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COl'Y OF I'REAMBM-: AND KKSOLl'TFONS 
 
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 YOUNG MEN^S ASSOCIATION OF BERGEN POINT, N. J., 
 
 MEETING HELD AUG. 11, 1862. 
 
 '' Whereas^ It is our earnest desire, as an Association, in every 
 proper way to sliow our respect for the memory of our late friend 
 and fellow-member, Capt. Simeon A. Mellick, our heartfelt sym- 
 pathy for his family, and our submission to the teachings of Al- 
 midity God in this His Providence ; and feeling that these ends 
 cannot better be furthered than by the perpetuation, so far as 
 possible, of the tender and impressive sermon, which was deliv- 
 ered at the funeral by Rev. H. W. F. Jones, and so appropri- 
 ately enforced in the short and solemn address of Ilev. Mr. 
 Jaggar, both Honorary members of our Association, therefore 
 be it 
 
 Eesolved, That this Association, witli the assent of Rev. Mr. 
 Jones, will have published in pamphlet form, 300 copies of his 
 sermon above referred to, for distribution among the friends of 
 the late Capt. Mellick, and the members of this Association. 
 And be it further 
 
 Rewlvcd^ That the President be, and is hereby authorized to 
 appoint a committee of four to carry this resolution into otfect." 
 
Copy of coiTCspondeace betwccu Rev. H. W. F. Jones and 
 the Committee of the " Young Men's Association." 
 
 Bergkx Point, August 12th, 1S62. 
 llcv. H. W. F. Jones. 
 
 . Rev. and Dear Sir : — We beg to refer you to the enclosed 
 copy of a preamble and resolutions unanimously adopted at the 
 regular meeting of the " Young Men's Association," held last 
 evening ; in accordance with which we now respectfully solicit a 
 copy of your sermon, there referred to. Assuring you of our 
 full belief that this action will be giatifving to the bereaved fam- 
 ily and friends, and productive of true and lasting benefit to all, 
 and especially to the young, of this community ; and hoping that 
 this consideration will outweigh any feeling of delicacy which 
 might render you averse to the publication, 
 We are. 
 
 Very Respectfully, 
 
 D. W. C. Morris, Chairman 
 
 Robert Currie, ] ex off. 
 
 John Paret, Jr., | 
 Chas. S. Noe, \ 
 
 Jahial Parmly, Jr. J 
 
 Comm'Ukc. 
 
 Reply. 
 Bergen Point, N. J., Aug. 13th, 1862. 
 
 Messrs I). W. C. Morris, Robert Currie, J. Paret, Jr., 
 C. S. Noe, and J. Parmly, Jr. : 
 Gentlemen^ — Your note containing copy of re.-;olutions passed 
 by the " Young Men's Association," and requesting that I would 
 furnish you a copy of the sermon preached at the funeral of our 
 
late mutual friend Capt. Mellick, for publication, has just been 
 received. I cheerfully accede to this request for the reasons you 
 state, and for those alone. Were I to consult my own feelings, 
 apart from theso considerations, and perhaps I might add my own 
 credit too, I should demur at having so crude and hasty a pro- 
 duction come before the public. Written, as it was, at the close 
 of a week of labor at the pulpit, and press of other pastoral 
 duties, I candidly confess that it falls far short of what such a 
 sermon ought to be, even in my estimation. But as I have 
 l'.nirned to look to other than human judgment for approval of 
 my poor ejfforts to advance the Redeemer's kingdom, I send it to 
 you with the less reluctance. In whatever else it may be want- 
 ing, I feel assured that it is not wanting in either sincerity of 
 feeling, or sincerity of intention for good. Trusting that its peru- 
 sal, blessed by the Spirit of God, may result in this to all, and 
 especially to the young, I am, Your friend and brother, 
 
 H. W. F. JONF.S. 
 
SERMON. 
 
 "there is but a step r.ETWEEN ME AND DEATH." 
 
 I Sam., xx 
 
 So the fugitive David declared to his fiiciid Jonathan, when 
 his life was sought by the jealous king of Israel, and luuited 
 from place to place, he felt the terrible uncertainty (that always 
 gathers about death,) intensified to a painful degree iii his cir- 
 cumstances ; and doubtless also he realized the solemnity of the 
 ever present fact This was emphatically true of David, but it has 
 lost none of its truth, as it has come traveling down to us through 
 the lapse of centuries. It is still the inspired word of God ; 
 it is still true. Death is still here, and it is still but a step be- 
 tween it and any of us. It matters little how men may seek to 
 wind around this great fact their fine-spun but cobweb theories of 
 its origin, nature and results ; it is of little moment that they 
 endeavor to bind around the arms of this enemy of our race their 
 long-drawn metaphysical chains of argument ; that they heap up 
 around him the earth-works of their reason and intellectual might, 
 (that they may hide him from sight as he is ) It is all in vain ; 
 they cannot blunt the point of his shaft, nor detract from the 
 strength of his bow in the one case, nor in the other, prevent him 
 from breaking the chains like thread, and crushing down under 
 his feet all their opposition, and striding a victor to his work, 
 slaying on the right hand and on the left. 
 
The tiuth, " thou shalt ilie," was flashed into (»ur world by the 
 sword of the Angel that kept tlie " tree of life," and has been 
 reflected back to us from evcy corpse, from every open grave — 
 and is flitfinu- before our eyes every day of our existence. And 
 yet how common it is for us to put far off" the evil day, as regards 
 our personal concern with it ; to look upon it as a fact w^hich we 
 dare not, we cannot gainsay ; but still a fact, in the dim future, 
 imdefined and unreal : and, notwithstanding that the attendants 
 of death, sickness, pain and disease, are constantly reminding us 
 that their master Ls coming, coming, surely coming, still we but 
 too often persist in the stranger delusion that the premonition 
 means something else to us than death ; at least, this is a fair 
 conclusion to be drawn from the little effect that is pioduced on 
 us by these things. 
 
 How few comparatively ever seem really to realize that there 
 is but a step, a single step between them and death, that even 
 while they are looking forward into life, death may be at their 
 elbow, pointing downward into eternity. 
 
 We know of no circumstances in Avhich death is any other than 
 a solemn event. Even in those instances when the body, worn 
 out with age and disease, seems to im'ite death to come ; even 
 when the l)right hope of thi" christian kindh^s with a strange light 
 the fading eye, and loosens the stcimmei-ing tongue in sweet words 
 of praise, and death is a welcome friend ; even then a deep 
 solemnity settles upon all who come in contact with it, as they 
 feel the chilly gloom stealing over them, and shutting out the 
 light of life, as the rising cloud shuts out the sunlight of day. 
 
 But what peculiar awe falls upon us, (if we are not stone,) in 
 the death of the young — and especially, in the sudden death of 
 the young man ! Wliat an illustration of the truth of the text ! 
 What a commentary upon it is siuli an event ! We expect to 
 see the exiuiustod fountain stop flowing; we expect to .see the o/tl 
 
tree fall to tlio iiTomi<l— we cxpet-t to see the (if^cd innn die ; 
 when these events occur, we ask no exphiuation of the cause — it 
 is evident enough. But to behold the fountain that wells np to 
 the brink with its civstal treasure, foi-fret to ])0ur it forth ; to be- 
 hold tli'>» yonnij: and vin'orous tree pi-ostrate ; to Ix'hold tin' young 
 and strouix man just enteriuL' upon his course, with hi,Ldi resolves 
 and purposes, dio]i suddenly into the grave, thinking to take a 
 step into life, but stopped, with foot suspended, by death ! this is 
 startling, because unexpected and unnatural ; and we s.ndc an 
 explanation. We ask, " Why is this .-" 
 
 [t is not my purpose at this time to enter into any explanation 
 of the cause of the presence of death in our world, for you are 
 not ignorant of it. It is the momentous /c/r/ with which wc have 
 now to do — that death is the portion of us all ; and that as we 
 have gathered here to-day in sorrow, to pay the last triljute of 
 respect to the dead, so others will gather about our cold remains. 
 
 Shrink not back, shudder not, while deyilh converses awhile 
 with you, for it is the part of rational beings to become acquaint- 
 ed with one they cannot shun. Who can tell but that the 
 acquaintance thus formed over an open grave, may, through the 
 blessing of Him that met the last enemy and vanquished him for 
 his people, ripen into a calm contemplation, if not a welcome 
 friendship .- It is not only proper, but eminently ]>rofitable, 
 when we are the subjects of the afflictive dispen.sations of God, to 
 look at that which bows us down with grief, and see how we may 
 extract that spiritual good from it which is enclosed in it 
 
 We may have to look through bitter tears ; but still, let 
 us look, for God's finger is here. Let us hearken, for God is 
 speaking ; and these extreme exhibitions of his ]n-ovidence, if not 
 beneficial, arc sure to be detrimental. If they do not soften 
 our hearts, they always harden them more than before. It 
 seems to me that the language of the text, coupled with that 
 
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 solemn admonition of the Saviour's, "Be ye also ready, for in 
 such an hour as ye think not, the Son of man comelh," heard on 
 such an occasion as this, is a voice of earnest warning, with a 
 reason for it. It sounds in every ear, stands before every eye, 
 should touch every heart, for it is applicable to every person ; 
 and while therefore each one of us, young, and old, and middle- 
 aged, may take from this event a lesson to be deeply pondered 
 and never forgotten ; it is to the youvg that I would more 
 especially address myself, and most of all to the young men that 
 are here. 
 
 " There is but a step between you and death !" Do you 
 disbelieve it ? Here is " confirmation strong as death ;" an 
 endorsement of its truth which you cannot deny. Now, while 
 you stand by the coffin of one you knew and respected in life, 
 one of yourselves, allow me, with all the deep interest I feel for 
 you, to ask you. What do you think of all this .' How docs 
 it afiect you r If a dead friend and brother could speak, how 
 earnest, how touching, would be his words of entreaty to you, no 
 longer to neglect your salvation. And why do you neglect it r 
 Why put oil the vast concerns of eternity to a to-morrow that 
 may never come .' Your life upon earth is altogether uncertain ; 
 no time is yours but the present, and you will surely be no losers, 
 but great gainers, by giving your hearts to God in the days of 
 your youth, 
 
 A good conscience and a sure hope of everlasting life, are the 
 purest sources of joy upon earth ; nothing this world has to ofter 
 you can possibly equal them. You have but one short life to live 
 upon earth, supposing you even live to old age. Have you no 
 desire that it should be occupied in doing good .' Are you 
 willing, at the last account which you must give, to be among 
 those who have done nothing for the benefit of your race ? Do 
 you tell me that you intend to be religious hereafter ? 
 
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 What a clolu<i..ii ! evil ha])its will grow with your -rowth, and 
 strcncrthcii with your strength; .inful tlesiics will not l.c lessened, 
 but iucroascd by indulgence ; and old age, if permitted to see it, 
 will find you a hardened sinner, with all your habits of iniquity 
 
 confirniod. 
 
 Why will you run the dangerous risk r Consider that eternal 
 life and death are now set before you, in a light so forciblc-in 
 colors so sombre, that hard indeed must be the heart that does 
 not feel. Oh ! think, I beseech you, think of that which awaits 
 you in any event as to time, and may await you even now. 
 
 But this is 'not only the grave of a ijomg man ; it is also 
 that of a Patriot Soldier ! 
 
 At the c:ill of a betrayed and suffering country, he forgot the 
 comforts of home, the pleasures of the family circle; he saw 
 only the red flash, and heard only the booming of the guns that 
 wjre turned by traitorous hands against the maternal bosom of 
 the country that had nursed them with a powerful vitality. The 
 Macedonian cry, '' Come over and help us," that floated through 
 every valley, and circled round every hill-top, and penetrated 
 every home in our loyal States, was no unmeaning sound to him, 
 and he went forth to battle for right, against wrong ; to place his 
 body among the tens of thousands of those that should dam up 
 the surging stream of traitorous wickedness that threatened to 
 sweep over and desolate this fair land, won for us by our fore- 
 fathers, given to us by God to be the home of light and liberty, 
 and of religious freedom. 
 
 The land of his birth, the heritage of his fathers, called for 
 help, and he went. Noble resolve ! Holy and sacred purpose ! 
 All honor to those who thus prove that tliey are not the degen- 
 erate oftspring of a coward race. We cannot pay too much re- 
 spect to, we cannot shed too many tears over, we cannot heap 
 too high our tributes of appreciative gratitude on the remains ot 
 
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 such men. Let every patriot weave a garland of flowers to lay 
 upon such graves, and let their memory be ever green. 
 
 It seems but yesterday that we bade him "good bye" and 
 " God speed" in the dangerous and patriotic service he had 
 undertaken. We can hardly realize yet that he is dead. He 
 died at tlie post of duty, (always an honorable place at which to 
 die,) another sacrifice on the altar of that gigantic Moloch of 
 wrong, that w.' liave protected so long, are even now hesitating 
 to strike to the ground, although with upraised hand and malign 
 purpose, it is ready to strike us to the heart. How many gather- 
 erings like this has our land seen in the last few months ! What 
 multitudes of desolate homos ! What thousands of weeping 
 mothers, and wives, and sisters ! of broken-hearted fathers, 
 whose grief is too mighty for tears ! What countless mounds in 
 graveyards, in distant fields, in lonely swamp, and silent woods, 
 and along rivers banks, mark the spots where America's patriot 
 soldiery have raised up monuments, more precious than the finest 
 sculpture of Italy's famous schools. 
 
 We know but little of the experiences of the last moments 
 of our friend. I corresponded somewhat with him, while at 
 his post, and took occasion (particularly in one lettn-) to 
 press upon his attention that most important of all matters, 
 lyrepitrntion for denfh^ using the words of my text to-day as 
 peculiarly descriptive of a soldier's condition. He replied very 
 kindly, acknowledging the truth of my remarks, and also the 
 fact that he was no stranger to the strivings of the Spirit of 
 God. There was a tenderness about his letter that was grati- 
 fying and hopefid to me at the time. He was a child of the 
 covenant, and wo dou1)t not a child of prayer. 
 
 He is in the hands of one who abounds in tender mercy, as 
 well as justice. With that assurance we must rest content. The 
 Judge of all tlu^ enrtji will do no wrong. Again we say, all 
 
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 honor to those who die tlui>', for their «'ouiitry\s (Iclivcranc'. l>et 
 all Lfuzj upon the reuiauis und nay " Aiiieu !" 
 
 / tifiy not furgcl hmreirr thai thin is also the grave of a son. 
 My dear friends, I cannot t(dl you how deeply I feel for you ; 
 how sincerely I sympathize with you. I'his, I believe is the first 
 death that has entered your family circle ; an ('xem))tion enjoyed 
 but by very few parents. This is an epoch in your family history, 
 for at no time i.-3 the occurrence of death so touchin!.', or its rav- 
 ages so visible, as wlien it breaks the first link of the <rolden chain 
 that creates the identity of a family. It is an event that is never 
 forgotten by the survivois, and that changes all their subsequent 
 associations and history. Whichever one of the family it may 
 be that first leaves its precincts for the darkness of eternity, 
 makes a breach that no subsequent bereavement excels, in a cer- 
 tain light. The family thereafter can never be the same as it 
 was. A new order of association has been commenced; new 
 fountains of feeling and experience unsealed, which, though they 
 may afterward flow unseen, will never dry again. Hopes or fears 
 are awakened that never subside ; and the mingled web of lifi^ re- 
 ceives the hue of a new and darker thread. There is a link gone 
 that nothing can replace ; a void created that all subseijuent pos- 
 sessions will leave unsatisfied. There may be as much happiness, 
 but it is mingled with recollections which make it a far different 
 experience from that which it would otherwise have been. 
 
 But whenever occurring, the change made by the passing of 
 this fearful shadow over a family, may be the greatest blessing 
 possible. God grant that it may be so in your case. 
 
 Death is a great teacher, and often the very kindest of teachers 
 The moral nature reaps a blessing from the anguish of the men- 
 tal. Wishes and hopes are awakened, which would never have 
 had a being otherwise ; sources of pensive reflection and spiritual 
 communion arc opened which but for death would have remained 
 
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 sealed. You know that sorrow, as well as joy, comes from Him 
 who " worketh all things after the counsel of his own will." God 
 has some wise and beneficent purpose to accomplish toward you 
 in this sad providence. Strive to co-operate with Him ; and 
 remember his precious promise, " When thou passest through the 
 waters, I will be with thee ; and through the rivers, they shall 
 not overflow thee ; when thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt 
 not be burned ; neither shall the flame kindle upon thee." '' He 
 shall deliver thee in six troubles : yea, in seven there shall no 
 evil touch thee." 
 
 Your trial is indeed a sore one ; God give you abundant grace 
 to bear it. You are no strangers to the sympathy and support 
 of Jesus ; and they are still yours. There are not wanting miti- 
 gating circumstances about this providence, which are like seams 
 of gold running through the dark quartz. Let not the general 
 gloom about it prevent you from seeing and appreciating them as 
 the evidence of God's tender mercy. Beside others the single 
 one of being permitted to receive back into the family all that 
 was left on earth of the dear son and brother, and having the 
 melancholy satisfaction of weeping over it, of burying it whei-e 
 you know of it, and where you may ease the bitter pain of the 
 heart by beautif_ying and enriching with the evidences of aff'ection, 
 his last resting place. This you will know how to value. Com- 
 pare this circumstance with the nameless graves which so many 
 hundreds find in common with others. This is love, mercy ; 
 value it highly. 
 
 And, in conclusion. Is there not a lesson which all the rest of 
 us may learn here .' There are many ways of preaching the gospel 
 of Jesus without selecting a text, and standing in a pulpit. 
 Wilberforce preached it, in his sphere before the dignitaries of a 
 nation ; Hannah More preached it in the polished intercourse of 
 the parlor ; Elizabeth Fry, from the gloomy prison cell ; and 
 
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 Harlan Page preaclicd it in scattering his tracts abroad. The 
 dairyman's daughter murmuring the name of Jesus with her 
 dying voice ; and the shepherd of Salisbury Plain, leaning on his 
 crook to talk with passers by of Eternity, were all eminent preach- 
 ers of the gospel. The saintly Halyburton delivered his most 
 impressive sermons on a dying bed. " This is the last pulpit I 
 shall ever be in," said he, " let me commend my blessed Lord 
 in it." 
 
 There is no more eloquent preacher of the truth of death to 
 man, than the mute remains of our dead friends. The simple 
 coffin is a pulpit which surpasses far in its impressive power, all 
 the decorative art of human ingenuity, by which is sought to im- 
 press and solemnize the mind. It stands on an elevation where 
 no other pulpit can be erected ; from it may be seen both eter- 
 nity and time. It, as it were, unites life and death ; over it the 
 living may reach forth their hands, and clasp them with those of 
 the dead. 
 
 And what, my fiiends, is preached to us from the pulpit to- 
 day .' The subject is familiar, and the text simple enough ; the 
 one is Death, the other is prepare to meet thy God. For author- 
 ity of its truth it appeals to the word of G od ; for argument, to 
 our experience ; and for illustration, to such scenes as the pres- 
 ent. Shall we heed the lesson, or shall we go away from this 
 preacher, this pulpit, this sermon, as we have gone from so many 
 others ? Like one beholding his natural face in a glass, and 
 going his way, straightway forgetteth what manner of man he was. 
 Let us not be so unwise ; but let us remember that however 
 young, however healthy, however filled with this world's good, 
 however bright our future prospects, or present enjoyment ; in a 
 word, whatever our circumstances or condition in life may be, 
 there is but a step between us and death ; that we have to meet 
 God ; and that preparation, immediate, careful, minute, personal. 
 
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 uud sincere, uccordiug to His free and glorious terms, is abso- 
 lutely necessary, if we would have lliat meeting one of joy, a 
 meeting of fiiends. 
 
 This, in a few words, is the lesson to us all, contained in this 
 uulooked-for and solemn providence. If we profit by it, it shall 
 be well ; if not, it shall be all the worse for us. Our feelings 
 will have lost more of their sensibility, and our hearts will bo 
 harder, and tlu* probabilities that we will ever come to Jesus 
 less, and our salvation will be farther removed than ever. 
 
 These are terrible results to flow from such a service as this, 
 to all who refuse to take warning. God grant that in not a sin- 
 gle instance here may this truth ever be illustrated. And let 
 those of us who are making this preparation, be more anxious, 
 more resolved, more constant (in the Divine strength) than ever, 
 feeling that the Christian is no exception to the general declara- 
 tion of the text. Let us v/atch that when the bridegroom com- 
 eth, with our lamps trimmed, and lights burning, we may go forth 
 with joy to meet Him. Amen. 
 
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