woman possessing the same nature that now be longs to each, obeying their instincts, were happy. But woman having been deceived by Satan, became the instrumentality by which man fell. Now in the good Providence of God, she becomes the instrumen tality by which man may be restored. It was the seed of the woman that should bruise the serpent's head. She became in due time the mother of the Redeemer of our race. She gave Him, an infant, to the world, and now it seems to be her mission to lead mankind to Him. And the nearer we approach Christian perfection, tlie loftier will this her vocation and her power appear. Amid the low aims and scant piety of this age tve adore the power to get money, the ability to grapple with the rougher duties of life, and the achievements of concentrated intellect for which man is qualified. And as the sex who can succeed in all these ways admire themselves, woman is left sometimes in bitterness of spirit to drudge and to suffer. Whereas, in a community that was per fect, goodness would hold the leading place. rJhe qualities of submission, obedience, and patient endu rance, which are most excellent in woman's character, would be honored above all. And men would learn from her who like the Master can be meek and lowly of heart. IJWere we true to our religion, we would know that just the features which are most prominent in woman's nature are what we all will need in the hour of death and in the day of judgment. The loftiest glory of God is His all — em bracing love ; the chief duty exemplified in the Sa • viour's life was patient obedience. And these pre cisely are the glory of the Christian woman. She is to be not only man's companion, his earthly help mate, but she is appointed to a higher office, viz ; to help him on towards Heaven. Mr. Ruskin has noticed that the wisest and pu rest authors of all ages have attributed to woman the highest dignities of life. In works of fiction that are truest to nature, noble women outnumber noble men, and men are made noble by the power of woman. Shakespeare writing with the acutest knowl edge of human nature presents us with no heroes ; he has only heroines stedfast in grave hope and error less purpose, characters conceived in the highest he roic type of humanity. He represents women as in fallibly faithful and wise counsellors, uncorruptibly just and pure examples, strong always lo sanctify even when they cannot save. Sir Walter Scott too in his imaginations of wo men, clothes them with an infallible sense of dignity and justice, a fearless, instant and untiring self sacri fice to even the appearance of duty, and much more to its real claims, and finally a patient wisdom of deeply restrained affection, which does more than protect its objects from momentary error; it gradual ly forms, animates, and exalts the characters of the unworthy lovers until at the close of the tale we are just able and no more to take patience in hearing of their unmerited success. Woman has indeed, brethren, a mission and a power which is even more exalted, more heavenly than that which man easily attains. She is in the Providence of God the instrumentality of man's ele vation. Beyond the saving of her own soul, she has this great work to do from which she may cease only at her peril. The importance of this duty may become more plain, by a consideration of some of the peculiarities of woman's work in which she has succeeded and may succeed again. And first there is power for good or ill vested in the young women of this and every other age. They are either radiant in purity and truth, or direful in their silent influence for evil. The spirit that pre vails in their hearts and souls pollutes or sanctifies the world in which they move. There are indeed im pulses to evil for which they are called to render no ac count. There is a counter influence working upon their own lives. Their desire to please leads them to adopt those fashions and customs which win admiration. The burden of society's downfall does not rest entirely upon them. But they are responsible more than we often think. They can hinder a young man rushing wildly through a career of dissipation and sin, They can make idleness shameful. They can so elevate the tone of conversation that the empty headed gallant must either withdraw or acquire knowledge. They can so dignify religion that scoffing shall cease from before them. They can so glorify purity and virtue that obscenity and innuendoes shall be unknown in their presence. The sternness, of woman's disappro val, and the unmistakeableness of her language can awe every form of vice and cause it to flee from the pathway where she treads. Hers is a benign apostle ship. When commands fail, and experience of elders is scorned, and the restraints of school and home are thrown off, and the youth new-fledged goes forth to license and to ruin then; woman, young, companion- 10 able, virtuous, lovely, may watch over him as an angel of light. The charms of her society may then be made the vehicle of teaching and influence which no other human power can use successfully. There is too great a disposition among the younger women of our day to half admire dashing wickedness, to re prove and yet encourage, to prefer the "married profli gate to the virtuous but purseless scholar," while vil lage maidens turn from the honest farmer, merchant or mechanic to admire and encourage those who bring into the pure sunlight of the country a little of the culture, and much ofthe wickedness, of city life. When the youth of the country are encouraged and driven by this open manifestation of preference on the part of those whose favor they desire, what will they do but learn that wickedness, those ways that please ? And upon the heads of America's daughters will fall a double curse. But more than this — when woman learns to know the meaning of those words wife, and mother, there devolves upon her a weightier charge. Then she must make what no money can buy, a home for husband and children, for without the taste, the grace, and the beauty which she alone can bring, there can be no home. Here is where her queenly powers shine in their mature splendor. God has given her the mission of purifying and sanctifying the home and finding in it her realm, her sphere of duty, her earthly Paradise of joy and peace. No household gods of heathendom stand in that LI home ; but a dearer than any heathen deity governs the conduct of husband, wife and children. The Prince of peace is their constant and welcome com panion. But who can tell how largely the Lord of life and peace uses the woman's influence to bring heavenward that husband and those children. Who can tell what she may accomplish by her willing obe dience and fervent piety ; or how she may banish by her worldliness and frivolity, serious thought, and heavenly wisdom ? Only God knows. His be it to judge her if she prove unfaithful. But let us recog nize the fact, that He whom women lingered last to see upon the cross, 'He whom women first greeted in •the Eesurrection morning, guards the home to-day through them. Where He is truly served, where His presence is continually discerned, the home will be bright all the year round with innocent joy, husband and sons will turn towards it as a haven of rest from the throes and strifes of the world without. "Wher ever a true wife comes this home is always round her. The stars only may be over her head, the glow worm in the night cold grass may be the only fire at her foot ; but the home is yet wherever she is ; for a noble woman it stretches far round her, better than if ceiled with cedar or painted with vermillion, shed ding its quiet light far, for those who else were home less?" We cannot prophesy that this sweet ordering of homelike influence will always meet with its reward. There are wretched men whom neither the graces of 12 earth, nor the love of Heaven can win from their stern and wicked ways. But more than once the loving piety of woman has had its reward. More often than we think, have hard hearts been softened by the remembrance of those who patiently endure, and love, and strive for them still. In tho early days, the heathen husbands Avere won for Christ by the godly conversation of their wives. Christianity wrought such a bright change in the faithful women that persecutors were amazed and converted. And by means of zealous women to-day, the faith is kept alive in many hearts Avhere unbelief has chilled it and worldliness overflowed. The judicious praise or disapproval of woman ¦ though productive of no immediate result, will yet restrain and direct the energies of those with whom her life is joined. While man creates and proposes plans she de cides by quick intuition concerning their expediency. And what work is there in the world so adapted to her nature as to cheer and counsel man, wearied with the struggle of life, to lead children and children's children to the knowledge and the worship of the Father in Heaven. Dear friends, the sweet but powerful influences of woman in her home are the safety of the world. The greatest minds of any age, in whatever depart ment they have excelled, point back to the power of some noble mother as the beginning and cause of their triumph. A single glance at History will show 13 how noble mothers and noble sons stand ever grouped together. There are Augustine and his mother Mo nica, Constantine and his mother Helena, Samuel and his mother Hannah. It has been well said that " a man discovered America ; but a woman equipped the voyage. "And so every where" man executes the per formance but woman trains the man." Some loving maiden, some true wife, some godly mother has in the peace and love of home restrained the violent pas sions of men ; with trembling hands perhaps, but re solutely she has pressed down the keys which brought out ofthe great world organ sounds of harmony, an thems of praise. As the greatest of musicians must . sit there quietly at the keyboard if he would draw out the wondrous combinations of sound, so must woman do her work concealed from the rude machinery of the world. But content with the sphere assigned her by nature's God, " — She can so impress, With quietness and beauty, and so feed With lofty thoughts, that neither evil tongues, Rash judgments, nor the sneers of selfish men Nor greetings where no kindness is, nor all, The dreary intercourse of daily life, ShaU e'er prevail against us, or disturb Our cheerful faith, that all which we behold Is full of blessings." We have thus far endeavored to present an ideal of woman in the home and in society ; but there is a field where her virtues shine quite as brightly, where she can do a work no less noble. And this is in the exercise of charity, the distribution of loving words and kindly deeds. To this end she need take upon 14 herself no celibate vows, nor assume the dress of a peou-liar order. She need not leave the active duties of life to which Providence has called her, for the cell recluse. The good deeds of the sister of charity are in cumbent in a greater or less degree upon the whole church. God marks out a sisterhood for himself. There are those in every community whom he isolates from the cares of domestic life. Upon the unmar ried, these duties fall, and they who dwell in the loneliness of widowhood seem eminently fitted for the deeds of love and charity. The poor and af flicted are thirsting for that fund of sympathy which peat up in the lively heart longs to pour forth its treasures. A life that would else be unoccupied, aimless, dreary and perhaps mischievous, may be come useful, alive with busy activity, interesting with the charm of an earnest purpose. Each unoc cupied woman, instead of being ungraciously busy in others matters, may make a pathway among the poor where flowers will rise on cither side, and some poor wounded heart shall know the sweetness of Christian love, some life full of cursing and bitterness shall be rescued from its doom, and the affliction which has blasted a woman's hope, thus improved, shall work out for her a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory. And if old age do not find her in the midst of children, who shall rise up and call her blessed ; but alone, as the world judges loneliness, still will she be 15 cheered with happy memories and joyful anticipa tions. Having like Mary, done what she could, her sins, though many, will be forgiven. Having hastened like the women from the sepulchre, to those who like the apostles, seem to have lost the Savior, she will have brought many to see the place where the Lord lay, and to die with Him unto sin, that they may rise with Him unto righteousness, and when silvery hair crowns her head, a trusting heart will smooth the wrinkles from her brow, a treasury of experience will furnish rich instruction for the learner, and in the end she will depart, full of days, crowned with ho nors that fade not, and being dead she shall yet speak. But how shall this consummation be attained? Suffer the word of exhortation, which may hint a few of the more apparent remedies where woman fails to accomplish the proper results of her life. .The apos tles do not hesitate to point out very plainly the evils of their day. The women of Ephesus were renowned for the richness and the doubtful modesty of their dress. Mistaking the nature of Christian liberty, the women of Corinth desired to dispense with the veil in public assemblies, thus tearing away what was then the very symbol of womanly reserve, and more over they aspired to a place among the teac hers in the religious gatherings. Saint Paul says, in answer to questions concerning these usages ; I will there fore that women adorn themselves in modest ap parel, neither shall they teach, or usurp authority. 16 This matter of personal adornment is carried in these days to a ridiculous and sinful extreme. Character is lost sight of, in the midst of costly array. The capricious customs of a foreign and corrupt court, de cide what our country women shall wear. Costly outlay, often takes the place of elegance and taste. True refinement is cowed down and despised. We have naturalized the vices of the older world as if they were reputable. The wealth of our land is often thrown away upon trinkets, while legitimate demands are passed by. But among those of limited incomes the evil tells most fearfully. Seeking to copy the follies of those whom perhaps money alone places higher in society, men are led to dissipate their for tunes, anticipate the payment of salaries, borrow without leave, take more to cover up the mistake, be come hopelessly involved, die suicides or go to prison. The daughters of humble parents catch the spirit of the rest of the world. Their demands are so great that young men cannot afford to marry. The love of finery overtops the love of God, and she who might have been the loving wife becomes the prey of the dissolute. The feverish thirst of ambition attacks the ma trons of society, disturbs the peace of home, banishes simplicity, institutes jealous and discomforting com parisons between their appearance and that of a neighbor. Economy is laughed to scorn. Dishones ty is a boon companion. .Amid the turmoil and anxiety about dress that must soon he changed fpr 17 the simple garments of the tomb, and position which if real, need not be sought, and which if not real is not worth having, meekness and quietness of spirit can find no place. And akin to this condition, a consequence of it, is the supposed need of excitement which seeks its gratification in trivial ways, and finds its interest in these ephemeral pleasures, which remain only long enough to sting and poison the soul. In this condition of unrest, serious thought is an unwelcome guest, resolute goodness is a stranger, and good works, which would occupy the time that pleasure demands, are enemies. But gathering up the thoughts which have been so imperfectly presented, suffer me to conclude with a rough sketch of a christian woman's character. She appears before us with no affectation of mo desty ; but clad in the bright mantle of purity which is more impenetrable to the enemy's darts, than war rior's shield. Her heart is the home only of innocent impulse, Even in conversation with companions of her own sex, she preserves the integrity of chaste language. Her presence is more terrible to vice than law or punishment. She does not reach out be yond the bounds of modest retirement , but she ever preserves that tacit acknowledgement of dependance, which when united with a certain strength of char acter, is one of the charms of her nature. And while she essays not to take the warrior's place, still can she buckle on the armer for those who go out into the 18 world's battfefield, she can guide without seeming to rule ; by her readier intuition, she will often solve the mysteries that perplex men, as Dante's sainted companion taught him the mysteries of Heaven, she welcomes man with smiles when he returns victorious but weary from the contest. She is the true lady, or, as the word signifies loaf giver, she extends her char ities to those who need, and finds time for deeds of love and sympathy. She sits with Mary at the feet of Jesus, listening to His words, she labors in the church like* those faithful women who helped Saint Paul. With delicate skill, by a sign or a word, she bears witness for Christ, checks the folly of men who seek to ruin themselves. Her highest delight is found in the divine story of God's people's deliverance ; the rapturous poetry of psalmist and prophets, the sim ple history of the Redeemer's life, the golden vision of Saint John. Her soul is lifted up in the spirit of devotion. She grows richer in love while she en dures affliction. She dies ; but leaves bright memo ries behind; and reaches on to brighter joys beyond. 0, Christian woman, yours is a noble mission, and I counsel you first of all to love the Lord, and then be useful in that station which God has ap pointed you. Suffer neither worldliness, nor ambition, nor the corruptions of society to debase your heaven ly nature, but adorn your lives with the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit. Woman's sphere and man's are indeed different ; but blending their holy minis tries, as the colors in the sunbeam blend together, 19 they may with one voice adore the Great Creator, and by harmonious action, promote the world's good, and by faith and love and obedience win for them selves that reward which is promised, to the righteous, without respect of sex or nationality.