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'^tA''-'-''- ,^
ADVICE TO A MOTHER
ON THE
MANAGEMENT OF HER CHILDREN
MR. PYE CHAVASSE'S OTHER WORK,
UNIFORM WITH THIS BOOK.
THE FOURTEENTH EDITION OF
ADVICE TO A WIFE
ON THE
MANAGEMENT OF HER OWN HEALTH,
WITH AN INTRODUCTORY CHAPTER
ESPECIALLY ADDRESSED TO A YOUNG WIFE;
TOGETHER WITH A CHAPTER ON THE VALUE OF CHLOROFORM
IN HARD AND IN TEDIOUS LABORS.
Edited by Dr. Fancouri Barms,
/
CHAVASSE'S
ADVICE TO A MOTHER
ON THE
MANAGEMENT OF HER CHILDREN
AND ON THE
TREATMENT ON THE MOMENT
OF SOME OF THEIR MORE PRESSING ILLNESSES
AND ACCIDENTS
BY
GEORGE XARPENTER, M.D. Lond.
Physician at the Evelina Hospital for sick Children, London; Editor of
'^'^ Pediatrics,''^ an Anglo-American fournal devoted to the Diseases
of Infants and Children, Etc., Etc.
ADAPTED
FOR AMERICAN READERS
BY AN
AMERICAN PHYSICIAN
" Lo, children and the fruit of the womb are an heritage and
gift that Cometh of the Lord."
Tifteentb eaition o^^^^^^'' ""^
m 31898
NEW YORK^^^e^ of CopfJS
GEORGE ROUTLEDGE & SONS, Limited
119 AND 121 West 23D Street
'^^^ TWO COPIES RECEIVED.
p^li5C»^
7295
Copyright, 1898, by
J. & A. CHURCHILL
PEEFACE TO THE FIFTEENTH EDITIOIST.
Eleyek years have elapsed since the publication of
the fourteenth edition of '' Advice to a Mother/' The
publishers, feeling that a new edition was required, re-
quested me, the author being no longer among us, to
undertake the task of its preparation.
, Of recent years the study of Pediatrics, or the art of
healing children, has made enormous strides, so much
so that, however unwilling I might be to make radical
alterations in a work that made the reputation of its
author, yet there was no help for it, if the book was
to maintain its high standing and consequent popu-
larity.
I have therefore added about one hundred pages of
fresh matter, comprising sixty-three additional Conver-
sations, to the original work, and I have also found it
necessary to rewrite about two-thirds of the book,
wholly or in part, together with certain other minor
additions and structural alterations, to bring it up to
modern requirements.
In Part I. the important subject of infant feeding
has been dealt with at great length, and much addi-
tional information has been imparted on infantile and
childish disorders. Much of the original matter has
been rewritten.
Many alterations and considerable additions have
been made in the Conversations relating to childhood.
Part II.
Information regarding the requirements of the Public
VI PKEFACE.
Health Acts, the methods of disinfection, and the hy-
giene of the nursery have been added, as also much use-
ful information on the nursing of infectious and other
disorders.
The methods of the preparation of various local ap-
plications required in the sick-chamber, which are likely
to be ordered by the doctor, have not been forgotten.
The Conversations dealing with diseases, whether of
a general or a special character, and accidents, have
been for the most part rewritten and much new matter
incorporated.
Some additions have been made to Part III., and
some of the Conversations relating to diseases have
been rewritten.
I have removed the prescriptions which were for-
merly placed in the body of the work, and have selected
a few simple prescriptions in an Appendix, for ready
reference should an emergency arise.
The chief reason why prescriptions have been ban-
ished from the body of the work is that no mother shall
be tempted under the authority of this book, which is
after all, but an elementary and a popular guide, to
undertake the grave responsibility of the treatment of a
serious disease without calling in medical assistance.
A mother must ever remember that years of arduous
study and special training have enabled the doctor to
detect the nature of an illness, and that the primary
object of seeking skilled assistance is to discover the
com|)laint, which possibly may be only a simple one ;
but, on the other hand, it may be very grave, and mo-
ments are then precious.
When the nature of the complaint has been accurate-
ly determined, the appropriate remedy will be the more
readily and successfully applied.
A prescription is of but little value if the correct
riew of the nature of an illness is not taken and its .in-
discriminate use is only likely to lull a mother into
PREFACE. Vli
false security, a condition of affairs which it is not the
aim and object of this book to bring about.
Maternal instinct and maternal love, even when forti-
fied by a volume of this nature, can never successfully
usurp the place of the skilled physician ; but should an
emergency arise, then it will be very right and proper for
a mother to make good use of the knowledge contained
within these pages, and act promptly, for prompt action
may make all the difference between a successful and
an unsuccessful issue.
When making these various alterations and additions
I have erased only that which was absolutely necessary,
and I have, as far as possible followed the style of the
original author, so that the character of the work, which
is evidently very popular with many thousands of British
and Colonial mothers, shall not suffer.
^^ Advice to a Mother " has passed through fourteen
editions and 230,000 copies have been sold.
It has also been translated into various European, and
even Asiatic, languages. It has also been extensively
republished in America. It is largely read in Australia
and wherever the English language is spoken.
I can only hope that the new work may be as useful
to mothers and as beneficial to their children in the
present generation, as preceding editions were to former
generations during the lifetime of Mr. Pye Chavasse.
GEORGE CARPENTEE, M. D. Lokd.
12 Welbeck Street,
Cavendish Square, London, W.
March, 1898.
CONTENTS.
PART I.— INFANCY.
PAGE
Preliminary Conversation 1
Ablution , 5
Management of the Navel 12
Navel Rupture — Groin Rupture 14
Clothing „ 18
Diet • 23
Yaccination and Re-vaccination 64
Dentition 70
Exercise 83
Sleep 85
The Bladder and the Bowels of an Infant 90
Ailments, Disease, Etc 92
Concluding Remarks on Infancy 141
PART II.— CHILDHOOD.
Ablution 142
Clothing 144
Diet 150
The Nursery 163
Exercise 191
Amusements 195
Education 200
IX
X COKTEKTS.
PAGE
Sleep 204
Second Dentition 209
On Disease, Etc ." . . . 210
Warm Baths 333
Warm External Applications 334
Accidents 337
PART III.— BOYHOOD AND GIRLHOOD.
Ablution, Etc 353
Management of the Hair 360
Clothing 361
Diet 364
Air and Exercise . . 367
Amusements 372
Education 376
Household Work for Girls .• 380
Choice of Profession or Trade 380
Sleep 382
On the Teeth and the Gums 386
Prevention of Disease, Etc 388
Concluding Remarks 422
APPENDIX.
Prescriptions 423
INDEX 427
If this book is to be of use to mothees and to the
rising generation, — as i humbly hope and trust that it
has been, and that it will be still more abundantly,
— it ought not to be listlessly read, merely as a
novel or as any other piece of fiction, but it must be
tho ughtfully and carefully studied, until its contents
—in all their bearings — be completely mastered and
understood.
XI
CHAVASSE'S
A D VICE TO A MOTHER.
PART I.— INFANCY.
Infant and suckling. — 1 Samuel.
A rose with all its sweetest leaves yet folded. — Byron.
Man^s breathing Miniature /—Coleridge,
PEELIMI:N'AKY C0i?"YERSATIOK.
1. I wish to consult you on many subjects appertain-
ing to the management and the care of children : ivill
you favor me with your advice and counsel?
I shall be liappy to accede to your request, and to
give you the fruits of my experience in the clearest
manner I am able, and in the simplest language I can
command, free from all technicalities. I will endeavor
to guide you in the management of the health of your
offspring. I will describe to you the symptoms of some
of the diseases of children. I will warn you of the
approaching danger, in order that you may promptly
apply for medical assistance before disease has gained
too firm a footing. I will give you the treatmei^t at
the moment of some of their more pressing illnesses —
when medical aid cannot quickly be procured, and where
delay may be death. I will instruct you, in case of acci-
dents, on the IMMEDIATE employment of remedies where
procrastination may be dangerous. I will tell you how
2 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
a sick child should be nursed, and how a sick-room
ought to be managed. I will use my best energy to
banish injurious practices from the nursery. I will
treat of the means to prevent disease where it be pos-
sible. I will show you the way to preserve the health
of the healthy, and how to strengthen the delicate. I
will strive to make a medical man^s task more agree-
able to himself and more beneficial to his patient, by
dispelling errors and prejudices, and by proving the
importance of your strictly adhering to his rules. If I
can accomplish any of these objects, I shall be amply
repaid by the pleasing satisfaction that I have been of
some little service to the rising generation.
2. Then you consider it important that I should he
made acquainted luith, and he luell informed upon, the
suhjects you have just named ?
Certainly ! I deem it to be your imperative duty to
study the subjects well. The proper management of
children is a vital question, — a mother's question, — and
the most important that can be brought under the con-
sideration of a parent ; and, strange to say, it is one
that has been more neglected than any other. How
many mothers undertake the responsible management
of children without previous instruction, or without
forethought I They undertake it as though it might
be learned by intuition, or by instinct, or by affection.
The consequence is, that frequently they are in a sea of
trouble and uncertainty, tossing about without either
rule or compass ; until, too often, their hopes and
treasures are shipwrecked and lost.
The care and management, and consequently the
health and future well-doing of the child, principally
devolve upon the mother ; ^^ for it is the mother after
all that has most to do with the making or marring of
the man." * Dr. Guthrie justly remarks that — " Moses
* Good Words, Dr. W. Lindsay Alexander.
ADVICE TO A 310THER. 3
might have never been the man he was unless he had
been nursed by his own mother. How many celebrated
men have owed their greatness and their goodness to a
mother^s training ! " Napoleon owed much to his
mother. *^^The fate of a child/ said N'apoleon, 'is
always the work of his mother ; ' and this extraordinary
man took pleasure in repeating, that to his mother he
owed his elevation. All history confirms this opinion.
. . . The character of the mother influences the chil-
dren more than that of the father, because it is more
exposed to their daily, hourly observation/^ — Woman's
Mission.
I am not overstating the importance of the subject in
hand when I say that a child is the most valuable treas-
ure in the world, that ''he is the precious gift of God,^^
that he is the source of a mother^s greatest and purest
enjoyment, that he is the strongest bond of affection
between her and her husband, and that
" A babe in a house is a well-spring of pleasure,
A messenger of peace and love." — Tupper.
I have, in the writing of the following pages, had one
object constantly in view — namely, health —
'* That salt of life, which does to all a relish give,
Its standing pleasure, and intrinsic wealth.
The body's virtue, and the soul's good fortune — health."
If the following pages insist on the importance of one
of a mother's duties more than another it is this, — that
the mother herself look ivell into everything appertaining
to the management of her own child.
Blessed is that mother among mothers of whom it can
be said, that " she hath done what she could '' for her
child — for his welfare, for his happiness, for his health !
For if a mother hath not " done what she could for
her child ''' — mentally, morally, and physically — woe be-
tide the unfortunate little creature ; — better had it been
for him had he never been born !
Some few years ago I took up a big Blue Book full of
4 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
figures. It was called ^^ The Thirty-ninth Annual Re-
port of the Registrar-General^ for the year 1876/^ The
population of England then numbered twenty-four and
a half millions. The births were some 900,000 ; the
deaths 500,000. Of this 500,000, nearly half— pray
mark this — nearly half of these deaths occurred in chil-
dren under the age of five years. To bring these large
figures home to each of you, fancy every family losing
half its children ! What havoc ! What sorrow !
Further, more than half the children who died under
five years, died before attaining the end of the first year.
Less than one-third of all children born reach their fifth
year ; more than one-sixth never see the end of their
first year. You ask — " What can science do to alter
this state of matters ?'^ Let me give you an example.
The Dublin Lying-in Hospital is a world-known insti-
tution. From the year 1757 to 1783, — a period of
twenty-six years, — of seventeen and a half thousand
children born, nearly one in six died. In the years
1825 to 1832 — a period of seven years — of sixteen and a
half thousand children, only one died out of every sixty !
Figures may be made to prove anything. In this case,
I want them honestly to prove to you that disease and
untimely death are not the result of chance or from
necessity, but are mainly attributable to the breaking
of laws and conditions on which a beneficent Creator
has decreed that the health and welfare of our bodies
shall depend. Now, all of you would have this nation
a pride, a glory among the nations of the earth !
Listen ! ^^ A large and healthy population is the life
and strength of a nation and the source of its success
in science, art, agriculture, commerce." What are the
essentials for procuring infant health and preventing
disease ? Pure air, cleanliness, suitable clothing, plain
and natural food, prompt and skilful medical aid. You
IKFAN'CY. — ABLUTIOiq'. 5
may ask — '' Suppose I do save a child by following these
directions^ what good shall I do to him^ the nation, or
myself ? '' Well, the probable duration of life of a child,
one year old or at birth — that is, how long it will live —
is reckoned to be forty years. Think of this ! Forty
years for good or evil ! I need not answer the question
further. What is the constant thought of the young
mother or guardian, a thought dwelt on in deepest love
and awe ? Is it not the infant — their infant ? What
subject engrosses the father's anxiety and makes him
speculate so on the future ? The prosperity and happi-
ness of his child. The old Greeks summed up infant
life well, when they said — " That what made men citi-
zens, patriots, heroes, was the love of wedded wife and
child. ^^
ABLUTIOIS".
3. Is a new-horn infant, for the first time, to he loashed
in warm or in cold ivater ?
It is not an uncommon plan to use cold water from
the first, under the impression of its strengthening the
child. This appears to be a cruel and barbarous prac-
tice, and is likely to have a contrary tendency. More-
over, it frequently produces inflammation of the eyes, or
stuffing of the nose, or inflammation of the lungs, or
looseness of the bowels. Although I do not approve of
cold water, we ought not to run into an opposite ex-
treme, as hot water would weaken and enervate the babe,
and thus would predispose him to disease. Warm water
will be the best with which to wash him. This, if it be
summer, should have its temperature gradually lowered,
until it be tepid (85° to 92° Fahr.).* Bain-ioater is
* A bath-tub placed upon two chairs and holding either six
or eight quarts of water, and sufficiently large for the w^hole
body of the child, is considered the best.
6 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
better than well or cistern water, being softer. When
procurable it should be used in preference. It may be
either boiled or heated by the addition of ordinary hot
water.
It will be necessary to use soap. Castile soap is the
best for the purpose, being less irritating to the skin than
the ordinary soap. Care should be taken that it does
not get into the eyes, as it may produce in them either
inflammation or smarting.
If the skin be delicate, or if there be any excoriation
or '' breaking-out " on the skin, then Glycerine soap,
instead of the Castile soap, ought to be used.
^. At what age do you recommend a motlier to commence
washing her infant, either in the tub or in the nursery
hasiii f
From birth. Do not be afraid of water, and that in
plenty, as it is one of the best strengtheners to a child^s
constitution. How many infants suffer from excoria-
tion for the want of water !
5. Which do you prefer —flannel or sponge — to wash
a child with ?
A piece of flannel, is, for the first part of the washing,
very useful — that is to say, to use with the soap, and to
loosen the dirt and the perspiration ; but for the finish-
ing-up process, a sponge — a large sponge — is superior
to flannel, to wash all away, and to complete the bath-
ing. A sponge cleanses and gets into all the nooks, cor-
ners, and crevices of the skin. Besides, to finish up
with, it is softer and more agreeable to the tender skin of
a babe than fianrpel. Moreover, it holds more Avater
than flannel, and thus enables you to stream the water
more effectually over him. A large sponge will act like
a miniature shower bath, and will thus brace and
strengthen him.
6. To prevent a neuj-born babe from catching cold, is it
necessary to ivash his head ivith brandy ?
It is not necessary. The idea that it will prevent
IKFAI^CY. — ABLUTION. 7
cold is erroneous, as the rapid evaporation of heat which
the brandy causes is more likely to give than to prevent
cold.
7. Ought that teyiacioiis, paste-lihe siihstance, adhering
to the sMn of a new-horn hahe, to he ivashed off at the
first dressing^
It should, provided it be done with a soft sponge and
with care. If there be any difficulty in removing the
substance, gently rub it with a flannel,* smeared with
Vaseline, or Lanoline, or Sweet-oil. After the parts
have been well and gently rubbed with the Vaseline, or
Oil, or Lanoline, let all be washed off together, and be
thoroughly cleansed away, by means of a sponge, and
soap, and warm water. Then, to complete the process,
gently put the child for a minute or two in his tub. If
this paste-like substance be allowed to remain on the
skin, it might produce either an excoriation, or a ^' break-
ing-out.''^ Besides, it is impossible, if that tenacious
substance be allowed to remain on it, for the skin to
perform its proper functions.
8. Have you any general ohservation to maJce on the
ivashing of a neiu-horn infant, f
The ablution should be thorough ; and this can only
be properly done by putting him bodily either into a
tub, or into a bath, or into a large nursery-basin, half
filled with water. The head, before placing him in the
bath, should be first wetted (but not dried) ; then im-
*Mrs. Baines (who has written so much and so well on the
Management of Children), in a Letter to the Author, recom-
mends flaimel to be used in the ilrst washing of an infant, which
flannel ought afterwards to be burned ; and that the sponge should
be only used to complete the process, to clear off what the flannel
had already loosened. She also recommends that every child
should have his own sponge, each of which should have a partic-
ular distinguishing mark upon it, as she considers the promis-
cuous use of the same sponge to be a frequent cause of ophthalmia
(inflammation of the eyes). The sponges cannot be kept too clean.
8 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
mediately put him into the water, and, with a piece of
flannel well soaked, cleanse his whole body, particula'rly
his arm-pits, between his thighs, his groins, and his
hams ; then take a large sponge in hand, well filled, and
allow the water from it to stream all over the body
particularly over his back and loins. Let this advice
be well observed, and you will find the plan most
strengthening to your child. The skin must, after every
bath, be thoroughly but quickly dried with warm, dry,
soft towels, first enveloping the child in one, and then
gently absorbing the moisture with the towel, not
roughly scrubbing and rubbing his tender skin as though
a horse were being rubbed down.
The ears must, after each ablution, be carefully and
well dried with a soft dry napkin. Inattention to this
advice has sometimes caused a gathering in the ear — a
painful and distressing complaint ; and at other times
it has produced deafness. Do not, however, go to the
opposite extreme. Hairpins and the hard ends of towels
may be the cause of a ruptured drum and acute inflamma-
tion of the ear.
Directly after the infant is dried, all the parts that
are at all likely to be chafed ought to be well powdered.
After he is well dried and powdered, the chest, the back,
the bowels, and the limbs should be gently rubbed, tak-
ing care not to expose him unnecessarily during such
friction.
Strong offspring can be washed twice a day — the
weakly only once. You all know the various bathing
utensils, beginning from the infant tub to the adult
long bath. Then we have the various kinds of baths, —
cold, tepid, hot, salt, vapor, &c. These must be used
according to circumstances. The ordinary temperature
of a warm bath should be 90° to 96° Fahr. Always use
a bath thermometer. The best time for bathing is in
the morning. In the evening it is better to sponge the
child's body well, rather than to exhaust it with a formal
INFANCY. — ABLUTIOK. 9
bath. A good large clean sponge will do much to cleanse
the skm. Two rules should be before those who wash
children — quickness and efficient washing. One is
sometimes asked — " Does cold water harden the body ?
Speaking generally, I would reply, "^ 'Eo." Bathing is
a great agent in restoring health and in maintaining
it. It is also a powerful — a very powerful — agent for
destroying life. Hence my advice — Ask your doctor
what to do in the matter.
9. Hoiv often sliould a new-born infant le washed
during tlie day 9
A babe should be washed every night of his life from
head to foot ; and he ought to be partially washed every
morning ; indeed it is necessary to use a sponge and a
little warm water frequently during the day, namely,
each time after the bowels have been relieved. Clean-
liness is one of the grand incentives to health, and there-
fore cannot be too strongly insisted upon. If more at-
tention were paid to this subject, children would be
more exempt from chafings, ^^ breakings-out,''^ and
consequent suffering, than they at present are. After
the second month, if the babe be delicate, the addition
of two handfuls of table-salt to the water he is washed
with in the morning will tend to brace and strengthen
him.
10. Should the child he fed before being washed?
No. Wash the child before putting him to the breast
or giving him food.
11. What precautions are necessary in bathing an
infant ?
Put it into the water gently. Do not frighten it by
suddenly dipping it. See that your left hand grasps
the buttocks ; that the spine and head rests on your
left arm. Keep the head well out of the water.
12. What are the best poivders to a^jply to the cliild's
body ?
These may consist of finely 2')owdered starch to which
10 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
5 per cent, of Boracic Acid is added to prevent decom-
position, or Fehr's Compound Talcum Powder. Violet
Powder is finely powdered starch scented. " Sanitary
Rose Powder/' which is pure Boracic Acid, is also good,
and is moreover freely soluble in the bath water.
13. If the parts about the groin and fundament he
excoriated, what is then the best applicatio7i 9
After sponging the parts with tepid water, holding
him over his tub, and allowing the water from a well-
filled sponge to stream over the parts, and then drying
them with a soft napkin (not rubbing, but gently dab-
bing with the napkin), there is nothing better than
dusting the parts frequently with finely powdered
Native Carbonate of Zinc — Calamine Powder — or with
a powder consisting of equal parts of Oxide of Zinc and
Starch thoroughly mixed. The best way of using the
powder is, tying up a little of it in a piece of muslin,
and then gently dabbing the parts with it.
Remember, excoriations are generally owing to the
want of water, — to the want of an abundance of water.
An infant who is every day well soused and well swilled
with water seldom suffers either from excoriations or
from any other of the numerous skin diseases. Clean-
liness, then, is the grand preventive of, and the best
remedy for excoriations. ISTaaman, the Syrian, was
ordered ^' to wash and be clean,'' and he was healed,
'^^and his flesh came again like unto the flesh of a little
child, and he was clean." This was, of course, a mir-
acle ; but how often does water, without any special
intervention, act miraculously both in preventing and
in curing skin diseases !
14. Should the infant's napkins he ivashed with soda ?
An infant's clothes, napkins especially, ought never
to be washed with soda. The washing of napkins with
soda is apt to produce excoriations and breakings-out.
*^ As washerwomen often deny that they use soda, it can
be easily detected by simply soaking a clean white naj)-
I:N^FA]!^CY. — ABLUTIOi^. 11
kin in fresh water and then tasting the water ; if it be
brackish and salt, soda has been employed/^
15. Who is the proper person to wash and dress the
hahe 9
The monthly nurse, as long as she is in attendance ;
but afterwards the mother, unless she should happen to
have an experienced, sensible^ thoughtful nurse, which,
unfortunately, is seldom the case.*
16. What is the hest hind of apron for a mother, or
for a nurse, to toear, ivhile tvashing the infant ?
A flannel apron, — a good, thick, soft flannel, usually
called bathcoating, — made long and full. It ought to
be well dried every time before it is used.
17. Perhaps you will hindly recapitulate, and give me
further advice on the subject of the ablution of my babe.
Let him by all means, then, from birth, be bathed
either in his tub, or m his bath, or in his large nursery-
basin ; for if he is to be strong and healthy, in the
water every morning he must go. The water ought to
be warm. It is dangerous for him to remain for a long
period in his bath ; this holds good in a tenfold degree
if the child have either a cold or pain in his bowels.
Quickly bath and quickly dress. Take care that im-
mediately after he comes out of his tub, he is well dried
with warm towels. It is well to let him have his bath
the first thing in the morning, and before he has been
put to the breast ; let him be washed before he has his
breakfast ; it will refresh him and give him an appetite.
He ought to have his morning ablution on an empty
* " The Princess of Wales might have been seen on Thursday
taking an airing in a brougham in Hyde Park with her baby —
the future King of England — on her lap, without a nurse, and
accompanied only by Mrs. Bruce. The Princess seems a very
pattern of mothers, and it is whispered among the ladies of the
Court that every evening the mother of this young gentleman
may be seen in a flannel dress, in order that she may properly
wash and put on baby's night clothes, and see him safely in bed.
It is a pretty subject for a picture. — Pall Mall Gazette.
12 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
stomach, or it may interfere with digestion, and might
produce sickness and pain. In putting him in his tub,
let his head be the first part washed. We all know,
that in bathing in the sea, how much better we can
bear the water if we first wet our head ; if we do not do
so, we shiver, and feel starved, and miserable. Let
there be no dawdling in the washing ; let it be quickly
over. When he is thoroughly dried with warm dry
towels, let him be well rubbed with the warm hand of
the mother or of the nurse. While drying him and
while rubbing him, let him repose, and kick, and
stretch, either on the warm flannel apron, or else on a
small blanket placed on the lap. One bathing in the
tub, and that in the evening, is sufficient, and better
than night "and morning. During the day, as I before
observed, he may, after the action either of his bowels
or of his bladder, require several spongings of luke-
water, /or cleanliness is a grand incentive to health and
comeliness.
Remember, it is absolutely necessary for every child
from his earliest babyhood to have a bath, to be im-
mersed every day of his life in the water. This advice,
unless in cases of severe illness, admits of no exception.
Water to the body — to the whole body — is a necessity
of life, of health, and of happiness ; it wards off disease,
it braces the nerves, it hardens the frame, it is the
finest tonic in the world. Oh, if every mother would
follow to the very letter this counsel, how much misery,
how much ill health might then be averted !
MA]S"AGEMENT OF THE KAYEL.
18. Hoiu should the navel-string he treated 9
It may be wrapped in a piece of fine old linen rag
and dressed twice a day with Boracic Acid Ointment
spread on lint, or be enclosed in absorbent cotton-wool
and frequently dusted with dry Boracic Acid Powder.
Gamgee tissue or wood-wool wadding may take the place
IHFAKCY. — MAKAGEMEi^^T OF THE NAYEL. 13
of absorbent cotton-wool. Do not use singed rag ; it
frequently irritates the infantas skin.
19. Hoiu ought the navel-string to he ivra2:)pecl in the
rag?
Take a piece of soft linen rag, about three inches
wide and four inches long, and wrap it neatly round the
navel-string, in the same manner you would around a
cut finger, and then, to keep on the rag, tie it with a
few rounds of whifcy-brown thread ; or wrap it round
with cotton-wool, which secure with thread. The
navel-string thus covered should be placed, pointing
upwards, on the belly of the child, and be secured in
its place by means of a flannel binder.
20. If, after the navel-string has leen secured, bleeding
should {in the alisence of the medical man) occur, houj
must it he restrained f
Immediately take off the rag, and tightty retie the
navel-string with a skein of four or five whity-brown
threads ; and to make assurance doubly sure, after once
tying it, pass the threads a second time around the
navel-string, and tie it again ; and after carefully ascer-
taining that it no longer bleeds, fasten it up in a rag as
before. Bleeding of the navel-string rarely occurs, yet,
if it should do so — the medical man not being at hand —
the child's after-health, or even his life, may be
endangered if the above directions be not adopted.
21. When does the navel-string sejjarate from the
child?
From five days to a week after birth ; in some cases
not until ten days or a fortnight ; or even, in rare cases,
not until three weeks.
22. If the navel-string does not at the end of a weeh
come away, ought any means to he used to cause the
separation ?
Certainly not ; it ought always to be allowed to drop
off, which it will readily do when in a fit state.
Meddling with the navel-string has frequently cost the
14 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
babe a great deal of suffering, and in some cases even
his life.
23. The navel is sometimes a little sore after the navel-
string comes away ; luliat ought then to ie done 9
A little Boracic Ointment should be spread on lint,
and be applied every night and morning to the part
affected, until it be quite healed.
24. The navel has a luatery discharge from it, and the
surrounding slcin is sore ; luhat should he done9
You should call the attention of your doctor to this.
Small red prominent projections, which have a moist
surface, are sometimes left after the separation of the
navel-string. These may often be seen quite readily,
but sometimes they are hidden by overhanging skin
until brought in view by its retraction. They can be
cured by a simple operation by your doctor, but very
exceptionally they may be associated with a serious
defect in relationship with the bowel.
:n^ayel eupture — groi:n" rupture.
25. What are the causes of a rupture of the navel ?
What ought to be done 9 Can it he cured ?
(1) A rupture of the navel is sometimes occasioned
by a meddlesome nurse. She is very anxious to cause
the navel-string to separate from the infantas body,
more especially when it is longer in coming away than
usual. She, therefore, before it is in a fit state to drop
off, forces it away. It may exist from birth, owing to
the persistence of a condition which is natural while
the child is still within the womb, or it is brought about
by a failure in the closing up of the layers forming the
walls of the abdomen. (2) The rupture, at another
time, is occasioned by the child incessantly crying. A
mother, then, should always bear in mind that a
rupture of the navel is often caused hy much crying,
and that it occasions much crying ; indeed, it is a
frequent cause of incessant crying. It appears within
IKFAKCY. — KAVEL KUPTURE — GUOlK EUt^TUllE. 15
the first few montlis of life^ and the bowel protrudes usu-
ally just above the scar of the navel. A child^ there-
fore, who, without any assignable cause, is constantly
crying, should have his navel carefully examined.
A rupture of the navel ought always to be treated
early — the earlier the better. Ruptures of the navel
can only be cured in infancy and in childhood. If it be
allowed to run on, or resist all treatment, a cure is
impossible unless a surgical operation be performed.
A good form of treatment is a Burgundy pitch plaster,
spread on a soft piece of wash-leather, about the size of
the top of a tumbler, with a properly-adjusted pad (made
from the plaster) fastened on the center of the plaster,
which will effectually keep back the rupture, and in a
few weeks will cure it. It will be necessary, from time
to time, to renew the plaster until the cure be effected.
These plasters will be found both more efficacious and
pleasant than either truss or bandage, which latter
appliance sometimes galls, and does more harm than
good.
At the Evelina Hospital for Sick Children a piece of
poroplastic felt, about the size of half-a-crown, and
three or four times as thick, is strapped over the seat of
the rupture when the bowel has been pushed back.
The strapping should be four inches broad, the pad
should be placed in the center, and should completely
surround the body, the ends overlapping. It must be
worn continuously from one to three months, and
requires renewal from time to time. When it is changed
great care must be exercised to see that the bowel does
not again protrude ; and to prevent this accident the
finger should be placed upon the spot.
26. What are the causes of groin rupture f
The testicle, in its descent from the cavity of the
abdomen into the '^ purse " (scrotum), which happens
at the eighth month of the infant's life within the
womb, carries with it in its course its surrounding
16 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
membrane (peritoneum). The organ may then either
still remain in direct communication with the abdominal
cavity because — (1) The canal along which it has passed,
and which is lined with the membrane previously men-
tioned, does not close up, as is natural ; or (2) the
canal along which that organ has passed may be only
insecurely closed after its descent, and leave a weak
spot in the groin. Either, then, along this open chan-
nel the bowel readily follows the track of the organ
from the abdomen to the ^^purse,^^ or under some
unusual pressure of the abdominal contents from within
during cougliing, or crying, or straining at stool, or
during itriiiation, the wall gives way, and allows the
rupture to descend. It may then only bulge in the
groin, or pass directly into the "^ purse. ^^ The im|)ort-
ance, therefore, of paying prompt attention to such
complaints as hooping cough, of remedying any tendency
to constipation, of the treatment of worms and the pre-
vention of rickets with chronic bowel complaints, of
keeping the child in a good state of health physically
and morally, so that tits of crying are not indulged in,
and, beyond all things, of seeing that the child does not
require circumcision, cannot be overestimated. Any
tightness of the orifice and undue length of the skin at
the end of the part, bringing about straining and diffi-
culty in passing water, must be attended to in this way,
and your doctor should be communicated with at once.
Groin rupture may develop at any age, and may be
found on one or both sides. It may be noticed soon
after birth, but may not occur for some months or years
afterwards. It is seen mostly in male children, seldom
in girls.
27. If an infant have a groin rupture {an inguinal
rupture), can that also he cured?
Certainly, if, soon after birth, it be properly treated.
Consult a medical man, and he will see you are provided
with a well-fitting truss, which ivill eventually effect a
INFANCY. — NAVEL EUPTURE — GROIN RUPTURE. 17
cure. If the truss be properly made (under the direc-
tion of an experienced surgeon) by a skilful surgical
instrument maker^ a beautiful, nicely-fitting truss will
be supplied, which will take the proper and exact curve
of the lower part of the infantas belly, and will thus keep
on without using any under-strap whatever — a great
desideratum, as these under-straps are so constantly
wetted and soiled as to endanger the patient becoming
excoriated. But if this under-strap is to be superseded,
the truss must be made exactly to fit the child — to fit
him like a ribbon ; which is a difficult thing to accom-
plish unless it be fashioned by a skilful workman. It
is only lately that these trasses have been made without
under-straps. Formerly the under-straps Avere indispen-
sable necessaries.
These groin-ruptures require great attention and
supervision, as the rupture (the bowel) must, before
putting on the truss, be cautiously and completely
returned into the belly. Every care should be used to
prevent the chafing and galling of the tender skin of
the babe, which an ill-fitting truss would be sure to
occasion. If care and skill be bestowed on the case a
perfect cure might in due time be ensured. The truss
must not be discontinued until 2, 'perfect cure is effected.
AVhen a properly-fitting truss, which should be en-
tirely covered by rubber or xylonite, has been once ad-
justed this must not removed, and must be worn night
and day. The infant can have his bath with the truss
on in the usual way. The skin underneath can be kept
in a healthy state by the careful use of Boracic Acid
and starch powder dusted underneath the instrument,
and any signs of trouble from pressure adjusted by the
application of absorbent wool. Two trusses should be
made for the child at tlie same time. When it is neces-
sary to remove the truss, this must be done with the
greatest care and precaution. The child must be placed
on his back and soothed in every way. Before removal
2
18 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
of the truss the finger should be placed underneath the
old truss on the canal of the groin, along which the
rupture descends, and then the fresh truss applied im-
mediately. Sliould the rtqoture l)e alloioed to come cloion,
mucli of the 2^f(^yious treatment has been lost. If the
rupture can be kept up for three months in an infant
the cure is usually complete ; it requires longer in older
children.
Let me strongly urge you to see that my advice is
carried out to the very letter. A groin-rupture can
only be cured by this means in infancy and childhood.
Should this fail, either a surgical operation will be nec-
essary to bring about a cure, or a truss will have to be
worn through life — a great annoyance and a perpetual
irritation. A boy with a rupture is not eligible for
either the Army or the Navy, or for other callings, and
would have to be operated upon successfully to ensure
his passing the necessary medical examination.
28. IIo2v should the eyes he treated after hirth 9
Immediately after the navel string has been tied, and
before bathing the infant, the eyes should be freed from
any discharges adherent to them by means of a soft rag,
which should then be thrown into the fire at once.
They are then to be thoroughly cleansed with a warm 5
per cent, solution of Boracic Acid. When the outside
has been cleaned some of the lotion may be allowed to
go into the eyes. This treatment will assist greatly in
preventing inflammation of the eyes in the new-born, and
will save many an infant worse ills to those delicate
sense organs. The infant should be carefully examined
immediately after birth. All the orifices should be
closely inspected — as the ears, nose, anus — as some-
times the natural openings arc obstructed, and little
operations are required.
CLOTHI]S"G.
29. Is it necessary to have a flannel cap in readiness
to put on as soon as the babe is born f
IKFANCY. — CLOTHING. 19
Sir Charles Locock considered that a flannel cap was
not necessary^ and asserted that all his best nurses had
long discarded flannel caps. Sir Charles has stated that
since the discontinuance of flannel caps infants had not
been more liable to inflammation of the eyes. Such
authority is, in my opinion, conclusive. My advice,
therefore, to you is, discontinue by all means the use of
flannel caps.
30. What hind of a hinder do you recommeyid — a
flannel or a calico one 9
I prefer flannel, for two reasons — first, on account of
its keeping the child^s bowels comfortably warm ; and,
secondly, because of its not chilling him, and thus
endangering cold, etc., when he wets himself. The
binder ought to be moderately, but not tightly applied,
as, if tightly applied, it would interfere with the neces-
sary movement of the bowels.
31. Wlien should the hinder he discontinued?
When the child is two or three months old. The
best way is to tear a strip off daily for a few mornings,
and then to leave it off altogether, l^urses who take
charge of an infant when the monthly nurse leaves are
frequently in the habit of at once leaving off the binder,
which often leads to ruptures when the child cries or
strains. It is far wiser to retain it too long than too
short a time ; and when a child catches hooping-cough
whilst still very young it is safer to resume the belly-
band.
32. Have yoic any remarhs to make on the clothing of
an infant f
A babels clothing ought to be light, warm, loose, and
free from pins. (1) It should he ?i^7^^ without being too
airy. Many infants^ clothes are both too long and too
cumbersome. It is really painful to see how some poor
little babies are weighed down with a weight of clothes.
They may be said to " bear the burden, ^^ and that a
heavy one, from the very commencement of their lives !
20 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
How absurd, too, the practice of making them wear
long clothes ! Clothes to cover a child^s feet, and even
a little bej^ond, may be desirable ; but for clothes, when
the infant is carried about, to reach to the ground, is
foolish and cruel in the extreme. I have seen a delicate
baby almost ready to faint under the infliction. (2)
It should he ivarm without being too warm. The parts
that ought to be protected are the chest, the bowels, and
the feet. If the infant be delicate, especially if he be
subject to inflammation of the lungs, he ought to wear
a fine flannel, instead of his usual shirts, which should
be changed as frequently. (3) The dress should he
loose f so as to prevent an}^ pressure upon the blood-
vessels, which would otherwise impede the circulation,
and thus hinder a proper development of the parts. It
ought to be loose about the chest and waist, so that the
lungs and the heart may have free play. It should be
loose about the stomach, so that digestion may not be
impeded ; it ought to be loose about the bowels, in order
that the spiral motion of the intestines may not be in-
terfered with ; hence the importance of patting on a
binder moderately slack. It should be loose about the
sleeves, so that the blood may course, without let or
hindrance, through the arteries and veins. It ought to
be loose everywhere, for Nature delights in freedom
from restraint, and will resent, sooner or later, any in-
terference. Oh ! that a mother would take common
sense, and not custom, as her guide ! (4) No pins
should be used in the dressing of a baby. Inattention
to this advice has caused many a little sufferer to be
thrown into convulsions.
The generality of mothers use no pins in the dressing
of their children ; they tack every part that requires
fastening with a needle and thread. They do not even
use pins to fasten the baby's diapers. They make the
diapers with loops and tapes, and thus altogether supe-
rsede the use of pins in the dressing of an infant.
I:N"FAKCY. — CLOTHIKG. 21
The plan is a good one, takes very little extra time, and
deserves to be universally adopted.
33. What description of clotldng do you recommend for
my child?
Cotton is preferable to linen, as being warmer and
less likely to absorb moisture — that is, the body per-
spiration. We have merino and silk for children with
irritable skin, and flannel as the ordinary protective
against cold. The essentials of judicious underclothing
are that the material shall be light — as regards weight —
warm, loosely made, not fastened with pins, but by tape
and buttons, pro23erly aired, and changed daily. The
object of clothing the body is not a simple case of de-
cency, but because life would perish without suitable
covering.
Eor the protection of the legs and thighs, as soon as
the long clothes are abandoned, long, loose, knitted
woolen drawers must be made, reaching on the one
hand from the ankles and tied there, and on the other
to the garment covering the chest, to which they are
to be fitted. They can be fastened either over or under
the socks. Summer clothing should never be put on
until June, or later if the weather be inclement. And
here I am going to plead on behalf of my younger
brothers and sisters. Do not clothe your children, as
regards their outside garments, in the same material^
color, and style. Each child is a separate individual,
differing from the other, maybe, in outward form, fea-
ture, complexion. Make ea.'h a study. If this were
the rule one would not see the wonderful sights, so to
speak, of juvenile battalions in blue, and red, and
green, and yellow — a siglit, to my mind, telling a tale
of an indifferent mother, or a careless mother, or a
mother without any taste. And, next, the cloth-
ing should be in accordance with the means of the
parents. Let me tell you a little secret. Whenever
I find a showy dress with shabby gloves or boots I know
22 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
what the under clothing will be^ and I stamp the wearer
accordingly. You know the couplet, '^ Adorned the
least, adorned the most/' This does not mean going
back to the days of fig leaves, but it does mean mod-
eration and honesty !
34. Is there any necessity for a nurse heing particular
in airing an infanfs clothes before they are ind on 9 If
she luere less particular tvould it not make him more
hardy 9
A nurse cannot be too particular on this head. A
babe's clothes ought to be well aired the day before
they are put on ; they should not be put on warm from
the fire. It is well, where it can be done, to let him
have clean clothes daily. Where this cannot be afforded,
the clothes, as soon as they are taken off at night, ought
to be well aired, so as to free them from the perspiration,
and that they may be ready to put on the following
morning. It is truly nonsensical to endeavor to harden
a child, or any one else, by putting on damp clothes !
35. What is your opinion of caps for an infant ?
The head ought to be kept cool ; caps, therefore, are
unnecessary. If caps be used at all they should only be
worn for the first month in summer, or for the first
two or three months in winter. If a babe take to caps
it requires care in leaving them off, or he will catch
cold. When you are about discontinuing them put a
thinner one on every time they are changed until you
leave them off altogether.
But, remember, my opinion is that a child is better
without caps ; they only heat his head, cause undue per-
spiration, and thus make him more liable to catch cold.
If a babe does not wear a cap in the day it is not at
all necessary that he should wear one at night. He will
sleep more comfortably without one, and it will be bet-
ter for his health. Moreover, night-caps injure both
the thickness and beauty of the hair.
36. Have you any remarks to make on the clothing of
IKFAXCY. — DIET. 23
an infant when, in the tuinter time, he is sent out for ex-
ercise ?
Be sure that he is well wrapped np. He ought to
have under his cloak a knitted worsted spencer, which
should hutton behind ; and, if the weather be very cold, a
shawl over all ; and, provided it be dry above, and the
wind be not in the east or in the northeast, he may then
brave the weather. He will then come from his walk
refreshed and strengthened, for cold air is an invigorat-
ing, tonic. In a subsequent Conversation I will indicate
the proper age at which a child should be first sent out
to take exercise in the open air.
37. At lohat age ought an infant " to de shortened? ^'
This will depend upon the season. In the summer
the right time ''^for shortening a babe," as it is called,
is at the end of two months ; in the winter, at the end
of three months. But if the right time for ^^ shorten-
ing " a child should happen to be in the spring let it be
deferred until the end of May. The American springs
are very trying and treacherous, and sometimes in April
the weather is almost as cold and the wind as biting as
in winter. It is treacherous, for the sun is hot ; and
the wind, which is at this time of year frequently
easterly, is keen and cutting. I should far prefer " to
shorten " a child in winter than in the early spring.
DIET.
38. Do yon advise that all mothers should feed their
infants from the 'breast ?
It is one of the greatest privileges of maternity to
feed its young from its own body. A healthy mother
who, for the sake of the contour of her chest, or because
of the necessarily enforced abstention from gaiety,
passes her offspring to the care of strangers for its nour-
ishment, is unworthy the holy office of a matron — is no
good citizen. The very brute creation cries ^' Shame
on her ! " Every healthy mother ought to feed her
24 ADVICE TO A MOTHER..
young from the rich supply of food granted her for that
purpose by nature. Moreover, nursing is beneficial to
the mother — it stimulates the womb, and is a great pre-
ventive of future harm to that organ.
^^ All mothers should nurse their own babies. There
is nothing that binds a child to its mother, or a mother
to her child, more than the feeling that its very life is
drawn from herself. It teaches her to control her own
temper and actions that she may not injure her child.
There is nothing more wonderful than the God-love
God implants in a mother^s heart with the gift of her
first babe.'''
39. Are there any cases in ivliich you hold a different
opinion?
Yes. As I condemn the healthy mother for not feed-
ing her child, with equafl emphasis I condemn the ^/?^-
healthy mother for trying to perform the duty. Ex-
perience shows that those who least have the strength
are those who most strive to fulfil this duty.
40. Whom would you class as the unhealthy mothers f
Mothers who are suffering from consumption or who
are the subjects of some serious organic disease should
not be permitted to nurse. On the other hand, it is
important that the mother should not be considered in-
capable of nursing successfully because she happens to
appear delicate-looking. In such a case a chemical
analysis of the breast milk may decide in favor of her
being allowed to do so. All those about to become
mothers should consult their medical attendant as to
their fitness to nurse their coming offspring.
If there is a strong family history of insanit}^, pro-
longed nursing may be most injurious to the mothee,
and her mental balance may become deranged.
41. Has the mind any injinence on the body of the
mother, and so on the nursling?
Yes, a great influence for good and evil. The child' ^
health may be marred and seriously damaged by coli(/,
IKFAKC Y. — DIET. 25
flatulency, diarrhoea, and sickness, and even its life en-
dangered by convulsions and exhaustion owing to a
mother^s want of control over her emotions. Women
of a highly nervous temperament do not make good
nnrses. Fits of rage and temper, seasons of fasting,
with their attendant emotional disturbance, the worries,
anxieties, and vicissitudes of daily life, if alloioed un-
controlled siuay, will induce such changes in the milk
as to make it unfit for nourishing the babe. When
a mother has set herself the task of nursing her infant
she must recognize that the undertaking is a serious
one — one not to be viewed lightly — and devote herself
solely to that object and the preservation of her health ;
otherwise it may be imperative in the interests of the
child to provide other means of rearing, which may be
greatly to the child^'s detriment,
43. If the mother 'becomes pregnant again should she
contimie to nurse her child f
If the babe is thriving, and if the mother's health con-
tinues satisfactory, the baby need not be weaned until
the sixth month ; but if the mother's health commences
to fail from the double drain upon her constitution, or
if the child commences to suffer from bowel troubles,
owing to an alteration in the quality of the milk, then
weaning should no longer be delayed. There is the
possible risk that, owing to irritation of the womb from
the stimulation of the breasts by the babe, miscarriage
might occur, but the risk is a very slight one. You
should be guided in these matters by your medical at-
tendant.
43, If the m-other's courses appear should she nurse 9
In very many instanees the baby will suffer no ill
effects, but in some eases the infant develops bowel
troubles in the shape of colic and diarrhea, and these
bowel disorders may happen at the recurrence of every
period. AVhen this happens it appears to be due to an
increase of the proteids (see Conversation 50) in the
26 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
milk, shown by the presence of curds in the stools.
Under such circumstances a little boiled water may be
given to the infant lefore feeding, or the mother may
reduce the quantity of meat taken during the day. A
chemical examination of the milk might be made during
this period, especially if it recurs, and a remedy
suggested thereby. The infant must not be weaned
unless it is absolutely necessary,
44. Are you an advocate for initting tlie haby to the
breast soon after hirtli, or for iDaiting, as many do, until
the third day f
The infant ought to be put to the bosom soon after
birth ; the interest both of the mother and of the child
demands it. It will be advisable to wait three or four
hours, that the mother may recover from her fatigue,
and then the babe must be put to the breast. If this
be done, he will generally take the nipple with avid-
ity.
It might be said that at so early a period there is no
milk in the bosom ; but such is not usually the case.
There is generally a little from the very beginning,
which acts on the baby^s bowels like a dose of purgative
medicine, and apjoears to be intended by Nature to
cleanse the system. But, provided there be no milk at
first, the very act of sucking not only gives the child a
notion, but, at the same time, causes " ?i draught ^^ (as
it is usually called) in the breast, and enables the milk
to flow easily.
If there be no milk in the bosom — the babe having
been applied once or twice to determine the fact — then
you must wait for a few hours before applying him
again to the nipple, that is to say, until the milk be
secreted.
An infant who for two or three days is kept from
the breast, and who is fed upon gruel, generally becomes
feeble, and frequently, at the end of that time, will not
take the nipple at all. Besides, there is a thick cream
IKFAKCY. — DIET. 27
(similar to the biestings of a cow), which, if not drawn
out by the child, may cause inflammation and gathering
of the bosom, and consequently great suffering to the
mother. Moreover, placing him early to the breast
moderates the severity of the mother's ^^ after-pains^'
and lessens the risk of her flooding. A new-born babe
must not have gruel given to him, as it disorders the
bowels, causes a disinclination to suck, and thus makes
him feeble.
45. If an infant slioio any disinclination to such,
or if lie apj^ear iinahle to a])])ly Ms tongue to the nipple,
what ought to he done f
Immediately call the attention of the medical man to
the fact, in order that he may ascertain whether he be
tongue-tied. If he be, the simple operation of dividing
the bridle of the tongue will remedy the defect, and will
cause him to take the nipple with ease and comfort.
46. Provided there ~be not milk at fikst, what ought
then to he donef
Wait with patience. If the child wakes up crying
frequently it should be soothed to sleep again, and it
may be given a little slightly sweetened water in a tea-
spoon. Mothers with their first children not infrequently
have a scanty supply of milk for the first few days, but
it need not be feared that the infant will suffer on that
account. The infant ought to be put to the nipple
every four hours, but not oftener, until he be able to
find nourishment.
If after the application of the child for a few times he
is unable to find nourishment, then it will be necessary
to wait until the milk be secreted. As soon as it is
secreted he must be applied with great regularity
alternately to each breast.
I ^2iy alternately to each breast. This is most impor-
tant advice. Sometimes a child, for some inexplicable
reason, prefers one breast to the other, and the mother,
to save a little contention, concedes the point, and
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allows him to have his own way. And what is often the
consequence ? — a gathered breast !
We frequently hear of a babe having no notion, of
sucking. This " no notion '^ may generally be traced to
bad management, to stuffing him with food, and thus
giving him a disinclination to take the nipple at
all.
47. Hoio often should a mother suckle her infant f
A mother generally suckles her baby too often, hav-
ing him almost constantly at the breast. This practice
is injurious both to parent and to child. If too frequent
applications are made to the breast the milk is too
rich ; if the intervals are unduly prolonged the milk is
too thin and weak. The stomach requires repose as
much as any other part of the body ; and how can it
have it, if it be constantly loaded with breast milk ?
The infant should be suckled between the hours of 5
A.M. and 11 P.M. For the intervals of feeding, the
number of feedings in the twenty-four hours, and the
capacity of the infantas stomach at certain periods of
life (average amount of each feeding), I must refer you
to Conversation 59, where all the necessary information
is arranged in tabular form.
If a baby were suckled at stated periods he would
only look for the bosom at those times, and be satisfied.
A mother is frequently in the habit of giving the child
the breast every time he cries, regardless of the cause.
The cause too frequently is that he has been too often
suckled — his stomach has been overloaded ; the little
fellow is consequently in pain, and he gives utterance
to it by cries. How absurd is such a practice ! We
may as well endeavor to put out a fire by feeding it with
fuel. An infant ought to be accustomed to regularity
in everything, in times for sucking, for sleeping, etc.
No children thrive so well as those who are thus early
taught.
48. ]Miere the 7nother is moderately strong, do you
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advise that the infant should have any other food than
the ireast ?
Certainly not, Let nie urge upon you the importance
of keeping the child entirely to the breast. There is
no real substitute for mother^s milk ; there is no food
so well adapted to his stomach ; there is no diet equal
to it in developing muscle, in making bone, or in pro-
ducing that beautiful plump, rounded contour of the
limbs ; there is nothing like a mother's milk alone in
making a child contented and hap23y, in laying the
foundation of a healthy constitution, in preparing the
body for a long life, in giving him tone to resist disease,
or in causing him to cut his teeth easily and well ; in
short, the mother's milk is the greatest temi^oral blessing
an infant can possess.
49. Would you supplement the supply of the motlier^s
milk luith artiUcial food?
Certainly. If the mother is unable to nurse her
child entirely she should do so partially, and supple-
ment the breast milk by Biedert's Cream Mixture, or
Gaertner's Mother Milk (see Conversation 52), in the
absence of a chemical analysis of her milk. If several
chemical analyses of the mother's milk can be obtained,
and this is agreeing with the child, though not suffi-
cient in quantity, it will be easier to manufacture a
cow's milk mixture that will be likely to agree. For
the purpose of analysis the milk should be withdrawn
by the breast pump after the infant has been five
minutes at the breast. If a chemical analysis is out of
the question, and the Cream Mixture or Gaertner's
Milk does not suit, some slight modification may have
to be made in their composition. The thriving of the
infant and the freedom from bowel troubles will be the
best indication that the food is suitable. It is far better
that the infant should be fed by breast milk and an
artificial food than by artificial food alone.
50. Jn the event of the mother heing totally unaMe
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30 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
to feed her infant, luJiat artificial food ivould you recom-
mend ?
There is but one answer to this question, and that is
cow's milk ; but the subject cannot be dismissed in
these few words. Chemical analysis of healthy human
milk shows that it is composed of the following constit-
uents : —
Fat . . . .4 per cent.
Proteids . . . . 1 to 2 "
Milk Sugar ... 7 "
Various Salts (lime, potash,
and soda, &c.) . . 0'2 "
Water . . . . 87 to 88* "
Cow's milk, on the other hand, is formed as follows : —
Fat . . . . 3-75 percent.
Proteids . . . .3-76 '*
Milk Sugar . . . 4*42 *' -
Various Salts (lime, potash,
and soda, &c.) . . -68 "
Water .... 87-39
The variations found, however, in different samples
of what may be considered healthy milk, both human
and cow's, are considerable, and the above figures are
not by any means constant, different samples giving
different results. The milk with the first child Is
richer than in the case of the mother who has borne
several children. Even samples of milk taken from
both breasts at the same time show considerable varia-
tions, and the milk first drawn from the breast is not
nearly so rich in fat as that taken at the end ; the total
of the solids is also greater. In all cases, however,
there are certain important differences, which are as
follows : — •
In human milk there is a little more fat, the quantity
of proteids is not nearly so large, the curd-forming
* Ketch' s analysis . For the percentage of fat , Pfeiffer gives 3.1 ;
Adriance, 3.8; Leeds, 4.1; Hoffmann, 4.
INFANCY. — DIET. 31
material (caseinogen) is much less (about one-fourth or
one-fifth)^ the soluble albumin more^, and there is also
another form of albumin which is not present in cow's
milk at all. Further^ human curd (caseinogen) is not
like that of cows. The former can be digested entirely,
a most important constituent containing phosphorus
being taken into the system. Cow's curd is not di-
gested entirely, much of the important constituent
being lost. The milk-sugar is in greater abundance,
and the salts are less. There are, then, important
chemical differences ; but that is not all. Human
milk, when it' leaves the breast, is a slightly alkaline
fluid of specific gravity 1031 (the more fat the lower the
specific gravity, and .the more proteids the higher the
specific gravity), which, with but few exceptions, is free
from germs. Cow's milk is a slightly acid fluid of
specific gravity 1029, which, when it is delivered at our
homes in large towns and cities, is possibly twenty-
four hours, old and almost certainly twelve hours. It is
swarming with germs, and not only germs, but particles
of manure, hair, dirt, straws, hay, and so forth, and
often contains Boracic Acid or Salicjdic Acid, added by
the dealer to preserve it. There is, further, the ever-
possible invisible added danger that the milk may be
contaminated by scarlet fever, typhoid fever, diphtheria,
and by tubercle (consumption) germs, not to mention
many others. The Public Health Authorities, the
Medical Ofl&cers of Health, and the Sanitary Inspectors
do much to see that the cowsheds are proj)erly cleansed,
ventilated, and lighted, the cows healthy, that utensils
used by milk venders are cleansed with water undefiled
by sewage contamination, quite apart from the detec-
tion of gross adulterations (the addition of water, for
example) ; but much, very much, remains to be ac-
complished to bring about a state of even bordering on
perfection amongst cows and their surroundings and
cowkeepers.
32 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
Ill these respects, tlien, the comparison of cow^s milk
with that of mother^s milk is all to the disadvantage of
the former ; and when it is considered that cows are
often fed with nnsuitahle materials,* with the object of
producing a quantity of milk, and not with regard to
its quality for the purposes of infant feeding, there is
still more to be desired in the way of improvement.
The ^^invalid^s cow^^ and the ^'^cow for infants" are
often pleasant iictions — a successful ruse to conjure
more money out of the pockets of the public. I have
inspected a cowshed where there was a notice outside to
the effect that such cows were kept, but the employes,
in the absence of the principal, were not able to find
the animals with the above reputations. But quite apart
from this consideration, the milk from Oi^E cow is a
great mistake. By obtaining the milk supply from a
mixed herd of cattle there is less likelihood of encoun-
tering great chemical irregularities in its composition,
in the shape of deficiency in nourishment, or over-rich-
ness. When mixed, a rich milk counterbalances a poor
one, and so on ; for cows are of different breed. Some
are in full milk, others have commenced their milk
supply, or have been milked for a long period. Like
human beings also, they are subject to many influences
which alter the chemical composition of their milk.
Cow's milk cannot, therefore, compare with human
milk from a healthy mother, leading a healthy life, in
any one respect ; nor has it been found possible by
chemical aid to make it mother^s milk, although it is
possible to make a passable likeness to it. Still it is not
the real thing. Even when it has been chemically
treated, the curd, which causes so much trouble in in-
fant feeding, is not so fine, and, therefore, so digestible,
as in human milk. But, in spite of all this, it remains
the food, ^.wr excellence, which must be relied upon
* Brewery grains, vetches, turnips, linseed and cotton cake.
II^FAKCY. — DIET. 33
when the mother^s milk fails, or is unavailable. The
cow is found everywhere. It has been trained for many
ages as a milk producer, and its milk is within the reach
of all, rich and poor alike.
The milk of other animals has been used for rearing
infants. Thus the ass, the mare, the sheep, and the
goat have all been utilized. The milk of the ass is the
nearest approach to human milk, but it is very expen-
sive, and procured with difficulty. Goat^s milk in
chemical composition is much like that of the cow, and
there is no particular advantage in using it, save that
goats are said not to suffer from consumption (tubercu-
losis). Whatever animals are selected, their milk
would require modification to make it resemble that of
the human being. The question then arises. How can
cow's milk be so treated so as to bring about a substance
which is an imitation of human milk ? and, next. What
can be done to free it from the various contaminations
just related ?
51. Modified cow^s milk {simple dilution and addition
of sugar-iuater).
One answer to the first question is, by dilution with
water. A mixture containing one part of cow's milk to
two parts of water gives a slightly acid fluid, which is
found to be deficient in sugar, Sind also in fat. If, in-
stead of adding water, sugar-water, one ounce to a pint
of water (5 per cent, solution), is substituted, the defici-
ency in sugar is remedied. This mixture should be
sterilized (see Conversation 53). A one-twentieth part
of lime water added to the above mixture, after sterili-
zation, makes the fluid slightly alkaline. Many of the
poorer children are reared on an unsterilized mixture of
this nature and thrive on it ; but, unfortunately, it is
deficient in the necessary fat by more than half. At
the end of the first month, if the baby is digesting its
food well, the proportion of milk may be increased to
one part milk and one part sugar-water with the same
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34 ADYICE TO A MOTHER.
proportion of added lime-water. From three to six
montlis of age the proportion should be two-thirds milk
and one-third per cent, sugar- water^ the addition of
lime-water as before. The proteids in the last case are
slightly in excess, and the fat approximates more nearly
to that found in healthy human milk. By simple di-
lution with sugar-water alone, then, cow^s milk cannot
be made to correspond with human milk, as it is still
deficient in fat. To accomplish this, the addition of
cream is required ; but cream varies in its richness, ac-
cording to the breed of the cow, the season of the year,
the nature of the food, the methods adopted for ob-
taining it, whether by skimming, or by the use of a
centrifugal machine. When the milk has been standing
for many hours before skimming the cream so obtained
is not suitable ; it is too stale.
Ordinary cream obtained from the centrifugal
machine and from ordinary cows, not fajicy milch cattle,
and of the strength of 20 per cent, fat, is the most
suitable. Do not attempt to obtain a richer cream than
this with the idea that you will be benefiting your baby.
You will only, most likely, experience the mortification
of seeing him suffer from diarrhoea or sickness.
Cream of 20 per cent, strength should be added by
measure, and not by teaspoons or tablespoons, in the
following proportions, to diluted mixtures of milk and
water to bring them up to the required standard (human
milk 4 per cent. fat).
Milk. Water. Cream (20 per cent. fat).
2 parts and 1 part require 1 drachm to every 2 ozs.
1 part ,, 1 part ,, 1 drachm to every 10
drachms.
1 part ,, 2 parts ,, 1 drachm to every 74^
drachms.
1 part ,, 4 parts „ 1 drachm to every 6
drachms.
You may continue to use one part milk and two parts
INFANCY. — DIET. 35
sugar-water if you add fat in the proportion of 1 drachm
of ordinary cream to every 7^ drachms of the mix-
ture. This is anear approach to human milk in com-
position^ and the baby^s digestion is not so likely to be
upset as it is by the further addition of cow's milk to
water. Sterilize. (See Conversation 53.)
52. Cream Mixtures.
In order to prepare Cream Mixture the ingredients
are to be mixed as soon as they are received from the
dairyman, in the following proportions : —
Cream (30 per cent, fat) 1^ fluid ounces.
Milk 1 " ounce.
Water 5 " ounces.
* Lime Water ^ " ounce.
Milk Sugar 3| drachms.
The resulting mixture is a near approach to human
milk.
If your dairyman possesses a centrifugal apparatus a
milk corresponding to human milk may be obtained in
the following way. The milk is placed in the machine
mixed with an equal quantity of sterilized water, and
so revolved that the outcoming streams are equal. One
portion is the skim milk, the other contains the cream,
and is a good substitute for human milk ; 4 per cent,
of sugar-of-milk (5 7-10 drachms to the pint) is added.*
This is the method of preparation of Gaertner's Milk,
which is a patented process. It can be procured steril-
ized in bottles at all druggists. All gross impurities
(hay, manure, hair, etc.) are removed by this method.
This reduction of the proteids makes the assimilation
of the milk easier to some infants. The excess of fat in this
* Both these mixtures are to be sterilized, and the lime-
water added after sterilization.
36 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
milk may be the cause of indigestion, and if that be so,
then sterilized " cream milk/*' which has also been devised
to imitate a variety of mother's milk, may be tried.
Lloyd, in ^^The Dairy'' of March 15th, 1897, calls at-
tention to some samples of so-called humanized milk.
In one sample the fat was 1.1 per cent., in another, 5.2
per cent., and the sugar 3.5 per cent., and he tells of
" even worse samples than these, one containing over
10 per cent, of sugar."
53. Hotu can milk he freed from germs and other con-
taminations f
The fresh milk, immediately it arrives, should be re-
ceived in a perfectly clea7i glass vessel, and then filtered
through a thick layer of perfectly clean absorbent
cotton-wool, placed in a clea^i glass funnel. This will
free the liquid from all gross impurities. Micro-
scopical contamination is obviated by sterilization, but
the milk used must be fresh. Stale milk should not be
used.
The simplest way to sterilize is to boil the milk in an
open pan, having a glazed lining, which should be spot-
lessly clean. Another way is as follows : Procure a
selection of the best clear white-glass medicine bottles,
without internal indentations, capable of holding from
two to ten ounces of fluid, according to the age of the
infant. See that they are perfectly clean. Partially
fill the bottles according to the number of feedings,
and the quantity of fluid required for each feeding
throughout the day (see Conversation 59), with a
measured quantity of the modified milk, which should
reach two-thirds of the way up the bottle. Take some
clean cotton-wool, tear off enough to fit comfortably
and securely into the mouth of each bottle, seize this
with a pair of forceps, set light to it, and when it has
been burning two or three seconds push it aLight into
the mouth and neck of the bottle, whish it should
ikfa:n^cy. — DIET. 37
securely close but do not soil it with the milk. Obtain
a saucepan of sufficient size to comfortably hold the
bottles on end, and allow the water to circulate freely
amongst them. Line the floor of the saucepan with
three or four thicknesses of brown paper. Place the
bottoms of the bottles on this (they must not touch the
metal^ or they will crack), pour hot water into the
saucepan so as to reach the level of the milk in the
bottles, place the lid on the saucepan, allowing slight
steam vent, and boil for thirty minutes. Eemove the
saucepan from the fire, take off the lid, and as soon as
the bottles have sufficiently cooled take them out of the
saucepan and place them on ice, or in a cool place.*
The cotton-ioool lyings must not he disturbed. Fetch each
bottle as required, remove the cotton-wool plug, pour
into the warmer, add the lime-water, and when of body
temperature transfer to the feeding bottle, which has
been previously warmed by placing in a basin of clean
hot water, t Clean the bottles immediately you have
fed the baby. Sterilize once or twice a day. One or
two feedings may be prepared in reserve.
There are several forms of apparatus on the market
for sterilizing milk which can be procured at a trifling
cost. Soxhlet^s Apparatus is very good and reliable.
Dr. Seibert^'s, manufactured by Eimer & Amend, Xew
York, can also be strongly recommended ; also Arnold's
is reliable.
The germs of diseases which may find admission into
and contaminate the milk, and also the germs growing
in the milk, will be destroyed by exposure to a tempera-
* In place of the saucepan an ordinary steamer may be used.
The bottles should be placed ou the perforated floor, they should
not touch one another, and the cover should be tightly shut.
t By obtaining large nipples these can be fixed to the bottles
themselves, and the feeding bottle discarded.
38 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
ture of 70° Cent. (158° Falir.) Pasteurization) lasting
for a period of thirty minutes.
By sterilizing at this temperature the taste and smell
of the milk are not altered, and the albumen is not set.
If the milk is not fresh it should be exposed to a tem-
perature of 100° Cent. (212° Fahr.) for half an hour,
but at this temperature the taste of the milk is altered
and the albumen is set. Soxhlet's and Arnold^s ap-
paratus will allow either process to be adopted, but for
sterilizing by boiling, Seibert^s apparatus cannot be sur-
passed for efficiency and cheapness. When the process
has been completed the milk should be placed upon ice
in the ice-chest, and used as required, or in some cool
place where it will be quite free from contamination of
all hinds. By the use of separate bottles the danger
of contamination of the main supply, as the quantities
required are withdrawn from time to'iime , is prevented.
Lime-water should be added after sterilization to the
milk in l)ulh when it is just warm, and to the milk con-
tained in separate bottles at the time of feeding in the
proper proportions. Eemember that sterilization will
not make a milk " on-the-turn^^ suitable for consump-
tion, and it is not used for the purpose of rectifying the
neglect of the nurse regarding the elementary rules of
cleanliness. Sterilized milks are sold, but home sterili-
zation, if carefully conducted, is preferable to sterili-
zation conducted by wholesale manufacturers, because
the longer sterilized milk is kept, the ivorse is ttsually
its condition, if some germ spores, which are very resist-
ant, have unfortunately escaped destruction. If the
milk is kept for any length of time the cream separates
from it. There is, unfortunately, one drawback to
sterilization, and that is, the baby may develop scurvy ;
but its occurrence is so very rare that the blessing it
confers far outweio'hs the risk.
54. Should barley or rice water be added to milh?
Thin gelatinous cereal fluids prepared from barley,
INFAi^CY. — DIET. 39
oats, or rice are of assistance in making the curd of
cow's milk less dense and cheesy, so that it becomes
easier to digest, and prevents constipation. The power
to digest very small quantities of starch is present from
birth. The nutritiousness and digestibility of the
milk is improved by the addition of weak solutions of
the above waters, but in preparing them great care must
be exercised, or the quantity of starch provided will be
in excess of the infant's poivers. Some babies under
three months of age are not benefited by this method of
dilution, and may develop an eczematous eruption about
the buttocks. If that occur, and if there is no doubt
that the barley water is at fault, and that it has lieen
properly prepared, then either use malted grain for its
preparation, or a teaspoonful of thin gelatine jelly to
half a pint of milk and water. Barley water may also
be added to Cream Mixture instead of plain water,
if necessary. Prepare as follows : Barley tuater.
One teaspoonful of Pearl Barley well washed is to
be placed in a clean jug ; pour on it a pint of boiling
water ; stand by the fire for an hour ; stir frequently ;
strain through muslin ; add a pinch of salt. Oatmeal
water. Take two teaspoonfuls of oatmeal, and treat as
above. Rice luater. Take two teaspoonfuls of ground
rice, and treat as above. The lest luay is to take the
unaltered grains, wash them well, then grind them in
a cofiee mill, and prepare as directed for the above.
The fluid can be made with sugar-water, used to dilute
cow's milk in the proportions previously given, and
sterilized in the mixture.
55. Sliotdd milk be partially or tvliolly predigested?
Peptonizing milk, and so partially or wholly predi-
gesting it is, in some instances, decidedly beneficial, and
infants will thrive on this food when other methods of
milk treatment fail with them. It is important ]N"Ot
to begin to feed the healthy infant with this, and it
should be reserved for cases where there is troublesome
40 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
sickness or diarrhea, or the digestive powers are exceed-
ingly weak, and then only to tide the infant over its illness.
There is one great objection to the use of this milk,
and that is, the nurse is artificially digesting food the
baby^'s stomach and bowels, under conditions of health,
should digest. A function dies, or becomes impaired
when it is not used, and so with the infant's digestive
juice-forming glands. If they are not called into action
they will become very defective from lack of work, and
if they have little or no work they will not grow. In
this way the seeds of dyspeptic troubles in after life
may be sown in infancy !
Peptonized milk is prepared as follows :
(1) Partial PejJtonization. To each sterilized feed
of the infant, which is to be placed in a clean, enamelled
saucepan, add a suitable proportion of Fairchild's
Zymine Powder, sold in glass tubes, one of these
powders being sufficient for a pint of milk. Stir, keep
it warm over a spirit lamp or gas stove for fifteen
minutes, rapidly boil for three minutes, and feed the
baby when the milk is at the right temperature. Lime-
w^ater need not be added.
(2) Complete Peptonization. Perform the same
operation, but the warming must be continued longer.
When the milk is clear the process is complete. Boil,
and feed the baby as directed in paragraph 1. Lime
water is not required.
(3) The same operation can be conducted in the
separate bottles of the sterilizer. Each pint of modified
milk requires one glass tube of the powder. Place the
bottles in water at 110^ Fahr. for ten minutes, then
add the powders through a clear white paper funnel to
each bottle, plug with cotton-wool (see Conversation
53), or replace the stoppers, and for fifteen minutes
gradually bring to 160° Fahr. On completion rapidly
bring to the boiling point, and continue to boil for
thirty minutes. This is for partial peptonization.
Complete peptonization may be conducted by carrying
on the warming process for a longer period. Boiling kills
the ferment. Complete peptonization makes the food
bitter. When there is the faintest suspicion of bitter
to the taste, partial peptonization has ocurred. Partial
peptonization renders the curd much finer and more
easy of digestion. If badly prepared it will disagree.
56. Have you any remarks to make about the use of
condensed milk ?
Condensed milk is about the most extensiyely used
substitute for mother^s milk, probably on account of its
cheapness and because it is theoretically and often prac-
tically free from germs.
It does not turn quickly and is the most convenient
to carry on a journey. However, it is generally accepted
among the profession that condensed milk is not an
ideal substitute for mother's milk, as it contains much
less nutrient ingredients. Always prefer good cow^s
milk when it is obtainable.
During hot weather, or when you have no ice, con-
densed milk may be in order. The best brands are :
Anglo-vSwiss Condensed Milk, which contains about 50
per cent, of cane sugar ; Borden^s Eagle Brand and Bor-
den^s Evaporated Cream, which is simply pure milk con-
densed to the consistency of cream, thoroughly steril-
ized, and contains no antiseptic so as to insure protracted
preservation.
The deficiency in fat in the preparations named may
be made up, if necessary, by the addition of ordinary
cream (sterilized 20 per cent.), a drachm, i. e., a tea-
spoonful to about every fluid ounce, i. e., a tablespoon-
f ul, of the milk.
As a rule you will find that children fed on condensed
milk grow large, but do not possess much muscular
vigor.
In some parts of the world, on the very fringes of
civilization, where this book will reach, fresh cowl's
42 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
milk cannot be obtained^ and the only available substi-
tute is condensed milk. Plain water, or barley water,
or oatmeal water, in preference to plain water, can be
used for dilution ; but whatever is selected should be
thoroughly lolled — the later ichen they have teen pre-
pared — before mixing with the milk. An additional
and perhaps advisable precaution would be to sterilize
the mixture of milk and water rather than the latter
only. The infant should be given a small quantity of
lime juice, just sufficient to make it palatable in boiled
water every day.
57. Can you give me some information alout dried
milh foods?
Dried milk foods are stated to be sterile, they are
small in bulk, and their albuminoids are digested with
greater ease. Mr. Cornelius Hanbury (Messrs. Allen
and Hanbury) tells me that his preparations have trav-
eled to India and back without deterioration. Messrs.
Allen and Hanbury of London have two preparations.
No. 1. The " First Food for Infants,'' for the first
three months, is prepared from cow's milk to imitate
human milk. Six drachms of the powder by measure are
added to six fluid ounces of water. Water that has been
boiled should be used.
1^0. 2. The'' Mother's Milk Food," for from three to
seven months eld, is prepared in the same way, but has,
in addition to soluble starch derivatives and sugar, albu-
minoids and salts extracted from whole wheat meal and
barley malt.
Chemical analyses have been published of these prep-
arations. The quantity of proteids is eminently satis-
factory, and in digestibility often exceeds peptonized
cow's milk. Both preparations are somewhat deficient
in the necessary quantity of fat in comparison with an
average mother's milk. The salts in N'o. 2 are plenti-
ful, and the preparations I have examined are free from
starch. If modified cow's milk induces diarrhoea and
Ii^PA:N'CY. — DIET. 43
sickness, and there is much curd in the motions, then
No. 1 or No. 2 can be tried according to the child^s age.
Should thej agree, the addition of fat may be found de-
sirable and advisable in the proportion of ordinary ster-
ilized cream (20 per cent, fat) 6 drachms to every 6
ounces of the fluid when prepared of either No. 1 or No. 2.
Among dried milk foods may be mentioned, Carnrick^s
Soluble Food, composed of partially peptonized powdered
milk and wheat with the necessary amount of sugar.
The starch has been converted into soluble starch and
dextrine. Mellin^s Food, a cereal food whose starch is
converted into glucose. Nestle's food, condensed milk
mixed with a cereal and its starch unchanged Imperial
Granum, a food containing a correct percentage of
albuminoids, but very low percentage of fat and sugar.
58. What artificial food, tlien, luouldyou recommend'^
In general terms it may be stated that Sterilized
Cream Food, or Gaertner^s Mother Milk, also steri-
lized, fulfil many of the requirements of the nurs-
ling up to ten or twelve months of age. It is most im-
portant to weigh the baby week by week. By taking
this precaution its well-being can be very accurately
determined. For the first three days there is a loss of
weight which is regained by the second week, but if the
loss has not been recovered by the third week its dietary
will, most probably, require supervision. The average
weight of the infant at birth is 7 lbs. 11 ozs. for boys,
and 7 lbs. 4 ozs. for girls. During the first six months the
child should gain four ounces a week. From the period
of birth onwards the motions require supervision (see
Conversation 116). Bowel disturbance in the shape of
wind, stomach-ache, constipation, diarrhea, sickness,
and so on, may be due to an excess of proteids. Nu-
merous curds are passed in the motions, or they become
dense and hardened and of pale color, or large cheese-
like masses are vomited. These proteids may be re-
duced with advantage by further dilution, or a diluent
44 "ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
like barley water added with benefit. Bowel troubles
due to excess of fat may be stopped by the reduction of
the quantity of cream. It must not be forgotten that
atmospheric and other conditions affect the infantas
bowels quite independently of the feeding, and there
must, therefore, be no undue liaste to change the food
on the very first appearance of indigestion, which may
have nothing whatever to do with errors of diet.
There is no royal road to infant feeding, there is no
one class of chemical recipes which will suit all cases ;
for the digestive powers of infants vary just as the diges-
tive powers of adults, and what is one baby^s meat often
proves to be another's poison. Nature herself jDrovides
a variety of breast milks which are adapted to the con-
stitutional peculiarities of the infant.
A mother's milk, which might be considered not at
all a high-class one by the analytical chemist, may yet
prove capable of rearing a strong and healthy child.
Give the same infant a richer milk, and it will be ill.
At one time the mother^s milk is quite suitable for the
infant, at another its composition from extraneous in-
fluences becomes so altered that it is the reverse.
How difficult, then, is the task of infant feeding when
the basis is cow^s milk, even when it has been artificially
prepared to imitate the infantas natural food, as dis-
covered by taking the average composition of many
mothers^ milks in combination. The chemical errors
which may be present in the composition of cow^s milk
from the unwelcome attentions of dishonest dealers, at
the very threshold of the process, have to be reckoned
with, and consequently only first-class firms, with a
reputation to lose, should be dealt with. When the
infant's digestive powers have been experimentally de-
termined, and a milk compound, consisting of a certain
proportion of fat, albuminoids and sugar, has been found
which suits it, and on which it thrives, there should be
no desire to discover some other kind of food on which
liq^FAHCY. — DIET. 45
it might do heuer, or to change it because this friend or
that friend are anxious that some particular food should
be tried, on which theii' children did " uncommonly
well/'
The newly-born infant's powers of digestion may
be so feeble that even Cream Mixture or Gaertner's
Mother Milk disagree. It may then be necessary
to provide a mixture of cream and whey (there is no
curd-forming material in the whey), or peptonized milk
or one part milk to four or five parts of sugar barley
water. The cream and whey mixture is made as fol-
lows : Ordinary cream one ounce, whey two ounces,
water two ounces, a teaspoonful of sugar-of-milk ; steri-
lize 100° Cent, or 212° Fahr. for thirty minutes. Whey
is made by adding liquid essence of rennet (or a piece
of rennet one inch square) or Fairchild's Essence of
Pepsine to the fresh milk. Gently warm, or place in
front of the fire until warm. When the milk is set
break up the curd quite small, and when the curd has
settled, which it will do in a few minutes, strain the
whey through several folds of muslin, and finally squeeze
the curd which has been caught by the filter, so as to
extract all the moisture. A large number of infants
reared on Cream Mixture or Gaertner's Mother Milk
flourish exceedingly, but sometimes the growth of bone
is slow and deficient, the teeth are late in appearing,
and the skull bones become softened. If this is found
to be the case, cereals should be added to the mixture
(see Conversation 60). In all these matters consult
your doctor. Where you have had one or more chil-
dren to rear he has had many hundreds under his care,
and has received a medical training, carrying with it
the power to detect slight variations from health which
you cannot. The benefit of skilled advice and experi-
ence in these matters is not to be lightly discarded in
so difficult and responsible a study as infant feeding.
As the infant grows older there may be a great fallacy
46 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
in relying upon the weight alojie. There are children
who become, often to their mothers^ delight, abundantly
fat. We often see pictures of very fat children, in
the advertisement sheets of periodicals, in the attitude
of pushing huge chairs or other Herculean feats, and
yet they are not healthy. Their tissues are flabby, and
they possess but little resisting power to battle against
disease when it attacks them. They are examples of
fat rickets, and fat has been developed at the expense
of good flesh and bone. Your doctor's experienced eye
will quickly detect this, whilst you, perhaps, are in a
f ooFs paradise. Timely advice might save all this worry
and disappointment. The child is father to the man, and
you do not want to dwarf his stature by sowing the seeds
of a rickety childhood. In some cases, usually when a
year old or more, the bones may become so crooked or are
so softened that splints may have to be worn, and when
the bones have become set and hardened in their twisted
shapes, usually from four to five years of age, a surgical
operation may be found necessary to straighten them.
Infants' feeding is a very important problem, so do not
treat the matter lightly. Trifling indications of rickets,
little projections on one or more of the ribs where the
cartilage and bone joins, or some softening of the skull
bones), are often found quite early, within three months
of birth. This is the danger signal, and if you detect
anything of this nature you should consult your doctor.
The feeding may be radically wrong, the nourishment
afforded insufficient, the hygienic environment faulty,
or the baby may have some constitutional complaint,
A stitch in time saves nine, and the disease should not
be allowed to progress to the length I lately described,
as may happen if it does not receive attention. The
disease will not be sufficiently marked, as a rule, to
attract your notice until the baby commences to crawl
on the floor, but it is not wise to wait until then.
IKF ANC Y. — DIET.
47
59. How often should the infant he fed, and what quan-
tities of food should he given f
The quantity must be determined by the age, the
weight, and the digestive powers of the infant. For
the average infant, the following table will be found of
great use.
The quantity within these specified limits will depend
upon the constitutional peculiarities of the infant and
on the previously mentioned factors, but the maximuyn
quantities here advised should not be exceeded. The
hours of feeding should be between 5 a.m. and 11 p.m.,
and ^punctually observed ; indeed, if they are faithfully
carried out, the child will often wake up crying at the
regular times appointed for the meals.
All food should he given at the hody temper atitre, and
may he heated as required.
Age.
Intervals
of
Feeding.
No. of
Feedings
in
24 Hours.
Average
Amount of
Each
Feeding.
Average
Amount in
24 Hours.
1st week.
1st month.
2d month.
3d and 4th
months.
5th and 6th
months.
2 hours
2i hours
2\ hours
3 hours
3 hours
10
8
8
7
6
1 oz.
2 to 3 ozs.
3 to 4 ozs.
4 to 5 ozs.
6 to 7 ozs.
10 ozs.
16 to 24 ozs.
20 to 30 ozs.
30 to 35 ozs.
35 to 40 ozs.
60. Wlien the hahy is hetiveen seven months and twelve
months old, how, and how often, should it he fed, and
what should he the weekly gain in iveight.
If the infant is thriviis^g on Cream Mixture or
Gaertner^s Mother Milk, or other modification of ster-
ilized cow's milk suited to its constitutional peculi-
48 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
arities, then this method of feeding should be continued
until it is ten or twelve months old. A large number
of babies increase in health and strength when so nur-
tured. With a certain proportion^ however, the growth
of the flesh, the bones, and the teeth is slow. It is in
such cases as these that cereals will prove of great bene-
fit, and must b^ administered before the time mentioned
above. The digestive powers of the infant are now
quite able to deal successfully with starchy foods, if not
given in too great abundance, and turn them into dex-
trine and maltose, which are soluble starch compounds,
and, unlike starch, are able to pass into the blood vessels
of the digestive system. In order that the digestive
fluids may the more successfully operate on the particles
of starch, the granules must be thoroughly boiled, so
that they swell up and burst, and thus allow the digest-
ive fluids ready access to them. Modified cow's milk is
still to be the staple article of diet, the infant taking
from thirty-five to forty ounces of this in the twenty-four
hours. It should be fed every three hours, the average
amount at each feeding being eight ounces — viz., at
8 A.M., 11 A.M., 2 P.M., 5 P.M. and 11 p.m., and the
food, when prepared, should be of the consistence of
ordinary cream, and given milk-warm (98° Fahr. ). The
weekly gain in weight during the seventh, eighth, and
ninth month should be three to three and a half ounces,
and during the tenth, eleventh, and twelfth months
from one and a half to two ounces.
The following recipes for the preparation of cereals
to be mixed with cow's milk may be used with advan-
tage : —
(1) Bake flour — biscuit flour — in a slow oven until it
be of a light fawn color ; reduce by means of a rolling-
pin to a fine powder, and then keep in a covered tin
ready for use.
Take two parts of this and one part of Higgin's
Scotch Oatmeal, mix, and of the mixture take two
mPAI^CY. — DIET. 49
tablespoonfuls. Mix these into a " cream " with the
modified cow^s milk in a clean basin. Boil a pint of
the milk in an enameled saucepan, and then add this
to the " cream/^ gradually stirring the while ; return
to the saucepan, and boil for twenty minutes, fre-
quently stirring ; take off the fire ; gradually add the
remainder of the milk to it ; place the whole in the
separate feeding bottles of the day^s supply of the
sterilizer, and heat to a temperature of 158° Fahr. for
one hour.
(2) Instead of the flours mentioned under heading
1, take a similar quantity of Wheat flake or Cereal-
ine.
(3) Take a sufficient quantity of the best whole
barley and ivell loash the grains. Grind in a coffee mill
to be kept for the purpose, and sieve the meal through
a No. 60 or No. 80 sieve. Take two tablespoonfuls of
the meal, mix it into a paste with modified cowl's milk
in a clean basin. Boil a pint of the milk in an enameled
saucepan, and gradually pour it on the paste, stirring
the while ; replace in the saucepan ; boil for twenty
minutes, stirring all the time ; take off the fire ; add
the remainder of the milk gradually to this ; place in
the separate bottles of the day^s supply of the sterilizer,
and heat to a temperature of 158° Fahr. for half an
hour.
(4) For barley in No. 3 substitute maize or Indian
corn, and carry out as directed.
(5) For barley in No. 3 substitute oats, and carry out
as directed.
Nos. 2, 3, 4, and 5 are of more value as a food than
No. 1.
If the food does not agree, the starch proving trouble-
some, add a teaspoonf ul of concentrated extract of malt
called Diastol, to the whole food for the day, and warm
for half an hour at 110° Fahr. At the end of this time
rapidly raise to the boiling point, which kills the ferment,
4
50 . ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
and prevents its further action. Sterilize as before.
If the food is treated in this way the Diastol will turn
about a quarter of the starch into various soluble starch
derivatives.
'New milk;, composed in due proportions of cream and
of skim milk, and modified so as to resemble human milk
— the very acme of perfection — is the only toodwMch of
itself alone will nourish, and warm, and fatten. It is,
for a child, par excellence, the food of foods.
All farinaceous foods are, for a child, only supple-
mental to milk — new milk being, for the young, the
staple food of all other kinds of foods whatever.
Bear in mind, aiid let tliere he no mistake al)Out it,
that farinaceous food, be it what it may, is not suitable
for a child, until, indeed, he has passed six months of
age. Until then, if he be a dry-nursed child, the best
artificial food for him will be found by studying Con-
versation 52.
I have given you a well-tried infantas dietary to choose
from, as it is sometimes difficult to fix on one that will
suit ; but, remember, if you find one of the above to
agree, keep to it, as a babe requires a simplicity in food
— a child a greater variety.
Great care and attention must be observed in the
preparation of any of the above articles of diet. A
babels stomach is very delicate, and will revolt at either
ill-made, or lumpy, or burnt food. Great care ought to
be observed as to the cleanliness of the cooking utensils.
The above directions require the strict supervision of the
mother.
61. Can you give me information adout the composition
of some of the various patent and other infant foods? *
These '^^ infant foods " maybe divided into the follow-
ing groups. They all of them are prepared from
cereals, one or more (corn, oats, barley), and they con-
* From analyses by Leeds or the Lancet.
INFAIS^CY.— DIET. 51
tain more or less fat, proteids, saUs, starch, and its
various soluble derivatives and sugar. Many of them
are for mixing with cow^s milk. In some instances the
proportion of fat and proteids has been drawn attention
to in comparison with an average human milk.
MOST PROMINENT FEATURES OF
NAMES OF FOODS. ^^^^^ COMPOSITION.
^Fool!' ■^''^^^''' ^""^ ^''^"'^ [ ^*^^^^ (unaltered).
^^Z^ri f^^^J^^^!'^^^\^^^''^] Starch and soluble starch
fnflnts^FooS!'^' """''"^ ] ^^^ ^^ ^^^ ^^--^^•)
f Starch, cane-sugar, and
Neatle's Anglo-Swiss, Ameri-J milk when suitably diluted.
can-Swiss, Franco-Swiss. j Fat and proteids small in
(^quantity.
f Starch, sugar, cow's milk,
Carnrick ..... < and an animal digestant.
When suitably diluted, fat
> and proteids small in quantity.
Sugar and soluble starch
Mellin J derivatives. When mixed
I with milk as directed, fat de-
I ficient, proteids more than
r advisable.
f Starch, sugar, soluble starch
, I derivatives, and an animal
Bengers ^ digestant. When mixed with.
the cow's milk, insuflSciency
of fat.
Dry powder. Human milk
imitation. Soluble starch
derivatives, and an animal
Horlick's Malted Milk . J digestant. When mixed
I with water, very deficient
I in fat.
Whatever artificial food is used ought to be given by
means of a bottle — not only as it is a more natural way
than any other of feeding a baby, as it causes him to suck
as though he were drawing it from the mother's breasts,
but as the act of sucking causes the salivary glands to
press out their contents, which materially assist diges-
52 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
tion. Moreover, it seems thus to satisfy and comfort
him more than if given otherwise.
When choosing a feeding bottle the following are the
essentials, for dirty feeding iottles are an abomination.
None with a tube are to be selected, and those with in-
dented letters are to be discarded, and those supplied with
small nipples, because they cannot be readily cleansed.
Suitable bottles are those supplied Avith Soxhlet's and
Arnold^s and Seibert's sterilizing apparatuses, and the
nipples are large and easily cleansed. They further
ensure the personal feeding of the infant by the nurse,
who can control the rate of supply, and do not permit
the disgusting and lazy habit of putting the bottle
in the cot with the child. Immediately after use, thor-
oughly wash and cleanse the bottle with a brush, and
turn it upside down to drain, to avoid the entry of
atmospheric impurities. The nipples, of which there
should be a number, should be turned inside out,
thoroughly cleansed on both surfaces, and then boiled.
When their surfaces become worn they should be dis-
carded. A boat-shaped bottle with an india-rubber
nipple at the end is also suitable.
Let me again urge upon you the importance, if it be
at all practicable, of keeping the child entirely to the
breast for the first five or six months of his existence.
Let me repeat there is no real substitute for a mother's
milk ; there is no food so well adapted to his stomach ;
there is no diet equal to it in developing muscle, in
making bone, or in producing that beautiful plump
rounded contour of the limbs ; there is nothing like a
mother's milk alone in making a child contented and
happy, in laying the foundation of a healthy constitu-
tion, in preparing the body for a long life, in giving
him tone to resist disease, or in causing him to cut his
teeth easily and well ; in short, the mother'' 8 milk is the
greatest temjtoral Messing an infant can possess.
IN^FAKCY. — DIET. 53
As a general rule, therefore, when the child and the
mother are tolerably strong, he is better tvitliout artificial
food until he has attained the age of seven months ;
then, it may be necessary to feed him with Sterilized
Cream Food or Gaertner^s Mother Milk (see Conversa-
tion 52) twice a day, so as gradually to prepare him to
be weaned. The food mentioned in a foregoing Con-
versation may, when he is seven months old, be the
best for him.
62. When the mother is not aUe to suckle her infant
herself, ivhat ought to he done ?
It must first be ascertained, ieyoncl all doubt, that a
mother is not able to suckle her own child. Many delicate
ladies do suckle their infants with advantage, not only to
their offspring, but to themselves. '^ I will maintain,"
says Steele, '^ that the mother grows stronger by it, and
will have her health better than she would have other-
wise. She will find it the greatest cure, and preserva-
tive for the vapors [nervousness] and future miscarriages,
much beyond any other remedy whatsoever. Her chil-
dren will be like giants, whereas otherwise they are but
living shadows, and like unripe fruit. ''^ Many mothers
are never so well as when they are nursing. A hireling,
let her be ever so well inclined, can never have the af-
fection and unceasing assiduity of a mother, and, there-
fore, cannot perform the duties of suckling with equal
advantage to the baby.
The number of children who die under five years of
age * is enormous — many of them from the want of the
mother^s milk. There is a regular ^^ parental baby-
slaughter " — ^' a massacre of the innocents " — constantly
going on, in consequence of infants being thus de-
prived of their proper nutriment and just dues ! The
mortality from this cause is frightful, chiefly occurring
* 37 '4 per cent., the mortality affecting chiefly those twelve
months of age and under.
04: ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
among rich people, wlio are either too grand, or, from
luxury, too delicate to perform such duties : poor
married women, as a rule, nurse their own children,
and, in consequence, reap their reward.
If it be ascertained, past all doubt , that a mother can-
not suckle her child, then, if the circumstances of the
parents will allow — and they ought to strain a point to
accomplish it — a healthy wet-nurse should be procured,
as the food which Nature has supplied is far, very far
superior to any invented by art. Never bring up a
baby, then, if you can possibly avoid it, on artificial
food alone. Eemember, as I proved in a former Con-
versation, there is in early infancy no real substitute
for either a mother^s or a wet-nurse's milk. It is impos-
sible to imitate the admirable and subtle chemistry of
nature. The law of nature is, that a baby, for the first
few months of his existence, shall be brought up by the
breast ; and Nature 's law cannot be broken with im-
punity. It will be imperatively necessary then —
'* To give to Nature what is Nature's due."
Again, in case of a severe illness occurring during the
first nine months of a child's life, what a comfort either
the mother's or the wet-nurse's milk is to him ! it often
determines whether he shall live or die. But if a wet-
nurse cannot fill the place of a mother, then it will be
necessary to resort to some one of the modifications of
cow's milk already mentioned (see Conversation 52).
I wish, then, to call your special attention to the fol-
lowing facts, for they are facts : Farinaceous foods, of
all kinds, before a child is seven months old, should only
be given under medical advice ; they are during the
early period of infant life fraught with danger when
habitually used, and may bring on — which they fre-
quently do — convulsions. A babe fed on farinaceous
food alone would certainly die of starvation ; for, up to
IITFAKCY. — DIET. 55
six or seven montlis of age, infants have not the power
of digesting farinaceous substances to any other than a
most trifling extent.
In passing, allow me to urge you never to stuif a babe,
never to overload his little stomach with food ; it is far
more desirable to give him not enough, than to give him
too much at a meal. Many a poor child has been, like a
young bird, killed with stuffing. If a child be at the
breast, and at the breast alone, there is not much fear
of his taking too much, and if he does so he can be read-
ily checked ; but if he be brought up on artificial food
there is great fear of his overloading his stomach.
Stuffing a child brings on vomiting and bow^el com-
plaints, and a host of other diseases which now it would
be tedious to enumerate. Let me, then, urge you on
no account to overload tlie stomach of a little child.
Some infants are ^'^ food-bolters,^' and the feeding of
them with bottles such as have been recommended pre-
vents this bad fault.
There will, then, in many cases, be quite sufficient
nourishment in the above. I have known some robust
infants brought up on milk, and on milk alone, without
a particle of farinaceous food, or of any other food, in
any shape or form whatever. But if it should not agree
with the child, or if there should not be sufficient nour-
ishment in it, then the food recommended in answer to
No. 60 Question ought to be given.
Let it be thoroughly understood, that a babe, during
the first twelve months and more of his life, must have,
for his very existence, milk of some kind as the staple
and principal article of his diet.
63. How would yoit choose a zoet-nurse ?
I would inquire particularly into the state of her
health ; whether she be of a healthy family or of a con-
sumptive habit, or if she or any of her family have any
seams or swellings about their necks ; any eruptions or
blotches upon her skin ; if she has a plentiful breast of
56 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
milk of good quality* (which may readily be ascertained
by milking a little into a glass); if she has good nipples,
sufficiently long for the baby to hold, and that they be
not sore ; and if her own child be of the same, or nearly
of the same age, as the one you wish her to nurse. As-
certain whether she menstruates during suckling ; if
she does, the milk is sometimes not so good and nour-
ishing, and you had better decline taking her if you can
procure somebody equally suitable. She is undesirable
if she be pregnant. Assure yourself that her own baby
is strong and healthy and free from, a sore mouth, and
from a '' breaking-out," of the skin. Indeed, if it be
possible to procure such a wet-nurse, she ought to be
from the country, of ruddy complexion, of clear skin,
and of between twenty and thirty years of age, as the
milk will then be fresh, pure, and nourishing.
I consider it to be desirable that the infant of the
wet-nurse should not be less than one month old, audit
would be better that the nurse^s milk should correspond
in age with the infant to be nursed, as the milk varies
in quality according to the age of the child ; but this is
not absolutely essential, and two or three months differ-
ence will not be of vital importance. For instance,
during the commencement of suckling, the first milk is
yellowish in color, it is rich in proteids and salts, the
fat may be much or little, and it is deficient in sugar
for the first day or two. It contains mulberry-like cells
with fat in them. This is the colostruin milk, and the
cells are the colostrum corpuscles. When the milk
loses its yellow color the colostrum corpuscles have dis-
appeared. The milk is similar to the biestings of a cow,
which, if given to a babe of a few months old, would
cause derangement of the stomach and bowels. After
the first few days (seven to ten) the appearaiice of the
* It should be thin, and of a bluish-white color, sweet to the
taste, and when allowed to stand will throw up a considerable
quantity of cre^ui,
INFANCY. — DIET. 57
milk changes ; it becomes of a bluish- white color, grad-
ually increases in quantity, and has a chemical consti-
tution, mentioned in Conversation 50, as the infant be-
comes older and requires more support. The quantity
of the fat remains fairly constant all through the period
of nursing, the sugar gradually increases in amount,
and the proteids and salts gradually decrease. The
solids, composed of the fat, the sugar, the proteids, and
the salts, suffer no diminution until the end of the
seventh month, when the function begins to flag, from
which time they steadily decrease. As the solids de-
crease, the water which dissolves them increases, so that
there is really a total slight gain. If the baby is strong
and vigorous it is better to select a woman with her first
child, but if it is weak and puny then a woman who
has borne several children, because her milk will not be
so rich, and, therefore, so likely to upset the infantas
digestion.
In selecting a wet-nurse for a very small and feeble
babe, you must carefully ascertain that the nipples of
the wet-nurse are good and soft, and yet not very large.
If they be very large, the chikVs mouth being very small,
he may not be able to hold them. You must note, too,
whether the milk flows readily from the nipple into the
child^s mouth ; if it does not, he may not have strength
to draw it, and he would soon die of starvation. The
way of ascertaining whether the infant really draws the
milk from the nipple, is by examining the mouth of the
child immediately after his taking the breast, and seeing
for yourself whether there be actually milk, or not in
his mouth.
Very feeble new-born babes sometimes cannot take
the bosom, be the nipples and the breasts ever so good,
and even when nipple-shields and glass tubes have been
tried. In such a case, cream and whey mixture (see
Conversation 58) must be given in small quantities at a
time — from two to four teaspoonfuls — but frequently ;
58 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
if the child be awake, every hour or every half-hour,
both night and day, until he be able to take the breast.
If, then, a puny, feeble babe is only able to take but
little at a time, and that little by teaspoonfuls, he
must have little and often, in order that '' many a little
may make a mickle.^^
I have known many puny, delicate children who had
not strength to hold the nipple in their mouths, but
who could take cream and whey (as above recommended),
by teaspoonfuls only at a time, with steady perseve-
rance, and giving it every half-hour or hour (according
to the quantity sw^allowed), at length be able to take the
breast, and eventually become strong and hearty chil-
dren ; but such cases require unwearied watching, per-
severance, and care. Bear in mind, that the smaller
the quantity of nourishment given at a time, the oftener
must it be administered, as the babe must have a cer-
tain quantity of food to sustain life.
As a final caution, do not engage a wet-nurse unless
she be first seen and approved ofhy your medical attend-
ant. Many apparently healthy young women have sown
disease broadcast unknow^ingly. Themselves victims,
they have been the innocent propagators of terrible
maladies. Indeed, now that artificial feeding has been
so successfully investigated, were I to choose between it
and a wet-nurse who had not been medically examined,
I would unliesitatingly select the former as being the
safer way to rear a child.
64. Wliat ought to le tlie diet either of a wet-nurse or
of a mother luho is suckling ?
It is common practice to cram a wet-nurse with food,
and to give her strong ale to drink, to make good nour-
ishment and plentiful milk ! This practice is absurd.
The mother or the wet-nurse, by using those means
most conducive to her own health, will best advance
the interest of her little charge.
A wet-nurse ought to live somewhat in the following
IKFAKCY. — DIET. 59
way : Let her for breakfast have tea, with bread and
butter, and an egg. It is customary for a wet-nurse to
make a hearty luncheon ; of this I do not approve. If
she feel either faint or low at eleven o^clock, let her
have a tumbler of milk, with a piece of bread and butter
or a biscuit. She ought not to dine later than half-past
one or two o^clock ; she should eat for dinner either
mutton or beef, with mealy potatoes, or asparagus, or
French beans, or sea-kale, or turnips, or broccoli, or
canliflower, and stale bread. Eich pastry, soups, gravies,
high-seasoned dishes, salted meats, greens, cabbage, and
sometimes fish, must one and all be carefully avoided ;
as they only tend to disorder the stomach,, and thus to
deteriorate the milk.
It is a common remark, that '^ a mother who is suckling
may eat anything. ^^ I do not agree with this opinion.
Can impure and improper food make pure and proper
milk, or can impure and improper milk make good
blood for an infant, and thus good health ? You
should know that many drugs pass into the breast milk
through the system, which may prove harmful to or
even poison the babe. Opium, arsenic, mercury, bella-
donna, and other chemical substances are all known to
have this property, and death might occur from a
mother^s or wet-nurse^s indiscretions. A dose of liquor-
ice powder taken by the nurse may gripe the infant,
and saline purgatives may not only affect the baby^s
bowels, but may eve^i stop theflotv of the milk. Porter
may make the baby sick. A small daily quantity of
alcohol may improve the fat in the milk if this is
wanted, but if it is taken in quantity it will certainly
act as a poison to the infant. Kich feeding combined
with ins2ifficie7it exercise, makes the milk richer in
proteids, and so difficult of digestion that the baby^s
stomach is upset. A plain mixed diet, with a slight
excels of fluids and meats beyond what has been cus-
tomary, will be the best plan to follow.
60 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
The wet-nurse may take with her dinner half a pint
of mild ale.* Tea should be taken at half-past five or
six o^clock ; supper at nine, which should consist either
of a slice or two of cold meat, or of cheese if she prefer
it, with half a pint of mild ale ; occasionally a basin of
milk gruel may with advantage be substituted, or cocoa
made with milk. Hot and late suppers are prejudicial
to the mother or to the wet-nurse, and consequently to
the child. The wet-nurse ought to be in bed every
night by ten o^clock.
It might be said that I have been too minute and
particular in my rules for a wet-nurse ; but when it is
considered of what importance good milk is to the well-
doing of an infant, in making him strong and robust,
not only now but as he grows up to manhood, I shall, 1
trust, be excused for my prolixity.
65. Have you any more liints to offer ivitli regard to
the management of a loet-nurse 9
A. wet-nurse is frequently allowed to remain in bed
until a late hour in the morning, and during the day to
continue in the house, as if she were a fixture ! How is
it possible that any one, under such treatment, can
continue healthy ? A wet-nurse ought to rise early,
and, if the weather and season permit, take a walk,
which will give her an appetite for breakfast, and will
make a good meal for her little charge. T*his cannot
during the winter months be done ; but even then, she
ought, some part of the day, to take every opportunity
of walking out ; indeed, in the summer time she should
live half the day in the open air.
She ought strictly to avoid crowded rooms ; her mind
should be kept calm and unruffled, as nothing disorders
the milk so much as passion, and other violent emotions
of the mind ; a fretful temper is very injurious, on
* A healthy nurse, unused to alcohol, with a good milk supply,
does not require any stimulant.
mFAKCY. — DIET. 61
which account you should, in choosing your wet-nurse,
endeavor to procure one of a mild, calm, and placid
disposition.*
A wet-nurse should not be allowed to visit her own
infant, as her foster-child may suffer ; but while this is
the case, it is the manifest duty of the mother whose
child she is nursing to see that the infant is properly
looked after. If the nurse is fretting about the well-
being of her own child she will not produce a nourishing
milk for her charge, and the little one will suffer in
consequence.
A wet-nurse ought never to be allowed to dose her
little charge with medicine of any kind whatever. Let
her thoroughly understand this, and let there be no
mistake in the matter. Do not for one moment allow
your children's health to be tampered or trifled with.
A baby's health is too precious to be experimented upon
and to be ruined by an ignorant person. Wet-nurses
have been known to give their little charges opium to
keep them quiet.
66. Have the goodness to state at tvhat age a child
ought to he weaned.
The time is often settled for you without your con-
sent, for the breasts begin to fail at very variable
periods during nursing. The supply begins to dimin-
ish and then ceases, or stops abruptly.
If the supply of milk continues, and the infant is
thriving, it may be nursed until the end of the first
* " ' The child is poisoned.'
' Poisoned ! by wliom ?
' By you. You have been fretting.'
' Nay, indeed, mother. How can I help fretting ?'
' Don't tell me, Margaret. A nursing mother has no business
to fret. She must turn her mind away from lier grief to the com-
fort that lies in her lap. Know you not that the child pines if the
mother vexes herself?'" — The Cloister and the Hearth, by
Charles Reade,
62 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
year, but i^OT longer. After this period, the mother's
milk is unsuitable for the infant's needs. Children
who are nursed beyond that period, even if they have
had no other food than the breast, are mostly rickety.
If the failure of milk is partial only, though good in
quality, then artificial feeding may be continued with
breast milk. In the preparation of the artificial food,
the knowledge of the chemical composition of the
mother's milk would be extremely useful. Quite apart
from the condition of supply, the question is a compli-
cated one, and depends upon many factors — viz., the
health of the mother, the quantity and quality qf her
milk supply, and the health and well-being of the
infant. Each case must be decided on its own merits,
but do not, even under apparently favorable conditions,
prolong nursing beyond the year ; it will not prevent
conception, it will injure your own health, and may, if
you be so predisposed, excite disease, and do the haby
harm.
67. Hoiv luould you recommend a mother to act ivhen
she weans her child f
She ought, as the word signifies, to do it gradually —
that is to say, she should, by degrees, give him less and
less of the breast, and more and more of artificial food ;
and lastly, it would be well for the mother either to
send him away, or to leave him at home, and, for a few
days, to go away herself. The weaning process should
extend over a period of one month. There are also
several important points to remember. Do not choose
a time when a tooth is being cut ; avoid, if possible, the
very hot season of the year for fear of diarrhea ; and
postpone the weaning if the baby has just recovered
from a serious illness.
68. While a mother is tveaning her infant, and after
she has iveaned him, luhat ought to he his diet f
That depends upon the age of the infant. If he is
seven months old, use pure Cream Mixture, or
INFANCY. — DIET. 63
Gaertner^s Mother Milk, or other milk mix-
ture which has been devised from a knowledge of
the composition of the mother's milk. If he con-
tinues to thrive, feed him with this until he is one
year old. If you have faithfully carried out the direc-
tions for preparing the food, and for feeding, with the
result that the food is perfectly digested, and yet he
does not thrive as he should, then it will be advisable to
add some cereal to the milk (see Conversation 60). If
circumstances have compelled weaning prior to the
advent of the seventh month, then the infant must be
fed according to the methods previously recommended
(see Conversations 52 and 58).
69. If a cliild he suffering severely from " ivind/' is
there any objection to the addition of a small quantity
either of gin or of 2^eppermint to his food, to disperse it?
It is a murderous practice to add either gin or pejjper-
mint of the shops (which is oil of peppermint dissolved
in spirits) to his food. Many children have, by such a
practice, been made puny and delicate, and have grad-
ually dropped into an untimely grave. An infant, who
is kept, for the first five or six months, eiitirely to the
breast, with a mother careful in her own diet, seldom
suffers from ^^wind^^; those, on the contrary, who have
much or improper food,* suffer severely.
Care in feeding, then, is the grand preventive of
'^wind^^; but if, notwithstanding all your precautions,
the child be troubled with flatulence, the remedies
recommended under the head of ^'^ Flatulence ^^ will
generally answer the purpose.
70. Have you any remarhs to mahe on sugar for
siveetening a hahy's ^ ^ood 9
* For the first five or six months never, if you can possibly
avoid it, give artificial food to an infant who is sucking. There
is nothing, in the generality of cases, that agrees, for the first few
mouths, like the mother's milk alone.
64 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
A small quantity of sugar in an infantas food is
requisite, sugar being nourishing and fattening, and
making cow^s milk to resemble somewhat in its proper-
ties human milk ; but, bear in mind, it must he used as
directed. In preceding Conversations milk-sugar has
been ordered for admixture with cow^s milk, this
variety of sugar being found in both human and cow^s
milk. Milk-sugar is not so sweet as cane-sugar. If
the proper percentage of cane-sugar is substituted for
milk-sugar there is no harm in using it, hwt much sugar
cloys the stomach, weakens the digestion, produces
acidity, sour belchings, and wind —
" Things sweet to taste, prove in digestion sour."
Shakfipeare.
VACCIKATIOI^ AND RE-VACCINATIOIS'.
71. Are you an advocate of vaccination?
Certainly. I consider it to be one of the greatest
blessings ever conferred upon mankind. Small-pox,
before vaccination was adopted, ravaged the country
like a plague, and carried off thousands annually ; and
those who did escape with their lives were frequently
made loathsome and disgusting objects by it.
Vaccination is one, and an important, cause of
increasing population ; small-pox in olden times deci-
mated the country.
72. But vaccination does not ahvays protect a child
from s77iall-poxf
I grant you that it does not ahvays protect him, but
when he is vaccinated, if he takes the infection, he is
seldom pitted, and very rarely dies, and the disease
assumes a comparatively mild form. There are a few,
very few, fatal cases recorded after vaccination, and
these may be considered as only exceptions to the gen-
eral rule. Possibly, some of these may be traced to the
fact that, when the child was vaccinated, the proper
effect was not produced. Small-pox is almost certain
IKFAIfCY. — VACCINATION AND KE-VACCINATION. 65
death to an unvaccinated infant under one year of
age, and more than half the unvaccinated children
under five years of age are killed by it.
If children and adults were re-vaccinated, say every
seven years after the first vaccination, depend upon it,
even these rare cases would not occur, and in a short
time small-pox would be known only by name.
73. Do you consider it, tlien, tlie imperative duty of a
mother, in every case, to have, after the lapse of every-
seven years, her children re-vaccinated f
I decidedly do. It would be an excellent plan for
every person, once every seven years, to be re-vaccinated,
and even oftener, if small-pox be rife in the neighbor-
hood. Vaccination, however frequently performed, can
never do the slightest harm, and might, do inestimable
good. Small-pox is both a pest and a disgrace, and
ought to be constantly fought and battled with, until it
be banished (which it may readily be) from the land.
I say that small-pox is a pest ; it is worse than the
plague, for if not kept in subjection, it is more general,
sparing neither young nor old, rich nor poor, and commits
greater ravages than the plague ever did. Small-pox
is a disgrace ; it is a disgrace to any civilized land, as
there is no necessity for its presence. If cow-pox were
properly and frequently performed, small-pox would be
unknown. Cow-pox is a weapon to conquer small-pox
and to drive it ignominiously from the field.
My firm belief is, that if every person were, every
seven years, duly and properly vaccinated, small-]30x
might be utterly exterminated ; but as long as there are
such lax notions on the subject, and such gross negli-
gence, the disease will always be rampant, for the
poison of small-pox never slumbers nor sleeps, but re-
quires the utmost diligence to eradicate it. The great
Dr. Jenner, the discoverer of cow-pox as a preventive
of small-pox, strongly advocated the absolute necessity
of every person being re-vaccinated once every seven
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66 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
years^ or even oftener, if there was an epidemic of
small-pox in tlie neighborhood.
74. Are you not likely to catch not only the cow-pox,
hut any other disease that the child has from whom the
matter is taken ?
Yes, and it is for this reason that the matter is no
longer taken from other children, but from the calf
75. Do you advise talcing the virus from another child ?
l^Oy certainly not. Until abont the year 1870 human
virus, i. e., lymph taken from another child was almost
exclusively used. Since tliat time, however, owing to
increased popular demand, numerous and reliable es-
tablishments have made it a business to furnish physi-
cians all over the country with pure, recent bovine
virus obtained from carefully examined kine. In this
manner the objection brought forward by antivac-
cinationists — the inoculation of certain ''^ blood-dis-
eases " from one child to another — has been success-
fully met.
76. At tvhat age do you recommend an infant to he
first vaccinated?
When he is from two to three months old, as the
sooner he is protected the better. Moreover, the older
he is the greater will be the difficulty in making him
submit to the operation, and in preventing his arm from
being rubbed, thus endangering the breaking of the
vesicles, and thereby interfering with its effects. If
small-pox be prevalent in the neighborhood, he may,
with perfect safety, be vaccinated at the end of the
mouth. If the small-pox be near at hand, he must be
vaccinated, regardless of his age and of everything else.
If a new-born babe should unfortunately catch the dis-
ease, he will most likely die, as at his tender age he
would not have strength to battle with such a formi-
dable enemy. A case, in the General Lying-in Hospital,
Lambeth, of small-pox occurred in a woman a few days
IN^FAI^CY. — VACCIi^ATIOiq" ANB KE-VACCINATION^. 67
after her admission and the birth of her child. Her
own child was vaccinated when only four days old, and
all the other infants in the house varying from one day
to a fortnight or more. All took the vaccination, also
the woman's own child, who was suckled and slept with
her mother, and all escaped the small -pox.
77. Bo you consider that the talcing of matter from a
child's arm weakens the effect of vaccination on the sys-
tem ?
Certainly not, provided it has taken effect in more
than one place. The arm is frequently much inflamed,
and vaccinating other children from it abates the inflam-
mation, and thus affords relief. It is cdtuays luell to
leave one ^vesicle undisturbed.
78. If the infant have any ^' dreahing-out " upon the
shin, ought that to he a reason for deferringtlie vaccina-
tion ?
Children who are in a bad state of health or who are
suffering from some constitutional disease should not be
vaccinated until they have recovered. If erysipelas is
in the house or prevalent in the neighborhood, the op-
eration should also be postponed until such time as it is
safe to perform it. An infant suffering from eczema
had better not be vaccinated, but the moment the skin
be free from the breaking-out he must be vaccinated.
A trifling skin affection, like red-gum, unless it be se-
vere, ought not, at the proper age, to prevent vaccina-
tion. If small-pox be rife in the neighborhood, the child
mz/5^ be vaccinated regardless of 6^?^^ ^*^ break ing-ouf
on the skin.
79. Does vaccinatio7i mahe a child poorly ?
At about the fifth day after vaccination, and for three
or four days, he is generally a little feverish ; the mouth
is slightly hot, and he delights to have the nipple in his
mouth. He does not rest so well at night ; he is rather
cross and irritable ; and sometimes has a slight bowel
complaint. The arm, about the ninth or tenth day, is
68 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
usually much inflamed, that is to say, it is red, hot,
and swollen for an inch or more around the vesicles ;
and it continues in this state for a day or two, at the
end of which time the inflammation gradually subsides.
These slight symptoms are desirable, as it proves that
the vaccination has had a proper effect on his system,
and that, consequently, he is more likely to be thor-
oughly protected from any risk of catching small-pox.
80. Do you approve, either during or after vaccination,
of giving medicine, more especially if lie he a little fever-
ish f
I do not like to interfere with vaccination in any 2vay
lohatever, but to allow the pox to have full power upon
his constitution.
What do you give the medicine for ? If the matter
that is put into the arm be healthy, what need is there
of physic ? And if the matter be not of good quality,
I am quite sure that no physic will make it so ! Look,
therefore, at the case in whatever way you like, physic
after vaccination is not necessary. If the vaccination
produce a slight feverish attack, it will, without the ad-
ministration of a particle of medicine, subside in two or
three days.
81. Have you any directions to give respecting the arm
AFTER vaccination f
The only precaution necessary is to take care that the
arm be not rubbed ; otherwise the vesicles may be pre-
maturely broken, and the efficacy of the vaccination
may be lessened. The sleeve, in vaccination, ought to
be large and soft, and should not be tied up. The ty-
ing up of a sleeve makes it hard, and it is much more
likely to rub the vesicles than if it were put on the
usual way.
82. But I am told that vaccination sometimes mahes
the glands swell, and brings on eruptions of the skin,
Is that so f
Certainly, in a very small proportion of the cases that's
li^FAHCY. — VACCIKATIOK AND EE-VACCi:N^ATlOK. 69
the case. The glands in the arm-pit and in the neck
may swell and become hard for a little while — quite ex-
ceptionally a little matter may form in them.
Sometimes nettle-rash comes on about the time of
ripening of the yesicles, or a rose-rash^ lasting for about
a day, or fugitive red blushes make their appearance,
or red-gum is seen. "When matter has formed in the
vesicles this may become inoculated in the healthy sur-
rounding skin, or elsewhere induce small pimples, con-
taining matter ; and if there are several of these pim-
ples with matter in them close together scabs will form
on them. The last will certainly happen if the baby is
not prevented from rubbing the matter into his tender
skin with his finger nails. The former are due to the
slight constitutional disturbance, and will pass away
before long. After all, these affections are but trivial
in comparison with small-pox, they need cause no
alarm, and the slight discomforts they entail are well
repaid by the protection afforded against a loathsome
disease.
83. If the arm after vaccination he much infiamed,
what ought to he done f
Smear frequently, by means of a feather or a camel's
hair brush, a little Boracic Ointment on the inflamed
part. This simple remedy will afford great comfort and
relief. If there is extensive redness and swelling of the
arm Boracic Acid fomentations changed every hour will
afford great relief.
84. Have the goodness to descrihe the])roper apjpearance,
after the falling off of the scah, of the arm.
The scabs ought always to be allowed to fall off of them-
selves. They must not, on any account, be meddled
with or picked. With regard to the proper appearance
of the arm, after the falling off of the scab — " A perfect
vaccine scar should be of small size, circular, and
marked with radiations and indentations," — Gregory*
70 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
DENTITION.
85. At lohat time does Dentition continence 9
The period at which it commences is uncertain. It
may, as a rule, be said that a babe begins to cut his
teeth at six or seven months old. Some have cut teeth
at three months ; indeed, there are instances on record
of infants having been born with teeth. King Eichard
the Third is said to have been an example. Shakspeare
notices it thus : —
" YoBK. — Marry, they say my uncle grew so fast,
That he could gnaw a crust at two hours old ;
'Twas full two years ere I could get a tooth.
Grandara, this would have been a biting jest."
When a babe is born with teeth they generally drop
out. On the other hand, teething, in some children,
does not commence until they are a year and a half, or
two years old ; in rare cases, not until they are three
years old. There are cases recorded of adults who have
never cut any teeth. An instance of the kind came
under my own observation.
Dentition has been known to occur in old age. A
case is recorded by M. Carre, in the Gazette Medicate
de Paris (Sept. 15, 1860), of an old lady, aged eighty-
five, who cut several teeth after attaining that age !
86. What is the number of the fiest set of teeth, and
in what order do they generally ajjpear f
The first or temporary set consists of twenty teeth.
The first set of teeth is usually cut in pairs. I may
say that nearly invariably the order is — first, the lower
front incisors (cutting teeth), then the upper front,
then the upper two lateral incisors, and that not un-
commonly a double tooth is cut before the two loiver
laterals ; but at all events the lower laterals come
seventh and eighth, and not fifth and sixth, as nearly all
books on the subject testify. Then the first grinders,
in the lower jaw, afterwards the first upper grinders,
then the lower corner-pointed or canine teeth, after
I:N'FAKCY. — DENTITIOK. 71
which the upper corner or eye-teeth, then the second
grinders in the lower jaw, and lastly, the second grind-
ers of the upper jaw. They do not, of course, always
appear in this rotation. Nothing is more uncertain
than the order of teething. A child seldom cuts his
second grinders until after he is two years old. He is
usually, from tlie time they first appear, tioo years in
cutting Ms first set of teeth. As a rule, therefore, a
child of two years old has six teeth, and one of two
years and a half old, twenty teeth.
87. If an infant he either feverish or irritahle or other-
ivise poorly, and if the gums he hot, stuollen, and tender,
are you an advocate for their heing lanced 9
Certainly, if the gum over the tooth is red and
swollen, and the tooth can he felt. By doing so he will,
in the generality of instances, be almost instantly re-
lieved. But if the redness is genercd rather than local,
and if there is not one tender swollen spot wdth its on-
coming tooth, lancing is not advocated. The inflamed
mouth may have nothing whatever to do with the
eruption of the teeth, and he owing to dyspeptic
trouhles.
88. But it has heen stated that lancing the gimis
hardens them.
This is a mistake ; it has a contrary effect. It is a
well-known fact, that a part which has been divided
gives way much more readily than one which has not
been cut. Again, the tooth is bound down by a tight
membrane, which, if not released by lancing, frequently
brings on convulsions. If the symptoms be urgent, it
may be necessary from time to time to repeat the lanc-
ing. It would be the height of folly to lance the gums
unless they were hot and swollen, and unless the tooth,
or the teeth, were near at hand. It is not to be con-
sidered a panacea for every baby^s ills, although, in those
cases where the lancing of the gums is indicated, the
beneficial effect is sometimes almost magical.
72 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
89. Holo ought the lancing of a child's gums to he per-
formed?
The proper person to lance his gums is a medical man.
But if, perchance, you should be miles away, and be out
of the reach of one, it would be well for you to know
how the operation ought to be performed. Well, then
let him lie on the nurse's lap upon his back, with his
head held tight between her knees. Let the nurse take
hold of the hands in order that the child may not inter-
fere with the operation.
Then, if it he the upper gum that requires lancing,
you ought to go to the head of the child, looking over,
as it were, and into his mouth, and should steady the
gum with the index finger of your left hand ; then you
should take hold of the gum-lancet with your right
hand — holding it as if it were a table-knife at dinner —
and cut firmly along the inflamed and swollen gum and
down to the tooth, until the edge of the gum-lancet
grates on the tooth. Each incision ought to extend
along the ridge of the gum to about the extent of each
expected tooth.
If it he the loiver gum that requires lancing, you must
go to the side of the child, and should steady the out-
side of the jaw with the fingers of the left hand, and
the gum with the left thumb, and then you should per-
form the operation as before directed.
In lancing the upper gums, the incision should be
made towards the outer edge of the expected tooth. In
lancing the lower gums, the incision must be made
towards the inner edge of the tooth. This is advised as
the upper row of teeth generally overlaps the under
set. If the grinders are being lanced the incision
should take the form of a cross^ one cut crossing another.
Although the lancing of the gums, to make it intel-
ligible to a non-professional person, requires a long de-
scription, it is, in point of fact, a simple affair, is soon
performed, and gives but little pain.
Il^FAi^CY. — DEHTITIOH. 73
90. If teething causes Convulsions^ luliat ought to he
done f
Send immediately for a medical man. Meanwhile,
freely dash water upon the face, and sponge the head
with cold water, and as soon as warm water can be pro-
cured, put him into a warm bath* of 98° Fahr. If a
thermometer be not at hand,f you must plunge your
own elbow into the water ; a comfortable heat for your
elbow will be the proper heat for the infant. He must
remain in the bath for a quarter of an hour, or until
the fit be at an end. The body after coming out of the
bath must be wiped with warm, dry, coarse towels ; he
ought then to be placed in a warm blanket. The gums
must be lanced, and cold water should be applied to
the head. ]S[ow administer an enema, composed of
table salt, olive oil, and warm oatmeal gruel, in the
proportion of one tablespoonful of salt, one of oil,
and a teacupful of gruel, and repeat every quarter
of an hour until the bowels have been well opened.
As soon as he comes to himself, give a dose of aperient
medicine.
A couple of grains of Calomel should be given, and
followed in a quarter of an hour by five grains of
Bromide of Potassium in a teaspoonful of sweetened
water. Chloral is also a good remedy — two and a half
grains for a dose — but it must be given under a doctor's
supervision.
It may be well, for the comfort of a mother, to state
that a child in convulsions is perfectly insensible to all
pain whatever ; indeed, a return to consciousness
speedily puts convulsions to the rout.
At the time you send for your doctor state what is the
matter, and that will give him the opportunity, espe-
* For the precautions to be used in putting a child into a warm
bath, see the answer to question on "Warm Baths."
t No family, where there are young children, should be with-
out Fahrenheit's thermometer.
74 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
cially if you are in a country district where help is a long
way off, of bringing remedies for an emergency, and
also some chloroform, which is an exceedingly good
remedy for convulsions.
It is quite right for you to act as I have suggested in
such an emergency, but remember, the convulsions may
not.be due to teething after all, and you must not lance
the gummnless the indications are such as have been
suggested in Conversation 87.
Convulsions due to the irritation of an oncoming
tooth are not common. It is more than likely that the
infant has some indigestible material in his stomach or
bowels ; he may have an inflamed ear (out of sight) ;
he may be sickening for some fever ! The strong and
robust infant is not likely to suffer from convulsions —
in fact, he will often cut his teeth without your being
aware of it ; but the rickety baby, with a readily irri-
tated and very unstable brain, often the offspring of
" nervous ^^ parents, or those in a low state of health,
is likely to be attacked by them. Convulsions indicate,
then, a debilitated infant, as well as the presence of some
irritant in the body inducing the emergency.
91. A mirse is in the liabit of giving a child who is
teething either coral or ivory to lite. Do you approve of
the plan f
It is a bad practice to give him any hard, unyielding
substance, as it tends to harden the gums, and, by so
doing, causes the teeth to come through with greater
difficulty. I have found softer substances, such as an
indiarubber ring, or a piece of the best bridle leather,
or a crust of bread, of great service. If a piece of crust
be given as a gum-stick, he must, while biting it, be
well watched, or by accident he might loosen a large
piece of it, which might choke him. The pressure of
any of these excites a more rapid absorption of the gum,
and thus causes the tooth to come through more easily
and quickly.
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92. Have you any objection to my haby, when Tie is
cutting Ms teeth, suching his thwnb ?
Certainly not. The thumb is the best gum-stick in
the world : — it is convenient ; it is handy in every sense
of the word ; it is of the right size, and of the proper
consistence, neither too hard nor too soft ; there is no
danger, as of some artificial gum-sticks, of its being
swallowed, and thus of its choking the child. The suck-
ing of the thumb causes the salivary glands to pour out
their contents, and thus not only to moisten the dry
mouth, but assist the digestion ; the pressure of the
thumb eases, while the teeth are '' breeding, ^^ the pain
and irritation of the gums, and helps, when the teeth
are sufficiently advanced, to bring them through the
gums. Sucking of the thumb will often make a cross
infant contented and happy, and will frequently induce
a restless babe to fall into a sweet refreshing sleep.
Truly may the thumb be called a baby's comfort. By
all means, then, let your child suck his thumb when-
ever he likes, and as long as he chooses to do so.
There is a charming, bewitching little picture of a
babe sucking his thumb in Kingsley's Water Babies,
which I heartily commend to your favorable notice and
study.
93. But if an infant be alloiued to such his thumb,
will it not be lihely to become a habit, and stich to him
for years — until, indeed, he become a big boy?
After he has cut the whole of his first set of teeth,
that is to say, when he is about two years and a half
old, he might, if it be likely to become a habit, be readily
cured by the following method — namely, by making a
paste of aloes and water, and smearing it upon his
thumb. One or two dressings will suffice, as after just
tasting the bitter aloes, he will take a disgust to his
former enjoyment, and the habit will at once be broken.
Many persons I know have an objection to children
sucking their thumbs^ as for instance —
7t) ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
" Perhaps it's as well to keep cliildren from plums,
And from pears in the season, and sucking their thumbs." *
My reply is —
"P'rhaps 'tis as well to keep children from pears ;
The pain they might cause is oft followed by tears ;
'Tis certainly well to keep them from plums ;
But certainly not from sucking their thumbs !
If a babe suck his thumb
'Tis an ease to his gum ;
A comfort ; a boon ; a calmer of grief •
A friend in his need — affording relief ;
A solace ; a good ; a soother of pain ;
A composer to sleep ; a charm ; and a gain ;
'Tis handy, at once, to his sweet mouth to glide ;
When done with, drops gently down by his side ;
'Tis fixed, like an anchor, while the babe sleeps,
And the mother, with joy, her still vigil keeps."
94. A cliild ivlio is teething clrMles, and, tliereby loets
Ms chest, which frequently causes him to catch cold ;
what had letter he done f
Have in readiness to put on several flannel dribbling
bibs, so that they may be changed as often as they be-
come wet ; or^ if he dribble very much, the oiled silk
dribbling-bibs, instead of the flannel ones, may be
used. They are procurable at any baby-linen ware-
house.
95. Do you approve of giving a child, during teething ,
much fruit ?
No ; unless it be a baked apple, or the juice of five
or six grapeS;, taking care that he does not swallow
either the seeds or the skin, or an orange. Such fruits,
if the bowels be in a costive state, will be particularly
useful.
All stone fruit, raiu apples or pears, ought to be care-
fully avoided, as they only disorder the stomach and
the bowels, causing convulsions, gripings, &c.
* Ingoldsby Legends.
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96. Is a child during teething more subject to dis-
ease, and, if so, to what comj^laints, and in luhat manner
may they he prevented f
The tendency on the part of the mother and nurse
is to cast the blame on teething for all the complaints
to which the infant may be subject during the progress
of dentition. It is a time-honored custom, and dies
hard. This explanation of the cause of the various dis-
eases is a very convenient one, and saves trouble, but
it is not infrequently an explanation which proves dis-
astrous to the infant. Whilst the teeth are being
blamed, the old idea of the inadvisibility of interfering
with Nature^s efforts is quietly submitted to, and other
and much more obnoxious causes for ill-health are either
not detected or ignored.
Often at the period of teeth-cutting the dietary is
being altered ; in the natural course of events stomach
and bowel troubles arise, and the teeth are blamed.
The babe is teething — of course, he has diarrhea and
sickness, and is feverish, though there is not a tooth in
sight. The obvious explanation of an unsuitable diet is
not for a moment thought of, and the teeth are freely
abused. When bowel troubles arise inflammation of the
mouth is not uncommon. Those wretched teeth again !
although there is no sign of local swelling and the im-
minent appearance of a tooth. The latter, of course,
is an effort of Nature to ^''get rid of bad humors";
you must not interfere with I^ature^s workings. Rub-
bish ! The correct view to take of these complaints
is to treat the inflammation of the mouth and the bowel
disturbance, 2m& j^ay particular attention to the feeding.
To clasp the hands, pursue a masterly policy of in-
activity, and blame the teeth, is not wise, especially
when his mouth is sore and painful, and his bowels
gripe him. Bat children often cut their teeth with a
'^bad cold,"^ or bronchitis? Certainly, they often do.
If the baby's clothes around his neck are allowed to be-
78 ADVICE TO A MOTHEH.
come "Wet from the saliva constantly dribbling on them,
and his neck and chest become chilled, it is not unlikely
that he will '^ catch a cold " or have bronchitis. There
is another explanation for these attacks. When a tooth
is near the surface and the gum is siuoUen and sore, there
is irregular fever, often lasting for several days, the
temperature varying between 100° and 104° Fahr. "When
in this feverish state the child^s health is not so good as
at other times, owing to the lowering effects of the fever
on the system. His stomach and bowels are more
irritable when he is feverish, and dyspeptic attacks are
more readily induced. Sudden changes of temperature
perhaps induce catarrh of his bowels and stomach, when
they otherwise would not do so, or under these condi-
tions he has a cold in his head or bronchitis. If he is
cutting a tooth, do not send him out in an east or north-
east wind, or leave him in a draughty place.
Discharges from the ear are not caused by teething ;
other influences have been at work. Probably he has
caught cold in the ear wliilst in a state of fever. Such
discharges must not be looked upon as a ^'' natural vent,"
but your doctor should be at once informed of the
occurrence, and they should receive prompt attention,
lest the face become paralyzed, or serious brain mischief
occur. Both eczema and red-gum have been laid to the
door of teething. Eczema is often worse during the
eruption of a tooth ; but both these skin complaints
are due to bowel troubles in the first instance, and these
bowel troubles have doubtless been due to some error
in diet. Attacks of fever may be started by many other
causes than teething ; but where there is a hot and
swollen gum and an oncoming tooth, the fever very
probably proceeds from this cause. To ascribe all
attacks of fever to some supposed tooth disturbance,
when there is no sign of such disturbance on looking
into the mouth, is rash. The fever may indicate some
lung trouble — inflammation, for example — and much
IKFAKCY. — DEKTITIOH. 79
valuiible time has been lost from the too-ready expla-
nation. Very few healthy infants suffer from convul-
sions ; it is usually only the weak, debilitated, and often
rickety children of ^' nervous " parentage that are at-
tacked. The irritation of an oncoming tooth, with
a hot and swollen gum, can, and does, in these infants,
excite the nervous energy, the outward result being
convulsions.
If the child is not cutting a tooth, and the cause of
his distress is not obvious, do not ascribe his illness to
^^ breeding''^ the teeth, for if you do you will neglect
other most important matters. Bronchitis and diar-
rhea are not to be looked upon as an effort of Nature to
^^ act as a diversion, by relieving the irritation of the
gums,'^ but are to be treated with proper respect, or the
simple diarrhea may prove a very serious matter, and
the trifling bronchitis a fatal disease.
To prevent these diseases, means ought to be used to
invigorate a child^s constitution by plain, wholesome
food, as recommended under the Conversations con-
cerning diet ; by exercise and fresh air ; * by allowing
him, weather permitting, to be out of doors a great
part of every day ; by lancing the gums when they get
red, hot, and swollen ; by attention to the bowels ; and,
let me add, by attention to his temper : many children
are made feverish and ill by petting and spoiling them.
97. Have the goodness to describe the synq^toms and the
treatment of Painful Dentition.
The gums are red, swollen, and hot, and he cannot.
* The young of animals seldom suffer from cutting their teeth
— and what is the reason ? Because they live in the open air,
and take plenty of exercise; while children are frequently cooped
up in close rooms, and are not allowed the free use of their limbs
The value of fresh air is well exemplified in a Eegistrar-General's
Eoport. He says that in 1,000,000 deaths, from all diseases, 616
occur in the town from teething, while 120 only take place in the
country from the same cause.
80 Advice to a motheb.
witliout expressing pain, bear to have them touched ;
hence, if he be at the breast, he is constantly loosing
the nipple. There is dryness of the mouth, although
before there had been a great flow of saliva. He is
feverish, restless, and starts in his sleep. His face is
flushed. His head is heavy and hot. The fever is
irregular and the temperature ranges from 100° to 104°
Fahr., and may be at its highest point, unlike in other
diseases, in the morning. In association with these
symptoms there may be^(l) sickness and diarrhea,
one or both ; (2) inflammation of the mouth, and not
infrequently painful and swollen glands under the jaw
and the upper part of the neck ; (3) a " cold in the
head '* or bronchitis ; (4) convulsions ; (5) eczema or
red-gum.
The treatment consists in lancing the swollen gum,
which will ease the parts. The complications of pain-
ful dentition, should any be present, must be dealt with
as recommended under the various Conversations deal-
ing with these disorders.
If you are living in the town, and your baby suffers
much from teething, take him into the country. It is
wonderful what change of air to the country will often
do, in relieving a child who is painfully cutting his
teeth. The number of deaths in cities from teething
is great ; it is in the country comparatively trifling.
98. If an infant he jjurged during teething or indeed
during any other time, do you approve of either absorbent
or astringent medicines to restrain it ?
Certainly not. I should look upon the relaxation as
an effort of Nature to relieve itself. A child is never
purged without a cause ; that cause, in the generality
of instances, is the presence of either some undigested
food, or acidity, or depraved motions, that want a vent.
The better plan is, in such a case, to give a dose of
aperient medicine, such as either Castor Oil, or Mag-
nesia and Rhubarb ; and thus work it off. If we lock
li^^FAi^CY. — DEi^TITIOJS'. 81
UP THE BOWELS WE C0I^"FI1^E THE ENEMY^ AND THUS
PKODUCE MISCHIEF. If he be purged more than usual,
attention should be paid to the diet — if it be absolutely
necessary to give him artificial food — and care must be
taken not to overload the stomach.
After the purge it is advisable to administer a mix-
ture containing Chalk and Catechu to ward off any
chances of choleraic diarrhea (Prescription I. in Ap-
pendix).
For sickness a teaspoonful of fresh Ipecacuanha Wine
should be given every ten minutes until the stomach is
cleared, to be followed by a mixture of Bismuth and
Soda (Prescription II. in Appendix).
99. A child is subject to a slight cough during denti-
tion — called hy nurses " tooth-cough " : is there any ob-
jection to a mother giving her child a small quantity
either of Syrui} of White Po])pies, or of Paregoric, to
ease it f
Paregoric and Syrup of White Poppies for a young
child are dangerous medicines, unless administered by a
judicious medical man, and ought never to le given hy a
mother. Wrap the child warmly, and give a mixture
containing Ipecacuanha and Ammonia three times a
day (Prescription III. in Appendix).
A slight cold on the chest may quickly pass on to a
dangerous bronchitis or inflammation of the lungs, and
early treatment is advisable to prevent the spread of
inflammation.
100. A child luho is teething is subject to a " breahing-
out," more especially behind the ears, ivhich is most dis-
figuring, and frequently very annoying : ichat ivould
you recommend?
Have all breakings-out cured as quickly as possible.
Skin eruptions used to be looked upon ^''as an effort of
the constitution to relieve itself,^' and it was anticipated
that " if the breaking-out was repelled that convulsions
or bronchitis or inflammation of the lungs would be
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82 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
the consequence/^ Increasing experience^ however, has
taught that such old-time fears were groundless, and
that skin disorders may be cured with impunity, as also
the facts that mouth, stomach and bowel complaints
must not be allowed to run riot, or death will quickly
step in, and that a neglected ' ' cold on the chest, ^^ rather
than acting as a safety-valve for dental irritation, as
was once supposed, will spread if neglected, and bring
both life and dental troubles to an end at one and the
same time.
101. Do you reco7nmend '' teetliing poivders ? "
]^o. As it has been the custom of mothers and
nurses for years to lay the blame to ^'^ teething,^-' for
well-nigh every ailment occurring during infancy, so
various secret, magical cures, in the shape of ^' teething
powders,^^ have sprung up to aid the teething process,
and ward off the ailments ! Teething powders should
not be given. They often contain dangerous drugs,
such as Opium, Mercury, and Antipyrine, which should
on no account be administered by any but a medical
man. If the child is feverish there will be no harm in
giving him Prescription IV. in Appendix, — a teaspoon-
ful every two or three hours, — and sponging him with
lukewarm water ; but do not give any remedy of which
you do not know the composition, unless it has been
prescribed by your medical man.
102. Are the teeth to le cleaned during infancy and
cMldhood ?
Certainly. Do all you can to preserve them by using
a soft toothbrush at least night and morning, but better
after each meal, dipped in a wash, which is made by
adding eight grains of table salt to one ounce of water.
If the teeth are not cleaned the food collects about them,
and germs readily grow in the material. Acid secre-
tions are then produced, which eat into the enamel, and
then quickly expose and destroy the sensitive tooth
pulp, and so the life of the tooth. A dentist should
IKFAKCY. — EXERCISE. 83
examine the child twice a year, to see if the teeth are
sound. By preserving your child^s teeth you preserve
his health. Should the temporary teeth show signs of
decay, he must be taken to the dentist at once to have
them filled. Foul discharges in the mouth are preju-
dicial to its mucous membrane, to the teeth, and to the
health of the child. Tubercle bacilli may find their
way into the glands of the neck at the site of decayed
teeth, the glands may form abscesses, and even worse
may happen.
Temporary teeth should be ^^ filled," for the follow-
ing reasons : (1) Without teeth the child cannot masti-
cate his food, and his health suffers in consequence.
(2) Decayed teeth frequently infect the oncoming teeth,
a very serious matter indeed. (3) They hinder the
eruption of the permanent teeth.
Cleaning the teeth, then, is as important as washing
the body. See to it that your child forms the habit of
regularly washing his teeth, and a dirty mouth will
then become as objectionable to him as a dirty skin.
EXERCISE.
103. Do you recommend exercise in the open air for a
baly f and if so, how soon after birth f
I am a great advocate for his having exercise in the
open air. '' The infant in arms makes known its desire
for fresh air by restlessness ; it cries, for it cannot speak
its wants ; is taken abroad, and is quiet."
The age at which he ought to commence taking exer-
cise will, of course, depend upon the season and upon
the weather. If it be summer, and the weather be fine,
he should be carried in the open air a week or a fort-
night after birth ; but if it be winter, he ought not, on
any account, to be taken out under the month, and not
even then, unless the weather be mild for the season,
and it be the middle of the day. At the end of two
months he should breathe the open air more frequently.
84 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
And, after the expiration of three months, he ought to
be carried out every clay, even if it be wet under foot,
provided it be fine above, and the wind be neither in an
easterly nor in a northeasterly direction. By doing so,
we shall make him robust, and give the skin that mot-
tled appearance which is so characteristic of health.
He must, of course, be well clothed.
I cannot help expressing my disapprobation of the
practise of smothering up an infantas face with a hand-
kerchief, with a veil, or with any other covering, when
he is taken out into the air. If his face be so muffled
up, he may as well remain at home ; as, under such
circumstances, it is impossible for him to receive
any benefit from the invigorating effects of the fresh
air.
104. Can you devise any method to induce a tdbe Mm-
self to take exercise f
He must be encouraged to use muscular exertion ;
and, for this purpose, he ought to be frequently laid
upon a rug, or carpet, on the floor : he will then stretch
his limbs and kick about with perfect glee. It is a
pretty sight to see a little fellow kicking and sprawling
on the floor. He crows with delight, and thoroughly
enjoys himself ; it strengthens his back ; it enables him
to stretch his limbs, and to use his muscles. It is one
of the best kinds of exercise a very young child can
take. While going through his performances, his dia-
per, if he wear one, should be unfastened, that he may
go through his exercises untrammeled. By adopting
the above plan, the babe quietly enjoys himself, his
brain is not over-excited by it : this is an important
consideration, for both mothers and nurses are apt to
rouse and excite very young children to their manifest
detriment. A babe requires rest, and not excitement.
How wrong it is, then, for either a mother or a nurse
to be exciting and rousing a new-born babe. It is most
injurious and weakening to his brain. In the early
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period of his existence, his time ought to be almost
entirely spent in sleeping and in sucking !
105. Do you approve of tossing an infant much ahout 9
I have seen a child tossed nearly to the ceiling ! Can
anything be more cruel or absurd ? Violent tossing of
a young babe ought never to be allowed : it only fright-
ens him, and has been known to bring on convulsions.
He should be gently moved up and down, not tossed.
Such exercise causes a proper circulation of the blood,
promotes digestion, and induces sleep. He must al-
ways be kept quiet immediately after taking the breast.
If he be tossed directly afterwards, it interferes with his
digestion, and is likely to produce sickness.
SLEEP.
106. Ought the infant's sleeinng apartment to te kept
tvarm. f
The lying-in room is generally kept ^o warm, its heat
being, in many instances, more that of an oven than of
a room. Such a place is most unhealthy, and is fraught
with danger both to the mother and the baby. We
are not, of course, to run into an opposite extreme, but
are to keep the chamber at a moderate and comfortable
temperature. The top window sash ought frequently
to be let down, in order the more effectually to change
the air and thus to make it more pure and sweet.
A new-born babe ought to be kept comfortably warm,
but not very warm. It is folly in the extreme to attempt
to harden a very young child either by allowing him, in
the winter time, to be in a bedroom without a fire, or
by dipping him in cold water, or by keeping him with
scant clothing on his bed. The temperature of a bed-
room, in the winter time, should be, as nearly as possible,
at 60° Fahr. Although the room should be comfort-
ably warm, it ought from time to time to be properly
ventilated. An unventilated room soon becomes foul,
therefore unhealthy. How many in this world, both
86 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
children and adults, are ^^ poisoned with their own
breaths ! ^'
107. Ought a habe to lie alone from the first ?
There is a difference of opinion on this point. Some
authorities would" say that the child should not lie alone ;
others would say it should do so. The arguments for
the former are that the child requires the warmth of
another person^s body ; that it is easier to suckle with
the child close at hand. Against these, it is said, must
be placed the known bad effects of a child breathing
close to a grown-up person, and the danger of ^^ over-
laying,^^ besides the tax on the mother or nurse not to
disturb the child by any personal movements. I would
strongly advise you to make your babe lie alone in his
bassinette at the side of your own bed. Any warmth he
may need, other than that of his blanket, &c., may be
supplemented by an india-rubber hot-water bottle. The
danger of suffocation, by the child being smothered or
squeezed by whoever is sleeping with him, is removed.
The child breathes purer air when alone. The mortality
from '^ overlaying ^^ is such a crying evil among the
poor, that its frequency begets the terrible thought that
in many, many instances, it is not an accident, but a
premeditated act. The accident can happen easily. I
have shown you how to avoid it.
108. Do you approve of rocking an infant to sleep ?
I do not. If the rules o^ health be observed, he will
sleep both soundly and sweetly without rocking. The
rocking might cause him to fall into a feverish, dis-
turbed slumber, but not into a refreshing, calm sleep.
Besides, if you once take to that habit, he will not go
to sleep without it.
109. TJien don't you approve of a roching-chair, and
of rochers to the cradle 9
Certainly not. A rocking-chair, or rockers to the
cradle, may be useful to a lazy nurse or mother, and
may induce a child to sleep, but that restlessly, when
IKFAN^CY. — SLEEP. 87
he does not need sleep, or when he is wet and uncom-
fortable, and requires clean clothes. It will not cause
him to have that sweet, and gentle, and exquisite slum-
ber so characteristic of a baby who has no artificial
appliances to make him sleep. No ! rockers are per-
fectly unnecessary, and the sooner they are banished
from the nursery the better will it be for the infant
community. I do not know a more wearisome and
monotonous sound than the everlasting rockings to and
fro in some nurseries. They are often accompanied by
a dolorous lullaby from the nurse, which adds much to
the misery and depressing influence of the performance.
110. While the infant is asleep, do you advise the head
of the crih to de covered loith a handJcer chief , to shade his
eyes from the light ; and, if it he summer-time, to Iceep off
the flies ?
If the head of the crib be covered the babe cannot
breathe freely ; the air within the crib becomes con-
taminated, and thus the lungs cannot properly perform
their functions. If his sleep is to be refreshing, he
must breathe pure air. I do not even approve of a head
to a crib. A child is frequently allowed to sleep on
a bed with the curtains drawn completely closed as
though it were dangerous for a breath of air to blow
upon him ! * This practice is most injurious. An
infant must have the full benefit of the air of the room ;
indeed, the top window sash ought to be frequently let
down, so that the air of the apartment may be changed ;
taking care, of course, not to expose him to a draught.
If the flies, while he is asleep, annoy him, let a net veil
be thrown over his face. He can readily breathe
through net, but not through a handkerchief.
* I have somewhere read that, if a cage containing a canary be
suspended at night within a bed where a person is sleeping, and
llie curtains be drawn closely around, the bird will in the morning,
in all probability, be found dead !
88 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
111. Have you any suggestions to offer as to the tuay a
lahe should he dressed when he is jjut dotvn to sleep ?
Whenever he be put down to sleep be more than usu-
ally particular that his dress be loose in every part ; be
careful that there be neither strings nor bands to cramp
him. Let him, then, during repose be more than ordi-
narily free and unrestrained —
" If, whilst in cradled rest your infant sleeps,
Your watchful eye unceasing vigil keeps,
Lest cramping bonds his pliant limbs constrain,
And cause defects that manhood may retain."
112. Is it a good sign for a young child to sleep much 9
A babe who sleeps a great deal thrives much more
than one who does not. I have known, many children
who were born * small and delicate, but who slept the
greatest part of their time, become strong and healthy.
On the other hand, I have known those who were born
*It may be interesting to a mother to know the average weight
of new-born infants. There is a paper on the subject in t\iQ Medi-
cal Circular^ and which has been abridged in 7^raii/itoa2ie's Retro-
spect of Medicine. The following are extracts : "Dr. E. vonSie-
bold presents a table of the weights of 3, 000 infants (1,586 male and
1,414 female), weighed immediately afterbirth. From this table
(for which we have not space) it results that by far the greater
number of the children, 2,215, weighed between 6 and 8 lbs. From
5f to 6 lbs., the number rose from 99 to 268 ; and from 8 to 8i lbs.,
they fell from 226 to 67 and never rose again, at any weight, to
100. From 8f to 9^ lbs. they sank from 61 to 8, rising, however,
at 9i lbs. to 21, Only six weighed 10 lbs., one lOf lbs., and two 11
lbs. The author has never but once met with a child weighing
llf lbs. The most frequent weight in the 3,000 was 7 lbs., num-
bering 426. It is a remarkable fact that until the weight of 7 lbs.
the female infants exceeded the males in number, the latter thence-
forward predominating. . . . From these statements, and those
of various other authors here quoted, the conclusion maybe drawn
that the normal weight of a mature new-born infant is not less
than 6 nor more than 8 lbs., the average weight being 6^ or 7 lbs.,
the smaller number referring to female and the higher to male
infants,"
IKFAKCY. — SLEEP. 89
large and strong, yet who slept but little, become weak
and unhealthy.
The common practice of a nurse allowing a baby to
sleep upon her lap is a bad one, and ought never to be
countenanced. He sleeps cooler, more comfortably and
soundly, in his crib.
The younger an infant is the more he generally sleeps,
so that during the early months he is seldom awake,
and then only to take the breast.
113. Hoiu is it that much sleej? causes a young child to
thrive so well 9
If there be pain in any part of the body, or if any of
the functions be not properly performed, he sleeps but
little. On the contrary, if there be exemption from
pain, and if there be a due performance of all the func-
tions, he sleeps a great deal ; and thus the body be-
comes refreshed and invigorated.
114. As much sleep is of such advantage, if an infant
she}) lut little, ivould you advice composing mediciis"e
to he given to him ?
Certainly not. The practice of giving composing
medicine to a young child cannot le too sti^ongly repro-
hated. If he does not sleep enough, the mother ought
to ascertain if the bowels be in proper state, if they
be sufficiently opened, that the motions be of a good
color, namely, a bright yellow, inclining to orange color,
and free from slime or from bad smell.
Slight febrile attacks, " colds " in the head or chest,
or mouth or throat troubles, or irritating skin disorders,
or other and more serious diseases, will all tend to make
him restless and sleepless. Attention to the clothing is
very important. Soiled diapers and clothing changed
with insufficient frequency will induce sleeplessness.
A change of clothing and a warm bath will, under these
circumstances, quickly promote quiet slumber, and this
more particularly applies to cases where there is slight
fever, for clothes rendered sticky by perspiration are a
90 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
source of irritation and discomfort to the baby. Try
and discover the cause of the sleeplessness, and the ap-
propriate remedy will be the more readily selected.
115. We often hear of coroners' inquests upon infants
who have been found dead in bed — accidentally overlaid j
what is usually the cause ?
Suffocation, produced either by ignorance, or by care-
lessness. From ignorance in mothers, in their not
knowing the common laws of life, and the vital impor-
tance of free and unrestricted respiration, not only when
babies are up p^nd about, but when they are in bed and
asleep. From carelessness, in their allowing young and
thoughtless servants to have the charge of infants at
night. Young girls are usually heavy sleepers, and are
thus too much overpowered with sleep to attend to their
necessary duties.
A foolish mother sometimes goes to sleep while allow-
ing her child to continue sucking. The unconscious
babe, after a time, loses the nipple, and buries his head
in the bed-clothes. She awakes in the morning finding,
to her horror, a corpse by her side, with his nose flat-
tened, and a frothy fluid, tinged with blood, exuding
from his lips ! A mother ought, therefore, never to
sleep until her child has finished sucking, and been re-
turned to his crib.
THE BLADDER AND THE BOWELS OF AI^ INFAl^T.
116. Have you any hints to offer respecting the loivels
and the bladder of an infant f
A mother ought daily to satisfy herself as to the state
of the bladder and the bowels of her child. She her-
self should inspect the motions, and see that they are
of a proper color, bright yellow, inclining to orange ;.
and consistence, that of thick gruel. That they are
not slimy, curdled, or green ; if they should be any one
of these, it is a proof that she herself has, in all proba-
bility, been imprudent in her diet, and that it will be
IKFAKCY. — THE BLADDER AKD BOWELS. 91
necessary for the future that she be more careful both
in what she eats and in what she drinks. For the first
two months there should be three or four motions daily,
afterwards only two^ and in the third year only one.
During the first two or three days the meconium is
passed. This is a greenish, sticky material, possessing
but little smell. "Within the first two years the motions
become brownish-yellow, and of the consistence of por-
ridge, and at the end of that period they have the adult
characteristics.
She ought, moreover, to satisfy herself that the urine
does not smell strongly, that it does not stain the diapers,
and that a sufficient quantity is passed. The quantity
can only be roughly gauged by the amount of wetting of
the diapers. During the first month from 5^ to lO-J
ozs. are passed daily, and during the first year from 14
to 17-J- ozs. During the second year the quantity
varies from 17^ to 21 ozs., and in the fourth year
the latter quantity has just doubled. The urine is
a clear fluid with just a tinge of yellow in its color
— it is sometimes greenish — being paler in the breast-
fed infants than bottle-fed babies. After weaning
it heightens in color, and develops a urinous smell. If
the urine passed does not answer to these characteristics
the doctor^s attention should be called to the fact.
A frequent cause of a child crying is, he is wet and
uncomfortable, and wants drying and changing, and the
only way he has of informing his mother of the fact is
by crying lustily, and thus telling her, in most expres-
sive language, of her thoughtlessness and carelessness.
Should the infant suffer from a sudden attack of pain,
as revealed by his crying and drawing his legs and thighs
up, the spasms extending over a period of twenty-four
or thirty-six hours, with or without fever, with tender-
ness in the loin, and without bowel-troubles, he possibly
is passing grit or a small stone from the kidney. Care-
fully examine the diapers for little concretions, and take
92 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
careful notice of liis water. Send for your doctor, and
keep a specimen of his urine if his age and habits will
allow of your obtaining one. If not, you may be able
to catch some of it in a clean sponge, which is then
squeezed into a clean glass. Children of gouty parents
may suffer in this way. Sometimes infants, especially
if they are suffering from indigestion, have a temporary
stoppage of urine. The act of passing water pains them,
and the urine contains red sand, and is high colored.
In older children frequency of passing water takes the
place of stoppage. If an infant, give him boiled warm
water to drink between his meals, and in all cases regu-
late the diet, substituting iish for meat in those on a full
dietary. Keep warm in bed, and apply hot fomenta-
tions if necessary. A mild laxative should be given,
such as Citrate of Magnesia. Consult your doctor. An
infant may pass blood in his water. It may be due to
^^grit " in the kidney, or to scurvy, or to other causes.
Call your doctor^s attention to the fact should you notice
this, and lie will find out what is amiss with the baby.
117. Hoiu soon may an infant dis])ense with diajjers 9
A babe of three months and upwards ought to be
held out at least a dozen times during the twenty-four
hours. If such a plan were adopted, diapers might be
dispensed with at the end of three months — a great ad-
vantage. The babe would be inducted into clean habits,
a blessing to himself, and a comfort to all around, and
a great saving of dresses and of furniture. '^ Teach
your children to be clean. A dirty child is the mother's
disgrace. ^^ * Truer words were never written — A dirty
CHILD IS A mother's DISGRACE.
AILMEis^TS, DISEASE, ETC.
118. A neiv-horn dahe frequently has a collection of
mucus in the air passages, causi^ig him to wheeze : is it
a dangerous symptom 9
* Hints on Household Management- By Mrs. C. L. Balfour,
II^^FAKCY. — AILMEKTS, DISEASE^ ETC. 93
Ko;, not if it occur iymnediately after birth ; as soon
as the bowels have been opened^ it generally leaves him,
or even before, if he give a good cry, which as soon as
he is born he usually does. If there be any mucus either
within or about the mouth, impeding breathing, it must
with a soft handkerchief be removed.
119. Is it advisable, as soon as an infant is horn to give
Mm medicine f
It is not proved that the giving of medicine to a babe
immediately afterbirth is unnecessary, nay, that it is hurt-
ful — that is, provided he be early put to the breast, as
the mother's first milk is generally sufficient to open
the bowels. Sir Charles Locock * has made the following
sensible remarks on this subject : ^' I used to limit any
aperient to a new-born infant to those w^hich had not
the first milk, and who had wet nurses, whose milk was,
of course, some weeks old, but for many years I have
never allowed any aperient at all to any new-born infant,
and I am satisfied it is the safest and the wisest plan.''
Try by all means to do, if possible, without a particle
of opening medicine. If you once begin to give ape-
rients, you will have frequently to repeat them. Open-
ing physic leads to opening physic, until at length his
stomach and bowels will become a physic shop ! Let
me then emphatically say — if possible, avoid giving a
new-born babe a drop or a grain of opening medicine.
If from the first you refrain from giving an aperient, he
seldom requires one afterward. It is the first step, in
this as in all other things, that is so important to take.
If a new-born babe have not for twelve honrs made
water the medical man ought to be informed of it, in
order that he may inquire into the matter, and apply
the proper remedies. Be particular in attending to
these directions, or evil consequences will inevitably
ensue.
* In a Letter to the Author.
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120. Some persons say that new-born infants have
milk in their bosoms, and that it is necessary to squeeze
them, and apply plasters to disperse the milk.
The idea of there being real milk in a baby^s breast
is doubtful^ the squeezing of the bosom is barbarous^
and the application of plasters is useless. ^^ Without
actually saying there is milk secreted in the breasts
of infants, there is undoubtedly, not rarely, considera-
ble swelling of the breasts both in female and male
infants, and on squeezing them a serous fluid oozes out.
I agree with you that the nurses should never be
allowed to squeeze them, but be ordered to leave them
alone. ^' — Sir C. Locock.
Manipulation is also undertaken by the nurse with
the idea that she is ''^breaking the nipple strings,^^ and
so ^'■freeing the nipples,^'' and preventing retraction of
them at puberty. If she be allowed to rub the breasts,
no matter what idea she may have in her mind, re-
member that an abscess may form from the rough
handling, and then the subsequent growth of the
nipples may be interfered with, and they may become
retracted for all time, and even the gland itself be
partially or wholly destroyed.
121. Have the goodness to me7ition the slight aihnents
ivhich are not of sufficient importance to demand the as-
sistance of a medical man.
I deem it well to make the distinction between serious
and slight ailments ; I am addressing a mother.
With regard to serious ailments, I do not think my-
self justified, except in certain urgent cases, in instruct-
ing a parent to deal with them. It might be well to
make a mother acquainted with the symptoms, but not
with the treatment, in order that she might lose no
time in calling in medical aid.
Serious diseases, with feiv excej)tio7is, and which I
will indicate in subsequent Conversations, ought never
to be treated by a parent, not even in the eai'ly stages.
IKFAKCY. — AILMENTS, DISEASE, ETC. 95
for it is in tlie early stages that the most good can gen-
erally be done. It is ntterly impossible for any one
who is not trained to the medical profession to under-
stand a serious disease in all its bearings, and thereby
to treat it satisfactorily.
There are some exceptions to these remarks. A
mother ought to be made acquainted with the treat-
ment of some of the more serious diseases, where delay
in obtaining immediate medical assistance might be
death.
The following ailments and diseases of infants are
such as may, in the absence of the doctor, be treated by
a parent.
122. What are the causes and the treatment of Chafing f
Want of water, inattention, and un cleanliness are the
usual causes.
The chafed parts ought to be well and thoroughly
sponged with tepid water, allowing the water, from a
well-filled sponge, to stream over them, and afterwards
they should be thoroughly but tenderly dried with a
soft towel, and then be dusted with Boracic Acid Pow-
der or a mixture of equal parts of Oxide of Zinc and
Starch.
If, in a few days, the parts be not healed, discontinue
the above treatment, and use the following applica-
tion : — Beat up well together the whites of two eggs,
then add, drop by drop, two tablespoonfuls of brandy.
When well mixed, put into a bottle and cork up. Be-
fore using, let the excoriated parts be gently bathed
with lukewarm water, and be tenderly dried with a
soft napkin ; then, by means of a camers-hair brush,
apply the above liniment, having first shaken the bottle.
But bear in mind, after all that can be said and done,
that there is nothing in these cases lihe loater — there is
nothing like keeping the parts clean, and the only way
of thoroughly effecting this object is hy putting him
every morning imto his tii^h. If the sore places are
96 ADYICE TO A MOTHER.
neglected serious results may happen. For instance,
deep ulcers may arise in the groin from this neglect,
and the baby may die.
Eemember, for the cure of these, where there is much
moisture, the chief thing is to prevent neighboring sore
places rubbing together — the folds of the groin, for
example — and this can be accomplished by separating
the parts by a fold of lint after the application of the
dressing.
123. Wliat are the causes and symptoms of Convul-
sions, or " inward fits/' and allied nervous disorders of
an infant ?
In the first place, it is necessary that you should be
told a few facts about the infant's nervous system,
which will enable you the more readily to under-
stand this complaint. The lower grade nervous
centers are more developed than the higher grade,
and are not under such control as later on in life,
so that they the more readily run riot if set in
action.
The lower grade nervous centers rule over such com-
plicated movements as breathing, crying, sneezing,
coughing, yawning, sucking, swallowing, vomiting,
defaecation, urination, jerking movements of the arms
and legs, grasping movements, and so on. These move-
ments may either take place from nervous impulses
arising in the centers themselves, or are caused by some
stimulation from a distance, conveyed to these centers
by the nerves, and setting them in action. For exam-
ple, the finger when placed in the infant's mouth
causes sucking, if placed in contact with the eye the
closure of the lids, on tickling the soles of the feet the
feet are withdrawn, at a loud noise a starting movement,
and so on.
Each stimulation, therefore, produces an appropriate,
orderly, purposeful movement, or a series of orderly,
purposeful movements.
IKFAKCY. — AILMENTS^ DISEASE, ETC. 97
It is not until the fonrtli month that the higher
grade nervous centers commence to develop their powers
of control over the lower grade, and then the voluntary
holding up of the head and the clasping of the hand
are noticed. Step by step the infant proceeds to higher
accomplishments, the subjugation of the lower grade
centers being effected slowly but surely. The infant
now begins to ^^take notice^"; his attention is attracted
to himself, his clothes, the objects within his grasp, his
surroundings. The complicated muscular movements
of the eyes and the limbs which these entail, are all
being learned. He appreciates his mother or his nurse
singing to him, he dislikes noises, strange faces, strange
objects, and shows his likes and dislikes, temper and
fear, by appropriate muscular movements. He imitates
movements, as those of laughing, crying, head-nodding,
pointing with the finger, and so on. He becomes able
to hold his water, to control his motions, and, finally,
at the end of the first year, he has passed through the
mysteries of crawling, the standing upright with the
assistance of a chair or a table, and is commencing
to imitate voice sounds and to master the difficulties
of walking. But even then, unless the child's
nervous system be a very evenly balanced one, the
lower centers are still very powerful, and may readily
revolt.
Rickets is a most important factor in the produc-
tion of convulsions. The ill-developed and poorly-
nourished bones are associated with an ill-developed
and poorly-nourished nervous system ; instability is
the result.
The union of persons with a nervous inheritance, and
the marriage of debilitated people, perhaps the offspring
of a weak and degenerate stock, or of those who are
too young, or too old, or of those who are personally
diseased, does not lend itself to the production of a per-
fectly stable nervous organization, but to the procrea-
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98 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
tion of an easily excited, highly-explosive brain and
spinal marrow.
Given, then, these factors in combination, it will fre-
quently happen that an irritation from a distance, such
as indigestible food in the stomach or bowels, conveyed
by the nerves to the central nervous system, though
slight in itself and trivial to the healthy organization,
can in the unstable, highly-excitable mechanism, pro-
duce such commotion that even neighboring areas, quite
outside the ordinary sphere of action, are thrown into a
state of intense excitement and disorder by the stimula-
tion. They explode, as it were, at the slightest touch,
the explosions being fast and furious ; and, exploding,
they involve other and wider areas in their turmoil, so
that finally the whole nervous system may be in a state
of violent disturbance, and disorder reigns supreme.
The outward and visible sign of the nerve-storm raging
within is the convulsive attack. Disorderly, purposeless
movements here take the place of those that are orderly
and purposeful, or the muscles are rigidly fixed in a
state of spasm.
The convulsive attack is much as follows : The eyes
are fixed or rolled up with or without squinting, the
face is pale at first, afterwards dusky-looking ; there is
stiffness of the whole body, the back being arched and
the head thrown back. The hands are clenched. The
stiffness is followed by relaxation, or by *^^ working'^ of
the limbs, face, and eyes. If the fit is accompanied by
a scream, mothers and nurses often term them '^ scream-
ing fits.^^ Sometimes the convulsion takes place on one
side of the body only. There may be one fit or a series
of fits, lasting several hours, with slight foaming at the
mouth. After such an attack the child is often drowsy.
Sometimes the face and eyes and hands and feet ^' work "
without being first fixed.
Such is the actual convulsive attack, but not infre-
quently before the first fit is an accomplished fact the
IKFAI^^CY.—AILMEKTS, DISEASE, ETC. 99
irritability and instability of the nervous system may
attract attention by the following phenomena : —
(1) Cliild-croiving {Laryngismus Stridulus). The
breath stops suddenly, the chest is fixed, the face, with
open mouth, is screwed up as for a good cry, it alters in
color, first becoming pale, then dusky, or even blue, as
sulfocation advances, and finally the breath comes
again with one long, deep-drawn ^' crowing " respira-
tion. The '^ crowing ^^ noise, or a series of ^'^ crowing^'
noises, lasting a few or more seconds, commencing
loudly, gradually becoming less noisy, and finally disap-
pearing, may be the most prominent and the oxly, and
perhaps oft-repeated, sign to the mother or nurse. An
attack is often induced by such a simple procedure as
gently tossing the child ; but any emotional upset will
bring it on, such as a sudden fright, a fit of temper,
and the like. On the other hand, the attack may be so
severe that the anxiously expected respiratory crow does
not take place, and the child passes into general con-
vulsions. The long-drawn respiratory crow may give
place to a series of " sobbing " respirations. The attack
may alone consist of holding the breath, nothing more.
Child-crowing may also be associated with
(2) Tetany. The thumbs are clenched in the palms,
and the fingers closed over these, or the thumb tips are
placed between the middle and ring fingers, the fingers
being bent at the knuckles but otherwise extended.
The soles of the feet are hollowed, and sometimes turn
in, and the toes are fixed, the heels drawn up. The
hands may alone be affected, or the hands and feet to-
gether ; but in severe cases the muscles of the limbs are
stiff, perhaps the body muscles are involved, and the
head thrown back, and even the jaw muscles may be in
a state of spasm. There is no loss of consciousness.
The affliction is a painful one, causing the infant to cry
if it is touched. The hands and feet are often swollen.
It may last a day or two or several weeks, being more or
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less pronounced from time to time, the cramp coming
on spasmodically.
(3) " Imvard Convulsions." The child is irritable
and fretful, the face changes color, the mouth twitches
slightly, and the eyes squint, all being over in a few
seconds. Or the toes are flexed, the fingers '^work,^^
and the thumbs turn in. Some nurses and mothers call
these ^^ inward convulsions.^^ .
(4) Head Nodding. Two varieties of this are seen —
viz., a to and fro jerking movement — movement of
assent — and a side to side movement — movement of
dissent.
These movements may be intermittent, occurring
several times during an hour, or they may be almost
constant. Head nodding may be associated with peculiar
very rapid oscillations of the eyeballs (nystagmus),
which are either side to side, or up and down, or rota-
tory, and which finally get well.
Nystagmus may also be due to some disease in the
eyeball itself, or to some serious brain mischief.
(5) Retraction of the Head. The head is thrown
back and rigidly fixed as in a convulsive attack. Some-
times retraction is found in association with spasms of
the muscles, without loss of consciousness (tetany). It
occurs also alone. It 7nay be induced, like a fit, by
some bowel or stomach disturbance, but it is much more
likely to denote serious brain disease, therefore do not
delay taking advice if you detect this peculiarity.
The rickety infant of nervous parentage is specially
liable to many and various nervous disorders often in-
duced by trifling irritations. If your child, then, suf-
fers from any one of the complaints mentioned, he
should be placed under the care of a doctor. He is not
being properly fed, his surroundings are not healthy,
and you had better take advice, so that the cause can be
discovered and errors remedied. The actual exciting of
a convulsive attack in such infants are many and vari-
IKFAXCY. — AILMENTS, DISEASE, ETC. 101
ous, such as bowel and stomach worries, worms, denti-
tions, febrile attacks, and so on ; occasionally brain
disease.
But strong stimulations, such as the onset of scarlet
fever, a high temperature, and inflammation of the ear,
may give rise to convulsions in even the healthy child.
If convulsions occur within the first few days or weeks
of life in the full-term child, they are, in the absence of
some serious congenital malformation or obvious dys-
pepsia, due to local injury to the blood vessels on
the surface of the brain during birth, or to some in-
flammatory attack of the brain substance happening to
the infant whilst still in the womb, or to some con-
genital brain abnormality.
Stuffing him in the early months of his existence with
food, and constantly physicking him with quack medi-
cines, are sure and certain roads to the production of a
state of brain and spinal marrow ripe for mischief.
For the treatment of the convulsions from teething,
see Conversation 90.
124. Wliat to do in a case of Convulsions ivMch has
ieen caused hy feeding an infant either with too much or
with artfiicial food.
Give him, every ten minutes, a teaspoonful of Ipeca-
cuanha Wine, until free vomiting be excited, then put
him into a warm bath (see Warm Baths) ; and when he
comes out of it, administer to him a teaspoonful of
Castor Oil, and repeat it every four hours until the
bowels be well opened.
125. What to do in a case of Convulsions from a high
te7nperature.
If his temperature be 104° Fahr. or over, put him in
a tepid bath, and sponge the head and shoulders with
cold water.
126. What to do in a severe attach of Child-crow-
ing.
Send for a medical man at once. Dash cold water in
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the face, pat the child on the back, and vigorously
shake him. If this does not succeed seize the tongue
with a handkerchief and sharply pull it out of the mouth,
having first opened the jaws with the handle of a spoon.
Try this method in combination with artificial res-
piration.
When the child recovers he will have to undergo a
careful course of treatment by your medical man. His
hygienic surroundings are at fault.
127. What to do in a case of Tetany or Head Nodding
or Head Retraction.
Consult your medical man. A course of judicious
dieting and skilful medical treatment will be necessary,
and his hygienic surroundings require modification.
Ee traction of the head may be a very serious mat-
ter.
128. What to do in a case of Convulsions from Hoop-
ing-cough.
There is nothing better than dashing cold water on
the face, and immersing the child in a warm bath of
98° Fahr. If he does not come round, resort to arti-
ficial respiration, and do not relax your efforts until
the arrival of the doctor. Convulsions seldom occur in
hooping-cough unless the child be either very young or
exceedingly delicate. Convulsions attending an attack
of hooping-cough is a serious complication, which will
require the assiduous and skilful attention of a judicious
medical man. Convulsions may be due to temporary
suffocation, caused by the paroxysmal cough. Some-
times convulsions denote the fact that there are serious
lung co7nplications , or they are the first indication of
tubercular meningitis. Do not attempt to treat the
case yourself. In fact, I would urge this in all con-
vulsive attacks. A skilled medical man will discover
the cause where you will fail. But if it is a matter of
life and death, act on the emergency, and act promptly,
for by so doing you will probably save your child^s life.
IKFANCY. — AILMENTS^ DISEASE, ETC. 103
129. Are Convulsions serious apart from their i?nme-
diate danger to life?
Certainly. After a convulsive attack a child may
become imbecile, and the more numerous and more
frequent the convulsions the greater is the danger to
the dawning intellect. Sometimes convulsions are fol-
lowed by loss of the use of one side of the body. This
may pass away within a few hours, but the paralysis
may be obstinate, and leave, perhaps, a weakened, stilf-
fened arm, and possibly leg as well, as a relic of the
disaster. In the latter case blood has been poured out
from a ruptured vein, or has oozed from the veins,
either on the surface of the brain or into the brain it-
self, or both of them, and the resulting mischief will
depend upon the amount of the injury to that delicate
organ and to the repair that is possible under the cir-
cumstances. Convulsions in an infant are often the
FIEST symptoms of tubercular meningitis. In this
paralysis of one side may be left after the fit ; but, un-
like the former case, instead of improving, the child
goes from bad to worse.
130. Are there any forms of Paralysis which date from
Urth ?
Yes, sometimes an infant is most unfortunately at-
tacked with inflammation of the brain whilst yet within
the mother^s womb. As a result of this large areas of
the brain substance become hard and shrunken, and
lose their powers. Such a child suffers from stiffness
and contraction of the limbs and body, and the head is
thrown back. It can never develop mentally if the
mischief is great.
When labor has been difficult and prolonged, blood
may ooze or burst from the veins on the surface of the
infant's brain, or into the brain itself. As a result of
such a serious misfortune, changes of a destructive
nature are brought about in the brain. But little,
apart from the initial convulsion, is noticed by the
104 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
mother^ perhaps, for some months^ or not until it is time
for tlie baby to walk. These accidents cause either stiff-
ness and weakness of the legs, or the arms may suffer,
or all the limbs, or the spasm and weakness may be on
one side of the body only. The legs are usually the
parts affected. The capacity for mental development
varies. They may be incapable of mental development
without any paralytic symptoms.
131. What is the treatment ?
A¥hen the paralysis has occurred after a '^ fit " every
means must be adopted to prevent a recurrence of the
convulsions. Send for your doctor. The child^s gen-
eral health requires attention. Wrap the arm and leg
in cotton wool, and keep them quiet ; they are not to be
shampooed or galvanized until your doctor allotvs such
treatment^ or harm will be done. For birth palsies your
medical man must be consulted. Gymnastic exercises
will prove of great assistance in due course. The result
will depend on the amount of mischief the brain has
experienced.
132. Soon after my child ivas horn, I noticed that his
face was drawn up to one side. Will this pass
aiuay ?
Yes ; the face will resume its proper symmetry in the
course of a week or two. The cause of the temporary
disfigurement is due to some pressure on the head dur-
ing birth. No treatment is necessary.
133. Soon after tirth I noticed that his arm was
hanging helpless. Will this pass aicay f
Your doctor will have noticed whether the bone has
been broken or the shoulder dislocated owing to a diffi-
cult labor. If this has not happened it is probable that
some injury has been done from the above cause to the
big collection of nerves (the brachial plexus) that sup-
plies the arm. Nothing must be done in the way of
treatment. The arm m ast be loosely bandaged to the
side, and the parts allowed to rest for several weeks, in
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order that the injury may be repaired and the blood
that has escaped may be absorbed. Afterwards your
doctor will doubtless resort to exercise, shampooing,
and galvanism. The amount of loss of power to the
limb will depend upon the extent of the injury to the
nerves and the extent of their recovery. Recovery is
very often incomplete.
There is also a form of paralysis, called Pseudo-
Paralysis, which often attacks the arms, and is usually
seen some weeks after birth. It is owing to constitu-
tional weakness, and requires constitutional treatment.
If' the constitutional w^eakness is not too great the
paralysis can be cured. Sometimes blood escapes under
the scalp in cases of difficult labor, forming a tumor.
The effusion of blood is, however, soon dispersed, and
it should be left alone.
134. Soon after Hrtli I noticed a lump in the front of
my child's necJc. What is it 9
This is also due to an accident at the birth. Blood
has been shed into one of the neck muscles (sterno-mas-
toid muscle), which forms a swelling of the muscle.
The swelling is generally about the size of a pigeon^s
Qgg. It will gradually disappear, but it may cause short-
ening of the muscle, and so lead to permanent wry-neck,
which would require an operation for its cure.
135. What are the lest remedies for the Costiveness of
an infant 9
If a babe, after the first few months, were held out,
and if, at regular intervals, he were put upon his chair,
costiveness would not so much prevail. It is wonder-
ful how soon the bowels, in the generality of cases, by
this simple plan, may be brought into a regular state.
Besides, it inducts an infant into clean habits. I know
many careful mothers who have accustomed their
children, after the first three months, to do without
diapers altogether. It causes at first a little trouble,
but that trouble is amply repaid by the good conse-
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quences that ensue^ among which must be named the
dispensing with such encumbrances as diapers. Diapers
frequently chafe^ irritate, and gall the tender skin of a
baby. But they cannot, of course, at an early age be
dispensed with, unless a mother have great judg-
ment, sense, tact, and perseverance, to bring her little
charge into the habit of having his bowels relieved and
his bladder emptied every time he is either held out or
put upon his chair.
If you are wise, you will defer as long as you can
giving an aperient. If you once begin, and continue it
for a while, opening medicine becomes a dire necessity,
and then woe betide the poor unfortunate child. If
necessary, administer a warm water enema — a table-
spoonful, or more, by means of a 2 oz. indiarubber
enema bottle or syringe. Or pass into the fundament,
every night, a small piece of tallow candle or soap,
or a glycerine suppository, or a glycerine enema, one
drachm for a dose.
The dietary must be criticised. If he be at the breast
the mother's or the wet nurse's milk may be at fault —
very possibly too deficient in fat. A chemical anaylsis
will determine this. If the fat be poor, study Conversa-
tion 64. If the mother takes stewed fruit it may set
matters straight. If this fails try a suppository in the
baby's fundament, but do not give opening medicines,
and carefully analyze your habits of life. Sometimes
babies have an hereditary tendency to constipation. If
the infant is hand-reared you are much more likely to
be in trouble in this respect. There is possibly too
much curd and too little fat in the motions unless you
have carefully studied the directions for artificial feed-
ing (see Conversation 52, 58 and 60) ; and if you have
not studied them do so with all speed, and resort to a
more suitable dietary. Barley sugar water in place of
sugar water will probably meet the case, but if this
does not act use oatmeal water instead. Pale, pasty-
INFANCY. — AILMENTS;, DISEASE, ETC. 107
looking, large and solid motions, usually expelled with
jelly (mucus), and perhaps a little blood, are frequently
seen when the cow^s milk is not properly adapted. If
the above fails, his large bowel is probably wanting in
expulsive power, therefore stimulate the parts by the
introduction of a suppositor}^, or study ^^ Mechanical
Aids, ^^ Conversation 137. The child himself is prob-
ably pale, pasty-looking, pot-bellied, and rickety withal.
He wants tonics and plenty of fresh air, not powerful
purgatives. Perhaps you are giving him quack medi-
cines or teething powders ? If you are, many of them
contain opium, and lock up the bowels.
There are two preparations of Mercury I wish to warn
you against administering of your oiun accord— y'iz., (1)
Calomel, and a milder preparation called (2) Grey-
powder (Mercury with Chalk).
Mercury is a medicine of immense power, either for
good or evil. In certain cases it is very valuable ; but
in others, it is very detrimental. Calomel and Grey-
powder ought never to be administered unless ordered
by a medical man.
Jalap is also frequently given, but it is a griping
medicine for a baby, and ought to be banished from the
nursery.
The frequent repetition of opening medicines, in any
shape or form, irritates beyond measure the tender
bowels of an infant, and only makes him more costive
afterwards ; it also interferes with his digestion. A
mother who is always, of her own accord, quacking her
child with opening physic, is laying up for her unfor-
tunate offspring a debilitated constitution — a miserable
existence. Drugs may, on suitable occasions, prove
useful and beneficial, but they must be administered by
a medical man, and not recklessly by the mother.
136. Are there any means of ;pr eventing the Costiveness
of an infant f
Yes ; in addition to attention to diet, exercise in the
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open air, tliorougli ablution of tlie tvliole body, causing
the water from a large and well filled sponge to stream
over the lower part of his bowels ; the habit of holding
him out, at stated periods, whether he want or not,
that he may solicit a stool.
Some mothers are frequently dosing their poor unfor-
tunate babes either with Magnesia to cool them, or with
Castor Oil to heal their bowels ! The frequent repetition
of Magnesia, instead of cooling an infant, makes him
feverish and irritable. The constant administration of
Castor Oil, instead of healing the bowels, wounds them
beyond measure.
137. Are there any mechanical aids for inducing a reg-
ular action of the dowels ?
Yes, there are several. The first I will name is that
of shampooing or rubbing the stomach. By the stom-
ach I mean all that part of the body below the breast
bone and between the hips, and which is called medi-
cally the ^'abdomen."" "Well, let the abdomen be well
but gently rubbed from the right-hand side to the left of
the body, night and morning. The doing so will induce
the bowel to act. The hands may be anointed with a little
oil to prevent breaking the skin of the child, or soap
liniment may be rubbed in instead. Next, there is an old
practice amongst nurses to pass a small piece of tallow
candle into the fundament or back passage. In persist-
ent costiveness I always order a ten-grain suppository
of cocoa-butter to be passed night and morning into the
fundament. This is a more elegant aid, but not more
effectual than the tallow candle. And now let me here
caution you. I have known nurses to irritate the bowel
by passing a piece of paper into the fundament. I
need not say a word in condemnation of this atrocious
proceeding. I name it to put you on your guard. Be-
sides the cruelty, it leads to inflammation of the parts,
and the protrusion of the bowel externally.
138. But may not Constipatio7i he due to causes other
INFAHCY. — AILMEITTS, DISEASE, ETC. 109
than sluggish bowels or unsuitahU food, and of a very
serious nature indeed f
Certainly. There may be a fissure inside the back
passage, or some obstruction to the bowel, dating from
birth. Very rarely the large bowel may be greatly dis-
tended and weakened. If constipation be associated
with vomiting your medical man had better see the
baby. There may be other symptoms pointing to brain
trouble, or if he have a rupture which will not return,
that may be the cause ; or it might happen — and this
is not rare in young babies — that one part of the bowel
has doubled itself into an adjacent part (intussuscep-
tion), bringing about a stoppage. In this latter case
the child will soon become very ill, there will probably
be much jelly and blood from the back passage, and
straining in addition to the sickness. A lump may be
felt in his abdomen. The constipation may be owing
to tubercular peritonitis, or some other disease inside
the abdominal cavity.
You will see, therefore, that constipation is not al-
ways due to simple causes, and it may be a very serious
matter indeed ; and in at least two of the above illus-
trations the administration of purgatives would prove a
most serious blunder on your part, but in the case of a
medical man a harsher term would be applied.
139. You have already mentioned tivo causes for bleed-
ing from the howel. Are there others f
Yes. Sometimes the lower bowel protrudes from the
back passage, and there is often a little bleeding on
such an occasion. If blood with mucus come from the
back passage, and there is straining, he probably has
a small growth, called a polypus, situated a short dis-
tance up the bowel. Call your doctor^s attention to
the symptoms, and ask him to examine the child. If
he is suffering in this way he will require an operation.
Constipation as a cause I have already mentioned, and
that dangerous disease, occasioning stoppage of the
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bowels, called Intussiisception, which is most urgent,
and will require immediate attention. Sometimes a
little blood comes from the back passage, and also from
the front passage, soon after birth, bnt this is due to
congestion arising at the birth, and need not cause
alarm. Scurvy may also be a cause.
140. What are the causes, symjotoms of, and remedies
for ilatiilence and Colic ?
The symptoms come on soon after food. The child
becomes restless, cries pitifully, kicks its legs and grunts,
its stomach is swollen, it cannot sleep, but if it sleeps
its slumber is disturbed. '^'^Wind'"' in a short time is
passed either by the mouth or the bowel. If the attack
is at all severe the little sufferer turns pale, the legs are
drawn up, he gives a piercing or a long harsh scream,
the abdomen is hard and distended, and relief is only
obtained by the expulsion of the wind. If wind is ex-
pelled by the mouth sometimes curd comes with it. If
he is put to the nipple to comfort him he turns away
from it and cries bitterly. I merely mention this prac-
tice to condemn it, because giving a child food when he
has stomach-ache is one of the ivorse things you can do.
Your " nerves '^ are relieved at the expense of his
stomach.
Flatulence and Colic most frequently occur in those
infants who live on artificial food, especially if they be
overfed. I therefore beg to refer you to the precau-
tions I have given, when speaking of the importance of
keeping a child for the first five or six months entirely
to the breast ; and, if that be not practicable, of the
times of feeding, and of the hest kinds of artificial food,
and of those which are least likely to cause ^^wind.'^
If the cause arises from the mother, it may be traced
to her having been indiscreet in her diet, or having
taken drastic purgatives, or to some other indiscretion.
Some infants are food-bolters, and whether at the
breast or bottle, they are greedy little things if not
IKFANCY.— AILMENTS, DISEASE, ETC. Ill
checked. Eapidly gulped meals are sure to produce
'' wind/^ decomposition with formation of gases (wind)
taking the place of digestion. Therefore, if the child
is fed from the breast, take care that he does not feed
too rapidly, and if his nurse is feeding him from the
bottle, as she will have to do, if a proper bottle is used
she must control his desires. Carefully examine his
motions, and see if he is passing curds, and, if he is,
further dilution of the milk, or the substitution of sugar
barley water, may be advisable, or, as a temporary
measure, the use of peptonized milk or cream and whey.
Possibly he is taking too much milk ; if so, lessen the
quantity. Possibly the milk is too poor, or there is not
enough of it ; and, if so, its quality or quantity must be
improved, or the breast milk may have to be supple-
mented by Cream Mixture, or by Gaertner^s Mother
Milk.
Notwithstanding these precautions, if the babe should
still suffer, ^^ One of the best and safest remedies for
flatulence is Sal-volatile — a teaspoonful of a solution of
half a drachm to an ounce and a half of water. ^^ — Sir
C. Locock. Or, a little Dill or Aniseed may be added
to the food — half a teaspoonful of .Dill Water. Or, take
twelve drops of Oil of Dill, and two lumps of sugar ;
rub them well in a mortar together ; then add, drop by
drop, three tablespoonfuls of spring water ; let it be
preserved in a bottle for use. A teaspoonful of this,
first shaking the vial, may be added to each quantity of
food. Or, three teaspoonfuls of bruised caraway seeds
may be boiled for ten minutes in a teacuj^ful of water,
and then strained. One or two teaspoonfuls of the
caraway tea may be added to each quantity of his food,
or a dose of Rhubarb and Magnesia may occasionally be
given (Prescription V. in Appendix).
Opodeldoc, or warm olive oil, well rubbed for a quar-
ter of an hour at a time, by means of the warm hand,
over the bowels, will frequently give relief. Turning
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the child over on his bowels, so that they may press on
the nurse^s lap, will often afford great comfort. A
warm bath (where he is suffering severely) generally
gives immediate ease in flatulence ; it acts as a fomenta-
tion to the bowels. Another excellent remedy is the
following : Soak a piece of new flannel, folded into two
or three thicknesses, in warm water, wring it tolerably
dry, and apply, as hot as the child can comfortably bear
it, to the bowels,, then wrap him in a warm, dry flannel,
and keep him for at least half an hour enveloped in it.
Under the above treatment he will generally soon fall
into a sweet sleep, and awake quite refreshed. But,
after all, a dose of 7nild aperie^it medicine, or a large
enema of tepid water when the babe is suffering
severely, are the hest remedies for ^^ wind."
Eemember, at all times, prevention, whenever it be
— and how frequently it is — possible, is better than cure.
Be careful to keep him well wrapped up ; the legs, mind,
are to be clothed as well as the body, and as soon as a
napkin is soiled it is to be removed at once. Do not fly
to drugs until you have thoroughly mastered the food
problem. Drugs will relieve his symptoms, but they
will not cure him. The cure lies in finding out — espe-
cially if he be a bottle-fed baby — the particular milk
combination suited to his powers of digestion and on
ivliicli lie tlwives.
Do not administer any quack medicines. They con-
tain, in one form or another, either opium or poppy.
All quack medicines must be carefully avoided — indeed,
banished from the nursery.
141. What* occasions Hiccup, and what is its treat-
ment f
Hiccup is generally of such a trifling nature as hardly
to require interference. It may generally be traced to
over-feeding. Should it be severe, four or five grains
of Calcined Magnesia, with a little syrup and Aniseed
Water, and attention to feeding, are all that will be
IKFAKCY. — AILMEN^TS, DISEASE^ ETC. 113
necessary. If it be persistent call in your doctor with-
out delay.
142. Will you descrihe the symptoms of Biarrliea ?
It will be well, before describing the sym2)toms, to
again tell you how many motions a young infant ought
to have a day, their color, consistence, and smell.
Well, then, he should have from three to four motions
in the twenty-four hours during the first two months of
life, afterwards only two ; the color ought to be a bright
yellow, inclining to orange ; the consistence should be
that of thick gruel. The motion ought to be somewhat
of the color (but a little more orange-tinted) and of the
consistence of mustard made for the table. It should
be nearly, if not quite, devoid of smell ; it ought to have
a faint and peculiar but not a strong, disagreeable odor.
If it have a strong and disagreeable smell the child is
not well, and the case should be investigated, more
especially if there be either curds or lumps in the mo-
tions. These latter symptoms denote that the food has
not been properly digested.
Now, suppose a child should have a slight bowel
complaint, and that the stools are of a thinner con-
sistence than what I have described — provided, at the
same time, that he be not griped, that he have no pain,
and have not lost his desire for the breast — What ought
to be done ? Nothing, A slight looseness of the bow-
els should never be checked. It is often an effort of
Nature to relieve itself of some vitiated motion that
wanted a vent.
A moderate ^^^ooseness of the bowels'*^ is often a
safety-valve, and you may with as much propriety close
the safety-valve of a steam-engine as stop a moderate
'^looseness of the bowels ! "'
Now, if the infant have five or six or more motions in
the twenty-four hours ; if they be more watery ; if they
become slimy and green, or green in part and curdled ;
if they should have an unpleasant smell ; if he be sick,
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cross, restless, fidgety, and poorly ; if his stomach is
distended with wind ; if he cannot be soothed to sleep ;
if every time he have a motion he be griped and in pain,
we should then say that he is laboring under diarrhea.
Two or three days of such trouble will reduce a well-
formed infant to such a condition that his flesh will be
limp, his skin loose, his buttocks red and sore. His
tongue is coated, his mouth reddened and tender or
slightly ulcerated (see Conversation 159). A change
will take place in a few days, and his motions become
natural and his skin fills out again, or he may pass into
a worse condition, the so-called cholera-infantum (in-
flammatory diarrhea). Sometimes after an attack of
diarrhea he suffers from chronic diarrhea, and if such
bowel troubles are frequent he is sure to become rickety.
Should there be both blood and slime mixed with the
stool, and the child strain frequently and violently,
endeavoring thus, but in vain, to relieve himself, crying at
each effort, the case assumes the character of dysentery. *
The later case requires great skill and judgment on
the part of a medical man, and great attention and im-
plict obedience from the mother and the nurse.
143. What are the causes of Diarrhea — "Looseness
ofthehoivels?"
The colostrum in newly-born infants, and this loose-
ness of the bowels is natural. Improper food ; over-
feeding, associated with teething ; cold ; atmospheric
disturbances electrical and otherwise ; the mother's milk
from various causes disagreeing — namely, from her being
out of health, from her eating unsuitable food, from her
taking improper and drastic purgatives, from worry, anx-
iety, and temper, or from her suckling her child when
she is pregnant. If any of these causes are in operation,
they ought to be remedied, or medicine to the babe will
be of little avail.
* See Symptoms and Treatment of Dysenteric Diarrhea.
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144. What is the treatment of Diarrhea f
If the case be slight, and lias lasted two or three days,
and if the cause, as it probably is, be some acidity or
vitiated stool that wants a vent, and thus endeavors to
obtain one by purging, the best treatment is to assist
Nature by giving either a dose of Castor Oil or a moder-
ate one of Ehubarb and Magnesia.* Should there be
sickness give Prescription YI. every two hours until all
the curds have passed. If medical advice cannot be
procured, Prescription VII. in the Appendix should
next be given.
If the babe be at the breast, the mother must not
take greens, or cabbage, or raw fruit, or pastry, or beer ;
indeed, while the diarrhea of her babe continues, she
had better abstain from wine, as well as from fermented
liquors.
If the attack is a severe one, the motions numerous,
the curds plentiful, and attended by vomiting of curds
or not, then if the infant at the breast reduce the quan-
tity of the breast milk, and supplement each feeding by
sugar barley water, or if necessary, withhold the breast
altogether for a few days until a change for the better
is noticed, and give Qgg and barley water (for its prep-
aration see below). If the child is being fed with cow^s
milk, substitute for it peptonized milk. If curds still
appear in the stools, give the following food for a few
days in suitable quantities according to his age (see
Table, Conversation 59). Take the whites of two fresh
eggs, break them up and shake them with six ounces
of Cinnamon Water and a little salt ; strain through
muslin, make up to a pint with sugar barley water.
When improvement takes place gradually return to the
peptonized milk, until finally this can be withdrawn
and the modified cow^s milk reinstated.
* For a Rhubarb and Magnesia mixture prescription, see Ap-
pendix, Prescription Y.
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145. What are the symptoms of Dysenteric Diar-
rhea ?
Sometimes when an infant has heen troubled with
diarrhea for a day or two, or perhaps more, the char-
acter of the motion changes ; from being principally
stool it becomes almost entirely blood and Jelly. He is
dreadfully griped, he strains violently as though his in-
side would come away every time he has a motion, he
screams and twists about, being in the greatest pain,
drawing his legs up to his belly and writhing in agony.
The bowel often comes down. The ^^ stomach ^^ is
tender, and there is fever, and great weakness comes on.
There may be sickness as well. Sometimes this disease
comes on during the progress of cholera infantum (see
Conversation 146), or it follows measles or hooping-
cough.
He must be fed on the Qgg mixture (see Conversa-
tion 144) ; all milk must be withheld ; poppy fomenta-
tions are to be applied to the stomach. He should have
a Bismuth mixture (see Conversation 144), and every
three hours, or oftener if required, an injection should
be made up the back passage of starch and opium,
which is to be thrown icell inside the lowel — two tea-
spoonfuls of warm starch and water to the consistence
of a thick cream, with two or three drops of laudanum.
The disease is rare, more especially in infants. If
such symptoms are present in an infant, they are almost
certain to he due to a stoppage of the botvels (see ^' Intus-
susception,^^ Conversation 138).
Send, therefore, for your doctor without delay. There
is no time to be lost. If, after all, the disease is really
Dysenteric Diarrhea, the child should be treated by your
doctor.
146. What are the symptoms of Inflammatory Diar-
rhea {Cholera Infantum) f
Inflammatory Diarrhea or Cholera Infantum is one of
the most frequent and se^'ioii^ of infantile diseases usually
IKFAKCY. — AILMEKTS, DISEASE^ ETC. 117
occurring in the months of June, July, August, and
September, and carries off during that time more
children than any other complaint whatever. A knowl-
edge of the symptoms, therefore, is quite necessary for
a mother to know, in order that she may, at the proper
time, call in efficient medical aid.
The infant is attacked quite suddenly, and his illness
commences with sickness, but he may have been troubled
with simple diarrhea for a few days preceding. He has
a dozen or two of motions, many of them slimy and
frothy like ^^ frog-spawn,^' during the twenty-four hours.
He has fever (temperature ranging from 99° to 103°
Fahr., rarely to 105° or 106° Fahr. or more), the tongue
is coated, red and dry at the tips and edges, his bowels
are distended with wind, and he is racked with cramp
in the belly, his legs are drawn up, he has a pained ex-
pression, and he is irritable and fretful to a degree. He
is tortured with thirst, he seizes the bottle or the breast,
and drinks greedily, and the very next moment thrusts
it from him with a cry. Now look at his face ! It is
the very picture of distress. Suppose he has been a
plump, healthy little fellow, you will see his face in the
course of a few hours become old-looking, careworn,
haggard, and pinched. Day by day and hour by hour
the enemy tracks him (unless proper remedies be admin-
istered) ; no sleep, or if he sleeps he is roused every
few minutes. A change may happen for the better,
and he gradually is released from the jaws of death.
But if this change is not forthcoming see what happens.
Having disposed of all the curds or undigested milk in
the stomach, the vomit is now a bilious, watery fluid.
The evacuations from the bowels no longer contain any
food materials ; they are like water, or rice water, or
coffee-brown water, which smells badly.
This alteration in the character of the evacuation is
very serious — most serious two or three such evacuations
^and a marked change is seen in the appearance of the
118 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
child. His eyes are dull, not bright and sparkling as of
yore, the lids are partly closed, and the globes, instead
of being prominent, have sunk deeply into their sockets,
leaving big saucer-like depressions, partially covered by
the dark lids ; a dark ring surrounds the lips. The
head, where the skull bones have not met, is sunken-in,
and the edges of the bones are remarkably prominent.
The skin of the face is shrunken, and the face bones
are outlined so prominently that were it not for its color
it might belong to a mummy. His limbs are shrunken,
his skin is cold and corpse-like, his belly has fallen in,
his buttocks are red and raw, he is powerless to lift his
head or his arms, he is unable to cry, but perhaps can
whine, his temperature is much below normal.* He
just breathes, his pulse is with difficulty, if at all, felt
beating at the wrist, he is unable to recognize his
mother or his nurse, or, if roused, he may partially open
his eyes, give utterance to a faint, plaintive whine, and
relapse once more into unconsciousness. When in this
stage there is usually no vomiting, and the diarrhea
is much less. He may rally if not too far gone, but in-
sensibility and irregular breathing are very bad signs
indeed. Improvement is shown by his taking notice of
his mother and his nurse, and by the evacuations becom-
ing more healthy ; but this is a trying time for them
both, and, after all, disappointment may ensue. The
candle which has been burning dimly suddenly bright-
ens, leading to the hope that the flame will recover it-
self, but it suddenly splutters, and the light is gone !
Sometimes the baby is carried off by convulsions
early in the disease, or some lung trouble hastens the
end, or dysenteric diarrhea complicates the issue, or
with wasting and exhaustion, thrush makes its appear-
ance, and the end is not far distant.
The disease may last a week or ten days, or the in-
* The normal temperature is 98 '4° Fahr.
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fant may be in perfect health one morning and the next
be in the most profound state of collapse^ such as I
have already depicted. Should he recover^ the impres-
sion made upon his constitution may be so profound
that it throws his development back for weeks or
months. Pie may, after all, succumb to a second
attack, if great care be not exercised, or so much dam-
age may have been done to his delicate bowels that he
pines and fades away from lack of nourishment.
147. Ca7i nothing he done to prevent such a dangerous
disease f
Yes, a good deal. In the first place, never neglect a
simple diarrhea, and do not look upon it as a natural
vent which must not be interfered with when he is cut-
ting his teeth. The simple diarrhea sometimes turns to
inflammatory diarrhea, and the life of your babe has
slipped through your fingers ! Infants at the breast
suffer very rarely ; therefore, if you are nursing your
babe, do not wean him in the hot months (June, July,
August and September). Large cities, and especially
crowded quarters, are much more likely to *^^ breed"
the disease than villages or rural districts ; therefore, if
you are living in a stuffy part of the town, send your
child to some bracing ozone-impregnated sea-side resort,
or zephyr-laden inland spot, in the very hot months.
If this be inconvenient sterilize his milk with the greatest
care (see "^ Sterilization," Conversation 53); all tainted
milk must be ruthlessly destroyed. If you are compelled
to wean your baby during the hot months, try to obtain
a wet-nurse rather than trust to artificial food. If he is
bottle-fed you must be most particular about his diges-
tion, Argus-eyed, in fact. Indigestible curds may de-
compose in his bowels, and, being contaminated with
germs, form such violent poisons that a dangerous
attack of diarrhea is induced.
Please to remember that prevention is far better than
cure.
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148. Can anything he done to relieve such a case f
Yes. A judicious medical man will do a great deal.
But, suppose you are not able to procure one, I will tell
you what to do and what not to do. If he be a weakly
child, open his bowels by giving a quarter of a grain of
Calomel every two hours until all the curds have passed.
The Calomel can be given with a little white sugar, and
should be placed at the back of the tongue. If a strong
child, at the very onset of the disease let from three to
five grains (according to his age) of Calomel, mixed
with an equal quantity of powdered white sugar, be ad-
ministered. Then give him Prescription VIII. or IX.
in Appendix. If he be at the breast, reduce the
quantity of the breast milk, and supplement the defi-
ciency by sugar barley water. If he be fed on artificial
food he must be instantly deprived of milk, and fed on
egg-albumin water (see Conversation 144). If there is
very much sickness all food must be stopped for some
hours, and his mouth and lips kept moistened with
water during its withdrawal. You will realize, there-
fore, that the feeding problem is a very difficult one,
and you will require an experienced medical man to
rely upon.
Eub his stomach well with soap liniment three times
a day, and cover it with a flannel bandage, or apply
linseed meal poultices ; or a flannel bag filled with hot
powdered table salt, made hot in the oven, applied to
the bowels will afford much comfort. A warm bath at
the commencement of the disease is very efficacious, but
it must be given at the commenceinent. If he has had
inflammatory diarrhea for a day or two he will be too
weak to have a warm bath, then instead of the bath try
the following : Wrap him in a blanket, which has been
previously wrung out of hot water, over which envelop
him in a dry blanket. Keep him in tliis hot, damp
blanket for half an hour ; then take him out, put on
his nightgown and place him in a bed, which has been^
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if it be winter time, previously warmed. The above
'^ blanket treatment^' will frequently give great relief,
and will sometimes cause him to fall into a sweet sleep.
If the fever is high sponge him frequently with luke-
warm water. He should be placed in an airy, well-
ventilated apartment, the temperature of which be 60°
Fahr. If dysenteric symptoms come on he should have
an injection up the back passage every six hours of two
or three drops of laudanum in two teaspoonf uls of warm
thick starch-water. If there be signs of exhaustion he
must be given fifteen drops of brandy every half-hour,
and he should be kept warm by hot-water bottles in the
cot, taking great care not to scald him. When he
recovers great care will have to be exercised in returning
to his milk dietary. The change will have to be made
gradually, and you must gently feel your way as increas-
ing quantities of milk food are given. Sliould there be
any signs of a relapse instantly return to the egg-albumin
water. The same precautions may be observed as
recommended for a bad case of simple diarrhea. In
the worst cases nourishment can only be given by tea-
spoonfuls, and very frequently but a teaspoonful kept
down is better than two tablespoonfuls thrown up, and
you must persevere and not despair. If a tablespoonf ul
makes him sick, give him a dessertspoonful. If a
dessertspoonful cause sickness let him only have a tea-
spoonful at a time, and let it be repeated every quarter
of an hour.
From what you have been told you will have gathered
that inflammatory diarrhea is a serious disease — a most
grave disease. The passage of one single hour of time
may bring about a change for the better or the reverse,
so do not fail to send for a judicious and an experienced
medical man. It is often advisable to wash out the
stomach and bowel with a germ-destroying solution at
the very commencement of the attack, and that you could
not undertake. In severe cases the injection of a prepa-
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ration of blood called serum has been tlie means of
saving life. It requires a skilful doctor to treat a case
of inflammatory diarrhea^ and you must faithfully
observe his directions, for much will depend on the
implicit obedience of the nurse.
149. ^Vllat are the causes and symptoms of Clironic
Diarrliea and sichnessf
The complaint either follows an attack of simple or
inflammatory diarrhea, or an attack of measles or hoop-
ing-cough, or a condition of " weakness '' of the bowels
from the birth ; or it is insidious in its onset.
In the latter instance, owing to impro'per feeding in
every sense of the word, as to quality, quantity, or the
frequency of administration, combined with a condition
frequently associated with faulty hygienic surroundings,
the infant gradually but surely falls a prey to indiges-
tion and its fell consequences.
The symptoms I am about to describe are more fre-
quently seen in infants under six months of age, when
the principal nourishment, alas ! has often been some
starchy food. They do not happen with infants over
two years of age.
Sometimes sickness is the most prominent trouble,
sometimes diarrhea, or the two in combination. In the
early stages the child is a martyr to indigestion ; he is
sick, or suffers from colic and ^^wind," or diarrhea, or
constipation. These digestive disturbances are a fruit-
ful source of catarrh of his stomach and his bowels.
He is very fretful and irritable, and his parents obtain
no rest with him night or day. His motions are often
full of curds, he has ''' jelly ^' in them ; or is subject to
^^ green diarrhea. ^^ The motions then lose their natu-
ral color, they are pale, clay-colored, thin, and watery,
or thick ; he passes '"^ jelly ^' and undigested food. He
vomits curds sometimes in enormous masses, and there is
much jelly-like material in the vomit. The stomach
digestive juices begin to lose their power, and although
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tliey will still readily curdle the milk, they cannot prop-
erly liquefy the curd. Even now he varies from day
to day. Some days he is bright, when his bowels are
not troubling him so much as usual, and he loses his
irritability and f retf ulness. Persistent indigestion, how-
ever, soon tells a tale. He begins to grow thin, to
waste ; his face is pinched and wizened ; he is fast be-
coming a 'kittle bag of bones, ^' with a swollen stomach.
Now, perhaps, his mother at last takes fright, and seeks
the assistance of a doctor either because " everything
he takes passes through him,^' or because she imagines
he has " consumptive bowels.^'' As time passes his mo-
tions become very numerous, like dirty brown water
with " chopped spinach " in it. The wasting intensifies,
he has a wan, monkey-like face, with a wrinkled brow ;
his skin is wrinkled, harsh, dry, and dirty-looking, his
cry a feeble whine. The irritability and f retf ulness
have gradually become less marked in proportion to the
loss of strength. His feet and hands are cold and blue,
or are pale and swollen, his buttocks are red and sore, he
has sores about his body, or Red-gum and Thrush may be
seen in his mouth ; his temperature is reduced to 97°
Fahr., perhaps as low as 95° Fahr., and he is little else
than a " living skeleton.^' Passing from bad to worse,
he gradually loses consciousness, and finally dies in con-
vulsions.
The disease lasts two or three weeks, or perhaps
several months.
Owing to the long-continued catarrh of the stomach
and bowels, the former becomes greatly distended, and
its walls weakened, the glands that manufacture the
digestive juices become destroyed, and when destruc-
tion has reached a certain point, the infant cannot re-
cover — he dies from slow starvation. If he do recover
he will almost certainly become rickety.
150. Wliat do you advise ?
Take preventive measures. In the first place, be most
124 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
careful about his dietary ; next, never neglect a simple
diarrhea ; and, finally, should your child unfortunately
be the subject of this disease, seek medical advice at
once. By skilful and painstaking treatment much good
may be done, and if the disease be taken in time he will
recover ; but recovery will be slow and tedious, and it
will only result from the most judicious care and skill
on the doctor's part, and implicit faith, trust, and obedi-
ence on yours.
The fear of '^^consumptive bowels'' frequently ha-
rasses the anxious mother ; but I may tell you that
tubercular disease of the bowels is not common in in-
fants, but, although not common, it is sometimes pres-
ent, and the distinction between the two disorders can
alone be made by a skilled medical man.
151. What is Nettle-.rasli oi' Hives 9
It is a transient, superficial inflammation of the skin,
and not contagious. The inflammation or eruption is
marked by prominent patches or ^'^ wheals" of irregular
shape, either white or red in color, and quickly disap-
pearing. The wheals or patches resemble those pro-
duced by the ^^ sting" of the nettle. There are two
varieties — one which I am now about to describe, the
other called red-gum or white-gum, which I shall next
refer to.
152. What are the causes of Nettle-rash or Hives 9
Principally errors of diet accompanying the bowel
troubles in association with teething, irritation of in-
sects, etc. (fleas, gnats, caterpillars, e.g., ^'^ woolly-
bears)," nettle-stings, scratching, certain drugs, certain
fruits, itch, sometimes following vaccination, etc.
153. What are the symptoms f
The body is marked with patches of a white or red
color, irregular in shape, and somewhat raised. The
red patches become white in the center, and have a red
halo. The patches are hot ; they burn and tingle,
and are vexy irritable. It doesn't give rise to fever
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itself, but there may be fever with it, belonging to the
disorder that produced it. Sometimes the appearance
of the patches is preceded by severe fever, vomiting,
and headac-he, accompanied by diarrhea and sickness,
from some poisonous substance in the stomach or bowels.
The eyelids may be temporarily swollen and closed, and
the backs of the hands and tops of the feet also swollen.
154. What is the treatment of Nettle-rash or Hives ?
First discover the cause. If occasioned by some
slight error of diet, make the needful alteration. In
older children, eating pork, shell-fish, mackerel, tinned
salmon and lobster, shrimps, fruit (strawberries, for
instance), may be accountable. These must be avoided,
and an emetic of Ipecacuanha Wine, followed by a
Calomel purge, will be useful. Irritation is to be
allayed by gently eubbing the wheals with Glycerine
and Rose Water, or by gently dabbing them with a
lotion of eight parts Lime Water to one part Oxide
of Zinc, Scratching makes the eruption icorse.
In India, where this affection becomes chronic, the
best remedy has been found in painting the parts with
a weak solution of Sulphate of Copper, or, as it is
known, ^'^ Blue-stone ^^ lotion. The proportion is a
grain of Blue-stone to an ounce of water, applied with
a cameFs-hair brush after the bath and before going
to bed. This form of nettle-rash is not common in
infants.
155. What are the symptoms and the treatment of
Red-gum or White-gum ?
Red-gum or White-gam [Lichen Urticatus), some-
times called by nurses and mothers tooth-rash, is usually
due to dyspepsia, and is frequently seen in bottle-fed
babies where the food is not agreeing. Poisons gen-
erated in the bowels pass into the blood stream and
irritate the skin. If there is a tooth near the surface,
and the gum is red, hot, and swollen, it will be proper
to lance it — not otherwise. The eruption consists of
126 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
small pimples about the size of a pin^s head, which
feels like little shot in the skin. There may be only a
few of these, but they may be so numerous that the
limbs and body, not omitting the face, are thickly
sprinkled with them. They are either red or pale in
color. The pale variety often appear as if they had a
tiny speck of fluid at their summits, they are so translu-
cent. Sometimes they really have a little clear or
opaque fluid in them. The eruption is very irritating,
and the poor little fellow scratches himself very much ;
you will therefore see, if you look carefully, long scratch
marks on his skin, and the tips of some of the pimples
have blood on them where they have been wounded by
the nails. Now if you look again carefully you will see
wheals. Watch the center of these wheals, and you
will detect one, two, perhaps three, little pimples. The
wheals disappear, and the pimples are left. Some of
them have matter in them ; scratching of these conveys
matter to healthy parts of the body, and it "breeds"^
there. The disease which it most resembles when it is
severe is itch. Fleas and other insects roving about the
skin will bring about red-gum. Ked-gum is most com-
mon during the first two years of life, and it may be a
trifling complaint, or quite the reverse. It may last for
two or three days or many weeks, and, in the worst
cases, go on for years. The treatment consists in pay-
ing great attention to the feeding, and removing all
causes of bowel irritation. The skin develops a very
bad HABIT ; the slightest irritation to it makes it '' break
out^^ ; therefore pay particular attention to bathing and
the removal of soiled linen. If woolen garments next
the skin cause irritation, select another variety of
woolen underwear ; or if that is not successful, use
silk. He must not be permitted to scratch himself, so
tie his hands up at night in an extemporized Turkish
glove to prevent this. The irritation of the skin must
be relieved by dabbing on the lotion ordered under the
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heading Nettle-rash (see Conversation 154). Sometimes
these cases are very obstinate, and require much care
and thought for their treatment.
156. How ivould you prevent ^' Stuffing of the nose"
in a new-ljorn hahe f
Eub a little Vaseline on the bridge of the nose every
evening just before putting him to bed. If the '''' stuff-
ing " be severe, dip a sponge in hot water ; ascer-
tain that it be not too hot by previously applying
it to your own face, and then put it for a few minutes
to the bridge of his nose. As soon as the hard mucus
is within reach, it should be carefully removed.
If the ^^ stuffing of the nose '^ does not pass away,
but persists, you had better call your doctor^'s atten-
tion to the fact, because he might have some consti-
tutional disturbance or a growth at the back of his
nose.
157. Do you consider sichness ijijurious to an infant ?
Many thriving babies are, after taking the breast, fre-
quently sick ; still we cannot look upon sickness other-
wise than as an index of either a disordered or of an
overloaded stomach. If the child be sick, and yet be
thriving, it is a proof that he overloads his stomach.
A mother, then, must not allow him to suck so much at
a time. 'She should, until he retain all he takes, lessen
the quantity of milk. If he be sick and does 7iot thrive,
the mother should notice if the milk he throws up has
a sour smell ; if it has, she must first of all look to her
own health ; she ought to ascertain if her own stomach
be out of order ; for if such be the case it is impossible
for her to make good milk. She should observe whether
in the morning her own tongue be furred and dry ;
whether she has a disagreeable taste in her mouth or
pains at her stomach, or heart-burn, or flatulence. If
she has all or any of these symptoms, the mystery is ex-
plained why he is sick and does not thrive. She ought
then to seek advice, and a medical man will soon put
128 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
her stomach into good order ; and by so doing will at the
same time benefit her child.
But if the mother be in the enjoyment of good health ;
if she is careful about her diet and habits (see Conversa-
tions 64 and 65 ; if she is not worried or giving way to
fits of temper, she must then look to the babe himself,
and ascertain if he be cutting his teeth ; if the gums
require lancing ; if the secretions from the bowels be
proper ; if he have artiUcial food — it being absolutely
necessary to give such food — whether it agrees with him.
If the gum be red, hot, and swollen over a tooth about
to be cut, let it be lanced ; if the secretion from the
bowels be either unhealthy or scanty, give him a dose
of aperient medicine, such as Castor Oil, or Prescrip-
ton X. in Appendix.
Do not let him overload his stomach either with breast
milk or loith artificial food ; do not allow him to bolt
his food.
In bottle-fed babies the curd many be the trouble.
It remains in the stomach, decomposes, and there is a
quantity of " jelly " poured out by the walls of the organ.
Inflammation of the stomach quickly follows indiscre-
tions of diet. If you are giving him ordinary diluted
cow^s milk give him Sterilized Cream Food instead,
or Gaertner^s Mother Milk. If these disagree — and
the stomach of an infant is a most rebellious organ
when it has been played tricks with — use pepton-
ized milk. If that does not suit he must have cream
and whey, or whey alone for the time being. Should
that fail, it is advisable to give him egg-albumin water,
and it may be necessary to feed him with very small
quantities at a time, and frequently by the teaspoonful,
or, perhaps, even to withhold all food, and feed by the
fundament. Washing out the stomach with a germ-
destroying lotion is often very beneficial, but can only
be done by a medical man.
But vomiting may be an indication that some serious
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brain mischief is " brewing," or he may have some ab-
normality about the stomach or bowels existing from
the birth, or possibly a stoppage of the bowels (see ^' In-
tussusception," Conversation 132).
'' If he is suffering from hooping-cough, he will often
be 'sick tvitli his cough — sickness, as a rule, ushers in
such diseases as scarlet fever, influenza, inflammation
of the lungs, and so on.
158. What are the causes, the symptoms, the 'preven-
tion, and the cure of Thrush f
Stuffing, or by giving him improper food. A child
brought up entirely, for the first three or four months,
on the breast, seldom suffers from this complaint ; it is
only the weakly mite that is attacked. The thrush con-
sists of several irregular, roundish, white specks on the
lips, the tongue, and the inside and the corners of the
mouth, giving the parts affected the appearance of curds
and whey having been smeared upon them. The patches
cannot be removed easily, and if they are detached
leave a raw red surface. The surrounding parts may
be quite healthy, or red, dry, and inflamed, or even
ulcerated ; the mouth is then hot and painful, and the
child is afraid to suck — the moment the nipple is put
to his mouth he begins to cry. It very rarely finds
its way to the stomach and bowels. It is not unusual
for mothers to make the statement that the ^''thrush
went through him to his buttocks," so the statement
has some foundation in fact. The redness and excoria-
tion of the buttocks is not due to thrush — it is owing to
the stools scalding his delicate skin, and is induced
by infrequent changes of wet and soiled diapers.
Should a young baby have an eruption which ex-
tends below the diapers and passes beyond the knees,
and even to the feet, you should call your doctor's atten-
tion to the fact at once. His blood is possibly out of
order, and he requires a tonic. It should borne in mind
that nearly every child, who is sucking, has his or her
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130 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
tongue wliite or " frosted/^ as it is sometimes called.
The thrusli may be mild or very severe. Thrush ac-
companies the last stages of inflammatory diarrhea and
cases of chronic diarrhea and sickness. It is common
within the first two years of life. If seen afterwards it
is found in association with some chronic wasting dis-
ease, such as consumption or other severe illness, and
then its appearance augurs badly. Thrush is due to
the growth of a fungus in the mouth.
As the thrush is generally owing to improper feeding,
if the child he at the hreast do not let him be always
sucking, as that will not only fret the mouth, but will
likewise irritate and make sore the mother^s nipple.
The best treatment is to apply Glycerine of Borax with
a cameFs-hair brush to the patches. If there is redness
or ulceration of his mouth, give a mixture containing
Chlorate of Potash, a teaspoonf ul for a child of one year
and under, two teaspoonf uls for a child over that age
(Prescription XI. in Appendix). After each feeding
cleanse the mouth and gums with a weak solution of
Boracic Acid, five grains to one ounce of water, applied
by a piece of absorbent wool. Burn the wool when
done with. This function should be performed as a
matter of routine in all weakly infants.
Thorough ventilation of the apartment must be ob-
served ; and great cleanliness of the vessels containing
the milk should be insisted upon.
In a bad case of thrush, change of air to the country
is most desirable ; the effect is sometimes, in such cases,
truly magical.
If there be any redness about the fundament, always
keep the part dry, and dust it with Oxide of Zinc
and Starch or Sanitary Rose Powder.
See that the cooking-vessels connected with the baby's
food are perfectly clean and sweet. Do not leave the
purity and the goodness of the cow's milk to be judged
either by a milkman or by the nurse, but taste and prove
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it yourself. Keep the milk either in the dairy or in the
cellar, and sterilize the food for the day as soon as the
milk arrives (see '^Sterilization," Conversation 53).
When the disease is severe it may require more active
treatment ; the mother had then better seek advice.
In a severe case of thrush, where the complaint has
been brought on by artificial feeding, a change to a wet
nurse — if the case has not been too long deferred — will
effect a cure where all other means have been tried and
failed. Pure air and thorough ventilation are essen-^
tial to recovery.
159. What are the different hinds of Inflammation of
the Mouth f
There are several varieties of Inflammation of the
Mouth, the most common of these being the follow-
ing :— _ _
(1) Simple inflammation of the mouth. Brilliant red
patches are seen on the gums, lips, cheeks, tongue, and
roof of the mouth. The tongue is sometimes covered in
the center with a dirty, creamy-looking fur.
(2) The occurrence of several or many small circular
or oval superficial ulcers, with a dirty- white or gray base,
and a bright-red border — sometimes running into one
another — over the inside of the lips, cheeks, tongue,
gums, and roof of the mouth. The lips often have
scabs on them.
With Nos 1 and No. 2 there is fever (temperature 1000
to 103° Fahr.), fretfulness, and irritability. The mouth
is hot and sore, and taking food makes the child cry.
He slobbers, puts his fingers in his mouth, and the
saliva is often blood-stained. The breath is offensive.
The glands under the chin are swollen and tender. •
Delicate children are most liable to these varieties,
and irregularities of diet have been frequent with them.
They occur in simple and inflammatory diarrhea ; a
tooth just about to be cut, with a red, hot, swollen gum,
may be associated with them, and they are common
132 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
with scarlet fever and measles^ hooping-cough, and
quinsy, or follow these diseases. Any complaint pro-
ducing a bad condition of blood favors their develop-
ment. Sometimes the disease is epidemic in its nature
— it may run through the house.
A contaminated milk supply has been held account-
able for this. It may happen if the cows are suffering
from foot and mouth disease.
(3) ^* A large superficial ulceration of the inner sur-
face of the cheek opposite the teeth of the upper and
lower jaw, and frequently stretching to the angle of the
mouth. The edge of the tongue adjoining the teeth is
often ulcerated in the same way and at the same time,
though less frequently. The cheek on the affected side
is found in many cases to be swollen, though not usually
much altered in color, and saliva, sometimes blood-stained,
dribbles from the mouth as in ordinary ulcerative
stomatitis. The breath is very foul^^ (Dr. Carpenter).*
The teeth are here at fault — they are decayed, and fre-
quently sharp-edged. The sharp points wound the deli-
cate mucous membrane ; the wound becomes foul and
unhealthy, and soon spreads from the irritation of de-
composing food and foetid discharges escaping from the
teeth. Frequent applications of the tooth-brush would
have prevented all this.
(4) Ulceration of the gums. The front teeth of the
lower jaw are most often attacked. The corresponding
gums are pale, spongy, and swollen, perhaps of a red
or violet hue, and readily bleed. They ulcerate ; the
ulcers have a dirty-yellow or gray surface. The teeth
are then exposed, will loosen and fall out. The breath
is Very foul, and blood-stained saliva dribbles from the
mouth. The attachment of the lower lip to the
gum may be ulcerated, as also the lower lip itself.
Should the jaw itself be attacked, then the whole or a
* The British Journal of Dental Science.
INFANCY. — AILMENTS, DISEASE, ETC. 133
portion, of the bone may die, and serious deformity re-
sult. When there is much ulceration the fever may be
high, but not otherwise. From poisoning by swallow-
ing the foul discharges the abdomen may be distended
with flatulence, and there may be considerable diarrhea
with offensive motions. If the disease takes a firm hold
of the child from his inability to swallow well and from
the poisoning of his system he soon becomes very weak,
exhausted, and emaciated, and death may result. This
disease occurs in weakly children who have been badly
fed, or in those who are recovering from some exhaus-
tive disease. Tubercular children often suffer. It may
be due to scurvy, and also to poisoning by Phosphorus
and Mercury.
(5) Ulceration of the '^bridle" of the tongue. This
is nearly always due to fretting of the tongue against
the lower teeth in case of hooping-cough ; the parox-
ysm forcibly drives the tongue against the lower teeth.
160. What is the treatment of Inflammation of the
Mouth f
With Nos. 1 and 2, if there are any offending mate-
rials in the bowels, give a mild aperient, such as Magne-
sia. Pay great attention to the feeding.
If the child be too young to gargle, wrap a piece of
soft rag round a piece of stick. Dip this into the Pre-
scription XII. (see Appendix), and well wash out the
mouth every three hours during the day, and twice dur-
ing the night, when opportunity permits, that is, after
the child has had any nourishment, or is awake.
The internal remedy for administration is Chlorate of
Potash. It is the best known at present (Prescription
XIII. in Appendix.)
When the inflammation or ulceration is passing off,
a preparation of Iron wdth Cod-liver Oil is recouimended.
If there be much prostration, give stimulants, broth, or
beef tea. Change of air, with change of food, often
effects a cure,
134 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
These diseases must not be confounded with thrush
(see Conversation 150), which is due to the effects of a
small parasitic fungus.
With No. 3, take the child to see a dentist. He
requires to have his teeth attended to. The dentist will
instruct you as to the mouth-wash you are to use.
With No. 4, consult your medical man. The disease
is too serious for you to trifle with. If the teeth are
decayed they are to be removed, as they often keep up
irritation, but if they are not they must on no account
be interfered with, as constitutional treatment, com-
bined with local application to the diseased gums, will
alone be required. In this case see your doctor ie-
fore taking the child to the dentist.
With No. 5, no treatment is required. The sore will
heal when the cough gets well.
161. Is anything to he learned from the cry of an in-
fant ?
An infant does not shed tears until he is four or five
months old.
A babe can only express his wants and his necessities
by a cry. He can only tell his aches and pains by a
cry ; it is the only language of babyhood. It is, if
listened to aright, a very expressive language, although
it is only the language of a cry —
" Soft infancy, that nothing canst but crj'^'' —Shakspeare.
There is, then, a language in the cry of an infant,
which to a mother is the most interesting of all lan-
guages, and which a thoughtful medical man can well
interpret. The cry of a child to an experienced doctor
is, each and all, a distinct sound, and is as expressive as
the notes of the gamut. The cry of passion, for instance,
is a furious cry ; the cry of sleepiness is a drowsy cry ;
the cry of grief is a sobbing cry ; the cry of an infant
when roused from sleep is a shrill cry ; the cry of hun-
ger is very characteristic — it is a hoarse, passionate cry.
IKFAKCY. — AILMEKTS, DISEASE, ETC. 135
ceasing when hunger is appeased ; the cry of abdomi-
nal disease is a wailing cry ; the cry of teething is a fret-
ful cry ; the cry of pain tells to the practised ear the
the part of pain ; the cry of ear-ache is continuous, often
screaming, the head being moved about from side to
side, and the little hand being often put up to the af-
fected side of the head ; the cry of bowel-ache or gravel
in the kidney is also expressive — theory is not so pierc-
ing as that from ear-ache, and is an interrupted, strain-
ing cry, accompanied with the drawing up of the legs to
the belly ; the cry of exhaustion is a whine : the cry of
bronchitis is a gruff and phlegmatic cry ; the cry of in-
flammation of the lungs is more a moan than a cry ; the
cry of croup is hoarse, and rough, and ringing, or whis-
pering, and is so characteristic that it may truly be
called '^ the croupy cry" ; the cry of inflammation of
the membranes of the brain is a piercing shriek, with
intervals of silence — a danger signal — most painful to
hear. The cry of a child recovering from a severe ill-
ness is a cross, and wayward, and tearful cry. He
bursts out without rhyme or reason into a passionate flood
of tears — into a " tempest of tears." Tears are always,
in a severe illness, to be looked upon as a good omen_, as
a sign of amendment, as —
" The tears that heal and bhss." — H. Bonax.
Tears, when a child is dangerously ill, are rarely if
ever, seen ; a cry at night for light — a frequent cause of
a babe crying — is a restless cry —
*' An infant crying in the night :
An infant crying for the Hght ;
And with no language but a cry." — Tennyson.
The absence of crying is almost as characteristic as its
quality, and is a bad sign. In lung diseases the breath
is often so precious that it cannot be spared for crying.
In exhausting diseases the child is often too weak to
utter a sound, or too indifferent to his surroundings
136 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
from stupor to care about tilings mundane. In brain
diseases he is unconscious, the world is dead to him, and
external impressions, or those arising in his body, pro-
duce no effect on his dormant nervous centers.
162. My child is Tongue-tied : what ought to he done
for him f
If he cannot suck from the nipple on account of it,
tell your medical attendant and he will easily remove
the cause. As a rule no treatment is necessary. If an
operation is called for, it consists in making a very small
cut across ^Hlie bridle '' of the tongue, by means of a
pair of thick-pointed scissors cutting " the bridle '' close
up to the jaw. If the cut be made too freely there may
be serious bleeding. It is a simple operation, but re-
quires knowledge of the parts, and care.
163. What is a Mother's MarTc 9 "
It is a little collection of the smallest blood vessels
situated just in or under the skin, and generally appear-
ing on the face, head and neck. It is sometimes called
'^ Port wine mark " when the skin is not elevated.
164. What is the treatment 9
When it is small, and does not increase in size, and
is not a disfigurement, it should be left alone.* If it
tends to spread, some surgical interference is necessary.
165. My child s7iores very much at flight oi when asleep :
luhat is the cause 9
He is suffering from Enlarged Tonsils. When he lies
down the tonsils — there is one on each side of the throat
— almost close up the passage along which the air has
to travel. It is the effort of the air to pass the block made
by the tonsils that causes the snoring. Enlargement of
the tonsils is due to repeated inflammation of the tonsils,
to diphtheria, scarlet fever, hooping-cough, measles,
struma, etc. The tonsils are sometimes enlarged at birth.
The voice is thick. There may be slight deafness.
* It often disappears without any treatment during the first
few months of life.
IHPAKCY. — AiLMEKTS, DISEASE, ETC. IS'?
Sometimes there is a troublesome irritative cough and
difficulty of breathing, and he often has sore throat.
The child's growth may be stunted from this cause, and
he becomes pigeon-breasted. Enlarged tonsils are nearly
always accompanied by adenoid vegetation.
166. What is the treatment 9
If the enlargement is not great and the disease recent,
give him an abundance of nourishing food. Guard him
against cold. Paint the tonsils twice a day with Tinct-
ure of Iodine or Glycerine of Tannin. Administer
Iron and Cod-liver Oil. Raise the tone of the child's
health by salt-water baths, open-air exercise, and good
food.
If there be difficulty in breathing, it will be necessary
to remove part of the tonsils, and the tonsils should be
removed if they do not yield to the treatment suggested.
167. WJiat are Adenoid Vegetations, and luhat are their
symptoms 9
At the back of the nose, above the '' swallow," out of
sight, there is a small tonsil. When this enlarges it
blocks up the back of the nose, and the child cannot
breathe through it. He suffers from eeequen^t colds
in the head, sometimes from bleeding at the nose ; the
nostrils are often small and ill-developed, and when there
is " corruption '' coming from them, the upper lij) and
face often becomes ''^scabby.'' Ear-ache troubles him ;
he becomes deaf, or has a discharge of matter from the
ear. Ear troubles from this complaint often arise which
impair his hearing for life. Perhaps he dribbles on
the pillow at night. Headache is not uncommon. Some-
times these children suffer from pain about the navel
— they are frequently poor, weak, bloodless things,
troubled with indigestion. They become stunted in
their growth and pigeon-breasted. They may wet the
bed at night, owing to the improperly aerated blood
supply passing to their nervous centers. When the
children are under two years of age the difficulty of
138 ADVICE TO A. MOTHEB.
sucking properly^ colds in the head, snoring at night,
and, perhaps, " child-crowing " attract attention. Later
on, when much mischief has been done, the face alters,
it elongates, the arch of the mouth is high, the teeth
are crowded together, the child has a stupid, vacant,
silly look, he talks ''through his nose,^' and if he he
deaf, in addition, it seriously handicaps him at his
school. Sometimes these children have attacks like
asthma. It is a very common disease, and the growth may
be found within the first few months of life. Adenoid
vegetations are often present ivitliout enlargement of the
tonsils.
Adenoid vegetations are amongst the greatest inflic-
tions falling to the lot of any poor cliild. They must be
removed at once. When they have been taken away the
child's health will improve in a marvelous manner, and
he will grow and flourish exceedingly. One dear little
child that I knew used to be 23unished for making snort-
ing noises at the table and not closing her mouth, until
one day, happening to take luncheon with the parents, I
saw the performance, saved her from further punish-
ment, and, later on, cured her of her ''bad habit.''
168. PiUoius are so aj^t to slip down, lohat is the lest
means of keeping them in position f
On one side of the pillow sew three curtain rings. By
this means you will be able to tie the pillow in any
required position, and thus keep it in place instead of
its shifting all over the bed uselessly.
169. If cm infant he delicate, have you any objections
to his having either veal or mnttori hroth to strengthen him 9
Animal broths are sometimes ordered by the doctor in
severe cases of diarrhea when the administration of milk
is harmful. Under similar instruction beef juice or beef
soup, or raw meat, are also valuable additions to milk in
children over seven months of age. Animal preparations
are given when there is evidence of want of muscle and
bone develoj)ment, and anemia. Prepared in the way
INFAJ^CY. — ^AILMENTS, DISEASE, ETC. 139
directed they possess anti-scurvy powers. Their al-
bumens are digested with greater ease than those of
milk or vegetables. They are only required under special
conditions, and on no account must be added to the or-
dinary dietary of modified cow^s milk or modified cow^s
milk and cereals, unless specially ordered by the doctor.
The yolk of one Qgg a day is also of service ; it possesses
the advantage of being sterile when the shell is cracked,
and it is very rich in phosphorus.
I give you directions for the above preparations.
Beef Juice. — Chop up very finely a quarter of a pound
of raw rump-steak ; place in a bottle ; add a little salt ;
just cover with water ; put in the ice chest ; allow it to
stand eight hours ; squeeze through muslin.
Dose. — A teaspoonful to a tablespoonful. To be
given raw and placed in the bottle just hef ore feeding.
It must be made fresh daily. Heating will destroy its
virtues. Keep on ice.
Beef Soup. — Take a quarter of a pound of the best
lean rump-steak ; cut very fine ; place in a bottle with
a quarter of a pint of water and two drops of Hydro-
chloric Acid ; stand on ice all night ; set in a pan of
water at 110° Fahr. for two hours ; strain ; use the
filtrate ; keep on ice.
Dose. — From a teaspoonful to a tablespoonful, and it
is to be placed in the bottle just lefore feeding. Do
not heat it. Make it fresh every day. Eaw meat is
also ordered by the doctor in cases of chronic diarrhea
and wasting. It is very nourishing.
Raiv meat. — Take a piece of beef-steak ; scrape ; col-
lect the scrapings ; reject the stringy pieces ; pound ;
rub through a hair-sieve ; add a little salt. Keep in
the ice-chest, and prepare fresh daily.
Dose. — From a teaspoonful to a tablespoonful.
170. My laly^s anhles are very weak: tvhat do you
advise to strengthen them f
Well rub the legs from the ankles up to the knees for
140 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
ten minutes night and morning. Use Olive Oil for the
process.
Do not let him be put on his feet early ; but allow
him to crawl, and sprawl, and kick about the floor,
until his body and ankles become strong.
The child probably has Rickets. Eickety children
are often fat, and fat children are heavy. If you place
him on his feet too early, the weight of his body will
be too much for his tender bones, and they will bend.
Consult your doctor.
Do not, on any account, without having competent
medical advice on the subject, use iron instruments, or
mechanical supports of any kind.
171. Sometimes there is a difficulty in restraining the
Heeding of leech bites : ivhat is the best method ?
Stopping of leech bites. — The simplest and most
certain way, till the proper assistance is obtained, is
the pressure of the finger, with nothing intervening.
It cannot bleed through that.
172. Supposing a hahy to he poorly, have you any ad-
vice to give to his mother us to her oivn management f
She must endeavor to calm her feelings, or her milk
will be disordered, and she will thus materially increase
his illness. If he be laboring under any inflammatory
disorder, she ought to refrain from the taking of beer,
wines, and spirits, and from all stimulating food ; other-
wise she will feed his disease.
If an infant from his birth be properly managed, — if
he have an abundance of fresh air for his lungs, — if he
have plenty of exercise for his muscles (by allowing him
to kick and sprawl on the floor), — if he have a good
swilling or sousing of water for his skin, — if, during the
early months of his life, he have nothing but the
mother's milk for his stomach, he will require very
little medicine — the less the better ! He does not want
his stomach to be made into a chemist's shop !
The grand thing is not to take every opportunity of ad-
IKFAKCY.— CONCLUDIN^G KEMARKS. 141
ministering physic, but of using every means of with-
holding it ! And if physic be necessary, not to doctor
him yourself, unless it be in extreme and urgent cases,
but to employ an experienced medical man. A babe
who is always, without rhyme or reason, being phys-
icked, is sure to be puny, delicate, and unhealthy, and
is ready at any moment to drop into an untimely grave !
A healthy child nevei' requires drugging with opening
physic ; costiveness is brought on by bad management.
Aperient medicines to a healthy child are so much
poison ! If you once begin to give aperients, you will
find a difficulty in discontinuing them. Finally, I will
only say with Punch, — " Don^t."
COiq'CLUDIi^G REMARKS 01^ INFAI^CY.
173. Tn concluding the first part of our subject — In-
fancy — I beg to remark : there are five things essen-
tially necessary to a babe's well-doing, namely : —
(1) plenty of water for his skin ; (2) plenty of fresh
genuine milk, modified to suit his digestive capabili-
ties, for his stomach (if possible giving him his moth-
er's milk during the first six, eight, or nine months
or more of his existence) ; (3) plenty of pure air for his
lungs ; (4) plenty of sunlight for his blood ; (5) plenty
of sleep for his brain. These are the five grand
ESSEN'TIALS for an infant : without an abundance of one
and all of them, perfect health is utterly impossible !
Perfect health ! the greatest earthly blessing, and more
to be coveted than aught else beside ! There is not a
more charming sight in the universe than the beaming
face of a perfectly healthy babe —
*' His are tlie joys of nature, liis the smile,
The cherub smile, of innocence and health." — Knox.
PART II.
CHILDHOOD.
The child is the father of the man. — Wordswobth.
Bairns are blessings. — Shakespeare.
These are my jewels! — Cornelia.
ABLUTION.
174. At ttvelve months old do you still recommend a
child to he put in" his tub to he washed?
Certainly I do, that his skin may be well and thor-
oughly cleansed. If it be summer time, the water
should be used cold ; if it be winter, a dash of warm
must be added, so that it may be of the temperature of
new milk ; but do not use very loarm water. The head
must be washed (but not dried) before he be placed in
a tub ; then, putting him in the tub (containing the
necessary quantity of water, and washing him as pre-
viously recommended),* a large sponge should be
filled with the water and squeezed over his head, so that
the water may stream over the whole surface of his
body. Just before taking him out of his bath, a jug-
ful of water should be poured over and down his loins ;
all this ought rapidly to be done, and he must be
quickly dried with soft towels, and then expeditiously
dressed. For the washing of your child, I recommend
you to use Castile Soap or Glycerine Soap in prefer-
ence to any others. They are more pure and less irri-
tating, and hence do not injure the texture of the skin.
See Infancy — Ablution.
142
CMiLDHOOD. — ABLUTIOK. 143
Take care that the soap does not get into the eyes, or
it might |)roduce irritation and smarting.
175. Some mothers odject to a child's stan"Din"G in the
water.
If the head be wetted before he be placed in the tub,
and he be washed as above directed, there is no objection
to it. But he must not be allowed to remain in his tub
more than five minutes.
176. Does not toashing the child's head, every morning,
make him more liable to catch cold, and does it not tend
to weaken his sight?
It does neither the one nor the other ; on the contrary,
it prevents cold, and strengthens his sight ; it cleanses
his scalp, prevents scurf, and, by that means, causes
a more beautifid head of hair. The head, after each
washing, ought to be well brushed with a soft brush.
The brushing causes a healthy circulation of the scalp.
177. If the head, nottuithstanding the tuashing, he
scurfy, ivhat should he done f
After the head has been well dried, let a little Am-
moniated Mercury Ointment, one drachm to an ounce
of Vaseline, be well rubbed, for five minutes each time,
into the roots of the hair.
178. Do you recommend a child to le u) ashed IK his
TUB every night and morning ?
]^o ; once a day is quite sufficient ; in the morning in
preference to the evening ; unless he be poorly, then
evening instead of morning ; as, immediately after he
has been washed and dried, he can be put to bed.
179. Ought a child to he placed in his tub lohilst he is
in a state of perspiration?
Not whilst he is perspiring violently, or the perspira-
tion might be checked suddenly, and ill consequences
would ensue ; nor ought he to he put in Ms tub when he
is cold, or his blood would be chilled, and would be sent
from the skin to some internal vital part, and thus
would be likely to light up inflammation — probably of
144 ADTICE TO A MOTHER.
the lungs. His skin, when he is placed in his bath,
ought to be moderately and comfortably warm ; neither
too hot nor too cold.
180. Whe?i the child is a year old, do you recommend
cold or loarm icater to be used ?
If it be winter, a little warm water ought to be added,
so as to raise the temperature to that of new milk. As
the summer advances, less and less warm water is re-
quired, so that, at length, none is needed.
181. If a child he delicate do you recommend anything
to ie added to the luater which may tend to trace and
strengthen him 9
Yes ; a handful of table salt, or sea-salt, should be pre-
viously dissolved in a quart jug of cold water. Just be-
fore taking the child out of his morning bath let the
above be poured over and down his back and loins, hold-
ing the jug, while pouring the contents on the back, a
foot distant from him in order that it may act as a
kind of douche bath.
182. Do you recommend the child, after he has teen
dried ivith the toioel, to t>e rubted with the haiid?
I do, as friction encourages the cutaneous circulation
and causes the skin to perform its functions properly.
The back, the chest, the bowels, and the limbs are the
parts which ought to be well rubbed.
CLOTHING.
183. Have you any remarks to mahe on the clothi7ig of
a child ?
Children, boys and girls, especially if they be delicate,
ought always to wear high dresses up to their necks.
The exposure of the upper part of the chest (if the
child be weakly) is dangerous. It is in the %q)])er part
of the chest, in tlie region of the collar bones, that the
lungs are most exposed. The clothing of a child, more
especially about the chest, should be large and full in
every part, and be free from tight strings, so that the
circulation of the blood may not be impeded, and that
CHILDHOOD. — CLOTHIIS^G. 145
there may be plenty of room for the full development of
the rapidly growing body.
His frock, or tunic, ought to be of woolen material —
warm, light, and porous — in order that the perspiration
may rapidly evaporate.
Tight bands, or tight belts around the waist of a child
are very injurious to health ; they crib in the chest, and
thus interfere with the rising and falling of the ribs —
so essential to breathing. Tight hats ought never to
be worn ; by interfering with the circulation they cause
headaches. Nature delights in freedom, and resents
interference !
184. What parts of the tody in particular ought to he
hept luarm 9
The chest, the bowels, and the feet should be kept
comfortably warm. We must guard against an opposite
extreme, and not keep them too hot. The head alone
should be kept cool, on which account I do not approve
either of night or day caps.
185. What are the lest kinds of hat for a child?
When he is out and about, a loose-fitting straw hat,
which will allow the perspiration to escape. It should
have a broad brim to screen the eyes. A sunshade,
that is to say, a seaside hat — a hat made of cotton —
with a wide brim to keep off the sun, is also an excel-
lent hat for a child ; it is very light and allows a free
escape of perspiration. It can be bought ready made
at a baby-linen warehouse.
A knitted or crocheted hat, with woolen rosettes to
keep the ears warm, makes a nice and comfortable
winter's hat for a child. It is also a good hat for him
to wear while on a long journey.
It is not advisable to cover a child's head with felt,
or any thick impervious material, as the perspiration
cannot possibly escape through it.
A child should not be permitted to be in the glare of
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146 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
the sun without his hat, as a sunstroke or some injury
to the brain might ensue.
18G. Have you any remarTcs to malce on heeinng a
child's hands and legsioarm, when in the winter time he
is carried out ?
When a child either walks or is carried out in winter
weather, be sure and see that both his hands and legs
are well protected from the cold. There is nothing
better for this purpose than woolen gloves, and woolen
stockings coming up over the knees.
187. Do you approve of a child luearing a flannel
dressing-goion ?
He frequently throws the clothes off him, and has oc-
casionally to be taken up in the night, and if he has
not a flannel gown on, is likely to catch cold, therefore
I recommend it to be worn. The usual calico night-
gown should be worn under it.
188. Do you advise a child to he lightly clad, in order
that he may he hardened therehy 9
No. It is an ascertained fact that more children of
the jDOor die who are thus lightly clad than of those
who are properly defended from the cold. Again, what
holds good with a young plant is equally applicable to
a young child ; and we all know that it is ridiculous to
think of unnecessarily exposing a tender plant to harden
it. If it were thus exposed, it would wither and die.
189. If a child he delicate, if he have a cold hody, or a
languid circulation, or if he he predisposed to inflamma-
tion of the lungs, do you approve of his lu earing flan^ieh
instead of linen shirts 9
I do ; as flannel tends to keep the body at an equal
temperature, thus obviating the effect of the sudden
changes of the weather, and promotes by gentle friction
the cutaneous circulation, thus warming the cold body
and giving an impetus to the languid circulation. Fine
flannel ought to be worn, and be changed as frequently
as the usual shirts.
CHILDHOOD. — CLOTHII^G. 147
If a child has an attack of bronchitis or of inflamma-
tion of the hings^ or if he has just recovered from scarlet
fever_, by all means, if he has not previously worn flannel,
instantly let him begin to do so. This is important
advice, and ought not to he disregarded.
Scarlet flannel is now much used instead of ivhite
flannel ; and as scarlet flannel has a more comfortable
appearance, and does not shrink so much in washing, it
may be substituted for the white. The material must
be of the best quality, or the dye will come off.
190. Have you any remarks to make on the stockings
and shoes of a child? and on the right iv ay of cutting the
toe-nails f
He ought, during the winter, to wear lamVs-wool
stockings that will reach ahove the knees, and flannel
drawers that will reach a few inches delow the knees. It
is of the utmost importance to keep the lower extremi-
ties comfortably warm. It is really painful to see how
many mothers expose the bare legs of their little ones
to the frosty air, even in the depths of winter.
Be particular that the sock, or stocking, fits nicely —
that it is neither too small nor too large. If it be too
small, it will bind up the toes unmercifully, and make
one toe to ride over the other, and thus render the toes
perfectly useless in walking ; if it be too large, it will be
necessary to lap a portion of the sock, or stocking, either
under or over the toes, and will thus press unduly upon
them, and give pain and annoyance. If the toes have
full play, they, as it were, grasp tlie ground, and greatly
assist in locomotion — if they are cramped up, they can-
not possibly do so. Be careful, too, that the toe-part of
the sock or stocking be not pointed ; let it be made
square in order to give room for the toes. ^'At this
helpless period of life the delicately feeble outspreading
toes are wedged into a narrow-toed stocking, often so
short as to double in the toes, diminishing the length
of the rapidl}^ growing foot. It is next, perhaps, tightly
148 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
laced into a boot of less interior dimensions than itself ;
when the poor little creature is left to sprawl about with
a limping, stumping gait, thus learning to walk as it
best can, under circumstances the most cruel and tortur-
ing imaginable/^ *
Garters ought not to be worn, as they impede the cir-
culation, waste the muscles, and interfere with walking.
Sus2)enders are to be provided.
See that the boots or shoes of your child be sound and
whole ; for if they be not so, they will let in the damp,
and if the damp, disease and perhaps death. '^^If the
poor would take better care of their children's feet, half
the infantile mortality would disappear. It costs very
little to put a piece of thick felt or cork into the
bottom of a boot or shoe, and the difference is often
between that and the doctor's bill, Avith, perhaps, the
undertaker's besides. ''
Do not allow your child to wear tiglit shoes. They
cripple the feet, causing the joints of the toes, which
ought to have free play, and which Avould assist in walk-
ing, to be, in a manner, useless ; they produce corns
and bunions, and interfere with the circulation of the
foot. A shoe ought to be made according to the shape
of the foot — rights and lefts are therefore desirable.
The toe-part of the shoe must be made broad, so as to
allow plenty of room for the toes to expand, and that
one toe cannot overlap another. Be sure then that
there be no pinching and no pressure. In the article of
shoes you ought to be particular and liberal ; pay at-
tention to have nicely fitting ones, and let them be made
of soft leather, and throw them on one side the moment
they are too small. It is poor economy, indeed, because
a pair of shoes be not worn out, to run the risk of incur-
ring the above evil consequences.
A shoe for a child ought to be made with a narrow
strap over the instep, and with button and button-
* The Foot QiUd its Covering. By James Dowie, London.
CHILDHOOD. — CLOTHIN^G. 149
hole ; if it be not made in this way, the shoe will not
keep on the foot. Shoes are preferable to boots for
healthy children. Boots should be adopted at this age
only after medical consultation and consent.
It is impossible for either a stocking or a shoe to fit
nicely unless the toe-nails be kept in proper order. In
cutting the toe-nails there is, as in everything else, a
right and a wrong way. The right way of cutting a
toe-nail is to cut it straight — in a straight line. The
lurong way is to cut the corners of the nail — to round
the nail, as it is called. This cutting the corners of the
nails often makes work for the surgeon. It frequently
produces ^''gro wing-in ^^ of the nail, which sometimes
necessitates the removal of the nail or apart of it.
191. At ivliat time of the year should a child leave off
his IV inter clothing?
Winter clothing ought not to be left off until the
spring be far advanced. It is far better to be on the
safe side, and to allow the winter clothes to be worn
until the end of May. The old adage is very good, and
should be born in mind — ■
" Button to chin
Till May be in ;
Ne'er cast a clout
Till May be out."
192. Have yon any general remarks to make 07i the
dressing of children ?
Children are frequently dressed like mountebanks,
with feathers, and furbelows, and finery ; the boys go
barelegged ; the little girls are dressed like women.
Dress is made with them, at a tender age, and when
first impressions are the strongest, a most important
consideration. They are thus taught to be vain and
frivolous. Let children be dressed as children, not as
men and women. Let them be taught that dress is
quite a secondary consideration. Let health, and not
fashion, be the first, and we shall then have, with God^s
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ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
blessing, blooming children, who will in time be the
pride and strength of Columbia.
DIET.
193. At TWELVE 7nontlis old lioiu shall I feed my child f
The bottle must now be gradually discarded, and he
is to be accustomed to the digestion of undiluted cow^s
milk instead of modified cow^s milk, which has hitherto
been given (see Conversation 58.) Scrutinize the
motions whilst the change is being made, and watch
for curds in them. If these appear the milk must be
temporarily diluted with water or barley water, and
he is to be accustomed hy degrees to the digestion of
pure cow^s milk. The daily quantity of milk, whether
taken in fluid form, or used in the preparation of gruels
or farinaceous puddings, is not to exceed two pints.
The following table is to be studied : —
'Gruels are to be made with milk
from either oats, barley or maize
ground whole (see Conversation 60).
■{ He may take oatmeal or maize por-
ridge, made with milk, and be given
plain boiled water to drink with
them.
Milk, 8ozs., a little bread and butter.
Stale bread crumbs and red gravy
from the joint or beef-tea* (a tea-
cupful), or
meraly mashed potato with the same
gravy or beef -tea,
or
'\ a lightly boiled or poached e^g with
stale bread crumbs, or mashed potato,
with
farinaceous puddings, such as rice,
sago, tapioca, semolina, or a custard
(a tablespoonf ul) . Milk and water
to drink.
rWith or without bread, or a rusk, or
< a sponge cake. A little bread and
[ butter.
I Either alone, or made with any
< of the cereals mentioned under
( breakfast.
7.30
A.M., Breakfast,
Milk, 8 o'zs.
10.30 A.M., Luncheon.
1.80 P.M.. Dinner.
4.30 p.m., Tea,
Milk, 8 ozs.
8.30 P.M., Supper,
Milk, 8 ozs.
* Beef-tea, as ordinarily made, is not nutritious. Nutritious
CHILDHOOD. — DIET. 151
The milk should be sterilized as soon as it is received,
and kept in a cool place. The baby should now be
weighed every fortnight, and a record kept of the
weights.
194. At EIGHTEEN months old, liave you any objection
to a child having meat ?
At eighteen months of age he may have meat, —
chicken and turkey are good. The meat requires to be
carefully minced. When he digests chicken well,
butcher's meat may be given to him, such as a grilled,
underdone, lean chop thoroughly minced. Green
vegetables are not to be omitted from the dietary ; and
Avell-boiled cauliflower, or spinach are to be given in
moderation, apple sauce once a day. The daily allow-
ance of milk must not exceed two pints.
'Milk, or cocoa made with milk, and
bread and butter,
7.30 A.M., Breakfast. -I or
milk porridge, with a little cream, or
Syrup or bread and milk.
10.30 A.M., Luncheon. | ^^^^^f^"^ ^''^^^ ^""^ ^''**^^' ^'' ^ P^^^""
'Meat, a tablespoonful of beef-tea^ or
a lightly boiled Qgg, with potato,
1.30 P.M., Dinner. \ cauliflower, or spinach,
I wdth
(^farinaceous pudding or custard.
/( QH r» TIT T J Cocoa or milk, with bread and
4.(5U P.M., lea. -j b^i^tgj,, or a stale sponge cake.
T5 ,, . j A little milk and a plain biscuit, or a
±5eatime. -j p-^^^ ^^ ^^^^^ ^^^ butter.
195. As yon are so partial to puddings for a child,
which do you consider the dest for him f
He ought, every day, to have a pudding for his dinner
— either rice, sago, tapioca, suet-pudding, batter-pud-
beef-tea is made by adding a pint of cold water, in which ten
drops of diluted hydrochloric acid have been instilled, to 1 lb. of
finely chopped lean beef. Let it stand for three hours, stirring
the while, and finally simmer for twenty minutes. Mutton, veal,
and chicken can be treated in the same way.
152 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE*
ding, mixed with crumbs and bread, and gravy — free
from grease. A well-boiled suet-pudding, with plenty
of suet in it, is one of the best puddings he can have ;
it is, in point of fact, meat and farinaceous food com-
bined, and is equal to, and will oftentimes prevent, the
giving of cod-liver oil. Before cod-liver oil came into
vogue suet boiled in milk was the remedy for a delicate
child. He may, occasionally, have fruit.
The objection to fruit pies and puddings is, that the
pastry is often too rich for the delicate stomach of a
child. There is certainly no objection to the fruit —
cooked fruit being, for a child, most wholesome. An
excellent suggestion is '' to i^repare fruit for children,
a far more wholesome ivay than in pies and puddings is
to put apples sliced, or plums, currants, gooseberries,
etc., into a stone jar, and sprinkle among them as much
sugar as necessary. Set the jar in an oven or on a
hearth, with a teacupful of water to prevent the fruit
from burning ; or put the jar into a saucepan of water
till its contents be perfectly done. Slices of bread or
some rice may be put into the jar, to eat with the
fruit."
Pudding ought to be given after and not tefore his
meat and vegetables ; if you give him pudding before
his meat, he might refuse to eat meat altogether. By
adopting the plan of giving puddings every day, your
child will require less animal food ; much meat is in-
jurious to a young child. But do not run into an op-
posite extreme. A little meat ought, every day, to be
given, provided he has cut the tuhole of his first set of
teeth; until then, meat every other day will be often
enough.
196. As soon as a child has cut the tuhole of his first
set of teeth, ivhat ought to le his diet f What should he
Ms dreahfast f
He can then have scalding hot new milk poured on
sliced bread, with a slice or two of bread and butter
CHILDHOOD. — DIET. 153
to eat with it. Butter, in moderation, is nourishing,
fattening, and wholesome, and tends to keep the howels
regular. These facts should be borne in mind, as
some mothers foolishly keep their children from butter,
declaring it to be too rich for their children's stomachs !
New milk should be used in preference either to cream
or to skim-milk. Cream, as a rule, is too rich for the
delicate stomach of a child, and skim-milk is too poor
when robbed of the butter which the cream contains.
But give cream and water where new milk does not
agree ; but never give skim-milk. Shim-milk produces
costiveness, and necessitates the frequent administration
of aperients. Cream, on the other hand, regulates and
tends to open the bowels.
When a child has costive bowels there is nothing
better for his breakfast than well-made and well-boiled
oatmeal stir-about, which ought to be cooked with milk
fresh from the cow. Scotch children scarcely take any-
thing else, and a finer race is not in existence ; and, as
for physic, many of them do not even know either the
taste or the smell of it ! You will find Higgins' or the
Quaker Pure Oatmeal to be very pure, and sweet, and
good. Stir-about is truly said to be —
" The halesome parritch, chief of Scotia's food." — Burns.
Phillips' Digestible Cocoa, made with fresh milk,
slightly sweetened with lump sugar, is an admirable
food for a delicate child. Bread and butter should be
eaten with it.
197. Have you any remarhs to mahe on coiu's millc as
an article of food 9
It is an indispensable article of diet for the young ;
being most nourishing, wholesome, and digestible. The
finest and the healthiest children are those who, for the
first four or five years of their lives, are Iq^ principally
upon it. There is no substitute for it. To prove the
fattening and strengthening qualities of milk, look only
154 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
at a young calf who lives on milk, and on milk alone !
He is a Samson in strength, and is ^''as fat as butter ; "
and all young things if they are in health are fat !
Milk, then, contains every ingredient to buildup the
body, Avhicli is more than can be said of any other
known substance. A child may live entirely, and grow,
and become both healthy and strong, on milk, and on
milk alone,as it contains every constituent of the human
body. Milk is animal and vegetable — it is meat and
bread — it is food and drink — it is a fluid, but as soon as
it reaches the stomach it becomes a solid * — solid food ;
it is the most important and valuable article of diet for
a child in existence. ^' Considering that milk contains
in itself most of the constituents of a perfect diet, and
is capable of maintaining life in infancy without the
aid of any other substance, it is marvelous that the
consumption of it is practically limited to so small a
class ; and not only so, but tliat in sick-rooms, where
the patient is surrounded with every luxury, arrow-root,
and other compounds containing much less nutriment,
should so often be preferred to it." — The Times.
Do not let me be misunderstood. I do not mean to
say but that the mixing of farinaceous food with milk
is an improvement, in some cases a great improvement ;
but still I want to impress upon you the fact that a
child might live and thrive, and that for a lengthened
period, on milk, and on milk alone !
* How is milk, in tlie making of cheese, converted into cnrds ?
By rennet. What is rennet ? Tlie juice of a calf's maw or
stomach. The moment the milk enters the human maw or stomach
the juice of the stomach converts it into curds — into solid food,
just as readily as when it enters a calf's maw or stomach, and
much more readily than by rennet, as the fresh juice is stronger
than the stale. An ignorant mother often complains that because,
when her child is sick, the milk curdles, that it is a iDroof that
it does not agree with him ! If, at those times, it did not curdle,
it would, indeed, pi-ove that liis stomach was in a wretchedly weak
state ; she would then have abundant cause to be anxious.
CHILDHOOD. — DIET. 155
A dog will live and fatten for six weeks on milk alone ;
while lie will starve and die in a shorter period on
strong beef-tea alone !^^
The only way to ensure good milk is^ to go to a re-
spectable cow-keeper, and let him be made to thoroughly
understand the importance of your child having genuine
milk, and that you are willing to pay a fair remuner-
ative price for it. If you have to pay one penny or
even two a quart more for genuine milk, it is one of
the best investments that you can make. Cheap and
inferior milk might well be called cheap and nasty. In-
ferior or adulterated milk is the very essence, the con-
glomeration of nastiness ; and, moreover, is very poison-
ous to a child^s stomach. The quality of milk can
easily be ascertained by an ingenious glass instrument
called a ^''lactometer." It ought to be in every careful
household.
Young children, as a rule, are allowed to eat too
much meat. It is a mistaken notion of a mother that
they require so much animal food. If more milk were
given and less meat, they would be healthier, and would
not be so predisposed to disease, especially to diseases of
debility, and to skin disease.
I should strongly recommend you, then, to be extrava-
gant in your milk score. Each child ought, in the
twenty-four hours, to take a quart of good, fresh, new
milk. It should be given in various ways — as bread
and milk, rice-puddings, milk and different kinds of
farinaceous food, stir-about, plain milk, cold milk, hot
milk, any way, and every way,that will please his palate,
and that will induce him to take an abundant supply of
it. The " advice" I have just given you is of paramount
importance, and demands your most earnest attention.
198. But siq^pose my cliild ivill not take milk, he
having an aversion to it, lohat ought to he done?
Boil the milk, and sweeten it to suit his palate.
After he has been accustomed to it for a while, he will
156 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
then probably like milk. Gradually reduce the sugar,
until at length it be omitted. A child will often take
milk this way, whereas he will not otherwise touch it.
If a child will not drink milk, he must eat meat. It
is absolutely necessary that he should have either the
one or the other; and, if he have cut nearly all his
teeth, he ought to have both meat and milk — the former
in moderation, the latter in abundance.
199. Supposing milk should not agree ivitJi my cliild,
what must then he done?
Milk, either boiled or unboiled, almost always agrees
with a child. If it does not, it must be looked upon as
the exception, and not as the rule. I would, in such a
case, advise Gaertner's Mother Milk.
200. Ca7i you tell me of a loay to prevent milk, in hot
weather , from turning sour ?
Let the jug of milk be put into a crock, containing
ice, either in the dairy or in the cellar. The ice should
be kept wrapped either in flannel or in blanket, in a
cool place, until it be wanted (see " Sterilization," Con-
versation 53).
201. Is it necessary to give a child luncheon f
If he want anything to eat between breakfast and
dinner, let him have a glass of milk and a little bread
and butter ; and if he have eaten very heartily at din-
ner, and, like Oliver Twist, ^' asks for more ! '* give him,
to satisfy his craving, a piece of dry bread. He will
never eat more of that than will do him good, and yet
he will take sufficient to satisfy his hunger, which is
very important.
202. What ought to he his dinner ivhen he is two
AND A HALF years old?
He should now have meat — either mutton, beef, or
fish, or poultry — daily, cut up very small, and mixe^
with mealy, mashed potato and gravy. He ought
always to be accustomed to eat salt with his dinner.
Let a mother see that this advice is followed, or evil
CHILDHOOD. — DIET. 157
consequences will inevitably ensue. Let him be closely
watched, to ascertain that he well masticates his food,
and that he does not eat too quickly ; for young chil-
dren are apt to bolt their food.
203. Have you any oljections to porh for a change f
Yes. It is a rich, gross, and therefore unwholesome
food for the delicate stomach of a child. I have known
it, in several instances, produce violent pain, sickness,
purging, and convulsions. If a child be fed much
upon such meat it will be likely to produce ^' breakings-
out " on the skin.
204. Do you ohject also to lacon f
ISTo ; I look upon bacon as a valuable food for delicate
children at the breakfast meal. Indeed, it acts like
cod-liver oil in strefigthening the system, and also as an
aperient, but he should not be given this until he is
four years of age.
205. Should an addition then he made to his dietary
when he is foue years of age 9
Yes ; he may have fat bacon for his breakfast, or
poached or scrambled eggs, or a little white fish.
206. Do you ajpprove of veal for a child f
The objection to veal is, that it is more difficult of
digestion than either mutton or beef. All young meats
are harder of digestion than meats of maturity. Thus
mutton is more digestible than lamb, and beef than veal.
207. Do you disaj^prove of salted and toiled leef for a
child ?
If beef be 7nuch salted, it is hard to digest, and there-
fore ought not to be given ; but if it have been but
slightly salted, then, for a change, there will be no
objection to a little. There is no necessity in the tointer
time to salt meat intended for boiling. Boiled iin-
salted meat makes a nice change for a child's dinner.
Salt must be eaten with it.
208. But suppose there is nothing on the table that a
child may icith ivnpunity eat ?
158 ADYICE TO A MOTHEE.
He should then have either a grilled mutton chop,
or a lightly-boiled egg ; indeed, the latter, at any time,
makes an excellent change. There is great nourish-
ment in an egg. It contains iron, which is good for his
blood, and phosphorus for his bones ;. it will not only
strengthen the frame, but it will give animal heat as
well. These qualities of an egg are most valuable ; in-
deed, essential for the due performance of health.
Many articles of food contain one qualification, not both ;
hence the egg is admirably suitable for a child^s oc-
casio7ial dinner.
209. Are potatoes uruvliolesome food for a cliildf
New ones are ; but old potatoes, well cooked and
mealy, are the best vegetable he can have. They ought
to be loell mashed, as I have known lumps of potatoes
cause convulsions.
210. Do you approve of any other vegetables for a
child 9
Occasionally ; either asparagus, or broccoli, or cauli-
flower, or turnips, or string beans cut uj) fine, may
with advantage be given. Also green peas, provided
they be young and thoroughly well boiled, and mashed
with the knife on the plate. Undercooked and un-
mashed peas are not fit for a child^'s stomach ; there is
nothing more difficult of digestion than peas not prop-
erly cooked. It is important, too, to mash them, even
if they be well done, as a child generally bolts peas
whole, and they pass through the alimentary canal
without being in the least digested.
211. Might not a mother he too particular in dieting
her child ?
Certainly not. When we take into account that the
food we eat is converted into blood ; that if the food
be good the blood is good ; and that if the food be im-
proper or impure, the blood is also impure ; and, more-
over, when we know that every part of the body is built
up by the blood, we cannot be considered to be too
CHILDHOOD. — DIET. 159
particular in making our selection of food. If indi-
gestible or improper food be taken into the stomach,
the bowels will be disordered. I am no advocate for a
child having the same food one day as another — cer-
tainly not. Let there be variety, but let it be ivliole-
some variety. Variety in a child's food is necessary.
This does not ajoply to an infant's food.
212. What ought a child to clrinh with his dimier 9
Toast and water, or, if he prefer it, plain water prop-
erly filtered and boiled. Let him have as much as he
likes. If you give him water to drink, there is no fear
of his taking too much ; Nature will tell him when he
has had enough. Be careful of the quality of the water,
and the source from which you |3i*ocure it. Spring
water from a moderately deep well is the best. If it
come from a land spring, it is apt, indeed is almost
sure, to be contaminated by drains, &c.
Some parents are in the habit of giving their chil-
dren beer with their dinner — making them live as they
live themselves ! This practise is absurd, and fraught
with great danger ! N'o good end can be obtained by
it ; it will not strengthen so young a child ; it will, on
the contrary, act injuriously upon his general health.
213. What ought a child luho has cut his teeth, to
have for his supper 9
Some milk and a plain biscuit, or a little bread and
butter. He should sup at six o'clock.
214. Have you any general remarks to malce on a
child's meals 9
I recommended a great sameness in an infant's diet ;
but a child's meals, his dinners especially, ought to be
varied. For instance, do not let him have clay, after
day, mutton ; but ring the changes on mutton, beef,
poultry, game, which must be fresh, and fish — sole or
cod. Let there be also a change in the manner of cook-
ing it ; let the meat sometimes be roasted or grilled ;
let it at other times be boiled. With regard to vege-
160 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
tables, potatoes — mashed potatoes — ought to be his
staple vegetables ; but, every now and then, cauliflower,
asparagus, turnips, and string beans, should be given.
With respect to puddings, vary them : rice, one day;
suet, another ; batter, a third ; tapioca, a fourth ; or
even occasionally he might have apple, or gooseberry,
or rhubarb with boiled rice.
Variety of diet, then, is good for a child : it will give
him muscle, bone, and sinew ; and will tend to regulate
his bowels.
But do not stuff a child — do not press him, as is the
wont of some mothers, to eat more than he feels in-
clined. On the contrary, if you think that he is eating
too much — that he is overloading his stomach — and if
he should ask for more, then, instead of giving him
either more meat or more padding, give him a piece of
dry bread. By doing so you may rest assured that he
will not eat more than is absolutely good for him.
215. If a child he delicate, is there any objection to a
little ivine to strengthen him f
Wine ought not to be given to a child unless it be
ordered by a medical man : it is even more injurious
than beer. Nearly «/Z wines 2,yq fortified (as it is called)
with alcohol. If you give wine, it is, in point of fact,
giving diluted alcohol. Alcohol acts as a poison to a
child.
216. Suppose a child suddenly to lose his ai^petite, is
a7iy notice to he taken of it 9
If he cannot eat well, depend upon it there is some-
thing wrong about the system. If he be teething, look
well to his mouth and gums. If his gums be not in-
flamed and no tooth appears near, look well to the state
of the bowels ; ascertain that they be sufficiently opened,
and that the stools be of a proper consistence, color, and
smell. If they are not healthy, give a dose of aperient
medicine. If the gums be cool, and the bowels be right,
and his appetite continue bad, call in medical aid.
CHILDHOOD. — DIET. 161
A child asking for something to eat, in a severe ill-
ness, is frequently the first favorable symptom ; we may
generally then prognosticate that all will soon be well
again.
If a child refuse his food, neither coax nor tempt him
to eat. Food without an appetite will do more harm
than good. It may produce sickness or bowel-com-
plaint. There is always a cause for a want of appetite.
Perhaps his stomach has been overworked, and requires
repose ; or his bowels are loaded, and [NTature wishes to
take time to use up the old material. There may be
fever lurking in his system ; Nature declines the sup-
plies. The saliva and digestive juices being scantily
produced under these circumstances, there is inability
to digest food and loss of appetite. There may be in-
flammation ; the accompanying fever, by its action on
the body, moderates the desires. There is no appetite
for solid food, only a longing for liquid to quench the
thirst. If there be fever something has started the feb-
rile process. The detection of the cause must be sought
by an examination directed to the mouth, the throat,
the lungs, and the organs generally, and your doctor is
the proper person to undertake such an inquiry. There-
fore, be the cause an overworked stomach, overloaded
bowels, fever, or inflammation, food would be injurious.
Kind Nature, if we will but listen to her voice, will tell
us when to eat, and when to refrain.
217. Wlien a child is four or Jive years old, Jiave you
any objections to his drinlcing tea ?
If milk does not agree, a cup of very weak tea, that
is to say, water with a dash of hlach tea in it, with a
tablespoonful of cream, may be substituted for milk ;
but do not give tea where milk agrees.
218o Have you any ohjectio7i to a child occasionally
having biscuits, cakes, and sioeetmeats 9
There is no harm done in giving a child occasionally
a biscuit, cake, or sweetmeat. The harm that arises is
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162 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
due to want of discrimination on the part of the parent
as to the choice of such. Advising you generally, I
would say, " do not give your child any f-dncj biscuits/^
I look upon them as a fruitful source of bowel troubles.
There is no objection to plain cakes, and the sweet-
meats of well-known manufacturers, being given occa-
sionally, to be viewed in the light of rewards for good
conduct, &c. The practise, however, should be special,
not habitual.
It is a disgusting plan to feed children at all hours of
the day with cakes and sweetmeats. Their stomachs
are upset by tvant of rest, by the continual fretting and
worrying of unwholesome material, and their health
fails in consequence. A child who is constantly stuf-
fing all day long is a nuisance to himself and those about
him, and a great trial to the doctor.
If a child be never allowed to eat cakes and sweet-
meats, he will consider a piece of dry bread a luxury,
and will eat it with the greatest relish.
219. Is dakers' or is home-made dread the more tohole-
some for a child 9
Bakers^ bread is certainly the lighter. If we could
depend upon its being unadulterated, it would be the
more wholesome. As we cannot always depend upon
bakers^ bread, home-made bread should be preferred.
If it be at all heavy, a child must not be allowed to par-
take of it ; a baker^s loaf ought then to be sent for, and
continued to be eaten until light home-made bread can
be procured. Heavy bread is most indigestible. Bread
must not be eaten until it be two or three days old.
220. Do you approve either of caraivay seeds or of
currants in iread or in cahes — the former to disperse
tvind, the latter to open the iotvels f
Caraway seeds generally pass through undigested, and
thus irritate the bowels instead of dispersing wind.
Currants in cakes only open the bowels by disordering
them.
CHILDHOOD. — THE ]!^URSERT. 163
221. My child has an antipathy to certain articles of
diet : ivhat would you advise to be done ?
A child's antipathy to certain articles of diet should
be respected. Do not force him to eat what he dis-
likes. There is an idiosyncrasy — a peculiarity of the
constitution in some children — and Nature oftentimes
especially points out what is good and what is bad for
them individually, and we are not to fly in the face of
Nature. Food, if it is really to do good, must be eaten
with a relish, and not with disgust and aversion.
222. Whe7i ought a child to commence to dine with his
parents ?
As soon as he be old enough to sit up at the table,
provided the father and mother either dine or lunch in
the middle of the day. " I always prefer having chil-
dren about me at meal times. I think it makes them
little gentlemen and gentlewomen in a manner that
nothing else will."' — Christian's Mistake.
His nurse or mother should cut up his food quite
small, and he must not be permitted to bolt it. If he
bolts his food the meat will pass through his bowels un-
digested, and his appetite will not be satisfied. Only
the plainest food should be on the table, and he must
not be allowed all and sundry to taste. If the latter be
permitted, his satisfaction with his own simple food
will be a thing of the past, and it would be far better,
rather than this should occur, to allow him to take his
meals in the nursery under the supervision of a compe-
tent person.
THE KUESERY.
223. Have you any general remarks to make on the
selectio7i of a nursery ?
Ordinarily, the nursery should be on the top floor of
the house beloiu the attics. It should consist of two
good rooms — a day nursery, and a night or sleeping-
nursery. The asjDcct of the day nursery should be
south, with the most cheerful prospect attainable. At
164 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
the top of tlie house, because the atmosphere becomes
purer the higher we ascend : with a southerly aspect,
for warmth and cheerfulness. A northerly or easterly
aspect must be avoided if possible. The rooms should
be large, with plenty of windows to let in the sun-
light.
The entrance door should not face a bath-room, or
sink, or water-closet. These conveniences are very
useful on the same floor, but as a matter of health they
should be at the end of the landing, a little distance
away, that any escape of sewer air may not enter our
rooms.
A bath-room will be of great importance and benefit
to all concerned, besides being an invaluable conven-
ience.
It will be advantageous to have a water-closet near at
hand, which should be well supplied with water, be well
drained, and be well ventilated. An efficiently trapped
self-cleansing pedestal closet, with a tilt-up seat, a tiled
floor, a water waste-preventing flush tank of three gal-
lons capacity, and ventilation independent of the rest
of the house, are essentials.
No house should be selected as an abode that is un-
provided with an efficient drainage system ; and before
taking it the drains should be inspected by a com-
petent person, such as the Medical Officer of Health for
the District. Even in first-class residential neighbor-
hoods glaring sanitary defects are constantly being
brought to the notice of the Public Health officials
when infectious disease breaks out. If people would
only take the elementary precaution of seeing that the
drains were sound before signing the lease, they and
their children would lead healthier lives and be less
likely to fall a prey to disease.
224. Give me your advice on the question of ventila-
tion, and how to 'procure good ventilation.
The Yei^tilatiok of a nursery is of paramount
CHILDHOOD. — THE KURSERY. 165
importance. There ought to be a constant supply of
fresh pure air in the apartment. But how few nurseries
have fresh, pure air ! Many nurseries are nearly her-
metically sealed — the windows are seldom, if ever,
opened ; the doors are religiously closed ; and, in sum-
mer time, the chimneys are carefully stuffed up, so
that a breath of air is not allowed to enter ! The con-
sequences are, the poor unfortunate children " are
poisoned by their own breaths," and are made so deli-
cate that they are constantly catching cold ; indeed,
it might be said that they are laboring under chronic
catarrhs, all arising from Nature^s laws being set at
defiance.
Air in a room where there are living beings, if not
changed, becomes poisonous from being mixed with
the breath that comes from tlie lungs of those- beings.
The necessity then arises that it must be changed.
This is effected by Ventilation. What is Ventilation ?
''To toss to and fro in the air, to fan." In order to
live, we must have our air fanned, tossed to and fro
like in hay-making, mixed. You all know that hot air
is lighter in weight than cold. Science is such a curious
body, she will weigh even air. Well, the light air
ascends like a feather when the cold air comes in. This
is the law on which is grounded the various means of
ventilation. The cheapest ventilator is a pane of glass
having a piece cut out at the corners. Next, a pane of
glass with holes perforated in it. Then a revolving
glass, which can be fitted into any window. A simple
and good device is a window board eight inches high,
which is fixed across the lower part of the window.
When the lower sash is raised fresh air can find its way
into the room at a convenient height between the two
sashes. A ventilator can be placed in the chimney
projection high up. In arranging a system of ventila-
tion the air inlets, of which there should be several,
should be equal to the air outlets, and the cold air
166 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
should be admitted and deflected upwards above the
level of the heads of the occupants. The air inlets,
supplemented by insecurely fitting window sashes and
doors, will not permit the air to travel at such a rate as
at the outlets, and draughts will be avoided. If air
travels at a greater rate than one and a half feet per
second a draught is felt. Let me beg you never to
fasten up your windows and doors with list or tubing ;
never to have the register of the grate closed ; to see
that the mat outside of the door does not block up the
way so as to prevent the air rushing under. A good
fire ventilates the room by drawing air to it, to replace
that which has passed up the chimney. The quantity
of air drawn to the fire and consumed will depend upon
the size of the fire, the height of the chimney, the cold-
ness of the outside atmosphere, and so on. Let me give
you an example that hot air ascends, and cold air comes
in below it. Li fires, when a room is full of smoke, and
smoke means heated air mixed with other impurities, it
is a common instinct to lie low down to gasp the air
nearest the floor. As bread is food, so is good air in a
room. Do not be frightened by the word ^' Ventilation.^^
It is, so to speak, " o^ very ordinary person, ^^ and, like
most ordinary persons, it forms a large portion of life
physically, as the other does socially.
But, while ventilation is a wholesome thing, you are
not to fly to the opposite extreme, make the room
draughty, and so expose the child to a cold current of
air. A draughty room will give your child ^^ cold.^'
The floor boards should be close together ; if they have
shrunken the crevices become receptacles for all sorts
of ^' dirt," and these must be stopped or the floor relaid.
Floor boards with wide open seams are also draughty.
Children are very fond of playing on the floor, and
if they get too near the door the cold air rushes in with
great force there, and they will be in a draught,
especially if a big fire is burning. A nurse must see.
CHILDHOOD^ — THE ifUESEEY. 16?
by exercising a little care and thought^ that her charges
are kept away from this region.
In winter time^ if the air is very cold outside, the rapid
chilling of the window panes will promote a draught
inside close to the window. It is better to place some
low article of furniture near the window to prevent the
child playing in too close proximity to the draughty area.
225. Have you any ohservaHon to make on tlie light
af a nursery f
• Let the window or, what is better, the windows of a
nursery be very large, so as to thoroughly light up every
nook and corner of the room, as there is nothing more
conducive to the health of a child than an abundance of
light in the dwelling. A room cannot, then, be too light.
The windows of a nursery are generally too small. A
child requires as much light as a plant. Gardeners are
well aware of the great importance of light in the con-
struction of their greenhouses, and yet a child, who
requires it as much, and is of much greater importance,
is cooped up in dark rooms !
The windows of a nursery ought not only to be fre-
quently opened to let in fresh air, but should be frequently
cleaned, to let in plenty of light and of sunshine, as noth-
ing is so cheering and beneficial to a child as an abundance
of light and sunshine !
226. What is the lest time of the day for airiyig a
nursery f
The windows should be made to freely open both top
and bottom. Whenever the child is out of the nursery
they ought to be thrown wide open ; indeed, when he is
in it, if the weather be fine, the upper sash should be a
little lowered. A child should be encouraged to change
the room frequently, in order that it may be freely
ventilated ; for good air is as necessary to his health
as wholesome food, and air cannot be good if it be not
frequently changed. If you wish to have a strong and
healthy child, ponder over and follow this advice.
168 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
Let a nurse make a point of opening the nursery
window every time that she and her little charge leave
the nursery^ if her absence be only for half an hour.
The mother herself ought to see that this advice is
followed, pure air is so essential to the Avell-being of
a child.
As to the best time to air the rooms, this will depend
on the season and the weather. In summer, the win-
dows should be thrown open early ; in winter, some
time between twelve and two o^clock. In wet weather,*
the adoj^tion of a window board, as recommended in
Conversation 224:, will permit ventilation and prevent
the entry of rain into the room.
227. What is the lest means for ttaemikg the
nursery 9
Tliere is nothing like the old-fashioned open fire-
place with a good-sized chimney, so that it may not only
carry off the smoke, but also the impure air of the room.
In this burn ordinary coal. Do not use a gas stove.
It will cause your chiklren to grow up stunted, w^eak,
delicate, unhealthy. It is an abomination most destruc-
tive to human life. Do not use a coal stove. It will
give your children baked air instead of Nature^s pure
food, and they will suffer accordingly. Those of you
who have traveled in Germany will agree with me
that rooms warmed by stovos are stifling. For myself,
the desire has been to rush out from the slow suffo-
cation.
There is no objection to hot-water pipes. But it will
be allowed that the convenience of having a fire to
resort to on any occasion far outweighs any argument
in favor of warmth by hot air.
Be strict in not allowing your child either to touch
or to play with fire ; frightful accidents have occurred
from mothers and nurses being lax on these points.
The nursery ought to have a large fire-guard, to go
all round the hearth, and sufficiently high to prevent a
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child from climbing over. Not only must the nursery
have a guard, but every room where he is allowed to go
should be furnished with one on the bars.
Lucifer matches, in case of sudden illness, should,
both in the nursery and in the bedroom, be always in
readiness ; but they must be carefully placed out of
the reach of children, as lucifer matches are a deadly
poison.
228. What should he the temperature of the nur-
sery 9
A nursery is usually kept too hot. The temperature
in the winter time ought not to exceed 60 degrees Fah-
renheit. A child in a hot, close nursery is bathed
in perspiration ; if he leave the room to go to one of
lower temperature the pores of his skin are suddenly
closed, and either a severe cold or an inflammation
of the lungs or an attack of bronchitis is likely to
ensue. Moreover, the child is both weakened and en-
ervated by the heat, and thus readily falls a prey to dis-
ease.
And here I would give a word of caution. In winter,
children from the warm day nursery, going to a fireless
and cold night nursery, often suffer much, if they do
not get some lung mischief. True, the trouble of light-
ing a fire and the after cleaning up cause extra work,
and ^^ Jane" may be naughtily sulky, but this is better
than a long illness, with a Philistine, in the shape of a
doctor, constantly in the house ! Well, when you notice
a great difference in the temperature of the two rooms
equalise them by any means in your power. This leads
to the question of thermometers. You should have
one for the day and one for the night nursery, and the
safest place for them is over the mantelpiece, or between
the windows.
229. What is the lest artificial light for a nur-
sery 9
The air of a nursery cannot be too pure ; I therefore
170 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
do not advise you to have gas in it, as gas in burning
gives off quantities of carbonic acid and sulphuretted
hydrogen, which vitiate the air. A hetter light is that
of oils. You say, " They give trouble, and the lamps
can be easily upset. ^' True, but because I have a fire
to warm my child it does not follow he should fall into
it. What I mean is, these difficulties will be got over,
and got over fairly easily. The least objectionable is
the light of candles. Two candles produce nearrly as
much carbonic acid gas as a full-grown man ! The
flame of a lamp or a gas burner will poison the air with
carbonic acid to the same extent as two adults ! I wish
I dared omit the discussion of gas. Well I know this
baneful product, charged with all sorts of lung com-
plaints, poisoning all members both of the animal and
vegetable kingdom, is respected in all your houses. I
must accordingly temporize with you. Do not have gas
in the night nursery. Use candles and night-lights.
If you have it in one or both rooms — day as well as
night — take my earnest advice, have a tap put in the
pipe that sujoplies these rooms, that you can turn off
the supply outside the rooms themselves. Thus you
will have two taps to cut it off, one in the room at the
burner, one outside to further help, besides one at the
meter. You must know that, though you turn off the
gas at the meter, such is the pressure at the main that
many feet are forced through during the night to escape
into your house. If you wish to burn gas or a lamp, a
good thing is to have it alight under a flue which com-
municates with the chimney or the outside air. By this
means the noxious products are discharged into the
atmosphere instead of the room, and a certain amount
of additional ventilation is insured. The most healthy
light that you can use is of course the electric light,
and if you are so situated that you can obtain it you
should lose no time in making arrangements for an
electric installation.
OSILDHOOD. — THE ifUESERY. 17l
230. Holu much space is necessary in the nursery for
each child?
Each child requires as a minimum allowance 8 feet of
space in every direction, so as to have the necessary pro-
portion of air requisite for the healthy maintenance of
the functions of life. If you measure off 8 feet long,
8 feet deep, 8 feet high, this space will roughly give
you the room for each child. With several children,
their number — say four or five — should be multiplied
by the figure 8 ; the total will give you the size of the
room your little ones should occupy. In passing, let
me say that this space would not be enough for grown-
up people. A child requires at least 1,500 cubic feet
of air every hour ; that means that the air in such a
room would have to be changed three times during the
hour. A more rapid change would make it draughty.
If the room is hermetically sealed and efficient ventila-
tion not provided, he will not receive the necessary sup-
ply to keep him in health and strength. If it could be
managed, he should have double that quantity, and
that would mean a room 10 feet high by 10 feet long by
10 feet broad.
231. Have you anything to say ahout the ceilikgs
and WALLS of the nursery 9
The ceilings should be white and clean. The best
ceiling is a painted one. The next a papered one,
varnished. Now, as regards the tvalls of the rooms.
Have them covered with a quiet, soft-colored paper.
Do not let the paper represent a confused history or
outrageous drawings of wild flowers or animals. The
best wall is a painted one, plain colored, with a dado.
The color should be a light blue, a gray, or a French
gray with a dado of a darker color to match. The next,
a wall covered with a plain light paper which will bear
varnishing. The advantages are that when we have
paint or varnish dirt and dust are less likely to accumu-
late, the walls can be readily cleaned, and this in ex-
172 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
pensively ; and in case of sickness of- an infectious
character, as measles, etc., less renovating is required.
A distempered Avail does not cost much to renew. You
say, '* What ! nothing for the children to look at Y"
Yes, certainly. Decorate your walls with pictures and
mottoes and everything that is pretty and instructive.
But let them be so placed as to be readily movable and
easily dusted. Change your decorations and pictures
as often as you can. I fancy I hear, '^ Pictures are ex-
pensive things.'^ Well, yes and no. I do not ask you
to buy any such. I take a colored picture from one of
our illustrated papers. " Not framed ? " you say. No ;
but with a little paste and a sheet of brown paper I
make a frame. Then, to preserve my picture, I lightly
brush it over with some gum arable dissolved in warm
water. I thus have an inexpensive picture, but it will
effect all required if it will give pleasure and maybe
teach a happy lesson. You say, "This is a trifle. '^
Yes, but " Trifles make perfection ; perfection is no
trifle. '^ So sang the great painter Michael Angelo. A
golden rule for decorating rooms is — ^' make everything
bright and warm as sunshine.''^
If you have your nursery walls hung with paintings
and engravings, let them be of good quality. The hor-
rid daubs and bad engravings that usually disfigure
nursery walls are enough to ruin the taste of a child and
to make him take a disgust to drawing, which would
be a misfortune. A fine engraving and a good painting
expand and elevate his mind. We all know that first
impressions are the most vivid and the most lasting. A
taste in early life for everything refined and beautiful
purifies his mind, cultivates his intellect, keeps him
from low company, and makes him grow up a gentleman !
232. Do you approve of a carpet in a nursery ?
No ; unless it be a small piece for a child to roll upon.
A carpet harbors dirt and dust, which dust is con-
stantly floating about the atmosphere, and thus making
CHILDHOOD. — THE KURSERY. 173
it impure for him to breathe. The truth of this may
be .easily ascertained by entering a darkened room^
where a ray of sunshine is struggling through a crevice
in the shutters. If the floor of a nursery must be
coyered, let rugs be laid down, and every morning be
taken up and shaken.
The floor of the rooms should be stained and varnished,
polished, or covered with parquet ; or, under pressure
— that is, if none of the above are procurable — with lino-
leum. You observe I object to carpet or rugs. I look
upon both as abominations in the nursery. I view them
as literal dust-bins and soil receivers — deleterious to the
health of children, constant sources of danger, recep-
tacles for dust, a never-ending work of cleaning up.
The advantages of stained floors are freedom from ac-
cumulation of dirt, a quick and ready way of cleaning,
a lessening of manual labor and its cost. In parquet
floors there is absolute absence of open joints in which
dirt, etc., could collect. All dirt can be removed when
the floor is simply cleaned. So much for the advan-
tages we can see. But there is a greater one hidden.
Cleaning floors with soap and water means damp — a
rising of moist atmosphere when drying. This moisture
goes everywhere that the air in the room does. It clings
to the furniture, it soaks into the bedding, and, how-
ever careful you may be, it is always liable to attack
the lungs or other parts of the bodies of the occupants
of the room. This moist atmosphere is to be dreaded,
and hence to be prevented. We have ready substitutes
in staining and varnishing and parquet. The objection
to linoleum is that it always gives out a pungent smell,
especially in hot rooms or when a fire is burning. In
cleaning a varnished floor it is only necessary to wipe it
with a damp cloth and then polish with a dry duster.
In parquet, the floor should be swept daily with a hard
broom. Once a month turpentine should be applied
with an ordinary scrubbing brush, and the floor then
174 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
polished with . bees-wax and turpentine by means of a
house flannel. You may say that polished floors are
conducive to accidents. Speaking of a Children's Hos-
pital where parquet was introduced, we were told we
should not require to go outside for broken bones !
There are '^ Job's comforters '' all over the world. Ex-
perience has not verified this prophecy. We have gained
in having fewer epidemics of infectious diseases, in the
comfort of our patients, in a very considerable saving
in the cost of charwomen. With a polished floor I
would suggest some pieces of Indian matting, or small
strips of Brussels carpet with bound edges, and a has-
sock or so.
233. How often slioidd a nursery floor le washed?
A nursery floor ought not to be washed oftener than
once a week ; and then the child or children should be
sent into another room until it be dry. During the dry-
ing of the floor the windows must be thrown ivide open.
The constant luetting of a nursery is a frequent source
of illness among children. The floor ought to be kept
clean ; but this may be done by the servant thoroughly
sweeping the room out every morning before her little
charge makes his appearance.
234. WiM you give me some hints hoiu to furnish a
nursery 9
The furniture in the nursery should be as little as
possible, of the plainest character, easily cleaned, readily
movable on castors, and inexpensive. Of course you
must have cupboards and drawers. They always require
thorough examination. When I see untidy cupboards,
and maybe dirty ones, I am wicked enough to wish that
the keepers of them might be well bitten by the tropical
mosquito which haunts such.
Let the furnibure be placed methodically. Often on
going into a room to see an ailing child I have to go on
a voyage of discovery to flnd it. The center of the
room is occupied by a large table ; this should not be.
CSILDHOOD. — THE NUKSERY. 175
The eye of the nurse should command every corner,
every inch of ground. Have a table that you can
divide, so that the halves can be easily run against the
walls. These halves will form many a " house " and
'^ robber cave ^^ for the little ones. The space in the
center clear — ventilation, warmth, and romping can be
carried out ; the nurse can see all that is goiug on
whilst otherwise engaged.
235. Have you anything to say ahout the night nursery ?
The minimum breathing space for each child should
be, as named, eight feet in every direction. Each child
should have a separate bed. The foundation of the bed
should be of wire — either close woven or that called the
'' Excelsior, ^^ now becoming general at our hospitals as
being the least expensive, the cleanest, and the health-
iest. The mattress should be of horsehair or straw ;
the pillow of horsehair. Here is the bedding suitable
for a child : — Wire mattress, horsehair mattress, mack-
intosh, blankets, sheets, pillows. The mackintosh is
a great aid in preserving the bedding from ^''accidents"
during sleep. It should be well aired, and well cleaned
with '' Sanitas," or '^ Thymol," or carbolic, when soiled.
Avoid the use of an eiderdown quilt. The perspiration
from the body cannot get through the down as through
a blanket. It descends again on the sheets, damps
them, and causes a great tendency to catching cold.
There should be no curtains to the cribs or beds. I
was once called to a supposed case of scarlet fever. It
was an attack of measles. I found the child almost
buried in a big bed, the curtains closely drawn round,
and a suffocating atmosphere. The little one was coiled
up, restless, poisoned by its own breath. The curtains
were soon drawn, the room cooled, the gas put out for
a shaded candle. I had the satisfaction of seeing the
child uncoil itself and to mark an almost instant im-
provement. Shall the cribs for the very little ones
have rails ? Yes. I fancy I hear some one remark.
176 ADVICE To A MOTHEE.
^' But what about the new-born babies ?" Well^ what
I have said about their older brethren applies to them.
Distinctly and advisably I beg you to keep the babies
in their own cribs. Do not let them be in bed occupied
by their mothers. Why ? Two lives are disturbed un-
necessarily. The mother's breath is bad for the infant,
with other reasons. There is also danger of suffocat-
ing the child by what is called '^ ''overlaying.''' You say
lam "cruel." No. If the child be cold, put a hot-
water bottle into the crib. When purchasing a crib,
choose one with a mechanical arrangement by means of
which the sides can be let down. Such a contrivance
is most convenient for the nurse, and a great comfort
to the doctor. It is not easy to make a thorough
medical examination of a little child when the sides of
the crib are not movable.
If the child is sick a board with a narrow rim can be
made, which should hang between a couple of short
upright pieces. These upright pieces are to be lipped
and grooved, so as to rest on the sides of the crib, and
of such a length that the board is placed at a convenient
height in front of the child. This will provide a table
for the little one, on which he can take his meals and
* play with his toys.
236. Where should the ted of a child he jjlaced f
Not in a draught ; not facing the light ; not under the
window. If possible, the head should lie either north
or east. There should be no waste water allowed to
stand in the night nursery. All the utensils should be
kept strictly clean, and should only be used in the
night nursery and emptied immediately.
237. Supposing there is not afire in the nursery grate,
ought the chimney to ie stopped to prevent a draught in
the room f
Certainly not. The use of a chimney is twofold : —
to carry off the smoke ; and to ventilate the room, by
carrying off the impure air. The chimney, therefore.
CHILDHOOD.— THE 2^URSERY. 177
should never, either winter or summer, be allowed for
one moment to be stopped. This is important advice,
and requires the strict supervision of every mother, as
servants will, if they have the chance, stop all chimneys
that have no fires in the grates.
238. Have you any remarks to mahe on the drainage
of a liouse f
Look well to the Drainage of your house and neigh-
borhood. A child is very susceptible to the influence
of bad drainage. Bad drains are fruitful sources of
scarlet fever, diphtheria, typhoid fever, etc. ^' It is sad
to be reminded that, whatever evils threaten the health
of population, whether from pollutions of water or of air
— whether from bad drainage or overcrowding — they
fall heaviest upon the most innocent victims, upon chil-
dren of tender years. Their delicate frames are infi-
nitely more sensitive than the hardened constitutions of
adults, and the breath of poison, or the chill of hard-
ships, easily blights their tender life. ''^ — The Times.
Do not rely upon the statement of the landlord or his
agent that the drains are " all right. ^^ They probably
are from his point of view. My experience is that drains
are much more frequently '' all wrong " than " all right."'
To be informed that your drains are defective by the
Public Health Authorities when they step in, as they
will if there is any infectious disease, will not only be
very mortifying, but extensive and expensive alterations
and repairs may have to be undertaken — perhaps at your
expense. A successful action at law may prove a con-
solation, but it is not worth all the trouble and annoy-
ance and often pecuniary loss such a suit entails. Be-
fore entertaining the purchase or hiring of a residence
have the drains tested by a competent authority. The
Medical Officer of Health for the district in which you
propose to reside will be a suitable authorit}^ for you to
seek advice from on the subject.
239. Will you sum up your remarks on the nursery 9
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178 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
Let a child's home be the happiest house to him in
the world. To be happy he must be merry, and all
around him should be merry and cheerful. He ought
to have an abundance of playthings to help on the mer-
riment. If he have a dismal nurse and a dismal home he
may as well be incarcerated in a prison and be attended by
a jailer. It is sad enough to see dismal, doleful men and
women, but it is a truly lamentable and unnatural sight
to see a doleful child ! The young ought to be as play-
ful and as full of innocent mischief as a kitten. There
will be quite time enough in after years for sorrow and
for sadness.
Bright colors, plenty of light, clean windows, an abun-
dance of good colored prints, and toys without num-
ber are the proper furnishing of a nursery. Nursery !
why, the very name tells you what it ought to be — the
home of childhood — the most important room in the
house — a room that will greatly tend to stamp the
character of your child for the remainder of his life.
420. Have you any hints to offer regarding the nurse
for my child?
You yourself must be his head nurse — you only re-
quire some one to take the drudgery oif your hands !
You ought to be particularly careful in the selection of
his nurse. She should be steady, lively, truthful, and
good-tempered ; and must be free from any natural im-
perfection, such as squinting, stammering, etc., for a
child is such an imitative creature that he is likely to ac-
quire that defect which in the nurse is natural. ^^ Chil-
dren, like babies, are quick at '^ taking notice.' What
they see they mark, and what they mark they are very
prone to copy.'' — TJie Times.
She ought not to be very young, or she may be
thoughtless, careless, and giggling. You have no right
to set a child to mind a child ; it would be like the blind
leading the blind. No ! a child is too precious a treas-
ure to be entrusted to the care and keeping of a young
CHILDHOOD. — THE NUKSEKY. 1?9
girl. Many a child has been ruined for life by a care-
less young nurse dropping him and injuring his spine.
A nurse ought to be both strong and active, in order
that her little charge may have plenty of good nursing.
It requires great strength in the arms to carry a heavy
child, for the space of an hour or two at a stretch, in
the open air ; and such is absolutely necessary, and is
the only way to make hiai strong, and to cause him to
cut his teeth easily, and at the same time to regulate his
bowels. A nurse, therefore, must be strong and active,
and not mind hard work, for hard work it is ; but, after
she is accustomed to it, pleasant notwithstanding.
A nursemaid should never, on any account whatever,
be allowed to whip a child. '' Does ever any man or
woman remember the feeling of being ^ whipped ^ as a
child, the fierce anger, the insupportable ignominy, the
longing for revenge, which blotted out all thought of
contrition for the fault or rebellion against the punish-
ment ? With this recollection on their own parts, I can
hardly suppose any parents venturing to inflict it, much
less allow its infliction by another, under any circum-
stances whatever. A nursemaid or domestic of any
sort, once discovered to have lifted up her hand against
a child, ought to meet an instant severe rebuke, and on
a repetition of the offense, instant dismissal.''^ *
Let me sum up the qualifications of a nurse. She
should not be too young, but strong and active, without
any bodily defect,— as stammering or squinting, — intelli-
gent, lively, good-tempered, truthful, steady, forbear-
ing, clean and neat in person and habits. You ask me,
^' Shall I find such, even under a glass case as a specimen
in any museum ?" I have seen such nurses. Such are
to be procured. It is a pleasant sight and speaks well
for a household wherein is found the faithful old nurse
who has grown up with the family. Such faithfulness
* Woman's Thoughts about Women.
180 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
lies in the fact of a kindly relation between the mistress
and maid. Station, occupation, do not alter feelings,
flesh or blood. The peasant and the king alike become
dust, and alike have to give account of their earthly
stewardship.
A nurse should never be allowed to wear a mask, or
to dress up and paint herself as a ghost, or as any other
frightful object. A child is naturally timid and full of
fearS;, and what would not make the slightest impression
upon a grown-up person, might throw a child into fits —
" The sleeping, and the dead,
Are but as pictures : 'tis the age of childhood
That fears a painted devil." — Shakespeare.
She never should be permitted to tell her little charge
frightful stories of ghosts and hobgoblins. If this be
allowed, the child^s disposition will become timid and
wavering, and may continue so for the remainder of his
life.
If a little fellow were not terrified by such stories, the
darkness would not frighten him more than the light.
Moreover, the mind thus filled with fear acts upon the
body and injures the health. A child must never be
placed in a dark cellar, nor frightened by tales of rats,
etc. Instances are related of fear, thus induced, im-
pairing the intellect for life ; and there are numerous ex-
amples of sudden fright causing a dangerous and even
a fatal illness.
241. What are Niglit-t errors 9
The frightening of a child by a silly nurse frequently
brings on Night-terrors. He wakes up suddenly, soon
after going to sleep, frightened and terrified, screaming
violently, and declaring that he has seen either some
ghost, or thief, or some object that the silly nurse had
been previously in the day describing, who is come to
take him away. The little fellow is the very picture of
terror and alarm ; he hides his face in his nipther's bosom^
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the perspiration streams down him, and it is some time
before he can be pacified — at length he falls into a
troubled feverish slumber to awake in the morning un-
refreshed. Night after night these terrors harass him,
until his health materially suffers, and his young life
becomes miserable, looking forward with dread to the
approach of darkness.
Night-terrors are allied to sleep-walking ; they occur
in children of a nervous temperament, and they betoken
an irritable, highly excitable condition of the brain.
Treatment of Night-terrors. If they have been
brought on by the folly of the nurse, discharge her at
once, and be careful to select a more discreet one.
When the child retires to rest, leave a candle burning,
and let it burn all night ; sit with him until he be as-
leep ; and take care, in case he should rouse up in one of
his night-terrors, that either yourself or some kind per-
son be near at hand. Do not scold him for being fright-
ened — he cannot help it ; but soothe him, calm him,
fondle him, take him into your arms and let him feel
that he has some one to rest upon, to defend and to
protect him. They may, in some instances, depend
upon the taking of food before going to bed, but
this is exceptional. They are in themselves a trivial
form of nervous disorder, but they indicate a nervous
state which may prove the stepping-stone to a more
harmful form of nervous derangement later on. Warn-
ing should be taken, therefore, and it would be better
for you to consult your doctor. A soothing medicine
for his brain, and the improvement of his general health,
may prove sufficient. It may be necessary, before he
can be cured, to let him have change of air and change
of scene. Let him live the greater part of the daytime
in the open air, and be free from all emotional disturb-
ances.
242. If my child has cold feet at hedtime, hoio should
they he ivarmed ?
182 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
I have seen in the winter time a lazy nurse sit before
the fire with a child on her lap, rubbing his cold feet
just before putting him to bed. Now, this is not the
way to warm his feet. The right method is to let him
romp and run about the room, or the landing, or the
hall — this will effectually warm them ; but it will entail
a little extra trouble on the nurse, as she will have to
use a little exertion to induce him to do so, and this
extra trouble a lazy nurse will not relish. Warming the
feet before the fire will give a little fellow childblains,
and will make him, when he is in bed, more chilly.
The only way for him to have a good romp, before he
goes to bed, is for the mother to join in the game. She
may rest assured that if she does so, her child will not
be the only one to benefit by it. She herself will find
it of marvelous benefit to her own health ; it will warm
her own feet, it will be almost sure to insure her a good
night, and will make her feel so light and buoyant as
almost to fancy that she is a girl again ! Well then,
let every child, before going to bed, hold a high court
of revelry ; let them have an hour — the Children's
Hour — devoted to romp, to dance, to shout, to sing, to
riot, and to play, and let them be the masters of the
revels —
*' Between the dark and the daylight,
When the night is begining to lower,
Comes a pause in the day's occupation,
Which is known as the Children's Hour."
— Longfellow.
243. Have you any more hints to offer conducive to
the luell-doing of my child f
Let a child be employed — take an interest in his em-
ployment ; let him fancy that he is useful — and he is
useful, he is laying in a stock of health. He is much
more usefully employed than many other grown-up
children are !
A child should be happy ; he must, in every way, be
CHILDHOOD. — THE l^URSERY. 183
made liappy ; everything ought to be done to conduce
to his happiness^ to give him joy, gladness, and. pleasure.
Happy he should be — as happy as the day is long.
Kindness should be lavished upon him. Make a child
understand that you love him ; prove it in your actions
— these are better than words ; look after his little
pleasures, join in his little sports ; let him never hear
a morose word — it would rankle in his breast, take deep
root, and in the due time bring forth bitter fruit.
Love ! let love be his pole-star ; let it be the guide and
the rule of all you do and all you say to him. Let your
face, as well as your tongue, speak love. Let your
hands be ever ready to minister to his pleasures and to
his play. " Blessed be the hand that prepares a pleasure
for a child, for there is no saying when and where it
may again bloom forth. Does not almost everybody
remember some kind-hearted man who showed him a
kindness in the dulcet days of childhood ? The writer
of this recollects himself, at this moment, a barefooted
lad, standing at the wooden fence of a poor little gar-
den in his native village, while, with longing eyes, he
gazed on'the flowers which were blooming there quietly
in the brightness of the Sabbath morning. The pos-
sessor came from his little cottage. He was a wood-
cutter by trade, and spent the whole week at work in
the woods. He had come into the garden to gather
flowers to stick in his coat when he went to church.
He saw the boy, and breaking off the most beautiful of
his carnations (it was streaked with red and white), he
gave it to him. Neither the giver nor the receiver
spoke a word, and with bounding steps the bo}' ran
home. And now here, at a vast distance from that
home, after so many events of so many years, the feel-
ing of gratitude which agitated the breast of the boy
expresses itself on paper. The carnation has long since
faded, but it now bloometh afresh." — Douglas Jerrold.
The hearty ringing laugh of a child is sweet music to
184 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
the ear. There are three most joyous sounds in Nature
— the hum of a bee, the purr of a cat, and the laugh of
a child. They tell of peace, of happiness, and of con-
tentment, and make one for a while forget that there
is so much misery in the world.
A man who dislikes children is unnatural ; he has
no ^' milk of human kindness ^^ in him ; he should be
shunned. Give me, for friend, a man —
" Who takes the chikh-en on his knee,
And winds their curls about his hand." — Tennyson.
244. If a cJiilcl he j^eevisli, and apparently in good
liealth, have you any plan to propose to allay his irrita-
lUity 9
A child's troubles are soon over — his tears are soon
dried ; ^^ nothing dries sooner than a tear'' — if not pro-
longed by improper management —
" The tear down childhood's cheek that flows
Is like the dew-drop on the rose ;
When next the summer breeze comes by,
And waves the bush, the flower is dry." — Scott.
Never allow a child to be teased ; it spoils his tem-
per. If he be in a cross humor, take no notice of it, but
divert his attention to some pleasing object. This may
be done without spoiling him. Do not combat bad
temper with bad temper — noise with noise. Be firm,
be kind, be gentle,^ be loving, sj^eak quietly, smile
tenderly, and embrace him fondly, but insist upon im-
p)licit obedience, and you will have, with God's blessing,
a happy child.
" When a little child is weak
From fever passing by,
Or wearied out with restlessness,
Don't scold him if he cry.
* " But we were gentle among yon, even as a nurse cherisheth
her children." — 1 Tliess. ii. 7.
CHILDHOOD. — THE NURSERY. 185
Tell him some pretty story —
Don't read it from a book ;
He likes to watch you while you speak,
And take in every look.
Or sometimes singing gently —
A little song may please,
With quiet and amusing words,
And tune that flows with ease.
Or, if he is impatient,
Perhaps from time to time
A simple hymn may suit the best.
In short and easy rhyme.
The measured verses flowing
In accents clear and mild
May blend into his troubled thought,
And soothe the little child.
But let the words be simple,
And suited to his mind,
And loving, that his weary heart
A resting-place may find." — Household Verses.
Speak gently to a child ; speak gently to all ; but
more especially speak gently to a child. ^^A gentle
voice is an excellent thing in a woman/' and is a jewel
of great price, and is one of the concomitants of a 'per-
fect lady. Let the hinges of your disposition be well
oiled. ^' ^ I have a dear friend. He was one of those
well-oiled dispositions which turn upon the hinges of
the world without creaking.'' Would to heaven there
were more of them ! How many there are who never
turn upon the hinges of this world without a grinding
that sets the teeth of a whole household on edge ! And
somehow or other it has been the evil fate of many of
the best spirits to be so circumstanced, both men and
women, to whom life is 'sweet habitude of being,'
which has gone far to reconcile them to solitude as far
less intolerable ! To those especially the creakings of
those said rough hinges of the world is one continued
torture, for they are all too finely strung ; and the oft-
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recurring grind jars the whole sentient frame, mars the
beautiful lyre^, and makes cruel discord in a soul of
music. How much of sadness there is in such thoughts !
Seems there not a Past in some lives to which it is im-
possible ever to become reconciled ?" — Life's Frob-
lems.
Pleasant words ought always to be spoken to a child ;
there must be no snarling, or snapping, or snubbing, or
loud contention towards him. If there be, it will ruin
his temper and disposition, and will make him hard
and harsh, morose and disagreeable.
Do not always be telling yonr chil'dhow wricked he is ;
what a naughty boy he is ; that God will never love
him. Such conversations, like constant droppings of
water, will make an impression, and will canse him to
feel that it is of no use trying to be good — that he is
hopelessly wicked ! Instead of such language, give him
confidence in himself ; rather find out his good points
and dwell upon them ; praise him where and whenever
you can, and make him feel that, by perseverance and
by God's blessing, he will make a good man. Speak
truthfullv to your child ; if you once deceive him he
Avill not believe you for the future. Not only so, but if
you are truthful yourself you are likely to make him
truthful — like begets like. There is something beauti-
ful in truth ! A lying child is an abomination ! Sir
Walter Scott says "that he taught his son to ride, to
shoot, and to tell the truth. ^^ Archdeacon Hare as-
serts '^'that Purity is the feminine. Truth the mascu-
line of Honor."
As soon as a child can speak he should be made to
lisp the noble words of truth, and to love them, and to
abhor a lie ! What a beautiful character he will then
make ! Blessed is the child that can say —
" Parental cares watched o'er my growing youth,
And early stamped it with the love of truth."
Leadbeater Papers.
CHILDHOOD. — THE KUKSEEY. iSl*
Have no favorites ; show no partiality. The young
are very jealous^ sharp-sighted^ and quick-witted, and
take a dislike to the petted one. Do not rouse the
" Old Adam '^ in them. Let them be taught to be
"kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly
love ; '' let them be encouraged to share each other's
toys and playthings, and to banish selfishness.
Attend to a child's little pleasures. It is the little
pleasures of a child that constitute his happiness.
Great pleasures, to him and to us all (as a favorite
author remarks), come but seldom, and are the excep-
tions, and not the rule.
Let a child be nurtured in love. " It will be seen,'^
says the author of Joh^i Halifax, /^that I hold this law
of kindness as the Alpha and Omega of education. I
once asked one, in his own house, a father in everything
but the name, his authority unquestioned, his least word
held in reverence, his smallest wish obeyed — ' How did
you ever manage to bring up these children ? ' — He said
'By love.'"
Let every word and action prove that you love your
children. Enter into all their little pursuits and pleas-
ures. Join them in their play, and be a " child again ! "
If they are curious, do not check their curiosity, but
rather encourage it ; for they have a great deal — as we
all have — to learn, and how can they know if they are
not taught ? You may depend upon it, the knowledge
they obtain from observation is far superior to that ob-
tained from books. Let all you teach them, let all you
do, and let all you say bear the stamp of love. " En-
deavor from first to last, in your intercourse with your
children, to let it bear the impress of love. It is not
enough that you feel affection towards your children,
that you are devoted to their interests ; you must show
in your manner the fondness of your hearts towards
them. Young minds cannot appreciate great sacrifices
made for them ; they judge their parents by the words
188 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
and deeds of everyday life. They are won by little
kindnesses, and alieaated by little acts of neglect or im-
patience. One complaint unnoticed, one appeal un-
heeded, one lawful request arbitrarily refused, will be
remembered by your little ones more than a thousand
acts of the most devoted affection." — The Protojjlast.
A placid, well-regulated temper is very conducive to
health, A disordered or an overloaded stomach is a
frequent cause of peevishness. Appropriate treatment
in such a case will, of course, be necessary.
245. My child stammers : can you tell me the cause,
and can you suggest a remedy?
A child who stammers is generally '^ nervous," quick,
and impulsive. His ideas flow too rapidly for speech.
He is ^^ nervous : " hence, w^hen he is alone, and with
those he loves, he oftentimes speaks fluently and well ;
he stammers more both when he is tired and when he
is out of health — when the nerves are either weak or
exhausted. He is emotional : when he is either in a
passion or in excitement, either of joy or of grief, he can
scarcely speak — "he stammers all over." He is impul-
sive : he often stammers in consequence. He is in too
great a hurry to bring out his words ; they do not flow
in proper sequence : hence his words are broken and
disjointed. Overwork at school will accentuate the
defect.
Now. with regard to Treatment. — Make him speak
slowly and deliberately ; let him form each word, without
clipping or chopping ; let him be made, when you are
alone with him, to exercise himself in elocution. If he
speak quickly, stop him in his mid-career and make
him, quietly and deliberately, go through the sentence
again and again, until he has mastered the difficulty.
Teach him to collect his thoughts, and to weigh each
word ere he gives it utterance. Practise him in singing
little hymns and songs for children. A stammerer
seldom stutters when he sings. When he sings he has
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a full knowledge of the words^, and is obliged to keej) hi
time to sing neither too fast nor too slow ; besides, he
sings in a different key to his speaking voice. Many
professors for the treatment of stammering cure their
patients by practising lessons of a sing-song character.
A celebrated Scotch professor used to effect a cure of
stammering by making his pupil simply shout out, or
make any noise directly stammering threatened. The
non-compliance was rewarded with a birching !
Never jeer him for stammering, nor turn him to
ridicule ; if you do, it will make him ten times worse.
Be patient and gentle with him, endeavor to give him
confidence, encourage him to speak to you as quietly as
gently, and deliberately as you speak to him. Tell him
not to speak until he has arranged his thoughts and
chosen his words ; let him do nothing in a hurry.
Demosthenes was said in his youth to have stammered
fearfully, and to have cured himself by his own pre-
scription, namely, by putting a pebble in his mouth,
and declaiming, frequently, slowly, quietly, and de-
liberately, on the sea-shore, the fishes alone being his
audience, until at length he cured himself and charmed
the world with his eloquence and with his elocution.
He is held up to this very day as the personification
and as the model of an orator. His patience, persever-
ance, and practise ought, by all who either stammer, or
are interested in, a stammerer, to be borne in mind and
followed.
246. Are there other causes for defects of speech, or
even ahsence of si:)eech ?
Yes, there are several. A child may be born with
defective or absent hearing, or some serious inflamma-
tion may happen to his ears, leading to deafness before
he commences to talk. This will make him a deaf-
mute. He will probably be a deaf-mute if his ears are
seriously involved, leading to deafness, at any time up
to seven years old. The part of the ear attacked in
190 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
these cases is what is called the internal ear. The in-
ternal ear is the delicate end organ of the auditory
nerve, just as the eye is the delicate end organ of the
optic nerve. The child may fail to hear sounds be-
cause his brain is unable to appreciate them, and not
because there is any defect in the auditory nerve. If
he does not attempt to talk by the time he is five or six
years old tliere is probably some defect of the brain.
A child may have some defect of the speech apparatus
in the brain leading to dumbness. It may follow some
acute disease or some emotional disturbance or nervous
exhaustion, or follow a fit, or even be due to the irrita-
tion of a tapeworm. The disease may point to some
serious mischief in the shape of a tumor in the brain
or to an obstructed blood supply. Your doctor must
decide the cause for you. If it is of a functional
nature it will get well ; if due to some grave mischief
it will also probably recover, but its cause will remain,
and that cause may be dangerous to life.
Sometimes a child has not the full use of his lips or
his tongue, or both of them, from a defect in the lower
grade nervous apparatus presiding over these move-
ments. He experiences difficulties with the letters p
and b ; perhaps changes them into f and v, 1 and t into
y and th, or he lisps in a very pronounced manner.
His intelligence is unimpaired, but he cannot manage
to articulate properly. His conversation may be quite
unintelligible.
Defective speech may be due to tongue-tie or a high
vault of the mouth (a high vault of the mouth may be
associated with deficient intelligence), or to cleft palate
or large tonsils, or adenoid vegetations, or to some
disease causing obstruction inside the nose, or to paral-
ysis of the palate after diphtheria.
247. What is the Treatment ?
If there is any anatomical defect this must be rem-
edied. If a child is in danger of losing his speech from
CHILDHOOD. — EXERCISE. 191
destruction of the hearing he must be taught to speak
by imitating the various movements necessary to pro-
duce the appropriate sound. These movements will
have to be shown him in an exaggerated way^ so that he
may the more readily imitate them. A skilful teacher
will, of course, be necessary. He will probably en-
deavor to convey his ideas and wants by means of signs.
These must be forbidden, or he will lose what power of
speech he possesses, and become a deaf-mute. If his
speech is defective he must be taught to speak correctly
in exactly the same way as if he were a deaf-mute, but
in this case he will have the advantage of being able to
imitate the sound he hears. Deaf-mutes from birth
cannot be taught to speak with success until they are
six years old.
EXERCISE.
248. Do you ajoprove, during the summer months, of
sending a child out before ireahfast 9
If the child be robust, I do, when the weather per-
mits, and provided that the wind be neither in an
easterly nor in a northeasterly direction ; indeed, he
can scarcelg le too much in the open air. He must not
be allowed to stand about draughts or about entries,
and the only way to prevent him doing so is for the
mother herself to accompany the nurse. She will then
kill two birds with one stone, as she will, by doing so,
benefit her own as well as her child^s health. But if
the child be delicate, he should not go out until after
breakfast.
249. Ought a child to he early put on his feet to walh 9
No ; let him learn to walk himself. He ought to be
put upon a carj^et. It will be found that when he is
strong enough he will hold by a chair, and will stand
alone ; when he can do so, and attempts to walk, he
should then be supported. You must, on first putting
him upon his feet, be guided by his own wishes. He
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will, as soon as lie is strong enough to walk, have the
inclination to do so. When he has the inclination and
the strength it will be folly to restrain him ; if he have
neither the inclination nor the strength it will be absurd
to urge him on. Rely, therefore, to a certain extent,
upon the inclination of the child himself. Self-reliance
cannot be too early taught him, and, indeed, every one
else. In the generality of instances, however, a cliild
is generally put on his feet too soon, and the bones
(especially if he be rickety), being very flexible, bend,
causing bowed and bandy legs ; or the knees, being
weak, approximate too closely together, and thus they
become knock-kneed. This advice of not putting a
child early on his feet I must strongly insist on, as
many mothers are so ridiculously ambitious that their
young ones should walk early — that they should walk
before other children of their acquaintance have at-
tempted — that they have frequently caused the above
lamentable deformities ; which are a standing reproach
to them during the rest of their lives !
250. Do you approve of tahy carriages f
Yes. When a child is strong enough he had better
walk as much as he will.
In very cold weather, or in a very young infant, the
warmth of the nurse^s body, while he is being carried,
helps to keep him warm, he himself being naturally
cold. In point of fact, the child, while being borne in
the nurse's arms, reposes on the nurse, warm and sup-
ported, as though he were in a nest !
A nurse's arm is the only proper carriage for a young
child to take exercise on. She ought to change about,
first carrying him on the one arm and then on the
other. Nursing him on one arm only might give his
body a twist on one side, and thus might cause de-
formity.
251. Supposing it he tvet under foot, tut dry above y do
you tlien approve of sending a cliild out f
CHILDHOOD. — EXERCISE. 193
If the wind be neither in the east nor the northeast,
and if the air be not damjD, let him be well wrapped up
and sent out. In the management of a child, we must
take care neither to coddle nor to expose him unneces-
sarily, as both are dangerous.
Never send a child out to walk in a fog ; he will, if
you do, be almost sure to catch cold. It would be much
safer to send him out in rain than in fog, though
neither the one nor the other would be desirable.
252. How many times a day m fine weatlier ought a
cliild to he sent out f
As often as it be possible. If a child lived more in
the open air than he is wont to do, he would not be so
susceptible to disease, nor would he suffer so much from
teething, or from catching cold.
253. Sup2^osing the day to he wet^ tvhat exercise luould
you then recommend ?
The child ought to run either about a large room or
about the hall ; and if it does not rain violently, put
on his hat and throw up the window, taking care while
the window is open that he does not stand still. A
wet day is the day for him to hold his high court of
revelry, and " to make him as happy as the day is
long."
Do not on any account allow' him to sit any length
of time at a table, amusing himself with books, etc. ;
let him be active and stirring, that his blood may freely
circulate as it ought to do, and that his muscles may be
well developed. I would rather see him actively en-
gaged in mischief than sitting still doing nothing ! He
ought to be put on the carpet, and should then be
tumbled and rolled about, to make the blood bound
merrily through the vessels, to stir up the liver, to pro-
mote digestion, and to open the bowels.
254. Supposing it to he winter, and the iveather to he
very cold, ivoulcl you still send a child out 9
Decidedly, provided he be well wrapped up. The
'3
194 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
cold will brace and strengthen liim. Cold weather is
the finest tonic in the world.
In frosty weather, the roads being slippery, when yoU'
send him out to walk put a pair of large old woolen
stockings over his boots or shoes. This will not only
keep his feet and his legs warm, but it will prevent him
from falling down and hurting himself. While thus
equipped he may even walk on a slide of ice without
falling down !
In the winter time a child requires, to keep him
warm, plenty of flannel, plenty of food, plenty of fresh
and genuine milk, plenty of water in his tub to wash
and bathe him in the morning, plenty of exercise, and
plenty of play, and then he may brave the frosty air.
It is the coddled, the half -washed, and the half -starved
child — half-washed and half-starved from either the
mother's ignorance or from the mother's timidity — that
is the chilly starveling, catching cold at every breath
of wind, and every time he either walks or is carried
out, a puny, skinny, scraggy scarecrow, more dead than
alive, and more fit for his grave than for the rough world
he will have to struggle in ! If the above advice be
strictly followed a child may be sent out in the coldest
weather, even
" When icicles hang by the wall,
And Dick the shepherd blows his nail ;
And Tom bears logs into the hall,
And milk comes frozen home in pail."
Shakspeare.
255. What is the test way to give a child exercise?
Undoubtedly the best for infants is that obtained by
allowing them to roll on the floor, rubbing or sham-
pooing them, and being carried in the nurse's arms. I
object to ordinary Baby carriages as being conducive
to spinal and other complaints, and as a courting of
accidents. There are less objections to the kind when
the child can lie the length of the body. Children
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should not be '^ tossed " or made to " see London/^ as it is
facetiously termed. I refer to lifting a child by pressing
the hands against the ears. This ought to be called
" daring death." A simple quick turn of the hands, in
opposite directions, and the joint between the head and
neck is easily broken^ and sudden death occurs. A child
begins to crawl well about the ninth month and to get
from chair to chair. Until able to walk it should be
carried by the nurse. In summer, an infant may be
taken out when two weeks old ; in winter, at the end of a
month ; after the third month, every day. These direc-
tions are subject to weather and the wind. Northeasterly
and easterly winds are to be avoided. In wet weather,
let fun and frolic be in the nursery, with as little use of
the brain at pictures and books as possible.
AMUSEMEN'TS.
256. Have you any remarlcs to make on the amuse-
ments of a child?
Let the amusements of a child be as much as possible
out of doors ; let him spend the greater part of every
day in the open air ; let him exert himself as much as
he please — his feelings will tell him when to rest and
when to begin again; let him be what Nature intended
him to be — a happy, laughing, joyous child. Do not
let him be always poring over books —
" Books ! 'tis a dull and endless strife,
Come, hear the woodland linnet !
How sweet his music ! On my life,
There's more of wisdom in it.
And hark ! how blithe the throstle sings I
He, too, is no mean preacher ;
Come forth into the light of things —
Let Nature be your teacher.
She has a world of ready wealth
Our minds and hearts to bless —
Spontaneous wisdom breathed by health,
Truth breathed by cheerfulness.
196 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
One impulse from a vernal wood
May teach you more of man,
Of moral evil and of good,
Than all the sages can." — Wordsworth.
He ought to be encouraged to engage in those games
wherein the greatest number of muscles are brought into
play. For instance, to play at ball, or hoop, or football,
to play at horses, to run to certain distances and back ;
and, if a girl, to amuse herself with a skipping rope,
such being excellent exercise —
*' By sports like these are all their cares beguiled,
The sports of children satisfy the child." — Goldsmith.
Every child, where it is practicable, should have a
small plot of ground to cultivate, that he may dig and
delve in, and make dirt pies if he choose. Children
nowadays, unfortunately, are not allowed to soil their
hands and their fine clothes. For my own part, I dis-
like such model children. Let a child be natural ; let
him, as far as is possible, choose his own sports. Do
not be always interfering with his pursuits, and be
finding fault with him. Eemember, what may be
amusing to you may be distasteful to him. I do not, of
course, mean but that you should constantly have a
watchful eye over him. Do not let him see that he is
under restraint or surveillance ; if you do, you will
never discover his true character and inclinations. Do
not dim the bright sunshine of his early life by constantly
checking and thwarting him. Tupper beautifully says —
" And check not a child in his merriment —
Should not his morning be sunny ? "
When, therefore, he is either in the nursery or in the
playground, let him shout, and riot, and romp about as
much as he please. His lungs and his muscles want
developing, and his nerves require strengthening ; and
how can such be accomplished unless you allow them to
be developed and strengthened by natural means ?
The nursery is a child's own domain j it is his castle.
CHILDHOOD. — AMUSEMENTS. 197
and lie should be Lord Paramount therein. If he
choose to blow a whistle^ or to spring a rattle, or to
make any other hideous noise, which to him is sweet
music, he should be allowed, without let or hindrance,
to do so. If any members of the family have weak
nerves, let them keep at a respectful distance.
A child who never gets into mischief must be either
sly, or delicate, or idiotic ; indeed, the system of many
persons, in bringing up children, is likely to make them
either the one or the other. The present plan of train-
ing children is nearly all book work and very little play.
Play, and plenty of it, is necessary to the very exist-
ence of a child.
A boy not partial to mischief — innocent mischief —
and play, is unnatural. lie is a man before his time,
he is a nuisance, he is disagreeable to himself and to
every one around. He is generally a sneak and a little
humbug.
Girls, at the present time, are made clever simple-
tons ; their brains are worked with useless knowledge,
which totally unfits them for everyday duties. Their
muscles are allowed to be idle, making them limp and
flabby. The want of proper exercise ruins the com-
plexion, and their faces become the color of a tallow
candle ! And precious wives and mothers they make
when they do grow up. Grow up did I say ? They
grow all manner of ways, and are as crooked as crooked
sticks !
It is an unnatural thing to confine a child several,
hours a day to his lessons ; why, you might as well put
a colt in harness and make him work for his living !
He is made for play ; his roguish little eye, his lithe
figure, his antics, and his drollery all point out that he is
cut out for play — that it is as necessary to his existence
as the food he eats and the air he breathes !
A child ought not to be allowed to have playthings
with which he can injure either himself or others, such
198 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
as toy swords, toy cannons, toy paint-boxes, knives,
bows and arrows, hammers, chisels, saws, etc. He will
not only be likely to injure himself and others, but will
make sad havoc on furniture, house and other property.
Fan, frolic, and play ought, in all innocent ways, to be
encouraged ; but wilful mischief and dangerous games
ought, by every means, to be discountenanced. This
advice is frequently much needed, as children prefer to
have and delight in dangerous toys, and often coax and
persuade weak and indulgent mothers to gratify their
wishes.
Painted toys are, many of them, highly dangerous,
especially those painted green.
Children's paint-boxes are sometimes dangerous toys.
There are some warranted not to contain a particle of
poison of any kind : these ought to be chosen.
But remember, although he ought not to be allowed
to have poison paint-boxes or poison-painted toys, lie
must have an abundance of toys, such as the white wood
toys — brewer^ drays, millers' wagons, boxes of wooden
bricks, etc. The Noah's Ark is one of the most amus-
ing and instructive toys for a child. The clioice of toys
requires a word. I would say to you, make a study of
your child's opening predilections. Choose according
to sex, age, amusement to be derived, what conduces
best to bodily vigor and mental development. This
study will most probably be prophetic of the child's
future walk in life.
One of the great follies of the present age is children's
parties, where they are allowed to be dressed like grown-
up women, stuck out in petticoats, and encouraged to
eat rich cake and pastry, and to drink wine, and to sit
up late at night ! There is something disgusting and
demoralizing in all this. Their pure minds are blighted
by it. Do not let me be misunderstood : there is not
the least objection, but, on the contrary, great advantage,
for friends'" children to meet friends' children ; but then
CHILDHOOD. — AMUSEMENTS. 199
let them be treated as children, and not as men and
women
!
Do not make Sunday a day of gloom. Of all the
days in the week, Sunday should be the most cheerful
and pleasant. It is considered by our Church a festival,
and a glorious festival it ought to be made, and one on
which our Heavenly Father wishes to see all his children
happy and full of innocent joy ! Let Sunday, then, be
made a cheerful, joyous, innocently happy day, and not,
as it frequently is, the most miserable and dismal in the
week. It is my firm conviction that many men have
been made irreligious by the ridiculously strict and
dismal way they were compelled, as children, to spend
their Sundays. You can no more make a child religious
by gloomy asceticism than you can make people good by
Act of Legislature.
257. Do you approve of puUic playgrounds for chil-
dren?
It would be well, in every village, and in the outskirts
of every town, if a large plot of ground were set apart
for children to play in, and to go through regular
gymnastic exercises. Play is absolutely necessary to
a child^s very existence, as much as food and sleep.
Playgrounds and play are the best schools we have.
They teach a good deal not taught elsewhere. They give
lessons in health, which is the grandest wealth that can
be bestowed, ^'^ for health is Avealth." They prepare the
soil for the future schoolmaster. They clear the brain,
and thus the intellect. They strengthen the muscles ;
they make the blood course merrily through the arteries;
they bestow healthy food for the lungs ; they give an
appetite. They make a child, in due time, become every
inch a man ! Playgrounds and play are the finest
institutions we possess. What would our large public
schools be without their play and ball grounds ?
They would be shorn of half their splendor and their
usefulness !
200 ADVICE TO A MOTHEil.
There is so much talk nowadays about useful knowl-
edge that the importance of play and playgrounds is
likely to be forgotten. I cannot help thinking, however,
that a better state of things is dawning. " It seems to
be found out that in our zeal for useful knowledge, that
knowledge is found to be not the least useful which
treats boys as active, stirring, aspiring, and ready."
EDUCATIOiq".
258. Do you approve of infant schools 9 or Kindergar-
tens ?
I do, if the arrangements be such that health is pre-
ferred before learning.* Let children be only confined
for three or four hours a day, and let what little they
learn be taught as an amusement rather than as a
labor. A playground ought to be attached to an in-
fant school. In fine weather, for every half-hour they
spend in school they should spend one in the open air ;
and, in wet weather, they ought to have, in lieu of the
playground, a large room in which to romp. To de-
velop the different organs, muscles, and other parts
of the body, children require fresh air, a free use of
their lungs, active exercise, and their bodies to be
thrown into all manner of attitudes. Let a child mope
in a corner, and he will become stupid and sickly. The
march of intellect, as it is called, or rather the double
quick march of intellect as it should be called, has
stolen a march upon health. Only allow the march of
intellect and the march of health to take equal strides.
* *' According to Aristotle, more care should be taken of the
body than of the mind for the first seven years ; strict attention
to diet be enforced, etc The eye and ear of the child
should be most watchfully and severely guarded against con-
tamination of every kind, and unrestrained communication
with servants be strictly prevented. Even his amusements
should be under due regulation, and rendered as interesting and
intellectual as possible." — The Rev. John Williams, in his
Life and Actions of Alexander the Great.
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arid then we shall have me7is sana in corpore sano (a
sound mind in a sound body).
In the education of a young child, it is better to
instruct him by illustration, by pictures, and by en-
couraging observation on things around and about him,
than by books. It is surprising how much may be
taught in this way. Be careful to instill and to form
good habits : they will then stick to him for life.
Children at the present day are too highly educated —
their brains are over-taxed, and thus weakened. The
consequence is, that as they grow up to manhood, if they
grow up at all, they become fools ! Children are now
taught what formerly youths were taught. The cord of
a child's life is often snapped asunder in consequence of
over-education : —
" Screw not the cord too sharply, lest it snap." — Tennyson.
Treat a child as you would a young colt. Think only
at first of strengthening his body. Let him have a per-
fectly free, happy life, plenty of food to eat, abundance
of air to breathe, and no work to do. There is plenty
of time to think of his learning, of giving him brain
work. Do not make him old before his time.
259. At what age do you advise my child to 'begin his
course of education — to have his regulation lessons?
Regarding education, then, this should not be sys-
tematic until the eighth year. In the meantime, teaching
might progress from toys and pictures to simple books.
The brain, if forced, will truly respond; but this "'prema-
ture intellectual development will be only obtained at
the cost of debilitated constitutional powers.'''
260. At luhat age may a child, with safety, commence
his lessons f and lohich do you prefer — home or school
education f
The brain imist have b\it very little work imtil the
child be eight years old. Impress this advice upon your
memory, and let no foolish ambition to make your child
202 Advice to a mothee.
a clever child allow you, for one moment to swerve
from this advice.
Build up a strong healthy body, and in due time
the brain will bear a moderate amount of intellectual
labor.
Home is far preferable to a school education. At
home he is under your own immediate observation, and
is not liable to be contaminated by naughty children.
In every school there is necessarily a great mixture of
the good and the bad. A child, unfortunately, is
more likely to be led by the bad than by the good.
Moreover, if he be educated at home, the mother can
see tha,t his brain is not overworked. At school the
brain is apt to be overworked, and the stomach and the
muscles to be underworked.
261. Are you an advocate for a child 'being taught
singing ?
I consider singing a part of his education. Singing
expands the walls of the chest, strengthens and in-
vigorates the lungs, gives sweetness to the voice,
improves the pronunciation, and is a great pleasure
and amusement.
As I have given you so much advice, permit me, for
one moment, to address a word to the father of your
child : —
Let me advise you, then, Mr. Paterfamilias, to be
careful how you converse, what language you use, while
in the company of your child. Bear in mind, a child
is very observant, and thinks much, weighs well, and
seldoms forgets all you say and all you do ! Let no
hasty word, then, and more especially no oath or no
impious language, ever pass your lips, if your child
be within hearing. It is, of course, at all times wicked
to swear ; but it is heinously and unpardonably sinful
to swear in the presence of your child ! '' Childhood is
like a mirror^ catching and reflecting images. One
CHILDHOOD — EDUCATION. 203
impious or profane thought, uttered by a parent's lip,
may operate upon the young heart like a careless spray
of water thrown upon polished steel, staining it with
rust, which no after scouring can efface/''
Never talk secrets before a child — '^ little pitchers
have long ears ; " if you do, and he disclose your secrets,
as most likely he will, and thus make mischief, it will
be cruel to scold him for your imprudence ; you will
have yourself only to blame. Be most careful, then, in
the presence of your child, of what you say, and of
whom you speak. This advice, if followed, might save
a great deal of annoyance and vexation.
Study your child. There are dispositions and dis-
positions, characters and characters. Humanity is a
variable machine, affected by climate, by circumstances,
by surroundings. If the child be ^^ the father of the
man," note what you have to study. Next, let the deep
love you bear your offspring be your guide. Be quick
to praise, tardy to punish, firm to be obeyed. Let
justice clear your path as regards favoritism. Live
your youth over again in the pleasures and amusements
of the little ones. The influence of your daily lives ;
the influence of sanitation on health ; the influence of
toys ; the influence of tales and songs ; the influence of
teachings of a future state ; the inculcation of right
principles, will all be reflected in the child's life. The
charge of the young is a terrible, but wondrously happy,
responsibility.
What says Milton : —
" She went forth among her fruits and flowers,
To visit how they prosper, bud, and bloom.
The nursery, they at her coming spring,
And, touched by her fair tendance, gladlier grew."
And now, what is the use of these strivings, these
teachings, the inculcation of principles of all that is
good, and true, and noble, and divine ? What use ?
To whom do you owe some of the most blessed and hap-
^04 ADVICE TO A MOl^HEfi.
piest memories of life ? To your parents and teachers.
You have received and enjoyed these blessings. You
are bound to pass them on. What use ? The welfare
of the little ones in days to come ; the prevention of
wrongs of crime, the education of posterity. What use ?
That your boys, on sea and land, remembering home,
may touch nothing accursed — dead or living ; that your
girls may rival the beauty and the virtues of their
mother ; so that, long after you have passed to your
rest, these teachings, these principles inculcated, shall
live on, re-echoing along ^* the corridor of Time/^
SLEEP.
262. Do you approve of a child sleeping on a feather
hedf
No. A feather bed enervates his body. A horsehair
mattress is the best for a child to lie on. The pillow,
too, should be made of horsehair. A/ea^/^er pillow of ten
causes the head to be bathed in perspiration, making
him liable to catch cold. If he be at all rickety, if he
be weak in the neck, if he be inclined to stoop, or if he
be at all crooked, let him lie without a pillow.
263. Do you recommend a child, in the middle of the
day, to he put to sleep 9
Put him on his mattress aiualce, that he may sleep for
a couple of hours before dinner, then he will rise both
refreshed and strengthened for the remainder of the
day. I said, put down aiuahe. For the first few times
he might cry, but by perseverance he will without any
difficulty fall to sleep. The practise of sleeping before
dinner ought to be continued until he be three years
old, and if he can be prevailed upon, even longer. If
he do not sleep in the middle of the day, he will sleep
all the afternoon, and be cross in the evening ; and when
he does go to bed, he will probably be too tired to sleep,
or his nerves having been exhausted by the long wake-
fulness, he will fall into a troubled, broken slumber, and
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not into that sweety soft, gentle repose so characteristic
of healthy, happy childhood !
264. At luliat liour ought a child to he init to his heel
in the eveyiing?
At six in the winter, and at seven o'clock in thesnra-
mer. Regularity ought to be observed, as regularity is
very conducive to health. It is a reprehensible practise
to keep a child up until nine or ten o'clock at night.
If this be done he will become old before his time, and
the seeds of disease will be sown.
As soon as he can run, encourage him, for half an
hour before he goes to bed, to race either about the hall,
or the landing, or a large room ; this will be the best
means of warming his feet, of preventing chilblains, and
of making him sleep soundly.
265. Have you any directions to give me as to the
placing of my cliild in his led 9
If a child lie alone, place him fairly on his side in
the middle of the bed ; if it be winter time, see that
his arms and hands be covered with the bedclothes ; if
it be summer, his hands might be allowed to be outside
the clothes. In putting him down to sleep, you should
ascertain that his face be not covered with the bed-
clothes ; if it be, he will be poisoned with his own
breath — the breath constantly giving off carbonic acid
gas ; which gas must, if his face be smothered in the
clothes, be breathed — carbonic acid gas being highly
poisonous.
You can readily prove the existence of carbonic acid
gas in the breathing, by simply breathing into a little
lime-water ; after breathing for a few seconds into it, a
white film will form on the top ; the carbonic acid gas
from the breath unites with the lime of the lime-water
and the product of the white film is carbonate of lime.
266. Do you advise a hedroom to he darlcened at night f
A child sleeps sounder and sweeter in a dark than in
a light room. The crib ought not to face the window.
206 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
^*^as the light is best behind/"* — If a candle or fire be
in use, a screen must shade it from the child's eyes.
267. Which is the best position for a child ivhen sleep-
ing — on his iack, or on his side f
His side : he ought to be accustomed to change about,
on the right side one night, on the left another, and
occasionally on his back. By adopting this plan, you
will not only improve his figure, but likewise his health.
268. Do you advise, in the winter time, that there
should 1)6 a fire in the nursery ?
No, unless the weather be very cold. I dislike fires
in bedrooms, especially for children ; they are very
enervating, and make a child liable to catch cold.
If " a cold stable make a healthy hors'e,^' I am quite
sure that a moderately cold and well-ventilated bedroom
helps to make a healthy child. But still, in the winter
time, if the weather be biting cold, a fire in the bedroom
grate is desirable. The rule I would lay down is, do
not let the temperature of the room get lower than
60° Fahr. In bringing up children, we must never run
into extremes. The coddling system and the hardening
system are both to be deprecated ; the coddling system
will make the strong child weakly, while the hardening
system will probably kill a delicate one.
A child's bed ought to be comfortably covered with
blankets. I say blankets, as they are much superior
to coverlets. The perspiration will more readily pass
through a blanket than a coverlet. A thick coverlet
ought never to be us^ed. There is nothing better, for a
child^s bed, than the old-fashioned patchwork coverlet
as the perspiration will easily escape through it.
269. Should a child he luashed and dressed AS sooi^ as
HE awakes in the morning f
Yes, if he awake in anything like reasonable time. If he
doze after he be once awake, such slumber does him more
harm than good. He should be up every morning as
soon as it is light. If, as a child, he be taught to rise
CHIL13H00D. — SLEEP. 207
early, it will make him an early riser for life, and will
tend greatly to prolong both his existence and his
happiness.
Never aiuahe a healthy child from Ms sleep to dress him,
to give him medicine, or for any other purpose. Let
him always sleep as long as he can. The moment he
awakes let him be held out, and then let him be washed
and dressed. Do not wait, as many a silly nurse does,
until he has wetted his bed, until his blood be chilled,
and until he be cross, miserable, and uncomfortable !
The moment he leaves his bed, turn back to the
fullest extent the clothes, in order that they may be
throughly ventilated and sweetened. They ought to be
exposed to the air for at least an hour before the bed
be made. As soon as he leaves his room, be it winter
or summer, throw open the windows.
270. Ought a child to lie alone ?
Yes. He will rest more comfortably, and his sleep
will be more refreshing.
271. Supposing a child should not sleep ivell, luhat
ought to he done? Wo2ild you give hifn a dose of "com-
posing medicme ? "
Certainly not. Try the effect of exercise. Exercise
in the open air is the best composing medicine in the
world. Let tlie little fellow be well tired out, and there
will be little fear of his not sleeping.
272. Have you any further observations to mahe on
the subject of sleep f
Send a child joyful to bed. Do not, if you can pos-
sibly help it, let him go to bed crying. Let the last
impressions he has at night be of his happy home, and
of his loving father and mother, and let his last thoughts
be those of joy and gladness. He will sleep all the
sounder if he be sent to bed in such a frame of mind,
and he will be more refreshed and nourished in the
morning by his sleep.
273. Wliat are the usual causes of a child talking or
20B ADVICE TO A MOTifER.
toalhing m Ms sleep, and ivliat measures, during such
time, ought to he adopted to prevent him injuring him-
self^
In a perfectly natural state, sleep should be dream-
less and unconsciousness absolute. In some highly
nervous children, the offspring of nervous parents,
sleep may be accompanied by dreaming. The ideas
in the dream state, which have a physical basis in an
abnormal activity of nervous centers, bring into action
other nervous centers presiding over the organs of
speech, and the child speaks aloud in sequence to the
train of thoughts flowing through his brain (somnilo-
quism) ; or the ideas are of such a nature that they act
upon the nervous centers in which the emotions have
their origin, and the child screams, he is in a perfect
terror, the stimulation is so strong that it rudely awakens
the parts still locked in slumber (night-terrors) : or the
ideas generated act upon the nervous centers presiding
over walking or other complicated muscular movements,
and set them in motion (somnambulism).
The sleep-walker may execute the most complicated
and even dangerous muscular feats, such as would be
impossible in waking moments. Mental activity may
be preternaturally acute ; lessons can be learned, ex-
ercises written out on paper, and sums and other prob-
lems correctly worked out during sleep. In waking
moments the child has no knowledge of the occurrences
of the previous night. The child himself, the conscious
being, the Ego is asleep and unconscious, but under-
neath the placid surface some portions of his brain are
in an abnormal state of activity and restlessness, and
pass a sleepless or disturbed night, which is quite un-
natural.
Errors of diet in a child so predisposed might- excite
an attack, but over-pressure at school, over-mental and
emotional excitement, coupled with an unhealthy moral
environment, and physical weakness from unhealthy
CHILDHOOD. — SECOND DEKTITIOi^'. 209
surroundings, are much more usual excitants of an un-
stable nervous system, wliicli is improperly controlled,
is in a state of irritability ready to be set in action on the
most trifling provocation, and sleeps at its best, as it
were, with one eye open.
To prevent him throwing himself out of the window,
have bars to his chamber casement, and if that be not
practicable, have either nails or screws driven into the
window sash to allow the window to open only for a
sufficient space for ventilation, and have a screw window
fastening, in order that he cannot, without difficulty,
open the window ; have a trusty person to sleep in his
room, with directions not to rouse him from his sleep,
but to gently lead him back to his bed. This may
frequently be done without awaking him. Consult a
medical man, who will adopt means to brace his nerves,
and to strengthen his general system. A trip to the
coast and sea-bathing, in such a case, is often of great
service.
SECOND DENTITION.
274. WJien does a child commence to cut Ms second set
of teeth f
Generally at seven years old ; but it should be borne in
mind that the second set of teeth is actually being
formed from the very commencement of life, under the
first tier of teeth. But the second set do not come
into play until fho, first teeth, having done their duty,
loosen and fall out, thus making room for the more
numerous, larger, stronger, and more permanent teeth,
which have to last for the remainder of life. HhQ first
set is sometimes cut with a great deal of difficulty, and
may be associated with various diseases ; the second, or
permanent teeth, come easily and are unaccompanied by
any disorder. The following is the process : — One after
another of the^r^^ set gradually loosen, and either drop
out, or with little pain are readily pulled out ; under
these, the second — the permanent — teeth make their
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210 ADVICE TO A MOTHEil.
appearance^ and fill up the vacant spaces. The fang
of the tooth that has dropped out is nearly all absorbed
or eaten away^ leaving little more than the crown. The
first set consists of twenty ; the second consist of thirty-
twOj including the wise-teeth, which are not generally
cut until after the age of twenty-seven.
Pay particular attention to the teeth of your children.
Besides their being ornamental, their regularity and
soundness are of great importance to the present, as well
as to the future, "health of your offspring. If there be
any irregularity in the appearance of the second set, lose
no time in consulting an experienced dentist.
ON" DISEASE, ETC.
275. Do you tliinh it important that I sliould he
made acquainted ivitli the symptoms of the serious
diseases of children ?
Certainly. I am not advocating the doctrine of a
mother treating serious diseases ; far from it, it is not
her province, except in certain cases of extreme urgency,
where a medical man cannot be pi'ocured, and where
delay might be death ; but I do insist upon the necessity
of her knowing the symptoms of disease. My belief is,
that if parents were better informed on such subjects,
many children's lives might be saved, much suffering
averted, and sorrow spared. The fact is, the knowledge
of the symptoms of disease is, to a mother, almost
a sealed book. If she were better acquainted with these
matters, how much more useful would she be in a sick
room, and how much more readily would she enter into
the plans and views of the medical man ! By her knowd-
edge of symptoms, and by having his advice in time,
she would nip disease in the bud, and the fight might
end in favor of life, for '' sickness is just a fight be-
tween life and death." — Geo. MacDonald.
It is really lamentable to contemplate the amount
of ignorance that still exists among mothers in all that
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appertains to the diseases of children, although, for-
tunately, they are beginning to see and to feel the im-
portance of gaining instruction on such subjects ; but
the light is only dawning. A writer in the Medical
Times Gazette makes the following remarks, which some-
what bear on the subject in question : — ^^ In spite of the
knowledge and clear views possessed by the profession on
all that concerns the management of children, no fact is
more palpable than that the most grievous ignorance and
incompetency prevail respecting it among the public.
We want some means of making popular the knowledge
which is now almost restricted to medical men or, at
most, to the well-educated classes."
In the earlier editions of this work I did not give the
treatment of any serious diseases, however urgent. In
later editions, I have been induced to give the treatment
of some of the more urgent serious diseases, when a
medical man cannot instantly be procured, and where
delay might be death ; and I shall give some prescrip-
tions to be used in an emergency, with general direc-
tions, which will be found even better than prescriptions
(see Appendix).
^^ As an old physician of some experience in complaints
of infants and children,. I may perhaps be allowed to
suggest that in a future edition you should add a few
words on the actual treatment of some of the more urgent
infantile diseases. It is very right to caution parents
against superseding the doctor, and attempting to man-
age serious illness themselves ; but your advice, with
very small exceptions, always being, ^ to lose no time
in sending for a medical man,"* much valuable and often
irremediable time may be lost ivlien a medical man is
not to he had. Take, for instance, a case of croup ;
there are no directions given at all, except to send for
a medical man, and always to keep medicines in the
house which he may have directed. But how can this
apply to a first attack ? You state that a first attack is
212 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
generally the worst. But why is it so ? Sim23ly because
it often occurs when the parents do not recognize it,
and it is allowed to get to a Avorse point than in sub-
sequent attacks, when they are thoroughly alive to it.
As the very best remedy, and often the only essential
one, if given early, is a full emetic, surely it is better
that you should give some directions as to this in a
future edition, and I can speak from my own experience
when I say that an emetic, given in time, and repeated
to free vomiting, will cut short any case of croup. In
nine cases out of ten the attack takes place in the even-
ing or early night, and when vomiting is effected, the
dinner of that day is brought up nearly undigested, and
the severity of the symptoms at once cut short. When-
ever any remedy is valuable, the more by its being ad-
ministered in time, it is surely wisest to give directions
as to its use, although, as a general rule, it is much
better to advise the sending for medical advice.
'^ Such a book ought to be made as complete as pos-
sible, and the objections to medical treatment being so
explained as to induce mothers to try to avoid medical
men are not so serious as that of leaving them without
any guide in those instances where every delay is dan-
gerous, and yet where medical assistance is not to be
obtained or to be had quickly."' — Sir C. LococJc,
In all the prescriptions given, I have endeavored to
make them as simple as possible, and whenever practi-
cable, have avoided recommending powerful drugs, as a
child requires much more care and gentleness in his
treatment than an adult. I often think it would be
better to leave a child to N^ature rather than to give
him powerful and large doses of medicines.
276. At ivliat age, and i7i luliat neigliborliQod, is a
child most lialle to Croup, andivlien is a another to know
that it is about to take ])lace f
It is unusual for a child, until he be two years old, to
have Croup \ but, from that time until the age of three
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years, he is more liable to it than at any other period.
The liability after three years gradually lessens, until
the seventh year, after which time it is rare.
A child is more liable to croup in a low and damp,
than in a high and dry neighborhood ; indeed, in some
situations, croup is almost an unknown disease, while
in others it is very frequent. It is more likely to pre-
vail when the wind is easterly or northeasterly.
There is no disease that creeps on more insidiously or
requires more prompt treatment than croup. The child
at first seems to be laboring under a slight cold, and is
troubled with a little dry cough ; he is hot and fretful,
and hoarse when he cries. Hoarseness is one of the
earliest symptoms of croup. A young child, unless he
be going to have croup, is seldom hoarse ; if, therefore,
your child be hoarse, he should be kept in a room at a
temperature of 60° Fahr. and carefully watched, that,
as soon as croup be detected, not a moment be lost in
applying the proper remedies.
His voice at length becomes gruff, he breathes with
a hissing noise, and the cough becomes ^' brassy " or
'^ croupy.^' These three symptoms prove that the dis-
ease is now fully formed. The throat and glottis or
chink of the windpipe are inflamed and swollen. The
swelling of the glottis impedes the entry of air to the
lungs and it is further hindered by spasm of the part.
The spasm is worse at night. It sometimes comes on
without any previous warning, the little fellow going
to bed apparently quite well, until the mother is
awakened, perplexed and frightened, in the middle of
the night, by finding him laboring under the charac-
teristic cough and the other symptoms of croup. After
fighting for his breath for a time, before the arrival
perhaps of medical assistance the spasm passes away and
he falls into a comfortable sleep. These attacks may
last for several nights in succession. In this case there
is, unlike the other, a trifling amount of inflammation
214 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
of the larynx and much spasm (False Croup). If she
delay either to send for assistance^ or if proper medi-
cines he not iyistantly given, in a few hours treatment
will probably be of no avail.
When once a child has had croup the after attacks
are generally milder. If he has oixce had an attack of
croup, always have in the house some Ipecacuanha Wine,
to fly to at a mementos notice, and where practicable,
whether the case be severe or mild, send immediately
for medical aid. There is no disease in which time is
more precious than in croup, and where the delay of an
hour may decide either for life or for death.
277. But suppose a medical man is not immediately
to he procured, what then am I to do f
At the earliest onset of the disease, give a teaspoon-
ful of Ipecacuanha Wine, every five minutes, until free
vomiting be excited. If, after the expiration of an hour
(no doctor having arrived), the Ipecacuanha Wine be
not sufficiently powerful for the purpose, although it
generally is so, then let Prescription XIY. (see Appendix)
be substituted.
After the vomiting, place the child for a quarter of
an hour in a warm bath.* When out of the bath give
him small doses of Ipecacuanha Wine every two or three
hours. Prescription XV., in Appendix, is a palatable
form for the mixture.
The Ipecacuanha Wine which is given at first must
he only Ipecacuanha Wine, without a drop of either water
or syrup.
A large sponge dipped out of very hot water, and ap-
plied to the throat, and frequently renewed, affords
great relief, and ought in all cases to be adopted during
the time the emetic is being administered.
If it be a severe case of croup, and does not in the
* See "Warm Baths" — directions and precautions to be ob-
served, page 325.
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course of two hours yield to the Ipecacuanha emetic,
apply linseed meal poultices to the throat, renewed
every three hours ; or paint the neck round the throat
with Tincture of Iodine, and repeat in twelve hours if
there be no blistering.
Let him live on milk and beef -tea as long as there is any
fever. The room must be well ventilated and at a tem-
perature of 60° Fahr. night and day. The air of the
apartment must be kept moist by the evaporation of
boiling water. A common or special kettle can be used
for this purpose. A better plan than that is to surround
his cot with hangings, make an old-fashioned, four-
poster bed of it, with an open roof, or the same may be
partially effected by means of a large towel-horse, and
allow the croup kettle to discharge steam inside it.
The temperature inside a roofed tent must not exceed
70° Fahr., and a thermometer is to be kept inside it to
register the temperature. Should the temperature be
allowed to exceed 70° Fahr. the child becomes weak-
ened rather than strengthened, and the application does
more harm than good. The treatment of croup is some-
times very simple. Notwithstanding its occasional sim-
plicity, it is your duty, where practicable, to send, at
the very onset of the disease, for a medical man. Yon
must send for a medical man because the croup may be
diphtheritic croup, and not simple croup, the symptoms
may be so much alike. Further, instead of improving,
the difficulty of breathing may become more and more
pronounced, in spite of your treatment, and it may
be necessary to place a tube in the windpipe (trach-
eotomy), or place one in the glottis or chink of the
windpipe itself (intubation), to allow your child to
breathe. If this is not done he will suffocate. If the
croup is diphtheritic a different line of treatment will
have to be adopted, and that your doctor is alone
capable of carrying out.
If your child is subject to false croup, or croup, you
216 ^ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
must consult a doctor — he will probably not be well
nntil lie has had such sources of irritation as enlarged
tonsils and adenoid vegetations removed. Have him
examined to see if he is suffering in this way. Children
who are subject to croup should be warmly clad, but not
coddled. Sponge the child with tepid water every morn-
ing. Do not let him run about with bare legs. If your
place of residence is damp and low-lying, you had better
select one more suitably situated. Do not send him out
of doors in easterly or northeasterly winds.
Iliecacuanlm Wi7ie must be genuine. If ever your
child has had croup, alicays have in the house a 2-oz.
bottle of the Wine that you may be able to resort to at
a mementos notice.
Ipecacuanha Wine, unfortunately, is not a medicine
that keeps well ; therefore, every three or four months,
a fresh bottle ought to be procured, either from a med-
ical man or from a chemist. As long as the Ipeca-
cuanha Wine remains clear, it is good ; but as soon as it
becomes turhid, it is bad, and ought to be replaced by a
fresh snj^ply. An intelligent correspondent of mine
makes the following valuable remarks on the preserva-
tion of Ipecacuanha Wine : ^' Now^ I know that there are
some medicines and chemical preparations which, though
they spoil rapidly when at all exposed to the air, yet
will keep perfectly good for an indefinite time if her-
metically sealed up in a perfectly full bottle. If so,
would it not be a valuable suggestion if some firm, of
undoubted reliabilit}^, would put up 1-oz. jjhials of
Ipecacuanha Wine of guaranteed purity, sealed up so as
to keep good so long as unopened, and sent out in sealed
packages, with the guarantee of their name ? By keep-
ing a few such ounce bottles in an unopened state in
one's house, one might rely on being ready for any
emergency."
The above suggestion of preserving Ipecacuanha
Wine in ounce bottles, quite full, and hermetically
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sealed, is a very good one. The best way of hermet-
ically sealing the bottle would be, to cut the cork level
with the lip of the bottle, and to cover the cork with
sealing wax, in the same manner as wine merchants
serve some kinds of their wines, and then to lay the
bottles on their sides in sawdust in the cellar. I have
no doubt, if such a plan were adopted, the Ipecacuanha
Wine would for a length of time keep good.
278. / have seen CMld-croioing mentioned as a for-
midable disease, but you did not tell me that it could he
mistaken for croup.
Child-crowing, or spasm of the glottis, is occasionally
mistaken for genuine croup. It differs from genuine
croup in the absence of any '^'cold,^" of the dry cough,
of the heat of skin, and that there is no disturbance
between the intervals of " crowing." It occurs fre-
quently at any part of the day, and not specially at
night. Rickety children under eighteen months of age
are subject to it, and it is a most perilous disease. It is
a more frequent disorder than the latter, and requires a
different plan of treatment.
It comes on in paroxysms. During the intervals the
child appears perfectly well ; hence the dangerous nature
of the disease is either overlooked, or is lightly thought
of, until perhaps a paroxysm worse than usual takes
place, and the little patient dies suddenly of suffocation,
overwhelming the mother with terror, wath confusion,
and dismay.
The sympto7ns of a paroxysm are as follows : — The
child suddenly loses and fights for his breath, and on
recovering, it makes a noise very much like that of
crowing ; hence the name '^ child-crowing." The face
during the paroxysm becomes bluish or livid. In a
favorable case, after a severe struggle of a few seconds,
or a minute, to inspire air, he regains his breath, and is
perfectly well until another paroxysm occurs. In an
unfavorable case, the upper part or chink of the wind-
218 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
pipe — tlie glottis — remains for a minute or two closed,
and the child, not being able to breathe, drops a corpse
in his nurse^'s arms ! Many children who are said to
have died of fits have really died of child-crowing.
Child-crowing is very apt to pass into convulsions,
a complication which adds very much to the danger.
Such a complication requires the constant supervision
of an experienced medical man.
I have again called your attention to the subject, as
nearly every life might be saved if a mother knew the na-
ture and the treatment of the complaint, and of the great
necessity, during the paroxysm, of^^romjot and proper
measures. For, too frequently, before a medical man
has had time to arrive, the child has breathed his last,
the parent herself being perfectly ignorant of the neces-
sary treatment ; hence the vital importance of the
subject, and the paramount necessity of imparting such
information, in a popular style, in conversations of this
kind.
279. Wliat treatment, then, during a paroxysm of
Child-croiving should you advise 9
The first thing, of course, to be done, is to send im-
mediately for a medical man. Have a plentiful supply
of cold and of hot water always at hand, ready at a mo-
ment's notice for use. The instant the paroxysm comes
on, plentifully and perseveringly dash cold water upon
his head and face. Put his feet and legs in hot salt,
mustard and water ; and, if necessary, place him up to
his neck in a hot bath, still dashing water upon his face
and head. If he does not quickly come round, sharply
smack his back and buttocks.
In the paroxysm of child-crowing, pull the tongue of
the child forward. The plan of pulling the tongue for-
ward opens the windpipe, and thus air is admitted into
the lungs, and impending suffocation averted. If this
plan were generally known and adopted, many precious
lives might be saved.
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There is nothing more frightfully agonizing to a
mother^s feelings than to see her child strangled — as it
were — before her eyes, by a paroxysm of child-crowing.
During the intervals, care and attention must be paid
to his diet. If the child be breathing a smoky, close
atmosphere, he should be immediately removed to a
pure one. There is no remedy equal to a change of air
— to a dry, bracing neighborhood. Even if it be winter,
it is the best remedy, either to the sea-coast, or to a
healthy mountainous district.. Where it is not prac-
ticable to send a child from home, then let him be sent
out of doors the greater part of every day ; let him, in
point of fact, almost live in the open air. Cold sponging
of the body, too, is useful. Consult your medical man.
He will prescribe suitable drugs to soothe the nervous
system and cure the rickets, and advise you as to a more
judicious dietary and hygienic environment.
I have again dwelt on this subject at some length — it
being a most important one — as if the above advice were
more generally known and followed, nearly every child
laboring under this complaint would be saved ; while
now, as coroners' inquests abundantly testify, the dis-
ease carries off yearly a large number of victims.
280. What are the sym^otoms of Inflammation of the
Lungs 9
If the child have a shivering fit (he may be con-
vulsed) ; an attack of sickness or diarrhea ; a very hot
and dry skin ; parched lips ; great thirst ; flushed
cheeks ; if he be dull and heavy, wishing to be quiet in
his cot or crib ; a diminished appetite ; a furred tongue ;
if his mouth be burning hot and dry ; * his water scanty
and high-colored, staining the napkin or the linen ;
his breathing very rapid, grunting and S7iiffing, expi-
ration being most prominent, and followed by inspiration
* If you put your finger into the mouth of a child laboring
under inflammation of the lungs, it is like putting your finger
into a hot apple-pie, the heat is so great.
220 ADVICE TO A 3I0THEII.
{the reverse is the natural order); a short, hacking, dry
cough ; his skin l)urning hot : — then there is no doubt
that inflammation of the lungs has taken place.
No time should be lost in sending for medical aid ;
indeed, the hot, dry mouth and skin, and short, hurried
breathing would be sufficient cause for your procuring
immediate assistance. If inflammation of the lungs
were properly treated at the onset, a child would scarcely
ever be lost by that disease. I say this advisedly, for in
my own practise, provided I am called in early, and if
my plans are strictly carried out, I scarcely ever lose a
child from inflammation of the lungs.
281. What is the treatment for Inflammation of the
Lungs in the absence of the doctor 9
Keep the child to one room — to his bedroom, and to
his bed. Let the chamber be properly ventilated, and
the temperature not less than 60° Fahr. If the weather
be cool, let a small fire be in the grate ; otherwise, he
is better without a fire. Let him live on milk and, to
quench his thirst, such simple beverages as barley water,
toast and water, or lemonade.
The treatment of inflammation of the lungs should
not be undertaken by yourself. Danger may arise from
weakness of the heart, and a skilful doctor will early
detect the signs and ward off the impending evil. At
the termination of the fever the child may become ex-
hausted, and very generally this occurs. Hot- water
bottles in the bed and the administration of stimulants
are here requisite. There may be pleurisy with the in-
flammation of the lungs, and that may require opium,
and opium is a drug you should not use. '^ Matter ^^
may form in the chest, and that requires a skilled
physician for its detection and treatment. There are
many reasons, therefore, why you should not undertake
the responsibility, unless from force of circumstances
it is thrust upon you.
282. What are the symptoms of Bronchitis ?
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Bronchitis is a much more frequent disease than in-
flammation of the lungs ; indeed, it is one of the most
common complaints both of infants and of children,
while inflammation of the lungs, in comparison with
bronchitis, is comparatively a rare disease. Bronchitis
is not nearly such a dangerous disease as inflammation
of the lungs.
For the first few days the child has a heavy cold ;
he has not his usual spirits. Then, instead of the cold
leaving him, it becomes more confirmed ; he is now
really poorly, fretful, and feverish ; his breathing be-
comes rather hurried and oppressed ; his cough is hard
and dry, and loud ; he wheezes, and if you put your
ear to his naked back, between his shoulder-blades,
you will hear the wheezing more distinctly. If he be
at the breast, he does not suck with his usual avidity ;
the cough, notwithstanding the breast is a great com-
fort to him, compels him frequently to lose the nipple ;
his water is scanty and rather high-colored, staining
the napkin and smelling strongly. He is generally
worse at night.
Well, then, remember — if the child be feverish, if he
have symptoms of a heavy cold, if he have an oppression
of breathing, if he wheezes, and if he have a tight, dry,
noisy cough, you may be satisfied that he has an attack
of bronchitis.
283. Hoiu can I distinguish letiueen Broncliitis and
Inflaimnation of the Lnngs 9
In Bronchitis, the skin is warm, but moist ; in Inflam-
mation of the Lungs, it is hot and dry ; in bronchitis,
the mouth is warmer than usual, but moist ; in inflam-
mation of the lungs, it is burning hot ; in bronchitis,
the breathing is rather hurried, and attended with
wheezing ; in inflammation of the lungs, it is very short
and panting, and is unaccompanied with wheezing,
although occasionally a very slight crackling sound
might be heard ; in bronchitis, the cough is long and
223 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
noisy ; in inflammation of the lungs^ it is short and
feeble ; in bronchitis, the child is cross and fretful ; in
inflammation of the lungs, he is dull and heavy, and
his countenance denotes distress.
We have sometimes a combination of bronchitis and
of inflammation of the lungs, an attack of the latter
following the former, and sometimes portions of the
lungs become solid because the air cannot reach them,
owing to the bronchial tubes being stopped up by thick
mucus. Then the symptoms will be modified, and
will partake of the character of the two diseases. The
fever will be greater — in simple bronchitis the tem-
perature is raised two or three degrees at night — the
difficulty of breathing is greater, the nostrils work,
and the respirations become grunting, the same alter-
ation in rhythm being observed as in inflammation of
the lungs (see Conversation 272). The skin is hot and
dry. If he has great difficulty in getting his breath,
the lower part of his chest falls in every time he breathes,
and the drawing of his breath is evidently an effort ;
his face becomes dusky-looking— beads of perspiration
stand out on his face and brow, and he may be con-
vulsed. The child is in great danger. If this is not
already done, a medical man must be summoned in-
stantly. It may be advisable to let blood, and other
special treatment may have to be adopted to prop up
and assist his failing heart. Bronchitis, 'therefore, is a
disease which must be treated with respect.
284. How would you nurse a case of Broncliitis?
Always send for your medical attendant, and, in his
absence, confine the child to his bedroom, and if very
ill, to his bed. The temperature of the chamber must
not be less than 60° Fahr. See that the room is prop-
erly ventilated.
Let him lie either outside the bed or on a sofa ; if he
be very ill, inside the bed, with a sheet and a blanket
only to cover him, but no thick coverlet. If he be
CHILDHOOD. — OK DISEASE, ETC. 223
allowed to lie on the lap it only heats him and makes
him restless. If he be at the breast, keep him to it ; let
him have no artificial food, unless, if he be thirsty, a little
toast and water. If he be weaned, let him have milk to
drink and toast and water, or barley water, to quench his
thirst. Let the bowels be opened by a mild aperient. If
the bronchitis is severe, rig up a tent without a roof over
his crib, or over the head of his crib by means of a towel-
horse, and use a croup kefctle. The temperature in the
tent, if covered in, must not exceed 70° Fahr. For a
mild bronchitis, wrap the chest in a thin layer of cotton
wool. If the disease occurs in an infant, do not poul-
tice him — the weight of poultices is too great. If he
is very '' stuffy " in the chest, hot fomentations made
by wringing out flannel in boiling water and covered
with pink jaconet may be used — they will relieve this.
Before applying the fomentation, test it on the back of
your hand. Older children can have linseed-meal poul-
tices — with a teaspoonful of mustard to five tablespoon-
fuls of linseed, used occasionally, and just sufficient to
redden the chest — for the same purpose. When the
fever has gone, some soap liniment can be rubbed into
the chest, which is to be afterwards wrapped in cotton
wool.
When the bronchitis has disappeared, the diet ought
gradually to be improved — rice, sago, tapioca, and
light batter-pudding, etc. ; and, in a few days, either a
little chicken or a mutton chop, mixed with a well-
mashed potato and crumb of bread, should be given.
But let the improvement in his diet be gradual, or the
inflammation might return.
Do not administer Paregoric or Syrup of Poppies,
either of which would stop the cough, and would thus
prevent the expulsion of the phlegm. Any fool can
stop a cough, but it requires a wise man to rectify the
mischief. A congh is an effort of Nature to bring up
the phlegm, which would otherwise accumulate, and in
224 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
the end cause death. Again, therefore, let me urge
upon you the great importance of not stopping the
cough of a child. You may give in an emergency
Ipecacuanha Wine, which will, by loosening the phlegm,
loosen the cough, which is the only right way to get
rid of a cough. Let what I have now said be impressed
deeply upon your memory, as thousands of children
are annually destroyed by having their coughs stopped.
Avoid, until the bronchitis be relieved, giving him
broths, and meat, and stimulants of all kinds. For
further observations on ivhat not to do in bronchitis, I
beg to refer you to a previous Conversation we had
on what not to do in inflammation of the lungs. That
which is injurious in the one case is equally so in the
other. Do not become alarmed because you do not see
any expectoration. Children under five years old do not
expectorate unless they are suffering from hooping-
cough. In the former case the expectoration is swal-
lowed ; in the latter it is violently expelled.
Some children are very subject to bronchitis, espe-
cially rickety children. Some appear to inherit a '^ weak
chest.''' On the slightest provocation they catch " cold/'
These children must not be coddled. They must pass a
large portion of the day in the open air, unless the wind
be easterly or northeasterly. Hot and stuffy rooms
are the finest forcing-houses for colds in the head and
bronchitis imaginable. A tepid douche should be given
every morning. Clothe the child in woolen materials
comfortable and warmly, but do not make him an
animated eider-down quilt. If you proceed to this
extreme he will become as sensitive to a breath of
fresh air in the shape of the production of an attack
of bronchitis — as the sensitive plant is in its reaction
to the touch of an insect. You will not make a Spar-
tan of him by sending him out of doors with bare legs —
such a mode of dress is very foolish. Do not put him
CHILDHOOD. — 01^ DISEASE, ETC. 225
in an oven of a room at one time, and as soon as he
shows the slightest improvement allow him to career all
over the house seeking all the draughts that can be found.
Do all in your power to improve the child^'s constitution
by suitable food, by the adoption of a desirable locality
for a residence, by plenty of sleep, not allowing him to
stop up to all hours of the night, and by plenty of fresh
air.
285. What is Iniiuenza f
Influenza is an infectious disease produced by a
special microbe, with an incubation period of only a few
hours^ duration, occurring in epidemic form. It attacks
the young and the old, and is induced by exposure to
contagion.
286. Wliat are the symptoms of In^uenza f
In infants at the breast and young children the onset
is sudden ; there is fever, sickness, drowsiness, some
redness oi the throat, a dirty tongue, and constipation.
Constipation is followed in a day or two by diarrhea.
There are pains in the limbs (the infant cries when its
limbs are handled) and prostration. The attack may
only last two or three days, or the fever may continue
for several days, or a week or two or more, with or
without diarrhea and fetid stools. If there is In-
fluenza in the house, the cause for such symptoms is
obvious. Eecovery is the rule, but the child may die
exhausted. In older children the disea.se is ushered in
suddenly ; the temperature runs high, with thirst and
loss of appetite, there are shivering fits, pains in the
limbs and the joints, pains in the back, the eyes are
blood-shot, the face looks dull and heavy, the throat
is sore and reddened, the ears ache, the water is higb-
colored (save a specimen for your doctor). There is a
little cough and expectoration of mucus. There is very
marhed general prostration and debility , but not so
much as in adults. In a day or two or more the fever
disappears and the child recovers, or the fever may last
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226 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
for several days or a week or two before finally disap-
pearing
Sometimes there is an eruption just like that of scar-
let fever, but the throat symptoms are not severe like
those of scarlet fever. If there is influenza in the house
the disease is much more likely to be influenza than
scarlet fever. Sometimes sickness is uncontrollable and
dangerous. There may be severe bronchitis or inflam-
mation of the lungs, or a combination of the two, but
children are not so liable to lung complications as
adults.
Diarrhea is sometimes a prominent feature in the
influenza of older children. The symptoms may be so
severe as to suggest that the membranes of the brain
are inflamed. Sometimes small blood vessels break and
let out their contents into the substance of the brain.
Acute inflammation of the ear also happens some-
times.
One attack of influenza does not protect against an-
other, and relapses are not uncommon.
287. What is the treatment of Influenza ?
The child must be put to bed and kept there, iso-
lated. The room should be warm, 60° Fahr., and well
ventilated. Let plenty of comfortably warm air circu-
late round the room. Remove any hangings or val-
ances about the bed. Some rhatany lozenges will relieve
any soreness of the throat.
The diet should consist of milk and beef-tea. If the
temperature is high, and convulsions occur, bathe the
child (see Conversation 125). Send for your doctor ;
the complications may be very troublesome and diffi-
cult to treat. See what has been recommended in pre-
vious Conversations for these diseases. The essential
treatment is to keep the patient warm in ted.
288. My child complains of difficulty in taking a deep
breath, as it hurts him, and of a sharp pain in his side.
Is this Pleurisy ?
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Most possibly so. The symptoms avouM be ushered
in probably by a shivering fit, followed by what is called
"' a stitch'^ in one or other side, perhaps pain in the ab-
domen, and fever. Convulsions often usher in the dis-
ease in infancy. The stitch or pain in the side is
aggravated on pressing the part, on lying on the same
side, on taking breath, and on coughing. The child's
skin is hot and dry, the cheeks flushed, the pulse hard
and quick, the breathing short and not deep, the urine
scanty and high-colored. There is one sign in children
with Pleurisy which is not noticed in adults. It is that,
in children, vomiting is generally a feature — the vomited
matter being principally composed of hiW. If you will
put your ear to the painful side, you may detect a sound
like rubbing a piece of coarse cloth. The sound goes
up and down with the breathing. This means inflam-
mation of the bag in which the lung is contained. In-
stead of the bag — the pleura — being smooth for the
lung to work in it noiselessly, on its surface there is a
material poured out, the product of inflammation :
hence the rough sound heard. The above are the symp-
toms of dry Pleurisy. The inflammation may go on to
what is called popularly " water on the chest, ^^ or this
'' water ^^ may become converted into matter, that is,
corruption.
289. What are tlie causes of Pleurisy 9
Exposure to cold and wet ; and injury to the ribs, and
accident, etc., as a blow or a tumble ; the invasion of
the body by various microbes. It is often present with
bronchitis and inflammation of the lungs, and some-
times appears during an attack of rheumatism.
290. Wliat is the treatment ?
In cases of dry Pleurisy, bind the whole of the chest
and part of the abdomen down to the navel, both back
and front, with a flannel binder, or strap those parts
with strips of diachylon plaster wound round the body.
The object is to prevent the ribs from moving. Do
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your best to fix the ribs. The lung will then have a
better chance of carrying on life, and its bag or pleura
the best chance of combating the inflammation with
which it is attacked. The plaster should remain until
it peels off. The flannel binder should be kept tight as
occasion presents. The affected side might be gently
.rubbed with compound camphor liniment or soap lini-
ment.
Keep the child in bed, in a warm well-ventilated
room. Feed him on milk and farinaceous food. Avoid
stimulants ; if very prostrate, a teaspoonf iil of whisky
in a teacupf ul of milk may be given. Guard against cold.
Pleurisy is always a dangerous disease, therefore get
advice immediately.
291. Wliat are tlie symptoms of Quinsy ?
Quinsy is an inflammatory sore throat. It is ushered
in by fever, redness and swelling of the throat and ton-
sils (small yellow points may also be seen on these, as
well as yellow patches), difiicnlty in swallowing, and
pain running from the throat to the ear. The inflam-
mation has a certain course, ceasing in a few days, and
merely leaving the tonsils enlarged. If the inflamma-
tion be very severe, it leads to an abscess in one or other
tonsil, which is very painful, and continues so until the
abscess bursts or is opened by the doctor. Frequent
attacks of quinsy conduce to chronic enlargement of the
tonsils, and sometimes to tubercular glands in the neck.
292. What are the causes of Quinsy f
The causes are numerous, and that is why I dislike
the term Quinsy, because it suggests that there is a
special unmistakable disease of the tonsils and throat
with that name, whereas there is nothing of the sort.
As a matter of fact, the name Quinsy is popularly ap-
plied in two ways — Firstly, as a general term including
all sore throats with enlarged tonsils ; and secondly, in
reference to one particular affection, in which the ton-
sils are much enlarged, and may eventually contain ab-
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scesses. I have used the word in the former of the two
senses, as the more comprehensive. It often requires a
skilful doctor to determine the cause, and on the cause
depends the treatment.
Such symptoms as I have described may be found
with scarlet fever or with diphtheria. Sometimes such
an attack is due to exposure to cold and wet, sometimes
it accompanies typhoid fever, sometimes rheumatic
fever, and sometimes bad drainage is the cause.
A sore throat such as I have described may be the
only symptom of scarlet fever, and also the only symp-
tom of diphtheria. In the first case, perhaps the nature
of the illness is revealed when the cliild's health fails
and he is found by the doctor to be suffering from
Bright^s disease (of the kidneys), or perhaps when some
other children in the house have an undoubted attack
of scarlet fever. In the second case there is the same
sequence of events, or worse may happen, for the child
may suddenly die from paralysis of the heart, or acute
inflammation of the heart may follow, or the nature of
the illness may be revealed by the onset of diphtheritic
paralysis. Again, a rheumatic sore throat may be fol-
lowed by inflammation of the valves of the heart, or of
the heart itself. Eor these reasons I do not approve of
a mother treating a case of quinsy unless she is abso-
lutely compelled, and she should send for a medical
man to diagnose the disease and instruct her as to its
treatment. By following this advice she will prevent
the spread of disease in her own household and amongst
her neighbors, she will find out whether the sanitary
arrangements of her house are as they should be, and
she will certainly render her child less liable to severe
and perhaps fatal complications.
293. What is the treatment of Quinsy 9
Put the child in bed in a room the temperature of
which is to be kept at 60° Fahr., and isolate Mm.
Carefully inspect his skin, and if you find a scarlatinal
230 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
rash or anything suspicious call the doctor's attention
to it. The case should be treated as an infectious one
until it is proved to be of an innocent nature. If the
throat is very sore, let the child suck ice and gave him
black currant jelly or Khatany or Guaiacum lozenges.
If the inflammation is severe apply linseed meal poul-
tices or hot fomentations to the throat externally.
When an abscess is threatening, the child must be
watched, as should the abscess burst, especially at night,
the contents might almost cause suffocation. If possible
the child should have a change of air to the sea-coast.
As quinsy, if of a simple nature, is liable recur, you
must do the best to strengthen your child's general
health.
294. What are the symptoms of Diphtheria 9
This terrible disease, although by many considered to
be a new complaint, is, in point of fact, of very ancient
origin. Homer, and Hippocrates — the Father of Physic
— have both described it.
TJie symptoms, — The little patient, before the disease
really shows itself, feels poorly, and is ''^out of sorts."
A shivering fit, thought not severe, may generally be
noticed, and the fever, as a rule, is slight. There is
heaviness, and slight headache, principally over the
eyes. Sometimes but not always, there is a mild attack
of delirium at night. The next day he complains of
slight difficulty in swallowing. If old enough, he will
complain of constriction about the neck. On examin-
ing the throat, the tonsils will be found to be swollen
and redder — more darkly red than usual. Slight specks
will be noticed on the tonsils. In a day or two an ex-
udation will cover them, the soft palate and the uvula.
The nose (inside) may also be attacked, and then blood
and corruption come from the nostrils. Sometimes the
the nose is diseased and not the throat. The child will
then snore at night. This exudation gradually increases
until it becomes a regular membrane, or skin-like sub-
CHILDHOOD. — ON DISEASE, ETC. 231
stance, which is either white-gray in color, or yellow
like wash-leather, rarely dark brown or blackish ; hence
the name '^ Diphtheria." This membrane peels off in
pieces, leaving an ulcerated surface behind. If the
child be old and strong enough, he will sometimes spit
it up in quantities, the membrane again and again rap-
idly forming as before. The discharges from the
throat are occasionally offensive. There is danger of
croup from the extension of the membrane into the
windpipe. Much less frequently the disease starts in
the glottis and windpipe and travels to the throat. The
glands about the neck and under the jaw are generally
much swollen.
The child is now in a perilous condition, and it be-
comes a battle between his constitution and the disease.
The danger of the disease is not always to be measured
by the state of the throat. Sometimes, when the patient
appears to be getting well, a sudden change for the
worse rapidly carries him off. Hence the im|)ortance
of great caution, in such cases, in giving an opinon as
to ultimate recovery. In a week or so, if all goes well,
the membrane clears away, and the child is left ansemic,
but will gradually recover health and strength, though
convalescence is prolonged. Sometimes, instead of im-
proving, the child becomes weaker and weaker, then
bloody material oozes from the mouth and nostrils, ex-
haustion is profound, and the child is slowly but surely
killed by the poisoning of its blood and tissues.
Sometimes diphtheria is very mild ; the child is a little
" out of sorts," but plays about as usual, and the mother
is not aware that anything is amiss until perhaps the
doctor is called in and finds some serious complication,
though this will hot necessarily follow.
On the other hand, the disease may be very grave ; it
is ushered in by vomiting, all the symptoms described
may be exaggerated, the pulse is very weak, and the
child dies exhausted in two or three days, or less.
232 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
A specimen of the urine sliouldhe saved every day for
the doctor.
The complications of diphtheria;, which yon should
know, are —
1. Sudden heart failure, and death from slight exer-
tion, such as getting out of bed to j^ass water. This
may happen during convalescence as well as during the
disease.
2. Paralysis. This paralysis comes on in from three
to five weeks from the onset of the illness. The first
part to be paralyzed is usually the soft palate ; often
this is the only part affected. Liquid food comes down
the nose and the chikrs voice is " nasal." The paralysis
may be much more extensive — weakness of the legs and
chest, for example — indeed, it may be fatal.
I have said enough to prove the terrible nature of the
disease, and to show the necessity of calling in, at the
earliest period of the symptoms, an experienced and
skilful medical man.
295. Is Diphtheria contagious f
Decidedly. It may pass from patient to nurse, or
from child to mother. It can be carried by clothes to
other children. Therefore, when practicable, the rest
of the children ought to be removed, if possible, to a
house where there are not any children. They should
not be sent far away, so that they can be returned should
anything suspicious occur. If the child does not con-
tract the disease for seven clear days, dating from the
last exposure, he may be looked upon as free.
The sick child is to be isolated at once. The sick
room must be properly prepared for his reception — the
toj) of the house is best, and a whole floor should be
devoted to him and his nurses, if it can be arranged.
Plenty of ventilation is very important. The disease
has to be notified to the Medical Officer of Health of
the district, and if your doctor fails to do so, he ren-
ders himself liable to a fine. Diphtheria attacks chil-
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dreu mostly between the ages of two. and eight years. No
period of life is exempt. It is a very fatal disease in
infants, if they are nnfortunate enough to contract it.
296. What are the causes of Diphtheria?
The real cause is a germ, a bacillus, which grows in
abundance on the surface of the throat, and there forms
a membrane from its action on the underlying tissues.
The diphtheria germs, in the course of their growth,
form a ferment, and this ferment has such a peculiar
action on the membrane and blood and tissues, that it
produces virulent poisons from them. The poisoning
.of the blood induces the symptoms of the disease, and
the gravity or otherwise of the complaint depends in
great measure upon the dose, as well as upon the powers
of resistance of the child. Sometimes these germs are
more active and destructive at one time than they are
at another.
297. Wiere are the hreeding grounds for these ger7ns f
Bad and imperfect drainage. Foul privies and foul
cesspools. The germs float in the sewer air as fish do
in the sea, and are inhaled. Contaminated milk and
contaminated water. Decomposing animal and vege-
table matter. Cows suffer from diphtheria sometimes
— they have ulcerated udders — and germs are found in
their milk. Cats may disseminate the disease. Fowls
are subject to croup. The germs of diphtheria can lie
dormant in clothes, or curtains, or carpets, for months
or even years.
298. What is the treatment of Diphtheria ?
Look well to your drains, and see that the drinking
water is not contaminated in any way, if you are not
tinder the rules and regulations of the Public Health
Acts. If you are, as soon as the disease has been noti-
fied to the Medical Officer of Health, the Sanitary
Inspector will call and thoroughly test your drains.
If he finds anything amiss, you will have to remedy
the defects.
234 ADVICE TO A MOTHEll.
You must isolate the child, and place him in a tvell-
ventilated and as large a room as possible, in which a
fire is burning. The temperature should be 60° Fahr.
Hang a carbolized sheet over the door, which is to be
kept ivet. It can be wetted by means of an ordinary
garden squirt with a fine rose attachment. The fittings
and furniture of the dormitory must be as plain as pos-
sible. All the child's motions and the urine — except the
specimen saved for the doctor — are to be passed in a
solution of carbolic acid, 1 in 20, or corrosive sublimate,
1 in 1,000. A few crystals of permanganate of potash
(Condy's Fluid) should be mixed with the latter to show,
its nature. Both these fluids are poisonous. Izal, 1 in
20, is not poisonous, and can be used as a substitute.
They are to be instantly removed from the room to the
closet, and when they have been covered by and incor-
porated with the solution for half an hour they are to
be emptied away. The utensil is then to be thoroughly
cleansed with water, and some fresh disinfectant solu-
tion poured in ready for the next occasion. The nose
and mouth are to be wiped with clean pieces of rag,
which must be hurned immediatQly . Washable articles
are to be placed in either carbolic acid solution or cor-
rosive sublimate solution, kept in a wooden bucket, be-
fore going to the laundry. If any membrane be coughed
up you had better save it for the doctor, placing it in
carbolic acid, 1 in 20, until he otherwise directs. The
best thing to do with it is to throw it and its rag into a
clear part of the fire. No food which leaves the sick
room is to be returned to the larder — it must be de-
stroyed. If you have not a trained nurse you must be
out in the fresh air for exercise at least two hours every
day. You cannot act the part of both day and night
nurse, with justice to yourself and your own health, and
with benefit to your child. You should wear a wash-
able dress. If you are employing one nurse she will
have to be off duty a part of the day, and you must take
CHILDHOOD. — OK DISEASE^ ETC. 235
her place during these times. Be very cleanly in your
nursing, and heejp your hands very clean. Should the
child cough in your face instantly wash it with some
corrosive sublimate, 1 in 3,000, or with some carbolic
acid, 1 in 60. Should any unfortunately go into your
eye, the lotion must be allowed to go into the eye itself.
I give you these hints so that you may take precautions
to prevent such an accident happening, and should it
unfortunately occur you will know what to do.
The throat must be mopped out every two or three
hours with a piece of absorbent cottonwool, or sal alem-
broth gauze, fixed securely on a stick. This is to be
burned directly after the operation. The doctor will
probably prescribe a powder to be blown on the parts
with an insufflator.
The younger the child the more trouble will be ex-
perienced in conducting this line of treatment efficiently,
and you should engage a trained nurse when local appli-
cations, of which there are a number, are ordered to
be made to the throat. The efficient carrying out of
local applications is very important for the health of
the child.
Diphtheria is a very debilitating disease ; therefore,
plenty of nourishment will be necessary to sustain the
vital powers. The child should take milk or Qgg and
milk, and half a pint of beef soup or beef juice (see
Conversation 169).
If there is great difficulty in giving the child food
the feeding will have to be supplemented by injections
into the lower bowel (nutrient enemata), but these are
not tolerated at all well, as a rule, by children :
The yolks of two eggs ;
Milk, four fluid ounces ;
Salt, thirty grains ;
A. Zymine Peptonizing Powder :
Mix the eggs and milk together, heat to 140° Fahr. , and add
the peptonizing powder. Keep it at this temperature for
236 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
half an hour. Add the salt before use, having previously
brought the mixture to the boiling point.
The injection should be given slowly, at a temperature of
100°Fahr., and repeated every four hours — four ounces
for an injection. If this quantity is returned use two-
thirds the quantity or one-half. If this is unsuccessful
use nutrient suppositories. Stimulants may be necessary
from the earliest stages. If the child shows any signs
of weakness they will certainly be required, and if great
weakness they must be given freely. Brandy is a good
form for their administration, either alone or as brandy
and egg mixture. About half of the latter is pure
brandy. A liquid called antitoxin has lately been in-
troduced for the treatment of diphtheria. Antitoxin is
prepared from the blood of a horse. The horse, after
prolonged and patient treatment, is rendered diphtheria-
proof. The serum of the horse's blood, when passed
into the tissues, by hypodermic injection, of a patient
suffering from diphtheria, checks and prevents the poi-
sonous effects of the disease on the system. Antitoxin
injections should be commenced as soon as the disease
declares itself. Local applications to the throat are to
be persevered with at the same time. I need hardly
say that a powerful remedy like antitoxin can only be
used by a doctor.
If the disease should travel downwards it will cause all
the symptoms of croup. Should the obstruction to the
breathing from the blocking of the glottis be very great,
so that the child will surely suffocate, then it will be
necessary to perform an operation, which will make a
channel, by means of which the air can enter the lungs,
(See ^' Tracheotomy and Intubation,^' Conversation 277.)
As soon as he has recovered sufficiently he will require
a tonic, and when quarantine is over he should be sent
away for change of air.
The child must be isolated for one month, and if the
throat is not qicite tvell, for a longer period. The in-
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cubation period of diphtheria is two days, and very rarely
extends to seven days.
Do not apply a blister. It is almost sure to be covered
with the membrane of diphtheria, similar to that inside
of the mouth and of the throat, which would be a seri-
ous complication.
299. What means do you advise to purify a Jiouse,
clothes, and furniture from the contagion of Diphtheria f
After recovery the room is to be disinfected. The
windows must be closed and pasted up, the chimney of
the fireplace stopped, and the door shut and rapidly
pasted up, and the keyhole stopped, after the sulphur
has been fired. Three pounds of sulphur must be
burned for each thousand cubic feet of space. Partially
fill a bucket with water ; in the water place two pieces
of brick ; on the pieces of brick an old saucepan lid ; on
the saucepan lid the sulphur moistened with methylated
spirit ; place in the center of the room ; set light to the
mixture ; leave the room and close the door as directed
above ; open the following day. A convenient form is
the Sulphur Candle. This should be placed in a wash-
hand basin which contains a little water. Instead of
burning sulphur. Sulphur Dioxide Gas can be used.
This is supplied by every druggist. All that is necessary
is to cut the stopper and the gas will rush out. The
same effect is produced as by burning sulphur, but it
is much less troublesome. Recently Formic Aldehyde
Vapor has been used successfully. It has some decided
advantages over sulphur fumigation. When the door
is reopened throw open the windows. The room will
now require repapering or redistempering, or the paint
must be washed down. The ceiling must be lime-
washed.
All articles of furniture, the paint of the woodwork,
and the floor should be thoroughly scrubbed with hot
water and carbolic soap. The apartment must be freely
ventilated. Articles of furniture should be placed in
238 ADYICE TO A MOTHER.
the sunlight out of doors. Mattresses, pillows, woolen
articles of clothing, and books, etc., which cannot be
washed, should be disinfected by superheated soeani,
which will not destroy them. Hot air disinfection, such
as by baking, has not sufficient penetrating powers.
The outside of the pillow or mattress may scorch, whilst
the inside is only just hot, not sufficient to destroy germ
life. Disinfectant powders are not to be used for the
closet, as they cake in the pipes and may stop the drain.
For disinfection use the carbolic or corrosive sublimate
solutions. The Public Authorities will disinfect the
sick room for you.
300. Have the goodness to describe the symptoms of
Measles 9
Measles commences with symptoms of a common cold ;
the patient is at first chilly, then hot and feverish ; he
has a running at the nose, sneezing, watering and red-
ness of the eyes, headache, drowsiness, a hoarse and
peculiar ringing cough, which nurses call ^'^measle-
cough^" and difficulty of breathing. These symptoms
usually last three days before the eruption appears. On
the fourth day the eruption generally makes its appear-
ance, and continues for four days, and then disappears,
lasting altogether, from the commencement of the symp-
toms of cold to the decline of the eruption, seven days.
It is important to bear in mind that the eruption con-
sists of crescent-shaped — half-moon shaped — areas of a
dusky red hue ; that they usually appear first about the
face and the neck, in which places the areas are the best
marked ; then on the body and on the arms ; and, lastly,
on the legs, and that they are slightly raised above the
surface of the skin. The half-moon shaped areas are
formed by a peculiar grouping of several raised spots.
These raised spots are spattered quite thickly over the
face, body, and limbs. Often the sj^ots run together
and form large and quite irregular patches on the backs
of the arms, the fronts of the thighs, and the buttocks.
CHILDHOOD. — ON DISEASE, ETC. 239
The face is swollen, more especially the eyelids, which
are sometimes for a few days closed. The throat is red,
sore, and swollen.
Well, then, rememher, the running at the nose, the
sneezing, the peculiar hoarse cough, and the ertqjtlon I
have just described are the leading features of the disease,
and point out for a certainty that it is measles.
301. What co?istit2ctes the principal danger in Mea-
sles f
The affection of the chest. The mucous or lining
membrane of the bronchial tubes is always more or less
inflamed, and the lungs themselves are sometimes af-
fected. The eyes, ears, and bowels may also be affected,
and there may be severe croup, necessitating an opera-
tion.
302. Is Measles a contagious and dangerous disease ?
It is very contagious. Hence the necessity of at once
isolating the child and attendant as soon as it is dis-
covered. Up to the age of two years, it is more danger-
ous than scarlet fever.
303. Do you recommend hot haths to throiu out the
eruption in Measles ?
Not as a general rule. The way to ^^ throw out " the
eruption is to keep the body comfortably warm. Some-
times there is much stuffiness of the chest and glottis,
the child is very weak, ill, and in a high state of fever.
The eruption is very dusky-looking, scanty, and does
not come out at all well. It is proper under these cir-
cumstances to bathe the child, and try to relieve the
congestion of the lungs. Prepare a hot bath of the tem-
perature of 100 Fahr., put a tablespoonful of mustard
to a gallon of water ; keep the child in the bath five or
ten minutes, and repeat the operation, if necessary, in
an hour. Rapidly dry him and place between the
blankets.
304. What is the treatment of Measles f
Isolate the patient. Put him to bed in a well-venti-
240 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
lated room, the temperature of which is to be main-
tained night and day at 65° Fahr. Adopt the same hy-
gienic precautions as have been recommended in diph-
theria (see Conversation 298). Measles is not a disease
which must be reported to the Sanitary Authorities. It
is contagious before the appearance of the eruption,
perhaps even before tlie initial " cold " ; therefore if you
have other children they are not to be sent away from
the house, but keep an eye on them and take their tem-
perature daily. On the first appearance of a ^^'^ cold ^'
and rise of temperature draft the child to the sick ward.
Tliey are not to go to scliool on any account whatever.
The incubation period is nine or ten days ; it may be as
short as four days or as long as fourteen days. After
fourteen days clear if there are no symj^toms, the child
may be considered free. If the eruption itches very
much, and it usually does, you may sponge the child
with warm water, into which alcoholic solution of coal
tar is dropped, two and a half teaspoonfuls to a pint of
water. This will also help to reduce the temperature
if it is high.
Grive the child milk to drink, and his thirst can be
quenched by toast and water, lemonade, or barley water.
Black currant jelly will relieve the soreness of the throat
and the tickling cough.
If the attack be mild, that is to say, if the breathing
be not much affected (for in measles it always is more or
less affected), and if there be not much wheezing, the
treatment recommended will be all that is necessary.
But suppose that the breathing is short, and that
there is a great wheezing, and suppose also there is much
croup, then apply a linseed meal poultice, as advised
under the head of Bronchitis (see Conversation 284).
If the child is young you had better use hot fomentation's
instead of linseed meal poultices, as they are not so heavy
and fatiguing. Under these circumstances, also, it is
better to erect a tent without a roof and employ a croup
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kettle, or the latter can be used alone. If there is great
weakness and prostration stimulants must be adminis-
tered, but they are not usually required. Bad croup may
necessitate an operation, but this is not often necessary.
Diarrhea is sometimes a symptom, and it may have a
dysenteric character. It need not be checked unless it
is immoderate.
The fever usually stops suddenly at the end of the first
week — if it be prolonged beyond that period it is owing
to some complication, such as inflammation of the lungs.
When the child is convalescing, batter-puddings, rice
and sago puddings, in addition to the milk, bread-and-
b Litter, etc., should be given; and, a few days later,
chicken, mutton chops, etc.
The child ought not, even in a mild case of measles,
and in favorable weather, to be allowed to leave the
house under three weeks, or it might bring on an attack
of bronchitis.
Do not expose the child to the cold air. Do not keep
the bedroom very hot, but comfortably warm. Do not
let the child leave the house, even under favorable cir-
cumstances, under three weeks. Do not, while the
eruption is out, give aperients. Do not, '^^to ease the
cough," administer paregoric — it will stop the cough,
and will thus prevent the expulsion of the phlegm.
Staining of the skin after the eruption is left for several
days, perhaps two or three weeks, after its disappear-
ance. There is usually slight branny desquamation
when the eruption is gone. Give the child hot baths,
and do not forget to ivasli his head. Be sure he does
not catch cold during the operation. Measles often fol-
lows hooping-cough, or is preceded by hooping-cough.
Measles may be a very trivial disease, so trivial, in-
deed, that it may be difficult to say whether the child
is suffering from measles or not ; but, on the other hand,
it may be very serious, therefore do not neglect to send
for a doctor.
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The contagion of measles is such that the child should
be isolated for three weeks.
305. Is Measles ever followed ly had after-effects'^
Certainly. Matter in the chest is not uncommon.
Acute inflammation of the ears takes place, and they
discharge matter. The eyes do not escape — ulcers may
form on the ^' sights/' or there may be inflammation of
the eyes (ophthalmia). Then there is enlargement of
the glands of the neck, often tubercular, and the child
may fall a prey to tuberculosis of all the organs.
Paralysis may rarely occur like diphtheritic paralysis
(see Conversation 294), and there is a very formidable
disease of the mouth, which is permanently disfiguring,
if not actually fatal.
306. Wliat is the difference between Scarlatina and
Scarlet Fever 9
They are, indeed, one and the same disease. Scarlatina
being the Latin for Scarlet Fever. But, in a popular
sense, when the disease is mild, it is usually called scar-
latina. The latter term does not sound so formidable to
the ears either of patients or of parents.
307. Will you describe the symptoms of Scarlet Fever f
Sickness and fever are usually the first indications of
anything amiss. The eruption often appears on the
same day. The patient may be chilly, languid, drowsy,
feverish, and poorly for two days before the eruption
appears. At the end of the first or the second day, the
characteristic, bright scarlet efflorescence, somewhat
similar to the color of a boiled lobster, usually first shows
itself ; the face is not involved. The skin is burning
hot and dry, just as in inflammation of the lungs. The
throat is red and swollen, and the tonsils enlarged, and
often showing yellowish patches — in bad cases they are
very swollen and ulcerated. The nose runs, the eyes
are bloodshot. The tongue is thickly coated with fur,
which, when it clears away, leaves a tongue like a straw-
berry — '^ the strawberry tongue."
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The erruption may be general, excluding the face,
which is often JltcsJied, however ; but it is not at all un-
common to find a less vivid tint^ perhaps a dusky hue,
and an eruption which is only localized. There may be
a characteristic patch on the chest, or the abdomen, or
the back, or on the limbs, the rest of the skin escaping.
The eruption usually declines on the fifth, and is gen-
erally indistinct on the sixth day ; on the seventh it
has completely faded away. There is usually, after the
first few days, great itching on the surface of the body.
The skin at the end of the week, begins to peel and to
dust off, making it look as though meal had been
sprinkled upon it.
There are three forms of scarlet fever. T'he first is a
mild form, which shows itself in a variety of ways. The
throat is little, if at all, affected, there is an eruption
(if this lasts more than one day it is certainly scarlet
fever), there may be no fever, or, if present, it is very
trifling ; on the other hand, the throat may be the onli/
part attacked. The second is generally, especially at
night, attended with delirium, the throat is red and in-
flamed, the tonsils large, covered with mucus, or yellow
spots, or yellow patches, and the glands in the neck
swollen. The third (which is, except in certain un-
healthy districts, comparatively rare, and which is very
dangerous) is the malignant form.
308. Is Diarrhea a dangerous symptom 9
If diarrhea accompanies the sickness at the onset of
the disease, it suggests that the attack will be a severe
one. Should diarrhea be a marhed feature of the case,
the termination will probably be fatal.
309. What constitute the principal dangers of Scarlet
Fever 9
Affections of the throat, abscesses in the throat and
neck, the opening of big blood vessels in the neck from
ulceration of the throat or abscess in the neck, affections
of the lungs (inflammation of and the formation of
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matter in the chest), affections of the heart, inflamma-
tion of the ears with its consequences, swelling of the
joints, which may either contain matter or be of a rheu-
matic nature, chronic blood poisoning, and a peculiar
disease of the kidneys ending in dropsy, on which ac-
count the medical man ought, when practicable, to be
sent for at the onset, that no time may be lost in apply-
ing ^;ro;?er remedies.
When scarlet fever is complicated — as it sometimes is
— with membrane, the membrane is very apt to travel
into the wind-pipe, and thus to cause membranous
croup ; it is almost sure, when such is the case, to end
in death. When a child dies from such a complication,
the death might truly be said to be owing to the mem-
branous croup, and not to the scarlet fever ; for if the
membranous croup had not occurred, the child would,
in all probability, have been saved. It will, therefore,
be necessary under these circumstances to perform an
operation to save the child^s life, should the degree of
suffocation be sufficient to warrant one. Croup may
arise from the extension of simple inflammation to the
glottis, and is not necessarily, therefore, membranous.
310. Hoiu ivould you distmgiiish hetween Scarlet Fever
and Measles f
Measles commences with symptoms of a common cold ;
scarlet fever does not, though there may be running at
the nose and sneezing. Measles ha^s a peculiar Jioarse
cough ; scarlet fever has not. The child with measles
has a cold three or four days before the appearance of
the eruption, the scarlet fever patient has not. Measles
commences with a bad cold, scarlet fever with sickness
and a sore throat. The eruption of measles is in patches
of a half-moon shape, and is slightly raised above the
skin ; the eruption of scarlet fever is usually not raised
above the skin at all, and is one continued mass. The
eruption of measles appears on the fourth or fifth day,
that of scarlet fever qa the first or second day. The
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shedding of the skiu after measles is small in amount,
scurfy ; after scarlet fever it peels in large flakes. The
color of the eruption is much more vivid in scarlet fever
than in measles. The '^ chest " is the part principally
affected in measles, and the throat in scarlet fever.
There is an excellent method of determining, for a
certainty, whether the eruption be that of scarlatina or
otherwise. I myself have, in several instances, ascer-
tained the truth of it : — '^ For several years, M. Bouchat
has remarked, in the eruptions of scarlatina, a curious
phenomenon, which serves to distinguish this eruption
from that of measles, erythema, erysipelas, etc., a
phenomenon essentially vital, and which is connected
with the excessive contractibility of the small blood-
vessels.
'' The phenomenon in question is a luMte line, which
can be produced at pleasure by drawing the back of the
nail along the skin where the eruption is situated. On
drawing the nail, or the extremity of a hard body (such
as a penholder), along the eruption, the skin is observed
to grow pale, and to present a white trace, which re-
mains for one or two minutes, or longer, and then dis-
appears. In this way the diagnosis of the disease may
be very distinctly written on the skin ; the word ^ Scar-
latina ' disappears as the eruption regains its uniform
tint.^' — Ediiiburgli Medical Journal.
311. Is it of so much importance, then, to distinguish
letween Scarlet Fever and Measles 9
It is of great importance, as in measles the patient
ought to be kept moderately warm, and the drinks should
be given with the chill off ; while in scarlet fever the
patient ought to be kept cool, and the beverages, such
as spring-water, toast and water, etc. , should be admin-
istered nearly cold. In the case of measles it is not
necessary to notify the disease to the Sanitary Author-
ities ; in the case of scarlet fever the Medical Officer of
Health must be informed without delay.
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312. Do you believe in ^'Hybrid" Scarlet Fever — tliat
is to say, in a cross between Scarlet Fever and Measles 9
There is a disease known as G-erman Measles, which
sometimes has a rash like scarlet fever, at other times
like measles. Apart from rash there are other dis-
tinguishing differences, and for an account of these, I
refer you to Conversation 322. Seeing the resemblance
that it bears to measles and scarlet fever, it is just pos-
sible that it may be a mongrel growth from the
two diseases, but such is mere conjecture, and no
definite assertions can be made either one way or the
other.
313. Wliat is the treatment of Scarlet Fever 9
What is the first thing to be done ? Send for a
medical man. Isolate the child in as large a room as
possible, and devote the whole of the upper floor, if that
can be arranged, to the child and his nurses. The
nurses are to have no more intercourse with the rest of
the household than is absolutely necessary ; the less,
the better. Further, the pet dog and the cat are not
to be allowed admission to the sick chamber, not even
during convalescence. Eemove all carpets, curtains,
woolen stuffs, bed draperies, and so on, and retain in
the room only the furniture which is absolutely necessary.
Adopt identically the same hygienic precautions that
have been advocated under the heading Diphtheria.
The child is to be put to bed on a hair mattress and
covered with a sufficiency of clothing^the coverings
should be warm but light. The temperature of the
room is to be kept at 60° Fahr., not higher. A window
is to be kept partially open at the top for ventilation,
and there is to be a fire in the grate. Every precaution
is to be taken to ensure thorough ventilation, but by
this I do not mean the encouragement of draughts, and
all draughts are to be strictly avoided. Do not be
afraid of fresh air, for fresh air is essential to recovery.
Fresh air , and i^lenty of it, in scarlet fever , is the best
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doctor a cJiild can have : let these Avords be written
legibly on your mind.*
Now for the throat. If the throat is moderately sore,
ice to suck Avill afford the greatest relief. Should the
child be too small to suck ice, he can be given ice-cold
water to sip. Black currant jelly may also be given.
Should, however, the throat be very swollen and saj^er-
ficially ulcerated with much unwholesome discharge in
its neighborhood, then it will be necessary to adopt
more active measures, or the foul discharges may set up
inflammation of the lungs. The throat should then be
sprayed every two, three, or more hours, according to
* In the Times of Sep. 4, 1863, is the following, copied from
the Bridgewater Mercury —
"Gross Superstition. — In one of the streets of Taunton
there resides a man and his wife who have the care of a child,
this child was attacked with scarlatina, and to all appearance
death was inevitable. A jury of matrons was, as it were,
empaneled, and to prevent the child ' dying hard,' all the
doors in the house, all the drawers, all the boxes, all the cup-
boards were thrown wide open, the keys taken out, and the
body of the child placed under a beam, whereby a sure,
certain, and easy passage into eternity could be secured.
"Watchers held their vigils throughout the weary night, and
in the morning, the child, to the surprise of all, did not die,
and is now gradually recovering."
These old women — this jury of matrons — stumbled on the
right remedy, " all the doors in the house . . . were thrown
wide open,'' and thus they thoroughly ventilated the apart-
ment. What was the consequence ? The child, who, just
before the opening of the doors, had all the appearances that
" death was inevitable," as soon as fresh air was let in showed
symptoms of recovery, " and in the morning the child, to the
surprise of all, did not die, and is now gradually recovering."
There is nothing wonderful — there is nothing surprising to
my mind — in all this. Ventilation — thorough ventilation — is
the grand remedy for scarlatina ! Oh, that there were in
scarlet fever cases a good many such old women's — such a
" jury of matrons" — remedies! We should not then be hor-
rified, as we now are, at the fearful records of death which
the returns of the Registrar-General disclose !
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the amount of tlie discharge, with a saturated sohition
of Boracic Acid in Glycerine or Listerine Thymoline
or Borolyptol. In very severe cases more powerful
remedies have to be applied to the parts. The treat-
ment of the throat is no easy matter, and skilled nurses
must be obtained for its efficient performance. If the
glands in the neck are very swollen and painful, great
relief will be afforded by hot fomentations or linseed
meal poultices. This treatment is also advocated if the
skin is hard and reddened.
Now, with regard to food. The child is best kept on
a diet of milk only. To quench the thirst he may have
soda-water mixed with the milk, or tojist and water or
barley water. Two pints of milk are quite sufficient
for twenty-four hours. Children under one year of age
are for the most part exempt, but should a child at the
breast contract the disease keep him entirely to it.
His thirst may be quenched by boiled water. Animal
broths and stimulants are not necessary. Unless there
is some com,plication, such as lung disease, or an ulcer-
ated throat, or inflammation of the ear, etc., the fever
will have disappeared by the end of the first week.
Fever prolonged beyond this period suggests some com-
plication or other.
When the fever has departed his appetite will return,
and he may then be allowed milk puddings, with his
milk and bread-and-butter ; but it is advisable to keep
him on a low diet for some time, as the kidneys cannot
cope with much extra work without a break-down.
They have already quite sufficient work to perform to
get rid of the waste materials left by the fever — the
scarlet fever poison has produced some structural alter-
ations in their interior — and if they are hampered too
much they will the more readily inflame, and Bright^s
disease and dropsy be a consequence.
If the fever is high during the attack (104° Fahr. and
105° Fahr.) there is no harm done by sponging the body
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two or three times during the day with warm water, to
which you can add a small quantity of aromatic vinegar.
Sponging soothes the child^s skin, and reduces the fever.
If the child ^^ wanders ^^ or becomes wildly delirious, or
is sleepless, an ice bag should be applied to the head,
and kept filled with pieces of ice broken up the size of
walnuts. An ice bag for the head can be procured at a
druggist^s, or from a surgical instrument maker. It can
be fixed on by a few turns of a bandage. See that the
mouth of the bag is securely closed.
Dr. Budd, of Bristol, recommended that the body,
including the scalp, of a scarlet fever patient, should,
after about the fourth day, be anointed, every night and
morning, with oil ; this anointing to be continued until
the patient is able to take a warm bath and use disin-
fectant soap ; this application will not only be very
agreeable to the patient^'s feelings, as there is usually
great irritation and itching of the skin, but it will,
likewise, be an important means of preventing the dead
skin, which is highly infectious, and which comes off
partly in flakes and partly floats about the air as dust,
from infecting other persons. The plan is an excellent
one, and cannot be too strongly recommended. Instead
of plain oil, carbolic oil, 1 in 40, can be used, or a very
agreeable preparation is cold cream ; and this can be
made antiseptic by adding 1 drachm of a saturated
solution of Boric Acid in Grlycerine. Stronger solutions
of carbolic oil will prolong the desquamation instead of
retarding it. Wlien the fever has subsided peeling com-
mences, and it will be proper for him to have hot baths
to get rid of the dead skin, and keep the living in
healthy action. In administering these baths the
greatest care must be exercised to see that the child
does not take a chill, for should he do so his kidneys are
almost sure to suifer. When washing him pay particular
attention to the head, the parts behind the ears, and the
hands and feet. The dead skin is very injections.
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314. How long slioidd a child he Tcept to his bed and
room ?
He should he h^i^t in hed at least three iveehs, ivhether
the case he mild or not. If he be allowed out of liis bed
sooner than this he is much more liable to suffer with
his kidneys. He must be quarantined for six weeks,
sometimes two months, or even longer than that period.
He cannot be discharged with safety to the public if he
be still peeling, or if his throat be inflamed, or if he has
a discharge from the nose or ears. Sometimes peeling,
when it has almost if not quite ceased, recommences,
and the skin is once again shed quite co|)iously. The
freedom from the power to spread the disease in such
case will have to be decided by the doctor on its own
merits, and it is very difficult in some instances for him
to decide whether it is right or not to give a clean bill
of health. Scarlet fever is a terribly infectious disease,
and great care has to be exercised.
315. You have spoheri ahout the danger of Inilammation
of the hidneys, or Scaj'latinal Dropsy ; will you kindly
give me some information on the suljject ?
Inflammation of the kidneys usually comes on from the
third to the fourth week, but dropsy may announce its
onset as early as the first week, and it is liable to arise
all through the peeling stage. A specimen of the urine
should therefore he saved for the doctor every day, and
you should purchase a proper conical-shaped glass at
the driiggist^s for the purjDOse. He will gain much
valuable information from an examination of the urine.
Should the child have a slight attack of fever about
this time, and should he be also sick, save a specimen
of his urine. The water is usually smoky colored and
less in quantity than natural, rarely of a port wine hue,
and deposits a sediment like beef-tea dregs in the bottom
of the glass. His face will probably be very pale and
swollen, the eyelids puffy, the ankles swollen, and the
^' purse " much enlarged, pale and dropsical. If he be
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up, put him back to bed, wrap liim in tlie blankets,
clothe him in a flannel night-shirt, envelop the loins
with a linseed-meal poultice, give him half a drachm
or a drachm, according to the age, of compound jalap
powder, let him have warm milk and barley water to
drink, and send for the doctor. Do nothing further
until he arrives, when he will tell you what to do.
If you do not keep a watchful eye on the ^^ water '^
convulsions may rudely awaken you to the fact that
there is something serious th^matter, or sudden collapse
with a blue face, cold sweats, gasping breathing, and
a feeble or indistinguishable pulse may be the grave
danger-signal. In the first instance his brain is being
poisoned by the waste material in his body, which the
kidneys are powerless to remove with sufficient rapidity ;
in the second, the diseased kidneys have thrown such a
strain on the heart that it suddenly collapses. Should
you detect any extreme rapidity of the breathing —
breathlessness — send for the doctor at once. This may
be the first sign of what is about to happen.
316. / have heard of a case of Scarlet Fever ivhere
the child, before the eruption shoived itself, ivas suddenly
struck prostrate, cold, and almost pulseless : ivhat, in
such a case, are the symptoms, and ivhat immediate treat-
ment do you advise 9
There is an exceptional case of Scarlet Fever, which
now and then occurs, and which requires exceptional
and prompt treatment, or death will quickly ensue.
We will suppose a case : one of the number, where
nearly all the other children of the family are laboring
under scarlet fever, is quite well, when suddenly — in a
few hours, or even, in some cases, in an hour — utter
prostration sets in, he is very cold, livid, gasping for
breath, and is almost pulseless, and is nearly insensible
— comatose.
Having sent instantly for a judicious medical man,
apply, until he arrives, hot bottles, hot bricks, hot bags
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of salt to the patient's feet, and legs, and back, wrap
liim in hot blankets, and give him hot brandy and
water (a tablespoonful of brandy to half a tumblerful
of hot water), give it him by teaspoonfuls continuously,
to keep him alive ; when he is warm and restored to
consciousness, the eruption will probably show itself,
and he will become hot and feverish.
AYe sometimes hear of a child, before the eruption
comes out, and within twenty-four hours of the attack,
dying of scarlet fever. When such is the case it is
owing to utter prostration : the disease acts as a power-
ful poison upon the heart, he is struck down, as though
for death, and if the plan be not adopted of keeping
him alive for a few hours by heat, and by stimulants,
until, indeed, the eruption comes out, he will never
rally again, but will die from scarlet fever poisoning and
from utter exhaustion. These cases are comparatively
rare, but they do occur from time to time, and when
they do, they demand exceptional, and prompt, and
energetic means to save them from ending in almost
immediate and certain death. '^ To be forewarned is
to be forearmed.^'*
317. Do grave symptoms always occur so suddenly in
malignant cases of Scarlet Fever 9
No, the instances I have narrated are exceptional.
Sometimes the child shows signs of a sorely stricken
heart at the end of the first week. The attack, to
commence with, is a sharp one : there is probably
diarrhea ; the throat is dry, inflamed and ulcerated ;
the rash dusky-looking ; the glands in the neck greatly
enlarged, the whole neck being swollen ; the fever high.
He is delirious, the tongue is dry, foul black secretions
* I have been reminded of this exceptional case of Scarlet
Fever by a most intelligent and valued patient of mine, who
had a child afflicted as above described, and whose child was
saved from almost certain death by a somewhat similar plan
of treatment to that advised in the text.
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cake on his teeth and lips, he steadily goes from bad to
worse, the body becomes cold, the breathing is gasping,
he is unconscious and pulseless, and dies.
Sometimes the termination is not so rapid as this,
and he lasts till the second week, perhaps longer, and
succumbs to another form of blood poisoning. The
condition of the throat, instead of improving, increases
in severity, parts literally melt away, the soft palate
disappears in part or entirely, and should the child
recover, the deformity resulting will be great. The
lungs inflame, abscesses form in the neck, the skin
ulcerates and matter is discharged. Abscesses arise in
the kidneys and elsewhere, and he is wasted to a shadow,
and dies exhausted. In bad cases of scarlet fever,
where there is much depression, it is necessary to give
stimulants and a more nourishing and easily digested
dietary than has been previously recommended. Every
endeavor must be made to tide the child over his illness
by skilful and assiduous nursing, by stimulants, by
nourishing liquid foods, and by cleansing applications
to the throat.
318. Ihave several other children at home : what am
I to do?
Scarlet fever poison is given off by the breath and
the evacuations. It is possible that the other children
may have already absorbed the germs of the disease, or
they may have been exposed to the same contagion, but
do not *' breed " the disease so quickly.
They must not be allowed near the sick child or his
nurses. They should be sent away to a friend^s or a
relative's house near, where there are no children, and
their temperature should be taken morning and evening.
If they develop the disease, they can immediately be
returned to the sick room at home. They must on no
account go to school, or they tuill sj^read the disease.
Remember the young are more prone to catch contagious
diseases than adults ; for
254 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
'* In the morn, and liquid dew of youth,
Contagious blastments are most imminent."
Shakespeare.
The incubation period of scarlet fever is a sliort one
usually from one to three days, rarely a week. A child
may return to his school or his playmates if he shows no
sign of infection in the shape of fever, or sore throat,
or rash, or any illness whatever, after seven clear days
dating from the last exposure to the disease.
319. What means do you advise to purify a house,
clothes, and furniture from the contagion of Scarlet
Fever 9
For a full account of this I must refer you to Con-
versation 299, under the heading of Diphtheria. If
there is a Sanitary Authority in your district, the
Sanitary Inspector will disinfect the room with sulphur,
and the clothing with the same disinfectant, if the
authority does not possess a super-heated steam disin-
fecting apparatus. Disinfection by hot air is not one
whit more reliable than fumigating by sulphur, which
is not an ideal way of treating woolen materials.
320. Have you any further observations to offer 07i
the precautions to he tahen against the spread of Scarlet
Fever ?
Look to your household drains and see that they are
in a good sanitary condition. Scarlet fever, like
diphtheria, can be conveyed by milk. The milk may
be contaminated from direct contact with the scarlet
fever poison. If it be allowed to stand in the sick room
it will absorb the poison, and if what remains is drunk
down-stairs, it will to a certainty convey the disease !
Cows sometimes suffer from an infectious disease called
'' sore teats,'^ which produces scarlet fever in the human
being. A limited outbreak of scarlet fever occurred in
Beckenham from direct contamination of the milk. A
child had been returned from the Infectious Hospital
who was subsequently found to be still slightly peeling.
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Her father milked cows for a dairyman who supplied part
of the district with milk. As a result, a small epidemic
of scarlet fever occurred in certain of the houses
supplied with milk by that dairyman. The epidemic
was soon stamped out on the cause being discovered.
Therefore, let this be a warning to you, and take the
precaution to boil your milk as soon as it arrives. You
never know what assassin is lurking in it. When the
doctor has given the child permission to leave the room
in which he has been so long confined, he should be
given a final bath there, leave all his clothes in the
room, and dress in fresh garments in a neighboring
apartment prepared to receive him. Eemember, quite
apart from sore throat, discharges from the ear or nose,
that the poison of scarlet fever can be conveyed as long
as there is any peeling. If there is any still, call your
doctor^s attention to the fact. There may be still a
little branny scurf at the back of the ear, in the hol-
lows behind the ankle bones, and between the toes, etc !
Be very careful when you wash him.
If scarlet fever should appear in a school, the school
must for a time be broken up, in order that the disease
may be stamped out. There must be no half measures
where such a fearful disease is in question. A house
containing scarlet fever patients should, by parents, be
avoided as the plague ; it is a- folly at any time to put
one^s head into the lion^s mouth ! Eemember, as I have
said before, and cannot repeat too often, there is no
preventive like the air of heaven, which should be
allowed to permeate and circulate freely through the
house. Air, air, air, aided by the glorious sunlight, are
the best disinfectants and preventives of scarlet fever
in the world.
321. What is German Measles 9
It is an infectious disease which sometimes looks like
scarlet fever, but much more often like measles. It
breeds true, that is, it produces German Measles, and not
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scarlet fever or measles, as it passes from child to child.
It is called Eubeola.
322. What are the symjotoms of German Measles f
An eruption is the most noticeable feature. The
eruption sometimes appears on the day the child feels
out of sorts ; sometimes not for two or three, or per-
haps more days. The child may feel quite well up to
the advent of the rash, or he may feel '^ unwell," and
mopes and does not want his food ; or he may have a
cold in his head, blood-shot eyes, and a sore throat for
a few days before the rash comes. The fever is very
slight, as a rule. The glands at the nape of the neck,
the back of the neck, under the jaw, in the armpits, or
in the groins may be a little enlarged, and sore.
Tlie Measles Rash is like that of measles (see Con-
versation 300), but it is rosy-colored, the half-moon
shaped patches are not so obvious, if present at all ; the
separate spots, which are not so distinct, tend to run
into larger patches on the face than in measles — the
whole face may be rosy-red. The rash fades in three
or four days, then leaves a stain, and the skin peels in a
branny way.
TJie Scarlatinal Rash is like that of scarlet fever, and
you would not be able to distinguish between them. If
the eruption is very pronounced, and the symptoms are
not marked, then it is possibly not scarlet fever, but in
the absence of an epidemic of German measles it prod-
aUy is scarlet fever, and should be treated as such. If
the child subsequently peels copiously there is no doubt
about it being scarlet fever.
323. Hoiv long does it "breed'' in the system lef ore
the disease asserts itself?
The incubation period of German measles is usually
much longer than measles — eighteen days from rash to
rash is the most frequent, but it may be as low as five
days and as much as three weeks. In measles the usual
time is nine or ten days.
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324. What is the treatinent?
Isolate the child and call in your doctor. He need
not go to bed unless he is ill. Keep the room at a
temperature of 60° Fahr., and well ventilate it. In
exceptional cases croup or inflammation of the lungs
may arise, so it is as well to be careful, and not expose
the child to draughts or a chilly atmosphere.
It is not necessary to notify the disease to the
Medical Officer of Health. He may be allowed to go
free as soon as peelmg has ceased. Disinfection is to
be conducted on the same lines as that recommended
for diphtheria, but it will not be necessary to repaper
the room. A child who has been exposed to infection
cannot be considered free until three weeks have elapsed
from the time of the last exposure, and then only if he
be quite well. Keep him away from school during that
time.
325. Wfiat is ChicJce?i-poxf
It is an infectious disease, chiefly attacking children,
and bears no relationship whatever to smallpox.
326. Will you descrilje the symptoms of Chicken-pox ?
Finding the eruption on the child^s body is usually
the first alarm. He may be a little out of sorts for a
few hours before ; perhaps has a shivering fit. The
eruption shows itself in from a few hours to twenty-
four hours from the child first appearing poorly. It is
a vesicular * disease. The eruption comes out in the
form of small rose-colored pimples, attacking the scalp,
the neck, the back, the chest, the shoulders, the limbs,
the mouth, tongue and soft palate, and the face slightly.
In smallpox the face is generally the part most affected.
These rose-colored pimples quickly become vesicles ;
the vesicles dry up or they become opaque, like ground
glass, rarely fill with matter, and then dry up with a
* Vesicles. Small elevations of the cuticle, coverin.2^ a fluid
wliich is generally clear and colorless at first, but becomes
afterwards whitisb and opaque, or pearly. — Sir T, Watson.
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scab. Sometimes they are depressed or dimpled in the
center. The eruption comes out in crops for four, five,
and rarely more succeeding days. On the body will be
found all varieties of eruption at the same time — pim-
ples, vesicles, and scabs. Sometimes the vesicles have
red rings round them, sometimes not. The disease is
sometimes called ^' Glass-pox," from the appearance of
the vesicles. Chicken-pox is usually attended with a
slight itching of the skin. Chicken-pox not at all in-
frequently leaves a scar or two or more to tell the tale.
Sometimes the rash is associated with one like scarlet
fever or measles, but this is a rare occurrence.
The amount of fever will depend upon the quantity
of the rash. If the rash is small in amount, the fever
is but trifling, if present at all ; if the rash is copious,
the fever is high, but it does not last many days, and
soon disappears.
327. What treatment do you advise? Is there any
danger f
Isolate the child ; adopt the same precautions as if
he were suffering from scarlet fever or diphtheria. You
are not compelled to notify the case to the Medical
Officer of Health. Send for your medical attendant,
and put the child on a slop diet. He may have toast
and water, or home-made lemonade to quench his thirst
while the fever lasts. Do not allow him to scratch him-
self ; the skin itches, and he is likely to do so. If he
scratches himself he is most likely to have scars after
the attack, and inoculate himself with matter which
will cause fresh and perhaps very troublesome " break-
ings-out." The irritation of the spots may be relieved
by smearing on Boracic Acid Vaseline. Usually the
disease is not followed by any troubles, but he may have
inflammation of the kidneys, and sometimes the erup-
tion mortifies. The vesicles or pustules become black,
and have a dirty red halo round them. This often hap-
pens if the child is suffering from tuberculosis, but it
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does not follow that he lias tuberculosis if some of the
spots do mortif}^ In weakly children tuberculosis may
follow the disease. He must not leave his room until
all the ernption has quite disa.p'peared, ichether it he
three, four, or five loeelcs. He is infectious as long as
there are any ^^ breakings-out.^^ At the termination of
the disease disinfect in the usual way ; the wall-paper
need not be removed.
328. / have other children in the house ivho have leen
exposed to infection ; hoiu soon may they go to school?
The incubation period of Chicken-pox is nearly
always fourteen days^ but it may be prolonged for a few
days longer. If the child has no signs of a rash for
twenty days, dating from the last exposure, he is free
to go to school.
329. What are the symptoms of Smallpox f
There are two varieties of the disease. One consists
in the eruption being of distinct pimples, each separate ;
the other, in which the pimjjles have all run into one
another — have become what is termed confluent. The
former is seldom dangerous ; the latter always danger-
ous. Smallpox that has been robbed of its virulence
by the patient having been either already vaccinated,
or by his having had a previous attack of smallpox,
is ushered in with severe symptoms — with symptoms
almost as severe as though the patient had not been
already somewhat protected either by vaccination or by
the previous attack of smallpox — that is to say, he has
a shivering fit, great depression of spirits and debility,
languor, sickness, headache, pains in the back and
loins, and occasionally delirium. After the above symp-
toms have lasted about three days the eruption shows
itself. The immense value of previous vaccination, or
a previous attack of smallpox, now comes into play.
In a case of unprotected smallpox, that is, where there
has been no vaccination, on the appearance of the erup-
tion all the above symptoms are aggravated, and the
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danger begins ; .while in the cases after vaccination, the
moment the eruption shows itself the patient feels better,
and, as a rule, rajDidlj recovers. The eruption of small-
pox after vaccination varies materially from the eruption
of the unprotected smallpox. The former eruption con-
sists of rose-colored spots. They are much like those
of chicken-pox, but more '^shotty^^ to the feel, and
perhaps appear in abundance. They may be confluent
and the fever high, when quite suddenly the fever stops
and the child is well. The spots become vesicular and
dry. Matter in them is rarely seen, and there is usu-
ally no secondary fever. A rash like scarlatina may
precede them. Sometimes there are all the signs of
the fever, but no trace of an eruption. While in the
latter disease — the unprotected smallpox — the ^' break-
ing-out " is composed entirely of pustules containing
matter, and which pustules are more on the face than
on any other part of the body. In the early stage the
pimples or ^^ breakings-out " feel like '^ hard shot "
covered over with skin. There is generally a peculiar
smell in both diseases — an odor once smelt never to be
forgotten. '' More than half of the children under five
years of age unprotected by vaccination die" (Collie).
330. Is Smallpox contagious ?
Smallpox is liiglily contagious. This ought to be
borne in mind, as a person laboring under the disease
must, if there be children in the house, either be sent
away himself, or else the children ought to be banished.
Another important piece of advice is — let all in the
house — children and adults, one and all — be vaccinated,
even if any or all have been previously vaccinated.
Even when vaccination is performed as late as six days
before the appearance of the eruption, it has a bene-
ficial effect upon the disease.
331. Wliat is tlie treatment of Smallpox 9
The Medical Officer of Health must be informed at
once of the occurrence. Isolate the patient, and send
CHILDHOOD. — ON DISEASE, ETC. 261
for your medical attendant at once. Place the child in
an airy well-ventilated apartment, the temperature of
which is to be 60° Fahr. Adopt all the hygienic pre-
cautions that have been advocated under the heading
Diphtheria (see Conversation 298). The following rules
should be borne in mind : — (1) To moderate the fever
by cooling drinks, cold or tepid sponging of the body.
(2) To support the vital powers, if they flag, by milk
and nourishing broths.
332. What are the best means to prevent pitti7ig in
Smallpox ?
He ought to be desired neither to pick nor to rub
the pustules. If he be too young to attend to these
directions, his hands must be secured in bags, just large
enough to hold them, and fastened round the wrists.
The nails must be cut very close. To relieve itching
olive oil should be used, or Boric Vaseline.
333. When is a patient free from infection'^ When
can he he discharged f
When all the scabs have cleared off, and his skin is
quite clear.
334. When is it safe for a child to retuim to school
after exposure to infection?
The incubation period of smallpox is twelve days
usually, but it may be longer. It will be safe for him
to return to school if he shows no symptoms for fifteen
days, dating from the last exposure.
335. How would you distinguish between Smallpox
and ChicTcen-pox ?
Smallpox may readily be distinguished from Chicken-
pox by the former disease being, notwithstanding its
modification, much more severe and the fever much
more intense and prolonged before the eruption shows
itself than chicken-pox ; indeed, in chicken-pox there
is frequently little or no fever either before or during
the eruption. The chicken-pox pimples are soft, the
smallpox pimples hard and ^'shotty." When the red
262 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
pimples come out in smallpox, whether it has been
modified by vaccination or not, the fever abates ; in
chicken-pox the fever is increased if the eruption is
abundant.
Smallpox pustules * have a particular predilection
for the forehead, face, and wrists ; this is not shown in
the eruption of chicken-pox. The production of ^^ mat-
ter " in the pimples of smallpox is the rule, in chicken-
pox the exception.
The dimpling of smallpox pustules is the rule ; in
chicken-pox pustules, or vesicles, only a few of them
show it, though in some cases nearly all may be formed
in this way. Kose-colored spots, vesicles, pustules, and
scabs are all seen at the same time in chicken-pox (show-
ing that the eruption comes out in different crops) ; in
smallpox the eruption is all of the same age, and con-
sequently more or less of the same appearance. If a
chickenpox vesicle or pustule is pricked, it usually col-
lapses, though not immriably ; if a smallpox pustule
is pricked it will not collapse. Measly and scarlatina-
like rashes are seen both in chicken-pox and smallpox,
so the presence or absence of these will not afford much
assistance in forming a correct view of the nature of the
disease.
336. Is Hooping-cough an inflammatory disease?
Hooping-cough in itself is not inflammatory, it is
purely spasmodic, but it is generally accompanied with
more or less of bronchitis, — inflammation of the mucous
membrane of the bronchial tubes, — on which account it
is necessary, in all cases of hooping-cough, to consult
a medical man, that he may watch the progress of the
disease and nip inflammation in the bud.
337. Will you have the goodness to give a trief his-
tory of Hooping-cough ?
Hooping-cough is emphatically a disease of the
young ; it is rare for adults to have it ; if they do, they
* Vesicles are called pustules when thej contain "matter,"
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usually suffer more severely than children. A child
seldom has it but once in his life. It is highly conta-
gious, and therefore frequently runs through a whole
family of children, giving much annoyance, anxiety,
and trouble to the mother and the nurses ; hence hoop-
ing-cough is much dreaded by them. It is amenable. to
treatment. Spring and summer are the best seasons
of the year for the disease to occur. This complaint
usually lasts from six to twelve weeks — sometimes for a
much longer period, more especially if proper means
are not employed to relieve it. It usually takes four-
teen days to " breed ^^ in the system before the " cold^'
commences, but it may be much less than this, perhaps
five days. The disease is contracted by contact with
one infected, and clothes may be the vehicle transfer-
ring the disease from the infected to the healthy, the
wearer escaping. Free ventilation renders the poison
much less potent, if not entirely innocuous. It occurs
in epidemics, like measles, but isolated cases are always
with us. Hooping-cough may either precede, attend,
or follow an attack of measles, but the association is
probably accidental only.
338. What are the symptoms of Hoojnng-cough ?
Hooping-cough commences as a common cold and
cough. The cough, for probably a week, — it may be
less, it may be ten days or a fortnight, — increases in
intensity ; at about which time is heard the character-
istic '^ hoop." The attack of cough comes on in par-
oxysms. In a paroxysm, the child coughs so long and
so violently, and expires so much air from the lungs
without inspiring any, that at times he appears nearly
exhausted and suffocated ; the veins of his neck swell ;
his face is nearly purple ; his eyes, with the severe ex-
ertion, almost seem to start from their sockets. At
length there is a sudden inspiration of air through the
contracted opening of the upper part of the windpipe,
causing the peculiar ^^hoop." After a little more
264 - ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
coughing he brings up some glairy phlegm from the
chest ; and sometimes he is at once relieved by vomit-
ing food from the stomach. The strain may prove so
violent as to cause him, quite helplessly, to pass his
evacuations in his clothing. At the next paroxysm the
same process is repeated, the child during the intervals,
in a favorable case, appearing quite well, and after the
cough is over, instantly returning either to his play or
to his food. The paroxysm is not always of this char-
acter. The ^'^hoop^^ may be the first stage of the par-
oxysm, and not the final one. The '' hoop^' is not the
characteristic of hooping-cough : tlic characteristic is
the peculiar paroxysmal cough. A child may pass
through hooping-cough without the ^^ hooping^' noise
putting in an appearance, or if so, but occasionally and
exceptionally. Infants of one year old and under fre-
quently do not make any ^^ hooping '^ sound, but the
paroxysm is present and perfectly marked and unmis-
takable.
Sometimes hooping-cough is ushered in by inflamma-
tion of the lungs, then the ^' hoops '^ may not appear,
perhaps for weeks, if at all. When inflammation of
the lungs comes on ^^ hooping, ^^ as a rule, disappears.
Generally after a paroxysm he is hungry, unless, indeed
there be severe inflammation either of the chest or of
the lungs. Sickness, as I before remarked, frequently
accompanies hooping-cough. The child usually knows
when an attack is coming on ; he dreads it, and there-
fore tries to prevent it ; he sometimes partially suc-
ceeds ; but, if he does, it only makes the attack, when
it does come, more severe. All causes of irritation and
excitement ought, as much as possible, to be avoided,
as passion is apt to bring on a severe paroxysm.
A new-born babe — an infant of one or two months old
— commonly escapes the infection ; but if, at that ten-
der age he unfortunately catches hooping-cough, it
is likely to fare harder with him than if he were older —
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the younger the child the greater the risk. But still,
in such a case, do not despair, as I have known numer-
ous instances of new-born infants, with judicious care,
recover perfectly from the attack, and thrive after it as
though nothing of the kind had ever happened.
A new-born babe, laboring under hooping-cough , is
liable to coiivulsions, which in this disease is one, indeed,
of the great sources of danger. There is something sus-
picious about the early cold and cough of hooping-
cough which should make a mother careful. The cough
is a little more irritating than it usually is with an ordi-
nary cold. Something seems to stick in the throat,
which cannot be effectually coughed away, and the
efforts to remove it are therefore frequent. The cough is
particularly irritable at night. The child splutters, and
coughs, and sneezes much more persistently than with
an ordinary cold, and the cough is hoarse and dry.
There is a little fever during this time ; the child may
or may not be a little " out of sorts. ''^ When the par-
oxysmal cough arrives the face becomes puffy and rather
dusky, and the eyes bloodshot. A small blood vessel
sometimes bursts in the " white of the eye,"*' and a blood-
red splash takes its place. It is rare to meet with a
complete ^^ black eye"'' — all the ^'^ white of the eye"' is
then blood-red, and the skin of the eyelids and sur-
rounding parts black and blue and bruised-looking.
The violence of the cough does this, and little blood
vessels may burst elsewhere — thus in the nose, the
throat and the lungs, inside the eye (retina), the ear,
the brain, and so on. Bleeding from the nose is com-
mon. If blood is coughed up in quantity it usually de-
notes inflammation of the lungs. When there is severe
bronchitis the expectoration is very considerable. Three
stages have usually 'been described as recurring in
hooping-cough ; but that is not so, there are but two.
Firstly, the ordinary cold and cough ; and secondly, the
paroxysmal cough. Some paroxysms are attended by a
266 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
" hoop," some are not ; sometimes one is prominent,
sometimes the other — there is really no rule for this.
At the Evelina Hospital all the varieties are recorded on
a specially prepared chart. As the disease declines the
coughs, with and without '' hoop," gradually become
less and less, and finally disappear. Children, when
they have recovered from the disease, acquire a ^^ whoop-
ing " habit. Months after, indeed a year or more after,
an ordinary cough may sometimes be replaced by a
paroxysmal cough. This occasional relapse into a bad
habit does not mean a fresh acquisition of the complaint.
339. Wlicit diseases are associated until, and ivhat are
the tad after effects of hooping cough f
Diarrhea ; severe bronchitis ; inflammation of the
lungs ; collapse of the lungs ; matter in the chest ;
emaciation from constant vomiting, or bad inflammation
of the lungs, and so on ; inflammation of the glottis
(croup) in a mild form (I have only once had to perform
tracheotomy for severe croup) ; convulsions (rarely a
ruptured blood vessel in the brain) ; a drowsy state,
which is very dangerous ; tubercular disease of the
glands of the lungs, the lungs and the brain, and so
on ; deformity of the chest.
Convulsions are always a source of anxiety. Your
doctor should be sent for immediately. They may
occur during a paroxysm, they may be associated with
bad bronchitis and inflammation of the lungs, and they
may mean commencing tubercular inflammation of the
membranes of the brain.
340. What is the treatmeyit of hooping-cough ?
This infectious disease is not one of which the law of
the land com23els notification to the Medical Officer of
Health ; but if you will be guided by me, do not hesitate
one moment, and promptly isolate the child. Isolation
will doubtless induce a little more upset in the house,
but the disease is sure to be less severe than if he be
allowed to run about, quite apart from the benefit it
CHILDHOOD.— OK DISEASE, ETC. 267
will confer on your own household and those of your
neighbors in the freedom from the wholesale distri-
bution of infection.
Isolate the child then ; put him in an airy room at
the top of the house on the sunny side, and devote the
whole floor to him, if that be possible. Take care that
the rooms be well ventilated, for good air is essential to
the cure. The temperature should be kept night and
day at 60° Fahr., and no liiglier. Avoid all draughts.
His bronchial tubes and lungs are in an irritable con-
dition, and will more readily inflame therefore. If
they do the case becomes more serious.
If the child be not weaned, keep him entirely to the
breast ; if he be weaned, to a milk and farinaceous diet.
If the bronchitis attending the Hooping-cough be
severe, confine him to his bed, and treat him as though
it were simply a case of bronchitis.*
Let the spine and the chest be well rubbed, every
night and morning, either with soap liniment or with a
stimulating liniment (Prescription XVI. in Appendix).
Let him wear a broad band of new flannel, which
should extend round his chest and stomach to his back.
It ought to be changed every night and morning, in
order that it maybe dried before putting on again. To
keep it in its place, it should be fastened by means of
tapes and with shoulder-straps, or a cotton wool jacket
can be made by quilting cotton wool on flannel. Cut
out two pieces, a back and a front piece, which are to
reach from the root of the neck to the level of the navel.
Attach tapes to these quilted pieces so that they can be
tied over the shoulders and along the sides, from the
arm-pits downwards. If the child is very sick, and
emaciates from lack of nourishment, he will have to be
fed by the teaspoonful with nourishing food, such as
peptonized beef soup, or beef juice, and by peptonized
* For the treatment of Bronchitis, see Conversation 284.
268 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
milk immediately after the sickness. In this way some
of the nourishment is sure to be absorbed into the sys-
tem before the next paroxysm arrives and expels it
from the stomach.
Do not give either Paregoric or Syrup of White Pop-
pies, unless the doctor orders them ; do not dose him
with quack medicine ; do not give him stimulants, but
rather give him plenty of nourishment, such as milk
and farinaceous food ; do not be afraid of his having
fresh air, with freedom from draughts, and plenty of it
— for fresh, pure air is the grand remedy, after all that
can be said and done in hooping-cough.
341. What is to he done during a jparoxysm of hoop-
ing-cough f
If the child be old enough, let him stand up ; but if
he be either too young or too feeble, raise his head, and
bend his body a little forward ; then support his back
with one hand, and the forehead with the other. Let
the phlegm, the moment it is within reach, be wiped
with a soft handkerchief out of his mouth.
342. For hoiv long a j^eriod must tlie cliild he isolated f
Six weeks at least, dating from the first ^^ hoop " or
paroxysmal cough ; but the child is probably infectious
as long as the cough lasts. When the cough is cured
he may be considered free.
343. Should my other childre?i go to school ?
If they have been exposed to infection they cannot be
considered free until fourteen days have elapsed, dating
from the last exposure to infection. If at the end of
that time the children are perfectly w^ell, they may re-
turn to school.
344. What shall I do with him when he is free from
infection ?
There is nothing like change of air to a high, dry,
healthy country place. Let him almost live in the open
air. A farmhouse in a high, dry, and salubrious neigh-
borhood is as good a place as can be chosen. If he be
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not quite well in a short time, take him to the seaside ;
the sea breeze will often, as if by magic, drive away any
debility that may remain, and he will soon be rosy and
fat again. If the hooping-cough has caused debility,
give him cod-liver oil, — or cod-liver oil and iron in equal
proportions, — a teaspoonful or two three times a day,
giving it him on a full stomach, aftei" Ms meals.
345. Stqjpose my cliild should have a shivering fit, is
it to he looked iqoon as an important symptom ?
Certainly. Nearly all serious illnesses commence
with a shivering fit : severe colds, influenza, inflamma-
tions of different organs, scarlet fever, measles, small-
pox, and very many other diseases may begin in this
way. If, therefore, your child should ever have a shiver-
ing fit, i7ista7itly send for a medical man, as delay might
be dangerous. A few hours of judicious treatment at the
commencement of an illness is frequently of more avail
than days and weeks, nay months, of treatment, when
disease has gained a firm footing. A serious disease
often steals on insidiously, and we have perhaps only
the shivering fit, which might be but a slight one, to
tell us of its approach.
A trifli?ig ailment, too, by neglecting the premonitory
symptom, which at first might only be indicated by a
slight shivering fit, will sometimes become a mortal
disorder : —
" The little rift within the lute,
That by and by will make the music mute,
And ever widening slowly silence all." *
* The above extract from Tennyson is, in my humble opinion,
one of the most beautiful pieces of poetry in the English lan-
guage. It is a perfect gem, and a volume in itself, so truthful,
so exquisite, so full of the most valuable reflections ; for in-
stance ; (1) " The little rift within the lute,''— the little tuber-
cle within the lung " that by and by will make the music
mute, and ever widening slowly silence all," and the patient
eventually dies of consumption. (2) The little rent — the liitle
270 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
346. In case of a shivering fit, perhaps you ivill tell
me tvhat to do.
Instantly have the bed warmed, and put the child to
bed. Apply either a hot bottle or a hot brick, wrapped
in flannel, to the soles of his feet. Put an extra blanket
on his bed, and give him a cup of hot milk. As soon
as the shivering fit is over, and he has become hot, grad-
ually lessen the extra quantity of clothes on his bed,
and take away the hot bottle or the hot brick from his
feet. When your doctor arrives, he will find out the
cause of the shivering fit, and prescribe accordingly.
347. Have the goodness to describe the complaiiit of
children called Mtimps.
The Mumps, inflammation of the " parotid " gland,
— a gland under the ear, — is commonly ushered in with
a slight feverish attack, but fever may be absent."" After
a short time, usually three or four days, but sometimes
almost as soon as the child sickens, a swelling of stony
hardness is noticed before and under the ear, and spread-
ing on to the side of the face. One side commences,
then the other usually follows suit. The color of the
skin is not altered but it may be a trifle reddened. This
lump is exceedingly painful, and continues painful and
swollen for four or five days, or a week. It then grad-
ually disappears, leaving not a trace behind. The swell-
ing of mumps never gathers. It occurs, as a rule, but
once in a lifetime. Sometimes the glands underneath
the jaw bone (the sub-maxillary glands), one on either
side, are swollen, as well as the ^^ parotid '' glands. The
parotid glands may escape and the sub-maxillary glands
alone be swollen.
rift of a very minute vessel in the brain, produces an attack
of apoplexy, and the patient dies. (3) Each and all of us, in
one former another, sooner or later, will hare ''the little
rift within the lute." But why give more illustrations ? — a
little reflection will bring numerous examples to my fair
reader's memory.
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348. Is the complaint of Mumps contagious f
It is contagious, and has been known to run through
a whole family or school ; but it is not complicated un-
less, which is rarely the case, it leaves the '^^ parotid ^^
gland, and migrates to others parts of the body, as it
may do in boys at puberty.
349. How long is the disease *' ireeding" 9
Usually three weeks : it may be only fourteen days or
as long as twenty-five days.
350. Wliat is the treatment of Mumps f
Isolate the child. The disease need not be reported
to the Medical Officer of Health. Foment the swelling,
four or five times a day, with a flannel wrung out of
hot camomile and poppy-head decoction ; * and apply,
every night, a linseed-meal poultice to the swollen gland
or glands. For a few days let the little patient live on
bread and milk, light puddings, and arrowroot. Keep
him in a well-ventilated room. Give him a little mild,
aperient medicine. He will be free from infection in
three weeks^ time, dating from the first appearance of
the swelling. Mumps is very infectious from the com-
mencement of the disease, and gradually becomes less
and less.
A child may be considered free from the disease if he
does not develop it for twenty-five clear days, dating
from the last exposure. Do not send such a child to
school until he is free,
351. My child looks pale, his limbs seem to hurt him
when 1 touch them, for he cries, and he does not use them
'properly. One or tivo of the large joints seem a little
stvollen to me, and perhaps there is a faint hlush on them.
I also notice that o?ie joint ivhich was swollen yesterday
is not so to-day. He seems to he a little feverish. What
treatment do you advise f
* Four poppy-heads and four ounces of camomile flowers to
be boiled in four pints of water for half an hour, and then
strained to make the decoction.
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You have heard of the ailment called Kheumatism ? I
should think your child has Eheumatism, in other words,
Eheumatic Fever. Send for a doctor at once. Put on
a flannel night-shirt, wrap him in the blankets, and
give him milk 07ily, no beef tea or meat broths. This
is '^ the little rift within the lute,^^ and if you do not
obtain instant medical treatment, his heart will almost
certainly become diseased, and he will be a cripple for
life, if not worse. The disease seems mild to you, a
mere triviality perhaps, but it is nothing of the sort, so
send for a medical man without delay. I would here
warn you about attributing pains in the limbs to growth
— " growing pains " they are often called. If your child
has pains in the limbs, do not look upon them as triv-
ialities to be accounted for by the progress of growth.
They may mean rheumatism. They may denote several
other diseases, but it is only a medical man who can
determine as to their nature, and advise you as to their
appropriate treatment ; therefore, if a child complains
of pains in his limbs, or if his limbs seem to be painful,
seek advice.
352. What is St. Vitus' s Dance ?
It is a disorder of the brain, the outward and visible
sign of which is muscular movements, often combined
with muscular weakness, and blunting of the intellect.
The muscular movements, which arise spontaneously,
are of a purposeless jerking character, uncontrolled by,
or but partially controlled by, the icill, which is weak
and powerless to keep them in subjection. The
emotions, on the contrary, are capable of setting the
muscles in action, and of intensifying their spasmodic
movements. Voluntary movements, if the power re-
mains to execute them, are greatly hampered and inter-
fered with. They are conducted in a jerky, erratic man-
ner, or their purpose may be entirely defeated by the
insane behavior of opposing muscles. Eecovery is the
rule. Girls are attacked more frequently than boys in
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the proportion of five to two. It usually occurs between
the ages of six and fifteen years.
353. What are the causes of St. Vitus's Dance 9
A highly excitable^ nervous^ anemic girl is specially
liable to an attack, more so if she has but lately recovered
from some severe illness, such as Scarlet Fever or Ty-
phoid Fever. Children with a nervous inheritance are
predisposed to it, and the nature of the brain of the
female sex, in which the emotional elements are very
highly developed, acts as an additional predisposing
cause. The intellectual forcing-houses of the present
day have much to answer for in the way of preparing
the soil for nervous attacks of all kinds.
" All work and no play,
Makes Jack a dull boy ! "
and they make Jill a dull girl as well. Many brains
will not, nay, they cannot, respond to the forcing proc-
ess. The wear and tear, let alone the anxiety and worry
of incessant competition, are too great for them, and they
simply break down under the hourly, daily strain. The
brain will the more readily succumb if the body is weak
and anemic. And the body will be weak and anemic if
the child does not obtain a sufficiency of ivholesome
nourishing food, plenty of fresh air, and plenty of play.
The old saying, ^'^Menssanain corpore sano," a healthy
mind in a healthy body, was uttered centuries ago, and
to-day the truth of it cannot be controverted. Ground
down by the modern intellectual Car of Juggernaut the
intellectual centers of the brain become weakened instead
of strengthened, and the emotions freed from proj^er con-
trol begin to unpleasantly assert themselves. At this time
perhaps some sudden mental shock completes the mis-
chief, which has been brewing for months past. Many
are the explanations which are given for the '' last straw, ^'
thus — ^'^ being suddenly- attacked by a dog;^^ '^ being
followed by an intoxicated man in the street -," " 2l sud-
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den alarm of fire ; '' ^^ being frightened on running across
the road ;" ^^ a bad nightmare/'^ are just a few examples
of the sort of nervous shock which may be held respon-
sible.
When the attack has once been induced, you have
only to watch a child suffering from St. Yitus's Dance
to see how powerful and how easily excited the emotions
are ; how they play upon the nervous muscular appara-
tus of the brain, and set it, all uncontrolled as it is, into
grotesque and purposeless action. How utterly power-
less is the will !
Not only is there a ^^ nervous" element in its causation,
which in itself is sufficient without the additional one
of a sudden mental shock, but Eheumatism and St.
Vitus's Dance often go hand in hand. St. Vitus^s
Dance may follow Rheumatism, Rheumatism may follow
St. Vitus's Dance, they may be present together. There
is a fell partnership between the two diseases, the
articles of which are not yet made public — but they
will be some day. There is also probably some blood
disorder at work.
354. JVJiat are the symptoms of St. Vitus's Dance ?
We will take a simple case to begin with, which is
likely to pass unheeded and be ascribed to other
causes.
The mother or schoolmistress first notices that the
child is inattentive, she is dull and listless, and mopes,
or is peevish and irritable. She cannot write her exer-
cise, as well as she used to do, her sewing is badly done,
her pianoforte performances are slovenly. She does not
dress herself so deftly as she used to do, but fumbles
when doing up her garments.
She is very probably unjustly punished for her lack
of attention, which makes matters worse. She is fidgety,
and will not keep still. She drags her leg as she walks,
and is not sufficiently precise when taking exercise, and
^^ t>ehaves badly," and to add to the enormity of her
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offense she sometimes '^^ makes grimaces in the street."
The child's companions may accuse her of '^ making
faces." This sort of thing may go on for days or
weeks. Occasionally very obvious loss of power in a
limb, which comes on graduall}^ (this only applies to
the arms) is the most noticeable thing. This is some-
times spoken of as '' Paralytic cliorea.'' Some slight
twitchings of the limb itself, or of the face, or elsewhere,
will be detected in such a case.
Now, let us watch a child who is much worse than
this. Here there is something unmistakably amiss,
inattention and slovenliness, often unjustly followed by
punishment, cannot now be the explanation. The
grimaces are very pronounced, and are quite purposeless.
Her expression is dull, vacant and listless, and she will
readily laugh or burst into tears for little if any
provocation, perhaps quite inopportunely. If told to
protrude her tongue there is some hesitation, it then
flies out like a jack-in-the-box, and is returned into the
mouth with a snap. As she stands before us her
shoulders are shrugged, her head is tossed, and her eye-
balls jerked. Fii:st the arm is thrown in front of the
body, then behind it, it twists and contorts, the fingers
are widely separated and opened, then shut, the palms
of the hands are splayed, she sways her body. If the
child is given a cup of milk to drink it is either dropped
or spilled, or with much jerkiness of movement the cup
is finally dashed to the mouth when the fluid is gulped
down. The movements of the lower limbs are not so
marked as those of the upper, but as she stands she
cannot keep still, she acts as if she were on hot bricks,
the feet are shuffled they cross one another, she wriggles
and twists, and if told to walk she stumbles or makes
a rush for the place she wants to reach. When sitting
on a chair she cannot keep still, and fidgets about.
She breathes in an irregular, jerky fashion. She cannot
talk properly, from want of control over the muscles
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which are used for that purpose — she splutters and
answers questions in an explosive fashion.
Finally^ we will review one of the worst cases. The
jerking purposeless movements of the muscles are all
exaggerated — they may be so violent as to throw the
child out of bed. She wastes. Her limbs become
bruised and sore, the elbows, wrists, knuckles and knees
break out into sores from the frequent chafing, to
which the skin is rudely subjected. The child does not
talk, either from want of control over the muscles, or
from intellectual defect. She passes her evacuations in
the bed. The danger is here great. She may die from
exhaustion or want of sleep, she may have high fever,
or become unconscious, or blood poisoning may happen
from the unhealthy sores on her body. These severe
cases may become maniacal.
In St. Vitus^s Dance any emotional disturbance will
increase the movements — simply looking at the child
will develop or intensify them. They disappear during
sleep and when the child is at rest in bed, if the case is
not a very serious one, or has been in bed for a few
days, no or hardly any movements will be seen. One
side of the body is usually affected first, and when both
sides become involved the movements of one side are
often in excess of those of the other. Weakness of the
limbs is usually associated with the movements. Chil-
dren are often mentally dull, but in some instances the
mental characteristics are not altered. Constipation
frequently attends the disease, and the onset of fever is
unusual, should the case happen not to be a very severe
one, unless there is some rheumatic complication. A
child may have one, two, three or more attacks. It
usually lasts from two to three months, sometimes less,
often more.
355. What is the treatment of St. Vitus' s Da?ice ?
If the child be attending school, withdraw her, and
put aside her books. A week or two in bed for a mild
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case, keeping the child as quiet as possible, is an ex-
cellent remedy. For a marked case rest in bed, milk
and farinaceous puddings, freedom from all emotional
disturbances, and gentle regulation of the bowels will
work wonders. A child with St. Vitus's Dance is better
under the control of a stranger, such as a trained
nurse, than in its mother's charge. The treatment is in
a large measure moral, and however competent a mother
might be to exercise her powers on behalf of the child
of a stranger, she can hardly be expected to excel in this
respect in the management of her own offspring. The
choicest of heaven's gifts, the maternal sympathy, will
prove too strong for her judgment. No, in a marked
case of St. Vitus's Dance take my advice, and have a
nurse, a kind, firm, judicious nurse. In severe cases
the administration of nourishment becomes a source of
anxiety, and the child may have to be fed by passing a
tube into the stomach, or by the bowel. If the child
throws herself about violently, put her into a bed,
padding the sides with pillows, and place a nurse in
special charge. A hammock may be better than a bed.
On no account try to control the violence by tying the
hands or legs. Use a water bed if bed sores threaten.
If there is much mental dulness and apathy, it will,
perhaps, be necessary to have a macintosh in use,
because the child is liable to pass her evacuations in the
bed. Strict attention must be paid to cleanliness, or bed
sores will be the more readily induced. I do not advise
you to undertake the treatment of your child yourself.
You ought to send for a doctor, because St. Vitus's
Dance and Rheumatism are often associated together.
Heart disease may steal upon the child without the
slightest suspicion on your part. Frequent examina-
tions of the heart are always advisable. St. Vitus's
Dance, apart from heart troubles, may be dangerous to
life^children do occasionally die from this, and they
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require great skill in the way of treatment to bring
about a successful issue.
An attack, which to you would be quite indistin-
guishable from St. Vitus's Dance, might indicate a
tumor in the brain !
If, when washing the child, you should discover
nodules, the size of an almond, more or less, under the
skin at the back of the head, about the shoulder blades,
the spine, the hips or the joints, direct your doctor's
attention to the occurrence. They are called ^^rheu-
matic nodules."
When the child has sufficiently recovered, she may be
allowed to get up, provided any remaining movements
are slight, and are not increased thereby. On recovery,
gymnastic exercises, calisthenics, the skipping-rope, and
so on, will tend to once again bring the errant nervous
centers, regulating muscular movements, under the full
control of the will. Change of air and scene are useful,
provided they are taken at some quiet country house,
under the charge of a suitable person.
356. Is there not a condition of fidgetiness noticeable
in some 7iervous children which yaight he mistaken for
St. Vitus' s Dance f
Yes, there is. Such children are highly excitable and
emotional. Under emotional excitement they wink
their eyes, they grimace, perhaps they are unduly fid-
gety with their fingers, much less frequently they are
unable to sit still. If this was a trifle more pronounced
it would be called St. Vitus's Dance, and without care-
ful watching it would be impossible to assert that it is
not so. They may be considered border-land cases.
See if the child is being over-pressed at school, if the
home-lessons are a worry, and mean sitting up later than
is advisable. Send the child to bed early — she must
not be permitted to sit up to all hours, as many such
children are allowed to do. This Condition should cer-
tainly be looked upon as a danger signal, and you had
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better seek advice. Plenty of sleep, plenty of fresh air,
plenty of good food at meal-thnes, freedom from excite-
ment of all kinds, plenty of play, firm and judicious
moral control and Sifew lessons are the requisites.
357. Please tell me something ahout boils.
Boils are rarely seen in infants, in young children
seldom, but schoolboys often suffer from them — indeed
there may be quite an epidemic of boils in the school.
Should an infant soon after birth suffer from '^boils/^
you had better take him to see the doctor, as he may
have some constitutional disorder vi^hich will require
tonic treatment. Boils are due to germs which, finding
their way into the hair-sacs, set up acute inflammation,
and so acute is it that the central part of the boil dies
and comes away later on as the core.
Boils are contagious. If you have other children
remember this. If the child conveys the matter from
the boil to his skin by scratching, he may have a
^^ breaking-out^^ or a boil may arise. The germs are
more likely to be rubbed into the skin where the
clothes cause friction, therefore, as might be expected,
the neck and the buttocks are favorite situations. Boils
may come out singly or in crops.
358. What is the treatme7it of Boils ?
Do not use poultices : if you do fresh boils will arise.
The best application is aBoracic Acid fomentation (r^V/e
Conversations 367 and 426), not too large, which should
be changed every hour or two. When the boil is very
red, inflamed and painful, a purge should be given.
Lancing will relieve the pain, but it is better not to re-
sort to this in children, as the fear and terror such in-
spires will do more harm than the lancing will do good.
If you look carefully at the center of a boil you will see
a hair protruding. This should be always pulled out
with a pair of pincers. A channel will then be formed
by which the matter can escape. The fomentation will
soon cause the boil to ''break'' and as soon as the cor^
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comes away it will commence to heal. Either continue
the fomentations, or dust the part with a powder con-
taining one part Iodoform and thi'ee parts Boracic Acid,
covering all with a dressing of Boracic Lint.
If the child is in a low state of health, you had better
take him to your doctor and have him examined. Send
him for a change to the seaside. If there is no con-
stitutional disturbance, local treatment to the boil will
alone be necessary.
359. Do cMldren suffer from Typhoid Fever ?
Yes ; cases sometimes occur in infants a few months
old, but it is not usual to meet with it until four years
of age. Children and young people are more suscep-
tible to the disease than adults, but they have it in a
milder form. The onset is indefinite. The child is
^' out of sorts," sits over the fire, is dull, complains of
headache, and is sick. He is a trifle feverish during
the day, but the fever is worse at night ; his face is
flushed and he is delirious. He suffers from sweats.
During the second week his stomach begins to swell,
and rose-colored pimples, coming out in crops, which
last two, three, or four days, make their appearance.
There are just a few of them on the body, or they may
be very numerous all over him. He suffers perhaps
from looseness of the bowels, but is often constipated.
Occasionally the motions are typical — pea-soup like.
The tongue is coated with fur, but clean at the tip and
edges ; later the fur darkens, and dried secretions col-
lect about the lips, teeth and gums. Finally it is red
and '' beefy " looking. The disease lasts from ten days
to three weeks. Eelapses are not uncommon. In this
disease the bowels are nearly always ulcerated. Death
may occur from heart failure, or lung complications, or
perforation of the bowel, or blood poisoning. Death
from hemorrhage from the bowel in children is rare —
bleeding may be profuse and yet they recover. The
child may waste and die.
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The case must be reported to the Medical Officer of
Health. The child is to be isolated and the same hy-
gienic precautions are to be adopted as in diphtheria
(see Conversation 298). The motions and soiled bed
linen will convey the disease (see Conversation 380).
Solid food must not be given unless the doctor orders
it — disobedience in this respect may lead to perfora-
tion of the bowel and death. If during the height of the
fever the temperature suddenly falls to normal, or below
it, and the child appears to be much worse, send for the
doctor. If there be bleeding from the bowels with this,
keep him very quiet and apply cloths wrung out in ice-
cold water to the abdomen. The disease is conveyed by
drain air, contaminated water, contaminated milk. It
takes eight to twenty-three days to ^^ breed''' in the
system. The child is not free from infection until four-
teen days after the subsidence of the fever. Consti-
pation is usually troublesome during convalescence and
for some time after.
360. What are sympto7ns of Earache f
A young child screaming shrilly, violently, and con-
tinuously, is oftentimes owing to the earache. If a
baby, the child is restless, he rolls his head, puts his
hands up to his head or ear, and refuses to rest Ms head
on the affected side. Carefully, therefore, examine each
ear, and ascertain if there be any discharge ; if there
be, the cause will be explained. The inflammation may
subside or matter form.
If an older child, he will complain of earache.
Screaming from earache may be distinguished from
the screaming from bowel-ache by the former (earache)
being more continuous — indeed, being one continued
scream, and from the child putting his hand to his
head ; while, in the latter (bowel-ache), the pain is
more of a coming and going character, and he draws
up his legs to his bowels. Again in the former (ear-
ache), the secretions from the bowels are natural ;
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while, in the latter (bowel-ache), the secretions from
the bowels are usually depraved, and probably offensive.
But a careful examination of the ear will generally at
once decide the nature of the case. If matter forms, it
breaks the drum of the ear, and so passes out. The symp-
toms are then relieved. The drum may heal, or a per-
manent hole is left in it. If attention is paid to the
disorder at once, it probably will heal, as the opening
is slit-like, and readily joins, but if an unhealthy dis-
charge is allowed to go on for a long time, the slit be-
comes a hole, and the hole will never heal.
Pent-up matter in the ear may lead to all the signs
of acute brain disease, and the baby may even die.
Inflammation of the ear may arise from cold, from ex-
tension to the ear from sore throat, adenoid vegetations
(see Conversation 167), scarlet fever, measles, diph-
theria, hooping-cough, and so on. Earache may be
complained of, iDitliout inflammatioji of the ear, in sore
throat, decayed teeth, and painful glands behind the
jaw.
361. Wliat is the test remedy for Earache?
Send for a doctor at once. Apply to the ear a small
flannel bag, filled with hot salt — as hot as can be com-
fortably borne, or foment the ear with a flannel wrung
out of hot camomile and poppy-head decoction. A
roasted onion, enclosed in muslin applied to the ear, is
an old-fashioned and favorite remedy, and may, if the
bag of hot salt, or if the hot fomentation do not relieve
be tried. Put into the ear, but not very far, a small
piece of cotton wool, moistened with warm olive oil, or
with a few drops of laudanum. Take care that the
wool is always removed before a fresh piece be substi-
tuted, as if it be allowed to remain in any length of
time, it may produce a discharge from the ear. You
may also try a warm linseed-meal poultice applied to the
back of the ear. Avoid all cold applications. A leech
or two placed on the prominent piece of bone at the
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back of the ear is also useful. AYhen the doctor arrives
he may be able to relieve all the symptoms by blowing
into the ear, by way of the Eustachian tube, through
the nose with a specially constructed apparatus. This
will often allow the inflammatory materials to escape from
the ear without breaking through the drum, as they
otherwise might do. Should matter have formed, and
an exit cannot be found for it in the way I have sug-
gested, then the doctor may be able to give great relief
by making a small puncture in the drum. This will
free the matter, and if suitable remedies are applied and
the Eustachian tube is kept open in the way I have told
you, healing will soon take place. In my next Con-
versation I intend to tell you about chronic discharges
from the ear, and you will then understand the impor-
tance of seeking skilled medical advice. If your child
has enlarged tonsils and adenoid vegetations, you must
have them removed without delay. Putting off the evil
day is dangerous. I look upon '^''adenoid vegetations'^
as the worst offender in the production of recurrent at-
tacks of earache, and an examination should be made
to determine whether the complaint is present or
not.
A knitted or crocheted hat, with woolen rosettes
over the ears, is, in the winter time, an excellent hat
for a child subject to earache. The hat may be pro-
cured at any dry goods store.
362. Wliat are the causes of chronic discharges from
the ear ?
They are left after attacks of acute inflammation of
the ear which have proceeded to the formation of mat-
ter and rupture of the drum, or they may be due to
tubercular disease.
363. What is the treatment f
The ear must be kept clean. Syringe it frequently
with warm Boracic Lotion, five grains to an ounce of
water, if the discharge is profuse. If the discharge is
284 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
slight, blow powdered Boracic Acid into the ear night
and morning by means of a quill. Improve the general
health by giving cod-liver oil and iron and send him to
the sea coast. If change of air be not practicable, great
attention should be paid to ventilation. Other methods
requiring special knowledge and skill must be under-
taken by a doctor — they are sometimes very important.
If the skin behind the ear becomes swollen and red,
and the ear painful, send for your doctor witliout delay
— an operation will be necessary.
364. Are there any dangers arising from discliar ges-
from the ear f
Yes, several. They are paralysis of the face, abscess
of the brain, inflammation of the membranes of the
brain, and blood poisoning. Dangerous symptoms are
likely to arise if the ear is not kept clean. Ahvays
heep a discharging ear siveet and clean ; not to do so is
courting death !
365. Is it dangerous to lox a child's ears 9
Yes, very. You must never box a child^s ears. You
may rupture the drum, acute inflammation of the ear
may arise from the violence, and serious brain troubles
follow. It is cruel and cowardly to box a child^s ears,
— choose some less vulnerable spot for chastisement,
should that be necessary.
366. What are the causes of Deafness f
Apart from the diseases just mentioned, adenoid vege-
tations (see Conversation 157) are a fertile source of deaf-
ness, and when chronic changes have taken place in the
ear often but little good can be done in the way of treat-
ment. Prevention is better than cure, and adenoid vege-
tations should always be removed as soon as possible, to
ensure against such a risk. Enlarged tonsils will also
cause deafness. Wax in the ears is an occasional cause.
One poor little fellow, the son of a clergyman, aged
seven years, had been frequently punished for constant
inatte?itio?i, extending over a period of two or three
CHILDHOOD.— OK DISEASE, ETC. 285
years. The little man was not inattentive in the least
— he had both ears filled with hard wax ! When
this was removed he was as bright as conld be
wished. This should prove a lesson to you. If a child
is continually inattentive have his hearing tested, for
he may be deaf. A child may be born deaf. Deafness
may arise from acute destructive inflammation of the
nervous mechanism of the ear in scarlet fever. It may
be owing to a constitutional complaint, and it often
arises in typhoid fever.
367. What is the treatment of ^' sty" on tlie eyelid?
Bathe the eye frequently with warm Boracic Lotion,
five grains to the ounce of water, and apply, every night
at bedtime, a Boracic Acid fomentation by wringing
out Boracic Lint in a little boiling water, applying it to
the eye and covering it with pink jaconet. Place a clean
pad of cotton wool over all, and fix it with a band-
age.
368. My child squints, lohat is the hest treatment f
Squinting is a *^ cast in the eye " is usually first detect-
ed when the infant's attention is attracted to near ob-
jects. It may affect either eye indifferently, or only
one eye constantly. The continuous wearing of spec-
tacles commencing at 2^ years of age, may cure the de-
formity, but if not, an operation will be necessary. If
one eye squints and the deformity is neglected, great
loss of vision in the squinting eye will follow, even if
the eye is sound at the commencement, and not, as
sometimes happens, congenitally or otherwise defective.
A doctor alone can decide the cause and advise as to the
appropriate treatment.
369. What is Ophthalmia 9
It is a disease of the mucous membrane covering
part of the eyeball and the inside of the lids. If you
detect a small speck of matter on the inside of a child's
eye, near the nose, between the lids, and if he complains
of pain or smarting, or a feeling of grit inside the eyes,
286 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
and the eyes look blood-shot, take him to see a doctor.
The matter from the eyes may be profuse and the lids
may be swollen. Sometimes ophthalmia is very serious,
and the clear part of the eye, '''the sight," may be at-
tacked. If that be so, he may lose his sight, or at least
have it very seriously damaged. Ophthalmia occurring
soon after birth is very dangerous ; many people go
through life blind from this cause alone (see Conversa-
tion 28). Sometimes the under surfaces of the lids are
diseased and cause this complaint. As you will not be
able to tell the difPerence between a simple case of
ophthalmia and a bad case it is very necessary for you to
see a doctor at once, as in the latter instance very
skilful treatment will be required. Ophthalmia is
'^ catching " — tlie disease is conve3^ed by using the same
sponges, flannels, towels, and so on.
Children may convey the matter from the eyes to the
skin, and cause ^'^ breakings-out " ; conversely the matter
from '^ breakings-out" maybe conveyed to the eyes and
cause ophthalmia.
370. My cliilcl cannot oj^en Itis eyes, tlie light seems to
hurt him so : what is the matter f
He probably has an ulcer on the ''sight" of the eye.
You must consult a doctor for the complaint, as it may
prove serious and the eye even be lost.
When the ulcer heals it leaves a scar ; these scars, if
not too extensive, disappear under treatment.
Treatment must extend over many months or years.
An operation may be necessary, so as to allow the light
to pass into the eye through any clear part of the " sight "
that may be left, and by this means some vision is ob-
tained. Sometimes the sight is so altered by these
scars when they clear away, that it will be necessary for
him to be fitted with a special kind of sjiectacles.
If a child has " breakings-out" or a " running" from
from the ears, see that he does not rub the matter in
the eyes. An ulcer may be started in this way.
CHILDHOOD. — OX DiSExVSE, ETC. 287
371. If a child have large bowels, what ivouldyoit rec-
ommend as lihely to reduce their size 9
This^ although it appears to be a very simple ques-
tion, is in reality not so.
Infants may suffer with a swollen ^^ stomach," be-
cause they have '^ wind '' in the bowels, the result of
indigestion. For the cure of this I must refer you to
the Conversation on feeding (see Conversations Nos.
47 and 49 to 62). If an infant is subject to sickness
and looseness of the bowels, appearing on and off
over a period of time of some months, the child wastes
and the ^^ stomach" becomes SAvollen. For an account
of this and its treatment see Conversations 149 and
150. Children of two years and over, who suffer from
indigestion, are not, as a rule, subject to either pro-
longed sickness or diarrhea, though occasionally they
have slight attacks of these. Their tongues are covered
with fur, or are red and angry-looking. Their bowels
are confined, the motions being pale and pasty-looking,
mixed with ^'^ jelly." They are a little feverish at
night, they have capricious appetites — at one time rav-
enous, at another requiring tempting food, they suffer
from stomach-ache, their bodies lose flesh, their '^stom-
achs " become swollen, and they are rickety. Sometimes
they pass quantities of '^ jelly" by the bowel, and on
this account the disorder has been called ^^ Mucous
Disease," but it is only the same complaint, with this
feature as a prominent symptom. The condition I have
just described is one of catarrh of the stomach and
bowels. The wasting and enlargement of the ^' stom-
ach " suggest to their mothers that they are suffering
from ^'^ consumptive bowels." If their bowels are not
" consumptive," and in the large majority of these cases
they are certainly not, yet their bowels are not unlikely
to become so, unless they are taken in hand by the doc-
tor. AYhen the bowels are in a state of chronic catarrh,
this region forms an inviting spot for tubercle germs
2SS ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
(tubercle bacilli) to take up their abode^ and the bowels
or the glands, one or both of them, are attacked by a
destructive disease.
Chronic catarrh of the bowels can only be cured by
the most careful dieting and the judicious use of medi-
cines. You must, therefore, consult a doctor, carry
out all his directions most carefully and loyally — much
will depend upon your implicit obedience — and have
the child cured as speedily as possible. Do not anti-
cipate, however, that the disease can be cured in a week
or so. It has taken many months of neglect and foolish
indulgence to bring about this result. If a child is fed
on unsuitable food ; if he is allowed to stuff himself
with fancy biscuits, sweets, and other delicacies, at all
hours of the day ; if, instead of his own plain and whole-
some fare, he is given kickshaws and highly-seasoned
articles, which are required to stimulate the jaded appe-
tites of his parents ; if, when he cannot take his break-
fast, his mother gets into a perfect stew and stuffs him
with a very early and very appetizing luncheon, instead
of, like a w^ise Avoman, allowing him to go without until
the next meal ; if he is allowed to have his food with
his parents, and screams and cries for everything
indigestible he sees on the table, and gets it ; if every
hygienic rule is outraged and set at defiance ; if the
child does not have plain, simple food at meal-times,
plenty of exercise, plenty of fresh air, retire early to
bed, and have plenty of sleep in a well-ventilated room ;
then he will be a sufferer from chronic indigestion and
catarrh of the bowels.
To tell the difference between chronic catarrh of the
bowels and consumptive bowels (tubercular peritonitis),
is the doctor's province, and this often requires a very
careful examination, though, in some cases, the diffi-
culties of diagnosis are not so great as they are in others.
The treatment of tubercular peritonitis must be under-
taken by a doctor. There are many other maladies
CHILDHOOD. — OlS DISEASE, ETC. 289
which cause enlargement of the '^ stomach/^ therefore,
in all cases it would be more prudent of you to seek
advice and have the nature of the enlargement deter-
mined, when the appropriate treatment will be explained.
372. What ai^e the lest ajjerients for a child f
If it be actually necessary to give him opening
medicine, one or two teaspoonfuls of Syrup of Senna,
repeated, if necessary, in four hours, will generally
answer the purpose. Aperient medicine should be
made palatable ; now it can be given in compressed
form, as tablets or capsules or palatinoids. Comp.
Powder of Khubarb, or Pulv. Khei. Co., is an admira-
ble aperient, and can be given in the palatable form of
the tablet. Lenitive Electuary (Compound Confection
of Senna) is another excellent ajDerient for the young,
it being mild in its operation, and pleasant to take — a
child fancying it is nothing more than jam, which it
much resembles both in appearance and in taste. The
dose is half or one teaspoonful early in the morning oc-
casionally. Senna is an admirable aperient for a child,
and is a safe one, which is more than can be said of many
others. It is worthy of note that ^'^the taste of Senna
may be concealed by sweetening the infusion, "* adding
milk, and drinking as ordinary tea, which, when thus
prepared, it much resembles. ''^f Honey, too, is a nice
aperient for a child — a teaspoonful ought to be given
either by itself, or spread on a slice of bread.
Some mothers are in the habit of giving their chil-
* Infusion of Senna may be procured of any respectable
druggist. It will take about one or two tablespoonfuls, or
even more, of the infusion (according to the age of the child,
and the obstinacy of the bowels), to act as an aperient. Of
course, you yourself will be able, from time to time, as the
need arises, to add the milk and the sugar, and thus to make
it palatable. It ought to be given warm, so as the more to
resemble tea.
f Waring's Manual of Practical Tlierapeutics,
19
290 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
dren jalap gingerbread. I do not approve of it^ as Jalap
is a drastic, griping purgative ; besides^ Jalap is very
nasty to take — nothing will make it palatable.
Fluid Magnesia — Solution of Carbonate of Magnesia
— is a good aperient for a child ; and^ as it has very
little taste^ is readily given, more especially if made
palatable by the addition either of a little syrup or of
brown sugar. The advantages which it has over the old
solid form are, that it is colorless and nearly tasteless,
and never forms concretions in the bowels, as the solid
magnesia, if persevered in for any length of time, some-
times does. A child of two or three years old may take
one or two tablespoonfuls of the fluid, either by itself
or in his food, repeating it every four hours until the
bowels be open. When the child is old enough to drink
the draught off immediately, the addition of one or two
teaspoonfuls of lemon juice to each dose of the Fluid
Magnesia makes a pleasant effervescing draught, and
increases its efficacy as an aperient.
Bran-bread* and molasses will frequently open the
bowels ; and as molasses is wholesome, it may be sub-
stituted for butter when the bowels are inclined to be
costive. A roasted apple, eaten with raiu sugar, is an-
other excellent mild aperient for a child. Milk gruel —
that is to say, milk thickened with oatmeal — forms an
excellent food for him, and often keeps his bowels regu-
lar, and thus (ivliicli is a very imjjortant consideration)
supersedes the necessity of giving him an aperient. An
orange (taking care he does not eat the peel or the pulp,
or a fig after dinner, or a few Muscatel raisins, will fre-
quently regulate the bowels. Syrup of figs is now made
and (if pure) can be recommended.
Stewed prunes form another admirable remedy for the
costiveness of a child. The manner of stewing them is
* One part of bran to three parts of flour, mixed together
and made into bread.
CHILDHOOD. — OJf DISEASE, ETC. 291
as follows : — Put a pound of prunes in a brown jar, add
two tablespoonfuls of raio sugar, then cover the prunes
and the sugar with cold water ; place them in the oven,
and let them stew for four hours. A child should every
morning eat half a dozen or a dozen of them, until the
bowels be relieved, taking care that he does not swallow
the stones. Stewed prunes may be given in molasses —
molasses increasing the aperient properties of the prunes.
A suppository is a mild and ready way of opening the
bowels of a child. Glycerine suppositories are effica-
cious. If the suppositories cannot be obtained, use one
or two teaspoonfuls of pure glycerine, and inject this
up the back passage by means of a small syringe, which
can be obtained at any respectable druggist^s. The
bowels usually act in five minutes or less, but sometimes
take a little longer.
Another excellent method of opening a child^s bowels
is by means of an enema of warm water — from half a
teacupful to a teacupful, or even more, according to the
age of the child. I cannot speak too highly of this plan
as a remedy for costiveness, as it entirely, in the gen-
erality of cases, prevents the necessity of administering
a particle of aperient medicine by the mouth. The fact
of its doing so stamps it as a most valuable remedy —
opening physic being, as a rule, most objectionable and
injurious to a child's bowels. Bear this fact — for it is a
fact — in mind, and let it be always remembered.
373. What are the most frequent causes of protrusion
of the lower hoivelf
The too common and reprehensible practise of a parent
administering frequent aperients to her child. Another
cause is allowing him to remain for a quarter of an hour
or more at a time on his chair ; this induces him to
strain, and to force the gut down. Anything that pro-
duces violent stra-ining conduces to prolapse of the
bowel. To illustrate this I will mention constipation,
diarrhea, worms, a polypus in the bowel, coughing, a
292 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
condition of the parts necessitating circumcision, a too
narrow orifice of the "^i^e/' and so on.
374. What are the remedies ?
If the protrusion of the bowel has been brought on by
the abuse of aperients, abstain for the future from giving
them ; but if medicine be absolutely required, give the
mildest — such as Syrup of Senna — and the less of this the
better.
If the external application of a purgative will have the
desired effect, it will, in such cases, be better than the
internal administration of aperients. Castor oil used as
a liniment is a good one for the purpose. Let the
bowels be well rubbed, every night and morning, for
five minutes at a time with the oil.
A wet compress to the bowels will frequently open
them, and will thus do away with the necessity of giving
an aperient — a most im^jortant consideration. Fold a
napkin in six thicknesses, soak it income? water, and apply
it to the bowels ; over this put a thin covering or sheet
of gutta-percha, or a piece of oiled silk ; keep it in its
place with a broad flannel roller, and let it remain on the
bowels for three or four hours, or until they be opened.
Try what diet will do, as opening the bowels by a
regulated diet is far preferable to the giving of aperients.
Let him have bran-bread, or Pure Scotch Oatmeal made
into gruel with new milk. Let him eat stewed prunes,
stewed rhubarb, roasted apples, raspberries, the inside
of grapes, figs, etc. Give him early every morning a
draught of cold water.
Let me again urge you 7iot to give aperients in these
cases, or in any case, unless you are absolutely compelled.
By following my advice you will save yourself an im-
mense deal of trouble, and your child a long catalogue
of misery. Again, I say, look well into the matter, and
whenever it be practicable avoid purgatives.
Now, with regard to the best manner of returning the
bowel, lay the child upon the bed on his face and bowels,
CHILDHOOD. — ON DISEASE, ETC. 293
with his hips a little raised ; then smear vaseline on the
forefinger of your right hand (taking care that the nail
be cut close), and gently with your forefinger press the
bowel into its proper place. Kemember, if the above
methods be observed, you cannot do the slightest injury
to the bowel ; and the sooner it be returned, the better
it will be for the child. The nurse, every time he has
a motion, must see that the bowel does not come down,
and if it does, she ought instantly to return it. You
had better keep him lying down in bed for a few days,
and allow the motions to be passed in a diaper. He must
not sit iif to stool. When the bowel has been returned,
if it shows any tendency to force down again, place a.
pad of lint over the back passage, fixing it tightly in the
same way that a diaper is suspended from the waist ; or
should this method fail, strap the buttocks close together
by carrying completely round them abroad j)iece of strap-
ping with over-lapping edges. The method of treat-
ment recommended is often by itself sufficient to bring
about a cure.
Another excellent remedy for the protrusion of the
lower bowel, is to use, every morning, a cold salt and
water sitz-bath. There need not be more than a depth
of three inches of water in the bath ; a small handful
of table salt should be dissolved in the water ; a dash
of warm water in the winter time must be added, to take
off the extreme chill. The child ought not to be allowed
to sit in the bath for more than one minute, or whilst
the mother can count a hundred, taking care, the while,
to throw either a square of flannel or a small shawl over
his shoulders. The sitz-bath ought to be continued for
months, or until the complaint be removed. I cannot
speak in too high praise of these baths. Should you
notice any sores on the protruded part, or should you
be unable to reduce it, you had better call in a doctor.
Should you fail to cure it by the mild measures I have
suggested, advice should be sought, as some stronger
294 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
application may be necessary. If treatment is to be suc-
cessful the cause must first he removed, or the hoivel will
agaiti protrude. If circumcision or other operation be
necessary, have this attended to at once.
375. Do you advise me, everg spring and fall, to give
my child sulphur to purify and sweeten Ms hlood, and
as a preventive medicine 9
Certainly not ; if you wish to take away his appetite,
and to weaken and depress him, give sulphur ! Sul-
phur is not a remedy fit for a child^'s stomach. The
principal use and value of sulphur is as an external ap-
plication in itch, and as an external remedy, mixed with
other laxatives, in piles — piles being a complaint of
adults. In olden times poor unfortunate children were
dosed, every spring and fall, with sulphur and molasses
to sweeten their blood ! Fortunately for the present
race, there is not so much of that folly practised, but
still there is room for improvement. To dose a healthy
child with physic is the grossest absurdity. No, the less
physic a delicate child has the better it will be for him,
but physic to a healthy child is downright poison ! And
sulphur, of all medicines ! It is both weakening and
depressing to the system, and, by opening the pores of
the skin and by relaxing the bowels, is likely to give
cold, and thus to make a healthy child a sickly one.
Sweeten his blood ! It is more likely to weaken his
blood, and thus to make his blood impure ! Blood is
not made pure by drugs, but by Nature^s medicine ; by
exercise, by pure air, by wholesome diet, by sleep in a
well- ventilated apartment, by regular and thorough
ablution. Sulphur a preventive medicine! Preventive
medicine — and sulphur especially in the guise of a pre-
ventive medicine — is "2^ mockery, a delusion, and a
snare."
376. If a child he naturally delicate, what plan would
you recommend to strengthen him ?
I should advise strict attention to the rules abovQ
CHILDHOOD. — 01^ DISEASE, ETC. 295
mentioned, and change of air — more especially, if it be
possible, to the coast. Change of air, sometimes, upon
a delicate child, acts like magic, and may restore him to
health when all other means have failed. If a girl be
delicate, '^ carry her off to the farm, there to undergo
the discipline of new milk, brown bread, early hours, no
lessons, and romps in the hay-field.^' — Blackiuood. This
advice is, of course, equally applicable for a delicate boy,
as delicate boys and delicate girls ought to be treated
alike. Unfortunately, in these very enlightened days,
there is too great a distinction made in the respective
management and treatment of boys and girls.
The best medicines for a delicate child will be Iron
and Cod-liver Oil. Give them combined in the manner
I shall advise when speaking of the treatment of rickets.
In diseases of long standing, and that resist the usual
remedies, there is nothing like change of air. Hippo-
crates, the Father of Medicine, says :
" In longis morbis solum mutare."
(In tedious diseases to change the place of residence) .
A child who is always catching cold in the winter,
whose life during half of the year is one continual
catarrh, who is in consequence likely, if he grow up at
all, to .grow up a confirmed invalid, ought to seek an-
other clime during the winter months, and if the parents
can afford the expense, they should, at the beginning of
October, cause him to bend his steps to the south of
Europe — Mentone being as good a place as they could
probably fix upon. Before, however, deciding on this
step, it would be as well to see if the child has adenoid
vegetations (see Conversation 167).
Adenoid vegetations mean frequent colds, and they
keep a child in a chronic state of debility and ill-health.
Kemoval of these transforms the debilitated sickly child
into a strong and healthy one.
For a delicate child who has nothing radically wrong
296 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
with him^ often nothing succeeds like the Weir-Mitchell
treatment. Eemoval from home for a period of two
or three months, rest in bed, massage, a highly nutri-
tious and strengthening diet, combined with a different
environment, will give such a child just the fillip that is
wanted to make him grow, to send the healthy life-blood
coursing through his vessels, to give him good flesh and
good bone, to make him relish his food, and provide him
with a fresh start in physical life that will then brook
no denial.
377. Do you approve of hathing in the sea for a delicate
you7ig child f
No ; he is frequently so frightened by it that the alarm
w^ould do him more harm than the bathing would do
him good. The better plan would be to have him every
morning well sponged, especially his back and loins,
with sea- water ; and to have him as much as possible
carried on the beach, in order that he may inhale the
sea-breezes. When he be older, and is not frightened
at being dipped, sea-bathing will be very beneficial to
him. If bathing is to do good, either to an adult or to
a child, it must be anticipated with pleasure, and not
with dread or aversion.
378. What is the best method for administering medi-
cine to a child f
If he be old enough, appeal to his reason ; for, if a
mother endeavor to deceive her child, and he detect
her, he will for the future suspect her. If he be too
young to be reasoned with, then, if he will not take his
medicine, he must be compelled. Lay him across your
knees, let both his hands and his nose be tightly held,
and then, by means of the patent medicine-spoon, or, if
that be not at hand, by either a tea or a dessertspoon,
pour the medicine down his throat, and he will be
obliged to swallow it.
It may be said that this is a cruel procedure ; but it
is the only way to compel an unruly child to take ]3hysic,
CHILDHOOD. — OK DISEASE, ETC. 297
and is much less cruel than running the risk of his
dying from the medicine not having been administered.*
379. Ouglit a sick child to he roused from Ms sleep to
give liim physic, luhen it is time for him to take it ?
This is an important question that must be decided
by the medical attendant. A mother cannot be too
particular in administering the medicine^, at stated
periods, whilst he is awake.
380. Have you any remarks to mahe on the man-
agement of a sick-room., and have you any directions to
give on the nursing of a child ?
In sickness select a large and lofty room ; if in the town,
the back of the house will be preferable, in order to keep
the patient free from noise and bustle, as a sick-cham-
ber should be kept free from disturbance of that kind ;
but it should not be made miserable, and a darkened
room and hushed voice are to be studiously avoided.
Brightness and life are meat and drink to a sick
child. Choose then a room with a southerly or west-
erly aspect. Let the windows be large — they should
reach to the ceiling nearly — so that the chamber may
be flooded with light. Select a situation in the room
that will place the cot out of reach of draughts and
away from the glare of the light. Sunlight and plenty
of it is the great purifier and life-giver : do not shut out
the sun. The room must be made bright and cheerful,
not dull and gloomy looking — pretty pictures, pretty flow-
ers, absolute cleanliness.
* If any of my medical brethren should perchance read these
Conversations, I respectfully and earnestly recommend them
to take more pains in making medicines for children pleasant
and palatable. I am convinced that, in the generality of in-
stances, provided a little more care and thought were be-
stowed on the subject, it may be done ; and what an amount
of both trouble and annoyance it would save ! It is really
painful to witness the struggles and cries of a child when nau-
seous medicine is to be given ; the passion and the excite-
ment often do more harm than the medicine does good.
298 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
When a child is sick put him in his crib and do not
fuss over him : leave Mm alone. You will only retard
his recovery by fondling him, by dandling him on your
knee ; you thus deprive him of a fresh, pure, wholesome
air and perfect rest and quiet.
The crib must not have drapery or curtains — such ap-
pliances prevent a free circulation of the air. Choose a
wire-woven mattress, place on this a hair ma,ttress, next
one thin blanket, sheets, a Witney blanket or two, and
that is all. Heavy counterpanes are a mistake. The
furniture of the room must be as simple as possible. No
dusfc-traps of any sort, kind, or description can be toler-
ated for one moment. When dusting, do not flap about
with a duster and dusting-brusho Such a practise only
transfers dirt, which is contaminated with the poisonous
exhalations from the child's lungs and body, from a place
where it could be safely removed, to the general at-
mosphere of the room, where it is inhaled by and poisons
the patient. Dust must be removed by a damp duster
which is to be banished from the sick room as speedily
as possible. The floor is not to be scrubbed. Sprinkle
carbolized sawdust on the floor, then sweep it and
remove the sweepings immediately.
The best way to ventilate is to shut the door, poke the
fire and let down the top sash night and day. Eemem-
ber that/resA air is not obtained by coaxing it from the
stairs and passages. Fresh air is to be let in from the
outside by the window. The half -used polluted air
from below is not to be invited in by timidly putting the
door slightly ajar. You cannot have too much fresh air ;
that is half the battle ; but the air will not remain fresh
long if it is to be polluted by the neglected state of the
sick-chamber — by dust and dirt, by foul linen, by foul
excreta poked away under the bed.
In fevers, free and thorough ventilation is of vital
importance — then a patient cannot have too much air ;
and the windows, be it winter or summer, must be well
CHILDHOOD. — OK DISEASE, ETC. 299
opened, care being taken to exclude dranglits. The fear
of the patient catching cold by so doing is one of the
numerous prejudices and baseless fears that haunt
the nursery, and the sooner it is exploded the better
it will be for human life.
The temperature of the sick-room should be main-
tained night and day not lower than 60° Fahr., whatever
the nature of the illness^ unless the doctor directs other-
wise. As to whether there should be a fire in the grate
or not, climatic conditions will determine the answer.
Small fires encourage ventilation of the apartment, and
thus carry off impure air. Bear in mind that a large
fire in a sick-room cannot be too strongly condemned, if
it is allowed to make the room so hot and stuffy that the
patient literally gasps for air. I have been into many
such rooms, where the atmosphere has been so stifling
so ill-ventilated^ and so prejudicial to health, that I
have been made to feel quite ill and faint. If a tem-
porary application has this effect on a healthy man, what
must be the result of a prolonged exposure on a sick and
suffering child ! A thermometer is an indispensable
requisite in a sick-room.
Be sure that there is a chimney in the room — as
there ought to be in every room in the house — and that
it is not stopped, as it will help to carry off the impure
air of the apartment. Keep the chamber luell ventilated
by, from time to time, opening the window. The air
of the apartment cannot be too pure ; therefore, let the
evacuations from the bowels be instantly removed to the
water-closet. The water-closet should be provided with
a plentiful supply of water,, which is to be drawn from
a tap placed there for rinsing purposes. Chamber
utensils and bed-pans should be made of white glazed
earthenware and provided with well-fitting lids. Glass
urinals with wide necks are to be chosen — it is easy to
keep them sweet and clean. Before using the bed-pan
or the pot-de-chamhref let a little Carbolic Acid solution.
300 ADVICE TO A MOTSEK.
1 in 20, or Corrosive Sublimate solution, 1 in 1,000, or
Izal, 1 in 20 — to the depth of one or tvvo inches or more
— be put in the pan or yot in order to sweeten the mo-
tion, and to prevent any of it from adhering to the
vessel. The glass urinal should be treated in the same
manner. Never use a slop pail. Carry the utensil to
the closet immediately it is finished with, empty it at
once, well wash it, and leave it there until it is again
wanted. If the case is an infectious one, the motions
should be completely covered by and incorporated with
the liquid disinfectant for half an hour before emptying
them down the closet. If you detect anything that
should not be with the motions or urine, save the speci-
men for the doctor^s inspection. Keep the door of the
closet shut and the window wide open — fresh air is very
necessary. If the pan of the closet becomes stained, it
must be scrubbed with strong Nitric Acid. Use plenty
of liquid disinfectant.
Let there be frequent change of linen. In sickness
it is even more necessary than in health, more especially
if the complaint be fever. In an attack of fever, clean
sheets ought, every other day, to be put on the bed;
clean body-linen every day. A frequent change of linen
in sickness is most refreshing. All soiled linen should
immediately be removed from the sick-room. The
moisture from the child's lungs and body has saturated
the bedding with unwholesomeness, and keeping it in
the room will poison the atmosphere. If the clothing
has been removed from an infectious case, it must be
treated as recommended under the heading Diphtheria
(see Conversation 298).
If it can be arranged, the employment of two cots is
advisable, one for the day and one for the night, and it
is certainly desirable to change the child's night-gown
and short jacket at the usual hour for bed-time.
The hospital draw-sheet is a very useful appliance,
because it can be so easily moved without disturbing
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the child. It should be one and a half yards long by
three-quarters of a yard wide, and of somewhat coarser
material than the linen sheet. This is easily slipped in
under the child, and tucks away quite neatly. A
mackintosh can be placed under it if necessary. Chil-
dren, unlike adults, do not cover their shoulders and
chest with the bed-clothes, therefore some provision
must be made for the protection of these parts. They
should wear over the night-gown a short flannel jacket,
which will satisfy all requirements.
The question of bathing in sickness demands a few
words. No matter what the illness may be, scrupulous
personal cleanliness is most important, as important as
clean clothing and clean bedding. The sick child should
be washed all over, at least once, and better twice a day.
"When the child is Avashed the most careful attention
should be paid to its skin. Anything you may observe
that does not appear to be quite natural report to the
doctor. The child must be carefully dried and a little
dusting powder applied if necessary, but this is not to
be a means of covering over the neglect of imperfect
drying. A child can be rapidly washed, under a blanket
if thought desirable, and dried without taking a chill.
The doctor may order sponging to reduce the child's
fever. If he does, it should be conducted as follows : —
Place the child stripped on a flannel, with a mackintosh
under, and sponge the body all over for five or ten min-
utes with tepid or cold water. When the operation is
finished, rapidly dry the child, and place a hot-water
bottle to the feet if they are cold. If a cold yach is or-
dered for the same purpose, wring a sheet out of cold
water, envelop the patient from the neck to the feet,
apply a blanket over all. This can be renewed in a
quarter of an hour if the fever does not abate. At this
stage I will address a few words to you about the nurs-
ing of Typhoid Fever. I have sjDoken to you about the
necessity for frequent changes of bedding and clothing
30^ ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
and the importance of personal cleanliness. If great
attention is not paid to these matters in t^^phoid fever,
the nurse is very likely to contract the disease. Fecal
matter on the sheets or on the patient^s buttocks — dis-
gusting evidences of careless nursing — will readily con-
vey the disease, so be very careful. Every nurse or
mother, whether she be bathing an eye, or mopping a
throat, or administering an enema, or cleansing a child
after an action of the bowels, or after any personal
service, should be careful to cleanse her hands. The
hands should be rinsed in one in sixty of Carbolic Acid
solution and then scrubbed with Carbolic Soap and
warm water, not forgetting the nails, which should be
kept short. If there are many sores or scratches or
abrasions of the skin of the fingers or about the nails,
a finger-stall must be worn or the parts covered with
Flexile Collodion. If wounds are dressed with sore
fingers, or abraded fingers come in contact with ^''mat-
ter," — the source from which the matter is derived is of
no moment, whether from the ear, the eye, or a dis-
charging wound, and so on, — then the finger will fester.
ISText, you will require to know something about the
administration of nourishment. Suppose the child is
seriously ill, and is ordered by the doctor a pint and a
half of milk and half a pint of beef-tea daily. Every
hour it should be given food, two hours in succession
two and a half ounces of milk, and every third hour
two ounces of beef-tea. If the child will sleep from
10 p. M. to 6 a. m., allow it to do so ; if it wakes atone
or two in the morning, give it nourishment, and it will
probably fall to sleep then. If, then, the child sleeps
at night it need not be roused for food, unless the doctor
gives special orders. A good night's rest is better than
food, but should the powers flag in the early morning
hours, then a feeding may be administered. If it is tak-
ing stimulant, such as brandy, this is to be administered
with its milk. But suppose a child will not take its
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food, perhaps cannot swallow ; what is to be done then ?
If the child is wilful about its nourishment, then it
must be fed through the nose, as it lies in its cot, by
means of a glass syringe or a tablespoon with a special
nozzle end. Each time it swallows a little m.ore is in-
jected or poured in, until finally the whole feeding is
disposed of. If the child cannot swallow properly, and
there is a danger of particles of food reaching the lungs
and setting up inflammation there, then a tube will
have to be passed into the stomach either by the nos-
trils or through the mouth. Such methods of adminis-
tering nourishment, of course, require skilled assistance.
On account of the serious condition of the throat, the
doctor may order nutrient enemata.*
The food must not be kept in the sick-chamber. A
convenient place should be found for the food on the
landing outside or elsewhere, ivliere it can, te Ice/pt cool
aud free from contaminations of all hinds. Milk readily
absorbs disease germs — it is not to be kept near the
lavatory. All feeding cups, spoons, forks, and so on,
required for use in the sick-room, are to be thoroughly
cleansed immediately after use, and put away in a suit-
able place until again required.
If hot fomentations or poultices are ordered, be careful
to test them on the temple, or back of the hand, before
applying them to the patient^s delicate skin, otherwise
you will burn it.
You must pay attention to the child^s teeth, and keep
them sweet and clean. If the teeth and gums become
covered with black crusts and the tongue is very foul,
these must be cleansed by rubbing them with equal
parts of glycerine and lemon juice.
* An enema apparatus is an important requisite in every
nursery ; it may be procured of a respectable surgical instru-
ment maker. The Indian-rubber Enema Bottle is, for a child's
use, a great improvement on the old syringe, as it is not so
likely to get out of order, and, moreover, is more easily used.
304 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
Some diseases require that the child should be fed
lying down, all exertion being dangerous. As an illus-
tration, 1 will mention cases of typhoid fever and
diphtheria, with irregular action of the heart, and so
on. Your doctor will tell you when danger is likely
to arise from propping up the patient. You will then
have to learn how to feed with a feeder in the
recumbent position without causing the child exertion,
and also provide for the reception of the excreta in
the bed-pan without producing disturbance.
If you are nursing, or assisting in the nursing, wear a
cotton dress with apron and over-sleeves. Change your
apron and over-sleeves before taking your meals. Do not
begin nursing on an empty stomach. If you have a
reliable trained nurse attending on your child, do not
interfere with her, and do not watch her as a cat would
a mouse.
If you interfere with a well-trained nurse she will lose
heart and interest in her case, and your child will suffer.
Satisfy yourself that the nurse is doing her work well, and
leave her alone. I have often seen this happen in private
nursing : a fussy mother worries and addles the brain
of a good nurse. When you have engaged a nurse,
the nurse is responsible to the doctor for the efficient
execution of his directions, and the doctor's watchful eye
will soon find out if anything is as it should not be. If
you are taking part duty yourself in the nursing, be very
particular in carrying out the doctor's instructions to the
letter. In selecting a sick nurse let her be truthful,
trustworthy, punctual, quiet yet quick, cheerful, and
hopeful, not easily discouraged, cleanly, gentle, and kind
but firm withal. To be nurse-like is to be —
*'So kind, so duteous, diligent.
So tender over his occasions, true,
So feat." — Sliakspeare.
Do not let there be in the sick-room more than one
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efficient nurse at a time ; a greater number can be of no
service — they will only be in each .other's way.
In head affect io7is,da,T]Len the room with a green cslico
blind ; kee23 the chamber more than usually quiet ; let
what little talking is necessary be carried on in whispers,
but the less of that the better; and in head affections^
never allow smelling-salts to be applied to the nose, as
they only increase the flow of blood to the head, and
consequently do harm.
It is often a good sign for a child, who is seriously ill,
to suddenly become cross. It is then he begins to feel
his weakness and to give vent to his feelings. '^ Children
are almost always cross when recovering from an illness,
however patient they may have been during its severest
moments, and the phenomenon is not by any means
confined to children. ''' — Geo. MacDonald.
If a sick child be peevish, attract his attention either
by a toy or by an ornament ; if he be cross, win him
over to good humor by love, affection, and caresses, but
let it be done gently and without noise. Do not let
visitors see him ; they will only excite, distract, and
irritate him, and help to consume the oxygen of the
atmosphere, and thus rob the air of its exhilarating,
health-giving qualities and purity ; a sick-room, there-
fore, is not a proper place either for visitors or for gossips.
Let stillness, if the head be the part affected, reign in
a sick-room. Creaking shoes and rustling silk dresses
ought not to be worn in sick-chambers — they are quite
out of place there. If the child be asleep, or if he be
dozing, perfect stillness must be enjoined, not even a
whisper should be heard —
" In the sick-room be calm,
Move gently and with care,
Lest any jar or sudden noise,
Come sharply unaware.
You cannot tell the harm,
The mischief it may bring,
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306 ADVIGE TO A MOTHER.
To wake the sick one suddenly,
Besides the suffering.
The broken sleep excites
Fresh pain, increased distress ;
The quiet slumber undisturb'd
Soothes pain and restlessness.
Sleep is the gift of God ;
Oh ! bear these words at heart,
* He giveth his beloved sleep,'
And gently do thy part." *
If there be other children^ let them be removed to a
distant part of the house ; or if the disease be of an
infectious nature^ let them be sent away from home
altogether (for further information see Conversation
295).
In all illnesses — and bear in mind the following is most
important advice — a child must be encouraged to try
and make water, whether he ask or not, at least four
times during the twenty-four hours ; and at any other
time, if he express the slightest inclination to do so. I
have known a little fellow to hold his water, to his great
detriment, for twelve hours, because either the mother
had in her trouble forgotten to inquire, or the child
himself was either too ill or too indolent to make the
attempt. Special details regarding the nursing of in-
fectious cases have been described under their respective
headings, and full information will be found under the
heading Diphtheria (see Conversation 298).
See that the medical mane's directions are, to the very
letter, carried out. Do not fancy that you know better
than he does, otherwise you have no business to employ
him. Let him, then, have your implicit confidence and
your exact obedience. What you may consider to be a
trifling matter, may frequently be of the utmost im-
portance, and may sometimes decide whether the case
shall end either in life or death.
Household Verses on Health and Happiness. London : Jar*
rold & Sons. A most delightful little volume.
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381. Will you give me some directions about the treat-
ment of vermin in the head ?
It is not very poetical, as many of the grim facts of
everyday life are not, but unlike a great deal of poetry,
it is unfortunately too true that, after a severe and dan-
gerous illness, especially after a bad attack of fever, a
child^s head frequently becomes infested with vermin —
with lice ! It therefore behooves a mother herself to
thoroughly examine, by means of a fine-tooth comb, her
child's head, in order to satisfy her mind that there are
no vermin there. As soon as he is well enough, he ought
to resume his regular ablutions — that is to say, that he
must go again regularly ififo his tub, and have his head
every morning thoroughly washed with soap and water.
A mother ought to be particular in seeing that the nurse
washes the hair-brush at least once every week ; if she
does not do so, the dirty brush which has during the ill-
ness been used might contain the ^'^nits" — the eggs of
the lice — and would thus propagate the vermin, as they
will, when on the head of the child, soon hatch. If
there be already lice on the head, in addition to the reg-
ular washing every morning with the soap and water,
and after the head has been thoroughly dried, let the
hair be well and plentifully dressed with Ammoniated
Mercury Ointment, one ounce, Vaseline, two ounces,
which are to be well mixed together. This will quickly
cure the disease, and also sores in the head, if any hap-
pen to be there. If a child has ^' breakings-out '' in
the head he probably has vermin. Look for these and
the '^nits.'' Sores at the back of the head and nape of
the neck almost certainly mean vermin. He may suffer
from a stiff-neck. The glands at the back of the neck
enlarge and become painful from the ^^ irritation '' in
the scalp. As movement causes pain, the head is held
stiffly. If the disease is neglected abscesses on the head
and neck will arise.
The '^nit^' — the Qg% of the louse — may be distin-
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guislied from dandruff^ altbougli to the naked eye it is
very much like it in appearance, by the former fasten-
ing firmly on one of the hairs as a barnacle would on a
rock, and by it not being readily brushed off as dandruff
would, which is always loose. If the head is not sore,
remove the ^' nits^' by washing the hair with Spirits of
Wine. This loosens the cement which binds the " nits "
to the hair.
382. My child, in the summer-time is much tormented
ivith fleas : ivhat are the best re^nedies f
A small muslin bag, filled with Camphor, placed in
the cot or bed, will drive fleas away. Each flea-bite
should from time to time be dressed, by means of a
camers hair-brush, with a drop or two of Spirit of Cam-
phor, an dunce bottle of which ought, for the purpose,
to be procured from a chemist. Camphor is also an
excellent remedy to prevent bugs from biting. Bugs
and fleas have a horror of Camphor ; and well they
might, for it is death to them !
There is a famous remedy for the destruction of fleas
manufactured in France, entitled '^ La Poudre Insecti-
cide," which, although perfectly harmless to the human
economy, is utterly destructive to fleas. Bugs are
best destroyed by Creosote or by Oil of Turpentine, or
Insect Powder. The places they love to congregate in
should be well saturated, by means of a brush, with the
Creosote or with the Oil of Turpentine. A few dress-
ings will effectually destroy both them and their young
ones.
383. Is not the pulse a great sign either of health or of
disease ?
It is, and every mother should have a general idea of
what the pulse of children of different ages should be,
both in health and in disease. " Every person should
know how to ascertain the state of the pulse in health ;■
then by comparing it with what it is when he is ailing,
he may have gome idea of the urgency of his case.
CHILDHOOD. — ON DISEASE, ETC. 309
Parents should know the healthy pulse of each child,
since now and then a person is born with a peculiarly
slow or fast pulse, and the very case in hand may be of
such peculiarity. An infants pulse is 140 ; a child of
seven about 80 ; and from 20 to 60 years it is 70 beats
a minute, declining to 60 at fourscore. A healthful
grown person beats 70 times in a minute, declining to
60 at fourscore. At 60, if the pulse always exceeds 70,
there is a disease — the machine working itself out ;
there is a fever or inflammation somewhere, and the
body is feeding on itself, as in consumption, when the
pulse is quick. ^^ In a young infant the act of sucking,
muscular movements, and crying, increase the rapidity
of the pulse. The rapidity of the pulse is decreased
during sleep. Fever accelerates the pulse. Brain
diseases often slow it.
384. Suppose a child to have had an attach either of
Inflammation of the Lungs or of Bronchitis, and to he
much predisposed to a return, luhat precautions ivould
you tahe to prevent either the one or the other for the
future ?
I would recommend him to wear fine flannel instead
of lawn shirts ; to wear good lambVwool stockings ahove
the knees, and good, strong, dry shoes to his feet ; to
live, weather permitting, a great part of every day in
the open air ; to strengthen his system by good nourish-
ing food — by an abundance of both milk and meat, the
former especially ; to send him, in the autumn, for a
couple of months, to the seaside ; to administer to him,
from time to time, Cod-liver Oil ; in short, to think only
of his health, and to let learning, until he be stronger,
be left alone. I also advise table salt, or sea salt, to be
added to the water in which the child is washed with in
the morning, in a similar manner as recommended in
answer to a previous Question.
385. Then do you not advise such a child to he confined
within doors 9
310 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
If any inflammation be present, or if he have but just
recovered from one, it would be improper to send him
into the open air, but not otherwise, as the fresh air
would be a likely means of strengthening the lungs, and
thereby of preventing an attack of inflammation for the
future. Besides, the more the child is coddled within
doors, the more likely will he be to catch cold, and to
renew the inflammation. If the weather be cold, yet
neither wet nor damp, he ought to be sent out, but let
him be well clothed. The nurse should have strict in-
junctions not to stand about entries or in any draughts
— indeed, not to stand about at all, but to keep walking
about all the time she is in the open air. Unless you
have a trustworthy nurse, it will be well for you either
to accompany her in her walk with your child, or merely
to allow her to walk with him in the garden, as you can
then keep your eye upon both of them.
386. If a child he either ]}ig eon-breasted or narroio-
chested, are there any means of expanding and of
strengthening Ms chest ?
If a young child, from eighteen months to four years
of age, be pigeon-breasted, that is because he is suffering
from Rickets (see Conversation 404). During the time
he is rickety no special treatment can be adopted to
regulate the deformity ; attention must be paid to the
complaint which is causing this. Such a deformity in-
vites attacks of bronchitis and inflammation of the lungs
in rickety children, and the weakened muscles are placed
at a great disadvantage in carrying on the breathing,
often with a disastrous result. If the rickets has passed
away, leaving the deformit}^, then attention must be
paid to his health alone, or consumption will probably
mark him for its own ! Let him live as much as possible
in the open air ; if it be country, so much the better.
Let him rise early in the morning, and let him go to bed
betimes ; and if he be old enough to be taught overhead
exercises with the dumb-bells, he should do so daily.
CHILDHOOD. — OK DISEASE, ETC. 311
He ought also to be encouraged to use two short sticks,
similar to, but heavier than, a policeman^s staff, and to
go, every morning, through regular exercises vi^ith them.
As soon as he is old enough, let him have lessons from
a drill-sergeant and from a dancing-master. All exer-
cises that improve the ^^wind," such as running, paper-
chases, and football, will expand the lungs, and so the
chest. Let him be made both to walk and to sit upright,
and let him be kept as much as possible upon a milk
diet,* and give him as much as he can eat of fresh meat
every day. Cod-liver oil, a teaspoonful or a dessert-
spoonful, according to his age, twice a day, is serviceable
in these cases. Stimulants ought to be carefully avoided.
In short, let every means be used to nourish, to
strengthen and invigorate the system. Such a child
should be a child of .N"ature ; he ought almost to live in
the open air. He should devote some portion of the day
to his lessons, but these must not be allowed to take a
prominent position in his daily life. Of what use is
learning without health ? In such a case as this you
cannot have both.
387. If a child suffers from Lateral Bending of the
Spine, and if either of his shoulder-blades have ''grown
out,'' lohat had better be done f
The treatment will depend upon the cause. If it
occurs in a young child, from eighteen months to four
years of age, he will be found to be rickety, and the treat-
ment is that of rickets (see Conversation 405). Prevent
the child assuming faulty positions. He must not be
allowed to sit up for long periods. He should be
straightened out either on his back, or side, or face, and
the various positions recommended should be changed
from time to time. Daily shampooing of the spine is
a useful auxiliary. Lateral bending of the spine may
* Where milk does not agree, it may generally be made to do
so by the addition of one part of lime-water to seven parts of
new milk.
312 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
be due to a shortening of a leg from the birth or from
subsequent disease. Sometimes a congenital affection
of the spine is the cause. It may be the result of a
diseased state of one of the lungs — there are several
varieties of disease — or possibly of a bygone inflammation
of the '^bag" of the lung with formation of *' matter."
The decision must rest with your doctor. The variety
I am now about to describe usually occurs in children
at puberty.
Many children have their shoulder-blades grown out,
and have their spines twisted, from growing too fast,
from being allowed to slouch in their gait, and from not
having sufficient nourishing food, such as meat and milk,
to su2:)port them while the rapid growth of childhood is
going on.
If your child be affected as above described, nourish
him well on milk and on farinaceous food, and on meat,
but let milk be his staple diet ; he ought, during the
twenty-four hours, to take two or three pints of new
milk. He should almost live in the open air, and must
have plenty of play. If you can so contrive it, let him
live in the country. When tired, let him lie for half an
hour, two or three times daily, flat on his back, on a
firm back-board. Let him rest at night on a horse-hair
mattress, and not on a feather bed.
Let him have every morning, if it be summer, a
thorough cold water ablution ; if it be winter, let the
water be made tepid. Let either two handfuls of table
salt or a handful of sea salt be dissolved in the water.
Let the salt and water stream well over his shoulders
and down his back and loins. Let him be well dried
with a moderately coarse towel, and then let his back
be well rubbed.
Let him do his lessons lying on a firm back-board.
Let him have, twice daily, a teaspoonful or a dessert-
spoonful (according to his age) of cod-liver oil, giving
it him on a full and not on an empty stomach.
CHILDHOOD. — OK DISEASE, ETC. 313
Let the drill-sergeant give him regular lessons, and let
the dancing-master be put in requisition. Let him go
through regular gymnastic exercises, provided they are
not of a violent character. The object of the treatment
is to gently work the muscles so that they may grow and
become strong, and not to fatigue them. Exercise must
be followed by rest. At once check any tendency you
may observe to the assumption of a faulty position. The
muscles which are used to counteract this must be worked
by suitable movements, which will straighten out the
contracted parts.
But, bear in mind, let there be in these cases no
mechanical restraints — no abominable stays and irons.
Make him straight by natural means — by making him
strong. If this cannot be so effected, consult your
medical attendant. Mechanical means would only, by
weakening and wasting the muscles from disuse, increase
the mischief, and thus the deformity. In this world of
ours there is too much reliance placed on artificial, and
too little on natural means of cure. If the exercises
increase the pain, and if the child seems to be veri/
cautious in its movements and the back is held stiffly,
you had better consult a doctor, as it is then possible
there is " consumption of the spine " (spinal caries)
lurking in the background.
388. If my child stoops, has round shoulders, and the
shoulder -hlades project, ivhat am I to do f
It is a painful sight to see a child stoop like an old
man ! In such a case he may discard braces and wear
an elastic shoulder strap. Skipping is of great use,
whether the child be either a boy or a girl, using, of
course, the rope backwards and not forwards. The same
treatment that has been recommended for a lateral bend-
ing of the spine (see Conversation 387) should be adopted
in this case. The disease might prove to be '' consump-
tion of the spine " (spinal caries) , and then this treatment
would be harmful, so you had better be on the safe side
314 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
and consult a doctor. If there is mucli pain and tlie
spine is held stiffly, it is certainly spinal disease.
389. What are the causes of Boiu Legs in a child ?
Eickets is responsible for Bow Legs. Bow legs are
mostly due to the attitude adopted in sitting by a rick-
ety child (see Conversation 404), coupled with the weight
of the body on the limbs when it is in the upright posi-
tion. The bones are soft, and readily bent.
390. What is the treatment?
The treatment is that of rickets. The bones are soft
up to the age of four years. Splints must be applied to
prevent an increase of the deformity. If the deformity
is moderate, the bones will straighten themselves under
these conditions by process of growth. In severe cases,
and in those in which the deformity persists, an
operation will be necessary. Operative treatment, when
found advisable, is very successful.
391. Wliat are the causes of Knoch Knee?
Knock Knee is nearly always due to rickets.
392. Wliat is the treatme^it?
The treatment is that of rickets (see Conversation
405), and the same remarks apply to this condition as
have just been made under the heading Bow Legs (see
Conversation 389).
393. If a child, while asleep, ^^ ivet his heel," is there
any method of p)r eventing him from doing so ?
Let him be held out just before he goes to bed, and
again when the family retires to rest. If, at the time,
he be aslee23, he will become so accustomed to it, that
he will without awakening, make water. He ought to
be made to lie on his side ; for, if he be put on his back,
the urine will rest upon an irritable part of the bladder,
and, if he be inclined to wet his bed, he will not be able
to avoid doing so. He must not be allowed to drink
much with his meals, especially with his suj^per. Wet-
ting the bed is an infirmity with some children — they
cannot help it. It is, therefore, cruel to scold and
CHILDHOOD. — OK DISEASE, ETC. 315
chastise them for it. Occasionally, however, wetting
the bed arises from idleness ; in which case, a little
wholesome correction will be necessary.
Waterproof bed-sheeting — one yard by three-quarters
of a yard — will effectually preserve the bed from being
soiled, and ought always, under these circumstances, to
be used.
A mother ought, every morning, to ascertain for her-
self whether a child has wet his bed ; if he has, and if,
unfortunately, the waterproof cloth has not been used,
the mattress, sheets, and blankets must be instantly
taken to the kitchen fire and be properly dried. Inatten-
tion to the above has frequently caused a child to suffer
from cold ; not only so, but, if they be not dried, he is
wallowing in filth and in an offensive effluvium. If
both mother and nurse were more attentive to their du-
ties — in frequently holding a child out, whether he ask
or not — a child wetting his bed would be the exception,
and not, as it frequently is, the rule. The child should
sleep in a well-ventilated room on a horse hair-mattress,
and must not be too warmty covered with bedclothes.
If these measures prove unsuccessful you had better con-
sult a doctor. Irritation from constipation and from
thread-worms will cause the accident. Sometimes it is
due to an over-acid state of the urine or to some article
of food. Eeduce the quantity of his meat and do not
give him rhubarb. The bladder may be inflamed, there
may be a stone in it, or possibly some kidney trouble.
It may be owing to an undue length of the skin at the end
of the penis, or ^'sticking together" of the parts there,
or perhaps to a narrow ^^ urinary orifice." Highly ner-
vous, delicate children are often sufferers, and with
these sleep is frequently very deep and profound. If
your child has enlarged tonsils and adenoid vegeta-
tions (see Conversations 165, 166, and 167), these had bet-
ter be removed. When the blood is areated better,
as it will then be, the complaint will probably disap-
316 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
pear. I have, however, told you quite enough to show
you that in some cases it is very necessary to seek advice.
The administration of drugs, when all sources of irrita-
tion have been removed, is usually very successful. The
drugs that are beneficial are powerful, and can only be
administered under a doctor's instructions.
394. Can you tell me of any plan to prevent Cliil-
lilains ?
In the winter time, let a child who is subject to them,
wear a square piece of wash-leather over the toes, a pair
of warm lamb's-wool stockings, and good shoes ; but,
above all, let him be encouraged to run about the house
as much as possible, especially before going to bed, and
on no account allow him either to warm his feet before
the fire, or to bathe them in liot water. Eubbing in Soap
Liniment or compound Camphor Liniment every night
is a good preventive. If the feet be cold, and the child
be too young to take exercise then let them be well rubbed
with the warm hand. If adults suffer from chil-
blains, I have found friction, night and morning, with
horse-hair flesh-gloves, the best means of preventing
them.
395. Hoio can Cliilhlains he cured 9
If they he unhrohen, great relief is experienced by
painting the chilblain with Tincture of Iodine, or rub-
bing in the liniments named above.
If they he hroken, let a piece of lint be spread with a
mixture of equal parts of Zinc Ointment and Eed Oxide
of Mercury Ointment, and be applied, every night and
morning, to the part.
396. During the lointer time my child's hands, legs,
etc. , chap very much : what ought I to do 9
Let a teacupful of bran be tied up in a muslin bag,
and be put, over night, into either a large water-can or
jug of r«m-water ; * and let this water, from the can or
* Rain-wQitQV ought ahvays to be used in the washing of a
CHILDHOOD. — OX DISEASE, ETC. 317
jugy be the water he is to be washed with on the follow-
ing morning, and every morning until the chaps be
cured. As often as ivater is withdrawn, either from
the water-can or from the jug, let fresh rain-water take its
place, in order that the bran may be constantly soaking
in it. The bran in the bag should be renewed about
twice a week.
Take particular care to dry the skin well every time
he is washed ; never use a damj) toiuel. An excellent
remedy is Glycerine, which should be smeared, by
means of the finger or by a camePs hair brush, on the
parts affected, two or three times a day. If the child
be very young, or the skin very irritable, it will be nec-
essary to dilute the Glycerine with Eose-water. Fill a
small bottle with one- third of Glycerine, and the re-
maining two-thirds of the bottle with Rose-w^ater ; shake
the bottle every time just before using it. The child
should wear gloves to protect the hands from the atmos-
phere. If diluted Glycerine is not successful try Boracic
Acid Ointment. The best soap to use for chapped hands
is the Glycerine Soap, no other being required.
397. What are the remedies for Chapped Lips 9
Cold-cream, which may be procured of any respectable
chemist, or Vaseline, or Boracic Ointment ; all excel-
lent applications for chapped lips. By means of the
finger, let the application be frequently smeared on the
parts affected.
398. Have the goodness to inform me of the differeiit
varieties of Worms that infest a child's hoivels.
Principally three — (1) the tape-worm ; (2) the long
round-worm ; and (3) the most frequent of all, the
common thread-worm. The tape- worm infests the whole
course of the bowels, both small and large : the long
round-worm, principally the small bowels, occasionally
child : pump water is likely to chap the skin, and to make it
both rough and irritable.
318 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
the stomach ; it sometimes crawls out of the child^s
month, causing alarm to the mother, though there is,
of course, no danger in its doing so. The common
thread-worm infests the large bowel and the rectum or
fundament.
399. Wliat are the causes of Worms ?
The causes of Worms are : a disordered condition of
the bowels ; bad and improper food ; underdone beef
or pork ; * an excess of sweets ; contaminated drinking
water.
400. Wiat are the symptoms of Worms 9
TJiread-ivornns cause irritation of the fundament, and
in girls of tlie front passage, also sometimes accompanied
by a discharge which may be blood-stained.
Round-worms are un associated with special symp-
toms. The first indication of the trouble is the pas-
sage of the worm by the bowel. They may be associat-
ed with dyspepsia (abdominal pains, diarrhea and sick-
ness), but there is nothing in the nature of such at-
tacks to arouse suspicion. In a doubtful case, if the
eggs were found in the faeces by a microscopical exam-
ination, this would turn doubt into certainty. Dr.
Wainwright says that at Brixworth, in Northampton-
shire, the poor people there suffer from a disease which
they call '^MYorm Fever. ^^ The child becomes sick and
ill, and dead worms are expelled by the bowel. This
'^ Worm Fever " he found to be diphtheria. The poison
in the blood of diphtheria patients evidently acts as
a poison to these worms.
Tapeworms. — A tapeworm may give rise to no symp-
* One frequent cause of tapeworm is the eating of pork,
more especially if it be underdone. Underdone pork is the
most unwholesome food that can be eaten. Underdone beef
also gives tapeworm, and is the most frequent cause of tape-
worm known ; let the meat, therefore, be well and property
cooked. Tliese facts ought to be borne in mind, as prevention
is always better than cure.
CHILDHOOD. — OK DISEASE^ ETC. 319
toms whatever, and the mother is unaware that the
child is out of health until she finds the flat joints
of the worm in the chamber vessel or closet pan.
There may be loss of flesh, indigestion, pain in the ab-
domen or pit of the stomach, but there is nothing charac-
teristic about these symptoms, nor is there in an ^'^un-
comfortable feeling about the belly. ^^ The movements
of the worm may be felt !
Thread-worms are like short pieces of white cotton,
half an inch and less in length. They may be matted
together with '' jelly " from the bowels into little balls.
Round-worms are not unlike the common garden-worm.
They vary from ten to fifteen inches in length or less,
are of a reddish-brown color, when alive, and have a
disagreeable smell. They occur singly or in twos and
threes, and rarely in great numbers. Tapeworms are
jointed ; the smallest part is the head, the largest the
end of the worm, and growth takes place from the head
backwards. The pork tapeworm, is from seven to ten
feet long, its head the size of a pin^s head, and the ma-
ture joints half an inch long by a quarter of an inch
broad. The beef tapeworm is about twelve feet long.
It has a trifle larger head, and its mature joints are
three-quarters of an inch long by a quarter of an inch
broad. The life of these creatures lies in the head. If
the head does not come away, the worm will be fully
developed again in about ten weeks' time. If, when
the doctor has expelled the worm, the head be not found
upon it, it will be necessary to carefully wash the mo-
tion in a hair sieve to see if it be there.
If you discover thread-worms when the bowels have
been well opened, inject a pint of warm salt and water
into the lower bowel. Pass the enema tube of a foun-
tain syringe 2vell into (the length of the forefinger)
the fundament, having previously oiled it. The child
should lie on his back with his buttocks raised. Do
not frighten him. After the injection he should lie
820 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
quietly for an hour. Infusion of Quassia can be used
instead of salt and water — it should be warmed. In-
jections should be used every other day for a fortnight.
Before using them the bowels should be opened by an
enema of warm water and soap to the amount of half a
pint. Smear the back passage with Ammoniated Mer-
cury Ointment and Vaseline, equal parts, night and
morning, just passing the greasy finger into the orifice
of the bowel. After an action of the bowels the parts
should be washed and then the ointment applied. The
orifice of the front passage should be treated in the same
way. If there be a discharge from it your doctor will
quickly cure this.
401. What is the treatment of Worms?
With regard to treatment, a medical man ought to be
consulted. He will soon use means both to dislodge
them, and prevent a future recurrence of them.
Let me caution a mother never to give her child
patent medicines for the destruction of worms. No, if
your child have worms, put him under the care of a
judicious medical man, who will soon expel them, with-
out, at the same time, injuring health or constitution !
402. Hoio may W^orms he prevented from infesting a
chilcVs dowels 9
Thread-worms generally infest iveah bowels ; hence,
the moment a child becomes strong, worms cease to
exist. The reason why a child is so subject to them is
owing to the improper food which is usually given to
him. When he be stuffed- with unsound and with un-
ripe fruits, with much sweets, with rich puddings, and
with pastry, and when he is oftentimes allowed to holt
his food without chewing it, is there any wonder that
he should suffer from worms ? The way to prevent
them is to avoid such things. If thread-worms be pres-
ent keep the child's hands scrupulously clean, and do
not allow him to scratch his fundament. He is likely
to do this at night in his sleep, unconsciously, therefore
CHILDHOOD. — ON DISEASE, ETC. 321
tie his hands up in bags. The eggs can be con\-eyed
from there to the mouth and infection thus kept up.
If he is suffering from dyspepsia, be very careful about
his diet. Tapeworms are readily avoided if the meat
be well cooked — ^thorough cooking means death to them.
403. Wliat are the causes of Richets f
Improper artificial feeding ; carelessness on the part
of the mother regarding her health during nursing ;
improper nursing and a too prolonged nursing ;
chronic indigestion ; unhealthy parents ; constitutional
disease ; want of wholesome air and sunlight ; lower-
ing of the vitality following an attack of severe ill-
ness.
404. Have you any remarks to mahe on Richets f
Kickets produces softness of the bones, from defi-
ciency of lime salts, together with enlargement of their
end-s, weakness of the muscles and ligaments, and an
irritable condition of the brain. The child perspires
about the forehead and head, will not lie under the bed-
clothes, and his body and limbs are tender. In some
cases he may be a little feverish. The earliest changes
are little knobs or beads in front of the chest, at the
junctions of the ribs with the gristle (cartilage), and
spots of softening in the bones of the skull. AVhen
the beads on the ribs are very prominent this feature
his been called a "rickety rosary.^' Enlargement of
the ends of the bones will appear to you as a thickening
of the joint — the wrist joint will probably attract your
attention the most. The teeth are late in appearing,
the child is unable to walk when it should, and there
may be not even a desire to crawl. Sometimes the al-
terations in the ends of the bones are not very obvious,
and the chest bears the brunt of the battle. If the
disease advances, the child becomes pigeon-breasted
and *' pot-bellied." The outline of the chest is like
that of a peg-top, and in severe cases approaches a
figure of 8 shape. The upper half is small, the lower
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322 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
bulged out. Sometimes the upper half is so small that it
could be made to fit easily inside the head. In marked
cases the head is large and square, the face small
and thin. The '"'^ opening of the head^^ at the top re-
mains widely open — it should close at twelve months of
age. Perhaps he has a " lateral bending " of the spine,
or the spine arches backwards. He is a martyr to in-
digestion in one form or another, usually diarrhea.
He readily catches cold, seems never to be free from
bronchitis, and is very liable to a severe and often fatal
form of inflammation of the lungs. He is attacked by
convulsions or ^^ child-crowing," or tetany (see Con-
versation 123). The bony cavity in the lower part of
the abdomen (the pelvis) becomes narrowed. In female
children this is a very disastrous deformity, because it
may lead to difficult child-birth in after life. The legs
bow. He is frequently very pale and delicate-looking.
If the disease has not proved sufficiently severe to pre-
vent him walking he probably has ^' knocked knees," or
" bowed legs " (see Conversations 389 to 392), or '' weak
ankles." In severe cases the growth is likely to be
stunted. If the disease is not marked he is probably fat
and heavy, aud the swelling of the bone ends is not so
very obvious, but the bones are soft, and various deform-
ities will be produced from putting him on his legs
too early. The disease may, rarely, be present at birth,
perhaps just in evidence at six months of age, but from
nine months to three years it is much more prevalent,
and may be met with for two or three years beyond that
time. Be careful when handling him — if the disease is
severe the bones readily break.
405. Hoio may a cJiild he ]pr evented from becoming
ricTcety ? or, if lie be rickety, lioiv ought he to he treated?
Prevent him becoming rickety by carefully avoiding
all the causes mentioned under Conversation JSTo. 403.
Pay the greatest attention to his diet and feed him
properly.
CHILDHOOD. — 0^ DISEASE, ETC. 3'33
"When will motliers arouse from tlieir slumbers, rub
their e3^es, and see clearly the importance of the sub-
ject ? When will they know that all the symptoms of
rickets I have just enumerated usually proceed from
the want of suitable food ? There are, of course, other
means of warding off rickets besides an abundance of
nourishing food, such as thorough ablution, plenty of
air, exercise, play, and sunshine ; but of all these
splendid remedies, nourishment stands at the top of the
list.
Let him have a good supply of fresh, pure, dry air.
He must almost live in the open air — the countr}^, if
practicable, in preference to the town, and the coast in
summer and autumn. Sea-bathing and sea-breezes are
often, in these cases, of inestimable value.
He ought not, at an early age, to be allowed to bear
his weight upon his legs. He must sleep on a horse-
hair mattress, and not on a feather bed. He should
use, every morning, cold baths in the summer, and tepid
baths in the winter, with a handful of bay salt dissolved
in the water.
Friction with the hand must, for half an hour at a
time, every night and morning, be sedulously applied
to the back and to the limbs. It is wonderful how
much good in these cases friction does.
Strict attention ought to be paid to the rules of health
as laid down in these Conversations. Whatever is con-
ductive to the general health is preventive and curative
of rickets.
The best medicines in these cases are a combination
of Cod-liver Oil and Iron given in the following man-
ner : — Put a teaspoonful of iron wine into a wine-glass,
half fill the glass with water, sweeten it with a lump or
two of sugar, then let a teaspoonful of cod-liver oil
swim on the top ; let the child drink it all down to-
gether, twice or three times a day. An hour after a
meal is the lest time to give the medicine, as both iron
324 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
and cod-liver oil sit better on a full than on an empty
stomach. The child in a short time will become fond
of the above medicine^ and will be sorry when it is dis-
continued.
The ailments just enumerated which are associated
with rickets require appropriate treatment^ and you
Avill act wisely if you seek the advice and assistance of
a doctor.
A case of rickets requires great patience and steady
perseverance ; let, therefore, the above plan have a fair
and long-continued trial, and I can then promise that
there will be every probability that great benefit will be
derived from it.
406. What is Scurvy Rickets 9
Sometimes in rickety infants there is '^ internal
bleeding ^' underneath the membrane which covers the
bones. The bones of the legs are perhaps more often
attacked than those of other parts of the body, but any
bone may suffer. If the legs are involved they appear
to be paralyzed — he has but little power in them. The
fronts of the shins are swollen and shiny-looking, and
the feet are swollen as well. The complaint causes
great suffering. He shrieks most piteously if any one
approaches or touches them. Sometimes the affected
bones break. You will perhaps see blue bruises on the
gums round the teeth or over a tooth which is just
appearing. Bruises may come on the skin, or possibly
one or both eyes become ^^black."^ There may be
blood in the urine or in the motions, or these may look
like tar. The child requires very special treatment, so
you must call in a doctor at once.
407. If a child he subject to a scahiy eruption about
the mouthy what is the best local application 9
If he has a frequent discharge from the nose, and the*
upper lip is sore and scabby, have the nose examined.
He probably has adenoid vegetations (see Conversation
167).
CHILDHOOD. — on: DISEASE, ETC. 325
If he has " breakings-out^'' or matter elsewhere, he is
doubtless inoculating himself. See that he does not
do this. Remove the scabs by bathing them with warm
oil — and then apply to the sores Ammoniated Mercury
Ointment, one part ; Vaseline, two parts. Treat the
source from Avhich he derives the matter. Perhaps he
is subject to sore throat, or ulcers in the mouth, or
febrile attacks ? If so, he will require treatment.
408. WJiat are the symjjtoms of Milh-crust or Run-
ning Scall?
Milk-crust or Eczema attacks infants at the breast, and
young children ; after the sixth year it is uncommon.
It is a nasty-looking complaint, and frequently gives a
mother a great deal of trouble, anxiety, and annoyance.
The forehead, the cheeks, the scalp, the skin behind
the ears, and the soft skin of the flexures of the joints
(groins, knees, elbows, etc.,) are the parts most fre-
quently attacked. The skin is hot and reddened ;
multitudes of tiny pimples are seen on this, these
become ^^ watery ^^ and burst, leaving a weeping surface.
N^ext are seen scabs, and weeping or raw surfaces.
Sometimes matter forms instead of clear fluid, then the
scabs are of a dirty greenish-yellow color.
It is sometimes so large, on the head, as actually to
form a skull-cap ; and so extensive, on the face, as to
form a mask ! These, I am happy to say, are rare cases.
The child^s beauty, of course, is for a time completely
destroyed, and not only his beauty, but his good temper ;
for as the eruption causes great irritation and itching,
he is constantly scratching himself and crying from its
annoyance, the greater part of the day, and sometimes
also of the night — the eruption preventing him from
sleeping. His hands should be tied up in bags or
fastened by splints to prevent scratching. Scratching
increases the disease tenfold, and if matter forms he is
certain to inoculate himself elsewhere, perhaps carry it
to his eyes. Soap must not be used. The affected
326 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
parts are to be cleaned with tliin oatmeal grnel when
necessary, and then generally wiped dry, not ruUbed,
409. Wliat is its dtiration ?
As milk-crnst is a tedious affair, and will require a
variety of treatment, it will be necessary to consult an
experienced medical man ; and although he will be
able to afford great relief, you must not become dis-
heartened if the child suffers occasional relapses. With
both judicious and careful treatment, it will gradually
disappear, and eventually leave not a trace behind.
410. WJiat are the '' Shingles f "
It is an eruption consisting of clusters of round
vesicles on irregular and inflamed patches of the skin.
The clusters may be arranged in a band running half
round the body, but the band is not complete, the
course of the clusters being somewhat interrupted. The
eruption maps out the course of a cutaneous nerve, the
nervous system being at the root of the disorder. As
one cluster forms another makes its appearance till
all the eruption is ^^out." The first formation is that
nearest to the spine. Pliny said, '^ Enecat si cinxerit "
— " It kills if it encircles."'' It is popularly supposed to
do so now, but twice in children I have seen both sides
of the body attacked followed by perfect recovery. There
are no grounds for the superstition, but the occurrence
is a very rare one. The face, the neck, the shoulders
and upper arms, the buttocks and the thighs may be
the parts attacked and not the trunk. The affection
disappears in a few days as a rule, but there may be
troublesome sores, followed by scars, and then the
duration is longer. There is usually no pain, and fre-
quently only a little discomfort. In adults the affection
is a painful one.
411. What is the treatment of Shingles 9
The affected part should be smeared with Zinc Oint-
ment, and covered with a soft rag. Over all place a pad
of cotton wool and secure it by a flannel bandage.
CHILDHOOD. — ON" DISEASE, ETC. 327
412. What is Ring-ivorm ?
It is a highly contagious disease attacking the head
and sometimes the body. It is caused by the presence
of several varieties of parasitic fungi.
413. What is the cause of Ring-worm ?
It generally occurs in weakly children, and is pro-
duced by contagion. It is caught from child to child ;
the using of towels or hair-brush, or cap or clothes the
property of an infected child ; from the cat ; from the
horse ; from the dog. I remember a little handsome
boy being infected by the cat. He gave it to his nurse,
and to a visitor. In another case, some eight children
caught it simultaneously. It was discovered that on
the dinner bell being rung, they used to scamper in to
make themselves tidy. A bag with hair-brushes hung
behind the door. As each child brushed his hair, the
favorite dog was also brushed. The dog was abundantly
infected with the fungus. Ringworm qf the horse is
generally noticed about the mane, that of the dog on
the back, that of the cat about the face. I caution you
to look well after your household pets.
414. What are the symi^toms of Riiigioorm 9
On examining the head of a child, there are seen
small oval patches of scurf, with the hairs, in the patch,
as if they had been bitten off. The patches spread to
the size of a quarter piece or more. In ringworm
of the body, you notice a slightly scurfy patch, oval or
round in shape, the center is pale, the margin raised
and reddened. The hair, if examined under the micro-
scope, is found to be choked with parasitic fungus.
415. What is the treatment of Ringivorm f
A volume might be written on the subject, and then
not give you a specific or really always infallible cure.
My own experience is that it occurs more frequently in
the very weakly, but many robust children are attacked.
The first thing to' be done is to have all the hair shaved
off the head, leaving a little fringe in front and back
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for appearance' sake. This is imperative, in my opinion,
if a speedy cure is to be effected. Next well wash the
scalp with soft soap and water to remove the scales,
and then daily with soap and hot water. Now you may
rub into all the patches the ointment given in Prescrip-
tion XVII.* in Appendix.
Cover the head with a soft cap and an oil-silk cap
over that to prevent damaging any garment with the
ointment.
The head must be kept close shaven until the patches
have disappeared. The shaving may be required many
times.
In ring-worm of the body you may use the same oint-
ment, well rubbing it into the parts for ten minutes,
night and morning, after a warm bath.
Ring-worm of the body is readily cured — it will prob-
ably be well in a week. Ring-worm of the scalp is
frequently a very tedious affair, and often takes months
to get Avell, perhaps longer. The difficulty does not lie
so much in finding the remedy, but in introducing the
parasiticide to the affected part. In ring-worm of the
body this is easily done, the disease being quite super-
ficial. In ring-worm of the head this is difficult. The
roots of the hair are deeply placed in the skin, and the
fungus lies within them, being reached with difficulty.
As long as there is any ajjpearance of scurf in the scalp,
the cMld is not cured. If a child suffers from a scurfy
head, he may have ring-worm, so you had better have
him examined by a doctor to see if that be the case.
Sometimes the disease occasions a great deal of irrita-
tion in the scalp. " Breakings-out " will then be found
on the head, which might lead to the disease being over-
looked. Removal of the diseased hairs with forceps is
beneficial in some instances. There are several power-
* Do not let the ointment come on your ring's. Mercury
turns the gold to a white color, and will destroy them.
CHILDHOOD,— OK DISEASE, ETC. 329
fill remedies Avhicli can be used with great advantage
and benefit, but they are only permissible under the
supervision of a medical man.
It is essential that all the linings to hats, caps, etc.,
be taken out and destroyed ; that these hats, etc., be
well examined and cleaned ; and that new linings should
then be put in. Eemember you are trying to stamp
out a very contagious affection, and one that is most
easily propagated.
It would be well, if possible, to keep the uninfected
children apart. If not, extra supervision is demanded
of the attendant in charge to prevent head-rubbing or
kissing. The infected must not attend school.
416. What is the Itch ?
It is a contagious disease, due to the presence of an
insect which burrows under the skin.
417. Wliat are the syn^Jtoms ?
The disease may be found on any part of the body.
The most common situations are the buttocks, the soles
of the feet, the genitals, and the body. The fingers,
the wrists, and the arms frequently escape — this does
not often happen in adults. The face may be attacked
— this also is not the case in adults. Children scratch
themselves freely, and scratch marks may be seen on
them. When scratching, they inoculate various part of
the body with matter. The disease may readily be mis-
taken for eczema, or nettle-rash, or red-gum. " Break-
ings-out " may arise in the shape of blebs, pustules,
crusts, and scabs. On looking at a typical case affect-
ing the hands, a small pimple or vesicle is noticed, and
from this vesicle, a minute raised black, wavy line.
The female insect has got under the skin, and, by so
doing, irritated it, so that a vesicle is formed. It then
burrows from the vesicle — the directions being marked
by the minute black, wavy, raised lines. At the end of
this line may be seen a little opaque speck — this is the
insect, which may be extracted by a needle. The irrita-
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tion caused by the insect is very great, and is increased
as soon as the body becomes warm in bed.
The disease is propagated by dirty people, and caught
by those who have omitted to wash their hands after
touching dirt or dirty things. It is most prevalent
amongst the natives of India.
418. Wliat is the treatment ?
Give the child a hot bath, and well wash him with
soap and flannel. Thoroughly apply the Prescription
XVIII., in Appendix, to the affected parts. Let him
wear a fairly tight-fitting night-shirt with drawers.
The next morning give a hot bath. Treat him in this
way every night for four or five days. Put on clean
underlinen after each ablution, and see that the soiled
linen is well boiled in soda. His clothes should be dis-
infected by super-heated steam.
Ascertain, if possible, whence the contagion came, and
thus guard the other members of the family. The
towels, etc., of the affected child must be kept separate.
The child himself should be isolated. There need be
no fear of the attendant catching the disease, proA-ided
she uses ordinary caution and remembers that it is con-
tagious.
419. My cliild, for some little time, lias limped and
complained of pain in the hnee ; ichat is the matter'^
He probably is suffering from hip joint disease. You
had better consult a doctor, and see if that be so.
420. Wlien is Circumcisio7i necessary 9
If the front skin of the penis is very long, with a
narrow orifice, and the child suffers from irritation of
the part, as shown by his frequently having his hand
there, circumcision is advisable.
421. Does Stone in the Bladder occur in children, and,
if so, what are the prominent symptoms 9
Yes, it is not uncommon in children. Sometimes the
stone is passed in the water. The child cries out on
passing water and at times the urine is mixed with
CHILDHOOD. —Oi>r DISEASE, ETC. 331
blood. Not unfrequently the child wets the bed at
night. If he be old enough, he may complain of pain
at the end of the penis. Girls very rarely suffer from
stone.
422. Have you any advice to give me as to my conduct
toioards my medical man f
Give him your entire confidence. Be truthful and be
candid with him. Tell him the truth, the whole truth,
and nothing but the truth. Have no reservations ; give
him, as near as you can, a plain, unvarnished statement
of the symptoms of the disease. Do not magnify, and
do not make too light of any of them. Be prepared to
state the exact time the child first showed symptoms of
illness. If he has had a shivering fit, however slight, do
not fail to tell your medical man of it. Note the state
of the skin ; if there be a ' ^ breaking-out '' — be it ever
so trifling — let it be pointed out to him. Make yourself
acquainted with the quantity and with the appearance
of the urine, taking care to have a little of it saved,
in case the doctor may wish to see and examine it.
Take notice of the state of the motions — their number
during the twenty-four hours, their color, their smell,
and their consistence, keeping one for his inspection.
Never leave any of these questions to be answered by a
servant ; a mother is the proper person to give the nec-
essary and truthful answers, answers which frequently
decide the fate of the patient. Bear in mind, then, a
mother^s untiring care and love, attention and truthful-
ness, frequently decide whether, in a serious illness,
the little fellow shall live or die ! Fearful responsi-
bility !
A medical man has arduous duties to perform ;
smooth, therefore, his path as much as you can, and
you will be amply repaid by the increased good he
will be able to do your child. Strictly obey a doctor's
orders — in diet, in medicine, in everything. Never
throw obstacles in his way. Never omit any of his sug-
332 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
gestions ; for, depend upon it, that if he be a sensible
man, directions, however slight, ought never to be neg-
lected ; bear in mind, with a judicious medical man,
"That nothing walks w^ith aimless feet." — Tennyson.
If the case be severe, requiring a second opinion, never,
of your o^un accord, callin a ]pliysician, without first con-
sulting and advising tvitli your oivn medical man. It
would be an act of great discourtesy to do so. Inatten-
tion to the foregoing advice has frequently caused in-
jury to the patient, and heart-burnings and ill-will
among doctors.
Speak, in the presence of your child, with respect and
kindness of your medical man, so that the former may
look upon the latter as a friend — as one who will strive,
with God^s blessing, to relieve his ]3ain and suffering.
Remember the increased power of doing good the doctor
will have if the child be induced to like, instead of dis-
like, him. Not only be careful that you yourself speak
before your child respectfully and kindly of the medical
man, but see that your domestics do so likewise ; and
take care that they are never allowed to frighten your
child, as many silly servants do, by saying that they
will send for the doctor, who will either give him nasty
medicine, or will perform some cruel operation upon
him. A nursemaid should, then, never for one moment
be permitted to make a doctor an object of terror or
dislike to a child.
Send, whenever it be practicable, for your doctor early
in the morning, as he will then make his arrangements
accordingly, and can by daylight better ascertain the
nature of the complaint, more especially if it be a skin
disease. It is difficult for him to form a correct opinion
of the nature of a ^^ breaking-out^^ either by gas or by
candlelight. If the illness comes on at night, particu-
larly if it be ushered in either with a severe shivering.
CHILDHOOD. — WARM BATHS. 333
or with any other urgent symptom, no time should be
lost, be it night or day, in sending for him —
*' A little fire is quickly trodden out
Which, being suffer'd, rivers cannot quench. "
Shdkspeare.
WARM BATHS.
423. Have the goodness to mention tlie complaints of a
child for ivhich ivarm haths are useful?
(1) Convulsions ; (2) pains in the bowels, known by
the child drawing up his legs, screaming violently, etc. ;
(3) restlessness from teething ; (4) flatulence. The
warm bath acts as a fomentation to the stomach and the
bowels, and gives ease where the usual remedies do not
rapidly relieve. (5) Bronchitis ; (6) inflammation of the
lungs ; (7) stoppage of the water or difficulty in passing
it ; (8) sleeplessness ; (9) some fevers.
424. Will you mention the precautions and the rides
to he oh served in putting a child into a warm hath f
Carefully ascertain, before he be immersed in the
bath, that the water be neither too hot nor too cold.
Carelessness, or over-anxiety to put him in the water as
quickly as possible, has frequently, from his being im-
mersed in the bath when the water was too hot, caused
him great pain and suffering. From 96° to 98° Fahr.
is the proper temperature of a warm bath. If it be
necessary to add fresh warm water, let him be either
removed the while, or let it not be put in when very
hot ; for if boiling water be added to increase the heat
of the bath, it naturally ascends, and may scald him.
Again, let the fresh water be put in at as great a dis-
tance from him as possible. The usual time for him to
remain in a bath is a quarter of an hour or twenty min-
utes. Let the chest and the bowels be rubbed with the
hand while he is in the bath. Let him be immersed in the
bath as high up as the neck, taking care that he be the
while supported under the arm-pits, and that his head
be also rested. As soon as he comes out of the bath, he
334 Advice to a mother.
ought to be carefully but quickly rubbed dry : and if it
be necessary to keep up the action on the skin, he should
be put to bed, between the blankets ; or if the desired
relief has been obtained, between the sheets, which
ought to have been previously warmed. He will now
most likely fall into a sweet refreshing sleep.
If the child be frightened at the sight of the bath,
cover the bath with a sheet, then lay him on the sheet,
and thus gently lower him into the water.
WARM EXTERJ^AL APPLICATIONS.
425. In case of a child suffering pain either in his
stomach or in his hotvels, or in case he has a feverish
cold, can you tell me the lest way of applying external
heat ?
In pain either of the stomach or of the bowels, there
is nothing usually affords greater or speedier relief than
the external Q.-^^\\G2ii\on of heat. The following are four
different methods of applying heat : — (1) A bag of hot
salt — that is to say, powdered table-salt — put into the
oven or in a frying-pan over the fire, and thus made
hot, and placed in a flannel bag, and then applied, as
the case may be, either to the stomach or to the bowels.
Hot salt is an excellent remedy for these pains. (2)
An india-rubber hot- water bottle,* half filled with hot
water, — it need not be boiling, — applied to the stomach
or to the bowels, will afford great comfort. (3) Another
and an excellent remedy for these cases is a hot bran
poultice. The way to make it is as follows : — Stir bran
into a vessel containing either a pint or a quart (accord-
ing to size of poultice required) of boiling water, until
it be of the consistence of a nice soft poultice, then put
into a flannel bag and apply it to the part affected.
When cool, dip it from time to time in hot water. (4)
In case a child has a feverish cold, especially if it be
* Every house, wliere there are children, ought to have one
of these india-rubber hot- water bottles.
CHILDHOOD. — WARM EXTERNAL APPLICATIOKS. 335
attended, as it sometimes is, with pains in the bowels,
the following is a good external application : — Take a
yard of flannel, fold it in three widths, then di^J it into
very hot water, wring it out tolerably dry, and apply it
evenly and neatly round and round the bowels ; over
this, and to keep it in its place, and to keep in the
moisture, put on a dry flannel bandage, four yards long
and four inches wide. If it be put on at bed-time, it
ought to remain on all night. Where there are chil-
dren, it is desirable to have the yard of flannel and the
flannel bandage in readiness, and then a mother will be
prepared for emergencies. Either the one or the other,
then, of the above applications will usually, in pains of
the stomach and bowels, aiford great relief. There is
one great advantage of the external application of heat
— it can never do harm ; if there be inflammation, it
will do good ; if there be either cramps or spasms of the
stomach, it will be serviceable ; if there be colic, it will
be one of the best remedies that can be used ; if it be a
feverish cold, by throwing the child into a perspiration,
it will be beneficial.
426. Hoiv should a liot fomentation he made?
Line a basin with a towel. Place flannel or spongi-
opiline in the towel. Pour boiling water over these,
wring the towel, and so the flannel or spongiopiline, by
twisting the ends in opposite directions. Eemove the
flannel ; shake once or twice in the air ; apply it to the
temple to see if it is the right temperature ; envelop the
part ; cover with a piece of pink jaconet ; over all place
a layer of cotton wool, and fix with a flannel roller.
Turpentine or laudanum may be sprinkled on if ordered.
427. Hoiu should a hot pach he made and adrninis-
tered ?
Prepare the bed as follows : — Place two blankets on
the mattress, cover these with a mackintosh, and next
a blanket. One half of the blankets and mackintosh
should be on the bed, the other half must hang depen-
336 ADVICE TO A MOTHEIi.
dent from the side. Wring a blanket out of boiling
water with a wringer, and when of the right tempera-
ture quickly envelop the body and limbs in it up to the
neck. Then cover the child with the blankets and
mackintosh hanging from the side of the bed, tucking
him in w^ell. The pack should be changed every hour.
During tlie administration of a pach tliemotlier or nurse
should not leave the liatient. The temperature should
be taken every half hour, as the pack may induce high
fever. If the temperature rises above 100° Fahr., report
the occurrence to your doctor, and await his instruc-
tions before continuing the treatment. Hot packs are
often ordered in diseases of the kidnevs.
428. How should a linseed meal looult ice he made?
A clean saucepan being on the fire, put into it a
handful of linseed meal, and hot water enough to make
it like a thick paste, meanwhile keeping it stirred with
an iron spoon. Add linseed meal and water according
to the size of poultice required. Have your cloth or
towel ready on a hot plate. Spread the linseed meal
quickly on the cloth, milking an even thickness. Then
dip your iron spoon into hot water and run it over the
linseed meal. You will notice that this will give the
poultice now made a glazed surface. The advantage of
this is that the linseed will not stick to the patient^s
skin when the poultice is removed. If the poultice has
to be carried upstairs put it between two hot plates.
After applying the poultice, cover it with a piece of pink
jaconet to keep in the moisture, and then bandage or
apj^ly a bath towel to retain it in position.
429. Are there any jjrecautions necessary in applying
warm external applications f
There are several necessary precautions. (1) See
that the application, whether fomentation or poultice,
is not too hot, so as to burn the patient. A good test is
to apply it to the back of your own hand, and if you
can bear the heat, you may safely apply it. (2) Guard
CHILDHOOD. — ACCIDENTS. 337
your child against catching cold either by the cooling
of the application itself or by not wrapping him up
when it is discontinued. (3) If you commence poultic-
ing^ the poultice must be renewed every three or four
hours, 7iig]it as well as day. Better no poultice than a
cold one to increase the mischief it was intended to
drive away. When poultices are discontinued, the
parts should be quickly dried and covered with warm
flannel or cotton wool.
430. Some doctors prefer to envelop the chest in cotton
wool rather than use poultices in lung diseases: how
ivould you malce a cotton ivool jacJcetf
Take two pieces of flannel, one for the back of the
chest, the other for the front. Cut the flannel in the
form of breast and back plates. Sew tapes to both
sides and tops : one or two tapes back and front for the
neck at the shoulder, and tapes at the sides to reach
from the arm-pits downwards. On the separate pieces
of flannel quilt cotton wool. Place the flannel next to
the chest. The front and back pieces can be readily
flxed by tying the opposing tapes, and the chest com-
pletely enveloped. Two jackets should be made, so
that there can be a frequent change. Should stimulat-
ing applications, such as soap liniment, or compound
camphor liniment, or turpentine liniment be ordered,
they can be readily applied.
ACCIDENTS.
431. Supposing a child to cut Ms finger, what is the
lest application f
Wash the wound with warm water in which carbolic
acid has been dissolved, in the proportion of one table-
spoonful to a pint of water, taking care that the acid is
thoroughly dissolved. Eemove any particles of dirt
adhering to the wound with absorbent cotton wool
dipped in the lotion. If Carbolic Acid is not at hand,
Condy's Fluid may be used, sufficient being added to
warm water to make the fluid pink, Boracic Acid
22 ,
338 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
lotion may also be used as recommended for syringing out
the ear. If no surgical dressings are at hand^ the wound
should be wrapped in perfectly clean linen or cotton
rag, soaked in one of the solutions above named. This
may be covered with a piece of pink jaconet or gutta
percha tissue, and fixed with a bandage. If it be a
severe cut, surgical aid, of course, will be required.
Furious bleeding can alio ays he stopped hy ap2:)lying
pressure with the finger until surgical assistance arrives.
Press against a bone if possible. Instead of the finger,
a penny piece or a piece of cork, enveloped in a clean
rag or handkerchief, can be bound over the bleeding
spot by a handkerchief or bandage.
432. If a child receive a blow, causing a bruise, tvhat
had better be done 9
Immediately after receiving a blow, apply ice en-
veloped in a cloth or bladder. As a substitute for ice,
a surface of cold metal may be employed. Subsequently
use a lotion made by adding three teaspoonfuls of
whisky or brandy to two tablespoonf als of water. A
handkerchief or piece of rag is to be soaked in the
lotion and applied over the part — keep it constantly
wet.
433. How would you treat a sprain 9
Sprains may be treated by the immediate application
of a bandage soaked in cold water and firmly applied
round the joint.
434. If a child fall upon his head and be stunned,
what ought to be done f
If he fall upon his head and be stunned, he will look
deadly pale, very much as if he had fainted. He will
in a few minutes, in all probability, regain his conscious-
ness. Sickness frequently supervenes ; send instantly
for a medical man.
?ut him to bed as soon as possible, and keep him
there quietly until the doctor's arrival. Exclude all vis-
itors. In the meanwhile apply to the head ice envel-
CHILDHOOD. — ACCIDENTS. 339
oped in a cloth or bladder, or a rag soaked in spirit lotion
(see Conversation 432). If there is prostration with
cold extremities, ^pply hot water bottles to the feet and
omit the applications to the head.
435. A nurse sometimes drops an infant and injures
his back : what ought to he done ?
Instantly send for a surgeon ; omitting to have prop-
er advice in such a case has frequently made a child a
cripple for life. A nurse frequently, when she has
dropped her little charge, is afraid to tell her mistress ;
the consequences may be deplorable. If ever a child
screams violently without any assignable cause, and the
mother is not able for some time to pacify him, the
safer plan is that she send for a doctor, in order that he
might strip and carefully examine him. Much after
misery might often be averted if this plan were more
frequently followed.
436. Have you any remarks to make and directions
to give on accidental poisoning hy lotions, hy liniments,
etc. ?
It is a culpable practise of either a mother or nurse
to leave external applications within the reach of a
child. It is also highly improper to put a mixture and
an external application, as a lotion or a liniment on the
same tray or on the same mantelpiece. Many liniments
contain large quantities of opium, a- teaspoonful of
which would be likely to cause the death of a child.
^' Hartshorn and oil " has frequently been swallowed by
children, and in several instances has caused death.
Many lotions contain sngar of lead, which is also poi-
sonous. There is not, fortunately, generally sufficient
lead in the lotion to cause death ; but if there be not
enough to cause death, there may be more than enough
to make the child very poorly. All these accidents
occur from disgraceful carelessness.
A mother or a nurse ought always, before administer-
ing a dose of medicine to a child, to read the label on
340 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
the bottle ; by adopting this simple plan many serious
accidents and much after misery might be averted.
Again, I say, let every lotion, every liniment, and indeed
everything for external use, be either locked up or be put
out of the way, and far away from all medicine that is
given by the mouth. This advice admits of no excep-
tion.
If your child has swallowed a portion of a liniment
containing opium, instantly send for a medical man
(see Conversation 448).
If a child has swallowed ^' hartshorn and oil,^' force
him to drink vinegar and water, lemon-juice and water
sweetened with sugar, barley water, and thin gruel.
If he has swallowed a lead lotion, give him Epsom
Salts (Sulphate of Magnesia), followed by a mustard
emetic. After he has been well sick, give him plenty
of milk to drink.
If he has swallowed a carbolic lotion, give him olive
oil, and try and make him sick by putting your finger
down his throat.
If he has swallowed a mercurial lotion, give him
whites and yolks of eggs raw.
If he has been eating poisonous fungi or shell fish,
give a mustard emetic, and, when this has acted, castor
oil. In all cases of poisoning send for a doctor imme-
diately, saying ivliat has happened and the nature of the
poison.
437. Are not lucifer matches poisonous'^
Certainly, they are very poisonous ; it is, therefore,
desirable that they should be put out of the reach of
children. A mother ought to be very strict with serv-
ants on this head. Moreover, lucifer matches are not
only poisonous but dangerous, as a child might set him-
self on fire with them. A little boy three years old was
left alone for two or three minutes, during which time
he obtained possession of a lucifer match, and struck a
light by striking the match against the wall, Instantly
CHILDHOOD. — ACCIDENTS. 341
there was a blaze. Fortunately for him, in his fright,
he threw the match on the floor. His mother at this
moment entered the room. If his clothes had taken
fire, which they might have done, had he not thrown the
match away, or if his mother had not been so near at
hand, he would, in all probability, have either been
severely burned or have been burned to death.
438. If a chilcVs clothes take fire, what ought to he
done to extinguish them f
Lay him on the floor, then roll him in the rug, or in
the carpet, or in the door-mat, or in any thick article
of dress you may either have on, or have at hand — if it
be woolen so much the better ; or throw him down and
roll him over and over on the floor, as, by excluding the
atmospheric air, the flame will go out — hence the im-
portance of a mother cultivating presence of mind. If
parents were better prepared for such emergencies, such
horrid disfigurations and frightful deaths would be less
frequent.
You ought to have a proper fire-guard before the nur-
sery grate, and should be strict in not allowing your
child to play with fire. If he still perseveres in playing
with it, when he has been repeatedly cautioned not to
do so, he should be punished for his temerity. If any-
thing would justify corporal chastisement, it would
surely be such an act of disobedience. There are only
two acts of disobedience that I would flog a child for,
namely, the playing with fire, and the telling of a lie !
If after various warnings and wholesome corrections he
still persist, it would be well to let him slightly taste
the pain of his doing so, either by holding his hand for
a moment very near the fire, or by allowing him to
slightly touch the hot bar of the grate or the flame of
the candle. Take my word for it the above plan will
effectually cure him — he will never do it again. It
would be well for the children of the poor to have pin-
afores made either of woolen or of stuff materials. The
342 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
dreadful deaths from burning, which so often occur in
winter, too frequently arise from cotton pinafores first
taking fire.*
If all dresses, after being washed, and just before
being dried, were soaked for a short time in a solution
of tungstate of soda, such clothes, when dried, would
be perfectly fire-proof.
Tungstate of soda may be used either with or without
starch ; but full directions for the using of it will, at
the time of purchase, be given by the chemist.
439. Is a hum more dangerous than a scald f
Burns and scalds are equally dangerous. Burns and
scalds are more dangerous on the body, especially on the
chest, than either on the face or on the extremities.
The younger the child, the greater the danger.
Scalds both of the mouth and the throat, from a child
drinking boiling water from the spout of a teakettle,
are most dangerous. A poor person^'s child is, from the
unavoidable absence of the mother, sometimes shut up
in the kitchen by himself, and being very thirsty, and
no other water being at hand, he is tempted, in his
ignorance, to drink from the teakettle. If the water
be unfortunately boiling, it will most likely prove to be
a fatal draught to him !
440. What are the test immediate applications to a
scald or to a hum 9
A severe burn or scald always requires the services of
a medical man. Nothing should be applied until his
arrival, with the exception of wrapping the part in cotton
wool to relieve pain. Do not attempt to remove the
clothes, as you may do the injured surface great damage,
and cause much unnecessary pain and shock to the
system. If there is shock, and the vitality is greatly
depressed, as evidenced by pallor, f aintness, coldness, and
* " It has been computed that upwards of 1,000 children are
annually burned to death by accident in England."
CHILDHOOD. — ACCIDEN^TS. 343
trembling, wrap the child in blankets, with hot water
bottles to his feet, and place him near the fire. If over
two years of age, give him from two to four teaspoonfuls
of brandy ; if under two, a teaspoonf ul.
Simple burns or scalds should be smeared over with
clean olive oil or vaseline, and then wrapped in cotton
wool, or, if obtainable, apply strips of rag or lint on
which Boracic ointment has been smeared. Do not hold
the hand, if that be the part affected, to the fire with
the idea of draiving out the hum. Such a proceeding is
acutely painful, and utterly useless. I have a very lively
recollection- of having gone through this performance
when a child, and I call attention to the superstition to
save other poor sufferers from nursery experiments.
Another remedy for burns is '' carron oil," which is
made by mixing equal parts of linseed oil and lime water
in a bottle, and shaking it up before using it. Boracic
Acid ointment, spread on lint, is, however, the best
remedy, and it would be as well for you to keep a pot
of this by you for emergencies.
441. If a hit of quick-lime sliould accident ally enter
the eye of my child, luhat ought to he done ?
It will be useless for you to attempt the removal of
the lime ; spasm of the lids will prove too strong for
this without surgical assistance, and you will lose j^recious
moments of valuable time. Well bathe the eye inside
with vinegar and w^ater — one part of vinegar to three
parts of water. That is to say, a quarter fill a clean
half-pint medicine bottle with vinegar, and then fill it
up with spring water, and it will be ready for use. Let
the eye be bathed for at least a quarter of an hour with
it. The vinegar will neutralize the lime, and will rob
it of its burning properties.
Having bathed the eye with vinegar and water for a
quarter of an hour, bathe it for another quarter of an
hour simply with a little warm water ; after which, drop
into the eye two or three drops of the best sweet oil ;
344 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
pat on an eye-sliade made of three thicknesses of linen
rag, covered with green silk ; and then do nothing more
until the doctor arrives.
If the above rules be not promptly and properly
followed out, the child may irreparably lose his eye-
sight ; hence the necessity of conversations of this kind,
to tell a mother, provided immediate assistance cannot
be obtained, what ought instantly to be done ; for
moments, in such a case, are precious.
"While doing all that I have just recommended, let a
surgeon be sent for, as a smart attack of inflammation
of the eye is very apt to follow the burn of lime ; but
the inflammation may, provided the j^revious directions
have been promptly and efficiently followed out, with
appropriate treatment, soon subside. The ^'^ sight" of
the eye, however, may be seriously damaged, notwith-
standing the prompt treatment.
The above accident is apt to occur to. a child who is
standing near a building when the slacking of quick-
lime is going on, and where portions of lime in the form
of powder are flying about the air. It would be well
not to allow a child to stand about such places, as pre-
vention is always better than cure. Quicklime is some-
times called caustic-lime : it well deserves its name, for
it is a burning-lime, and if proper means be not promptly
used, will soon burn away the sight.
442. If any other foreign substance should enter the
eye, luhat is the best method of removing it 9
If there be grit, or sand, or dust, or particle of coal,
or a gnat, or hair, or an eyelash in the eye, it ought to
be tenderly removed by a small tightly-folded paper
spill, holding down the lower lid with the fore-finger of
the left hand the while.
If a particle of metal be sticking on the ^^ sight," as
it sometimes does, it will require the skilled hand of a
surgeon to remove it. Spasm of the lids is usually so
great, if the foreign body is well inside, that attemj)ts at
CHILDHOOD. — ACCIDENTS. 345
removal will prove abortive^, and surgical assistance must
be sought. Put two or three drops of sweet oil into the
eye^ and take him to the doctor. Very frequently the
foreign body is under the upper lid.
Any foreign substance, however minute, in the eye, is
very painful ; but a piece of burning lime is excruciating.
Shakspeare gives a graphic description of the pain from
the presence of any foreign substance, however small, in
the eye :
" O heaven ! — that there were but a mote in yours,
A grain, a dust, a gnat, a wand'ring hair.
Any annoyance in that precious sense !
Then, feeling what small things are boist'rous there,
Your vile intent must needs seem horrible."
443. Wliat ought to te done in a case of cliolcing 9
How often does a hungry little child, if not carefully
watched, fill his mouth so full, and swallow lumps of
food in such hot haste, as to choke himself —
" With eager feeding, food doth choke the feeder."
Shakspeare.
Treatment. — Instantly put your finger into the throat
and feel if the substance be within reach ; if it be food,
force it down, and thus liberate the breathing ; should
it be a hard substance, endeavor to hook it out ; if you
cannot reach it, give a good smart blow or two with the
flat of the hand on the back ; or, as recommended by a
contributor to The Lancet, on the chest, taking care to
'' seize the little patient, and place him between your
knees sideways, and in this or some other manner to
compress the ahdomen [the belly], otherwise the power
of the blow will be lost by the yielding of the abdominal
parietes [walls of the belly], and the respiratory effort will
not be produced." If that does not have the desired
effect, tickle the throat with your finger, so as to insure
immediate vomiting, and the subsequent ejection of the
offending substance. Or suspend the child by his heels
and shake him or slap his shoulders.
346 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
444. Sliould my child he hitten hy a dog supposed to he
mad, wliat ought to he done 9
Instantly thorouglily suck the wound^ which can be
safely done by any one who has no sore on the lips or
tongue, of course spitting out all the blood drawn from
the parts. Next well rub into the wound for the space
of five or ten seconds — seconds, not minutes — a stick of
nitrate of silver (lunar- caustic), or crystals of carbolic
acid. The stick of lunar-caustic * should be pointed,
like a cedar pencil for writing, in order the more
thoroughly to enter the wound. \ If you have no lunar-
caustic at hand, burn the bitten part at once with a
red-hot skewer, or wire, or lighted fusee. At the same
time keep a firm hold of the part above the bite, by the
application of a tight bandage, so as to prevent the poison
being carried away by the blood-vessels.
Never kill a dog supposed to be mad which has bitten
a child, or anyone else, until it has, past all doubt, been
ascertained whether the animal be really mad or not.
The eminent specialist and great authority on canine
diseases, Mr. A. J. Sewell, F. E. 0. Y. S., of London,
says : " This can be ascertained for certain by keeping
the animal eight days, for if he is alive at the end of that
time the dog is not mad or rabid. Of course, a veterinary
surgeon would be able to tell at once whether the dog
was suffering from rabies or not.''^ | He ought, of course,
to be tied up ; and be carefully watched, and be pre-
vented the while from biting any one else.
A cat sometimes goes mad, and its bite may cause
hydrophobia. A bite from a mad cat ought to be treated
precisely in the same manner. Arrangements should be
* Mr. Youatt trusted to cauterization with nitrate of silver.
He was bitten seven times, and operated on 400 people. Only
one of these died — he considered it due to fright.
f A stick of jpoinfed nitrate of silver, in a case, ready for use,
may be procured of any respectable druggist.
' :j: In a letter to the Author, June, 1897.
CHILDHOOD. — ACCIDEK"TS. 347
made to carry out Pasteur treatment. This consists in
a series of inoculations of an animal preparation, skil-
fully prepared from the spinal cords of rabid animals.
The method of preparation attenuates the virus.
Gradually the patient's system is accustomed to increas-
ing strengths of the poison, until, finally, virulent virus
can be inoculated without producing any ill effects, the
patient then being hydrophobia proof. By this method of
treatment, the system can be made hydrophobia proof
before the disease has time to manifest itself in the
ordinary course. Pasteur treatment is a great success.
Mr. A. J. Sewell tells me that he always advises any one
who has been bitten by a rabid dog to submit to Pasteur
treatment.
445. What is the treatment for a hite from a dog or
cat not mad f
A bite from a dog or a cat not mad should be treated
as an ordinary wound (see Conversation 431).
446. Wliat are the best remedies in case of a sting
from either a hee or a luasp f
Extract the sting, if it has been left behind, either by
means of a pair of dressing forceps, or by the pressure
of the hollow of a small key — a watch-key will answer
the purpose ; then the blue-bag (which is used in washing)
moistened with water, should be applied to the part ; or
a few drops of solution of potash, * or salvolatile ; or
" apply moist ynuff or tobacco, rubbing it well in,^' f and
renew from time to time either of them. But the most
valuable remedy of all is to rub the stung part with the
cut surface of a raiu onion, which relieves the pain, often
immediately, and causes the swelling to subside. Should
there be much swelling or inflammation, foment the part
with Boracic Acid fomentations. In eating apricots, or
peaches, or other fruit, they ought beforehand to be care-
fully examined, in order to ascertain that no wasp is
* Which may be instantly procured of a druggist,
f A Bee-master. — Tlie Times.
348 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
lurking in them ; otherwise, it may sting the throat, and
serious consequences will ensue.
447. If a child receives a fall, causing the sTcinto he
grazed, can you tell me of a good application f
Apply Boracic Acid Ointment, or Zinc Ointment, or
allow the dried blood to form a scab.
448. In case of a child swalloiving ty mistahe eitlier
Laudanum^ or Paregoric, or any other prejjaratio^i of
Opium what ought to he done 9
Give, as quicTcly as possible, a strong mustard emetic ;
that is to say, mix two teaspoonfuls of flour of mustard in
half a teacupful of water, and force it down his throat.
If free vomiting be not induced, tickle the upper part
of the swallow with a feather ; drench the little patient's
stomach with large quantities of warm water. As soon
as it can be obtained from a druggist, give him Prescrip-
tion XIX., in Appendix, as an emetic draught.
If he is heavy with sleep, smack his buttocks and his
back ; walk him, or lead him, or carry him about in the
fresh air ; shake him by his shoulders ; pull his hair ;
tickle his nostrils ; shout and holla in his ears ; plunge
him into a warm bath and then into a cold bath alter-
nately ; well sponge his head and face with cold water ;
dash cold water on his head, face and neck ; and do not,
on any account, until the effects of the opiate are gone
off, allow him to go to sleep, if you do, he will never wake
again ! While doing all these things, of course, you
ought to lose no time in sending for a medical man.
449. Have you any observations to mahe on parents
allowing the Deadly Nightshade — the Atropa Belladonna
■ — to groio in their gardens 9
I wish to caution you oiot on any account, to allow the
Belladonna — the Deadly Nightshade — to grow in your
garden. The whole plant root, leaves, and berries — is
poisonous ; and the berries, being attractive to the eye,
are every alluring to children.
450. Wiat is the treatinent of poisoning by Belladonna
CHILDHOOD. — ACCIDENTS. 349
Instantly send for a medical man. In the meantime
give an emetic — a mustard emetic ; mix two teaspoon-
fuls of flour of mustard in half a teacupful of warm
water, and force it down the child^s throat : then drench
him with warm water, and tickle the upper part of his
swallow either with a feather or with the finger, to make
him sick. The grand remedy is an emetic to bring up
the offending cause. If the emetic has not acted suffi-
ciently, the medical man when he arrives may deem it
necessary to use the stomach-pump ; but, remember,
not a moment must be lost, for moments are precious
in a case of belladonna poisoning, in giving a mustard
emetic, and repeating it again and again until the
enemy be dislodged. Dash cold water upon his head
and face : the best way of doing which is by means of
a large sponge, holding his head and his face over a
wash-hand basin, half filled with cold water, and filling
the sponge from the basin, and squeezing it over
his head and face, allowing the water to continuously
stream over them for an hour or two, or until the
effects of the poison have passed away. This sponging
of the head and face is very useful in poisoning , by
opium, as well as in poisoning by belladonna ; indeed,
the treatment of poisoning by the one, is very similar
to the treatment of poisoning by the other. Therefore
for the further treatment of poisoning by belladonna,
I beg to refer you to a previous Conversation on the treat-
ment of poisoning by opium.
In belladonna poisoning, the symptoms that will
attract your attention, are brilliantly red cheeks and
face, widely dilated pupils — the eyes are very bright
and prominent — great excitement, and quickened
breathing. The mouth is dry, and there is a feeling
of dryness of the throat (soreness ?). I once treated
a party of children, who were wildly excited and with
flushed faces, glittering eyes, and much laughter, were
chasing imaginary butterflies with their caps and hats
350 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
in the out-patient room. Delirium is succeeded by
drowsiness, and coldness of the extremities. When
he has been sick, he may be given tea, which has been
standing a long time on the tea leaves.
451. SliouM a child put either a pea or a head, or
any other foreign sii])stance, up the nose, luhat ought to
he done?
Send for a doctor, who will readily remove it. If it
be a pea, and it be allowed for any length of time to
remain in, it will swell, and will thus become difficult
to extract, and may produce great irritation and inflam-
mation. A child ought not to be allowed to play with
peas or with beads (unless the beads are on a string),
as he is apt, for amusement, to push them up his
nose.
452. If a child has put either a pea, a heart, a head, a
cherry-stone, or any other smooth substance, into his ear,
what ought to he done to remove it 9
Poking at the ear will, in the majority of cases, only
send the substance further in, and w^ll make it more
difficult for the medical man to remove. On no account
use tweezers, or forceps ; you may do irreparable dam-
age to the ear-drum and delicate ear-bones. The sur-
geon will, in all probability, syringe the ear ; therefore,
have a supply of warm water in readiness for him.
There is no cause for alarm : skilful syringing will ex-
pel the foreign body.
453. If an eariuig, or any other living thing, should
get into the ear of a child, ivhat ought to he done?
Lay the child on his side the affected ear being up-
permost, and fill the ear, from a teaspoon, with either
warm water or sweet oil. The water or oil will carry
the living thing, whatever it be, out of the ear, and the
child at once will be relieved.
454. If a child swalloiv apiece of hrohen glass, lohat
ought to he done ?
Avoid purgatives, as the free action of the bowels
CHILDHOOD. — ACCIDENTS. 351
would be likely to force the piece of glass into the lin-
ing membrane of the bowels, and thus would wound it,
and might cause ulceration, and even death. The
object of treatment will be to allow them to pass
through the intestines well enveloped by the other con-
tents of the tube ; and for this purpose a solid, fari-
naceous diet, especially large quantities of mashed pota-
toes, should be ordered, and purgatives scrupulously
avoided.
455. If a child siuallow a pin, loliat sliould he done 9
Treat him as for broken glass. Grive him no aperients,
or it might, in action, force the pin into the bowel. I
have known more than one instance in which a child,
after swallowing a pin, has voided it in his motion.
456. If a child swalloio a coin of any hind, is danger
likely to ensue, and what ought to he done ?
There is, as a rule, no danger. Feed him as you
would for a piece of broken glass or a pin. The evacua-
tions ought to be carefully examined until the coin be
discovered. I once knew a child swallow a penny piece
and pass it in his stool.
457. If a child, tvhile playing tuith a small coin {such
as a five cent silver piece), or any other suhstance, should
toss it into his nioiith, and inadvertently allotv it to en-
ter the tcind2n2)e, luhat ought to he done ?
If the foreign body passes into the glottis he will have
the symptoms of Croup (see Conversation 276). If it
escapes this and enters the windpipe spasms of the glottis
may happen now and then when the coin strikes the
part in its efforts to escape. If it passes into a smaller
tube (usually the right bronchus) it will stick there in
all probability. Should this happen, very serious mis-
chief will be done to the corresponding lung. Its situa-
tion could now be determined by the new photography,
the X rays, with great accuracy.
Take hold of him by the legs, allowing his head to
hang downwards ; then give him, with the palm of your
352 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
hand, several sharp blows on his back, and you may
have the good fortune to see the coin coughed out of
his mouth. If this plan does not succeed, and he is
made worse by it, send instantly for a medical man. If
the coin or foreign body is not dislodged, it will be
necessary to perform an operation and open his wind-
pipe (tracheotomy).
458. Hoio can a mother guard a cliild from haviiig an
accident ?
By strict supervision over him on her own part, and
by not permitting her child to be left to careless serv-
ants ; by not allowing him to play with fire, to swing
over banisters, and to have knives and playthings of a
dangerous character ; to keep all poisonous articles and
cutting instruments out of his reach ; and above all and
before all, insisting, lovingly, affectionately, but firmly,
upon implicit obedience.
Accidents generally arise from one of three causes,
namely, from wilful disobedience, or from gross care-
lessness, or from downright folly. I quite agree with
Davenant, that they do not arise from chance —
" If we consider accident,
And how, repugnant unto sense,
It pays desert with bad event,
We shall disparage Providence."
PAET III.
BOYHOOD AND GIRLHOOD.
Just at the age 'twixt boy and youth.
When thought is speech, and speech is truth. — Scott.
'2Ys with him e''en standing water.
Between man and boy. — Shakspeare,
Standing with reluctant feet,
"Where the brook and river meet.
Womanhood and childhood fleet ! — Longfellow.
ABLUTIOIT, ETC.
459. Have you any remarhs to mahe on the ablution
of hoys and girls ?
How is it that a mother thinks it absolutely neces-
sary, which it really is, that her babel's ivliole body
should, every morning, be washed, and yet does not
deem it needful that her girl or boy, of twelve years
old, should go through the process of daily and thorough
ablution ? If the one case be necessary, sure I am that
the other is equally, if not more, needful.
Thorough ablution of the body every morning at
least, is essential to health. I maintain that no one can
be in the enjoyment of perfect health who does not
keep his skin — the whole of his skin — clean. More-
over, a person who does not keep his skin clean is more
susceptible of contracting coniagious disease, such as
smallpox, cholera, diphtheria, scarlet fever, etc.
Thorough ablution of the body is a grand requisite
of health. I maintain that no one can be perfectly
healthy unless he thoroughly wash his body — the whole
of his body ; if filth accumulate, which it is sure to do
if not washed off, disease must, as a matter of course,
follow. Besides, ablution is a delightful process ; it
makes one feel fresh and sweet and young and healthy ;
it makes the young look handsome, and the old look
353
354 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
young ! Thorough ablution might truly be said both
to renovate and to rejuvenize ! A scrupulously clean
skin is one of the grand distinctive characteristics both
of a lady and of a gentleman.
Dirty people are not only a nuisance to themselves,
but to all around ; they are not only a nuisance, but a
danger, as their dirty bodies are apt to carry from place
to place contagious diseases.
It is important that parts that are covered should be
kept cleaner than parts exposed to the air, as dirt is
more apt to fester in dark places ; besides, parts ex-
posed to the air have the advantage of the air^s sweeten-
ing properties ; air acts as a bath, and purifies the skin
amazingly.
It is desirable to commence a complete system of
washing early in life, as it then becomes a second nature,
and cannot be dispensed with afterwards. One accus-
tomed to the luxury of his morning ablution, if any-
thing prevented him from taking it, would feel most un-
comfortable ; he would as soon think of dispensing with
his breakfast as with his bath.
Every boy, every girl, and every adult ought each to
have either a room or a dressing-room to himself or to
herself, in order that he or she might strip to the skin
and thoroughly wash themselves ; no one can wash prop-
erly and effectually without doing so.
]^ow for the paraphernalia required for the process : —
(1) A large >nursery basin, one that will hold six or
eight quarts of water ; (2) a piece of coarse flannel, a
yard long and half a yard wide ; (3) a large sponge ;
(4) a tablet either of the best yellow or of curd soap ;
(5) two towels — one being a diaper, and the other a
Turkish rubber. Now as to the manner of performing
ablution. You ought to fill the basin three parts full
with water. Having well soaped and cleansed j^our
hands, resoap them, dip your head and face into the
water ; with the soaped hands well rub and wash your
YOUTH. — ABLUTIOl^r^ ETC. 355
head, face, neck, chest and arm-pits ; having done this,
take the wetted sponge, and go over all the parts pre-
viously traveled over by the soaped hands ; fold the
flannel as you would a neckerchief, and dip it in the
water ; throw it, as you would a skipping-rope, over
your shoulders, and move it a few times from right to
left and from left to right, and up and down, and then
across the back and loins ; this done, dip the sponge in
the water, and, holding your head over the water, let
the water stream from the sponge a time or two over
your head, neck and face. PijD your head and face in
the water, then put your hands and arms (as far as they
will go) into the water, holding them there while you
can count thirty. Having reduced the quantity of
water to a third of a basinful, place the basin on the
floor, and sit (while you can count fifty) in the water ;
put one foot at a time in the water, and quickly rub,
with soaped hands, up and down your leg, over the foot,
and pass your thumb between each toe (this latter pro-
cedure tends to keep away soft corns) ; take the sponge,
filled with water, and squeeze it over your leg and foot,
from the knee downwards, and serve your other leg and
foot in the same way. By adopting the above plan the
whole of the body will, every morning, be thoroughly
washed.
A little warm water might at first, and during the
winter time, be added, to take off the chill, but the
sooner quite cold water is used the better. The body
ought to be quickly dried (taking care to wipe between
each toe), first with the diaper, and then with the
Turkish rubber. In drying your back and loins, you
ought to throw, as you would a skipping-rope, the
Turkish rubber over your shoulders, and move it a few
times from side to side, until the parts be dry.
Although the above description is necessarily prolix,
the washing itself ought to be very expeditiously per-
formed ; there should be no dawdling over it, otherwise
356 ADYICE TO A MOTHEK.
the body will become chilled, and harm, instead of good,
will be the result. If due despatch be used, the whole
of the body might, according to the above method, be
thoroughly washed and dried in the space of fifteen
minutes.
A boy ought to wash his head, as above directed,
every morning ; a girl who has much hair once a week,
with soap and water, with flannel and sponge. The
hair, if not frequently washed, is very dirty, and noth-
ing is more repulsive than a dirty head.
It might be said, '^ Why do you go into particulars ?
Why dwell so much upon minutiae ? Every one, with-
out being told, knows how to wash himself ! ^' I reply
that " Very few people do know how to wash themselves
properly ; it is a misfortune that they do not. They
would be healthier and happier and sweeter if they
did ! ''
460. Have you any remarks to make on doys and girls
learnmg to swim ?
Let me strongly urge you to let your sons and daugh-
ters be early taught to swim. Swimming is a glorious
exercise — one of the best that can be taken ; it expands
the chest ; it promotes digestion ; it develops the
muscles, and brings into action some muscles that in
any other form of exercise are but seldom brought into
play ; it strengthens and braces the whole frame, and
thus makes the swimmer resist the liability of catching
cold ; it gives both boys and girls courage, energy, and
self-reliance — splendid qualities in this rough world of
ours. Swimming is oftentimes the means of saving
human life ; this of itself would be a great recom-
mendation of its value. It is a delightful amusement ;
to breast the waves is as exhilarating to the spirits as
clearing on horseback a five-barred gate.
The art of learning to swim is quite as necessary to
be learned by a girl as by a boy ; the former has similar
muscles, lungs, and other organs to develop to the latter.
YOUTH. — ABLUTION, ETC. 357
It is very desiral)le that in large towns swimming
baths for ladies should be instituted. Swimming ought,
then, to be a part and parcel of the education of every
boy and of every girl.
Swimming does not always agree. This sometimes
arises from a person being quite cold before he plunges
into the water. Many people have an idea that they
ought to go into the water while their bodies are in a
cool state. Now this is a mistaken notion, and is likely
to ^^roduce dangerous consequences. The skin ought
to be comfortably warm, neither very hot nor very cold,
and then the bather will receive every advantage that
cold bathing can produce. If he go into the bath
whilst the body is cold, the blood becomes chilled, and
is driven to internal parts, and thus mischief is fre-
quently jDroduced.
A boy, after using cold bathing, ought, if it agree
with him, to experience a pleasing glow over the whole
surface of his body ; his spirits and appetite should be
increased, and he ought to feel stronger ; but if it dis-
agree with him, a chilliness and coldness, a lassitude and
a depression of spirits, will be the result ; the face will
be pale and the features will be pinched, and, in some
instances, the lips and nails will become blue. All these
are signs that cold bathing is injurious, and therefore,
that it ought on no account to be persevered in, unless
these symptoms have hitherto proceeded from his going
into the bath whilst he was quite cold. He may, pre-
viously to entering the bath, warm himself by walking
briskly for a few minutes. Where cold sea water bathing
does not agree, ii^arm sea bathing should be substituted.
461. Which do you prefer — sea bathing or fresh water
hathing ?
Sea bathing. It is incomparably superior to fresh
water bathing. The salt water is far more refreshing
and Invigorating ; the battling with the waves is more
exciting ; the sea breezes, blowing on the nude body.
358 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
breathe health and strength into the frame, and comeli-
ness into the face ; the sea water and the sea breezes are
splendid cosmetics ; the salt water is one of the finest
applications, both for strengthening the roots and
brightening the color of the hair, provided grease and
pomatum have not been previously used.
462. Have you any directions to give as to the time
and the seasons, and the test mode of sea hathing ?
Summer and autumn are the best seasons of the year
for cold sea bathing — August and September being the
best months. To prepare the skin for the cold sea
bathing, it would be well, before taking a dip in the sea,
to have on the previous day a warm salt water bath.
It is injurious, and even dangerous, to bathe imme-
diately after a full meal ; the best time to bathe is about
two hours after breakfast — that is to say, about eleven
or twelve o^clock in the forenoon. The bather, as soon
as he enters the water, ought instantly to wet his head ;
this may be done either by his jumping at once from
the float into the water, or, if he have not the
courage to do so, by plunging his head without loss of
time, completely under the water. He should remain
in the water about a quarter of an hour, but never longer
than half an hour. Many bathers, by remaining a
long time in the water, do themselves great injury. If
sea bathing be found to be invigorating^and how often
to the delicate it is proved to be truly magical — a pa-
tient may bathe once every day, but on no account of-
tener. If he be not strong, he had better, at first,
bathe only every other day, or even only twice a week.
The bather, after leaving the bath-house, ought for half
an hour to take a brisk walk, in order to promote a re-
action, and thus to cause a free circulation of the blood.
Should the bather feel somewhat faint after coming
out of the water, you had better cover him all over with
towels, and then give him some milk with a little whisky
in it. Always, during the first wepk of sea bathing,
BOYHOOD AKD GIELHOOD. — ABLUTION, ETC. 359
and when necessary, take a flask of warm milk and
whisky with you.
463. When may a tepid tatli"^ he used?
A tepid bath may be taken at almost any time, and
a bather may remain longer in one, with safety, than in
a cold bath.
464. Do you approve of luarm latliing ?
A warm bath f may with advantage be occasionally
used — say, once a week. A warm bath cleanses the
skin more effectually than either a cold or a tepid bath ;
but, as it is more relaxing, ought not to be employed so
often as either of them. A person should not continue
longer than ten minutes in a warm bath. Once a week,
as a rule, is quite often enough for a warm bath, and it
would be an excellent plan if every boy, and girl, and
adult would make a practise of having one regularly
every week, unless any special reason should arise to
forbid its use.
465. But does not tvarm hatldng, dy relaxing the pores
of the shin, cause a j^erson to catch cold if he expose him-
self to the air immediately afterwards ?
There is, on this point, a great deal of misconception
and unnecessary fear. A person, immediately after us-
ing a warm bath, should take proper precautions — that is
to say, he must not expose himself to draughts, neither
ought he to wash himself in cold water, nor should he,
immediately after taking one, drink cold water. But
he may follow his usual exercise or employment, provided
the weather be fine, and the wind be neither in the east
nor the northeast. Warm baths are best taken in the
evening before bedtime.
Every house of any pretension ought to have a bath-
room. J^othing would be more conducive to health
than regular, systematic bathing. A hot and cold bath.
%
* A tepid bath from 85 to 92 degrees Fahrenheit,
f A warm batli f rom 92 to 98 degrees Fahrenheit.
360
ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
a sitz bath, and a shower bath — each and all in their
turn — are grand requisites to preserve and to procure
health. If the house cannot boast of a bath-room, then
the corporation baths (which nearly every large town
possesses) ought to be liberally patronized.
466. Will you give me a list of the different tempera-
tures applicahle in lathing ?
The following are the recognized temperatures for the
different baths named : —
Bath.
Temperature of Water.
The Cold
33° to 65°Fahr.
„ Cool . . .
65° to 75° „
,, Temperate .
75° to 85° „
„ Tepid .
85° to 92° „
,, Warm .
92° to 98° „
„ Hot
98° to 112° „
Remember to use your thermometer always before
putting a child into a hot bath.
MANAGEMENT OF THE HAIR.
467. What is the best application for the hair 9
A sponge and cold water, and two good hair brushes.
Avoid grease, pomatum, bandaline, and all abomina-
tions of that kind. There is a natural oil of the hair,
which is far superior to any oil ! The best scent for the
hair is an occasional dressing of soap and water ; the best
beautifier of the hair is a downright thorough good
brushing with two good hair-brushes ! Again, I say,
avoid grease of all hinds to the hair.
If the hair cannot, without some application, be kept
tidy, then a little scented castor-oil might, by means of
an old tooth-brush, be used to smooth it ; castor oil is,
for the purpose, one of the most simple and harmless
of dressings ; but, as I said before, the hair's own
natural oil cannot be equaled, far less surpassed ! A
little glycerine and lime-juice is a good hair-dressing.
If the hair fall off, the castor-oil, scented with a few
YOUTH.— THE HAIR. S61
drops either of otto of roses^ or of essence of bergamot,
is a good remedy to prevent its doing so ; a little of it
onglit^ niglit and morning, to be well rubbed into the
roots of the hair. Cocoanut oil is an excellent applica-
tion for the falling off ol the hair, and can never do
harm, which is more than can be said of many vaunted
remedies for the hair ! Compound camphor liniment
is another hair restorer.
CLOTHIKG.
468. Do you approve of a toy wearing jiannel next the
skin ?
Ours is so variable a climate, and the changes from
heat to cold, and from dryness to moisture of the at-
mosphere, are so sudden, that some means are required
to guard against their effects. Flannel, as it is a bad
conductor of heat, prevents the sudden changes from
affecting the body, and thus is a great preservative
against cold.
Flannel is as necessary in the summer as in the winter
time ; indeed, we are more likely both to sit and to stand
in draughts in the summer than in the winter ; and
thus we are more liable to become chilled and to catch
cold.
Woolen shirts are now much worn ; they are very
comfortable and beneficial to health. Moreover, they
simplify the dress, as they supersede the necessity of
wearing either both flannel and linen, or flannel and
calico shirts.
469. Flannel sometimes produces great irritation of
the shin : luhat ought to be clone to prevent it ?
Have a moderately fine fiannel, and persevere in its
use ; the skin in a few days will bear it comfortably.
There is nothing equal to the old-fashioned Welsh
flannel or Jaeger.
470. After an attack of Rheumatic Fever, what extra
clothing do you advise 9
362 ADYiCE TO A MOTHER.
In the case of a boy or a girl, just recovering from a
severe attack of rheumatic fever, flannel next the skin
ought always, winter and summer, to be worn — flannel
drawers as well as a flannel vest.
471. Have you any directions to give respecting the
shoes and the stochings 9
The shoes for winter should be moderately thick and
waterproof. If boys and girls be delicate, they ought
to have double soles to their shoes, with the inner sole
made of cork ; this plan will make the sole of boots
and shoes completely waterproof. In wet or dirty
weather, india-rubber overshoes are useful, as they
keep the iifper as well as the under leather perfectly
dry.
The socks, or stockings, for winter, ought to be either
Iambus wool or worsted ; it is absurd to wear cotton
socks or stockings all the year round. I should advise
a boy to wear socks, not stockings, as he will then be
able to dispense with garters. If he wears stockings,
suspenders should be used. Garters, as I have remarked
in a previous Conversation, are injurious — they interfere
with the circulation of the blood.
Boys and girls cannot be too particular in keeping
their feet warm and dry. Cold wet feet are one of the
most frequent exciting causes of bronchitis, of sore
throats, and of consumption.
472. Do you approve of girls loearing stays f
Yes, provided that they are worn loose, and have
shoulder straps. Custom has decreed that the heaviest
part of a woman^s dress shall be borne round the hips.
Hence the tendency of the boAvels to be pushed down-
wards. To lessen this tendency, it is necessary to have
some artificial support from the shoulders. Braces have
been recommended, but have not been adopted, maybe,
from prejudice. Stays with shoulder straps, such as
worn by children, give the proper support to the spine,
whilst the shoulder straps relieve the hips somewhat of
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the weight placed on them. Girls should not ivear sta3^s
fastening in front, and having steel ribs to stiffen them. *
473. Have you any remarhs to mahe on female dress ?
A girl^s dress should be well fitting but loose. Its
style, and its color, and material, should be in accord-
ance with the general conformation and complexion of
the wearer, and her social position. First let the under-
linen be perfect, then see to the outward covering of
the head and body. A mother^s taste, a mother^s status
in society, are more or less revealed by her manner of
clothing her children. The severity of simplicity of
style, the intrinsic value or suitableness of material, the
subdued hues of col(5rs, taken as a whole, stamp the
wearer as the happy offspring of a genti ewoman and a
ge7itleinan.
There is a perfect disregard of health in everything
appertaining to fashion. Parts that ought to be kept
warm remain unclothed ; the upper portion of the
chest, most prone to tubercles (consumption), is com-
pletely exposed ; the feet, great inlets to cold, are covered
with thin stockings, and with shoes as thin as paper.
Parts that should have full play are cramped and ham-
pered ; the chest is cribbed in with stays, the feet with
tiglit shoes — hence causing deformity, and preventing a
free circulation of blood. The mind, that ought to be
calm and unruffled, is kept in a constant state of excite-
ment by balls, and concerts, and plays. Mind and body
sympathize with each other, and disease is the conse-
quence. Night is turned into day ; and a delicate girl
leaves the heated ball-room, decked out in her airy
finery, to breathe the damp and cold air of night. She
goes to bed, but, for the first few hours, she is too much
* Several years ago, while prosecuting my anatomical studies
in London University College dissecting-rooms, on opening a
young woman, I discovered an immense indentation of the
liver large enough to admit a rolling-pin, produced by tight-
lacing !
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excited to sleep ; towards morning, when the air is pure
and invigorating, and when to breathe it would be to
inhale health and life, she falls into a feverish slumber,
and wakes not until noonday. Oh, that a mother
should be so blinded and so infatuated !
DIET.
474. WJiich is the 7nore ivliolesome, coffee or tea, ivhere
milk does 7iot agree, for a youth's ireahfast ?
Coffee, provided it be made properly, and provided
the boy or the girl takes a great deal of outdoor exercise ;
if a youth be much confined within doors, tea is pref-
erable to coffee. The usual practice of making coffee
is to boil it, to get out the strength ! But the fact is,
the process of boiling boils the strength away ; it drives
off that aromatic, grateful principle, so wholesome to
the stomach, and so exhilarating to the spirits ; and, in
lieu of which, extracts, its dregs and impurities, which
are both heavy and difficult of digestion. The coffee
ought, if practicable, to he freshly ground every morn-
ing, in order that you may be quite sure that it be per-
fectly genuine, and that none of the aroma of the coffee
has flown off from long exposure to the atmosphere.
If a youtVs bowels be inclined to be costive, coffee is
preferable to tea for breakfast, as coffee tends to keep
the bowels regular. Fresh milk ought always to be added
to the coffee in the proportion of half coffee and half
new milk. If coffee does not agree, then tea should be
substituted, which ought to be taken with plenty of
fresh milk in it. Milk may be frequently given in tea,
when it otherwise would disagree.
When a youth is delicate, it is an excellent plan to
give him, every morning before he leaves his bed, a
tumblerful of new milk. Tlie draught of milk, of
course, is not in any way to interfere with his regular
breakfast.
Cocoa shells, properly boiled, form an excellent sub-
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stitute for tea or coffee. If the shells be too bitter,
good prepared cocoa may be given, made with part milk
and part water, and sweetened if necessary.
475. Do you a2)prove of a hoy eating meat tvitli Ms
hreahfast ?
This will depend upon the exercise he has. If he
has had a good walk or run before breakfast, or if ho
intends, after breakfast, to take plenty of athletic out-
door exercise, meat or a rasher or two of bacon may be
eaten with advantage ; but not otherwise. Fish is a
good breakfast dish.
476. Wiat is the lest dinner for a youth f
Fresh mutton or beef, a variety of vegetables, and a
farinaceous pudding. It is a bad practise to allow him
to dine exclusively on a fruit pudding, or on any other
pudding, or on pastry. Unless he be ill, he must, if he
is to be healthy, strong, and courageous, eat meat
every day of his life. ^''All courageous animals are
carnivorous, and greater courage is to be expected in a
people whose food is strong and hearty, than in the
half -starved commonalty of other countries. ''' — Sir W.
Temple.
He should be desired to take plenty of time over his
dinner, so that he may be able to chew his food well,
and thus that it may be reduced to an impalpable mass,
and be well mixed with the saliva — which the action of
the jaws will cause to be secreted — before it passes into
the stomach. If such were usually the case, the stom-
ach would not have double duty to perform, and a boy
would not so frequently lay the foundation of indiges-
tion, etc., which may embitter, and even make miser-
able, his after life. Meat, plain pudding, vegetables,
bread, and hunger for sauce (which exercise will readily
give), is the best, and, indeed, should be, as a rule, the
only dinner he should have. A youth ought not to
dine later than two o^clock.
477. Do you consider Iroths and soujjs wholesome'^
366 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
Yes. In moderate quantities. Fluids in large quan-
tities too much dilute the gastric juice, and over-distend
the stomach, and hence weaken it, and thus produce
indigestion.
Let him be debarred from rich soups and from highly
seasoned dishes, which only disorder the stomach. It
is a mistake to give a boy or a girl broth or soup, in
lieu of meat, for dinner. It may be well, occasionally,
to give a youth, with his dinner, in addition to Ms
meat, either good sonp or good broth not highly sea-
soned, made of good 7neat stock.
478. Do yoit approve of a hoy drinhing heer with Ms
dinner ?
No, a boy requires nothing but water with his meals.
479. Do you approve of a youth, more especially if
he he weakly, having luine after dinner f
I disapprove of it. His food should be quite nourish-
ing enough. Wine or any stimulant should only be
given under medical advice —
" Wine and youth are fire upon fire." — Fielding.
A parent ought on no account to allow a boy to touch
spirits, however much diluted ; they are, to the young,
still more deadly in their effects than wine.
480. Have you any ohjectio7i to a youth drinking tea 9
Not at all, provided it be not made strong, and that
it has plenty of milk in it. Green tea is apt to make
people nervous, and boys and girls ought not even to
know what it is to be nervous.
481. Do you oljed to supper for a youth?
Meat suppers are highly prejudicial. If he be hun-
gry (and if he has been much in the open air, he is
almost sure to be), a piece of bread and butter, with a
draught of milk and some farinaceous food will form
the best supper he can have. He ought not to sup later
than eight o^clock.
482. Do you approve of a hoy having anything he-
tween meals f
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I do not ; let him have four meals a day, and he will
require nothing in the intervals. It is a mistaken
notion that ^^ little and often is best." The stomach
requires rest as much as, or perhaps more than (for it is
frequently sadly overworked), any other part of the body.
I do not mean that he is to have '^ much and seldom :"
moderation, in everything., is to be observed. G-ive him
as much as a growing boy requires (and that is a great
deal), but do not let him eat gluttonously, as many in-
dulgent parents encourage their children to do. Intem-
perance in eating cannot be too strongly condemned.
483. Have you any objection to a hoy having ])ochet-
money f
It is a bad practise to allow a boy pocket-money ; if
he be so allowed, he will be loading his stomach with
sweets, fruit, and pastry, and thus his stomach will be-
come cloyed and disordered, and the keen appetite, so
characteristic of youth, will be blunted, and ill health
will ensue. ^^ In a public education, boys early learn
intemperance, and if the parents and friends would give
them less money upon their usual visits, it would be
much to their advantage, since it may justly be said
that a great part of their disorders arise from surfeit,
'plus occidit gula quam gladius' (gluttony kills more
than the sword)." — Goldsmith.
How true is the saying that " many people dig their
graves with their teeth. '^ You may depend upon it
that more die from stuffing than from starvation !
There would be little for doctors to do if there were not
so much stuffing and imbibing of strong drinks going
on in the world !
AIR AKD EXERCISE.
484. Have you any remarks to mahe on fresh air and
exercise for logs and girls 9
Girls and boys, especially the former, are too much
confined within doors. It is imperatively necessary, if
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you wish them to be strong and healthy, that they
should have plenty of fresh air and exercise ; remember,
I mean fresh air — country air, not the close air of a
town. By exercise, I mean the free unrestrained use
of their limbs. Girls, in this respect, are unfortunately
worse off than boys, although they have similar muscles
to develop, similar lungs that require fresh air, and
similar nerves to be braced and strengthened. It is not
considered ladylike to be natural — all their movements
must be measured by rule and compass !
The reason why so many young girls of the present
day are so sallow, under-sized, and ill-shaped, is for the
want of air and exercise. After a time the want of air
and exercise, by causing ill health, makes them sloth-
ful and indolent — it is a trouble for them to move from
their chairs !
Eespiration, digestion, and a proper action of the
bowels, imperatively demand fresh air and exercise. Ill
health will inevitably ensue if boys and girls are cooped
up a great part of the day in a close room. A distin-
guished writer of the present day says : — " The children
of the very poor are always out and about. In this
respect they are an example to those careful mammas
who keep their children, the whole day long, in their
chairs, reading, writing, ciphering, drawing, practising
music lessons, doing crochet work, or anything, in fact,
except running about, in spite of the sunshine always
peeping in and inviting them out of doors ; and who, in
the due course of time, are surprised to find their chil-
dren growing up with incurable heart, head, lung, or
stomach complaints.''^
485. WJiat is the lest exercise for a youth ?
AValking or running : provided neither of them be
carried to fatigue — the slightest approach to it should
warn a youth to desist from carrying it further. Walk-
ing exercise is not sufficiently insisted upon. A boy or
a girl, to be in the enjoyment of good health, ought to
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walk at least six miles every day. I do not mean six
miles at a stretch, but at different times of the day.
Some young ladies think it an awfully long walk if they
manage a couple of miles ! How can they, with such
exercise, expect to be well ? How can their muscles
be developed ? How can their nerves be braced ? How
can their spines be strengthened and be straight ? How
can their blood course merrily through their blood-
vessels ? How can their chests expand and be strong ?
Why, it is impossible ! Ill health must be the penalty
of such indolence, for [N'ature will not be set at naught !
AValking exercise, then, is the finest exercise that can
be taken, and must be taken, and that without stiut, if
boys and girls are to be strong and well ! The advan-
tage of our climate is, that there is not a day in the
whole year that walking exercise cannot be enjoyed. I
use the term enjoyed advisedly. The roads may, of
course, be dirty ; but what of that ? A good thick pair
of boots will be the remedy.
Do, then, let me entreat you, insist upon your girls
and boys taking plenty of exercise ; let them almost live
in the open air ! Do not coddle them ; this is a rough
world of ours, and they must rough it ; they must be
knocked about a great deal, and the knocks will do
them good. Poor youths who are, as it were, tied to
their mothers" apron strings, are much to be pitied :
they are usually puny, and delicate, and effeminate, and
utterly deficient in self-reliance.
486. Do you ajpprove of horse orpo7iy exercise for hoys
and girls f
Most certainly I do ; but still it ought not to super-
sede walking. Horse or pony exercise is very beneficial,
and cannot be too strongly recommended. One great
advantage for those living in towns, which it has over
walking, is, that a person may go further into the
country, and thus be enabled to breathe a purer and
more healthy atmosphere. Again, it is a much more
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amusing exercise than walking, and this, for the young,
is a great consideration indeed.
Horse exercise is for both boys and girls a splendid
exercise ; it improves the figure, it gives grace to the
movements, it strengthens the chest, it braces the
muscles, and gives to the character energy and cour-
age.
Both boys and girls ought to be early taught to ride.
There is nothing that gives more pleasure to the young
than riding on a pony or on a horse, and for younger
children, even on that despised, although useful animal,
a donkey. Exercise taken with pleasure is doubly
beneficial.
If girls were to ride more on horseback than they now
do, we should hear less of crooked spines, and of round
shoulders, of chlorosis, and of hysteria, and af other
numerous diseases of that class, generally owing to de-
bility and to mismanagement.
Those ladies who '^ affect the saddle" are usually much
healthier, stronger, and straighter than those who either
never, or but seldom, ride on horseback.
Eiding on horseback is both an exercise and an
amusement, and is peculiarly suitable for the fair sex,
more especially as their modes of exercise are somewhat
limited, ladies being excluded from following many
games, such as base and football, both of which are
practised, with such zest and benefit, by the rougher
sex. Of recent years, however, both base and foot-
ball have been attempted by the weaker sex. Though,
perhaps, football is a little undignified, and is much more
suited to the rougher nature of the male, yet it marks
the growing desire on the part of females to take more
exercise than was formerly fashionable, and is, on that
account, a step in the right direction
487. Do you approve of cycling for girls ?
Certainly. Tricycle and bicycle exercise is beneficial,
the latter especially. A bicycle is to be preferred to a
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tricycle, because the machine does not require so much
exertion for its propulsion, and it is decidedly less dan-
gerous if an accident occurs, indeed, danger may be the
more readily and quickly avoided by jumping off the
machine. Everything depends upon the saddle, its
adjustment, the position of the pedals and of the handle
bars. The carriage must be upright, not cramped, or
spinal curvature will surely follow. Exercise must be
taken short of fatigue. If the mounting of a hill causes
but slightly more exertion to propel the bicycle than on
the flat there is no objection to riding it, but if it requires
great exertion it had better not be attempted. So with
the distance accomplished. It is not so much a question
of miles as skill and physical ability. What would prove
exhausting to one girl, to another would simply mean
ordinary exercise. The speed and the extent of the
ride must depend upon the physical capabilities of the
individual. Bicycling is particularly adapted to the re-
quirements of weak and delicate girls, and should cer-
tainly be encouraged by a mother.
488. My girl lias Heart Disease : should she he alloioed
to cycle ?
That will entirely depend upon the nature of the
heart disease ; but it may be confidently stated that if
the disease is mild, bicycling in moderation will be very
beneficial. Fast riding, hill climbing and fatigue would
be most injurious. A doctor should of course be con-
sulted. After convalescence from fevers, the heart is
likely to be left " weak " ; the pastime therefore should
not be indulged in until the doctor sanctions it.
489. Do you approve of carriage exercise?
There is but very little muscular exertion in carriage
exercise ; its principal advantage is, that it enables a per-
son to have change of air, which may be purer than the
one he is in the habit of breathing. But, whether it be so
or not, change of air frequently does good, even if the air
be not so pure. Carriage exercise, therefore, does only
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partial good, and ought never to supersede either
walking, or bicycling, or horse exercise.
490. What is the best time of the day for the taking
of exercise 9
In the summer time, early in the morning and before
breakfast, as '^ cool morning air exhilarates young blood
like wine." If a boy cannot take exercise upon an
empty stomach, let him have a slice of bread and a
draught of milk. When he returns home he will be
able to do justice to his breakfast. In fine weather he
cannot take too much exercise, provided it be not carried
to fatigue.
491. Wliat is the hest time for him to Iceep quiet 9
He ought not to take exercise immediately after — say
for half an hour after — a hearty meal, or it will be
likely to interfere with his digestion.
AMUSEMENTS.
492. Wliat amusements do you recommend for a hoy
as being most beneficial to health ?
Manly games — such as rowing, skating, cricket, quoits,
football, rackets, baseball, fencing, bicycling, golf,
hockey, boxing, swimming, tennis, polo the punching
bag, and all gymnastic exercises. Such games bring
the muscles into proper action, and thus cause them to
be fully developed. They expand and strengthen the
chest ; they cause a due circulation of the blood,
making it to bound merrily through the blood-vessels,
and thus to diffuse health and happiness in its course.
Another excellent amusement for boys is the Indian
club exercise. The manner of handling them is so graphi-
cally described by Addison that I cannot do better than
transcribe it :— ^' When I was some years younger than I
am at present, I used to employ myself in a more labor-
ious diversion, which I learned from a Latin treatise of
exercises that is written with great erudition ; it is
there called tb^ ay-ioimy^ta, or the fighting with a man's
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own shadow, and consists in the brandishing of two
short sticks grasped in each hand, and loaded with
plugs of lead at either end. This opens the chest,
exercises the limbs, and gives a man all the pleasure of
boxing without the blows. I could wish that several
learned men would lay out that time which they
employ in controversies and disputes about nothing, in
this method of fighting with their own shadows. It might
conduce very much to evaporate the spleen which
makes them uneasy to the public as well as to them-
selves."
Another capital, healthful game is fencing, which
makes a boy '^Ho gain an upright and elastic carriage,
and to learn the use of his limbs." — H. Kingsley. Do
everything to make a boy strong. Remember, ^' the
glory of young men is their strength."
If games were more patronized in youth, so many
miserable, nervous, useless creatures would not abound.
First of all, by an abundance of exercise and fresh
air, make your boys and girls strong, and then, in due
time, they will be ready and be able to have their minds
properly cultivated.
One great advantage of gymnastic exercise is, it makes
the chest expand, it fills the lungs with air, and by
doing so strengthens them amazingly, and wards off
many diseases. The lungs are not sufficiently exercised
and expanded ; boys and girls, girls especially, do not
as a rule half fill their lungs with air ; now air to the
lungs is food to the lungs, and portions of the lungs
have not half their proper food, and in consequence
suffer.
It is very desirable that every boy and girl should,
every day of his or her life, and for a quarter of an hour
at least each time, go through a regular 'breathing
exercise — that is to say, should be made to stand up-
right, throw back the shoulders, and the while alter-
nately and regularly fully filland fully empty the lungs
374 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
of air. If this plan were daily followed, the chest and
lungs would be wonderfully invigorated, and the whole
body benefited.
493. Is playing the flute, No2omg the bugle, or any
other wind instrument, injurious to health ?
Decidedly so : the Inngs and the windpipe are brought
into unnatural action by them. If a boy be of a con-
sumptive habit, this will, of course, hold good with ten-
fold force. If a youth must be musical, let him be
taught singing, as that, provided the lungs be not dis-
eased, will be beneficial.
494. What amusements do you recommend for a girl?
Archery, skipping, horse exercise, croquet, tennis,
rowing, punting, fencing, swimming, bicycling, golf,
skating, and dancing are among the best. Archery
expands the chest, throws back the shoulders, thus im-
proving the figure, and develops the muscles. Skipping
is exceedingly good exercise for a girl, every part of the
body being put into action by it. Horse exercise is
splendid for a girl ; it improves the figure amazingly —
it is most exhilarating and amusing ; moreover, it gives
her courage and makes her self-reliant. Croquet
develops and improves the muscles of the arms,
beautifies the complexion, strengthens the back, and
throws out the chest. Croquet is for girls and women
what baseball is for boys and men — a glorious game.
Croquet has improved both the health and the happi-
ness of womankind. Croquet, in the bright sunshine,
with the winds of heaven blowing about the players, is
not like a ball in a stifling hot ball-room, with gaslights
poisoning the air. Croquet brings the intellect as well
as the muscles into play. Tennis quickens the eye and
hand marvellously, and provides an amount of sharp
exercise which is necessary for the stimulation of a
torpid liver. Rowing improves and expands the chest
and develops the muscles of the back, chest, and arms.
Punting, too, is a glorious exercise — all parts of the
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body are at work. The chest is filled with draughts of
fresh, pure air, the carriage of the body is improved,
the eye and the brain are trained, and the healthy life-
blood coursing through the blood-vessels makes the
cheeks like rosebuds. What a charming sight to see a
healthy, graceful girl engaged in punting on the river on
a summer^s day ! Fencing should not be neglected. It
educates the eye, makes a girl more self-reliant, beauti-
fies the figure, and improves the carriage. Cycling
strengthens the constitution, improves the muscles,
educates the hand, eye, and brain, teaches self-reliance,
and quickly banishes ^' nerves.''^ Golf not only compels
walking exercise, but provides a wholesome inducement
for taking a walk. The muscles of the body are exer-
cised in the fresh air, and the eye and brain are trained
at the same time. Skating is for a girl excellent
exercise and is as exhilarating as a glass of champagne,
but will do her far more good ! Skating improves the
figure and makes a girl balance and carry herself up-
right and well ; it is a most becoming exercise for her,
and is much in every way to be commended. More-
over, skating gives a girl courage and self-reliance.
Dancing, followed as a rational amusement, causes a
free circulation of the blood, and, provided it does not
induce her to sit up late at night, is most beneficial.
495. If dancing de so 'beneficial, luhy are halls such
fruitful sources of coughs, of colds, and consumption?
On many accounts. They induce young ladies to
sit up late at night ; they cause them to dress more
lightly than they are accustomed to do ; and thus thinly
clad, they leave their homes while the weather is, per-
haps, piercingly cold, to plunge into a sufl'ocating, hot
ball-room, made doubly injurious by the immense num-
ber of lights, which consume the oxygen intended for
the due performance of the healthy functions of the
lungs. Their partners, the brilliancy of the scene, and
the music, excite their nerves to undue, and thus to un-
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natural, action. What are the consequences ? Fatigue,
weakness, hysterics, and extreme depression. They
leave the heated ball-room, when the morning has far
advanced, to breathe the bitterly cold and frequently
damp air of a winter's night, and what is the result ?
Hundreds die of consumption, who might otherwise
have lived. Ought there- not, then, to be a distinc-
tion between a ball at midnight and a dance in the
evening ?
496. But still, ivoidd you have a girl Irought up to
forego the pleasures of a hall?
If a parent prefer her so-called pleasures to her
health, certainly not ; to such a mother I do not ad-
dress myself.
497. Have you any remarhs to make on singing , or on
reading aloud?
Before a mother allows her daughter to take lessons
in singing, she should ascertain that there be no actual
disease of the lungs, for if there be, it will probably
excite it into action ; but if no disease exist, singing or
reading aloud is very conducive to health. Public
singers are seldom known to die of consumption. Sing-
ing expands the chest, improves the pronunciation,
enriches the voice for conversation, strengthens the
lungs, and wards off many of their diseases.
EDUCATION^.
498. Do you approve of corporal punishment in
school ?
I do not. I consider it to be decidedly injurious both
to body and mind. Is it not painful to witness the
pale cheeks and the dejected looks of those boys who
are often flogged ? If their tempers are mild, their
spirits are broken ; if their dispositions are at all ob-
stinate, they become hardened and wilful, and are
made little better than brutes.* Corporal punishment
♦ «<
I would have given him, Captain Fleming, had he been
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is revolting, disgusting, and demoralizing to the boy ;
and is degrading to the schoolmaster as a man and as a
Christian.
'^ I am confident that no boy/' says Addison, ''^^ who
will not be allured by letters without blows, will never
be brought to anything with them. A great or good
mind must necessarily be the worse for such indigni-
ties ; and it is a sad change to lose of its virtue for the
improvement of its knowledge. '^
With equal truth it may be said that, without a sin-
gle exception, flogging makes a good boy bad, and a
bad boy worse.
Dr. Arnold of Eugby, one of the best schoolmasters
that England ever produced, seldom caned a boy — not
more than once or twice during the half year ; but
when he did cane him, he charged for the use of the cane
each time in the bill, in order that the parents might
know how many times their son had been punished.
The worthy doctor treated the boys as gentlemen, and
trusted much to their honor.
If caning be ever necessary, which it might occasion-
ally be, for the telling of lies, for instance, or for gross
immorality, let the head master himself be the only one
to perform the operation, but let him not be allowed to
delegate it to others. A law ought in all public schools
to be in force to this effect.
Never should a schoolmaster, or any one else, be al-
lowed, on any pretense ivliatever, to strike a boy upon
his head. Boxing of the ears has sometimes caused
laceration of the drum of the ear, and consequent partial
deafness for life. Boxing of the ears injures the brain,
and therefore the intellect.
m?/ son," quoth old Pearson the elder, " such a good sound
drubbing as he never would have foi'gotten — never."
* ' Pooh ! pooh ! my good sir. Don't tell me. Never saw
flogging in the navy do good. Kept down brutes ; never made
a man yet." — Dr, Norman Maekod in " Good Words.'"
378 ADVICE TO A MOTHER. .
It might be said that I am traveling out of my prov-
ince in making remarks on corporal chastisement in
schools. My office is to inform yon of everything that
is detrimental to your children's health and happiness ;
and corporal punishment is assuredly most injurious
both to their health and happiness.
499. Have you any observations to malce 07i the selec-
tion of a female hoarding-school f
Home education, where it be jjracticable, is far pref-
erable to sending a girl to school ; as at home her health,
her morals, and her household duties can be attended
to much more effectually than from home.
If home education be not practicable, great care must
be taken in making choice of a school. You ought, in
the education of your daughters, to remember that
they, in a few years, will be the wives and the mothers
of America ; and, if they have not health and strength,
and a proper knowledge of household duties to sustain
their characters, what useless, listless wives and mothers
they will make !
Eemember, then, the body, and not the mind, ought,
in early life, to be principally cultivated and strength-
ened, and that the growing brain will not bear, with
impunity, much book learning.
From her twelfth to her seventeenth year is the most
important epoch of a girl's existence, as regards her
future health, and consequently, in a great measure,
her future happiness ; and one, in which, more than at
any other period of her life, she requires a plentiful
supply of fresh air, exercise, recreation, a variety of in-
nocent amusements, and an abundance of good nourish-
ment — more especially of fresh meat. If therefore you
have determined on sending your girl to school, you
must ascertain that the pupils have as much plain,
wholesome nourishing food as they can eat,* that the
* If a girl have an abundance of good nourishment, the
YOUTH. — EDUCATION. 379
school be situated in a healthy spot, that it be well
drained, that there be a large play-ground attached to
it, that the young people are allowed plenty of exercise
in the open air — indeed, that at least one-third of the
day is spent there in croquet, skipping, archery, battle-
dore and shuttlecock, gardening, walking, running, etc.
Take care that the schoolrooms are well ventilated,
that they are not overcrowded, and that the pupils are
allowed chairs to sit upon, and not forms and stools.
Assure yourself that the pupils are compelled to rise
early in the morning, and that they retire early to rest ;
that each young lady has a separate bed ;* and that
many are not allowed to sleep in the same room, and
that the apartments are large and well ventilated. In
fine, their health and their morals ought to be preferred
far above all their accomplishments.
500. Do you aj)2^rove of straiglit-backed chairs to make
a girl sit ujpriglit and to give strengih to her sinne f
Certainly not : the natural and the graceful curve of
the back is not the curve of a straight-backed chair.
Straight-backed chairs are more likely to make a girl
crooked than to make her straight. I do not approve
of a girl lounging and lolling on a sofa ; but if she be tired
and wants to rest herself, let her, like any other reason-
able being, sit upon a comfortable ordinary chair.
schoolmistress must, of course, be remunerated for the neces-
sary and costly expense ; and how can this be done on the
paltry sum charged at cheap boarding schools ? It is utterly
impossible. And what are we to expect from poor and insuffi-
cient nourishment to a fast-growing girl, and at the time of
life, remember, when she requires an extra quantity of good
sustaining, supporting food ? A poor girl, from such treat-
ment, becomes either consumptive or broken down in consti-
tution, a condition from which she never recovers, but drags
out a miserable existence.
* A horse-hair mattress should always be preferred to a
feather bed. It is not only better for the health, but it improves
the figure.
380 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
If you want her to be straight, let her be made strong ;
and if she is to be strong, she must have plenty of ex-
ercise and exertion, such as drilling, dancing, skipping,
bicycling, golf, tennis, rowing, archery, croquet, horse
exercise, swimming, bowls, etc. This is the plan to
make her back straight and her muscles strong.
HOUSEHOLD WORK FOR GIRLS.
501. Do you recommend liousehold ivorh as a means of
health for my daughter f
Decidedly. Whatever you do, do not make a fine
lady of her, or she will become puny and delicate, list-
less and miserable. A girl, let her station be what it
may, ought, as soon as she be old enough, to make her
own bed. There is no better exercise to expand the
figure and to beautify the shape than is bed-making.
Let her make tidy her own room. Let her use her
hands and her arms. Let her, to a great extent, be
self-reliant, and let her wait upon herself. There is
nothing vulgar in her being useful. Teach her, as she
advances in age, the value of time, the value of money,
the value of the different articles of daily consumption,
the responsibility of whatever position she occupies,
and lastly, if she would wish to command others, . that
she must herself first learn to obey.
CHOICE or professio:n" or trade.
502. Wliat profession or trade ivould you recommend
a hoy of a delicate or of a consumptive hahit to folloiu ?
If a youth be delicate, it is a common practise among
parents either to put him to some light indoor trade, or,
if they can afford it, to one of the learned professions.
Such a practise is absurd, and fraught with danger.
The close confinement of an indoor trade is highly
prejudicial to health. The hard reading requisite to fit
a man to fill, for instance, the sacred office, only in-
creases delicacy of constitution. The stooping at a desk,
in an attorney's office, is most trying to the chest. The
YOUTH. — CHOICE OF PROFESSIOK OF TRADE. 881
harass^ the anxiety ;, the disturbed nights ,the interrupted
meals, and the intense study necessary to fit a man for
the medical profession, is still more dangerous to health
than either law, divinity, or any indoor trade.
If a boy, therefore, be of a delicate or of a consumptive
habit, an outdoor calling should be advised, such as
that of a farmer, of a tanner, or a land surveyor ; but,
if he be of an inferior station of society, the trade of a
butcher may be recommended. Tanners and butchers
are seldom known to die of consumption.
I cannot refrain from reprobating the too common
practise among parents of bringing up their boys to the
profession. " I very much wonder," says Addison,
" at the humor of parents, who will not rather
choose to place their sons in a way of life where an
honest industry cannot but thrive, than in stations
where the greatest probity, learning, and good sense
may miscarry. IIow many men are country curates,
that might have made themselves aldermen of London
by a right improvement of a smaller sum of money than
what is usually laid out upon a learned education ? A
sober, frugal person, of slender parts and a slow appre-
hension, might have thrived in trade, though he starves
upon physic ; as a man would be well enough pleased to
buy silks of one whom he could not venture to feel his
pulse. Vagellius is careful, studious, and obliging, but,
withal, a little thick-skulled ; he has not a single client,
but might have had abundance of customers. The
misfortune is that parents tahe a lihing to ?i j^ articular
profession, and therefore desire their sons may he of it ;
whereas, in so great an affair of life, they should consider
the geyiius and abilities of their children more than their
own inclinations. It is the great advantage of a trading
nation that there are very few in it so dull and heavy,
who may not be placed in stations of life which may
give them an opportunity of making their fortunes. A
well-regulated commerce, is not, like law, medicine, or
382 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
divinity, to be overstocked with hands ; but, on the
contrary, flourishes by multitudes, and gives employ-
ment to all its professors. Fleets of merchantmen are
so many squadrons of floating shops, that vend our
wares and manufactures in all the markets of the world,
and find out merchants under both the tropics/^
SLEEP.
503. Have you any remarhs to mahe on the sleep of
toys and girls ?
Sleeping-rooms are, generally, the smallest in the
house, whereas, for health^s sake, they ought to be the
largest. During the night, let the window-sash, to the
extent of about two or three inches, be left open.
If there be a dressing-room next to the bedroom, it
will be well to have the dressing-room window, instead
of the bedroom window open at night. The dressing-
room door will regulate the quantity of air to be
admitted into the bedroom, opening it either little or
much, as the weather be cold or otherwise.
Fresh air during sleep is indispensable to health. —
If a bedroom be close, the sleep, instead of being calm
and refreshing, is broken and disturbed ; and the boy,
when he awakes in the morning, feels more fatigued
than when he retired to rest.
If sleep is to be refreshing, the air, then, must be
pure and free from carbonic acid gas, which is constantly
being evolved from the lungs. If sleep is to be health-
giving, the lungs ought to have their proper food — oxy-
gen, and not to be cheated by giving them instead, a
poison — carbonic acid gas.
It would be well for each boy to have a separate room
to himself, and each girl a separate room to herself. If
two boys are obliged, from the smallness of the house,
to sleep in one room, and if two girls, from the same
cause, are compelled to occu|)y the same chamber, by
all means let each one have a separate bed to himself or
YOUTH. — SLEEP. 383
to herself, as it is so much more healthy and expedient
for both boy and girl to sleep alone.
The roof of the bed should be left open — that is to say,
the top of the bedstead ought not to be covered with
bed furniture, but should be open to the ceiling, in or-
der to encourage a free ventilation of air. A bed cur-
tain may be allowed on the side of the bed where there
are windy currents of air ; otherwise, bed-curtains and
draperies ought on no account to be allowed. They pre-
vent a free circulation of the air. A youth should sleep
on a horse-hair mattress. Such mattresses greatly
improve the figure, and strengthen the frame. During
the daytime, provided it does not rain, the windows
must be thrown wide open, and directly after he has
risen from bed the clothes ought to be thrown entirely
back, in order that they may become, before the bed be
made, well ventilated and purified by the air —
" Do you wish to be healthy ? —
Then keep the house sweet ;
As soon as you're up
Shake each blanket and sheet.
Leave the beds to get fresh.
On the close-crowded floor
Let the wind sweep right through —
Open window and door.
The bad air will rush out
As the good air comes in,
Just as goodness is stronger
And better than sin.
Do this, it's soon done,
In the fresh morning air,
It will lighten your labor
And lessen your care.
You are weary — no wonder,
There's weight and there's gloom
Hanging heavily round
In each over-full room.
384 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
Be sure all the trouble
Is profit and gain,
For tliere's headache and heartache,
And fever and pain
Hovering round, settling down
In the closeness and heat ;
Let the wind sweep right through
Till the air's fresh and sweet.
And more cheerful you'll feel
Through the toil of the day ;
More refreshed you'll awake
When the night's passed away. " *
Plants and flowers ought not to be allowed to remain
in a chamber at night. Experiments haye proved that
plants and flowers take up, in the daytime, carbonic
acid gas (the refuse of respiration), and give off oxygen
(a gas so necessary and beneficial to health), but give
out in the night a poisonous exhalation.
Early rising cannot be too strongly insisted upon ;
nothing is more conducive to health, and thus to long
life. A youth is frequently allowed to spend the early
part of the morning in bed, breathing the impure at-
mosphere of a bedroom, when he should be up and
about, inhaling the balmy and health-giving breezes of
the morning —
" Rise with the lark, and with the lark to bed.
The breath of night's destructive to the hue
Of ev'ry flower that blows. Go to the field,
And ask the humble daisy why it sleeps
Soon as the sun departs ? Why close the eyes
Of blossoms infinite long ere the moon
Her Oriental veil puts off ? Think why,
Nor let the sweetest blossom Nature boasts
Be thus exposed to niglit's unkindly damp.
Well may it droop' and all its freshness lose.
i
* ' Household Vej^ses on Health and Happiness. London :
Jarrold & Sons. Every mother should read these Verses.
YOUTH. — SLEEP. 385
Compelled to taste the rank and pois'nous steam
Of midnight theater and morning ball.
Give to repose the solemn hour she claims ;
And from the forehead of the morning steal
The sweet occasion. Oh ! there is a charm
Which morning has, that gives the brow of age
A smack of youth, and makes the lip of youth
Shed perfume exquisite. Expect it not
Ye who till noon upon a down-bed lie,
Indulging feverish sleep." — Hurdis.
If early rising be commenced in childhood it becomes
a habit, and will then probably be continued through
life. A boy ought on no account to be roused from his
sleep ; but, as soon as he be awake in the morning, he
should be encouraged to rise. Dozing — that state be-
tween sleeping and Avaking — is injurious ; it enervates
both body and mind, and is as detrimental to health as
liquor drinking ! But if he rise early he must go to bed
betimes ; it is a bad practise to keep him up until the
family retire to rest. He ought, winter and summer,
to seek his pillow by nine o'clock, and should rise as
soon as he is awake in the morning.
Let me urge upon a parent the great importance of
not allowing the chimney of any bedroom, or of any
room in the house, to be stopped, as many are in the
habit of doing to prevent, as they call it, a draught, but
to prevent, as /should call it, health.
504. Hoiu many hours of sleep ouyht a toy to have ?
This, of course, will depend upon the exercise he
takes ; but, on an average, he should have every night
at least eight hours. It is a mistaken notion that a boy
does ietter with little sleep. Infants, children, and
youths require more than those who are further advanced
in years ; hence old people can frequently do with -little
sleep. This may in a measure be accounted for from
the quantity of exercise the young take. Another rea-
son may be, the young have neither racking pain, nor
hidden sorrow, nor anxious care, to keep them awake ;
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386 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
while, on the contrary, the old have frequently the one,
the other, or all—
" Care keeps his watch on every old man's eye,
And where care lodges, sleep will never lie." — Shakspeare.
OK THE TEETH AN^D THE GUMS.
505. What are the best means of keeping the teeth and
the gums in a healthy state 9
I would recommend the teeth and the gums to be
well brushed with warm salt and water, in the propor-
tion of one large teaspoonful of salt to a tumbler of
water. I was induced to try the above plan by the rec-
ommendation of an American writer — Todd, The salt
and water should be used every night.
The following is an excellent tooth-powder : —
Take of — Fine-powdered Peruvian Bark ;
,, Prepared Coral ;
„ Prepared Chalk ;
„ Myrrh, of each half an ounce ;
,, Orris root, a quarter of an ounce.
Mix them well together in a mortar, and preserve the pow-
der in a wide-mouthed stoppered bottle.
The teeth ought to be well brushed with the above tooth-
powder every morning.
If the teeth be much decayed, and if, in consequence,
the breath be offensive, two ounces of finely-powdered
charcoal well mixed with the above ingredients will be
found a valuable addition, but no time should be lost
in seeking the assistance of a skilful dentist. A child
cannot be healthy with decayed teeth in the mouth.
The digestion is disordered, the health suffers in con-
sequence, and tubercle germs may find their way into
the glands of the neck. Some people clean their teeth
every morning with soap ; if soap be used it ought to be
Castile soap ; and if the teeth be not white and clean,
Castile soap is an excellent cleanser of the teeth, and
may be used in lieu of the tooth-powder as before
recommended.
YOUTH. — ON THE TEETH AND THE GUMS. 387
There are few persons who brush their teeth properly.
I will tell you the right way. First of all procure a
tooth-brush of the best make, and of rather hard
bristles, to enable it to penetrate into all the nooks and
corners of the teeth ; then, having put a small quantity
of warm water into your mouth, letting the principal of
it escape into the basin, dip your brush into warm water,
and if you are about using Castile soap, rub the brush
on a cake of the soap, and then well brush your teeth,
first upwards, and then downwards, then from side to
side — from right to left, and from left to right — then
the backs of the teeth, then apply the brush to the tops
of the crowns of the teeth both of the upper and of the
lower jaw — so that eveiy part of each tooth, including
the gums, may in turn be well cleansed and be well
brushed. Be not afraid of using the brush ; a good
brushing and dressing will do the teeth and the gums
an immensity of good ; it will make the breath sweet,
and will preserve the teeth sound and good. After
using the brush the mouth must, of course, be well
rinsed out with warm water.
The finest set of teeth I ever saw in my life belonged
to a middle-aged gentleman ; the teeth had neither spot
nor blemish, they were like beautiful pearls. He never
had toothache in his life, and did not know what tooth-
ache meant ! He brushed his teeth every morning with
soap and water, in the manner I have previously recom-
mended I can only say to you — go and do likewise !
Camphor ought never to be used as an ingredient of
tooth-powder, it makes the teeth brittle. Camphor
certainly has the effect of making the teeth, for a time,
look very white ; but it is an evanescent beauty.
Tartar is apt to accumulate between and around the
teeth ; it is better in such a case not to remove it by
scaling instruments, but to adopt the plan recommended
by Dr. Richardson, namely, to well brush the teeth Avith
pure vinegar and water. Be particular to take your
388 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
cliildren to a dentist at least twioe a year. Good teeth
conduce to old age.
PREYEI^TIOK OF DISEASE^ ETC.
506. If a hoy or a girl slioiu great precocity of intellect,
is any organ likely to lecome affected?
A greater quantity of arterial blood is sent to the brain
of those who are prematurely talented, and hence it be-
comes more than ordinarily developed. Such advan-
tages are not unmixed with danger ; this same arterial
blood may excite convulsions, or insanity, or, at last,
idiocy may follow. Precocious children not unfrequently
succumb to tuberculosis. How proud a mother is in
having a precocious child ! How little is she aware that
precocity is frequently an indication of disease !
507. Hoiu can danger in such a case le warded off?
It behoves a parent, if her son be precocious, to re-
strain him — to send him to a quiet country place, free
from the excitement of the town ; and when he is sent
to school, to give directions to the master that he is not
on any account to tax his intellect (for a master is apt,
if he have a clever boy, to urge him forward) ; and to
keep him from those institutions where a spirit of rivalry
is maintained, and where the brain is thus kept in a state
of constant excitement. Medals and prizes are well
enough for those who have moderate abilities, but dan-
gerous, indeed, to those who have brilliant ones.
An overworked precocious brain is apt to cause the
death of the owner ; and if it does not do so, it in too
many instances injures the brain irreparably, and the
possessor of such an organ, from being one of the most
intellectual of children becomes one of the most com-
monplace of men.
508. A re precocious boys i7i their general health usu-
ally strong or delicate ?
Delicate. Nature seems to have given a delicate body
to compensate for the advantages of a talented mind.
YOUTH. — PREVENTIOK OF DISEASE^ ETC. 389
A precocious youth is predisposed to consumption, more
so tlian to any other disease. The hard study which he
frequently undergoes excites the disease into action.
It is not desirable, therefore, to have a precocious child.
509. What is Scrofula f
Scrofula is a special form of constitutional weakness
encouraging the growth of tubercles in the tissues of the
body. The tubercle germs (tubercle bacilli), on reach-
ing a suitable soil, grow and multiply. The tissues are
irritated by their presence, and new material of inflam-
matory formation is produced, which supplants existing
structures. The fresh production is the tubercle. The
life of the tubercle is short, it soon degenerates, and dies
when the mischief is accoQiplished. If the tissues are
healthy, the tubercle germs are quickly gobbled up by
the living cells, if not, the tubercle germs gain the
mastery. The glands, the skin, the joints, the bones,
the brain, and certain of the organs are the parts which
become scrofulous.
510. What are the symptoms of Scrofula 9
The symptoms will depend upon the parts of the body
singled out for attack. The glands in the neck are
very frequently involved — they enlarge. The enlarge-
ment does not tend to disappear, but the glands in-
crease in size. Next, the overlying skin becomes livid,
then ulcerates, and material looking like matter escapes.
The edges of the skin round the orifice thus formed are
undermined, and more or less matter constantly dis-
charges. Should healing take place, puckered scars are
seen, with tags of skin hanging from them. Such scars
tell their own tale. Sometinfts abscesses arise in the
skin, unconnected with underlying glands, which, when
they burst, form livid sores with undermined edges. I
have told you in previous Conversations that it is im-
portant to treat ''breakings-out/' The tubercle germs
may find their way into the glands by the sore places in
the skin, which occur in ''breakings-out." They may
390 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
also gain an entrance from inflamed tonsils, adenoid
vegetations, diseased teeth, and chronic ear discharges.
The glands about the lungs may become tubercular, and
then invade the lung tissue, producing the complaint
known as phthisis, or consumption. Chronic catarrh
of the bowels may readily lead to the invasion of the
glands in the abdomen, with or without concurrent
disease of the bowels themselves. In this way tuber-
cular peritonitis is produced. The glands in the arm-
pits, the groins, and the hams may also become tuber-
cular.
If the joints are attacked, such as the wrist, the knee,
or the ankle, they lose their beautiful contour, and be-
come swollen, pale, and painful. This affection has
been called white swelling. The joints may ulcerate,
and unhealthy looking sores form upon them. The
bones are also attacked and destroyed by this disease.
Often the bone near the joint is invaded, and the joint
itself is involved afterwards. When the bones of the
fingers are attacked, they become greatly enlarged and
distorted. The diseased bones enlarge, the skin be-
comes bound down to them, then ulcerates, and finally
matter and dead bone come away from the opening. If
the bones of the spine are attacked, the destruction
causes the upper part to fall forwards, and an abrupt
angular curvature is noticed in the back — the patient be-
comes humpbacked, and abscesses may form. Occa-
sionally the first symptom is a lateral bending of the
spine. The organs of the body may also become tuber-
cular (scrofulous), thus the kidneys, the bladder, and
so on.
511. Are there not certain JiaUts of tody wliich pre-
dispose to Scrofula ?
If a child be descended from tubercular parents, he
is more liable to the disease than those who are not so
descended. If the parents suffer from constitutional
disease, if they be either too old, or too young, the off-
YOUTH. — PEEVENTION OF DISEASE, ETC. 391
spring are likely to suffer. Any child, whose health
is lowered from disease or neglect, may develop scrofula,
if it should be unfortunate enough to fall foul of tuber-
cle bacilli, either by breathing them, or by taking them
into the body with the food, e. g., diseased meat and
contaminated milk, or by inoculation of tubercular
matter. Certain types of children are thought to be
particularly susceptible to tubercle germs. These are
the tall, slight, brightly intelligent children, with small
limbs, clear delicate complexion, fine silky hair, and
long eyelashes, and the short thick-set child, of dull
aspect, with coarse skin and thick features.
512. Wliat can he done to lorevent the disease ?
Cure all " breakings-out " as quickly as possible, re-
move adenoid vegetations and enlarged tonsils, pay
attention to chronic ear discharges, and never allow
decayed teeth to encumber the mouth. Chronic indi-
gestion must be cured. Bowels suffering from catarrh
are very prone to be attacked. Eickets means bron-
chitis, bronchitis means a swollen mucous membrane
and irritated and weakened bronchial glands, tissues
waiting to receive the tubercle bacilli with open arms.
Ill health leads to lowered vitality, lowered vitality to
tubercular infection. A mother should rather employ
the doctor to keep her child in good health, than call
him in to cure the child when he is diseased. Children
should not be allowed to associate with consumptive
patients, and with those suffering from other tubercular
troubles. Disaster is sure to follow. The New York
Board of Health have wisely placed consumption on
their schedule as a notifiable disease. The expectora-
tion of phthisical patients is swarming with tubercle
germs. The sufferer expectorates on the pavements,
the matter dries, and soon becomes an impalpable dust,
and the next breath of air sends it adrift on its errand
of destruction. If in its travels it meets with a suitable
soil, it grows, and its growth means maiming for life.
392 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
perhaps death. The matter, in its liquid state, may be
inoculated in the skin — a slight scratch, perhaps, which
readily escapes notice — and the germs are started on
their travels. Perhaps they produce lupus, perhaps
skin abscesses, perhaps tubercular glands, perhaps — ^but
what need to expatiate ? They are not desirable para-
sites, wherever located. So, too, the matter from dis-
charges from tubercular glands in the neck, or from
diseased bones, is ripe for mischief, if given the slight-
est encouragement. About one quarter of the deaths
occurring at the Evelina Hospital for Children during
the year are due to tubercular complaints ! What a
frightful death-roll for a solitary disease ! Is it not
high time that something was done to try and stamp
out such a plague ? Tubercle germs may find their way
into the system by milk, therefore sterilize your milk ;
and by meat, therefore thoroughly cook your meat, be
it flesh or fowl, in case, by chance, it be diseased.
513. At what 2)eriocl of life does Scrofula develop ?
No period of life is exempt. Scrofulous disorders
are met with in infants at the breast, and they may
even become scrofulous in the womb. It is, however,
not common in the first year of life, but afterwards it
becomes so. After middle life it is uncommon.
514. How may the effects of Scrofula le mitigated ?
By strict attention to the rules of health. Books,
unless as an amusement, ought to be discarded. The
patient must almost live in the open air, and his
residence should be a healthy country place, where the
air is dry and bracing ; if it be at a farmhouse, in a
salubrious neighborhood, so much the better. Early
rising in such a case is most beneficial. Wine, spirits,
and all fermented liquors ought to be avoided. Beef-
steaks and mutton-chops in abundance, and plenty of
milk and of farinaceous food, such as rice, sago, arrow-
root, etc., should be his diet.
Scrofula, if the above rules be strictly and persever-
-•n^i
YOUTH. — PEEVEKTiOK OF DISI^ASE, ETC. 393
ingly followed, may be warded off ; but there must be
no half measures, no trying to serve two masters — to
cultivate at the same time the health and the intellect.
The brain, until the body becomes strong, must not be
taxed. '' You may prevent scrofula by care ; but that
some children are originally predisposed to the disease
there cannot be the least doubt, and in such cases the
education and the habits of youth should be so directed
as to ward otf a complaint, the effects of which are so
frequently fatal." — Sir Astley Cooi^er on Scrofula.
515. But supi:)Ose the disease to he already formed, ivhat
must then he done f
The plan recommended above must still be pursued,
not by fits and starts, but steadily and continuously, for
it is a complaint that requires a vast deal of patience
and great perseverance. Warm and cold sea-bathing
in such a case are generally most beneficial. In a
patient with scrofula it will, of course, be necessary to
consult a skilful and experienced doctor. The treatment
to be adopted will depend upon the organ or part of the
body which is attacked. It may in some instances be
necessary to perform a surgical operation to cure the
diseased parts. There is always some risk that the
disease will become distributed about the body generally,
when the child will succumb to the disorder, perhaps
with symptoms of implication of the brain.
But do not despair ; many scrofulous patients are
cured by time and by judicious treatment.
516. Have you any remarhs to make on a girl stoop-
ing ?
A girl ought never to be allowed to stoop ; stooping
spoils the figure, weakens the chest, and interferes with
the digestion. If she cannot help stooping, you may
depend upon it that she is in bad health, and that a
medical man ought to be consulted. As socn as her
health is improved, the dancing-master should be put
in requisition, and calisthenic and gymnastic exercises
394 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
should be resorted to. Horse exercise and swimming,
in such a case, are very beneficial. The girl should
live well, on good nourishing diet, and not be too
closely confined either to the house or to her lessons.
She ought during the night to lie on a horse- hair mat-
tress, and during the day, for two or three hours, flat
on her back on a reclining board. S tooping, if neglected,
is very likely to lead to some lung disease.
517. If a hoy he round-shouldered and slouclmig in his
gait, lohat ought to he done 9
Let him be drilled ; there is nothing more likely to
benefit him than drilling. You never see a soldier
round-shouldered or slouching in his gait. He walks
every inch like a man. Look at the difference in
appearance between a country bumpkin and a soldier !
It is the drilling that makes the difference : ^^ Oh, for a
drill-sergeant to teach tliem to stand upright, and to
turn out their toes, and to get rid of that slouching,
hulking gait, which gives such a look of clumsiness and
stupidity ! ''
518. Is a slight spitting of hlood to he looked upon as
a danger Otis symptom ?
Spitting of blood is always to be looked upon with
suspicion ; even when a youth appears, in other respects,
to be in good health, it is frequently the forerunner of
consumption. It might be said that, by mentioning
the fact, I am unnecessarily alarming a parent, but it
would be a false kindness if I did not do so : —
" I must be cruel, only to be kind." — Shakspeare.
If a mother had been more generally aware that spit-
ting of blood was frequently the forerunner of consump-
tion, she would, in the management of her offspring,
have taken greater precautions ; she would have made
everything give way to the preservation of their health ;
and, in many instances, she would have been amply re-
paid by having the lives of her children spared to her.
YOUTH. — PREVENTION OF DISEASE, ETC. 395
We frequently hear of patients, in confirmed consump-
tion, being sent to Mentone, to Madeira, and to other
foreign parts. Can anything be more cruel or absurd ?
If there be any disease that requires the comforts of
home and good nursing more than another, it is con-
sumption.
519. At what age does Consumption occur f
No period of life is exempt, even infants under one
year old may suffer.
520. What are the symptoms of this disease 9
Some of the most important symptoms of pulmonary
consumption are indicated by the stethoscope ; but, as
I am addressing a mother, it would, of course, be quite
out of place to treat of such signs in Conversations of
this kind. The symptoms it might be well for a parent
to recognize, in order that she may seek aid early, I will
presently describe. It is perfectly hopeless to expect
to cure consumption unless advice be sought at the onset,
as the only effectual good in this disease is to be done
at first. The symptoms depend upon the age of the
child. In children up to six or seven years of age the
child may be thought to be suffering from severe bron-
chitis or inflammation of the lungs, which finally proves
to be of a tubercular nature. Sometimes simple lung
troubles in v/hooping-cough are very chronic and in-
tractable. The child wastes, suffers from fever and
sweats, and is thought to be consumptive on that ac-
count ; when a change for the better occurs the lungs
'^ heaP^ and the health is gradually restored. Often,
however, these symptoms denote that the child is
stricken with tubercle, and if diarrhea, anemia, swollen
hands and feet, together with attacks of blueness of the
face, make their appearance, the outlook is not reas-
suring. In young children wasting, remittent fever,
sweats and cough, with often very indefinite lung trou-
bles, denote consumption. Such children require the
most careful watching, and it is only after several skilled
S96 ADVICE TO A MOTHES.
examinations of the chest that a correct conclusion can
be formed. Frequently such symptoms are owing to a
simple collection of matter in the chest,, when a timely
discovery and appropriate treatment will restore the
child to health and strength. Blood spitting is very
uncommon^ but it may occur, and indeed be profuse
enough to cause death. In older children there is
cough, wasting, loss of appetite, diarrhea, and inter-
mittent fever with sweats. Children with slight impli-
cation of the lungs with these symptoms may improve
and recover, but the contrary may occur ; the lung
disease advances, weakness increases, wasting becomes
extreme, bed sores form, the feet and ankles swell, and
they die exhausted. Often they are carried off by tuber-
cular inflammation of the brain, or by associated tuber-
cular bowel troubles. Blood spitting is not common,
and the glottis is very rarely attacked. The duration
is usually from four to six months. The disease may
become chronic, and last for some years. In such a
case there is no fever, the child appears to be in fair
condition, but is short of breath on exertion. His fin-
ger tips are bulbous. From the twelfth year and on-
wards the disease is like that seen in adults. One of
the earliest symptoms of this dreadful scourge is a slight,
dry, short cough, attended with tickling and irritation
at the top of the throat. This cough generally occurs
in the morning ; but, after some time, comes on at
night, and gradually throughout the day and the night.
Frequently during the early stage of the disease a sliglit
spitting of Mood occurs. !N"ow, this is a most dangerous
symptom ; indeed, I may go so far as to say that, as a
rule, it is almost a sure sign that the patient is in the
fii^st stage of a consumption.
There is usually hoarseness, not constant, but coming
on if the patient be tired, or towards the evening ; there
is also a sense of lassitude and depression, shortness of
breath, a feeling of being qnickly wearied — more espe-
YOUTH.— PKEVE]S"TION^^ OF DISEASE, ETC. 897
cially on the slightest exertion. The hair of a consump
tive person usually falls off, and what little remains is
weak and poor ; the joints of the fingers become en-
larged, or clubbed as it is sometimes called ; the patient
loses flesh, and, after some time, night sweats make
their appearance : then we may know that hectic fever
has commenced.
Hectic begins with chilliness, which is soon followed
by flushings of the face, and by burning heat of the
hands and the feet, especially of the palms aud the
soles. This is soon succeeded by perspirations. The
patient has generally during the day two decided
paroxysms of hectic fever — the one at noon, which lasts
about five hours ; the other in the evening, which is
more severe, and ends in violent perspirations, which
perspirations continue the whole night through. He
may, during the day, have several attacks of hectic
flushes of the face, especially after eating ; at one mo-
ment he complains of being too hot, and rushes to the
cool air ; the next moment he is too cold, and almost
scorches himself by sitting too near the fire. Whenever
the circumscribed hectic flush is on the cheek, it looks
as though the cheek had been painted with vermilion ;
then is the time when the palms of the hands are burn-
ing hot. Crabbe, in the following lines, graphically
describes the hectic flush : —
" When his thin cheek assumed a deadly hue,
And all the rose to one small spot withdrew :
They call'd it hectic ; 'twas a fiery flush,
More fixed and deeper than the maiden blush."
The expectoration at first is merely mucus, but after
a time it assumes a characteristic apjoearance ; it has
a roundish, flocculent, wooly form, each portion of
phlegm keeping, as it were, distinct. The patient is
commonly harassed by frequent bowel complaints, which
rob him of what little strength he has left. The feet
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and aukles swell. The perspiration, as before remarked,
comes on in the evening and continues all night —
more especially towards morning, and while the patient
is asleep ; during the time he is awake, even at night,
he seldom sweats much. The thrush generally shows
itself towards the close of the disease, attacking the
tongue, the tonsils, and the soft palate, and is a sure
harMnger of approaching death. Emaciation rapidly
sets in.
If we consider the immense engines of destruction
at work, viz., the colliquative (melting) sweats, the
violent bowel complaints, the vitals parts that are af-
fected, the harassing cough, the profuse expectoration,
the hectic fever, the distressing exertion of struggling
to breathe — we cannot be surprised that '^consumption
has hung out her red flag of no surrender, ^^ and that
death soon closes the scene. In girls, provided they
have been previously regular, menstruation gradually
declines, and then entirely disappears.
521. WJiat is the cause of Consumption'^
The invasion of the lungs by a minute germ called
the tubercle bacillus, which first brings about consolida-
tion of the sponge-like lung tissue, and then destruction
and death of the parts.
522. Y^hat are the predisposing causes 9
The predisposing causes of consumption are : heredi-
tary predisposition, constitutional predisposition, tuber-
cular disease elsewhere, narrow or contracted chest,
delicacy of constitution, bad and scanty diet, or food
containing but little nourishment ; impure air, close in-
door confinement in schools, in shops, and in factories,
ill-ventilated apartments, dissipation, late hours ; over-
taxing with book-learning the growing brain, thus pro-
ducing debility ; want of proper out-door exercise and
amusements, tight-lacing ; indeed, anything and every-
thing, that either will debilitate the constitution, or will
interfere with, or will impede, the proper action of the
YOUTH. — PREVENTIOK OF DISEASE, ETC. 399
lungs, will be the predisposing causes of this fearful
and lamentable disease.
An ill, poor, and insufficient diet is the mother of
many diseases, and especially of consumption : " What-
soever was the father of a disease, an ill diet was the
mother. ^^
The most common exciting causes of consumption
are slighted colds, neglected inflammation of the chest,
long continuance of influenza, sleeping in damp beds,
allowing wet clothes to dry on the body, unhealthy em-
ployments — such as needle-grinding, pearl button mak-
ing, etc.
523. Supposing a youth to have spitting of Mood,
luhat precautions would you take to prevent it from end-
ing in consumption f
Let his health be the first consideration ; throw books
to the winds ; if he be at school, take him away ; if he
be in trade, cancel his indentures ; if he be in the town,
send him to a sheltered healthy spot in the country, or
to the sea coast ; as, for instance, either to Lakewood
or Atlantic City.
I should be particular in his clothing, taking espe-
cial care to keep his chest and feet warm. If he did
not already wear flannel underclothing, let it be winter
or summer, I should recommend him immediately to do
so. The feet must be carefully attended to ; they ought
to be kept both warm and dry, the slightest dampness
of either shoes or stockings should cause them to be
immediately changed. If a boy, he ought to wear a
thick waistcoat with a flannel back. If a girl, high
dresses.
The diet must be nutritious and generous ; he should
be encouraged to eat plentifully of beef and mutton.
There is nothing better for breakfast, where it agrees,
than milk ; indeed, it may be frequently made to agree
by previously boiling it. Good home-brewed ale or
sound porter ought, in moderation, to be taken. Wine
400 ADVICE TO A :motSer.
and spirits must on no account be allowed. I caution
parents in this particular, as many have an idea that
wine, in such cases, is strengthening, and that rum and
milk is a good thing either to cure or to prevent a cough !
If it be summer, let him be much in the open air,
avoiding the evening and the night air. If it be winter,
he should, unless the weather be mild for the season,
keep within doors. Particular attention ought to be
paid to the point the wind is in, as he should not be
allowed to go out if it is in the north, in the east, or in
the northeast ; the latter is more especially dangerous.
If it be spring, and the weather be favorable, or summer,
or autumn, change of air, more especially to the south
coast, would be desirable ; indeed, in a case of spitting
of blood, I know no remedy so likely to ward off that
formidable, and, generally, intractable complaint — con-
sumption — as change of air. The beginning of the
autumn is, of course, the best season for visiting the
coast. It would be advisable, at the commencement
of October, to send him either to the south of France
— ^to Mentone — or to Florida or Colorado to winter.
But remember, if he be actually in a confirmed consump-
tion, I would not, on any account whatever, let him leave
his home ; as then the comforts of home will far, very
far, outweigh any benefit of change of air.
524. Siqjjjose a youth to he much predisposed to a sore
throat, what 'precautions ought he to take to ward off
future attachs f
He must use every morning thorough ablution of the
body, beginning cautiously ; that is to say, commencing
with the neck one morning, then by degrees, morning
after morning, sponging a larger surface, until the whole
of the body be sponged. The chill at first must be
taken off the water ; gradually the temperature ought
to be lowered until the water be quite cold, taking care
to rub the body thoroughly dry with a coarse towel — a
Turkish rubber being the best for the purpose.
YOUTH,, — PEEVENTION^ OF DISEASE, ETC. 401
He ought to bathe his throat externally every night
and morning with hike warm salt and water, the tem-
perature of which must be gradually reduced until at
length no warm water be added. He ought to harden
himself by taking plenty of exercise in the open air.
He must, as much as possible, avoid either sitting or
standing in a draught ; if he be in one, he should face
it. He ought to keep his feet warm and dry. He
should take as little aperient medicine as possible. As
he attains to manhood he ought to allow his beard to
grow, as such would be a natural covering for his throat ;
I have known great benefit to arise from this simple
plan. The fashion is now to wear the beard, not to use
the razor at all, and a sensible fashion I consider it to
be. The finest respirator in the world is the beard.
The beard is not only good for sore throats, but for
weak chests. The wearing of the beard is a splendid
innovation ; it saves no end of trouble, is very beneficial
to health, and is a great improvement " to the human
face divine.''^ If his tonsils are chronically enlarged, he
should have them removed.
525. Have you any remarhs to mahe 07i the almost uni-
versal liahit of hoys and of very young men smoh-
i7ig 9
I am not now called upon to give an opinion of the
effects of tobacco smoking on the middle-aged and on
the aged. I am addressing a mother as to the desira-
bility of her sons, when boys, being allowed to smoke.
I consider tobacco smoking one of the most injurious
and deadly habits in which a boy or young man can in-
dulge. It lessens the strength of the body, thus pre-
disposing to consumption. It impairs the stomach, thus
producing indigestion. It irritates the heart, produc-
ing palpitation and breathlessness. It weakens the
blood, producing anemia. It produces irritability, and
soreness of the throat. It debilitates the brain and
nervous system, thus inducing epileptic fits and nervous
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402 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
depression. It stunts the growth, and is one cause of
the present race of pygmies. It makes the young lazy
and disinclined for work. It is one of the greatest
curses of the present day. The following cases prove,
more than any argument can prove, the dangerous and
deplorable effects of boy smoking. I copy the first case
from Public Opinio7i. '' Tlie France mentions /he follow-
ing fact as a proof, of the evil consequences of smoking
for boys : — ' A pupil in one of the colleges, only twelve
years of age, was, some time since, seized with epileptic
fits, which became worse and worse in spite of all the
remedies employed. At last it was discovered that the
lad had been, for two years past, secretly indulging in
the weed. Effectual means were adopted to prevent
his obtaining tobacco, and he soon recovered.'' ^^
The other case occurred in my own practise. The
patient was a youth of nineteen. He was an inveterate
smoker. From being a bright intelligent lad, he was
becoming idiotic, and epileptic fits were supervening.
I painted to him in vivid colors the horrors of his case,
and assured him, that if he still persisted in his bad
practises, he would soon become a driveling idiot !
I at length, after some trouble and contention, pre-
vailed upon him to desist from smoking altogether.
He rapidly lost all epileptic symptoms, his face soon
resumed its wonted intelligence, and his mind asserted
its former power. He remains well to this day, and is
now a married man with a family. In ^ew York there
is an institution, amongst the children, called the Anti-
Cigarette League, which has branches in many other
cities of America. The '^ League ^' is composed of school
boys, Avho have banded themselves together to discourage
the smoking of cigarettes, by precept and by example, but
chiefly the latter. Each boy is granted a badge, which
he is expected to wear openly, so that his light may
shine before other boys. The " League ^^ has been pro-
ductive of immense good.
YOUTH. — PKEYENTIOK OF DISEASE^ ETC. 403
526. WJiai are the best methods to restrain a violent
bleeding from the nose 9
Do not, unless it be violent, interfere with a bleeding
from the nose. A bleeding from the nose is frequently
an effort of Nature to relieve herself, and, therefore,
unless it be likely to weaken the patient, ought not to
be restrained. If it be necessary to restrain the
bleeding, press the nose firmly, for a few minutes,
between the finger and the thumb ; this alone will often
stop the bleeding ; if it should not, then try what
bathing the nose, and the forehead, and the nape of the
neck, with water quite cold from the pump, will do. If
that does not succeed, try the old-fashioned remedy of
putting a cold large door-key down the back. If these
plans fail, try the effects of powdered alum or of
powdered matico, used after the fashion of snuff — a
pinch or two of the one, or of the other, or of both,
should be sniffed up the bleeding nostril. If these
should not answer the purpose, although they almost
invariably will, apply a large lump of ice to the nape of
the neck, and put a small piece of ice into the patient's
mouth for him to suck.
If these methods do not succeed, plunge the hand and
the fore-arm into cold water, keep them in for a few
minutes, then take them out, and either hol^, or let
them be held up, the arms and the hands high above
the head : this plan has frequently succeeded when
others have failed. Let the room be kept cool, throw
open the windows, and do not have many in the room
to crowd around the patient.
If the above treatment does not soon succeed, send
for a medical man, as more active means, such as plug-
ging of the nostrils — ivhich is not done, unless 171 extreme
cases — might be necessary.
But before plugging of the nose is resorted to, it
will be well to try the effects of a cold solution of alum
(see Prescription XX., in Appendix).
404 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
A little of the lotion should be put into the palm of
the hand and snijffed up the bleeding nostril ; or, if that
does not succeed, some of the lotion ought, by means
of a syringe, to be syringed up the nose. Children
with Adenoid Vegetations (see Conversation 167) very
frequently suffer from bleeding from the nose, so you
had better have the child examined. Apart from this,
it is a symptom which occurs in association with many
and various disorders.
527. In case of a young lady fainting , what had better
he done?
Lay her fiat upon her back, taking care that the
head be as low as, or lower than, the body ; throw open
the windows, do not crowd around her,* unloosen her
dress as quickly as possible ; ascertain if she have been
guilty of tight-lacing — for fainting is sometimes pro-
duced by that reprehensible practise. Apply smelling
salts to her nostrils ; if they be not at hand, burn a
piece of rag under her nose ; dash cold water upon her
face ; throw open the window ; fan her ; and do not,
as is generally done, crowd around her, and thus pre-
vent a free circulation of air. As soon as she can
swallow, give her either a draught of cold water, or a
glass of wine, or a teaspoonful of sal- volatile in a wine-
glassful of water.
To prevent fainti7ig in the future. — I would recom-
mend early hours ; country air and exercise ; the stays,
if worn at all, to be worn slack ; attention to diet ;
avoidance of wine, beer, spirits, excitement, and fash-
ionable amusements.
Sometimes the cause of a young lady fainting is either
a disordered stomach, or a constipated state of the bowels.
* Shakspeare knew the great importance of not crowding
around a patient who has fainted. He says : —
" So play the fooUsh throngs with one that swoons ;
Come all to help him, and so stop the air
By which he should revive."
YOUTH. — PREVENTION OF DISEASE, ETO. 405
If the fainting have been caused by disordered stomachy
it may be necessary to stop the supplies, and give the
stomach, for a day or two, but little to do ; a fast will
frequently prevent the necessity of giving medicine.
Of course, if the stomach be much disordered, it will
be desirable to consult a medical man.
If your daughter's fainting have originated from a
costive state of the hoiuels (another frequent cause of
fainting), I beg to refer you to a subsequent Conversa-
tion, in which I will give you a list of remedies for the
prevention and the treatment of constipation.
A young lady's fainting occasionally arises from
debility — from downright weakness of the constitution ;
then the best remedies will be change of air to the coast,
good nourishing diet, and strengthening medicines,
which your doctor will prescribe.
Iron medicines ought always to be taken after instead
of defore a meal. The best times of the day for taking
such medicines will be eleven o'clock, four o'clock, and
seven o'clock.
528. Will you give me a list of remedies for the pre-
vention and for the cure of Constipation f
If you find it necessary to give your son or daughter
an aperient, the mildest should be selected ; for instance,
an agreeable and effectual one, is an electuary composed
as in Prescription XXI. of Appendix.
Or, one or two teaspoonfuls of Compound Confection
of Senna (lenitive electuary) may occasionally early in
the morning, be taken. Or, for a change, a teaspoonful
of Magnesia, in half a tumblerful of warm water. If
this should not be sufficiently active, a teaspoonful of
Epsom Salts should be given with the Magnesia. A
Seidlitz Powder forms another safe and mild aperient,
or one or two Compound Rhubarb Pills may be given
at bedtime. Or one of the mineral waters, such as
Hunyadi, or Rubinat taken in warm water, the first
thing in the morning. Glycerine suppositories are
406 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
reliable. ^^ Tamar Indian " lozenges and Cascara
chocolate bonbons can also be taken. Prescription
XXII. of Appendix for a pill, where an aperient is
absolutely necessary, is a mild, gentle, and effective one
for the purpose.
But, after all, the best opening medicines are — cold
ablutions every morning of the whole body ; attention
to diet ; variety of food ; bran-bread ; grapes ; stewed
prunes ; French plums ; Muscatel raisins ; figs ; fruit,
both cooked and raw — if it be ripe and sound ; oatmeal
porridge ; lentil powder ; vegetables of all kinds, es-
pecially spinach ; exercise in the open air ; early rising ;
daily visiting the water-closet at a certain hour — there
is nothing keeps the bowels open so regularly and well
as establishing the habit of visiting the water-closet at
a certain hour every morning ; and the other rules of
health specified in these Conversations. If more at-
tention were paid to these points, poor schoolboys and
schoolgirls would not be compelled to swallow such
nauseous and disgusting messes as they usually do to
their aversion and injury.
Should these plans not succeed (although in the
majority of cases, with patience and perseverance, they
will), I would advise an enema once or twice a week,
simply of warm water ; or of one made of gruel, table-
salt, and olive-oil, in the proportion of two tablespoon-
fuls of salt, two of oil, and a pint of warm gruel, which
a boy may administer to himself, or a girl to herself, by
means of a proper enema apparatus.
Hydropathy is oftentimes very serviceable in prevent-
ing and in curing costiveness ; and as it will sometimes
prevent the necessity of administering medicine, it is
both a boon and a blessing. '^ Hydropathy also sup-
plies us with various remedies for constipation. From
the simple glass of cold water, taken early in the morn-
ing to the various douches and sea-baths, a long list of
useful appliances might be made out, among which we
YOUTH. — PliEVEKTIO:^^ OF DISEASE, ETC. 407
rriay mention the ^ wet compress " worn for three liours
over the abdomen [bowels], with a gutta percha cover-
ing/'
I have here a word or two to say to a mother who is
always physicking her family. It is an unnatural thing
to be constantly dosing either a child, or any one else,
with medicine. One Avould suppose that some people
were only sent into the world to be physicked ! If more
care were paid to the rules of health, very little medi-
cine would be required ! This is a bold assertion ; but
I am confident that it is a true one. It is a strange
admission for a medical man to make, but, nevertheless,
my conviction compels me to avow it.
529. WJiat is the reason girls ure so subject to Costive-
ness f
The principal reason why girls suifer more from cos-
tiveness than boys, is that their habits are more seden-
tary. The best opening medicines in the world are an
abundance of exercise, of muscular exertion, and of
fresh air. Unfortunately, poor girls in this enlightened
age must be engaged, sitting all the while, for several
hours every day at fancy work, the piano, and other
accomplishments ; they, consequently, have little time
for exercise of any kind. The bowels, as a matter of
course, become constipated ; they are, therefore dosed
with pills, with black draughts, with sulphur and
molasses — Oh ! the abomination ! — and with medicines
of that class, almost ad infinitum. What is the conse-
quence ? Opening medicines, by constant repetition,
lose their effects, and, therefore, require to be made
stronger and still stronger, until at length, tlie strong-
est will scarcely act at all, and the poor unfortunate
girl, when she becomes a woman, if she ever does heconie
one, is spiritless, heavy, dull, and listless, requiring
daily doses of physic, until she almost lives on medicine !
All this misery and wretchedness proceed from Na-
ture's laws having been set at defiance, from artificial
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means taking the place of natural ones — from a mother
adopting as her rule and guide, fashion and folly,
rather than reason and common sense. When will a
mother awake from her folly and stupidity? This is
strong language to address to a lady ; but it is not
stronger than the subjects demands.
Mothers ! doletmeentreatyou, ponder well upon what
I have said. Do rescue your girls from the bond-
age of fashion and folly, which is worse than the
bondage of the Egyptian task-masters ; for the Israel-
ites did, in making bricks without straw, work in the open
air — " So the people were scattered abroad through-
out all the land of Egypt to gather stubble instead of
straw ; " but your girls, many of them, at least, have no
work, either in the house or in the open air — they have
no exercise whatever. They are poor, drawling dawd-
ling, miserable nonentities, with muscles, for the want
of proper exercise, like ribbons ; and with faces, for the
lack of fresh air, as white as a sheet of paper. What a
host of charming girls are yearly sacrificed at the shrine
of fashion and of folly !
Another, and a frequent cause of costiveness, is the
bad habit of disobeying the call of having the bowels
opened. The moment there is the slightest inclination
to relieve the bowels instantly it ought to be attended
to, or serious results will follow. Let me urge a mother
to instil into her daughter's mind the importance of
this advice.
530. Young people are subject to pimples on the face,
what is the remedy ?
These hard red pimples ( acne — '^ the grub pimple ")
are a common and an obstinate affection of the skin,
affecting the forehead, the temples, the nose, the chin,
and the cheeks ; occasionally attacking the neck, the
shoulders, the back, and the chest ; and as they more
frequently affect the young, from tlje age of fifteen to
thirty-five, and are disfiguring, they cause much annoy-
YOUTH. — PREVENTIOJ^ OF DISEASE, ETC. 409
ance. These pimples are so well known by most persons
as scarcely to need description ; they are conical, red, and
hard ; after a while, they become white, and yellow at
the point, then discharge a thick, yellow-colored matter,
mingled with a whitish snbstance, and become covered
by a hard brown scab, and lastly, disappear very slowly,
sometimes very imperfectly, and often leaving an ugly
scar behind them. To these symptoms are not unfre-
quently added considerable pain, and always much
unsightliness. When these little cones have the black
head of a ^'^grub^^ at their point, they constitute the
variety termed spotted acne. These latter often remain
stationary for months without increasing or becoming
red ; but when they inflame they are in nowise different
in their course from the common kind.
I find in these cases great benefit to be derived from
the following application : — Hypochloride of Sulphur,
one drachm ; Carbonate of Potash, ten grains ; Vaseline,
one ounce. Make an ointment. By paying attention
to the bowels ; by living on plain, wholesome, nourishing
food ; and by taking a great deal of outdoor exercise.
Sea-bathing, in these cases, is often very beneficial.
531. Wliat is the cause of a Gicm-hoil 9
A decayed root of a tooth, which causes inflammation
and abscess of the gum, which abscess breaks, and thus
becomes a gum-boil.
532. TVhat is the treatment of a Gum-hoil 9
Foment the outside of the face with a hot camomile
and poppy-head fomentation,* and apply to the gum-
boil, between the cheek and the gum, a small white
bread and milk poultice, f which renew frequently.
* Four poppy-heads and four ounces of camomile flowers to
be boiled in four pints of water for half an hour, and then to
be strained to make the fomentation.
f Cut a piece of bread, about the size of the little finger —
without breaking it into crumb — pour boiling hot milk upon
it, cover it over, and let it stand for five minutes, then apply
410 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK. ^
As soon as the gum-boil has become quiet, hy all means
have the affected tooth extracted, or it might cause
disease, and consequently serious injury of the jaw ; and
whenever the tooth becomes infected by decomposing
food there will be a renewal of the inflammation, of the
abscess, and of the gum-boil, and, as a matter of course,
renewed pain, trouble, and annoyance. Moreover,
decayed fangs of teeth often cause the breath to be
offensive.
, 533. What is the test remedy for a Corn 9
The best remedy for a hard corn is to remove it. The
usual method of cutting, or of paring a corn away, is
erroneous. The following is the right way — Cut with
a sharp pair of pointed scissors around the circumfer-
ence of the corn. Work gradually round and round
and towards the center. When you have for some con-
siderable distance well loosened the edges, you can
either with your fingers, or with a pair of forceps, gen-
erally remove the corn bodily, and that without pain
and without the loss of any blood ; this plan of treat-
ing a corn I can recommend to you as being most ef-
fectual.
If the corn be properly and wholly removed it will
leave a small cavity or round hole in the center, where
the blood-vessels and the nerve of the corn — vulgarly
called the root — really were, and which, in point of
fact, constituted the very existence or the essence of
the corn. Moreover, if the corn be entirely removed,
you will, without giving yourself the slightest 2:)ain, be
able to squeeze the part affected between 5^our finger
and thumb.
Hard corns on the sole of the foot and on the sides
of the foot are best treated by filing — by filing them
with a sharp cutting file (flat on one side and convex on
tlie soaked bread over the gum-boil, letting it rest between
the clieek and tlie gum.
YOUTH. — PREVEI^TIOK OR DISEASE, ETC. 411
the other), neither too coarse nor too fine in the cut-
ting. The corn ought, once every day, to be filed, and
this should be daily continued until you experience a
slight pain, which tells that the end of the corn is ap-
proaching. Many cases of hard corn that have resisted
every other plan of treatment have been entirely cured
by means of the file. One great advantage of the file
is, it cannot possibly do any harm, and may be used by
a timid person — by one who would not readily submit
to any cutting instrument being applied to the corn.
The file, if properly used, is an effectual remedy for
a hard corn on the sole of the foot. I myself have seen
the value of it in several cases, particularly in one case,
that of an old gentleman of ninety-five, who had had a
corn on the sole of his foot for upwards of half a cen-
tury, and which had resisted numerous, indeed almost
innumerable remedies ; at length I recommended the
file, and after a few applications entire relief was ob-
tained, and the corn was completely eradicated.
The corns between the toes are called soft corns. A
soft corn is quickly removed by the strong Acetic Acid
— Acid. Acetic Fort. — which ought to be applied to the
corn every night by means of a small piece of wood — as
a match. The toes should be kept asunder for a few
minutes, in order that the acid may soak in, then apply
between the toes a small piece of cotton wool.
Galbanum Plaster spread either on wash leather, or
on what is better, on an old white kid glove, has been,
in one of our medical journals, strongly recommended
as a corn-plaster ; it certainly is an admirable one, and
when the corn is between the toes is sometimes most
comfortable — affording immense relief.
Corns are like the little worries of life — very teasing
and troublesome : a good remedy for a corn — which the
Galbanum Plaster undoubtedly is — is therefore worth
knowing.
Hard corns, then, on the sole and 'on the side of the
412 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
foot are best treated by the file ; hard corns on the toes
by the scissors ; and soft corns between the toes either
by the strong Acetic Acid or by the Galbannm Plaster.
In the generality of cases the plans recommended
above, if properly performed, will effect a cure ; but if
the corn, from pressure or from any other cause, should
return, remove it again, and proceed as before directed.
If the corn has been caused either by tight or by ill-
fitting shoes, the only way to prevent a recurrence is,
of course, to have the shoes properly made by a clever
shoemaker— by one who thoroughly understands his
business, and who will have a pair of lasts made pur-
posely for the feet.*
The German method of making boots and shoes is a
capital one for the prevention of corns, as the boots and
shoes are made scientifically to fit a real and not an
ideal foot.
One of the best preventives of, as well as of the
best remedies for, corns, especially of soft corns between
the toes, is washing the feet every morning, as recom-
mended in a previous Conversation, f taking especial
care to wash with the thumb, and afterwards to wipe
with the towel, between each toe.
534, Wliat are the hest remedies to destroy a Wart 9
Pure Nitric Acid,"f" carefully applied to the wart by
means of a small stick of cedar wood — a cameFs hair
pencil-holder — every other day, will soon destroy it.
Care must be taken that the acid does not touch the
healthy skin, or it will act as a caustic to it. The nitric
acid should be preserved in a stoppered bottle, and
* As long as fashion instead of comnion sense is followed in
the making of both boots and shoes, men and women will, as
a matter of course, suffer from corns.
f Youth — Ablution, Conversation 459.
X A very small quantity of pure Nitric Acid — just a grain at
the bottom of a stoppered bottle — is all that is needed : it can
be procured of any druggist.
YOUTH. — PREVEiTTIOiq^ OF DISEASE, ETC. 413
must be put out of the reach of children. One of the
best remedies is 40 grains of Salicylic Acid dissolved in
1 ounce of Glycerine.
Glacial Acetic Acid is another excellent destroyer of
warts : it should be applied by means of a piece of stick
— as a match — to each wart, every night just before
going to bed. The warts will, after a few applications,
completely disappear.
535. What is the best remedy for tender feet, for
siveattj feet, and for smelli7ig feet ?
Cold water : bathing the feet in cold water, begin-
ning with tepid water, but gradually from day to day
reducing the warm until the water be quite cold. A
large nursery-basin one-third full of water ought to be
placed on the floor, and one foot at a time should be put
in the water, washing the while, with a sponge, the
foot, and with the thumb between each toe. Each foot
should remain in the water about half a minute. The
feet ought, after each washing, to be well dried, taking
care to dry with a towel between each toe. The above
process must be repeated at least once every day — every
morning, and if the annoyance be great, every night as
well. Washing the feet night and morning in Condy^s
Fluid is an excellent remedy. When dry, powder the
feet with equal parts of Oxide of Zinc and Boracic Acid ;
a clean pair of stockings ought in these cases to be put
on daily, as perfect cleanliness is absolutely necessary,
both to afford relief, and to effect a cure.
If the feet be tender, or if there be either bunions or
corns, the shoes and the boots made according to the
German method (which are fashioned according to the
actual shape of the foot) should alone be worn.
536. What are the causes of so many young ladies of
the present day heing iveah, nervous, and unhap-py 9
The principal causes are — ignorance of the laws of
health, Nature's laws being set at naught by fashion and
by folly, by want of fresh air and exercise, by waiit of
414 ADVICE TO A MOTHEll.
occupation, and by want of self-reliance. Weak, nerv-
ous, and unhappy ! A¥ell they might be ! What have
they to make them strong and happy ? Have they
work to do to brace the muscles ? Have they occupa-
tion — useful, active occupation — to make them happy ?
No ! they have neither the one nor the other !
537. To ivhat diseases are girls most subject?
The diseases peculiar to girls are chlorosis, or green-
sickness, and hysterics.
538. What are the usual causes of chlorosis ?
Chlorosis is primarily due to imperfect development
of the vascular system, and imperfect growth of the
blood. It is generally produced by scanty or by improp-
er food, by the want of air, sunlight, and of exercise,
and by too closa application within doors. Here we
have the same tale over again — close application within
doors, and the want of fresh air, sunlight, and of exer-
cise ! When will the eyes of a mother be opened to
this important subject ? — the most important that can
engage her attention.
539. What is the usual age for Chlorosis to occur and
what are the symptoms 9
Chlorosis more frequently attacks girls from fifteen
to twenty years of age ; although unmarried women
much older occasionally have it, and children some-
times suffer. I say unmarried, for, as a rule, it is a
complaint of the single.
The patient, first of all, complains of being languid,
■ tired, and out of spirits ; she is fatigued with the slight-
est exertion ; she has usually palpitation of the heart
(so as to make her fancy that she has a disease of that
organ, which, in all jDrobability, she has not) ; she has
shortness of breath, and a short dry cough ; her face is
fiabby and pale ; her complexion gradually assumes a
yellowish or greenish hue — hence the name of chlorosis ;
there is a dark, livid circle around her eyes ; her lips
lose their color, and become almost white ; her tongue
YOUTH. — PREVEKTION OF DISEASE, ETC. 415
is generally white and pasty, her appetite is bad, and is
frequently depraved — the patient often preferring chalk,
slate-pencil, cinder, and even dirt, to the daintiest
food ; indigestion frequently attends chlorosis ; she has
usually pains over the short-ribs, on the left side ; she
suffers greatly from ^' wind " — is frequently nearly
choked by it ; her bowels are generally costive, and
the stools are unhealthy ; she has pains in her hips,
loins, and back ; and her feet and ankles are often-
times swollen. The menstrual discharge is either sus-
pejided or very 2oartially performed ; if the latter, it is,
usually, almost colorless. Hysterical fits not unfre-
quently occur during an attack of chlorosis.
540. How may Chlorosis he prevented?
If health were more, and fashion were less, studied,
chlorosis would not be such a frequent complaint. This
disease generally takes its rise from mismanagement —
from Nature's laws having been set at defiance. I have
heard a silly mother express an opinion that it is not
genteel for a girl to eat heartily I Such language is per-
fectly absurd and cruel. How often, too, a weak mother
declares that a healthy, blooming girl looks like a milk-
maid ! It would be well if she did ! How true and
sad it is, that a ^^pale, delicate face, and clear eyes,
indicative of consumption, are the fashionable desiderata
at present for complexion.'"' — DuUin University Maga-
zine.
A growing girl requires jt??e^^?/ of good nourishment —
as much as her appetite demands ; and if she has it not,
she will become chlorotic, or consumptive, or delicate.
Besides, the greatest heaiitifier in the world is healtli ;
therefore, by a mother studying the health of her
daughter, she will at the same time adorn her body with
beauty ! I am sorry to say that too many parents think
more of the beauty than of the health of their girls.
Sad and lamentable infatuation ! Nathaniel Haw-
thorne — a distinguished American — gives a graphic
416 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
description of a delicate young lady. He says : — " She
is one of those delicate nervous young creatures not
uncommon in New England, and whom I suppose to
have become what we find them by the gradually refin-
ing away of the physical system among young women.
Some philosophers choose to glorify this habit of body
by terming it spiritual ; but, in my opinion, it is rather
the effect of unwholesome food, bad air, lack of out-
door exercise, and neglect of bathing, on the part of
these damsels, and their female progenitors, all result-
ing in a kind of hereditary dyspepsia."
Nathaniel Hawthorne was right. Such ladies, when
he wrote, were not uncommon ; but within the last two
or three years, to their great credit be it spoken, " a
change has come o'er the spirit of their dreams," and
they are wonderfully improved in health ; for, with all
reverence be it spoken, '' God helps them who help
themselves," and they have helped themselves by at-
tending to the rules of health : — " The women of
America are growing more and more handsome every
year for just this reason. They are growing rounder of
chest, fuller of limb, gaining substance and develop-
ment in every direction. Whatever may be urged to
the contrary we believe this to be a demonstrable
fact. . . . When the rising generation of American
girls once begins to wear thick shoes, to take much
exercise in the open air, to skate, to play at croquet,
and to affect the saddle, it not only begins to grow
more wise but more healthful, and — which must follow
as the night the day — more beautiful." — The Round
Table.
If a young girl had plenty of wholesome meat, va-
ried from day to day, either plain roast or boiled, and
not stewed, or hashed, or highly seasoned for the
stomach ; if she had an abundance of fresh air for her
lungs ; if she had plenty of active exercise, such as
skipping, dancing, running, riding, swimming, for her
YOUTH. — PEEVENTION^ OF DISEASE^ ETC. 417
muscles ; if her clothing were warm and loose^ and
adapted to the season ; if her mind were more occnpied
with active useful occupation^ such as household work,
than at present, and if she were kept calm and un-
troubled from the hurly-burly and excitement of
fashionable life — chlorosis would almost be an unknown
disease. It is a complaint of rare occurrence with
country girls, but of great frequency with fine city ladies.
541. Wliat treatment should you advise ?
The treatment which would prevent should be adopted
when the complaint first makes its appearance. If the
above means do not quickly remove it, the mother must
theii apply to a medical man, and he will give medicines
ivhich will soon have the desired effect. Chlorosis is very
amenable to treatment. If the disease be allowed for
any length of time to run on, it may produce organic —
incurable — disease of the heart, or consumption, or in-
digestion, or confirmed ill-health.
542. At tvhat period of life is a lady most prone to
Hysterics, and lohat are the symptoms 9
The time of life when hysterics occur is generally
from the age of fifteen to fifty. Hysterics come on by
paroxysms — hence they are called hysterical fits. A
patient. Just before an attack, is low-spirited, crying
without a cause ; she is ^^nervous,^^ as it is called ; she
has flushings of the face ; she is at other times very
pale ; she has shortness of breath and occasional pal-
pitations of the heart ; her appetite is usually bad ; she
passes quantities of colorless limpid urine, having the
appearance of pump water ; she is much troubled with
flatulence in her bowels, and, in consequence, she feels
bloated and uncomfortable. The ^'^wind" at length
rises upwards towards the stomach, and still upwards
to the throat, giving her the sensation of a ball stop-
ping her breathing, and producing a feeling of suffoca-
tion. The sensation of a ball in the throat {glohus hys-
tericus) is the commencement of the fit,
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418 ADVICE TO A MOTHEE.
She now becomes j9ar^/«?/?/ insensible, altbougb she
seldom loses complete consciousness. Her face becomes
flushed, her nostrils dilated, her head thrown back, and
her stomach and bowels enormously distended with
'* wind." After a short time she throws her arms and
her legs about convulsively, she beats her breast, tears
her hair and clothes, laughs boisterously and screams
violently ; at other times she makes a peculiar noise ;
sometimes she sobs and her face is much distorted. At
length she brings up enornious quantities of " wind ;"
after a time she bursts into a violent flood of tears, and
then gradually comes to herself.
As soon as the fit is at an end she generally passes
enormous quantities of colorless limpid urine. She
may, in a short time, fall into another attack similar
to the above. When she comes to herself she feels ex-
hausted and tired, and usually complains of a slight
headache, and of great soreness of the body and limbs.
She seldom remembers what has occurred during the
fit. Hysterics are sometimes frightful to witness, but
in themselves are not at all dangerous.
Hysterics — an hysterical fit — is sometimes styled hys-
terical passion ; Shakspeare, in one of his plays, calls
it hysterica passio —
*' Oh, how this, mother, swells up toward my heart !
Hysterica passio ! "
Sir Walter Scott graphically describes an attack : —
'^The hysterical passion that impels tears is a terrible
violence — a sort of throttling sensation — then succeeded
by a state of dreaming stupidity."^
543. miat are the catises of Hysterics ?
A nervous inheritance. Delicate health, chlorosis,
improper and not sufficiently nourishing food, grief,
anxiety, excitement of the mind, closely confined rooms,
want of exercise, indigestion, flatulence, and tight-
lacing, are the causes which usually produce hysterics.
YOUTH. — PREVENTlOi^ OF DISEASE, ETC. 419
Hysterics are frequently feigned ; indeed, oftener tlian
any other complaint ; and even a genuine case is usually
much aggravated by a patient herself giving way to
them.
544. Wliat do you recommend a hysterical lady to do 9
To improve her health by proper management ; to rise
early and to take a walk, that she may breathe pure and
wholesome air — indeed, she ought to live nearly half
her time in the open air, exercising herself with walking,
skipping, etc.; to employ her mind with botany, cro-
quet, archery, or with any outdoor amusement ; to con-
fine herself to plain, wholesome, nourishing food ; to
avoid tight-lacing ; to eschew fashionable amusements ;
and, above all, not to give way to her feelings, but if
she feel an attack approaching, to rouse herself.
If the fit he iipon her, the better plan is to banish all
the male sex from the room, and not even to have many
women about her, and for those round to loosen her
dress ; to lay her in the center of the room, flat upon
the ground, with a pillow under her head ; to remove
combs and pins and brooches from her person ; to dash
cold water upon her face ; to apply cloths, or a large
sponge wetted in cold water, to her head ; to throw open
the window, and then to leave her to herself ; or, at all
events, to leave her with only onQ female friend or at-
tendant. If such be done, she will soon come round ;
but what is the usual practise ? If a girl be in hysterics,
the whole house, and perhaps the neighborhood, is
roused ; the room is crowded to suffocation ; fears are
openly expressed by those around that she is in a dan-
gerous state ; she hears what they say, and her hysterics
are increased tenfold.
545. Wlien are hysterical disorders most common?
At puberty. They are rare before six years of age.
Girls mostly suffer, but it is not uncommon in boys.
546. Are there not other s\jm])toins of Hysteria in chil-
dren besides the hysterical fit 9
420 ADVICE TO A MOTHEK.
Yes, certainly. Hysterical loss of voice is not un-
common. The patient cannot speak above a whisper.
Next, there is hysterical loss of power over the limbs,
usually the lower, but sometimes the upper as well.
Then there is a condition in which the food is refused,
or the child vomits everything that is taken. The body
wastes to a shadow and becomes mummy-like. The
breath is foul, and bedsores form. Joint diseases are
simulated, and the child appears to be suffering from
hip joint disease, or there is acute pain over the spine,
and the parents fear that spinal disease is commencing.
Hysterical headaches are not at all uncommon. The
distinction between organic disease and hysterical affec-
tions can only be made by a skilled medical man.
547. What is the treatment f
For simple cases, the general health must be improved,
and change of scene and occupation are advisable. In
severe cases, such as paralysis, refusal of food, sickness,
and wasting, removal from the relatives and friends, and
isolation in a Medical Home, with appropriate medical
treatment and moral control, will bring about a cure.
Hysterical loss of voice is CQred by an application of the
galvanic battery to the interior of the glottis by means
of a special electrode.
548. What are the causes of Headaches ?
Headache is very common in children over six years
of age, and is due to many causes. The pain is usually
referred to the forehead. The fevers, typhoid fever for
instance, are often ushered in by headache, and head-
ache may denote brain disease. Not unfrequently head-
ache is due to a defect in the globe of the eye, which
requires remedying by spectacles. When the appropri-
ate glasses have been supplied, the headache disappears
like magic. Children who have adenoid vegetations
are liable to suffer from headache. The child may be
'' outgrowing his strength ; '^ perhaps he has indi-
gestion, or is anaemic, or suffers from constipation, or
YOUTH. — PKEVENTIOJS^ OF DISEASE, ETC. 431
is being overworked at school. Then there is the sick-
headache from want of exercise, and a life spent indoors.
Sometimes this headache is one-sided, and is accom-
panied by disturbance of vision. Headache at puberty
is often associated with '^ irregularity." The hysterical
headache is associated with mental depression — it de-
mands sympathy, absence of sounds, a darkened room,
and is intensified or induced by distasteful occupation.
The nature of the headache must be discovered by a
medical man, when appropriate treatment can be di-
rected to its cure.
549. You have mentioned Scurvy as occurring in in-
fants. What are the symptoms in older children ?
The child is pale, the gums are swollen, spongy, and
readily bleed. Bruises are found about the body, and
blood comes from the nose and the bowels, and is found
in the urine. Such a condition occurs when the food
has been poor, and when fresh vegetables have not been
taken. Call in your doctor, and he will cure the child.
550. Have you any remarhs to malce on a patient re-
covering from a severe illness ?
There is something charming and delightful in the
feelings of a patient recovering from a severe illness ; it
is like a new birth ; it is almost worth the pain and an-
guish of having been ill to feel quite well again ; every-
thing around and about him wears a charming aspect —
a roseate hue ; the appetite for food returns with pristine
vigor ; the viands, be they ever so homely, never tasted
before so deliciously sweet, and a draught of water from
the spring has the flavor of ambrosial nectar ; the con-
valescent treads the ground as though he were on the
ambient air, and the earth to him for a while is Paradise
— the very act of living in a joy and gladness —
" See the wretch that long has tost
On the thorny bed of pain
Again repair his vigor lost,
And walk and run again.
422 ADVICE TO A MOTHER.
The meanest flow'ret of the vale,
The simple note that swells the gale,
The common air, the earth, the skies,
To him are opening Paradise." — Gray.
In conclusion, I beg to thank you for the courtesy,
confidence, and attention I have received at your hands,
and to express a hope that my advice, through God^s
blessing, may not have been given in vain, but that it
may be — one among many — a humble instrument for
improving the race of our children ! Oh, that the time
may come, and may not be far distant, '' That our sons
may grow up as the young plants, and that our daugh-
ters may be as the polished corners of the temple ! "
APPENDIX.
Pkescriptioks.
It is to be most distinctly and emphatically under-
stood that these Prescriptions are only to be used when
the immediate attendance of a medical man cannot be
secured. Under such circumstances the natural ten-
dency is to fly to the nearest druggist and to ask him to
prescribe ; it is to avoid this error, which has often been
attended with fatal consequences, that I give the con-
stitution and directions for use of a few simple remedies.
I. See Conversation 97.
Take of — Aromatic Spirit of Ammonia twenty minims
Tincture of Catecliu . ' . twenty minims
Chalk Mixture . . .to one ounce
One or two teaspoonfuls according to whether he is under
or over one year of age.
twenty grains
twenty grains
one drachm
to one ounce
ding to whether he is under
II. See Conversation 97.
Take of — Carbonate of Bismuth
Carbonate of Sodium
Mucilage
Peppermint Water
One or two teaspoonfuls accor
or over one year of age. Keep the body warm.
III. See Conversation 99.
Take of — Ipecacuanha Wine . . twenty minims
Carbonate of Ammonia . two grains
Simple Syrup . . . one drachm
Peppermint Water . . to one ounce
One or two teaspoonfuls according to whether he is under
or over one year of age.
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APPENDIX.
IV. See Conversation 101.
Take of — Spirit of Nitrous Ether . one drachm
Solution of Acetate of Ammonia half an ounce
Water . . . . .to two ounces
A teaspoonf ul or two every two or three hours according to
whether he is under or over one year of age.
V. See Conversation 140.
Take of — Powdered Turkey Rhubarb
Carbonate of Magnesia
Simple Syrup
Dill Water .
ten grains
twenty grains
three drachms
eight drachms. •
Make a mixture. One or two teaspoonfuls. according to
whether he is under or over one year of age, to be taken every
four hours till relief is obtained, first shaking the bottle.
VI. See Conversation 144.
Take of — Calomel — a quarter of a grain every two hours until
all the curds have passed.
VII. See Conversation 144.
Take of— Carbonate of Bismuth . . forty grains
Salol sixteen grains
Mucilage .... one drachm
Peppermint Water . . to one ounce
Shake the bottle well and give one or two teaspoonfuls every
three hours, according as he is under or over one year of age.
VIII. See Conversation 148.
Take of — Salicylate of Soda . . eight grains
Aromatic Spirit of Ammonia forty minims
Syrup of Ginger . . . one drachm
* Peppermint Water . . to one ounce
A teaspoonful or two every two hours according as he is
under or over one year of age.
IX. See Conversation 148
Take of — Resorcin
Spirits of Chloroform
Simple Syrup
Peppermint Water
A teaspoonful or two every two hours according as he is
under or over one year of age.
sixteen grains
fifteen minims
one drachm
to one ounce
Appendix. 435
X. See Conversation 157.
Take of — Powdered Turkey Rhubarb . two or three grains
Carbonate of Magnesia . . three grains
Aromatic Powder . . . one grain
Mix. The powder to be mixed in a teaspoonf ul of sugar and
water and taken at bedtime. If necessary repeat the dose
the following night.
XI. See Conversation 158..
Take of — Chlorate of Potash . . twenty grains
Syrup of Mulberries . . one drachm
Peppermint Water . . to one ounce
A teaspoonful or two according as he is under or over one
year of age.
XII. See Conversation 160.
Take of — Chlorate of Potash . . ten grains
Tepid Water .... half a tumblerful
Mix. The mouth to be gargled with this three or four times
a day.
XITI. See Conversation 160.
Take of — Chlorate of Potash . . two grains
Syrup five drops
Water a teaspoonful
Mix. Give this for a dose to a child of a year old every
four hours.
XIV. See Conversation 276.
Take of — Powdered Ipecacuanha . twenty grains
Wine of Ipecacuanha . . one ounce and a half
Make a mixture. One or two teaspoonf uls to be given every
five minutes until free vomiting is excited, first well shaking
the bottle.
XV. See Conversation 276.
Take of — Wine of Ipecacuanha . . three drachms
Simple Syrup . . . three drachms
Water six drachms
Make a mixture. A teaspoonful to be given every two or
three hours.
426 Ai^fEirbiX.
XVI. See Conversation 340.
Take of — Oil of Cloves .... one drachm
Oil of Amber . . . . two drachms
Camphorated Oil . . . nine drachms
Make a liniment. Shake the bottle before using.
XVII. See Conversation 415.
Take of — Ointment of Ammoniafced Mercury, and of
Soft Paraffin — each half an ounce.
Mix. Apply to the head, well rubbing in the ointment for
ten minutes night and morning.
XVIII. See Conversation 418.
Take of — Sulphur Ointment . . one part
Zinc Ointment . . . one part
Mix.
XIX. See Conversation 448.
Take of —Sulphate of Zinc . . , twenty grains
Simple Syrup . . . one drachm
Distilled Water . . . seven drachms
To make a draught. When he has been well sick, give him
tea which has been standing on the leaves some ten minutes
or so.
XX. See Conversation 526.
Take of — Powdered Alum . . .one drachm
Cold Water .... half a pint
To make a lotion.
XXI. See Conversation 528.
Take of — Best Alexandria Senna, powdered one ounce
Best Figs two ounces
Best Raisins (stoned) . . . two ounces
All chopped very fine. The size of a nutmeg or two to be
eaten, either early in the morning or at bedtime.
XXII. See Conversation 528.
Take of — Extract of Socotrine Aloes . eight grains
Compound Extract of Colocynth forty-eight grains
Hard Soap .... twenty-four grains
Molassas . . . . .a sufficient quantity
To make twenty-four pills. One or two to be taken at bed-
time occasionally.
INDEX.
Ablution of an infant, 5 ; age to
commence, 6 ; sponge recommend-
ed, 6 ; general observations on, 7,
11 ; how often necessary, 9 ; pow-
ders to use, 10 ; thorough ablution
a preventive of costiveness, 108.
Ablution of a child, 14"owder, 308.
Intervals of feeding, 48.
Intolerance of light, 286.
Intubation, 215, 236.
Intususception, 109.
'• Invalid's cow," 32.
" Inward convulsions," 96, 100.
IKDEX.
431
Iodoform ointment, 14.
Ipecacuanha wine, for sickness of
infants, 81 ; in croup, 214, 216 ; in
bronchitis, 224.
Irritability of child, IS't.
Itch, the, symptoms and treatment,
329.
Izal, 234, 300.
Jaeger clothing, 361.
Jalap a griping medicine for a baby,
107, 290.
Joints, swelling of, in scarlet fever,
244.
Kidneys, grit or stone from, 92 ; af-
fected in scarlet fever, 244, 248, 253 ;
inflammation of, 250.
Kindergartens, 200.
Knee, pain in, and limping, 330.
Knock-knee, causes and treatment,
314, 322.
Lactometers, 155.
Lancing the gums of an infant, 71,
79-80.
Laudanum, treatment of poisoning
by, 348.
Lead lotion, treatment of poisoning
from swallowing, 340.
Leech-bites, bleeding from, 140.
Lice in head after illness, 307.
Light in a nursery, importance of,
167 ; artificial, 169.
Lime juice, 42.
Lime-water, 33.
Limping, 330.
Liniments, care necessary in using,
339.
Linseed-meal poultice, how to make,
336.
Linoleum, objection to, 173.
" Looseness of bowels, 113 ; causes
and treatment, 114.
Lotions, poisonous, 340.
Lucifer matches poisonous, 169, 340.
Luncheon for a wet-nurse, 59 ; for
children, 150-156.
Lungs, inflammation of, symptoms
and treatment, 219, 220 ; precau-
tions to prevent return, 309.
Mad dogs and cats, treatment of
bite of, 346.
Magnesia, dosing with, injurious to
infants, 108. See Fluid Magnesia.
Management and care of ciiildren,
advice and counsel, 1.
Mare's milk, 33.
Measles, symptoms, 238 ; principal
danger in, 239 ; treatment, 240 ; in-
cubation period, 240 ; after effects,
242 ; how to distinguish from scar-
let fever, 244. See German Measles,
256.
Measles rash, 256.
Meat, when a child should commence
taking, 150 ; raw meat for infants,
139; meat with breakfast for
youths, 365.
Medical man, a mother's conduct to-
wards, 331.
Medical officer of health, notifica-
tion of disease to, 233, 245, 260, 281.
Medicine, way to administer, 296 ;
rousing a child from sleep to give,
296.
Mellin's food, composition of, 51.
Membranous croup, 244.
Mercurial lotion, poisoning from
swallowing, 340.
Mercury, prepai'ations of, 107.
Milk, contaminated, 2.55, 281.
Milk-crust, 325 ; duration, 326.
'' Milk from one cow," 32.
Milk gruel an excellent food, 290.
Milk, how to sterilize, 36 ; how to
prevent turning sour, 156.
Milk, human, constituents of, 30.
Milk in breast, where none at first,
26.
Milk in infant's bosom, 94.
Mind, influence on the body of
mother and on nursling, 24, 60.
Miscarriage, risk of, 25.
Molasses, 290,
Mortality of infants, 3, 54. 79.
Mother's duty to her children, 2-4.
Mother's mark, 136.
Mother's milk, no real substitute for,
29, 53-55.
Mother milk food, 42.
Motions of young infant, character-
istics of, 113.
Mouth, eruptions about, 324 ; inflam-
mation, varieties of, and treat-
ment, 131-134.
"Mucous disease," 287.
Mucus in the air passages, 92.
Mumps, symptoms, 270 ; a conta-
gious disease, 271 ; incubation pe-
riod, 271 ; treatment, 271.
Napkins, washing, 10 ; when to dis-
pense with, 92.
Native carbonate of zinc powder, 10.
Navel, watery discharge from, 14 ;
soreness of, 14 ; rupture, 15.
Navel-string, treatment, 12 ; separa-
tion of, 13.
Neave's food for infants, composi-
tion of, 51.
Nervous system of infant, 96, 100, 208.
Nervous temperament incompatible
with good nursing, 25.
Nestle's Anglo-Swiss food, composi-
tion of, 51.
Nettle-rash, causes, symptoms, and
treatment, 124.
Night-gowns, flannel, 146.
Night-terrors, 180 ; treatment, 181.
Nose, bleeding from, 403 ; removal
of foreign substances from, 350 ;
stuffing of the, 127.
Notification of disease to medical of-
ficer of health, 233, 240, 245, 260.
Nourishment, administration in sick-
433
IKDEX.
ness, 302 ; refusal of, forced feed-
ing, 303.
Nurse, choice of a, 178 ; in the sick-
room, 304.
Nursery, the, selection and ventila-
tion, 85, 164 ; light, 167 ; airing, 168 ;
warming, 168 ; temperature, 83,
169 ; artificial light, 169 ; ceilings
and walls, 171 ; space necessary for
each child, 171 ; covering for floor,
173 ; furniture, 174, washing floor,
174.
Nursery, the night, 175 ; place for
bed, 176 ; evils of stopping chim-
ney, 177 ; darkening for sleep, 206 ;
fire in winter 206.
Nursing, prolonged, when injuri-
ous, 25.
Nursing bottles, 52.
Nursing sick children, 298.
Nutrient enemata, 235-303.
Nystagmus, or oscillation of the eye-
balls, 100.
Oatmeal, a wholesome food, 153 ;
Scotch, 48, 153, 293.
Oatmeal- water, to prepare, 39.
Ophthalmia, a frequent cause of, 7,
note ; dangers of, 285.
Opium, poisoning from swallowing,
treatment, 348.
Over-feeding, dangers of, 55.
" Over-laying," how to avoid, 86-90.
Ozide of zinc and starch powder, 10,
95-130.
Painted toys, danger of, 198.
Paralysis in infants, 103 ; treatment,
104 ; in diphtheria, 232 ; after mea-
sles, 242.
Paralytic chorea, 275.
Paregoric a dangerous medicine, 81,
223, 208 ; poisoning from swallow-
ing, 348.
Parquet floors, 173.
Pasteurization, 38, 347.
Patent foods for infants, composi-
tion of, 51.
Paterfamilias, advice to, 202,
Peevish children, 184.
Peppermint in infant's food, 63.
Pepsine, Fairchild's essence, 45.
Peptonized milk, 39 ; how to pre-
pare, 40.
Persoiration, danger of checking,
143":
Pigeon-breasted and narrow-chested
children, 310.
Pillows, arrangement of, 138.
Pimples on face, remedy for, 409.
Pins, 20 ; swallowing, what should be
done, 351.
Pitting in small-pox, how to prevent,
261.
Plants and flowers in bedrooms, 384.
Playgrounds for children, 199.
Playthings in nursery, 178, 198.
Pleurisy, symptoms, causes and
treatment, 237.
Pocket-money for boys, 367.
Poisoning, accidental, 339-348 ; by
laudanum, 348 ; by opium, 348; by
belladonna, 348.
Pomatum bad for the hair, 360.
Pork an unwholesome food, 157.
Port-wine mark, 136.
Potatoes should be mashed. 158-160.
Poultices, how made, 336.
Powders for infant's body, 9, 95, 130.
Precocity, dangers of, 388.
Pregnancy of mother whilst nursing,
25.
Prescriptions, a few simple, 423.
Prevention of accidents, 352.
Profession or trade, choice of, 380.
Protrusion of lower bowel, causes
and remedies, 291.
Prunes, stewed, 406.
Pseudo-paralysis in infants, 105.
Puddings for children, 151, 160.
Pulse in health and disease, 308.
Quack Medicines, mischievousness
of, 112, 268.
Quarantine, period of, in diphtheria,
236 ; in measles, 242 ; in scarlet
fever, 250 ; in German measles,
255 ; in chicken-pox, 259 ; in hoop-
ing cough, 208 ; in mumps, 271 ; in
typhoid fever, 281.
Quicklime in eye, treatment, 343.
Quinsy, symptoms, 228 ; causes, 228,
treatment, 229.
Rain-water, for washing infants, 5 ;
for ablution generally, 354.
Reading aloud, 376.
Recovery from severe illness, 421.
Red-gum, 67, 123 ; symptoms and
treatment, 125.
Refusal of nourishment, forced feed-
ing, 302.
Relaxed or weak bowels, 113.
Rennet, 45, 154, note.
Retraction of the head, 100.
Re-vaccination, importance of, 65.
Rheumatic fever, 272 ; extra cloth-
ing required after, 362.
Rheumatic nodules, 278.
Rice-water, how to prepare, 39.
Rickety children, 46, 97, 192, 217, 225,
310, 314 ; causes and treatment, 321,
Ridge's food, composition of, 51.
Ringworm, cause, symptoms, and
treatment, S27.
Rocking infants to sleep, 86.
Round shoulders, 313, 394.
Round-worms, 318.
Rowing for girls, 374.
Rubeola (German measles), 255.
Running scall, 325 ; duration, 326.
Rupture, groin, 15 ; navel, 14, 15.
St. Vitus's Dance, 272, causes of,
273 ; symptoms, 274 ; treatment,
276.
Salt, use of in the bath, 9, 309.
Salt beef for a child, 157.
INDEX.
433
Sal volatile a remedy for flatulence,
111 ; for stings, 347.
Sanitary rose powder, 9, 131.
Sanitas, 175.
Savory and Moore's peptonized con-
densed cow's milk, 41 ; food for in-
fant's composition, 51.
Scabby eruption about the mouth,
324.
Scalds and burns, 342.
Scarlatina a mild form of scarlet
fever, 242 ; ventilation a remedy
for, 247, note.
Scarlatinal dropsy, 250.
Scarlatinal rash, 229, 256.
Scarlet fever, 242 ; diarrhea a dan-
gerous symptom, 243, 246 ; hybrid,
240 ; importance of distinguishing
from measles, 245 ; treatment, 246 ;
exceptional cases, 251 ; incubation
period, 254, purification of house,
etc., after, 254 ; precautions against
spread of, 254.
Schools, female boarding, 378.
Scrofula, symptoms ; 389 ; predispo-
sition to, 391 ; prevention of, 391 ;
how to mitigate effects, 392 ; treat-
ment, 393.
Scurfy head, treatment, 143, 328.
Scurvy, symptoms in children, 421.
Scurvy rickets, 324.
Sea and fresh water bathing, 357 ;
for a young child, 296 ; when ad-
visable, 358.
Senna, syrup of, 289, 292 ; compound
confection of, 289.
Serious and slight ailments, their dis-
tinction, 94.
Shampooing the stomach, 108.
Sheep's milk, 33.
Shell-flsh, poisonous, 340.
Shingles, 326 ; treatment, 326.
Shirts for infants, flannel, 146, 361.
Shivering fit, an important symp-
tom, 269, 331 ; treatment, 270.
Shoes, boots, and stockings, import-
ance of attention to, 147, 148, 362,
413.
Shortening infant's clothes, 23.
Sick children, nursing, 297.
Sick-room, management of, 297.
Sickness of infants, 127.
Singing and reading aloud, 202, 376.
Sitz-bath, for protrusion of the lower
bowel, 293.
Skating for girls, 375.
Skim-milk injurious for children,
153.
Skipping for girls, 374.
Sleep of infants, 85 ; lying alone, 85 ;
rocking, 86 ; covering crib or face,
87 ; much, necessary, 88.
Sleep of children, 204 ; in midday,
204 ; right time for, and how to
place to, 205 ; lying alone, 207 ;
talking in sleep, 208.
Sleep of youth, 382.
Sleep-walking, 208.
Sleeplessness, 207.
28
Slop-pails should not be used, 299.
Smallpox, vaccination a protection
against, 64 ; case in Lambeth Ly-
ing-in Hospital, 66 ; symptoms, 259 ;
contagiousness, 260 ; treatment,
260 ; incubation period, 261 ; how
to distinguish from chicken-pox,
261.
Smelling feet, remedy for, 413.
Smoking, ill effects in youth, 401.
Snoring, cause and treatment, 136.
Soap, castile, 5 ; glycerine, 6, 142.
Soft coi-ns, treatment of, 411.
Sore teats, cows suffering from, 254.
Sorethroat, 224, how to ward off
attacks. 400.
Soups and broths, 366.
Soxhlet's sterilizer, 37, 53.
Space required in nursery for each
child, 171.
Spectacles, when necessary, 286.
Speech, defects of, 190.
Spinal caries, 313.
Spinal curvature, 311 ; injury, 339.
Spitting blood, 394 399.
Sponges for washing infants, 6, 142.
Sponging to reduce fever, 301.
Spotted acne, 409.
Sprains, how to treat, 338.
Squinting, treatment for, 285.
Stained floors, advantages of, 173.
Stammering, cause and remedy for,
188.
Starch powder, 9.
Stays, loose, approved, 362.
Steam, superheated, disinfection by,
238
Sterilizing milk, 33, 36.
Stewed prunes, how to prepare, 291,
Stiff neck, 307.
Stimulants, 60, 366.
Sting of bee or wasp, remedies for,
347.
Stockings, boots, and shoes, 147, 362,
413.
Stone fruit injurious during teeth-
ing, 76.
Stone from the kidney, 91 ; in blad-
der, 315, 330.
Stooping of girls, 313-393.
Stoppage in the bowels, 109 (see 116).
Stopping temporary teeth, 83.
" Strawberry tongue " in scarlet
fever, 242.
Stunning, treatment in cases of,
338
Stye on eyelid, treatment of, 286.
Sucking of thumb, 75.
Suckle, disinclination or inability of
infant to, 27.
Suckling by mother, when impera-
tive, 24 ; when not advisable, 24 ;
when mother unable, 30, .53 ; when
to be commenced, 26 ; how often
necessary, 28.
Sviet, value of. 152.
Suffocation of infants, how caused,
90.
Sugar in infant's food, 64.
434
IKDEX.
Sulphur not a preventive medicine,
294.
Sulphur dioxide gas for disinfection,
237.
Sundays, cheerful, for children, 199.
Supper for a child, 151 ; for a youth,
366.
Suppositories, 108.
Swallowing dangerous substances,
351.
Sweaty feet, remedy for, 413.
Sweetmeats for children, 161.
Swelling in child's neck, 105.
Swimming, remarks on, 355.
Syrup of senna a good aperient, 289,
292.
Syrup of white poppies a dangerous
medicine, 81, 224, 268.
Tallow-candle suppository, a
nurse's remedy for costiveness,
108.
Tape-worms, 318 ; cause of, 318, note.
Tea, diet at, for infants, 151.
Tea drinking in childhood, 161, 364,
366.
Teeth, first set, their appearance
and number, 70, stopping tempo-
rary, 83 ; second set, 209.
Teeth and gums in illness, 303 ;
means of keeping them healthy,
82, 386.
Teething, 70 ; convulsions caused by,
73 ; attention to diet necessary, 77 ;
diseases accompanying, 77 ; statis-
tics of death from, 79 note, 79 ;
symptoms and treatment of pain-
ful, 79 ; purgings, 80 ; eruptions,
81.
Teething powders, injurious, 82.
Temperature of the nursery, 169 ; of
various baths, 360.
Tender feet, remedy for, 413.
Tennis for girls, 374.
Tepid bath, when to be used, 359,
Tetany, 99, 102.
Thermometers, bath, 8.
Thread-worms, 319.
Throat, in scarlet fever, 247.
Thrush, 123 ; causes, symptoms, and
treatment, 129.
Thumb, sucking of, 75.
Tight-lacing, evil elf ects of, 362 note.
Toast and water for a child, 159.
Toe-nails, how to cut, 149 ; " growing
in " of, 149.
Tongue-tie, 27, 136.
Tongue, ulceration of "bridle" of,
133.
Tonsils, enlarged, 136, 315 ; a cause of
deafness, 284.
Tooth-brush, importance of frequent
use of, 132 ; how to use, 386.
Tooth-cough, 81.
Tooth-powder, an excellent, 386.
Tooth-rash, 125.
Tossing infants, 85, 195.
Toys for children, choice of, 198.
Tracheotomy, 215, 236, 266, 352.
Trade or profession, choice of, 381.
Treacle. See Molasses.
Tricycle exercise for girls, 370.
Trusses for infants, 16, 17 ; precau-
tions in use of, 17.
Tubercle bacilh, 83, 233, 253, 288, 389,
390.
Tubercular diseases following
hooping cough, 266,
Tubercular meningitis, first symp-
toms of, 103.
Tubercular peritonitis, 288.
Tub-washing, 7, 142.
Typhoid fever. 280 ; precautions in
nursing, 281, 301.
Ulceration of gums, 132.
Ulcers on the " sight " of the eye, 286.
Underclothing for infants, 21.
Underdone meat, dangers of, 318,
note.
Unhealthy mothers, 24.
Urinals, glass, 300.
Urine, characteristics of healthy, 91 ;
quantity passed by infant, 91 ; fre-
quent passage of, 91 ; temporary
stoppage, 92, 306, 333 ; examination
in diphtheria, 232, 234 ; in scarlet
fever, 250 ; importance of saving
for inspection by doctor, 92, 232,
234, 250, 300.
Vaccination, 64 ; age for, 66 ; break-
ings-out a reason for deferring, 67 ;
effect on child, 67 ; medicine after,
68 ; treatment of arm after, 68 ;
scab, 69.
Vaccination from the calf, 66.
Vaseline, 7, 320.
Veal for children, 157.
Vegetables for children, 151, 158.
Ventilation of nursery, 165 ; of sick-
rooms, 234, 298 ; of bedrooms, 382.
Vermin in head, treatnient, 307,
Violet powder, 10.
Vomiting food, cause of, 55.
Walking, child's early attempts at,
195 ; importance of walking exer-
cise, 368.
Walls of a nursery, hints for, 171.
Warm baths, 333 ; precautions in
using, 333, 359 ; action of, 359.
Warm external applications, 334 ;
precautions necessary in applying,
336.
Warm water for infants, 5 ; for chil-
dren, 143.
Warming a nursery, 167.
Warts, how to destroy, 413.
Washing. See Ablution, also Bath-
ing.
Washing infants and children, 5, 142,
301.
Water-closets, properly constructed,
164, 300.
Water, filtered, 159.
Waterproof bed-sheeting, 315.
Wax in the ears, an occasional cause
of deafness, 285.
IN^DEX.
435
Weak ankles, cause of, 140, 322.
Weaning, 25, 61 ; diet of child after,
62.
Weight of new-born infants, 43, 89,
note.
Weir-Mitchell treatment for a deli-
cate child, 296.
Welfare of children, hints for, 182.
Welsh flannel, 361.
Wet-nurse, how to choose, 55-57 ;
diet of, 58 ; hints on management,
61.
Wetting the bed, how to prevent,
314.
Wheaten flour, 49.
Wheezing of infants, 93.
Whipping a child, 179.
White-gum, 125.
Wind in stomach, 63, 110, 280 ; best
remedy for, 112.
Wind instruments injurious to
health, 374.
Windpipe, foreign body in, 351.
Wine injuiious to children, 160 ; to
a youth, 366.
Winter clothing, 147 ; leaving off, 149.
Winter, exercise in, 194,
Woolen shirts, 361.
" Worm fever," 318.
Worms infesting a child's bowels,
817 ; treatment, 320.
Youth, air and exercise for, 367.
Zymine powder, Fairchilds, 40.
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