TT618 .B2 ■•■•■/V^y <►. q. ♦TT.-* aO- • ,0* .•■•• *c A* . •° H \\ A NEW YORK CLUBMAN NEW TORK D. Appleton & Co., 1,3,85 Bond Street 1888 ■\-\th Copyright, i883, By D. APPLETON AND COMPANY. -103$ CONTENTS. Page Introduction 7 I. The First Steps that Count . . 9 II. Under-clothing 20 III. Shirts ...... 30 IV. Suits of Clothes . . . . .37 V. The Care of Clothes . . 51 VI. Hats and Neckwear . . . .57 VII. Jewelry and Gloves .... 70 VIII. How to Branch Out a Little . . 74 HINTS ABOUT MEN'S DRESS, Introduction. It is to the credit of Americans, espe- cially to those of the present younger gen- erations, that they generally do the best they can to dress and appear well, so that they may excite no remark ; and to be neat in their personal habits, so that they may not be offensive to refined tastes and crit- ical eyes. Their efforts are fairly well re- warded, but the struggle is made under many disadvantages. Their forefathers, im- 8 Introduction. mediate and remote, have not been able to give them much information about dress or manner, having always been too busy to think about the minor things of life ; and thus, scattered throughout the country, in parts far away from large cities, ambitious boys have had a hard time to learn just how gentlemen do dress and act in the con- ventional phases of life. To help such youths and men to accom- plish their laudable purposes more easily, the following pages have been prepared. But it is taken for granted in all that is written that the reader is honest, gentle, generous, brave, and wise. Else what he learns herein will benefit him little in his efforts to be a true gentleman. The First Steps that Count. Baths — Shaving one's self — Dressing the hair — Care of the teeth and nails — The use of perfumes unwise. There is more reason in the English- man's morning " tub " than most people give him credit for. It is not mere affecta- tion. A nice Anglo-Saxon in England or America understands that cleanliness is the prime requisite of health and of a gentle- man, and that for obvious reasons a man who does not indulge in frequent baths will not be an acceptable person in good society. 10 tfhe First Steps that Count. It is no little trouble to keep clean, but it pays, and is the basis of all decency. There are various ways of doing it, some more convenient than others. A tub-bath in one's own room is an awkward arrange- ment, and a sponge-bath scatters too much water ; while to fill the stationary tub takes time and watching. Most convenient of all is the shower-bath. If this is arranged for hot and cold water, it requires only a mo- ment's patience to get a shower of the proper temperature, and not much longer to take a good bath and a thorough wash with castile soap. Not every one can stand the shower well, and delicate men should be careful not to take it too cold or too often ; but the average man may enjoy a bath of this kind every morning without harm to fhe First Steps that Count. 11 his health. One should wipe himself thor- oughly until perfectly dry. It is not neces- sary to have a towel as rough as a corn-cob, nor to keep up the rubbing till the skin is blood-red, as many books about health in- sist. While the tepid bath is agreeable and harmless, the bather should constantly try to lower the temperature, provided it does not get so cold as to leave him in a chill. After a bath the operation of shaving is in order. Every man ought to shave him- self. So doing not only saves money and time, but it is cleaner. It is not agreeable to a person of refinement to have a barber pawing his face ; neither does a gentleman enjoy the society of the barber-shop while " waiting his turn." The haughty man who would not allow the barber to turn aside 12 "The First Steps that Count. his long Roman nose (although it was gently done), nor to pull down the corners of his mouth, did not deserve the credit he claimed for not tolerating familiarities from any one. He should have shaved himself at home, and manipulated his own features. The care of razors may be a little diffi- cult at first, but the knack of sharpening them is easily learned, and, aside from the advantage of cleanliness, if one has a tender skin, he can shave himself more easily than any one else can do it for him. Of course, for trimming the beard — the chin-whisker is not tolerated now — the mustache, and the hair, it is necessary to endure a barber ; but under no circumstances should he be al- lowed to put anything on the hair except cold water. Nothing is so objectionable as tfhe First Steps that Count. 13 the smell of cheap perfumery. A word here as to perfumery in general. Don't use it. 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