w .> cation, Consecration, Confession and Supplication for tht in- dwelling and communion of the Father and the Son through tin Spirit.] The Distribution of the Bread : [The minister should take the bread and break it in view of the people, saying :] Our blessed Lord, the same night in which he was betrayed, having taken bread and blessed it, brake it and gave to his disciples (as I do, ministering in his name), saying: Take, eat, this is my body which is broken fur you; this do in remembrance of me. [If for any reason if be thought inexpedient to leavi the communicants to their on-,/ silent meditations through the whole time occupied by the distribution of the elements, the minister should raid slowly such of our Lard's own nurds as the following:] Come unto me, all ye that labor, and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Matt. xi. 28. For God so loved the world, that he gave his only-begotten Son, that whosoever be- lieveth on him, should not perish, but have everlasting life. John iii. 10. For the Son of man is come to seek and to save that which was lost. Luke xix. 10. Look unto me and be ye saved, all ye ends of the earth. Isa. xlv. 22. 36 MANUAL OF FORMS. All that the Father giveth me shall come to me, and him that cometh to me, I will in no wise cast out. John vi. 37. Ye have not chosen me, but I have chosen you and ordained you, that ye should go and bring forth fruit, and that your fruit should remain : that whatsoever ye shall ask of the Father in my name, he may give it you. John xv. 16. Therefore, I say unto you, What things so- ever ye desire when ye pray, believe that ye receive them, and ye shall have them. Mark xi. 24. According to your faith be it unto you. Matt. ix. 29. Write : Blessed are they which are called unto the marriage-supper of the Lamb. Rev. xix. 9. For the Bread of God is he which cometh down from heaven and giveth life unto the world. ... I am that Bread of life. He that cometh to me shall never hunger, and he that believeth on me shall never thirst. John vi. 33-35. Whoso eateth my flesh and drinketh my blood hath eternal life. John vi. 54. It is the Spirit that quickeneth, the flesh ADMINISTRATION OF THE LOBD'S BUPPEE. 37 profitetli nothing: the words that F Bpeak unto you, they are spirit, and they are life. John vi. 63. He that hath an ear let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches: To him that overcometh will I give to eat of the hidden manna. Rev. ii. 17. He that overcometh, the same shall be clothed in white raiment; and I will not blot out his name out of the book of life; but I will confess his name before my Father, and before his angels. Rev. iii. 5. The Distribution of the Wine: The minister shall say : After the same manner our Saviour also took the cup, and having given thanks, gave it to his disciples (as I do in his name), say- ing : Drink ye all of it : for this is my blood of the new testament, which is shed for many, for the remission of sins. Matt. xxvi. 27, 28. For, as the apostle Paul adds: As often as ye eat this bread, and drink this cup, ye do show the Lord's death till he come. 1 Cor. xi. 26. [ Tfdet med desirable the minister during the distribution of the cup may slowly read the Lord's words as follows :] So when they had dined, Jesus saith to 38 MANUAL OF FORMS. Simon Peter : Simon, son of Jonas, lovest thou me more than these? And he said unto him, Lord, thou knowest all things, thou knowest that I love thee. John xxi. 15-17. Henceforth I call you not servants ; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth ; but I have called you friends ; for all things that I have heard of my Father I have made known unto you. John xv. 15. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. John xv. 13. Fear not, little flock, for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the kingdom. Luke xii. 32. Behold, I stand at the door, and knock : if any man hear my voice and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me. To him that over- cometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne. He that hath an ear, let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches. Rev. iii. 20-22. I am the Vine, ye are the branches he that abideth in me and I in him, the same ADMINISTEATION OF THE LOED's SUPPER. 39 bringeth forth much fruit; for without me, ye can do nothing. John xv. 5. The cup of blessing which we bless, is it not the communion of the blood of Christ ? The bread which we break, is it not the com- munion of the body of Christ? 1 Cor. x. 16. Except ye eat the flesh of the Son of Man, and drink his blood, ye have no life in you. John vi. 53. I will not drink henceforth of this fruit of the vine, until that day when I drink it new with you in my Father's kingdom. Matt. xxvi. 29. Father, I will that they also whom thou hast given me, be with me where I am, that they may behold my glory which thou hast given me; for thou lovedst me before the foundation of the world. John xvii. 24. They shall hunger no more, neither thirst any more, neither shall the sun light on them, nor any heat. For the Lamb, which is in the midst of the throne, shall feed them, and shall lead them unto living foun- tains of waters; and God shall wipe away all tears from their vyv*. Rev. vii. 16, 17. lie which testifieth these things saith, 40 MANUAL OF FORMS. Surely, I come quickly ; Amen : Even so, come, Lord Jesus. Rev. xxii. 20. [Then the minister shall offer a solemn prayer : Of Thanks- giving, of Consecration, of Intercession for absent Communi- cants, for Baptized Children and for the Church Universal.} [Then the congregation shall sing an appropriate hymn, such as "All hail the power of Jesus' name."] Benediction. 42 MANUAL OF FORMS. Tf Marriage is a civil contract, inasmuch as the state, for the welfare of human society, must recognize and enforce it in its civil relations and consequents. f Yet it is not a mere civil contract, but also a religious contract under a divine constitution. Because (1) it is founded upoi the nature of man as constituted by God. (2) It was instituted by God in Paradise before the exist- ence of civil society, and consequently civil society for ever presupposes marriage, and marriage therefore can- not essentially presuppose civil society. (3) In his in- spired word God has denned the nature, conditions and mutual duties of marriage, and the conditions of its law- ful dissolution. (4) The vows of mutual fidelity are made by the parties to God as well as to each other. (5) The grace which alone can enable the parties to realize marriage in its highest sense is from God only. IT Hence it follows: (1) That Christians are bound to observe in their marriages the laws of the common- wealth, as far as these are consistent with the revealed laws of God. (2) That the state has no right to ignore ORDER FOR TIIE SOLEMNIZATION OF MARRIAGE. Dearly beloved, we are assembled here in the sight of God and these witnesses, to join this man and this woman in the bonds of matrimony ; which is an honorable estate, instituted by God in the time of man's inno- cency, confirmed by the teaching and sanc- tioned by the presence of our blessed Lord, and compared by Saint Paul to the mystical union between Christ and his Church. Into this holy estate these two persons have come to be joined. If any man can show just cause why they may not lawfully be joined together, let him speak now, or else hereafter for ever hold his peace. It will be your duty, M, to be to N a loving, tender, faithful husband, to support, guide and cherish her, in prosperity and in adversity, and, forsaking all others, to cleave 43 44 MANUAL OF FORMS. or to violate the di vine law in its legal provisions for mar- riage or divorce, and that when it does so, Christians are bound to obey God, even if that involve disobedience to man. (3) Christians ought to marry in the Lord, and their marriages should be solemnized by a lawful minister, who alone is competent to interpret and en- force the divine law and invoke upon their union the divine blessing. See Directory for Worship, ch. 11. \ 2. \ "While our form of government does not recognize licentiates as ministers of the gospel, yet this Assembly (1844) does not consider them as violating any rules of the Church by solemnizing marriage in those States where the civil laws expressly authorize them to do it." Moore's Digest, p. 402. If "It is lawful for all sorts of people to marry who are able with judgment to give their consent, yet it is the duty of Christians to marry only in the Lord. And, therefore, such as profess the true Reformed religion should not marry with infidels, Papists, or other idol- aters; neither should such as are godly be unequally SOLEMNIZATION OF MARRIAGE. 45 to her only with a love that fails not, until dcnth shall part you. It will be your duty, N, to be to M a lov- ing, tender, faithful and obedient wife, to comfort, counsel and cherish him, in prosper- ity and in adversity, and, forsaking all others, to cleave to him alone with a love that fails not, until death shall part you. If you would assume these relations and duties, as thus defined after the word of God, join your hands and together assent to the marriage covenant. Do you, M, in the presence of God and these witnesses, solemnly pledge your faith to N, that you will live with her after God's ordinance in the holy estate of matrimony, and that through his grace, you will be to her a faithful and loving husband as long as you both shall live? Do you, N, in the presence of God and these witnesses, solemnly pledge your faith to M, that you will live with him after God's ordinance in the holy estate of matrimony, and that, through grace, you will be to him a i'a it h ful and loving wife as long as you both shall live ? [In token of these your mutual engage- 46 MANUAL OF FORMS. yoked by marrying with such as are notoriously wicked in their life, or maintain damnable heresies." Confes- sion of Faith, ch. 24, \ 3. % "The purpose of marriage ought to be sufficiently published a proper time before the solemnization of it. It is enjoined on all ministers to be careful that, in this matter, they transgress neither the laws of God nor the laws of the community; and that they may not destroy the peace and comfort of families, they must be prop- erly certified with respect to the parties applying to them, that no just objection lie against their marriage." Directory of Worship, ch. 11, § 6. \ "The Synod do recommend it to all their members to use the greatest caution that they do not countenance any clandestine marriages, and especially that they do not marry any that they have reason to suspect to go contrary to the minds of their parents and guardians in seeking it." Original Synod, 1735, Moore's Digest, p. 601. SOLEMNIZATION OF MAERIAGE. 1/ ments, you, M, do bestow, and you, N, do receive, this bridal ring. Let it continue to you both a symbol of the value, the purity and constancy of true wedded love, and a seal of those vows to which you have now set your hands.] A DDE ess : You are both to remember that the happi- ness of your union is to be found in mutual kindness, confidence, affection and fidelity. I, therefore, a minister of the blessed gospel, charge and entreat you to seek the help of God in all your duties; that so his grace may make your union full of comfort in this life, and a furtherance of your everlasting salvation, to the glory of his most holy name. Amen. Let us pray : O God, by whom marriage was ordained : O Christ, Son of God, by whose presence this service was adorned and rendered for ever sacred : O Holy Ghost, who art the only source of true blessedness, — look down upon these thy servants, and unite their hearts and lives in all the grace and true affection of a happy marriage. May their 48 MANUAL OF FORMS. TT"Let the minister keep a proper register for the names of all persons whom he marries, and of the time of their marriage, for the perusal of all whom it may concern." Directory for Worship, ch. 11, \ 8. Such records are often the only legal proofs available of marriage and of legitimate inheritance. The minister should also give a certificate of the marriage when re- quested so to do. SOLEMNIZATION OF MARRIAGE. 49 mutual love, now plighted, never know change, or doubt, or decay. Do thou bless them in each other, and crown their lives with thy loving-kindness and tender mercies. And do thou, we beseech thee, O Lord, by thy grace, enable them so to live together in this life that in the world to come they may have life everlasting, through Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen. In the name of God, and of the laws of this commonwealth, I pronounce you to be hus- band and wife ; and whom God hath joined together let not man put asunder. The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ ; and the love of God ; and the communion of the Holy Ghost be with you for ever. Amen. SELECTIONS OF SCRIPTURES TO BE READ AT FUNERALS. [Ministers should be very careful to avoid abusing God's word by associating the hopes of the gospel with the close of an obviously Christless life.] Man that is born of a woman is of few clays and full of trouble. He cometh forth like a flower and is cut down, he fleeth also as a shadow and continueth not. Job xiv. 1, 2. As for man, his days are as grass : as a flower of the field, so he flourisheth. For the wind passeth over it, and it is gone, and the place thereof shall know it no more. But the mercy of the Lord is from everlasting to everlasting upon them that fear him; and his righteousness unto children's children, to such as keep his covenant, and to those that remember his commandments to do them. Ps. ciii. 15-18. 50 FUNERAL SERVICER. 51 Lord, thou hast beeD our dwelling-place in all generations. Before the mountains were brought forth, or ever thou hadst formed the earth and the world, even from everlasting to everlasting, thou art God. Thou turnest man to destruction, and sayest, Return, ye children of men. For a thousand years in thy sight are but as yesterday when it is past, and as a watch in the night. Thou earnest them away as with a flood : they are as a sleep: in the morning they are like grass which groweth up. In the morning it flou- risheth and groweth up ; in the evening it is cut down and withereth. For we are con- sumed by thine anger, and by thy wrath are we troubled. Thou hast set our iniquities before thee, our secret sins in the light of thy countenance. For all our days are passed away in thy wrath ; we spend our years as a tale that is told. Ps. xc. 1-9. We must all appear before the judgment- seat of Christ, that every one may rec< the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad. 2 Cor. v. 10. Verily, verily, I say unto you, the hour is coming and now is, when the dead shall 52 MANUAL OF FORMS. hear the voice of the Son of God, and they that hear shall live. For as the Father hath life in himself, so hath he given to the Son to have life in himself; and hath given him authority to execute judgment also, because he is the Son of Man. Marvel not at this: for the hour is coming, in the which all that are in the graves shall hear his voice, and shall come forth ; they that have done good unto the resurrection of life, and they that have done evil unto the resurrection of dam- nation. John v. 25-29. Oh that they were wise, that they under- stood this, that they would consider their latter end ! Deut. xxxii. 29. Jesus said unto her, I am the resurrection and the life : he that believeth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live. And whoso- ever liveth and believeth in me, shall never die. John xi. 25, 26. FUNERAL BERVIC] -. ■<'■', SELECTIONS RELATING TO THE DEATH OF YOUNG CHILDREN, A voice was heard in Rauiah, lamentation and bitter weeping; Rachel weeping for her children refused to be comforted for her chil- dren, because they were not. Jer. xxxi. 15. Suffer the little children to come unto me, and forbid them not; for of such is the king- dom of God. Verily, I say unto you, Whoso- ever shall not receive the kingdom of God as a little child, he shall not enter therein. And he took them up in his arms, put his hands upon them and blessed them. Mark x. 14-10. Even so, it is not the will of your Father which is in heaven that one of these little ones should perish. Matt, xviii. 14. And the Lord struck the child . . . and it was very sick. David therefore besought God for the child; and David fasted and went in and lay all night upon the earth. 54 MANUAL OF FORMS. And it came to pass on the seventh day that the child died. And the servants of David feared to tell him that the child was dead. But when David perceived that the child was dead ... he arose from the earth and washed, and anointed himself and changed his apparel and came into the house of the Lord and worshiped. . . . And he said, While the child was yet alive, I fasted and wept : for I said, Who can tell whether God will be gracious to me, that the child may live ? But now he is dead, wherefore should I fast? Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me. 2 Sam. xii. 15-23. The Lord gave, and the Lord hath taken away ; blessed be the name of the L Drd. JobL 21. FUNERAL SERVICES. 55 SELECTIONS RELATING TO SUDDEN DEATH OF PERSONS IN MIDDLE LIFE. For what is your life? It is even a vapour that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away. James iv. 14. Man knoweth not that which shall he, for who can tell him when it shall be? There is no man that hath power over the spirit to retain the spirit; neither hath he power in the day of death ; and there is no discharge in that war. Eccles. viii. 7, 8. He draweth also the mighty with his power ; he riseth up and no man is sure of life. . . . They air exalted for a little while, but are gone and brought low ; they are taken out of the way, as all other, and cut off as the tops of the ears of corn. Job xxiv. 22-lM. One dieth in his full strength, being whol- ly at ease and quiet. And another dieth in 56 MANUAL OF FOKMS. the bitterness of his soul, and never eateth with pleasure. They shall lie down alike in the dust, and the worms shall cover them. Job xxi. 23-26. Take ye heed, watch and pray ; for ye know not when the time is, . . . for ye know not when the Master of the house cometh, at even, or at midnight, or at the cockcrowing, or in the morning : lest coming suddenly, he find you sleeping. And what I say unto you, I say unto all, Watch. Mark xiii. 33-37. SELECTIONS APPLYING TO THE DEATH OF THE AGED. We spend our years as a tale that is told. The days of our years are threescore years and ten, and if by reason of strength they be fourscore years, yet is their strength labor and sorrow, for it is soon cut off and we fly away. Ps. xc. 9, 10. And Jacob said unto Pharaoh, The days of the years of my pilgrimage are an hun- FUNERAL SERVICES. 57 dred and thirty years ; few and evil have the days of the years of niy life been. Gen. xlvii. 9. The hoary head is a crown of glory if it be found in the way of righteousness. Prov. xvi. 31. The righteous shall flourish like the palm tree : he shall grow like a cedar in Lebanon. Those that he planted in the house of the Lord, shall flourish in the courts of our God. They shall still bring forth fruit in old age, they shall be fat and flourishing, to show that the Lord is upright. He is my rock ; and there is no unrighteousness in him. Ps. xcii. 12-15. Thou shalt come to thy grave in a full age ; like as a shock of corn cometh in in his season. Job v. 26. 58 MANUAL OF FORMS. SELECTIONS RELATING TO THE DEATH OF BELIEVERS, AND THE GLORY THAT FOLLOWS. And I heard a voice from heaven, saying unto me, Write : Blessed are the dead which die in the Lord from henceforth ; yea, saith the Spirit, that they may rest from their labors, and their works do follow them. Rev. xiv. 13. But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him. For this we say unto you by the word of the Lord, that we which are alive and remain unto the coming of the Lord, shall not prevent them which are asleep. For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel and with the FUNERAL SERVICES. 5U trump of God : and the dead in Christ shall rise first. Then we which arc alive and re- main shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air; and so shall we ever be with the Lord. Wherefore comfort one another with these words. 1 Thess. iv. 13—18. Blessed and holy is he that hath part in the first resurrection : on such the second death hath no power, but they shall he priests of God and of Christ, and shall reign with him a thousand years. Rev. xx. 6. There is one glory of the sun, and another glory of the moon, and another glory of the stars: for one star differeth from another star in glory. So also is the resurrection of the dead. It is sown in corruption, it is raised in incorruption ; it is sow r n in dishonor, it Is raised in glory; it is sown in weakness, it is raised in power; it is sown a natural body, it is raised a spiritual body. There is a natural body, and there is a spiritual body. And so it is written : The first man Adam was made a living soul, the last Adam was made a quickening spirit. . . . And as we have borne the image of the earthy, we shall also bear the image of the heavenly. . . . Behold, I 60 MANUAL OF FORMS. shew you a mystery : we shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, in a moment, in the twinkling of an eye, at the last trump : for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed. For this corruptible must put on incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality. So when this corruptible shall have put on incorruption, and this mortal shall have put on immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is written, Death is swallowed up in victory. O death, where is thy sting ? O grave, where is thy victory ? The sting of death is sin, and the strength of sin is the law ; but thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory, through our Lord Jesus Christ ! 1 Cor. xv. 41-57. And I saw a new heaven, and a new earth ; for the first heaven and the first earth were passed away, and there was no more sea. And I John saw the holy city, new Jeru- salem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned for her husband. And I heard a great voice out of heaven, saying, Behold, the tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his people, and God himself shall be FUNERAL SERVICES. 01 with them and be their God. And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain ; for the former things are passed away. Be v. xxi. 1-4. SELECTIONS WHICH SET FORTH THE DESIGN AND GRACIOUS CONSOLATIONS OF AFFLICTION. Although affliction cometh not forth of the dust, neither doth trouble spring out of the ground ; yet man is born unto trouble as the sparks fly upward. Job v. 6, 7. Before I was afflicted I went astray : but now have I kept thy word. It is good for me that I have been afflicted ; that I might learn thy statutes. The law of thy mouth is better unto me than thousands of gold and silver. Ps. cxix. G7, 71, 72. Behold, happy is the man whom God cor- recteth : therefore despise not thou the chas- 02 MANUAL OF FORMS. tening of the Almighty. For he maketh sore and bindetli up: he woundeth and his hands make whole. He shall deliver thee in six troubles : yea, in seven there shall no evil touch thee. Job v. 17-19. For the Lord will not cast off for ever: but though he cause grief, yet will he have com- passion according to the multitude of his mercies. For he doth not afflict willingly nor grieve the children of men. Lam. iii. 31-33. My son, despise not thou the chastening of the Lord, nor faint when thou art rebuked of him : for whom the Lord loveth he chas- teneth, and scourgeth every son whom he receiveth. If ye endure chastening, God dealeth with you as with sons ; for what son is he whom the Father chasteneth not ? But if ye be without chastisement, whereof all are partakers, then are ye bastards and not sons. Furthermore, we have had fathers of our flesh which corrected us, and we gave them rever- ence ; shall we not much rather be in subjec- tion unto the Father of spirits and live ? For they verily for a few days chastened us after their own pleasure, but he for our profit, that we might be partakers of his holiness. Now FUNERAL SERVH I 63 no chastening fbr the present seeineth to be joyous, but grievous : nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteons- ness unto them which are exercised thereby. Wherefore lift up the hands which hang down and the feeble knees. ... Ye are come to Mount Sion, and unto the city of the liv- ing God, the heavenly Jerusalem, and to an innumerable company of Angels, to the Gen- eral Assembly and Church of the First Born which are written in heaven, and to God the Judge of all, and to the spirits of just men made perfect ; and to Jesus the Mediator of the New Covenant, and to the blood of sprinkling, that speaketh better things than that of Abel. Heb. xii. 5-12, 22-24~ For as the sufferings of Christ abound in us, so our consolation also aboundeth by Christ. 2 Cor. i. 5. For our light affliction, which is but for\ a moment, worketh for us a far more ex- ceeding and eternal weight of glory ; while w r e look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen ; for the tilings which are seen are temporal ; but the things which are not seen are eternal. 2 Cor, iv. 17, 18. 64 MANUAL OF FOEMS. And not only so, but we glory in tribu- lations also ; knowing that tribulation work- eth patience, and patience experience, and experience hope. Rom. v. 3, 4. My brethren, count it all joy when ye fall into diverse temptations ; knowing this, that the trying of your faith worketh patience. Blessed is the man that endureth temptation : for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life, which the Lord hath promised to them that love him. James i. 2, 3, 12. That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise and honor and glory at the ap- pearing of Jesus Christ. 1 Pet. i. 7. Sing, O heavens ; and be joyful, O earth, and break forth into singing, O mountains : for the Lord hath comforted his people, and will have mercy upon his afflicted. Isa. xlix. 13. For a small moment have I forsaken thee, but with great mercies will I gather thee. In a little wrath I hid my face from thee for a moment ; but with everlasting kindness will I have mercy on thee, saith the Lord thy Eedeemer. Isa. liv. 7, 8. DATE DUE * FA'OWTY j ^ ^ : N** ^ 'S-L GAYLORD PRINTED IN U.S.A.