mmla 1885 1 A A 1 A = A s 1 — — : " aMI o i a a I - 33 1 p M 1 |M -n H 3 ! o 9 — • ^ 1 5 I ~~ 3> I 6 E T" — . CD ^H _- 33 HH 9 = ^^^ in a — -< B 6 I — > § 2 S — i — 1 — . ■< 1 1 m L1BRAR\ UNIVb i-T^ Of S AN C!ESO IIA, SAN DIEGO LA JOLLA, CALIFORNIA HOW TO HELP THE POOR. BY Mrs. JAMES T. FIELDS. TWENTY-SECOND THOUSAND. BOSTON : HOUGHTON, MIFFLIN AND COMPANY, New York: 11 East Seventeenth Street. (aflbe fitoersiue pre??, Cambridge. 1885 Copyright, 1883, By MRS. JAMES T. FIELDS. All rights reserved. " Though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and have not charTty, it profiteth me nothing." — Si- Paul. * " The grand doctrine that every human being should have the means of self-culture, of progress in knowl- edge and virtue, of health, comfort, and happiness, of exercising the powers and affections of a man, — this is slowly taking its place as the highest social truth." — William Ellery Channing. " No historic event is so important as the advent of a conviction, of a new truth. These convictions of the human soul build up institutions, change the course of events, and alter the tendencies of human affairs ; and among all convictions there are none so strong, perma- nent, and unconquerable as religious convictions." — James Freeman Clarke. NOTE. This little manual does not propose to deal with public questions. It aims to give a few suggestions to visitors among the poor, and to lead all such visitors to attend the conferences which now are held weekly in almost every dis- trict of our large cities. In these meetings, they will reap advantage from the experience and knowledge of others who are endeavoring, like themselves, to lighten the burden of the unfortunate. Especially, we believe that such meetings will awaken a wider interest in the hearts of well-to-do people, — an interest strong enough to increase the number of visitors to the homes of the poor. Every page of this book is a prayer for more helpers, and aims to show that such labor is neither too difficult for us, nor one from which any household can feel itself altogether exempted. CONTENTS. I. Why Organization Began 5 II. How Organization Began, 14 III. What a District Conference is, and how to Create One, 26 IV. What a Visitor may do for Children and Young Persons, 44 V. Suggestions in Behalf of the Aged, . 66 VI. Investigation, 78 VII. Intemperance, 9 2 VIII. Visitors and Visited 107 WHY ORGANIZATION BEGAN. " Give to him that asketh " is one of the most direct commands in the Christian Script- ure ; doubtless, in some form, the same com- mand may be found in every scripture since man began his race with man. The slow growth of moral civilization is only now beginning to unfold the true signifi- cance of this law, which is found to stand side by side with other laws belonging to it and explaining it. These bring us to consider the Example from whom we receive our doc- trine. We find him living the life of an utterly poor man, who could give neither silver nor gold, yet whose bounty was un- ceasing. He taught his followers to speak of themselves " as poor, yet making many rich." "Give to him that asketh," therefore, should be the true motto for this revival in benevo- lent work which we call organized or associ- ated charity, whereby we learn to take hold 6 How to Help the Poor. of each other's hands, and, forming a break- water thus against the rising waves of pauper- ism, find ourselves strengthened into better ways for relieving suffering. Formerly, when the knight rode out from his castle, he scattered largess as he went, and the people bowed and worshipped the hand that shed down the golden rain; but, when the giver of the gold had passed, they crept into their wretched huts and lived little better than the beasts of the field. As civ- ilization advanced, and castles were de- stroyed, and men gathered into large cities, trade and commerce increased, and equal chances were given to equal strength. Then the idea of brotherhood among men began to develop. It had been prophesied in the holy places, but at last it was becoming a visible truth in the mind of humanity. Equal worth was seen to be allied to unequal strength, and the growth of love to man pro- duced fellowship and sympathy with suffering. The simplest and least thoughtful, or least spiritual, methods were first seized upon in the earlier times for the alleviation of poverty and its ills. Community of goods, gifts of gold, gifts of land, every temporal method was essayed, and all to no good end. Those Why Organization Began. 7 who had no gold before, seemed to have still less, and to be worse off than ever, after the gifts were exhausted. The larger the city, the more munificent its expenditure, the darker its poverty and its degradation. Even in these later times, when the idea of civiliza- tion has begun te creep " into the study of imagination," a friend has related substan- tially "as follows her experience during one day. With the early morning mail came a letter from Association, asking for a gener- ous yearly subscription. The names of good men and women were on the list. She read that all cases were carefully visited who ap- plied for aid ; therefore, she enclosed her con- tribution. By and by, we shall see how this money was used. Another letter was then opened from a woman in Lowell, who had heard this lady's name, and wished "her advice and assist- ance." The woman had a mortgage on her house, and she sent names of well-known per- sons in Lowell who would help her with cer- tain sums, if she could make up the full amount elsewhere. The request seemed quite reasonable, because the woman should keep a roof over her head, if possible, having three 8 How to Help the Poor. children. On the whole, my friend decided to make up the deficit of about two hundred dollars. Later on in these pages, I propose to consider another method of disposing of such a case. A third letter was from a woman who wished to learn to play the harp, and desired to insure her life for that purpose. At this moment, a man called with a paper signed by the mayor and prominent merchants, stating that he fell down a hatchway a year ago, and had required help ever since. Here, also, money was given. I hope in these pages to return also to this case. Presently, Mrs. X. went out. She was one of the managers of a sewing-circle and a trustee of a Temporary Home, and, before returning in the afternoon, she performed her usual labors in both those positions. Going hurriedly along the street, she was accosted by a child who looked very cold, and who asked her for a cent. It was so little ! She gave him a bit of money, and so reached home, her clay's work done. By and by, we will follow this doing out into its detail, giving a simple statement of what was effected by her generous expendi- ture of time and money. Mrs. X. herself Why Organization Began. 9 did not feel satisfied. She could not see that anything was accomplished. Apparently, to- morrow must be the same as to-day, bringing much weariness and little fruition. She re- membered, too late, that she had intended to buy on this day a certain picture. The artist needed to 'know that some one cared for his work, and her own children would be better and happier for having the beautiful scene before their eyes. The thought came back, also, that an even- ing-school for boys, which she had long hoped for (seeing how much care is needed in city life, fcr boys), was still far from being estab- lished. She saw more and more plainly that she was not yet working altogether in the right direction, since there seemed absolutely no harvest after all her labor. One day, Mrs. X. discovered from a book which fell into her hands that the subject weighing upon her mind — of how we may best use what we possess, both of time and money, in behalf of the unfortunate — was not a problem belonging to herself alone. It had already become a vital question first in Europe and later in America. She read of a city in Germany — in which country much good thought is developed — io How to Help the Poor. which had been divided and subdivided into manageable sections and where the poor are all placed under the supervision of companies of visitors, men and women, who go to see the needy and advise with them, in order that educated and sympathetic interest may be brought to bear upon their condition. By this means, it was discovered that the poor and unhappy drop out of sight and lose their way in the world. Therefore, the effect of bringing friends to the friendless has proved almost miraculous, especially during the life of the good man who first tried this experi- ment at Elberfeld. The result was greatly successful in that place. His work brought the new life which springs from every living seed. Later, Dr. Chalmers achieved a large measure of success in Glasgow, introducing practically the same idea, though possibly it was also original with him. From that mo- ment, the movement was established in the world and can never die out of it. It be- seeches humanity to give. Day by day this cry is reiterated, Come and help us ! Give us of your time first, then, if you see fit, of your money. Give to him that asketh enough of your attention to find somebody or to pay somebody, if you cannot go yourself, to dis- Why Organization Began. 1 1 cover the real condition of the sufferers. There need be no beggars in our American cities. Labor is wanted everywhere, espe- cially educated labor; nowhere is the supply of the latter equal to the demand. But the education of public schools at present does not bring labor of the hands into sufficient promi- nence*; and it is a fact to be considered that governesses and teachers often earn smaller wages than professed cooks and dressmakers when the latter are skilful in their business. Meanwhile there is a large proportion of the people crying continually, "Give to us." What they really need is a chance to learn how to work, and sufficient protection, in the mean time, from the evils of idleness, drunk- enness, and vice. Miss Octavia Hill writes : " I do believe that our almsgiving has been cruel in its kind- ness. It is for the sake of the people them- selves that I would see it decreased, yes, even put down altogether. I believe they would be richer as well as happier for it. For the sake of the energy of the poor, the loss of which is so fatal to them, for the sake of that inter- course with them — happy, friendly, human in- tercourse — which dependence renders impos- sible, seek to your utmost for better ways of ' helping them.' " 12 How to Help the Poor. This is why organization began with us. A cry was heard from men and women need- ing a chance in this new land and seeking to be rescued from their misfortunes. Dr. Joseph Tuckerman was one of the first men in Boston who brought to light the im- portant "difference between pauperism and poverty." His life was passed in endeavor- ing to awaken our people to their duty, and to the necessity of wise and organized effort against pauperism. In this labor for the poor he says, " We must identify ourselves with the transgressor, through that sympathy with which nothing short of a strong sense of our own sins can inspire us " ; and he adds, " A few judi- cious and energetic minds, combined and re- solved to accomplish all they can and may for the suppression of pauperism and crime, could accumulate in this world a better treasure than all their wealth, let them be rich as they may ; and in a few years might do more for the advancement of society than without these services would be accomplished in half a cen- tury. . . . Only by creating a feeling of relation- ship and connection between different classes of society . . . can we ever bring about any great and permanent melioration of the condi- tion of the poor, any great and permanent Why Organization Began. 13 means for the prevention of pauperism and crime. "'Faith alone can interpret life; and the heart that aches and bleeds with the stigma Of pain alone bears the likeness of Christ, and can comprehend its dark enigma.' " II. HOW ORGANIZATION BEGAN. "How organization began" signifies not only the need from which it sprang, but the form it assumed. The form in Boston is as follows : — First, the Registration Bureau. Second, the Board of Directors. Third, the District Offices. Fourth, the Agents. Fifth, and chief in importance, the Volun- teer Visitors. The Registration Bureau is like a room in a large public library, with the private history of individuals, instead of books, carefully ar- ranged on cards which are kept strictly from the public eye ; with its library upon the various branches of this wide subject of how best to help the unfortunate, its tables where gentlemen and ladies may consult together, and, more important than all, its Registrar, ready to give intelligent information to those who apply. Hozv Organization Began. 15 The story of the birth and growth of the Registration or Central Office is worthy of record. It is now a basis on which intelligent assistance for the unfortunate can plant itself with hope of success, so soon as society un- derstands its value. When the public begins to serve the poor by first inquiring what is known about them at this office, and when newspapers cease to print appeals for indi- vidual needs until the same thing has been done, the true value of the office will be un- derstood ; but, while money is wasted on private applicants in whose behalf there is already a large public appropriation, it is not possible to obtain a sufficiently generous sum yearly to foster the best and largest growth of registration. "The Registration Bureau may be called a clearing-house of information. All reports of relief are kept on cards alphabetically arranged, and there are on file now more than twenty thousand. There is no publicity about this work, and the cards are strictly limited in their use to the detection of impost- ure or the aid of a family." Speaking of the important question of church co-operation, Robert Treat Paine, Jr., one of the founders of united service for the 1 6 How to Help the Poor. poor in America, and under whose fostering care it has grown to its present value in Boston, writes: — We ask the churches to register all the relief they give ; and some of them are ready to do so, and believe it is wise, especially when they find that these facts are kept private. But many of the churches decline, owing to the sacred relation existing between themselves and their own poor. In these cases, we ask them to send their workers to consult the registration in our office; and this they are usually ready to do. The result is a benefit to us as well as to them. It is an advantage for them to know from what other sources their poor are drawing relief, and, conversely, it is our interest to know that that church is also aiding such a family. Upon this subject, we read in the excellent Hand-book for Friendly Visitors among the Poor of New York : — It should be remembered that all religious bodies recognize their obligations to provide for the poor of their own parishes, and often possess the most intimate and intelligent knowledge of an applicant's circumstances. Therefore, great care should be taken not to interfere with their treatment of any case belonging to them; and, to avoid the possibility of this, every one who belongs or pretends to belong to any congregation should invariably be referred to it. All Hebrews should be referred to the Society of the United Hebrew Charities, which society dispenses all synagogical charity. All baptized Roman Catholics How Organization Began. 17 are members of the parish within whose limits they reside, and should be sent to their priest or to the President of the Conference of St. Vincent de Paul in that parish. All Protestants should come strictly under the same rule, and be dealt with onlv through consultation with the relief authorities of the parish to which they are fairly affiliated. The management of the organization in Boston- is vested in a board of twenty-two directors, ladies and gentlemen, who meet always once a month, and more frequently in emergencies. In this number are included the Chairman of the Overseers of the Poor, the President of the Boston Provident Asso- ciation, the President of the Societv of St. Vincent de Paul and of the Roxbury Chari- table Society. The other members are per- sons chosen because they are known to have done or tried to do some practical labor for the poor, as well as because of their intelli- gent interest in the subject. The district office may be called the home of the agent. Here duplicate registration cards of reference are kept respecting the poor of the district ; here information may be found about persons needing employment, es- pecially that of men and children who can work only a part of the time, and therefore cannot be advertised or sent to an intelligence 1 8 How to Help the Poor. office. These offices are arms, as it were, of the Industrial Aid Society, which may be called a kind of central bureau for employ- ment of this nature. Here the volunteer visit- ors may find the agent any day, or meet each other at the regular meetings called confer- ences, which occur weekly. The agent becomes a connecting link for the volunteer visitors who come daily for advice and assistance. When a family is in distress of any kind, there need be no delay in getting relief, because the agent is always ready to consult with the committee, if neces- sary, or is able by constant experience to know how and what to do immediately. The struggle of the volunteer visitors under the various district committees has been a brave one, and the exhortation " to give to him that asketh " is at length bearing fruit; but it is slow fruition, because there must be growth ; and, if such work is to be really useful, the service of many persons must be accepted whose work is necessarily intermit- tent. " This must be done in order that we may secure a sufficient number of workers, and not waste, but gather in and use, all the overflowing sympathy which is such a blessing to giver and receiver. With our volunteers, How Organization Began. 19 home-claims must and should come first ; and it is precisely those whose claims are deepest and whose family life is the noblest who have the most precious influence in the homes of the poor. But, if the work is to be valuable, we must find some way to bind together those broken scraps of time, and thus give it con- tinuity in spite of changes and breaks." This we believe we have done in establish- ing agents in every district who are assisted each by a committee of men and women. Certainly agents and committees are yet very far from understanding the full scope of their work, but knowledge is increasing every day, and the reform is moving on because the foundations are sound. One great difficulty in advancing any public work of such unobtrusive character is that of finding a sufficient number of unselfish per- sons who will take hold of it. " I believe that educated people would come forward, if once they saw how they could be really useful and without neglecting nearer claims. Let us re- flect that hundreds of workers are wanted; that, if they are to preserve their vigor, they must not be overworked ; and that each of us that might help and holds back not only leaves work undone, but injures to a certain V 20 . How to Help the Poor. extent the work of others. Let each of us not attempt too much, but take some one little bit of work and, doing it simply, thor- oughly, and lovingly, wait patiently for the gradual spread of good." In our present method of helping the poor by associated and organized labor, it is found that a little time will go a great way. Two hours a week on an average, the year through, is all the time that need be given by a visitor who is busied with other duties and yet wishes to do something to help the unfortunate. Within this brief space of time, more good can be achieved than is easy to describe ; and who cannot save two hours for such a work ? I know many persons give more time because it is theirs to bestow, and because their inter- est grows and thrusts aside other things ; but this is no reason why others should withhold the mite they possess. The lack of organization in behalf of the unfortunate was deeply felt in Boston, and the work has been ardently started. Its present value and its future existence depend en- tirely upon the way in which the well-to-do people accept their yoke of service. "The burden is light," but it is indeed a burden, and one not to be undertaken in any How Organization Began. 21 '■$ frivolous spirit. It is distinctly the work pointed out to us by the Founder of our religion : and, in so far as he is loved and believed in among us, his service will not be forgotten. One of the important results of this sym- pathetic inquiry into the true wants of the poor 'has led to new views respecting what is called " out-door relief," — that is, the giving of money (or its equivalent) which is raised by taxing the people, if the applicants come under certain rules and laws. Mr. Seth Low, of Brooklyn, N.Y., has said upon this subject : — Is it not worth while, in these days of prosperity-, for communities large and small, all over the country, to try the experiment of abolishing public out-door relief? Private benevolence seems preferable to public relief, because it is almost always inspired by a higher motive, and therefore more apt to consider the good of the receiver, because it contains within itself the limits to which it can be carried, and because such relief is less readily sought after by the recipients. A remarkable illustration of variation in out-door relief in our Western States is seen in Centre Town- ship, Indiana, in which is the city of Indianapolis. In 1875 and 1876, the township trustee distributed nearly $90,000 a year. Since that time, a new trustee has found $8,000 a year to be sufficient. It seems hardly doubtful to a stranger that the private benevolence of 22 How to Help the Poor, Centre Township could cope successfully with all the real need without the hitter small sum. . . . The subject of out-door relief is too vast in its extent and too in- tricate in its relations to be treated dogmatically by any one. This present contribution to the theme is sub- mitted in the spirit of one open still to learn from those who differ as from those who may agree with its conclusions. These are, briefly : — That out-door relief, in the United States, as elsewhere, tends inevitably and surely to increase pauperism ; That in towns and cities it is not needed ; That even in villages it can probably be dispensed with. In thinly settled sections, its evils are at the lowest ebb, while its benefits at the same time are greatest. If coupled with the condition of work in return for relief, which in the country ought to be easy of accom- plishment, out-door relief in the country would prob- ably be free from serious objection. On the same basis, it is relieved from its chief harmfulness every- where. ... In some States or sections of States, the office of overseer of the poor is at the bottom of the political ladder. The overseers are chosen for short terms, and are expected to serve party or personal ends. It is needless to say that, in the hands of such officers, out-door relief is an instrument full of danger to the common weal. Long terms of office may help to modify the evil, but there is no effectual remedy while the administration of the poor funds is controlled in the interest of politics. Where this is known to be the case in any city or town or hamlet, for the sake of How Organization Began. 23 the poor, for the sake of the locality, for the sake of the country, let civil service reform begin there. The foregoing consideration of the form of organized work for the poor brings us back to Mrs. X. and to the conditions which made it a necessity. A poor woman came to her door one day asking help. Remembering her many dis- satisfactions and disappointments in trying to benefit others, Mrs. X. simply took the woman's address and told her kindly that she would inquire further into her condition. She went as soon as possible to the office of one of our oldest and largest societies, only to find the name as a recipient among eight hundred others who had been referred to one visitor. This " Case " was credited with quarter of a ton of coal and shoes for a woman and two children, without further comment. Mrs. X. discovered that volunteer visiting had gone out of fashion, and that the expert, with his four or eight hundred families to visit during the year, could not be expected to grapple with any details. The " system," good enough in itself, had drifted utterly away from its early purpose, and had almost lost sight of Dr. Chalmers' wonderful work, which had been the inspiration of its founders. 24 How to Help the Poor. Mrs. X. then went to another society. This one was less catholic in its grasp, and con- cerned only respectable widows. She found her applicant was known here also, and re- ceived her rent regularly from this benevolent fountain-head. She went into the rooms of a sewing-circle adjoining, and found her friend already there, returning last week's sewing and receiving more. On her way home, Mrs. X. met a friend, and was relating her morning's occupation, when the lady replied that she had known this woman, who was a widow, for many years. She was surprised to know of her call at Mrs. X.'s door, because she had made the woman understand that she herself always stood ready to give her what she required. She was an excellent person, and she would ask her about it. On parting from her friend, Mrs. X. deter- mined to visit the woman. Turning into a court, she rapped at a side door of a com- fortable tenement. It was twelve o'clock. A man with shirt-sleeves rolled up, just in from his morning's work, was sitting down before a dirty table, on which was a huge slice of fried beefsteak and some potatoes. Two un- combed children were playing about the floor, and a general air of dirt and disorder pre- How Organization Began. 25 vailed. Excellent health pervaded the place. The woman was somewhat abashed and dis- comfited by this speedy return of her visit; but, after a brief explanation from Mrs. X. that she wished to understand her needs more clearly, she camg away. Something, surely, needed to be done ; but what was the some- thing"? One visitor with hundreds of cases could not prevail against the evil. Mrs. X. believed that volunteer visiting might at least begin a reform. The attempt was made, and has proved successful so far as it has gone. This is "how organization began," — not hurriedly and as a new thing, but as an intel- ligent outgrowth from old methods which were leading to no good end. III. WHAT A DISTRICT CONFERENCE IS, AND HOW TO CREATE ONE. In the government of a State, we consider the question, Who shall be its officers ? to be one of primal importance. So, in the adminis- tration of charities in a city district, no rules can be laid down which should for a moment challenge our consideration, compared in sig- nificance with the necessity of obtaining the right persons to fill the committees. In the past, the question has been, "Will he do it?" in the future, the query will be, " Can he do it?" Improvement in methods has, in part, wrought this change ; but advance in morality, more than all, demands that the best force the community can afford shall devote at least a portion of its energy to grappling with the problems presented by the unfortunate of great cities. This unfulfilled labor is the religion of the present and the future. It is the first duty of the Central Board of any District Conferences. 27 organization, and one never to be set aside for matters of secondary importance, that persons of ability be sedulously informed of the need of assistance, and constantly beck- oned to the front. Not as figure-heads, nor to lend their names, but to give such time as they can spare to strict performance of weekly duties ; this being far more important to our advance than any gift of money. Without underrating what money can do, we have learned from the past, as well as the present, that, if the gifts of sympathy and energy are withheld from the work of the Associated Charities, wealth may be pro- nounced useless to perform the service. The conference of a district is composed of three parts : First, the District Committee, to which special reference has been made in considering the need of active intelligence in this service ; Second, the Representatives of various societies and public or private Officers working among the poor of the vicinity ; and, Third, the Visitors. This body constitutes a conference. One of the valuable effects of such a body has proved to be that the distinc- tive gifts of both men and women are required to accomplish the ends proposed. The com- parative ease with which we grasp difficulties 28 How to Help the Poor. in Boston, from this perfectly natural union, is to be remarked. We have no separated com- mittees. We have silently recognized the fact that in this business, because we are deal- ing with social questions and those of the family, we have need of each other. We believe in the value of a weekly meet- ing for each conference, — the committee to come together one hour before the moment of the meeting, in order to look over the business to be presented, and to dispose of such cases as need not be brought before the larger company. The agent will have time to ask questions and give advice, and the committee can thus bring itself into order and harmony, which will serve to expedite the busi- ness of the following hour. I will not give here the order of work already laid down for guiding the administration of a conference. So far as this business can be reduced to form and put on paper, it has been done, and may be found among the publications of the Associated Charities in Boston ; and we feel assured that every district conference will find it greatly to its advantage to follow the printed plan as closely as possible. The relation between the agent and visitors is one that has been often discussed; but District Conferences. 29 we must beware of rules and of red tape. We have to deal with different agents and a large variety of visitors. Some excellent agents are far less able to satisfy the needs of the visitors than others. In such cases there may be special service of another kind which is remarkably performed, making it wise to supply this gap between visitors and agent in some other way. Again, the agent may be an excellent visitor, but slow to make efficient record of work really well accomplished. It would then devolve upon the committee to see that this want was remedied. A person of intelligence and unselfishness, devoted to the work, is what is required in an agent. When these qualities are given to the service, incapacity respecting details, in whatever direc- tion, should be voluntarily supplied, if possi- ble, by the committee. The work of the committee of each dis- trict conference includes one branch of labor too often omitted or forgotten. Each member should be informed respecting the public de- partments of protection for the unprotected : what may be lawfully asked and received in cases of need ; what shelter, what relief, what advice, or what methods of transportation ; also, what loans may be obtained ; where and 3Z the benefit of the whole, and thus limiting and passing over suggestions which belong to a more private consideration of any case. Our watchword is Co-operation. Its practi- cal efficacy can only be fully understood at the conference. A fady visitor hears the secre- tary .read the name of Mrs. Kelly, giving street and number. She responds : " I found Mrs. Kelly well ten days ago when I called to see her last, but the baby was ailing and needing food from the Diet Kitchen, which I obtained for her. I have not been able to visit her since, and I came to the meeting in the hope that you could tell me how she is gfettins: on. The other children were all at school the day I called, and I could not see them." There is a moment's silence. Then the truant-officer says : " A week ago, I found the Kelly children weren't at school, and so I looked them up ; found chicken-pox had broken out among them. She was pretty down-hearted, being a lone woman, and no money in the house, because the sick baby had kept her from going to work. Said I'd call the next day, but was detained ; and, when I went the day after, I couldn't find them. The neighbors' doors were locked (they were 34 How to Help the Poor. all at work), and I couldn't understand it — " Just then, a gentleman, who had dropped into the meeting half hoping that he might hear something of this case, spoke up, and de- scribed how " One night last week, it must have been Thursday, I was hurrying home from business rather late, when I heard chil- dren crying. That's a sound I can't bear long. So I pushed open the broken door of the house where the sounds came from, and went in. Going up the third flight of stairs, at last I found the room, and knocked. Nobody answered ; but the children still were crying, so I went in. There lay a woman on the floor in a heavy drunken sleep, just where she had fallen after emptying a mug which stood on the table. Five hungry, sick, miserable chil- dren were wailing, and trying to rouse her in vain. It was a pitiful sight, and what to do I did not know. Out I ran, downstairs again, and asked the first police-officer I met where I could find the Society for Prevention of Cruelty to Children. He said he didn't know. I told him he ought to ; but, if he would take some money and carry the children some bread and milk for their supper, I would come back and get them, while he could take away the mother. I found it a long distance to the District Conferences. 35 office of the Society, and by that time the hour was approaching for the last train to take me home that night ; but the agent was kind and prompt, and sent off at once to get the children. Unfortunately, I have not been in town since, and could not hear anything more of them ; so I thought I would drop in here." Whereupon, a quiet little lady in the corner said : " I happened to come into the office just as you left it, and the agent asked me to go with him, there seemed so much to do. When we reached Mrs. Kelly's, I de- cided to take the baby myself. We carried the two younger children to Auntie Gwynne, while the agent took charge of the two elder. The officer, meanwhile, was obliged to carry the poor mother to Deer Island." Our agent then told us how her work for the week had carried her to Deer Island, where, to her great surprise and sorrow, she found Mary Kelly, whom she had formerly known as a good, respectable woman. " The poor thing was terribly abashed and grieved at her situation, and explained how a neigh- bor, seeing her discouragement, had thought to comfort her by bringing her beer. Little by little, yet faster than she was aware, the habit of taking beer had grown until she was 36 How to Help the Poor. mastered by it. The kind of beer, too, seemed to have dangerous elements in it such as make this drink harmful ; and before she knew it her senses were stolen away, and she found herself at Deer Island. So I said, seeing how wretched she was, that I would try to get her transferred on probation to the Massachu- setts Home for Intemperate Women in town, where her friend and visitor could see her. After we had assured ourselves of her desire to behave well, we got permission from the officers of public institutions to bring her back to town ; and she is doing well, and giving every promise of being able to have her home and children some day. I wish the vis- itor would now take up the case again, and, as soon as the woman ought to be trusted, help her to get work and to establish herself once more. After such a severe lesson, and with a kind friend to watch over her, I think this will never happen again ; and she is longing and weeping for her children." The visitor prom- ises to go and see her, and this case ends for the afternoon. From this illustration, it is easy to see how a party of people interested in the same work can help each other. It is not often that all the intricacies of a case can be followed out District Conferences. 37 in this way at one session, but it is striking to see how many can be settled in one season. In a multitude of counsellors there is knowl- edge as well as safety. Many of the Boston districts contain five or six hundred families who receive aid. Of this large number, not more than one hundred and fifty, 'on an average, are properly visited and cared for by agent and visitors. New cases sent in as having applied for help in the street, or otherwise, and requiring immediate investigation, in order to relieve the mind of the person applied to, who has generously refrained from giving because of our con- tinual appeals to that end, — even such cases have, in a few instances, been suffered to lie over. Is it not easy to see that public dissat- isfaction will be the result of such inadequacy, and also that the fault lies, not in the plan, but in a misunderstanding of methods ? How can this evil be rectified? It cannot, of course, be accomplished by a stroke of the pen, or in a moment's time. But when and how shall a beginning be made ? We ask the agent. The answer comes promptly, "I have as much as I can do to keep the run of one hundred and fifty cases, assist the visitors, and keep up the books." There seems small chance of help in that direction. 38 Ifow to Help the Poor. How then ? First, Every new case sent from outside, because of especial application ami present need, should be considered by the committee as a duty to be at once per- formed, either by one of their own body, the agent, or the visitors ; one of the old cases being dropped for that week, or fortnight, if necessary. Second, For such emergencies, a committee might be formed to be styled "assistant visitors/' — persons who are willing to be called upon to assist the agent in visits of investigation, in addition to the three or four families regularly under their care. A very small company of such helpers will be of great assistance to the committee ; but, the larger the number, the less chance there will be, of course, for anything to be neglected. A large organization pledges itself to respond to these appeals from a busy public. It exists for this purpose, and the execution of the labor rests with the district committees. The old excuse of " too many cases in hand " must be set aside. We are bound to under- stand the general condition of the district in which we work, and to remember that one applicant has as much right to our attention as another, until all their needs are perfectly understood and classified. Of course, better District Conferences. 39 work will be accomplished when we can con- fine ourselves to one hundred and fifty cases, but that should be in the future. Our first work is to understand the field as it lies before us, to canvass each case, to beseech the churches who* are giving alms here and there to send a visitor to the conference and learn what is there known of the family they are aiding. Private missionaries, any one, in short, giving either money or what is called " charity-work " to any family within the juris- diction, should be, in a measure, one of the district conference, and persuaded to look more closely, perhaps, into the condition of their charge, or to modify their plan of pro- cedure materially in connection with especial persons. Another measure for obtaining knowledge of families in the district, who cannot be regu- larly visited for lack of helpers, will be to gather the children into little schools, — sew- ing-schools, Sunday-schools, vacation-schools, kitchen garden, kindergarten, cooking-schools, or wherever the committee may see opportu- nity to place them, — and the elders into indus- trial schools, laundries, sewing, carpentry, and the like. Last year, a weekly evening-school for boys brought in a number whose homes 40 How to Help the Poor. were quite unknown to us ; also, at Christmas and other festivals, we may be brought into relation to new families ; and, if we confine our attention entirely to our own district, the time will not be long when we shall have the whole number of recorded recipients of relief in hand, and soon very much reduced. But, if a beginning is never made, and our ener- gies are spent in trying to elevate and educate the few, helping them up very successfully, as we may, we shall find a large body straying about the same as ever, begging and imposing upon the community, until we shall become only "the one more society" so much dreaded everywhere, and the end of organization will remain unfulfilled. We must be content for a time to do more than we can, — that is, we must do less well than we can for the few, until we understand the general need somewhat better, and have more help to grapple with it. The rock ahead has always been that men and women in this business lose sight of the idea, and are ensnared in ruts and in details. Let the committee, at least, hold its head above water. In this connection, the experience of Miss Mary Carpenter, in the ragged schools of England, is worthy our consideration. She District Conferences. 41 says it was with the utmost difficulty she could keep attention fixed upon the lowest strata. The moment her children had opportunity, they were lifted out of their old degradation and became a different class. Teachers and friends naturally wished to keep on with the hopeful cases ; but she was obliged continually, as it were, to plunge her own hands down to the very bottom, and bring up those who had sunken there. This also should be the work of our district committees. The foregoing difficulties and how to meet them turn upon a subject almost too familiar to be mentioned, — the need of more visitors. " I feel most deeply," writes a friend, " that the disciplining of our immense poor popula- tion must be effected by individual influence ; and that this power can change it from a mob of paupers and semi-paupers into a body of self-dependent workers." Believing this, any labor among the poor becomes not only a hope which is constantly nourished by suc- cess, but it also assumes the form of public responsibility, where every man and woman may do his or her part. Visiting the poor does not mean entering the room of a person hitherto unknown, to make a call. It means that we are invited to visit a miserable abode 42 How to Help the Poor. for the purpose first of discovering the cause of that misery. A physician is sometimes obliged to see a case many times before the nature of the disease is made clear to his mind ; but, once discovered, he can prescribe the remedy. How many visitors fail in this long undertaking ! We are at a great disad- vantage : we go without authority, and often without knowledge ; we are met sometimes with distrust and possible dislike. I can only say, in face of all failures, the success has been triumphant. But, looking at the failures, I am more and more persuaded that we are working at too great a loss. I mean our vis- itors too frequently become discouraged, and, in army words, "we lose too many men." A partial cure for this is to be found in the tene- ment house system as introduced by Miss Octavia Hill, and pursued in New York and Boston. A proposition for governmental su- pervision, quoted in one of the reports of the Board of Health, has been suggested as pos- sible and necessary. Such oversight would assist benevolent work in the homes of the poor, immeasurably. The value of organized charity lies with the visitors, not in the organization ; and as in the St. Vincent de Paul Society, from which District Conferences. 43 we have derived so many suggestions, no offi- cers are exempted from this duty, so with our district committees, — we allow no one to be ignorant of it. Constant experience keeps a continual sympathy alive between the com- mittee and visitors. ' They all labor together ; therefore, their chief desire is to increase their numbers, seeking to relieve each other of too great a burden, instead of the old habit of asking more work from the same visitors. In twenty years after the establishment of the St. Vincent de Paul Society, Ozanam, its founder, said with his dying breath, " Instead of eight visitors, we have grown to two thou- sand in Paris alone, and we visit there five thousand families." Is our labor to be carried any less far ? I believe not. Our methods have improved, our knowledge upon this sub- ject has greatened. It remains for our faith in God and in humanity to carry us forward into victory. IV. WHAT A VISITOR MAY DO FOR CHILDREN AND YOUNG PERSONS. " How to care for the children of the very poor, and often depraved, part of the popu- lation of cities," writes Mrs. Lowell, "is one of the most serious of public questions ; and, in discussing it, it is necessary to consider the effect to be produced, not only upon the child, but upon its parents and upon the public at large. . . . The effect upon the tax-payer and upon the hard-working poor man, struggling to bring up his children to be honest, indus- trious, and healthy, must not be ignored. The tax-payer must not be required to give what he needs for his own family to support the family of his dissolute neighbor, unless that family threatens to be a public injury; nor should the honest laborer see the children of the drunkard enjoying advantages which his own may not hope for. . . . There should be a constant pressure brought to bear on What to do for Children. 45 parents to contribute toward the support of their children ; and, as soon as they are able, they should be required to take them back [if they have been placed in institutions], or, if unable or unfit to do this after a given number of years, they should forfeit all claim to them. No child should be held as a public charge for an indefinite time and the parent have a right to reclaim it at any moment. A parent who will not perform the duties of a parent should not have the rights of a parent." Dr. Tuckerman says: "I am quite satisfied that far the greatest part of the abject pov- erty and of the recklessness in crime which people either our prisons or almshouses, or which is seen in our streets, may be followed back to causes which showed themselves within the first fifteen or twenty years of life, — to causes which at that period are within our power." Within our power. Will the visitors among the poor — the men and women who are hoping " to do something " — bring these words home ! There is now a statute in Massachusetts which reads as follows : — [Acts of 1882, Chap. 270.] Section 4. Whoever unreasonably neglects to pro- vide for the support of his minor child shall be pun- 46 How to Help the Poor. ished by fine not exceeding twenty dollars, or by imprisonment in the house of correction not exceeding six months. It is clear, therefore, that the visitor has the law upon his side in many cases of neglect. What is chiefly required further is to see that laws of this nature be enforced. The moral sentiment of our people has framed the statutes bravely. It only remains for those who wish to succor the unfortunate to see that the abused child obtains the benefit granted him by law. One of the forms in which the wrongs of children appear is in the neglect of the babies of wet nurses. One who has made a specialty of the care of mothers and infants writes : — The exceptional care and watchfulness required to save the life of a young infant separated from its mother, and placed at board during the sum Tier months, can only be estimated by those who have undertaken such a responsibility. It would, no doubt, be better for both infant and mother that they should remain together through the summer. And this can often be arranged by having the mother and child admitted to the Massachusetts Infant Asylum or Medford Infant Asylum ; but the poor young girl, tempted by the high wages of a wet nurse, and ignorant of the danger in- curred by the separation, seldom hesitates in her choice. We are then compelled either to leave the poor baby What to do for Children. 47 to its fate, — which would be speedy and almost certain death, — or to expend upon it an amount of time, toil, and care which would suffice to save the lives of ten infants at another season, with the result (which we have now learned to expect almost as a matter of course) that the mother, removed from our influence, separated almost whqJJy from her child, and taught indifference to her duties and responsibilities by her employer, comes to us at the end of the summer with an urgent request that we will assist her to relieve her- self altogether of the charge of her infant, by placing it in some institution, — although a wet nurse is better able to support her child than any of our patients not similarly placed. Wet nurses, therefore, cause us more trouble than any of our other patients, and are the most disappointing of our cases. But this need not be so if the bearings of the situation were understood by the employer, who would'then co-operate with us in what is for the real interest of the mother and of her child. In such service, the idea of the visitor's true work is made evident. She (for this would be a case for a woman) is the assisting and instructing medium between the young nurse and her employer on one hand, and the child's questionable fate on the other. Cobden said, " There are many well-mean- ing people in the world who are not so useful as they might be, from not knowing how to go to work." In studying this subject of neg- lected children, methods of work have been 48 How to Help the Poor. tried which bring us nearer regeneration than any attempts to influence the danger- ous classes in any other direction. Here we know " how to go to work." "I would say," writes Dr. Tuckennan, "to all who wish to do good, whether they have much or little to give to those who are in want, strive to save at least one truant, vagrant, or vicious child, who, if no friendly hand be stretched out, will fall into the abyss either of pauperism or crime." The taking of children from miserable homes in tenement houses during the summer and sending them away for a week or two "gives a look almost of health " to some who were pinched and wretched to look upon. Air does much, and milk and oat-meal, instead of tea and bad bread, do the rest. " That these children are alive at all, that fatherhood and motherhood are allowed to be the right of drunkards and criminals of every grade, is a problem whose present solution passes any human power, but which all lovers of their kind must sooner or later face. . . . Hopeless as the outlook often seems, salva- tion for the future of the masses lies in these children. Not in a teaching which gives them merely the power to grasp at the mass of sen* What to do for Children. 49 sational reading, . . . but in a practical train- ing which shall give the boys trades . . . and the girls suitable occupations." Our prosperity seems to be still too great to allow young women .to feel any necessity to go into domestic service ; or the reason may be a moral one, and lie deeper. The labors per- formed in bag-factories and other factories and shops are certainly quite as heavy and less refining than those of household service. "To be a shop-girl seems the highest ambi- tion " ; but the steps downward from this am- bition are frightfully easy. It is, however, a good beginning toward the cure of the evil to have it widely recognized, and to find a grow- ing respect for household knowledge, espe- cially for the fine art of cooking. House-keepers' classes are forming gradu- ally, where young girls from ten to fifteen are taught everything except cooking, that requir- ing a separate foundation. To get girls into such schools, if only for a few weeks, often develops tastes and capacities which they could not previously know they possessed, and by which their whole lives are lifted from the old degradations. For unmanageable girls and those who must be sent to institutions, we have learned 50 Hour to Help the Poor. after sad experience that a great deal remains to be done. In Massachusetts, the Dorches- ter Industrial School for Girls took the lead in inaugurating a system of individual guardian- ship. This plan has resulted in a company of State Auxiliary Visitors, who aim to hold per- sonal guardianship over every girl graduating from the public reform schools and institu- tions. " One whole year before the Auxiliary Visitors began their work for the wards of the State, the Hampden County Children's Aid Association, proposed and created by Mrs. Clara T. Leonard, had taken every child from the almshouse, and provided for all children who might come upon the county in future, by securing committees in every town who should seek out homes and watch over the children when placed. This society has the right of legal guardianship over its wards, granted by the legislature. A certain amount is paid by the almshouse toward the board of those children thus placed out who are too young to earn their own board and clothes." The report of Mrs. Nassau Senior, of Eng- land, a few years ago, describing the lack of power in girls trained in institutions to stand up and take their places in the world, first drew attention seriously to this great topic. What to do for Children. 5 1 Above all, such girls need friends ; and, with- out them, they are seen to sink down into the great "criminal sea," which has been largely made up of graduates from public institutions. The stories told by our New England visitors are touching and "interesting beyond words. Compared with this work, how petty other occupations seem ! We will turn now to the consideration of another class of neglected youth, and recall the apparently harmless gift of a few cents given to a boy by Mrs. X. Such gifts to street children are sometimes a fountain of life-long evil. If, however, instead of this baleful response, we listen to the real wants of the little child, and gather him up into the arms of love, we have already learned that much will be accomplished. For those who have not yet learned "how to do it," the following truth, pronounced by high author- ity, will at least show where we must abstain from doing. " Every child," says Dr. Tucker- man, " who is a beggar, almost without excep- tion, will become a vagrant, and probably a thief." " In Hamburg, at one time," writes Mr. Kellogg, " a police regulation went so far as to forbid almsgiving in the street." Such 52 Horn to Help the Poor. measures in America would be neither prof- itable nor desirable ; but what is seen to be a necessity is that public opinion shall recognize the wrong-doing- in such careless response to those who appeal to us in their misery. Our hope is in and for the children; yet many a mother with four or five little ones, from whom she must be away all day, will lock them up together in a room, under the care of the eldest, until her return. One of the duties of a friend should be to prevent this locking up of children ; because there are both nurseries and kindergartens where the little ones can be sent, besides the common schools for those over five years of age. For the mother, eager to get to her own work, the difficulty of preparing little children for school so early is certainly serious. But if she be friendly to the idea, and will take the baby to the nursery as she goes, some kind neigh- bor will often help the others on their way. Teachers of kindergartens will sometimes call for a child who has no other chance of getting to school. Although no one case is just like another, human nature being infinite in its variety, it will still be useful to study ways of relief em- ployed by others, and to see what has been What to do for Children. 53 accomplished. In the hope of gaining use- fulness in this way, the following history is related. There was a family, living in a certain dis- trict, where there were two little girls, seven and nine years oTd. They were under the care oi their aunt, who had married their grandfather, and she held papers for the guardianship of the children. She was a French Canadian, speaking little or no Eng- lish, but expressing great anxiety for the good of her wards to every one who came near her. She was a Protestant, and an ex- cellent beggar in her church and out of it. Even-body loved to be kind and generous to her, both for her own sake and the children's; but one day the grandmother fell ill, and then the friendly visitor who was appointed by a conference of the Associated Charities was able to understand the case more perfectly. The family was found to consist of the grandmother and her husband, also her father, a son eighteen years old, and the two girls now nine and eleven. They were in debt ; but, in spite of this fact, they had a family of pets : there were many poodle-dogs, big and little, a parrot, a cat, and canary-birds ; and one day a woman, coming in to warm herself 54 How to Help the Poor. by their fireside, left her baby, never calling for it again ; so the baby was included in the family. Four boarders were found to be also of the company ; and these eleven human beings, with their pets, inhabited four rooms. The two girls cooked all the meals for the family of eleven persons. They were seldom allowed to go to school ; and it was the grand- mother's excuses in this particular which first aroused suspicion with regard to the case. When they did go, they had a habit of rushing down two flights of stairs, past the door of a crazy, drunken woman, whom they dreaded, and out into the street, trembling. On their return, piles of the day's dishes awaited their washing. The household duties often kept them at work until eleven at night, and before six the next morning they must be up to get breakfast. They were on speaking acquaint- ance with all the men in the market-stalls. The boarders would get into fights with one another, and the girls were taught that they must not call in the police, and were even shown how to keep the officers away. The grandmother also instructed them to lie to the boarders and others, when any advan- tage could be gained ; and their cJorh.es were utterly neglected. What to do for Children. 55 "Imagine," writes one who knew the cir- cumstances well, " these girls, with refined and affectionate natures which made them favor- ites everywhere, leading such a life, and ruled by a woman whose bursts of temper, profanity, and coarseness made her a terror to those who did not know her cowardly spirit. The family had better means of support than many others, and resources which, if developed, might have made them respectably indepen- dent. But, in spite of three years of the com- bined influence of church and charity visitors, instead of the grandparents working harder, they overworked the children in the house- hold service, taught them to beg and deceive, surrounded them with improper associates, and deprived them of their schooling. The result was the girls were growing up to lead unhealthful, dependent, deceitful, ignorant, and possibly still more degraded lives. Va- rious ways were then tried to obtain a peace- ful separation of the children from their grandmother, but without success. Hearing the report of the visitor, the conference asked that all ' relief ' might be withdrawn from the family. This resulted in the grandmother's allowing one of the girls to be put into a school supported by her church in a distant town ; 56 How to Help the Poor. but in a short time she went secretly and en- ticed the child away. By this time, the con- stant labor of several visitors had given us the necessary evidence, and truant officers, relief-givers, and visitors all agreed that the time had come when it was necessary to take these children from their home by force. Assisted by the Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children, this was done, and the girls were placed in a public institution. " We had now checked the ' old charity ' which gives outward relief, but develops no inward resources; and we had removed the children from the fearful influences which such charity often fosters. " The ' new charity ' had taken these children away from the only home that belonged to them, and had incurred the responsibility, therefore, of providing a better one. We had placed the girls in the institution, be- cause it is one of the places which serve as hospitals for the moral diseases of children. As soon as the Superintendent thought it wise, the elder girl was placed in a country family, which served as a convalescent home ; but the child's moral sickness showed itself by unmistakable symptoms, so that her return What to do for Children. 57 to the ' Home ' soon became necessary. There she remained some time longer, until it seemed well to try again, especially as an excellent place opened for her, — a home which we knew would give her the combined love and wisdom* so essential to the develop- ment, of a child. After five weeks, the lady wrote that she had seen nothing like deceit in her, and thought her far above the average girl. An opportunity soon offered to send the sister to the family of a near neighbor, and the result proved satisfactory. It is quite possible further changes may become neces- sary with one or the other, but the way seems fair now to launch the girls upon a respec- table and independent life. " Let us return for a moment to the grand- mother, thus suddenly bereft of her children. A chance was found for her at once to support herself by fine laundry work, but this she did not accept. It was then decided to leave her in the care of her church people, who now report her as supporting herself and living independent of relief." " It were useless," continues the faithful friend who has recorded this history, "to recount all these details, unless we can arrive at some principles of action and plans for the 58 How to Help the Poor. future provision of children thus rudely torn from their natural protectors. " These principles may be ranged under five heads : — " 1 st. The only just reason for taking chil- dren from their natural homes is to lift them OUt of MORAL POVERTY. MATERIAL POVERTY alone is not sufficient cause. " 2d. When there is sign of moral disease, children may be placed in some of the numer- ous institutions or homes provided for them, which serve as hospitals for the treatment of such diseases. "3d. Children should not be allowed to stay too long in these institutions or homes, because they will become entirely dependent upon others, and unable to act for them- selves. One year may be fixed as the longest term. They should then be placed out in families for convalescence. " 4th. If the moral disease makes its ap- pearance again, the children should be re- turned to the home for further hospital treat- ment. "5th. In selecting a home in a private family, great care should be taken to find one where the children will be taken in a measure for their own sake, not as servants What to do for Children. 59 merely. If possible, brothers and sisters should be placed so near that their attach- ment for each other will be cherished." We have the record of many families where the children have been taken away from drunken and unfit parents ; but, unfortunately, the story does not often extend beyond the Marcella Street Home or some such hospital. Surely, it is strange that visitors should be content to stop at this critical part of their work, when one year flies so swiftly away and a second in any institution will possibly rob a child of the power to stand alone. The following brief history will be an excel- lent guide and encouragement to many a visitor who is looking upon the career of some young girl with dismay, if not with despair. A young American girl, Mary, just twelve years old, excited the strong interest of one of my friends. Her parents were intemper- ate, and were living at the North End of Boston. She was handsome, fond of excite- ment and of having her own way, like many bright girls, and she had no restraining influ- ences at home, — if the place of her abode deserved that name. After visiting the family nearly two years, 60 How to Help the Poor. all the time having in mind a desire to get Mary to go to service in some kind family, my friend persuaded the father and mother to allow the girl to go where she would earn her board. She had been getting into wild habits and with bad companions. The summer was approaching for the second time when a reluc- tant consent was won from them ; but, after a few weeks of absence, Mary became unhappy, and during the summer vacation of her visitor she returned to Boston. The second autumn found Mary in a worse condition than ever before. She had passed the summer in such amusements as the North End afforded to a reckless little girl. She had sufficient pride to be wretched in the despicable home afforded her by drunken parents, yet her friend did not wish, till other means failed, to deprive them forcibly of their guardianship. The teachers at her school, and others, agreed in calling her the worst girl of her age they knew, and pronounced their opinion that she could not be got out of Boston except under arrest. Her friends felt it would be useless to put her at service anywhere where she was not compelled to stay, and her character prevented her admission to the Dorchester School. What to do for Children. 61 An application was then made to the Chil- dren's Aid Society, which places children in families where they will be taught and strictly watched over. This society agreed to take charge of the chijd, and promised to have a home ready for her if the father and mother would* sign a paper giving that society the guardianship for the next four years, and if the girl would consent to go. Here, then, was a case for influence, and my friend wrote to Mary's father to come to see her. This he did not do, but sent a friend in his stead, to say that he would not give up his daughter. The deputy proved a true friend of the family, and, being a man of good sense, listened to the visitor. He was easily persuaded by her that the proposed plan was the best chance for the girl, there- fore he undertook to make the father change his mind. He succeeded in so far as to get his consent to see my friend, and the inter- view resulted in the signing of the paper by his wife and himself, giving up the guardian- ship of their daughter till she should reach the age of sixteen. The next point was to get Mary's consent, as the parents refused to compel her ; finally, the friend of the family and the visitor 62 How to Help the Poor. together persuaded her, also, although she knew she was going to a lonely farm-house where she must work and could never come to Boston. Her evil companions did all in their power to keep her; but she went, because, when it was fairly put before her, she did wish in her heart to be good. The visitor took her to her new home in the uninviting November season. She has be- haved on the whole extremely well, and the effect on her parents has been excellent. They were sobered by Mary's loss, and for the sake of her younger sister are striving for a better life at home. Parents who cannot govern themselves are naturally unfitted for the guidance of their offspring. Girls are to be found everywhere who are utterly untaught in any business of life. They have been compelled to go to school, but they are ignorant of any useful service. They pick rags and sew in tailors' shops, or, if they are especially fortunate, get into a store ; but these places are over- crowded, and they can earn a mere pittance by such pursuits. Wherever a visitor can rescue a girl from such a life and cause her to be trained to some useful calling, a val- uable work has been accomplished. There What to do for Children. 63 are many training-schools in and near Boston, besides the best of training which a well- disposed girl can always receive in the family of a good, motherly woman. We have been informed by the statistics of the Labor Bureau that there are twenty thousand homeless young women in Boston whose wages average only $4.00 per week. The visitor should learn this statement by heart, and try to save as many girls as pos- sible from this hard fate. " A little self- control would raise the poor into the ranks of those who are really wanted and who have made their way from the brink of pauperism to a secure place, and one where they are under better influences. Above all is this true of the children. A little self-control would enable the daughters of most of these people to rise into the class of domestic ser- vants ; and their sons, instead of remaining Street-sellers, would soon learn a trade or go to sea, if they cared to do regular work." There are many societies, plans, and laws for the protection and education of children ; but the difficulty of supplanting or supple- menting the work of a parent is great, and should be so. Where parents can by any means be brought to support and guide their 64 How to Help the Poor. own offspring, it should be our idea to assist them to do this, since it is nature's law. No help given is so sure of success as the per- sonal oversight of friendly visitors who feel a certain power behind their friendship. The Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Chil- dren, our excellent truant-officers, the news- boys' evening-school, the Law and Order League, all these are ready to strengthen their hands. One of the most hopeful meth- ods of dealing with street-boys is, however, to send them away on farms. From the streets of New York over sixty thousand boys have been sent into the West, who are doing well. What benevolent plan can give a better showing than this ? Let no visitor despair of doing something to improve the condition of neglected chil- dren, especially one who lives where there is. a Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children. Such a society is, however, a helper, and not a place where the burden may be dropped by the visitors. If the offi- cers find a friend who is willing to go with them to the judge and bear witness to the miseries of which they complain, they will find not only co-workers, but a genuine power to assist and relieve. If, however, the visitor What to do for Children. 65 drops the case into their hands, and it be- comes one of thousands, it must not only wait its turn for examination, but, for lack of proper testimony, it may never come to justice at all. The hearing in neglect cases is not public, and no lady need hesitate to appear. It is given in a private room ; and, as hearsay evidence is never received, — if the visitors really wish to help the children, it will largely depend upon themselves to get what is re- quired. All complaints are confidential. Where the parents of children have proved themselves unfit for their charge, the visitor may, through the Probate Court, obtain guar- dianship and custody of such children. This gives power to find a good home, and to advise for their future. " Can I do anything more in this case ? " a visitor will ask who has taken a woman with three children to visit, and who has been fortunate enough to find work for the mother. Yes, we answer. Do not feel this case is finished until each of those children is in a fair way to make industrious and useful mem- bers of society. The inherited paupers of Europe must die and be crushed out on our soil ; their children should become our useful and busy compatriots. c3 V. SUGGESTIONS IN BEHALF OF THE AGED. Peggy O'Hara is now fifty-eight years of age, but she is feebler than her years would seem to justify. With her, as with so many others, poverty, combined with ignorance, and their attendant ills, have induced premature old age. Peggy's husband went to the war in i860, and soon returned ill. Her father lived with them from the time he was sixty until he became eighty years of age, contributing very little to their support during this period. Peggy could do only the coarsest sewing; and it was through her bad sewing of the soldiers' shirts, by which she was trying to maintain herself and her father while her husband was away, that I made her acquaintance. In the beginning, it was necessary to compel her to take out and do over a large part of her work ; to-day, she sews very neatly, but always slowly. She could find very little else to do, however, during the long period when she was confined at Care of the Aged. 67 home chiefly, with the care of both husband and father, and it was impossible for her to meet the family expenses without help. One friend paid her rent, the overseers found the family entitled to a " settlement," and there- fore gave them certain punctual relief, and many givers of occasional doles appeared who managed to keep them comfortable. At length, the father and husband died, also many of the old friends ; but begging had been found very lucrative and quite agreeable. Peggy wished to continue her old plan of life, with the hope of reaping a good harvest for herself ; but the friend on whom she chiefly depended, having the needs of many depend- ent persons upon her hands, and seeing at last by her experience that there was a better way, resolved that Peggy must now try to maintain herself. She stated this necessity frankly to her, and said, as she was now left to herself, she must manage to earn what was necessary for her own support. She did not require so much room, and could take some one to lodge with her. Peggy stoutly opposed the suggestion ; but, coming shortly after to her friend, in a depressed frame of mind, — having been sent for, indeed, because she was found begging in spite of remonstrance, — she 68 Ho%v to Help the Poor. said that she could not live peaceably with anybody she could think of ; other women would wrong her and make her life miserable. Her friend listened (understanding Peggy well enough to know this was quite true), then an- swered, " Well, Peggy, why shouldn't you take a little child to look after, some one of the many motherless little ones we are constantly hearing of ? " Peggy thought not, and her friend was for the moment a little discouraged with regard to finding the right thing for her. But, about six weeks later, going to her rooms one day to see how she was getting on without any relief except what the overseers granted in view of her settlement, she found Peggy unusually comfortable and bright, and a little baby asleep in a cradle in the corner. No words could express Peggy's satisfaction. At last, she had found something to love and care for, and her whole appearance was changed. The money she received for its care was just about enough to pay the room rent and for the baby's food, and this made her comfort- able with the bit of washing and coarse sew- ing she found weekly. But, apart from this, even if no money had come from it, the influ- ence of the child itself proved beneficent in bringing cheerfulness into a poor, arid life, Care of the Aged. 69 which had lost courage and hope and desire, and was sinking under the early approach of age. Peter Church, as he is sometimes called, is an old Italian of tfae better class of poor. We found him living utterly alone, in great filth and destitution. He said ten cents a day was all his food cost, because he lived chiefly on macaroni which he cooked himself. He would go to gentlemen whom he knew a little, on the streets or at their offices, and ask a small sum for his support. He had once taught his native tongue in a rudimen- tary way, but his sight had failed ; and he liked to roam the streets at his own will until he was tired, and then at night he would sometimes make a little fire and play the flute. When he first came to our notice, he was becoming feeble. It was getting unsafe for him to go about alone, lest he should be thrown down. He was losing strength from cold and lack of nourishment. Nevertheless, we discovered that he had once tried the shelter of an institution for a few weeks, and had been so unhappy at the loss of his free- dom and the constant sight of misery that he ran away on the earliest opportunity. It was a puzzle what to do. For a few months, some 70 How to Help the Poor. friend to whom he had applied for help gave the money to an interested visitor, to be paid out in the 'very small portions he required. Meanwhile, many plans were suggested for his shelter and protection ; but to all of them the independent old man turned a deaf ear. At length, in a kindly talk, it was discovered that the sufferer had relatives in another city. An account of his condition was written to them, and very soon a reply came, saying, though they were still struggling themselves, they would each subscribe seventy-five cents per week, the total proving sufficient for the old man's modest board and maintenance. The friendly visitor takes sincere pleasure in seeing this money paid out to a needy family willing to take care of him for the remuneration received. It is a cause for wonder to see how many aged and infirm persons are left to pine away in the attics of cities, forgotten by their own people, and receiving fifty cents a week to pay their rent from some relief society. It is not astonishing that good honest Betty Higdons do not wish to go to the almshouse : but there are many cases where intemperance and uncleanliness have set in, induced by their feeble and solitary condition ; and where, Care of the Aged. 71 when kindly persuasions are brought to bear, they will go to Austen Farm or some other retreat, and once having made the change are grateful and pleased. I found two sisters living in a scant, squalid fashion. They were Scotch by birth, and had been dressmakers, but had outlived their custom and their usefulness. They were getting small doles which they chiefly spent in drink "to keep up their spirits." They would not tolerate the idea of being sent away, at first. The visitor was firm about it, all relief was cut off, and they cannot now express the gratitude they feel for the care and shelter they receive at a public refuge, near Boston, for aged women. " Among those who have fallen from fort- une into utter penury, and suffered in silence," writes a friend, "are the Grays, two old brothers, Englishmen, — one a good classical scholar, and the other of such abil- ity that he formerly earned several thousand dollars a year in business. He was ruined by a partner. I found him, one day, warm- ing himself by the fire of a sickly little old woman who befriended him and cooked his rye or corn meal once a day. He has eaten meat rarely for years. I had heard of his 72 How to Help the Poor. distress, and forced myself, against his will, into his chamber. I never have seen such utter destitution : no fire, no stove, no lamp, no comforter, no blanket, no pillow, almost no furniture. Many remnants of a sheet had been sewed again and again together, till it was now perhaps three feet wide. What was once an excelsior mattress was now about as hard as a board. ' You do not know what I have suffered here,' said he : 'I was ashamed to let you see it.' To supply all these needs was a pleasure. His gratitude was even sur- passed by his unwillingness to be helped. I sent five dollars by a lady for him to make some drawings, but he had parted with all his apparatus, and refused the money. He was not a case for the Overseers of the Poor or any public relief. Our conference voted that he should have a pension of two dollars a week, which was enough for his food, as he has his rent free. " The two dollars were nominally given him for errands for the conference, which he per- formed most zealously. ' I see through it all,' said he : ' you want me to think I am earning it. Let me do all you can.' " His literary brother had been poorer still, and, having no fire, frequented a public library Care of the Aged. 73 where he could read and keep warm ; and then, for lack of food and fire, chewed ginger to keep alive. He, too, received a pension, kindly raised by the clerks of an institution which knew him* "They were about the last survivors of a family which had included a barrister, a clergyman of the English Church, and a mer- chant. " Charity sometimes appears hard when it cuts off relief from those able to earn a good support, yet who prefer to beg ; but surely it delights to discover and tenderly relieve those who have done their best, and who are left in old age to suffer, unfriended and alone." A visitor of thought and experience, to whom the foregoing pages had been referred, writes in reply : " The foregoing cases were not all ideally treated. Some of them had been injured by doles, and others by the notion that relief from the city is a right. But such experiences lead to certain prin- ciples which should be followed in the care of aged people. The first impulse, when we find a white-haired woman living alone and apparently friendless, is to find some home in whose sheltering care she can be placed. Bu^ 74 How to Help the Poor. a home which is not full is hard to find ; and the more homes are built, the larger grows the crowd of applicants. Once in, the old person often finds the rules necessary to so large a company irksome, and wishes herself back in her own lonely room. But, the bridge being burned behind her, she remains only half happy and half grateful for the bounty she has received. Means must there- fore be sought to reduce the number of ap- plicants, and to confine their privileges to those who really need the kind of care an institution gives. Also, greater consideration is required in order to care properly for those who remain outside." Mrs. Lowell writes succinctly on this subject: — We are constantly coming on chronic cases, so to speak, — old, or permanently sick, people who can never hope to earn a living. The only thing to be done for such (unless we simply pass them by, as perhaps in the early stages of our work we must) is to provide for them permanent relief of one kind or another, — cither put them into a suitable institution, or secure from indi- viduals such regular relief as will place them above the need of casual help, and then see to it that they do not beg. The following suggestions for the better care of the aged are contributed by a thought- ful friend and fellow-worker : — Care of the Aged. 75 1st. By patient study of each individual, and by ingenious experiment of one plan after another, some fit occupation can often be found which shall bring both happiness and profit. Peggy O'Hara's story illustrates this. 2d. If unable to earn enough for full sup- port, the relatives should be sought out, and persuaded to bear the burden, as in Peter Church's case. 3d. If both work and relatives fail, who shall care for this worn-out soul ? — we as indi- viduals and friends (to make the end of life peaceful and content for one who has done well his part in the world's work), or we as a body polity, giving the bare necessaries of life to one whose destitute condition is a symptom of disease ? To answer this question wisely, a knowledge of the past life is necessary. If opportunities of saving have been thought- lessly passed by, if intemperance or vice has been allowed control, neither pleasant man- ners nor the most pathetic pleading should > prevent our seeing that to help such a person encourages improvidence, intemperance, and vice in others. If relatives who ought to aid will not do so, they should be made to feel that, because of their negligence, the disgrace of becoming a pauper falls upon their kin. j 6 How to Help the Poor Aid must therefore come from us as a body polity to protect the community from people infected with moral disease. Such cases should be aided only in the almshouse. Pri- vate charity does not do its full part while any other than almshouse cases are allowed to fall into the care of the city authorities. If, on the other hand, savings have been swept away by misfortune, or slowly eaten up by long sickness ; if, in short, no serious fault is behind the poverty that has fallen like a blight upon old age, — we ought to be proud and glad to share our abundance with these stricken ones; and those who have been em- ployers or known the aged people well in any relation of life ought to have the first claim to this privilege of doing good. If to a stranger first comes the knowledge of the need, be it his grateful duty to seek out the old friends. If none can be found, private benevolence must see that the sum necessary for comfort is regularly given. Let not a week of plenty be followed by weeks of semi-starvation, be- cause we will not take the trouble to make our relief regular and adequate. What can be done to prevent old people from becoming dependent upon strangers ? We can encourage thrift, and foster family Care of the Aged. 77 affection and the sense of responsibility in children for their parents, in brothers for their sisters ; and, at least with every appli- cant for our charity, and often in counsel with those we know in other relations, we can use our forethought to make sure that as many as possible are put in the way of providing not only money, but friends, for their own old age. How many women left stranded at forty, who have bravely made their way alone, might have been saved the unhappiness and need into which they fall in extreme age, if into the empty heart some other lonely ones had been taken, and a new home, where all worked together, could have been made ! VI. INVESTIGATION. The science of investigation is only half understood by those who believe in it, and only half believed in by the world in general. " I like his looks " must always be a strong argument, because character carves and sculptures itself on the human face in un- mistakable lines ; but, in order to learn whether the original value of a face has been raised or degraded by the will behind it, which we call character, is a knowledge no one can get with surety at first sight or with- out study. The cry, " What in the world can we do for these people ? " comes often to the ear, if not to our own lips. Perhaps we find a family far too respectable for the almshouse, but who seem to be of no use, and, as it were, born without the power to stand alone. What can be done, indeed ? It is a brave heart, and one of much re- Investigation. 79 source, which does not sometimes fa'l before the need of these helpless creatures. We wonder why the)' were born, and why they are here in the tumult of city life to be run over by the tide of busy feet. It seems to be the theory of some saintly souls that many people are created incapable, simply as a cross and ladder for martyrs into heaven ; and, doubt- less, a few may remain for the edification and purification of their stronger-shouldered brethren ; but experience shows this percent- age to be a very small one, — so small that, as our opportunities for observation widen, we come to believe that every human being can do something, if he have a chance, and is in- tended to fill some gap in the universal plan. In order to find this gap and to understand what a man can do who has fallen by the way and failed to find his proper place, we must first acquire some knowledge of his per- sonal and inherited character. Such knowledge can only be obtained by careful searching and inquiry by a skilful person. Volunteer committees may occasion- ally be able to do this ; but we have only to see how difficult ladies usually find the busi- ness of obtaining proper knowledge of the servants they engage, to understand how 80 How to Help the Poor. unfit volunteers often are for this business. Miss Octavia Hill says : " We cannot work wisely without full knowledge of the circum- stances of those to be dealt with, — hence, the necessity of investigation. ... A great deal of the preliminary work is quickly and well done by an experienced person, which it would be difficult for a volunteer to do ; neither is it a sort of work which it is worth while for a volunteer to undertake. I refer to verifying statements as to residence, earnings, employ- ment, visiting references and employers. The finishing touches of investigation, the little personal facts, the desires and hopes, and, to a certain extent, the capacities of the appli- cant, no doubt a volunteer visitor could learn more thoroughly ; but that can always be done separately from the preliminary and more formal inquiry." The following little story will illustrate better the uses of investigation than can be done by any mere description of methods : — In describing the benefactions and perplex- ities of Mrs. X., the reader will remember that a paper was brought to her door by a man who had fallen down a hatchway some time before, and had been assisted by the mayor and other prominent citizens, who had Investigation. 81 *VS given him a paper to show, with their names appended, and the amount of their subscrip- tions set down. Mrs. X. carried the name and address of this man to the agent of a district near his abode, and asked to have the case examined. It was found that the accident had occurred ten years previous to his application to her, and that he had become perfectly able to work ; but the subscription method of exist- ence had proved so satisfactory that it was continued in preference to returning to hard work. None of the gentlemen who signed the paper in behalf of the supposed disabled man had ever looked into the case. When, at last, the visitor of the Associated Charities took the trouble to do so, the man was found totally unworthy. He had certainly injured himself at one time, but nobody had looked up the date, and the mayor who headed the paper had been out of office twelve years. Another history of a different character may also be of use in illustrating the necessity for close observation and scrutiny in order really to help the unfortunate to any permanent good. One of the appeals to Mrs. X., you remem- ber, was from a woman in Lowell who wished 82 How to Help the Poor. to have the interest paid on a mortgage. It was discovered, after a while, by a friend to whom she applied and who took the trouble to look into the subject, that the house was worth something above the mortgage, and it would be wiser to sell. One thousand dollars was the result of the sale, which money was invested in a small, comfortable dwelling suf- ficient for the woman and her children and one boarder. They had no debts, the boarder helped to pay running expenses, and the two eldest children began to earn something. By this timely care given to their business, the woman was not only rescued from the position of a beggar, and several hundred dollars thus saved every year, which she had begged for ten years regularly to pay the mortgage, but she was delivered from anxiety, and her chil- dren felt an honest pride in keeping an inde- pendent roof over their heads. In one of the first papers published in America upon a better way of helping the poor, wherein the methods so generally adopted since are admirably described by Mrs. Ames, she says : " Wherein does our method differ from others whose machinery is much after the same pattern ? Chiefly in the spirit of its administration. ... It not only Investigation. 83 requires that every case shall be carefully investigated, — it makes that investigation the main feature in the proceedings ; it creates for the community something equivalent to a court or tribunal, whichgputs each case on trial, looks up the evidence, and seeks to guide its de- cision by some intelligent principle of reason which has the moral force of law. It assumes that a request for help is not in itself a ground for bestowing it, any more than a complaint lodged in a Court of Common Pleas is ground for giving a verdict to the plaintiff. ... It is made certain that the amount of helpless de- pendence can constantly be lessened by the careful painstaking and judicial administration of local charity." The result of failure to investigate is seen every day. The impossibility of finding good positions for persons who are not known, and the mistakes in placing those who are only half understood, sometimes makes us feel that knowledge of character underlies all success, and failure to obtain such knowledge is the best reason for want of success. In order to give some idea of the far-reach- ing nature of true investigation, the following history will be of interest : — One day, a lad about fifteen years old called 84 How to Help the Poor. at a gentleman's office down town, asking for help to start in the business of selling news- papers. He was originally from England, but was just then recovering from a hurt in the heel received while running an elevator in Chicago. The gentleman, who was a believer in the endeavors and a visitor of the Asso- ciated Charities, asked one of the agents to investigate and report to him, when he would gladly give some assistance if it were thought wise. Letters were sent accordingly to Eng- land through the Charity Organization Society, as well as to Chicago and Philadelphia, the addresses in the latter cities being furnished by the lad himself. Meantime, another kind of employment was offered him, which he accepted ; but he failed to appear at the ap- pointed time. Also, the address in Philadel- phia was a false one; but the record from Chicago was good, although it covered only the one month preceding his accident. From the London Charity Organization Society, we learned that the lad's story was altogether untrue. He has a mania for running away and leading a vagrant life. In vain have his parents advertised for him. They are far from being dead, as he says, on the contrary, they wish to send money for his return to them. Investigation. 85 They are respectable working-people, and full of grief because of their prodigal son. While we were waiting for these letters, the lad disappeared. He was heard of once, with his leg bound up, begging at a lady's door, who gave him money. The police were no- tified as soon as we received the information ; and it is to be hoped that the knowledge of his case will spread abroad widely enough to cause him to be brought into a better way of life. The plan of action agreed upon by the con- ference, into whose care the case fell, was as follows : The police were requested to arrest the boy as a vagrant, and hold him while the information should be sent to the office of that conference. An effort will then be made to have him placed, by the judge of the court, "on probation," until fitting employment may be found for him, either on a training ship, or by sending him to sea. His vagrant propen- sities seem to preclude the possibility of any success either in sending him home, which has already been tried, or finding employment for him on land. This case is at present un- finished, certainly ; but the first step has been taken, by means of information obtained from his parents through the Charity Organization 86 How to Help the Poor. Society of London, for rescuing the lad from a life of continued deceit and crime. " The crime of begging," as Edward Denison says, "does not consist in the mere solicitation of alms. The gist of the offence is the intention of preying upon society ; and of this intent the asking alms is only evidence, — not proof." In a valuable paper lately printed by Mrs. Lowell on the subject of " Duties of Friendly Visitors," she remarks : — One very important point for a visitor to aim at is to find out all about the man of the family, where there is one. Charities and charitable people are too prone to deal exclusively with the woman, accepting her state- ment that the man is looking for work. Now, perhaps he is, and perhaps he is not ; but the facts should be fully established, — ist, that he has no work; 2d, that he would be glad to get it. The man and the woman should be seen and advised with together in regard to their present condition and future plans. Where there is a real desire to help themselves, the man will be ready to accept his proper place as head of the family, responsible for its support ; and, where he keeps out of the way and lets his wife do the running and the beg- ging, the visitor may well suspect that all is not as it should be. This is excellent, but now and then we find the trouble lies in the other direction. Within the past six months, two cases have come before one committee where the incom- Investigation. 87 petence and inertness of the women have chiefly caused the degradation and shipwreck of their large families. The first is the case of a woman, her brother, and five children, who never asked any help, but who were found by a friendly visitor one day this spring while searching for another family. This company of seven per- sons had been almost entirely supported for many months by the labor of the two eldest children, fourteen and sixteen years old. Their clothes were worn out. The tenement where they lived was dark and dirty, and despair seemed to be settling down upon the place. It was discovered that the father had gone to the far West two or three years ago, and made a home there. He earned the first year about two hundred dollars, which he sent to his wife, asking her to come to him and bring the children. Her mother was then living, who did not wish to go ; therefore they spent the money, and lingered until in a few months the old woman died. He could not send any more money on account of plans he had made to prepare a comfortable home for their reception. A letter was sent west- ward immediately to corroborate the story. It was not only found to be true, but kind 88 How to Help the Poor. neighbors offered to send fifty dollars in order to bring out the two eldest children. Although this was clearly impossible, these children being the chief bread-winners for the family, an offer was made to raise the rest of the sum here, if the whole party could be re- ceived with reasonable hope of employment. After a brief delay, a good woman came from the West with the fifty dollars in her hand; the remainder was raised in Boston ; and the party soon left with lunch-baskets and decent clothes, full of hope for this new life in the West. But the mother has been difficult to manage ; and, except for the enthusiasm of the children, would have preferred to waste and languish in the poverty and filth of her miserable abode. Except for her fear and incompetence, the whole family might have gone with the two hundred dollars sent so long ago, and her poor children would have been spared much suffering and degradation. Very like this is the history of another family with a mother who was suddenly left a widow with nine children. They were becom- ing utterly dependent in the city ; but a place was found for them in a factory town, where they had a clean, airy tenement (a beautiful contrast to their wretched abode in Boston), Investigation. 89 and, what was, for them, a large income. But the mother's total incapacity either to cook a dinner or to buy it properly, or, what was far more important, to train her children, led them into debt. Suddenly, we heard, to our despair, that they had returned to Boston. Their going had given cause to hope for a good future for the children, and their benevolent friends rejoiced in giving them everything for their comfort which could be thought of. Therefore, to find them once more crowded into a wretched hole at the North End and asking alms was indeed a disappointment. A council was held upon the case ; and it was decided that the only hope was in a factory town, and that we must send them off again elsewhere. But how to do it? They could not absolutely be compelled : therefore, what measures could be adopted ? We found there were two reasons for their wishing to re- main in the city : first, the eldest girl, who was getting beyond all restraint, wished to be in town ; second, the mother thought she could get relief from public and private sources.. These, then, were the two points of attack; and it was thought well to try both at once. A wise, sweet woman, who has a gift for in- 90 H(nv to Help the root: fluencing young girls, was persuaded to tiy the first. At the same moment, all the relief societies were asked to withhold assistance, in spite of the fact that the family really was hungry. The generous visitor who had in previous years exhausted her substance upon this family was told that it was not necessary to visit them again just then, because we hoped to get them off shortly, and we would gladly call upon her for assistance, if any were required, but it seemed better that none should be given just then. , The result was unexpectedly successful. The kind friend who had taken the girl in hand was surprised at finding her at last amenable to her advice ; and, in a week or two, the family was once more on the road, — this time outside the State lines, — and we hear that they are doing well. They pleaded for clothes and comforts for this their second journey ; but we were afraid to trust them, and they went in their old clothes. The result is better than we feared. Every day they seem to be improving. The clergyman of the town, who was written to by the girl's friend, goes to see them, and is satisfied with their con- dition. These stories, drawn from late experience, Investigation. •