723 U ELEMENTS OF SUCCESS: AN ADDRESS DELIVERED AT THE FIRST ANNUAL MEETING OF THE ALUMNI ASSOCIATION OF COLUMBIAN COLLEGE, WASHINGTON, D. C, ' y „ r & BY R. W. CUSHMAN. WASHINGTON: PRINTED BY ROBERT A. WATERS, 1848. ELEMENTS OF SUCCESS. AN ADDRESS DELIVERED AT THE FIRST ANNUAL MEETING OF THE ALUMNI ASSOCIATION OF COLUMBIAN COLLEGE, WASHINGTON, D. C. Vi!,^ i'""- '" v W T*«5 DEC 2 2 !332 BY R. W. CUSHMAN WASHINGTON: PRINTED BY ROBERT A. WATERS. 1848. JX Digitized by the Internet Archive in 2012 with funding from University of Illinois Urbana-Champaign http://archive.org/details/elementsofsuccOcush dl23u,K Washington, July 20, 1848. Rev. R. W. Cushman. Dear Sir : The Alumni Association of Columbian College unani- mously request, for publication, a copy of the Address delivered by you before that body, in the presence of a large number of ladies and gentlemen, on the evening of commencement day, the 12th instant. The members will feel a pride in being permitted to present to their Alma Mater and to their fellow citizens so rich an offering, as the first fruits of their Association. Yours, truly, WM. a FORCE, Corresponding Secretary, Washington, August 11, 1848. Dear Sir : I owe you an apology for the tardiness with which I reply to your request, made in behalf of the Alumni Association of Columbian College. The simple truth is, I have not considered the Address worthy, as a literary article, of the compliment your kind- ness has given it. It was only commenced, with the advantage of a few hours' premeditation, on the Wednesday before it was delivered ; and it divided even that opportunity with the claims of clerical duty. The good of others, however, and not his own literary reputation, should be the prevailing consideration with a christian minister. I have concluded therefore to say, that if the Committee to whom the Association have referred the matter, shall judge that the value of the lessons which the Address contains may compensate for its literary deficiency, it is at their service. Yours, very truly, R. W. CUSHMAN. Wm. Q. Force, Esq., Cor. Sec. of Association of Alumni of Columbian College. 8347! 8 ADDRESS. whether the Creator meant that men should or should not act by the aid of their own powers ? Has he given to some men eyes for others to see by ? Or does He expect that all men, at least all to whom He has given eyes, should use their own? Where has He laid the responsibility of action ? On the actor, or on his neighbor ? It is, indeed, a man's duty to gather the ma- terials of judgment wherever he can find them ; to seek the information he needs, from any source and from every source, from the highest and from the humblest that may yield it. And it behooves him, as he values success in his undertakings, to see well to it, that his information be reliable, and that he has all the elements which are ne- cessary in making up a judgment on the course to be pursued. But beyond this, the judgment, the decision, as the responsibility, must be his own. It is a remark which has often been made^ that those who are thrown on the world without fortune, and without the benefit of parental coun- sel and guardianship, have, frequently, the great- est success in life. Bating the numerous instan- ces of wreck by temptation, this remark is true. The eminence to which they reach they could never have attained, if they had not been made 17 to feel while young, and made to feel most inly, that they must stand on their own feet, if they would stand at all ; and that if they would rise, they must employ their own powers. Self-reli- ance has thus been early forced upon them by their circumstances. Young men who have the benefit of a worthy parental supervision are not early called on to cultivate this characteristic. D uring their minor- ity, it is hardly expected in them. It is not the age for self-direction, but for submission and docility. But every virtue has its neighbor vice, and every good its besetting evil : and this very influence of parental counsel and control may readily prove an injury in one of its bearings, if not guarded against, while it is an inestimable blessing in many others. The reliance on others, which is, in fact, a necessary condition of the first part of existence, may grow into a habit ; w T hich, after a young man has begun life for him- self, he may find it very difficult to overcome. And his danger is the greater, the more excel- lent the counsel, the more efficacious and health- ful the control : because the more full the suc- cor, the less felt the need of self-exertion. It is very natural, moreover, for a young man, whose domestic relations have been fortunate, to go out into the world with a better opinion of mankind than truth will sanction. It is true he will not get far on in it before he will find that 18 the generality of men are neither as wise, nor as honest, nor as benevolent, as they might be. But he is in danger of making the mistake of looking on men, after his arrival at manhood, too much as he was accustomed to look on his pa- rents in his minority — of regarding them with a reverence to which, from him as a man among men, they are not entitled ; and of accrediting them, in the matters of knowledge, wisdom, ca- pacity, with advantages they do not possess. The natural effect of all is, to lead him to indulge an unwarrantable distrust of his own abilities; and to place his welfare too much within the control of others. For these reasons, we would place a young man who is entering into life, on his guard against depending on the advice and judgment of others. If he is conscious of wanting the knowledge re- quisite for action, let his first business be to set about getting it. Let him enter on no pursuit or enterprise till he has first properly prepared himself for it. Before he decides to enter a given relation, or assume a given responsibility, let him understand himself — let him consider his own fitness and powers. If he is conscious of being destitute of the qualities which are requisite for it ; why, then he should let it alone, and turn to something else better suited to his idiosyncrasy. In God's well ordered providence there must be a place for every thing ; and every thing should 19 be in its place — talent and mind) as well as mat- ter. But when a man knows himself to possess the requisite qualifications for a given undertaking and knows enough of the means by which the end is to be secured, and enough of the causes that may work defeat, to justify a judgment of the probability of success; let him form that judgment himself, and rely on it, and calmly act on it. It is — it must be, as a general fact, bet- ter than the judgment of other men can be who have had less interest in gathering, weighing, and comparing the elements that belong to the sub- ject. It will often happen, however, in every man's history, that he will find himself under the ne- cessity of acting, even in matters of the greatest moment, without that confidence in the favora- ble issue of an undertaking which is most desira- ble. The causes on which success or failure shall depend, are either so numerous, so hidden, or so implicated, that one cannot be assured of knowing them all and understanding their influ- ence. And yet he is called to act. In such case a habit of self-reliance, becomes a most important element of success. It renders every power and faculty which he possesses for ensuring success, available to the greatest possible extent. Confi- dence in one's own powers, in an emergency, is strength ; while distrust is a paralysis, the sure 20 precursor and the very cause of defeat. The seaman who relies on the grasping power of his own rough hand to hold him to the tossing sky- sail has descended to the deck in safety, while he who doubted and trembled in his dizzy height, fainted and fell. These then, are the qualities which, as we have observed the influences that shape the for- tunes of men, have seemed to us essential to suc- cess in life : right principle ; self-control ; self- knowledge ; the knowledge of men ; industry ; perseverance ; and self-reliance. We would not say that they are the only qualities which enter into a thorough competen- cy for every pursuit and situation. Nor would we say that instances may not be pointed to, of successful life, in which some one of them may be wanting. A man may become rich, for ex- ample, without industry, by a providence, an ac- cident, or a blunder. And there are cases of fortune, influence, and fame, which seem to speak the all sufficiency of some one particular quality ; from which a successful career seems to have sprung, like a tree, with all its branches, foliage, and fruit, from a single germ. Thus, in the med- ical profession, fortune and fame, from tender- ness ; in the ministry, popularity, though with- out fortune, from affability ; in authorship, from wit: in politics, from cunning; in diplomacy, 21 from address ; in editorship, from tact ; in friend- ship, from forbearance ; in social position, from manners ; in domestic life, from self-control ; in war, from coolness ; in courtship, from courage. All this, however, after all, is but selection. The fortunate agency of a particular trait has given it prominence, and an importance in the public eye, which belongs not to itself alone, but as it is connected with other and more fundamental qualities. The medical practitioner would never have succeeded, as he has done, without some- thing more important to commend him to popu- lar favor than the gentleness and sympathy, val- uable though they are, with which he approaches the bed-side of suffering. Other qualifications must have conspired to advance the military chieftain to renown, besides the distinguished one of firmness before an enemy's fire. And so of the rest. The popular mind is fond of unity, and is inapt at analysis. And when it has named one con- spicuous element in a complex sum of causes it is satisfied, as having accounted for the effect. The effect of them aU y nevertheless, it can feel, and accord the meed of favor and of fame. But, if instances of success, without the pos- session of all the qualities we have commended may be cited, they are fortunately too few to en- courage hope without merit ; while the wrecks of hope and of promise that lie within the view 22 of every man, if he will but survey them, attest the force and value of those qualities. One, whose career we have marked, has al- ways been poor, though always a man of untir- ing industry. The source of his misfortunes has been the want of a knowledge of men. With the highest tone of principle himself, he could never realize the extent to which it is wanting in the world. Another, though reared in affluence, and starting with a good patrimony, has iallen into the same condition, by relying on his inheri- tence instead of his exertions. Another, who might have been a treasure to society, and a gem on the nation's brow, has drowned his memory in the wine cup, and lingered on through life, a spiritless mope, with happiness blasted and hope extinguished, by an unsuitable domestic alliance ; originated as, alas, too many are originated, without self-knowledge, or knowledge of the ob- ject selected — determined on and pledged at a period too early for a sound judgment, and ad- hered to and consummated at a riper age, against the remonstrance of the heart ; and, melancholy to say, for the apostacy it confesses, in the spirit of self-immolation to principle. A fourth, whose talent and industry were all that could be asked, as guaranty of wealth and honor, sunk to the doom of the culprit through want of principle. A fifth, who seemed to have been born for occu- pying a commanding position, has remained in 23 comparative obscurity from want of self-controU His passions have obstructed every path that for- tune has prepared for him; and dashed every cup of happiness that Providence and love and friendship have mingled. In the choice of pursuit, also, on which so much depends as to influence., fortune, and happiness, the instances of mistake are not few. One is pining in a profession which he loathes, and in which, for that reason, he can never excel ; and which he selected, not from a love and a taste for it, but from an idea of its honor. And another, who had happily chosen the very pursuit for which, of all that could be named, both his talents and his tastes best fitted him, has left it, and sacrificed every thing — prospect, influence, and happiness, to a love of change ; a mistake in which one hardly knows which to say was most conspicuous, a want of persever- ance, or a want of self-knowledge. In what we have said we hope we shall not be understood ascountenancing the disposition which is sometimes seen in young men to mark out for themselves a course of action while in a state of minority and even of boyhood ; and to enter up- on it in disregard of parental counsel and defi- ence of parental authority. Such a disposition betokens the absence of right principles, right affections, self-knowledge, and self-control ; and 24 is not to be called self-reliance, but self-will. And where it is manifest, it is to be regarded rather as the omen of a life of ignominy and disaster, than as a prognostic of honorable suc- cess. The self-reliance which we would describe, and exhort a young man to cherish, can be in- dulged only when it has a proper basis to rest on : the basis of a disciplined mind, a regulated heart, and common sense. Thus, as we have looked back on the history of some we knew in early days, but who have passed away, and around on others who are still walking life's journey with us, we gather exam- ples which proclaim this truth : That he who would he happy, and prosperous, and honored, and useful in the public, social, and domestic re- lations and responsibilities oj life, must know how to act his part ; to employ his powers ; to select and fill his station ; to improve his occasions ; to avoid his dangers : and must set himself about it, and keep himself at it, under the guidance of principle and the approval of virtue. ALUMNI ASSOCIATION OF COLUMBIAN COLLEGE, D. C. The first organized meeting of the Alumni of the Columbian College was held in the Baptist Church on Tenth street, in Wash- ington, on the evening of commencement day, July 14, 1847. Dr. T. B. J. Frye, being the eldest alumnus present, convened the meeting, and stated its object in the following remarks : Gentlemen Alumni of Columbian College : It devolves upon me, as the eldest of you present, to state the objects for which this meet- ing was called. I regret that it has not fallen into abler hands ; yet, though fully sensible of my inadequacy to the task, I will undertake it, relying upon your kindness to overlook the imperfect manner in which I may perform the duty. The chief object for which we have assembled is a high and holy one. It is to gather around the domestic hearth of our Alma Mater those of her children who remain near it, and also such of those whom circumstances may permit occasionally to revisit those col- lege scenes, which ever linger upon the memory as the happiest of our lives. We hope by means of this Association to keep alive in all their brightness the friendships and intimacies which bound their golden links about our hearts during our sojourn in the walls of Alma Mater, and at the same time to afford us opportunities of ma- king the acquaintance of those who preceded us in the ascent of the hill of learning, and of those who since have walked in academic groves and deeply drank of the Pierian spring. Such reunions as this Association contemplates are calculated to produce the best possible results in softening the asperities of char- acter which we are all too apt to acquire in the contests of the world. Each commencement day will be to us as is the good old thanks- giving day of our Puritan fathers to their descendants, when we, at the shrine of our classic mother, as they at the altar of maternal affection, will turn from the turmoil of life, to pay our homage, to interchange the grasp of friendship, and to breathe the heartfelt wish for each other's future welfare, and, gaining new strength from this healthful exercise of the mind and heart, <;o forth better fitted to per- form our part in the great drama of life, 26 Another object of this Association, and one of deep importance, is to repay the debt of gratitude we owe our Alma Mater, by using our most strenuous efforts to aid and assist her in becoming what she ought to be, situated as she is at the metropolis of the nation, and possessing from that very cause the greatest advantages — advan- tages which are increasing with every year. To do this, gentlemen, we must have action and concentration of effort. This banding to- gether of her sons is the best and surest mode of obtaining both these requisites; and let us individually, as well as collectively, do all in our power, with our tongues and* with our pens, to bring about a consummation so devoutly to be wished. Gentlemen, in conclusion, may wisdom and harmony preside over your deliberations, and may this Association, together with the col- lege which gave it birth, be a means in the hands of the Giver of all Good to diffuse true knowledge and true religion throughout the world. Whereupon, on motion of H. W. Dodge, Dr. Frye was unan- imously chosen President of the meeting. On motion of Rev. T. J. Shepherd, H. W. Dodge was chosen Secretary. The Rev. T. J. Shepherd then moved that a committee of three be appointed by the Chair to draught a Constitution ; and the fol- lowing gentlemen were appointed : Rev. T. J. Shepherd, Prof. A. J. Huntington, and Wm. B. Webb, Esq. The committee retired for a few minutes, and, during their ab- sence, the meeting was addressed by Rev. J. S. Walthall. Upon the return of the committee a constitution was reported ; and, after a brief discussion, during which Messrs. W. L. Childs and W. B. Webb addressed the meeting, was adopted. The Association then elected the following officers for the current year : Hon. W. Collins, President. • S. C. Smoot, M. D., Vice President. T. B. J. Frye, M. D., Recording Secretary. Prof. A. J. Huntington, Corresponding Secretary. Wm. Gt. Force, Treasurer. E. M. Chapin, M. D., } Wm. Q,. Force, > Executive Committee. William B. Webb, ) On motion of Rev. T. J. Shepherd, Prof. Huntington, Win. Q,. Force, and John Pickett were appointed a committee to revise the constitution and report at the next annual meeting. On motion of Prof. Huntington, a committee of three was ap- 27 pointed to nominate an orator for the next annual meeting. They reported the Rev. R. W. Cushman, of Boston, who was unani- mously elected for the occasion. On motion of Mr. W. L. Childs, the President, Executive Com- mittee, and such other officers as may be present, were empowered to appoint another orator in case the one elected declined. The Rev. T. J. Shepherd moved that the proceedings of this meeting be published in the National Intelligencer and Union. There being no further business, the Association adjourned. T. B. J. FRYE, Chairman. H. W. Dodge, Secretary. ALUMNI PRESENT AT THE ORGANIZATION OF THE ASSOCIATION. Rev. Eli Ball, Virginia. j R. S. HaVnes, Virginia. S. C. Smoot, M. D m Washington. J. R. Bagby, Virginia. Rev. T. S. Walthall, Virginia. { J. Pickett, Virginia. T. B. J. Fkye, M. D., Washington. I W. T. Hendren, Virginia. E. M. Chacin, M. D., Washington. \ J. P. Craig, Maine. Rev. H. W. Dodge, Virginia. \ J. R. Nijnn, Virginia. Wm. Q. Force, Washington. W. L. Claybrook, Virginia. Rev. T. J. Shepherd. Virginia. B. H. Lincoln, Massachusetts. Rev. J. B. Taylor, Virginia. j T. Follard, Virginia. Rev. A. J. Huntington, College Hill. > J. Christian, Virginia. H. L. Chapin, Washington. ; R. H. Land, Virginia. W. B. Webb, Washington. i R. French, District of Columbia. J. W. H. Lovejoy, Washington. A. Bagby, Virginia. W. L. Childs, New York. \ FIRST ANNUAL MEETING. The first annual meeting of the Association of the Alumni of Columbian College was held on Wednesday, the 1 2th of July, in the E street Baptist Church. The President, the Hon. Wm. Col- lins, on taking the chair, made a brief, but highly interesting ad- dress. In the absence of the Secretary. Mr. J. B. Pleasants was elected pro tempore. The committee appointed at the last meeting, reported through. Mr. John Pickett, the following Constitution, which, after an amendment, was adopted. CONSTITUTION OF THE ALUMNI ASSOCIATION OF THE COLUMBIAN COL- LEGE; D. C. Art. 1. This Association shall be styled the Alumni Associa- tion of the Columbian College in the District of Columbia. 28 Art. 2. The objects of this Association shall be the cultivation of friendship and union among- its members, the promotion of the interests of their Alma Mater, and the general advancement of literature. Art. 3. This Association shall consist of such persons as have received or shall receive, in course, the degree of Bachelor of Arts from the Columbian College. Art. 4. All persons upon whom this College has conferred or shall confer an honorary degree, shall be honorary members of this Association. Art. 5. There shall be an annual meeting of this Association on the evening of Commencement day, when an oration shall be delivered by an alumnus of the College, appointed at the annual meeting previous ; also, such other meetings as may be deemed proper. Art. 6. The officers of the Association shall be a President, a Vice President, a Corresponding and a Recording Secretary, a Treasurer, and an Executive Committee of five, who shall be -chosen at each annual meeting from Alumni residing in the District of Columbia or its vicinity. Art. 7. This Constitution may be altered at any annual meeting by a vote of two-thirds of the members present. Amendment to the 5th Article. There shall be also appointed an alternate, and in the event of a failure on the part of both, the Executive Committee shall have the power of appointing one. Professor Huntington, Horace Stringfellow, and W. B. Webb, were appointed by the President to nominate an orator and an alternate for the next meeting, who, according to the 5th article of the Constitution, shall be alumni of the institution. After a short consultation, they reported the Rev. Baron Stow, D. D., of Boston, as orator; and the Rev. S. G. Bul finch, of the District of Columbia, a3 alternate; which nominations were unanimously ap- proved. The Association then proceeded to elect its officers : Hon. Wm, Collins was elected President. Dr. Frederick May, Vice President. Wm. Q. Force, Corresponding Secretary. Dr. T. B. J. Frye, Recording Secretary. Wm. B. Webb, Treasurer. John Pickett, ~) J. W. H. Lovejoy, J Dr. E. Chapin, J» Executive Committee. J. B. Pleasants, J. S. Cathcart, J The Association was addressed on the various matters coming 29 before it, by Messrs. Huntington, Force, Childs, Stringfellow, Pleasants, and Pickett ; and after a most harmonious and interesting session, adjourned to meet at half past seven o'clock. J. B. PLEASANTS, Secretary pro tern. At half past seven the Association met in the E street Baptist Church. The annual oration was delivered by the Rev. R. W. Cushman. Immediately after which it was unanimously voted that Mr. Cushman be requested to grant a copy of the oration for publica- tion. 0EQ22 1932 Pressboard Pamphlet Binder Gaylord Bros. Inc. Makers Syracuse, N. Y. UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS-URBANA 3 0112 111540719