PSYCHOLOGIC ASPECT OF BIRTH. CONTROL CONSIDERED IN RELATION TO MENTAL HYGIENE ºr THEODORE SCHROEDER OF THE NEW York BAR AND COS COB, CONN. FROM MEDICOLEGAL JOURNAL Vol. XXXIX, No. 1, Pages 16 to 21 JANUARY-FEBRUARY, 1922 *- 3% T-84 ºnz Scºre… A-4- (Och | 3 y O- PSYCHOLOGIC ASPECT OF BIRTH – CONTROL CONSIDERED IN RELATION TO MENTAL HYGIENE THEODORE SCHROEDER OF THE NEW YORK BAR AND COS COB, CONN. FROM MEDICO-LEGAL JOURNAL Vol. XXXIX, No. 1, Pages 16 to 21 JANUARY-FEBRUARY, 1922 PSYCHOLOGIC ASPECT OF BIRTH CONTROL The human animal, with its general ignorance of its own psychology, has always tended to explain all human ac- tivities as being exclusively determined by things outside the self. This is ex- pressed either in terms of some ob- viously physical factors, or by means of a supposedly transcendental mysticism; that is by reference to alleged super- human, or supernatural causation. As applied to sex problems this means, that we have been lead to think of them either from the “exalted” viewpoint as being of a poetically sacred, a divine, or a devilish nature; or, on the other hand, we think of such problems as a matter of purely physiological adjust- ment. I wish to emphasize the sug- gestion, that the first of these views is a glorified morbidity, and the second one an ignorantly inadequate interpreta- tion of the facts. I wish to urge upon your attention the psychologic aspect of sexual problems in general, and of birth control in particular. The psy- chologic problem for both is the same. In so far as I succeed in holding the true scientific spirit I must limit myself to some explanation of the psychologic processes involved, quite regardless of either our moral sentimentalism, and of our religious preconception. These cannot be allowed to have any weight with us, except by sacrificing some of our scientific impartiality. In every community there are persons of privileged social and educational status, whose psycho-sexual attitudes and life have never attained real psy- chologic maturity. To characterize some of these conditions accurately, even in scientific phraseology, would shock some sensitive puritan ears. Therefore, I will not be more specific, just now. Such persons as I now have in mind, all have painful moments of emotional conflict over their own sexual impulses, or over their methods of sex- ual self-expression. If the resultant in- ternal conflict of their irreconcilable sexual urges are very intense, such persons tend to find a compensation for the painful and shameful aspects of their lives by exalting their own unfor- tunate defects, or the mask which con- ceals them, to the rank of a social vir- tue, or of a religious “duty” to God. To insure to themselves this much need- ed exaltation, they cannot bear to have the intellectualization of their idealized perversions frankly pointed out, or bluntly repudiated. In order to neutral- ize their own feelings of inferiority and of shame, they must therefore de- nounce the more healthy-minded ones as immoral, and must seek to coerce them to live according to the morbid ideal. Where this is confessedly impossible, they require at least a reverential acknowlegment of its superiority. The morbid vehemence of these few insures imitation, or at least acquies- ence, on the part of many of the more healthy-minded ones, because the latter have not a sufficiently conscious atti- tude concerning the meaning and value of their own greater wholesomeness. Thus has come the popularizing of all the gross emotional over-valuations put upon everything sexual. Those who have a more healthy common sense about sex matters have not become suf- ficiently conscious, nor sufficiently ar- ticulate. Accordingly all sex is popular- ly esteemed as being either devilish or heavenly. We have difficulty in con- sidering sex as being merely a human problem—a human instrumentality for promoting individual and social well- being, mentally as well as physically. We still tend to view sex as if it were wholly a matter of moral sentimental- ism, instead of being a problem of science. Those who, from morbid inhibitions or unfortunate external circumstances, are precluded from normal sexual re- lations, often moralize their misfortune, or exalt their resultant mental ailment by making a virtue of their misfortune, or of their disease. Hence, lifelong con- tinence has been made a religious ideal, and all marriage has been declared to be but a tolerated evil. The “evils” of mar- riage are only partially redeemed by ceremonial sanctification and by the number of virgins which marriage pro- duces for the church. Such are the mental processes by which the abnormal ones have imposed lifelong continence as a professed social ideal, with a max- imum of tolerated evil represented by the allowance of sexual relation only for the purposes of procreation. All be- yond puts one on the toboggan slide that lands us finally in purgatory, if not in the eternal flames of a brim- stone hell. It remains to particularize these general mental processes and to trace their influence on the birth con- trol problem. In the blurred and excited vision of such psycho-erotic morbidity, it was natural enough that no difference could be discovered between murder, abortion, and a physiologically and socially use- ful prevention of conception. So it comes that we have organizations to promote such morbidity in the name of social purity; and laws, which, in conjunction with human ignorance and human nature such as it is, compel the multiplication of the undesired and the unfit. Once having legalized the morbid ideal, and enthroned its unhealthy moral sentimentalism in the feeling of the un- thinking multitude, some grave psycho- logic consequences inevitably follow. Here again I wish to emphasize the fact that the problem of birth control is not merely one of securing legal freedom for the spread of contraceptive informa- tion and materials. The extravagant over-valuation of the ideals of the mor- bid ones, cannot be ignored, nor imme- diately altered by repealing a law. It is impressed on the childhood feelings of every coming generation. The neces- sities of the economic and industrial status of our time creates a most po- tent objective motive for the limiting of offspring. The emotional importance, popularly associated with the condem- nation of the use of contraceptive de- vices, tends to create a subjective in- hibition against the limitation of off- spring. With social “morals,” laws and economic necessity impelling to one kind of conduct and the biologic urge im- pelling to a contrary conduct, we have a subjective conflict such as is the very essence of all mental instability. Under present legal and social restrictions, it would almost seem as if this were con- sciously designed to produce hysteria and to limit the indulgence of sexual expression to purposes of procreation. For many of the more healthy persons, and most of the morbid ones the biologic and psychologic compulsions make con- tinence impossible without hysteria. In the resultant conduct and emotional disturbance comes the more or less mor- bid urge toward prostitution, abortion, sexual perversion, as well as the use of legally and socially prohibited con- traceptives. In so far as any of these impulses are the result of disturbed emotions, the indulgence will tend to increase that disturbance, to intensify that hysteria. From a common-sense and physiological point of view, the in- telligent prevention of conception should be perfectly harmless. But from the unhealthy emotional valuations which morbid puritanism imposes upon each succeeding generation, too often the use of contraceptives contributes to those emotional disturbances called hysteria. From this point of view, puritanism should be considered an im- portant problem of mental hygiene. Our morbid moral-sentimentalism has created a condition which inevitably produces such evil psychologic conse- quences. For example: Let us assume that the child has become emotionally impressed with the notion that there is little or no difference between mur- der, abortion, and prevention of concep- tion. Even though in maturity such a person becomes logically convinced that the prevention of conception, or even abortion, is not reasonably to be classed with murder, the old contrary feeling-valuation often persists. . From below the surface of consciousness it still determines part of our conduct and is often a controling factor in fixing the degree of our mental health and hap- piness. If now prevention or abortion is had yet, in spite of the contrary in- tellectual conviction, there will rise up the associated feeling of depression from out of the subconscious, which feeling is like one of self-reproach, approxi- mately, of the sort that would arise if murder had been committed. This de- pressing feeling of fear very often comes, both with and without a con- sciousness of its causes, and in either event it manifests itself as a feeling of inferiority, or of excessive sinfulness. Such fears and shame unfit many for the , ordinary adjustments of living. Again we have a case of preventable morbidity, imposed by our morbid puri- tanism. Because the real causes of the de- pression are not sufficiently understood, or cannot be admitted to the world, the painful and fearful depression is ex- plained in terms of more or less imagin- ary physical ailments, or the emotional exaggeration of some real discomfiture. Often it expresses itself in an exag- gerated notion of a supposed pernicious hostility of the family circle, or of so- ciety at large. In the extreme condi- tion it is known in one of its aspects as persecution mania. Thus developed much of the hysteria, which so often makes a comfortable family life impos- sible and results in divorce, prostitution, desertion or even in an occasional sui- cide. A considerable part of these mor- bid ones seek to mask the causes of their own self-reproach by an ostenta- tious and vehement puritanism. They prove the intensity of their submerged “moral” inferiority by the outward man- ifestations of delusions about their own “moral” grandeur. In such persons the intensity of their devotion to puritanism is the exact measure of their feeling of shame, of their need for a mask. By their pretentious moralistic vehemence they again become a factor in imposing their perversions and morbid moral- sentimentalism upon the next genera- tion with the same direful result. Thus do the emotionally unstable ones per- petuate their kind. The only obvious escape from all this vicious circle must be sought in dis- crediting the moral sentimentalist, by making the more healthy-minded per- sons more conscious of their superiority, and by making it plain that all this emotionally overvalued purism is really but a mask to conceal an equally mor- bid lewdness. The purists must be made to face the realities, by showing them the futility of their modesty mask. Even for this purpose we must avoid in ourselves a similar moralistic deprecia- tion of the purist. Let us give them a sympathetic understanding, such as all the mentally afflicted ones should re- ceive. If we have sufficient insight, let us also help them to outgrow their af- fliction. All humans should be helped to overcome all shame for a perfectly normal, healthy-minded, intelligently controlled lasciviousness. Intelligence in such matters should never be given a po- sition that is subordinate to “morals”. This attitude is one of the fundamental conditions of a better mental hygiene. At least, we can all avoid abetting the evil puritan influence by openly discred- iting all its unhealthy, absolute, sexual Creeds, even though they come clothed in the delusive garb of a popular moral sentimentalism, or in the verbal exalta- tion of pious rhetoric. Let us consider a little more in detail these moral-sentimentalisms, to the end that I may suggest a substitute for moral values. There was a time when the same ignorant and morbid valua- tions were attached to metaphysical theories about every phase of nature. As humanity came to understand the behavior of nature’s forces in relation to the movement of the planets, etc., the religious cosmogonies lost their “moral” values, and the astronomers were freed from persecution. We no longer burn at the stake those who de- clare the earth to be round or who in- vestigate non-human physical nature and its ways. But about the psychology of sex and about birth control methods plain people are not yet allowed to learn the truth. Popular “morality” requires the perpetuation of sex ignorance. Here scientists are still in danger of going to jail. We are now allowed to adjust our conduct to our understanding of the behavior of electricity, gravity, chemical affinity and repulsion, etc., without the intervention of satan or of the theologians. We no longer invest any part of such conduct with “moral” values, nor hamper the more perfect adjustment by contrary and anti-natur- al “duties” to God. Is it not reasonable to hope that a similar scientific attitude toward sex will some day come into be- ing 7 May we not reasonably expect that when we have an equally general understanding of the behavior of the psychologic aspect of human energy, as that expresses itself through the sex- ual mechanism and in the formation of our sexual creeds, that then even sex will be self-regulated according to that larger understanding 2 Will we not then laugh at the creedal mandates of the morbid ones, as expressed in our emotionally determined preconceptions, and invested with the hysterical’s “mor- al” valuation? When that time comes puritanism will surely have lost its “moral” values and its terrors. Then it will no longer serve as a respectable mask for a morbid lewdness. That is why all puritans tend to oppose the spread of scientific education about sex- ual psychology and sexual physiology. They cannot bear to have science con- tradict their comforting preconceptions about the theology of sex, or to unmask its morbid foundations. I have suggested the operation of a morbid psycho-sexual condition in pro- ducing the vehement defenders of puri- tanic sexual creeds. However, there is another and contrary side to this, emo- tional conflict. When the morbidly in- tense erotism can no longer be re- strained within the limits of ascetic dogma, it tends to go to the other ex- treme. For example: The Bible Com- munists of Oneida began their career by professing a belief in the religious duty of life-long continence, and wound up with a divine mandate for a compulsory promiscuity, mis-called “free-love”. So also among the Mormons of half century ago. For the elect few, polygamy be- came practically compulsory, and for others who had not first merited and re- ceived the divine sanction through the Prophet of God, secret and fruitless adultery, or mere formication, was deemed worthy of a “divinely command- ed” death penalty. The history of Chris- tianity is full of similar events pro- duced by similar morbid erotism. Al- ways and everywhere an ostentatious puritanism and excessive lewdness are but different aspects of the same mor- bid personality. The accounts of orgies which our newspapers have been re- cently publishing in dispatches from California in connection with the asso- ciates of “Fatty” Arbuckle, are the natural psychologic reaction to an equally morbid and ignorant puritan dominance. Thus it has come to pass, that at times we are all the victims of an erotic over- stimulation, produced either by exces- sive indulgence, or by excessive repres- sion. We have not even been allowed, by our legalized prudery, to read dis- cussions designed to enlighten our un- derstanding as to what is physiologi- cally and psychologically the most wholesome. The morbid ones will not yet allow us to show the essence of their morbid moral pretenses. Even many who have outgrown the theologic dogmas about sex, have not outgrown its underlying sexuo-emotional over- valuations. Therefore, as a natural re- action to the religious asceticism, we have a sort of unconscious religiousity, which justifies all manner or excess of indulgence, if only it seems to be prompted by, passions that are intense enough (morbid enough) to be exalted by a poetic romanticism. Underlying this is always the implicit but often un- conscious formula of sex for sex-sensa- tion's sake. Frequently this is as mor- bid as the ascetic sex-creed adopted nominally for God’s sake. Amid the din made by the controversy between the poetic romanticist and the ascetic ethicist, the voice of common sense has seldom been audible. Each vehement defiance hurled by the mad romanticist, against the ascetic creed, does but stim- ulate the neurotic moralists to a new zeal. Their unhealthy conscience re- sents the discredit cast upon its com- forting “moral” masquerade. All the more strenuously do they have to in- sist upon their ascetic mask and the en- forcement of laws against the dissem- ination of sexual science, and of birth control information. Doubtless, by this time, some of you are wondering what I can propose to make birth control psychologically more sane and safe. In a moment I will tell you. First let me remind you that we have a similar issue in re- lation to food and drink. Those who achieve the attitude of mind of the erotically morbid ones, must unavoida- bly transfer a part of the morbid char- acteristics and valuations over into their other activities. I believe it is a psychologic fact, that most of the more extravagant “blue law” reformers are the victims of an erotic morbidity. They express the same attitude of mind as the sexual ascetic, and they also have their psychologic mate and coun- terpart in the glutton and the drunk- ard. On the one hand, we are in effect told, as in the matter of sex, that it is sinful to enjoy food and drink. Those who act upon the other aspect of their conflict of morbid impulses, tell us that we are to indulge in meat, drink and the procreative function, only or pri- marily for the sake of the immediate sensations. I believe that both of these positions are founded upon morbid sensitivity, (hyperaesthesia) or upon the ignorance of immaturity, and prob- ably upon a combination of both. Intelligent, wholesome persons do not scorn the pleasures of sense. On the other hand they do not allow their love of sensations to control wholly their choice of food and drink, either as to kind and quantity, or so as to impair their health or maximum of social effi- ciency. Why is not that a good rule to apply also to sexual indulgence? According to the only articulate creeds for sexual conduct which reach the general public, we seem limited to a choice between excessive stimulation from sexual suppression, or from sex- ual over-indulgence. Both result in a maximum of psycho-erotic ecstacy. Both satisfy the craving of sense for sensation’s sake. The one secures this result by peripheral stimulation and the emphasis upon the physiological espect of sex; the other through internal stim- ulation and emphasis upon the psycho- logic aspect of sensualism. The latter is by the mystic often and erroneously as- cribed to God, or else it is thought of as being so exclusively of psychologic origin as to be wholly and alone moral. I submit that common sense disapproves both these extremes. All repression re- sults in such emotional disturbance, as to preclude a maximum of efficient concentration upon the world’s work. A mature common sense requires that we seek a maximum of emotional poise and efficiency, for upon this our social value depends. I conclude that the more intelligent view requires only such frequency, manner, and conditions of indulgence as will best promote our efficiency in living in social relations. To this end all mere ceremonial values and moral-sentimentalism will some time be subordinated to our understand- ng. But here under the word “efficiency” I do not mean efficiency only in a quasi static sense. According to my view this efficiency must also include a maximum of character maturing, which often is something very different, and more healthy than that which obedience to arbitrary and absolute “moral” creeds can produce. Now then, if one has be- come thoroughly imbued with the mor- bid “morality” which preaches the sin- fulness of preventing conception, such “moral” valuation when coupled with the actual use of preventives, may in some cases produce even greater dis- equilibrium than would result from total abstinence. If so, then common sense might even suggest that the lesser evil, for some particular persons and under present conditions, consists in living ac- cording to the ascetic ideal, at least until they can be cured of their fears. When we take into account these emo- tional aspects of the problem, we see that the problem of sex and of birth- control are not wholly problems of legis- lation, or of education concerning the physical behavior and relations of sex functioning. The repeal of laws which prevent or limit education as to the physical factors of sex, and of the means of preventing conception, or de- claring them unconstitutional, is indeed important. at I wish to impress is that these factors are not the whole of the problem. What is equally im- portant, if not more so, is that both before and after legal freedom has been achieved, that sexual education shall include an education concerning the be- havior of the sexual emotions, and es- pecially the maturing of our desires ac- cording to our evolutionary concept. All sex education had better be accom- panied by such special emotional tones and values in the teacher, and in the articulate public opinion, as will min- imize the development of feeling-values and of their subjective emotional con- flicts, in the young who are being taught. This means the greatest en- largement of our capacity for living our sex lives according to the require- ments of a superior understanding, and free from even the subconscious in- fluence of the present “moral” valua- tions of hystericals. Underlying the hampering legislation, there always is this more fundamental evil of puritan psychology, that needs to be destroyed. Of course, you now know that this includes the “morality” of our morbid puritan reformers, which usu- ally has the motive, at least subcon- sciously, of masking an excessive lewd- ness. Let us unmask them, and so des- troy their influence among the thought- less-healthy-minded ones. Proclaim it from the housetops, that all prudery is but the fig leaf for a guilty conscience. Then common sense and sexual science will for the first time have some chance to reign supreme. Then we will be allowed an intelligent use of birth con- trol in spite of the morbid fears, of hys- terical pretenders to superior “morali- ty”, and in spite of the vociferous decla- mations of our moralists for revenue. P. S.—Here are samples of morbid fulminations against birth con- trol, such as have capacity for producing a like morbidity in those who can take any serious account of such utterances. “If women bear children until they become sick and die, that does no harm. Let them bear children until they die of it; that is what they are for.” Martin Luther, Yale Review, XI : 419. Jan., 1922. Original source not given. “This [birth control] teaching which threatens by its practice, if not impeded, to inundate this land of ours with a danger more de- vastating than war, an offence unknown to animals and a crime against morality for which men must blush, if not degenerate, and hopelessly given up to Paganism and sensuality. [Birth control propaganda] is fit only for the denizens of the underworld and [is] finally severely punished by an angry God.” Right Rev. John A. Sheppard, vicar general of the diocese of Newark, N. J., in New York Herald, Dec. 23, 1921. “Even though some little angels in the flesh through the moral, mental or physical deformity of parents, may appear to human eyes hideous, misshapen, a blot on civilized society, we must not lose sight of this Christian thought that under and within such visible malformation there lives an immortal soul to be saved and glorified for all eternity. * * * Heinous is the sin [of birth control] against the creative act of God. * * * To take life after its inception is a horrible crime; but to prevent human life that the creator is about to bring into being is Satanic. In the first instance the body is killed while the soul lives on. * * * In the latter not only a body but an immortal soul is denied exis- tence, in time and eternity. It has been reserved to our day to see ad- vocated shamelessly the legalizing of such a diabolic thing.” Archbishop P. J. Hayes, of the Roman Catholic church, in Christmas Pastoral. N. Y. Times, Dec. 18, 1921.