THE MOTHER & HER CHILDREN, OR TWILIGHT CONVERSATION. bV ABIGAIL MOTT. ‘‘In the mo.ning sow thy seed, and in tiie evening with hold not tir hand : for thou knowest not whether shall pros per, eithe is or that or whether they both shall be alike good.” Jesiastes, xi. 6. Krto=¥or!t: PRINTED AND SOLD BY MAIILON DA.Y, NO. 376 7 PE AKL-STaE ET, lfcse. iifcroytouseurr fl T' iFrottttsptm, THE MOTHER AJVO HER ClilEHREN, Oil TWILIGHT CONVERSATION. ABIGAIL,' u In the morning sow thy seed, and in the evening with hand: for thou kuowest not whether shall pros- shall be alike TED BY MAHLON DAY ? NO. 376, PEARL-STREET . HCC2. TWILIGHT CONVERSATION. William. It is now near dusk, and before the lamps are lighted, why may we not have a little pleasant conver¬ sation? Mother. It is a very suitable time: now all is quiet, and before we begin our evening work. Eliza. What shall we talk about? Mother. It makes but little differ¬ ence, my dear children, what we be¬ gin with: if the object be for improve¬ ment, we may make as long a story as we please from a small beginning. A small seed will produce a large plant, and a little nut a great tree, if the soil is good. William. Let us begin then, with Gustavus Vassa’s three pence. Maria. What can we make of that ? 3 I never have heard any tiling about it; who is Gustavus Vassa? William. He was an African, and stolen from his parents when he was about seven years old, carried to the West Indies, and sold several times, like a great many of his country folks; but he at last had a kind master, who told Gustavus when he could get as much money as had been given for him, and would let him have it, he should be free. The three pence, 1 suppose, was given to him for some¬ thing he had done. By trading with that little, he got more, and so oh, un¬ til by great industry and prudence, he got money enough, paid it to his master, and became free. Mother. Here we have one striking instance already, of what a small be¬ ginning will do. Eliza. And what did he do, when he was free ? m William , He went to sea for many years, and suffered a great deal, in many ways. When he was about forty years old, he gave that up, and wrote a history of his life, which was printed; and by reading that,l learned what I have just told you. Eliza. Going to sea is very danger¬ ous business I believe, is it not? Richard. There are a great many vessels lost at sea, and sometimes all the people on board are drowned. But I remember reading in the book William has just mentioned, that when Gustavus was in the ship Nancy, she got on the Bahama banks, and the sailors all got into the little boats, and landed on an island; but when they came near the shore, they saw some creatures walking on the beach, and they were afraid they were Canni¬ bals; but being birds they soon spread 6 their wings and flew away, for they were only flamingos. Maria. What are Cannibals ? Mother. They are a fierce barba¬ rous kind of people, who, when they kill those they dislike, sometimes eat them. It was not far from where the Nancy was lost, that a vessel, many years ago, in coming from the West Indies, with a number of passengers on board, was cast away. The peo¬ ple got on shore in East Florida, which now belongs to the United States, though then it was inhabited by Cannibals, who treated them very cruelly. One of the passengers speak¬ ing the Spanish language, and the Cannibals being afraid of the Span¬ iards, they did not kill them. In the company, there was an old man named Robert Barrow, and also Jonathan Dickinson, his wife, and a baby only a few months old, and several black / 7 people, beside the sailors. The Can¬ nibals having taken nearly all their clothes, and the weather becoming cold, they suffered very much for want of food and clothing in travel¬ ing a great distance on foot, and the negroes mostly died with cold and hunger on the journey. Maria. Did the old man or the baby die ? Mother. Not then. Several of the company, after travelling and suffer¬ ing greatly for many weeks, reached St. Augustine, where they met with kind treatment from the Spaniards; were provided with clothes, and sent in a vessel to Philadelphia, where Robert Barrow soon after died ; Jon- 'athan Dickinson went with his wife and child to Long-Island, where Thomas Chalkley, from Pennsylva¬ nia, mentions attending his funeral in 1727, just a century ago. The baby 8 lived to be a man, but 1 don’t know how old a one. Eliza. What birds were those that Gustavus Vassa and his companions saw, that, they were so much afraid of. William. They were Flamingos. A tall bird, with long legs and necks, and their plumage being red, they thought they were men with red coats on. Maria. What is plumage ? William. It is feathers. What a bird is covered with, is called its plumage. Eliza. Where those people trav¬ elled, and suffered so much with cold, were there any Bears ? Mother. Not that I know of. Bears generally live further north. In Green¬ land there are a great many Bears; some of them are black, and some are white. They sometimesget on cakes of ice which float away with them. If the 9 ice goes into the ocean they must be drowned or starve to death. When it goes to some other shore, they get off There has been many instances of their going quite to Iceland on cakes of ice. Maria. How large are the cakes of ice ? William. They are of different si¬ zes. I think Guthrie, in his Geogra¬ phy, says that some of them are more than a mile in length, and upwards of a hundred feet in thickness: and that the Dutch had thirteen ships crushed to pieces with them in one season, off the coast of Greenland : I suppose they were there after whales or some other fish. Eliza. That is wonderful! they must be a great while making, or the weather agreat deal colder there than it is here. Mother. In those northern regions 10 it is so cold that the ice never all melts. When some of it melts, and the water runs on that which is not melted, and freezes again, it makes the cakes thicker. And when there comes a heavy storm, or milder weather, some of them break loose and float away. Richard. Such great cakes of ice must be very dangerous, if vessels come near them, even when they are out on the ocean. William. Yes, a great many ships are injured by them, and some quite lost. There was a very fine new ship called the Liverpool, which sailed from New-York in the summer of 1822, with a number of passengers on board. When they had been out about ten days, the weather being foggy, a cake of ice came very hard against the ship, and broke her side, so that the people were all obliged 11 to get into the small boats as quickly as they could, without taking any thing with them but a little provision; and the ship sunk almost immediate¬ ly. They being in all thirty-six per¬ sons, steering their course for Nova- Scotia, and it being then fine weather, they arrived safely in seven days. Maria. Did they stay in Nova-Sco- tia ? William. No. Captain Lee, with his sailors, and some of the passen¬ gers, came back to New-York. The others went to England in another vessel. Richard. Iceland,! suppose is called so, because it is such cold weather there. How far is it from Greenland, that the Bears could go to it on the ice ? Mother. Iceland is an island north ol Ireland, but not so far north as Greenland; they are a considerable 12 distance from each other, but those large mountains of ice float a great way sometimes. The most particu* lar account we have of Iceland, was published by E. Henderson, an Eng¬ lishman, who visited it in 1814, and stayed about fifteen months; in which time he travelled almost over the whole island. Richard. How did he do to travel, if it is so cold there ? Mother. He arrived the fore part of one summer, and stayed until the latter part of the next: so that he was two summers and one winter on the island. When it is winter they have so much snow, and the weather is so very cold, that they are obliged to stay at home. The houses for their cows and sheep are very near to those the people live in. Eliza. Their cows give them milk, I suppose; and the wool of their 13 sheep makes their clothes: do they weave their cloth? Mother. Not much of it. They knit most of their clothing. In long winter evenings the men knit as well as the women. Richard. Do they raise indian corn or wheat there ? Mother. No, their summers are loo short lor such grain. They have a wild grain that looks a little like our oats, which they gather, as they also do the moss that grows on the rocks and on the ground. For their winter food, they catch some fish, and wild ducks, and dry them. The ducks are very fat, and have fine feathers like down, which is called ederdown. The women and children all help in sum¬ mer, to gather what they can for winter. Richard. Is it a smooth country ? Mother. No, it is very mountainous, and the travelling difficult even in B 14 summer. There are several volca¬ noes on the island ; the most noted one, called Hecla, is on the south side of it. m SECOND EVENING. — Eliza. I think when we were talk¬ ing last evening about Iceland, Mother said the people there gathered moss to eat. Maria. Eat moss! that I think must V be very poor eating. Mother. The Iceland* moss is very nourishing. Some of it is brought to America and sold by the apotheca¬ ries. It is used for persons who have been very much reduced by sick¬ ness. By boiling it in water several hours it becomes like jelly; when the liquor is strained through a cloth, and milk and sugar put with it, as we do in coffee or chocolate, it makes a very wholesome drink. William. I suppose it is the same 16 > kind of moss that the reindeer in Lapland live upon, which they get by digging through the snow. Its having so much nourishment in it, a little keeps them alive in winter. Richard. It must be very difficult, in Iceland, for children to get to school in winter, how do they do then? Mother. They have not many pub¬ lic schools. Henderson said there was but one on the island, and that one was for teaching such young men as were to be employed in state af¬ fairs, and public offices. Mothers teach their children, and those they have under their care to read, as soon as they are capable of it. And the father instructs them in such other branches of learning as he wishes them to acquire. In this way, not only their own children, but even their little servant girls get very good learning. 17 Eliza, How clover that is, to learn those poor children. When they get to be women, then they can teach their own children. ' William. Yes, if every body would do so, we should not have so many ignorant folks as we now have. It sometimes happens that tw'o persons marry who do not either of them know how to read ; and then if they get a letter from a friend, they are obliged to wait until they can get somebody to read it for them. They are very much to be pitied, for there is great satisfaction in reading good books, and exchanging letters with our ab¬ sent friends. Of this pleasure such are almost deprived. Mother. They are so. I recollect to have heard a woman say, that when she received a letter from her daugh¬ ter who resided at a distance from her, she was obliged to wait some- 18 times all day for her husband to re¬ turn home before she could know what it contained ; and added, “ I am now very sorry 1 did not learn when I was a big girl and lived with you, and you so kindly offered to instruct me. But I was so naughty, I have often wondered ho»v you could have so much patience with me as you had.” Richard. What a pity it is, that when people have an opportunity, they are not willing to learn. If they are large, they might learn the better for that. Mother. There is too much of what may be called false shame in the world. Many of those who are igno¬ rant, are not so much ashamed oi being so, as they are that it should be known; and by this means they re¬ main ignorant all their days: whereas if they were only desirous of learning, they could generally find some one 19 1 willing lo instruct them. There is one thing that sometimes occasions very unpleasant feelings to persons of limited education; that is, when they are requested to sign their name as a witness, and are obliged to ac¬ knowledge they can only make a mark for it. I wish every one so cir¬ cumstanced, would be convinced by the experiment, how soon this diffi¬ culty may be remedied by having their name written on a piece of pa¬ per, or a slate, and copying it. In this way many persons have learned to write their names intelligibly in a few hours. There was a school taught several years by young women, in New-York, on purpose for women of , colour; and a number who were quite aged learned to read, and were very much pleased when they could read the Bible for themselves. 20 Marin. How clever that was : did they go every day ? Mother. No, tlxey only went once or twice in a week: they could not be spared from their business to go oftener. It is probable they studied when they had leisui'e at home, and that the children or mistress of the family where they lived, heard them say their lessons. Dont you remem¬ ber my telling you of a good little boy named William, who was so fond of a book that he learned all the large letters before he was two years old ? When he was a little older, he w ould stand by his mother and say his les¬ son, while she was at her work, or nursing her baby. Richard. I think he must have been a very nice little boy. Mother. He was indeed. When he was about four years old, there came 21 a black man to live in the family, who seeing how easy it was for William to learn, asked the child to learn him: he replied, “ I dont know much myself, but I am willing to learn thee, as fast as my dear mother learns me.” When evening came, the man would take William on his knee and say his les¬ son to him, and they both appeared to enjoy these opportunities very much; but it was not long before the dear little boy was taken sick and died. Eliza. How sorry it makes me feel that such a good little boy must die ; when he was so kind too in learning the poor-black man his lesson. Maria. Mother, what is dying? 1 know they put folks in the ground when they are dead. Mother, it is ceasing to breathe, and becoming insensible to every thing around us, so that we cannot r 22 see, nor feel any more than those dolls you play with. William. But there is a part of us that cannot die; that is spirit. Mother. Yes, my dear, that’s right, and when the body dies, the spirit goes to God who gave it, and if we have been good, and minded what he has made known to us to be right, He will let us live with Him for ever: for as William said, the spirit never dies. Richard. We read in the Testament what Christ said about those who did right, and those who did wrong. I often think of that about the rich man, who had so many nice things, and lived so high every day, and poor Lazarus, who was so full of sores that he could not work, and was obliged to beg even for something to eat. But though he suffered so much in this world, when he died he was a great 23 deal better off than the rich man. I suppose he was very patient, and bore his many trials without murmuring, while the rich man was feasting, and perhaps keeping bad company. William. How necessary it is we should be kind to the poor too; es¬ pecially those who are sick, or lame, or old, and can’t take care of them¬ selves. 1 think that passage about feeding the hungry, clothing the na¬ ked, and visiting the sick, is also one that we ought to keep in mind, if we wish for happiness in the discharge of our duty. Mother. Those ideas are very cor¬ rect, and it ought to be done season¬ ably too. I well recollect a circum¬ stance that occurred in New-York a few years since. A poor man was very sick, and had been so for a long time, and his wile could not work to earn any thing. She sat down by his 24 bed-side and wept, for they were strangers in the city, and it seemed to her as if they must suffer and die to¬ gether. A person hearing of their situation, sent a little girl with some provision, who got to the house just at the time the poor woman was bemoan¬ ing their sad and destitute condition. Eliza. How comfortable that must have been to them. I think I should be willing to spare part of my own dinner in such a case. Maria. And did the little girl go again to see them ? Mother. Yes, she went a great many times ; and sometimes when she went to the house, the sick man would call her a little angel for bringing him food, and being so kind to him, though he could eat but very little at a time. And it is not only comfortable to the sick, but to the person who sends it also; for by attending to what we be- 25 lieve to be right, our own happiness is increased, while it relieves those in distress. So that those who give, and those who receive, are made to rejoice together. William. I think it is very proper for children to do such errands; it gives us an opportunity of seeing how poor folks live, and we shall be like¬ ly to have more thought about them, and feel more tenderly for them. And when we are at home where we have plenty, we shall not be disposed to waste, or throw away any thing that would be useful to the poor. C • 3 '■ ' •' : ■ • - ' : 4 . j ->i! i ; ‘ * * 53 . m THIRD EVENING. Richard. Now we have such a com¬ fortable fire and every thing is so quiet, 1 should like very much to have an¬ other hour’s chat. Eliza. I too, and should like to hear more about those White Bears. I thought Bears were all black; for people frequently say, that a black hog or dog, is as black as a Bear. Mother. Animals, and birds too, are generally of a lighter colour, and larger size toward the north pole, where the weather is very cold. The White Bear of Greenland is consider¬ ably larger than the Black Bear of Canada; and their hair is thicker: but as they live on seals and fish mostly, their flesh has a very unplea- 28 sant taste to those who are not ac¬ customed to eating it. Maria. Do folks eat Bears? I don’t think I should like to eat such ugly looking creatures. William. Oh yes, many people are fond of the Black Bear’s meat. I never saw any of it, but 1 have heard that it looks and tastes very much like coarse beef. Their skins are often seen on the backs of sleighs, in winter, and look very comfortable. The newspapers frequently tell us of peo¬ ple killing them in this state; but they sometimes have hard work to do it; for a Bear will fight dreadfully; es¬ pecially when wounded, or when he is Very hungry. Eliza. How do birds do to live in such cold countries ? Mother. They, like the beasts are covered with thick coats; particular¬ ly those which remain there during 29 the winter. The wild geese that we see going north, in the spring, stay there through the summer, and rear their young ones. When Autumn comes they go in flocks to the south, for warmer weather. In the summer of 1825, there Was a very large owl killed near Burling¬ ton, New-J ersey. It was sitting in the fork of a tree, and supposed to be wearied with its long journey, and to have fallen asleep. Its body and legs were covered with a thick coat of feathers and down, almost as white as a swan. Its plumage not being injured by the shot, it was sent to Philadelphia, put in a state of preser¬ vation, and placed on a pedestal in a glass case, and makes a noble ap¬ pearance. From its colour and size, and the thickness of its coat, it is sup¬ posed to have come from very far north.—Our owls are generally grey, and of a much smaller size. Richard. That one whose wing was broken, and put into our garden to Catch moles arid mice, was about as big as a large hen ; but his eyes were ltiore like a cat, and when he turned them about he looked almost fright¬ ful. I don’t know that I ever heard one, but people say they make a very disagreeable noise in the night, when they are awake, and looking for some¬ thing to eat. William. I read a story in a Penn¬ sylvania newspaper, the other day about two hawks. A farmer hearing an unusual noise in the air, looked up and saw two hawks fighting, they Were over a creek, and being so clenched that they could not fly, they both fell in the water together; when the farmer taking a club and wading in, killed them. Eliza. I have heard of little birds fighting too. And that when a hawk 31 saw them, he would dart down upon them and carry them both away. Maria. They had better all been quiet. Richard. Yes, indeed, for fighting is bad business, and generally ends in wounds and distress, if nothing worse. Mother. Eagles are not very nume¬ rous in this country, though there has been several killed lately, one in New- Jersey, one near Croton River, and another in Connecticut. Richard. And there was an account the other day in the paper, of a woman killing a large one with a stick. He was among the poultry; and she did not know that it was an eagle until she had killed it. They are often seven or eight feet from the tip of one wing to that of the other. William. In cold mountainous coun¬ tries eagles are plenty. They carry oflf lambs and hares ; and there has 32 f been several instances of their taking away little children: but the child ren were got back without being much hurt. Maria. How dreadful! to be car¬ ried by eagles, flying away through the air so high up. How did they get the children back ? Richard. Those men who saw the eagles take the children, followed them to their nests and got them away. William. They let the men have the children; but if they had taken one of their young ones they would have fought them very hard. Persons have been killed by attempting it. Eliza. They must be very strong indeed, and have big claws. Mother. They are so; but. the Con¬ dor is said to be the largest bird that flies. There was one brought from Upper Peru, South America, to Troy 33 1 in this state, in 1825, being about six months old. From its beak to the end of its tail was three and a halt feet,^ and when it stood erect, was about three feet high. When the wings were spread, from the tip of one to that of the other, was supposed to be nearly twelve feet. The wing feath¬ ers of the old ones are more than two feet long, and of a shining black ; but those on the body are brown. Maria. I like the little birds we have better than I do those large ones* When they come for cherries in the summer, they give us a merry song for pay, and 1 love to see them carry¬ ing straws to build their nests. They lay pretty eggs, and set on them un¬ til they hatch young ones, and so kindly take care of them too: just like a good mother. There are the chickens, ducks and goslins too run¬ ning about. 34 Eliza. Yes, and in summer we have pretty sweet flowers for the humming birds; they love the honeysuckle at evening when it just opens. The pinks and jasamine, with many other flowers, they visit and suck honey from in the day time. Their nest is very curious, and looks as if it was made of cotton worked firmly to¬ gether, and is about as big as half a hen’s egg. •Mother. A few years ago there was a family living in Connecticut, who had a fine honeysuckle in front of the house, and a little bird came and built a nest in its branches. The kind people fed it while it was setting, and it became quite tame. And after the young ones were big enough to fly, they would come around the door, and the old one frequently came into the house. The next summer she came again, and reared her young 35 r ones, when they would alt come into the house, hop about on the carpet, and eat out of the girl’s hands. When they went to the door and called chip, chip, the birds would come as quickly as chickens. I do not re¬ member how many seasons the old one came, but she has not been seen for several years past. Maria. Then I’m afraid she is dead! did’nt the cat catch some of them ? Mother. They did not keep a cat. I ^ The mother and daughters were so fond of the birds, they were willing to do without a cat. Eliza. I should like the birds in summer, and the cat in winter. See there how sweetly Minny sleeps on the rug, and how clean she looks ; but she don’t know we are talking about her. William. And don’t you remember how Maria rejoiced when she found ! Ketura had a live kitten in the bar¬ rel. I think she was much better pleased with it than some folks are when they find a live baby. Richard. I read in the newspaper the other day, about a Mocking-bird that was put in a cage when it was very young, and when the folks opened the door it would come out, and fly about a while, and then go in again; but one day it went off When the weather grew cool, there was a little bird seen several times sitting on a wall before the door, and one of the children going near to look at it, it came down to him, and he took it into the house; and when they open¬ ed the cage door he went in and seemed pleased with getting to his old home; and then they knew it must be the same bird they had in the spring. William . We geta great deal of in- 37 formation from the newspapers, but we were speaking about the flowers a little while ago. How curious it is, that from a small seed, or plant, put into the brown earth, there should come such beautiful flowers, of so many colours, and smell so sweet as some of them do. Richard. We could not make one real flower if we were to try ever so long. Those artificial ones, we see at the milliners’ shops, look natural, but they have no sweetness in them. Mother. Yes, my dear children, the flowers of the field and the garden are some of the wonders, as well as the beauties of creation, and speak a hand divine. 4 ' • ■ . FOURTH EVENING. «««» Eliza. The fire is beginning to shine upon the wall, and it tells us it is almost night. See how the sparks fly upwards : other things fall down¬ wards. William. Yes, the air and smoke carry them up the chimney, and some¬ times quite out at the top. When the soot in the chimney catches fire, what a blaze it makes. Richard. I have seen chimneys on fire in New-York: they blaze and smoke very much, and sometimes the sparks fall on the roofs of the houses and set them on fire. Then the bells ring, and the boys cry fire! fire! and out comes the engines, and away they go. 40 Mother. This shows how necessary it is to keep chimneys clean, and how dangerous a thing fire is, when it gets out of its proper place. Maria. But fire is very good to keep us warm in cold weather, and to cook our food. William. It is so, but we must keep a proper distance from it even then; for many a child has been burned to death by its clothes taking fire, and some women too: we read of many such instances in the newspapers. Eliza. I have heard that vrhen A. B. M. was a little girl, she was one day with her brothers, where they had a fire out of doors, and she went so near that it caught her calico frock; and as she ran towards the house, the woman who lived with them met her and tried to put it out, but could not until she had thrown a pail of water on her, and that saved 41 her life; but she was badly burned, and very sore. And Rebecca Jack- son, a little black girl, was, one morn¬ ing early, reaching after something on the shelf over the fire, when it caught to her clothes, and she was dreadfully burned before any person could get into the room to help her. She suf¬ fered a great deal before she died. Mother. People who wear cotton clothes should be very careful when they are about the fire, and little children should never be dressed in them in winter. Hot water is a very dangerous thing too, for many chil¬ dren are scalded to death with it. William. We not only read in the papers about people’s clothes taking fire, and children being scalded to death, but we frequently hear about parents’ going from home and leaving their little children alone, and the house and children being all burned 4# 42 up together; how dreadful that is! There was such a circumstance at Grafton, in Massachusetts, last win¬ ter; when four children, the oldest about ten years old, perished in this way. The father and mother were both absent, and returned only in time to see their dwelling in flames, and the bodies of their poor children burnt to a cinder. Mother. In looking over some news¬ papers the other day, 1 found several such instances which had happened since the beginning of the present year, 1827. Maria. I think people must want to go a visiting very much indeed, to leave their little children alone, shut up in the house. Richard. Sometimes poor women are obliged to go of errands and leave their children. Eliza. It looks as if they stayed a 43 great while, for the house to be burnt up before they got back. Mother. There is another thing that requires a great deal of care. That is not to eat any thing without know¬ ing what it is. William. It does: there has been many children poisoned to death by eating roots and berries, when they have been wandering about the fields. I believe we read in the Bible too, about the Prophet’s servant gather¬ ing something and putting it into the pot without knowing what it was; and when the people were going to eat, one of them said there was death in the pot; meaning there was some¬ thing poison in it. Mother. It was so; but the Prophet Elisha being present, he put fome meal into the pot that destroyed the poison, and then they could eat it, and it did not hurt them. 44 Richard. How clever it was that they found it out so soon, and that Elisha w r as there, and knew what to put in to make it good. Eliza. Was it not Elisha that the naughty children ran after when he was going up to Bethel? William,. It was; and when they mocked him, and said “ Go up thou bald head! go up thou bald head !” there came two great bears out of the woods, and killed forty-two of them. Maria. How dreadful to be torn to pieces by the bears ! It makes me feel cold to think of it. It was because they were wicked, I suppose. Richard. It is very improper and rude to run after any body, and call them names, let them be ever so bad ; but Elisha was a good man; therefore it was a very wicked thing indeed to treat him so, when he was going qui¬ etly along. 45 Mother. If they had spoken kindly to him, as they ought to have done, he would have blessed them, and told them how to be good, and then they might have lived and been happy with their parents, and not have been killed as they were. Maria. Were they all had children ? Mother. If they were not all very bad, they were in the company of bad children. And by being so, they suf¬ fered with the bad ones. It is a com¬ mon thing, when children are caught with those who are bad, for them to be beaten as much as any. This shows how much better it is, to keep out of their company. Richard. Yes; and when we see boys doing tricks that we know are not good, it is much the safest way to leave them as soon as we can. William. Some boys are so ugly they run away, and wander about 46 irom place to place, and give their friends a great deal of trouble: but they generally find things so different from what they expected, they are glad to get home again. Mother. But there are also some poor children, who are not taken care of by their parents as they ought to be. I will read you a story, when the lamps are lighted, that 1 took out of the Commercial Advertiser, in 1821, about a poor little boy. THE STORY OF DE GRASS GRIFFIN. JYew-York, 1st mo. 182/. Yesterday morning, a strange little boy was brought be¬ fore the Magistrate at the Police Office, reported on the Watch Returns as being a lodger. This extraordinary child is ten years of age, was very thinly clad, is but four feet two inches high, delicate make, and weak eyes. On being asked by the Magistrate who he was, and where from, he gave the following account:— “My name is De Grass Griffin —I am ten years old—my father is a boatman, in Killingworth, Connecticut—my mo¬ ther left there for Philadelphia last summer—she parted from my father—he don’t take any care of me. About four weeks ago I started from Killingworth for Philadelphia, to see my mother—had not a cent when I started—walked part of the way and rode part. My sister, (who is a mar* 47 ried woman) told me in what part of Philadelphia I would find my mother. When I got there, I found that she was dead—I remained there, going about the town, about a week. I then started to come back. A gentleman in Philadelphia gave me a twenty cent piece, an eleven-penny bit, and a five-penny bit—I have the twenty cent piece yet. I got into this town yesterday morning—had nothing to eat all day yesterday till in the evening, when I got some clams at a little stand near the river. I calculate to start for home this morning, and to get a stage driver to give me a ride.” Ma¬ gistrate—“I will send you to the Alms-House, over the way, that you may get your breakfast, and be taken care of.” Answer. “ Very well ,* but I wish to start on.” It was truly astonishing to behold such a child perform (in the depth of winter) a journey of upwards of two hun¬ dred miles, with such a trifle of money, without warm cloth¬ ing, and the snow on his road nearly as high as himself. His deportment was mannerly, his answers prompt, clear and brief; he appeared to feel no want, asked for nothing, nor made any complaint, but had perfect confidence in his own powers and ability to get to the end of his journey on his twenty cent fund. Tl\e decision and fortitude of this little destitute boy, might furnish a profitable example to many irresolute and desponding men. Maria. How clever it would have been if somebody had given him a great coat, and paid his passage in the stage. William. Perhaps they did: some people don’t like to tell of every good 48 thing they do; they had rather do their alms in secret. Richard. But it would be a satis¬ faction to us to know that it was done; they need not have told who did it. Eliza. It was much better for him to go home again, if his mother was dead. Though his father did not take care of him as he ought to do, if he was a good boy the neighbours would not let him suffer, but would find some¬ thing for him to do, to get him victuals and some clothes. Children have to suffer a great deal sometimes because their parents are bad; but they must try to be good themselves, and then they will find friends. FIFTH EVENING Richard. The sun is now gone down, and the night is fast coming on ; I should be glad if every body could find as comfortable a fire-side as we have. Mother. It is a great favour to have such a one, and we ought to be very thankful for it; but we don’t know how to number our blessings until we are deprived of some of them. Doctor Young says “ Blessings brighten as they take their flight,” and we ofte# 1 find it so. Maria. What makes it grow dark so much sooner than common this evening ? Richard. It is because the clouds are so thick that the sun does not 5 50 give us light so long as in clear weather; then we have light from it a long time after it is out of sight. The time between sun set and dark is called twilight. Eliza. It is said in the Bible, that the sun was made to rule the day; I suppose it means that its light is so great that it hides the moon and all the stars; and so it rules. And how beautiful it looks when it rises, in a clear morning. Maria. The moon is also beautiful when it shines bright; and when it don’t shine, how pretty the stars are, all over the sky. ♦ Richard. There are a great many curious and beautiful things to be seen, when, (as Doctor Watts says,) •“ we survey the ground we tread, or gaze upon the sky.” William. The snow begins to fall, and 1 hope we shall have good sleigh- 51 ing, so that we can ride to school in the morning. Mother. The snow makes pleasant riding for the people, but it makes a hard time for the poor horses; espe¬ cially such as are kept in the cities to hire out. Richard. Yes, I have seen the sleighs full of folks, and the horses driven so fast as to make them sweat very much, even in the coldest weather. William. And when they are put into the stable, they stand and shake almost as much as people do when they have an ague. Mother. Such hard usage soon makes them stiff, like old horses. It is very cruel to abuse such useful an¬ imals, to gratify the wishes of the vain; who, wanting to ride a great distance in a short time, drive much faster than they ought to do, without Reflecting that the poor animals have 52 feeling as well as themselves, though they can’t express it. Eliza. Yes it is. And it is cruel also to beat a dog, or a cat, or to pull off the wings and legs of the poor lit¬ tle harmless insects. Maria. I wonder how any body that knows how hard and uncomfortable pain is to bear, should do so. Richard. It is often done, without thinking of the pain it gives; and I believe if parents were to take more pains to inform their own children, and others under their care, how im¬ proper such things are, there would not be half so much cruelty inflicted on the poor dumb creatures as there now is. I hope we shall always know better, and tell others better when we have an opportunity. Eliza. Let us tell the story about Robin, now it snows. Maria. Well, begin. 53 Eliza . Robin red breast, lie close in thy nest, For now the cold winter comes in. Maria. T care not a rush, Fll into my bush. And tuck my head under my wing. Eliza. Suppose it should snow, and the wind it should blow, And into the bush it should scatter ? Maria . Then Fll hop to some barn, and keep myself warm, And there’ll be an end of the matter. William. And in the morning those beautiful verses in Eliza’s book called 4 Snow,’ may be said with propriety. Maria. I should like to hear her say them now. SNOW. Eliza. O come to the window, dear brothers, and see What mischief was done in the night; The snow has quite covered the nice apple-tree, And the bushes are sprinkled with white. &c. &c. Richard. The little birds that stay with us in winter, want feeding some¬ times, as well as the fowls. When 54 the snow is on the ground, they can’t find much to eat, and I think they must get very hungry. In the sum¬ mer they catch worms and insects, but in winter they are dead, or Eisleep, where the birds can’t find them. William. We often see the birds round the barn, picking up seeds that fall out of the hay that the cattle eat. Mother. Many a poor traveller has been overtaken by a snow' storm, and suffered to death. We ought to feel very much for them too, such a night as this. Eliza. We frequently find such cir¬ cumstances in the papers. Mother. One poor man I knew very well, when I was a little girl like Eliza, who stayed his last night at my father’s house. He left it in the morning, and although it was not more than three miles to his own house, he never reached it. By loi- 55 tering, and calling at several places, and getting cider, which he loved too well, he became intoxicated. To¬ wards evening it began to snow, and in crossing a field, he either lost his way, or being unable to walk, fell down and froze to death. The next day, when he was found, he w T as al¬ most buried in the snow. William. Many poor creatures have lost their lives by getting drunk. I saw an account a few days ago, of a man who lived alone. He got out of his bed, kindled his fire, and, taking a dram, sat down, and soon fell with his back into the fire, and was unable to get out. When he was found in the morning, his back and one of his shoulders were burnt to a crisp. He was but just able to tell how it had happened, and died in a few hours. What a dreadful thing it is for any person to die in such a situation ! 56 Richard. And there are a great many families also, who suffer very much by drunkenness. Eliza. Yes, our neighbour P. abu¬ ses his wife and children very much indeed when he gets drunk. Maria. I think when men do so, they should be shut up somewhere, every time, until they learn to do bet¬ ter. Richard. I wish something could be done, to relieve the poor women and innocent children, from suffering so much. If the people in this country were to do like the Lacedemonians, it might have some effect. Eliza. How was that ? Richard. When they found a drunk¬ en man, they collected all the chil¬ dren they could together, and bid them take notice, and see what a beast and fool he had made of him¬ self. This practice, with the exhor- 57 tations given while the miserable ob¬ ject was before their eyes, made such an impression on their minds, that drunkenness was seldom known among them. William. It looks very strange, that a man having any regard for his own reputation, or that of his family, should give way to such a foolish and debasing practice as that of getting drunk ; but it is so common a thing in our country, that children can see it without being called together for that pui’pose, and it is agreat disgrace to us. Eliza. Did not Noah get drunk, al¬ ter he came out of the ark ? Was he bad then ? Mother. I don’t think he was : that was an accident. The people before the flood, I suppose, drank the juice of their grapes as soon as it was pressed out, and then it would not have an intoxicating effect. 53 William. Bat Noah planted a vine¬ yard, and had a great many grapes; and when he pressed the juice out of them, there being but few people, they did not want it all at once, and I suppose some of it stood until it fer¬ mented like our cider and currant wine; by drinking it without knowing that it was so much changed by fer¬ mentation, he became drunk. Mother. 1 think William’s supposi¬ tion quite reasonable and correct; for we do not find that the Lord reproved Noah for it, or that he or any of his family were ever drunk afterwards. Eliza. I think we have talked a great deal about drunken folks. Richard. If we could do them some good by it, I should be willing to talk all night about them. William. But they seem like people without ears to hear, or hearts to un¬ derstand ; and one might as well talk 59 to a stick of wood, as to talk to some of them. Mother. There is another circum¬ stance attending intemperance, that is still more shocking than any we have named; that is murder. If we examine carefully, I believe we shall find that most of the murders for which people have been hanged in these northern states, were committed when under the effects of spirituous liquors. I see no other way, my pre¬ cious children, to remedy these great evils, than for the younger ones to take warning by the sufferings and disgrace of those whom they see acting so inconsistently with their dignity as human beings, to say nothing about religion; though that is the most se¬ rious part of it. Now let us light the lamps, take our tea, and read a few chapters in the Bible. We may always have comfort, and find benefit in that. SIXTH EVENING, William. Evening is come again: how soon the days pass! I was just thinking how many pleasant hours we have spent, in what our dear mother calls Twilight Conversation.—I think such opportunities, are very useful to the children of a family : I am sure they are very agreeable to me. I should be sorry to weary her; she has many cares, and many anxieties on our accounts, in addition to those trials that we are strangers to : but if she feels well enough, and is willing to join us again this evening, in a little fire¬ side talk, it will be very pleasing to me. Richard. Yes, dear Mother, and so it will to us all. William. Brothers and sisters, that are blessed, as we are at home, who have so much done for them, so much 61 kindness and concern manifested in instructing them, have much to be thankful for; and ought to be good children. Mother. I have listened with de¬ light to the sentiments that William has just expressed. Nothing can be more grateful to me, than to discover evidence of tender feeling and piety, in the minds of my dear children, and it will always give me pleasure to con¬ tribute to their satisfaction and im¬ provement. You are quite at liberty to commence such conversation as you wish. Eliza. Then I should like to talk about little Samuel, whom William read about last evening in the Bible. Maria. 1 too, for he must have been a very nice little boy. And it was so clever for his mother to make a new coat every year, and carry it to him, when she went to see him. 6 62 Richard. And he was so dutiful too. When his mother put him under Eli’s care, although he was a very old man, Samuel stayed quietly withhim. And when he was called in the night, he jumped out of bed, and ran to Eli so quickly, even three times. William. That was a very impor¬ tant night, for it was the Lord that called him, though even Eli, did not suspect it at first; but when he thought who it was, he told Samuel, if he was called again, he must say, “ Speak Lord, for thy servant heareth,” and he did so. And the Lord told him many things that would happen to Eli and his family; and in the morning when Samuel had opened the house, Eli called him, and asked what had been said to him in the night. And Samuel told him all. Mother. It was quite proper for Samuel to tell Eli all that was said to 63 him. And although the sentence of the Lord against his wicked sons, was an affecting one, yet Eli was com¬ pelled to acknowledged that it was just. Samuel’s integrity, and love of truth, made him loved and respected wherever he went. And he became a very useful man, and a great prophet. William. It is much the best way always to speak the truth. Telling lies is a mean vice, as well as a very wicked thing. And when people get in the habit of telling them, we never know how to believe what they say. Richard. It makes the old proverb good, “ A liar is not to be believed when he speaks the truth.” And who wishes to keep company with such a one? there can’t be any satisfaction in hearing people talk, w hen we don’t know whether to believe them or not. Mother. Children, when they have committed a fault, will sometimes tell 64 a falsehood to conceal it, which is very wrong; for it makes two faults instead of one ; and they ought to be corrected more for the last than the first, which is sometimes an accident. If when they have done what they ought not to do, they would acknow¬ ledge it without any hesitation, then I think there are very few parents of re¬ flection but would forgive them at once. Eliza. Yes. When Ann broke the pitcher, and came right in and told mother of it, she only enquired how it happened, and desired her to be more careful next time. And I think she will, for she looked sorry. Mother. When Ann’s Mother died, and she came to live with us, she was not five years old. One day when sitting pensively by my side, she rais¬ ed her eyes, and said, “ I think my mother has gone to that good place you sometimes tell me of.—I believe 65 she was a very good woman, for she never whipped her children only when they deserved it. William. What an excellent testi¬ mony to a Mother’s care, that so young a child should be made sensi¬ ble of so nice a distinction ! Mother. She was a prudent woman, and I suppose she did not correct her children without making them under¬ stand first what it was for, that they might remember not to do so again. Richard. How much better that is than slapping them on their ears, and knocking them about as some folks do. Eliza. It is: 1 have seen children treated so, and when they have done a little fault, go round as far as they could, so as not to get within their parent’s reach, for fear of getting such knocks on the head. Maria. 1 should not Uke to live with such folks. I think such hard 6 * 66 blows, must make their poor little heads ache sometimes. William. Yes, and it is very liable to hurt their hearing too, and that is also a very serious thing. Maria. When Eliza and I went to the barn this afternoon, to see the sheep, there were three pretty little white lambs, but they were not big enough to play yet; and the old sheep looked at us as if they were afraid we were going to take them away. Eliza. And one of them stamped her feet, as if she meant to say, don't come any nearer. The old buck with his crooked horns quite frigh¬ tened us; for when he came towards us, he put down his head, and looked as if he was angry. William. It would be better for you not to go there alone; he does butt hard sometimes. The other day when I was in the yard, he came towards 67 me in that way, and if I had not seen him, and stepped aside, he would have knocked me dow r n, and perhaps broken some of my limbs. Richard. I have seen sheep fight¬ ing, and they strike their heads so hard together sometimes, as to make the blood run out of their noses, and even to kill one another. Eliza. That’s hard times! and I think of them, as Maria did of the birds the other evening, “they had better be quiet.” Mother. When Merino sheep were first brought to this country, they w ere much thought of, and sold for a great price. William. I believe there were per¬ sons who gave several hundred dol¬ lars a piece for them, and 1 have under¬ stood that there were a great many sold for one hundred dollars a piece. 68 from r And why did people give so much for them ? ^ Mother. They were brought from Spain. Having so much more wool on, than the American sheep, and being of a much finer quality, induced people to hope that by their being introduced into this country, they could make cloth good enough to wear, without importing it from Eng¬ land. And there has been some made that was very nice. Richard. Why are the people dis¬ couraged from raising the Merino sheep, and making the cloth as they wished to do ? Mother. Labour is so much higher here than in England, that cloth of the same quality cannot be made quite so cheap as it can there; but there is a considerable quantity made and worn in the Eastern States; and your dear father prefers it for winter when he can get such as he likes. ^ „ _ _ 69 William. The Americans have so much land to work on, that they like farming better than manufacturing cloth. Almost every man, if he is in¬ dustrious and prudent, and has an economical wife, may get a piece of land, build him a house, and bring up a family respectably. But it is not so in England. There are abundance more inhabitants, in that country in proportion to the land, and it is most¬ ly owned by rich men, who charge very high rent for it. Richard. 1 have heard of some beautiful pieces of cloth being ex¬ hibited at the fairs, where they carry so many of their nice things to show, and to get what they can for them. Maria. Is it there that the girls carry their grass bonnets, that there has been so much talk about ? I should like to see them very much. William. They are called very nice, 70 and I think it is much better to en¬ courage our own country girls in making such bonnets, than to send quite to Leghorn for them, even if they should cost a little more at first; when they get accustomed to the bu¬ siness, they can make them faster, and afford to sell them cheaper. Eliza. And I suppose that little girls may soon learn to plat grass as well as straw; I think it would be very pretty business for them. William. I believe there is a person in this State, who is manufacturing such bonnets on a pretty large scale now. I do not recollect the name of the place, but it is where the right kind of grass, for that purpose, is plenty. Mother. If they would but make them of a moderate size, they might be convenient and comfortable; but the bonnets generally worn, are so 71 large, they are very inconvenient things, in places of public resort; and when there is three or four of them in a stage coach, a moderate silk bon¬ net stands but little chance of escap¬ ing their rubs, and being very much injured. Maria. When our dear Father comes home, we can tell him how pleasantly we have spent our twilights since he has been absent. Eliza. And I should like to tell him all we have talked about. William. I dont think there would be any difficulty in recollecting it; I believe 1 could tell the whole, with¬ out the help of mother’s notes. Richard. If one of us could not re¬ member every part, we could help one another. Mother. And itwould afford him as much satisfaction to hear, as it can give you pleasure to relate it to him. 72 ‘S And now my dear children, if we look back to the beginning of the week, when our twilight conversation for improvement commenced, we may recollect, that there was some hesita¬ tion about a subject, as if, unless we could think of some important circum¬ stance to begin with, we should not find any thing to instruct us; but Wil¬ liam’s mentioning the three pence, has led from one thing to another, and we have been at no loss for a subject any evening since; nor do I think we should if we were to continue it ever so long. To-morrow is the day particularly set apart for religious duties, and at¬ tendance on public worship : and al¬ though we may not make a memoran¬ dum of our conversation in the eve¬ ning, 1 hope we shall endeavour to improve the leisure time in reading suitable books, and in obtaining use¬ ful instruction. THE END.