DUKE UNIVERSITY LIBRARY DURtlAM, N. C. Rec’d. Digitized by the Internet Archive in 2016 https://archive.org/details/character01carm ■y CHARACTER n THE MAKING OF THE MAN By EDWARD WARD CARMACK Nashville, Tenn. McQUIDDY PRINTING COMPANY 1909 Copyright, 1909 McQuiddy Printing Company Nashville, Tennessee / /70 C ) INTRODUCTORY F all the men who have figured H in the public life of Tennessee, V no one, in my judgment, has been more versatile than the late Sen- ator Edward W. Carmack. Possessing the higher kind of talent that is fitly entitled to be called genius, he adorned and dignified every position that he held. In the editorial chair, on the hustings and the platform, and on the floor of the Senate, he never failed to command a respectful hearing. It will be a long, long time before we shall see his like again. As the years go by, men will still be telling to their chil- dren and to one another the story of s 550447 INTRODUCTORY his great and useful life. The sincere thanks of his thousands of friends are due to the publishers for bringing out in permanent form his wonderful lec- ture on “Character.” From beginning to end it moves in a high region of thought, and many of the passages that it contains are supremely eloquent. I trust that it may have a wide circula- tion, especially among the young men of the land; for ,it cannot fail to do good wherever it goes. As I write these lines, my heart grows tender at the memory of my . dead friend, who never espoused a cause in which he did not believe and never met an opponent of whom he was afraid. E. E. Hoss. Nashville, Tenn., November 10, 1909. 4 0 CHAPvACTER OR THE MAKING OF THE MAN T no time should a man speak with more caution or under a graver sense of responsibility than when ' he speaks to the young. Your success and happiness will depend on the ideals, the conceptions of life and duty, which you hear with you into the world; and an honorahfe and useful career may be marred by a single false precept lodged in the mind. It is in childhood and youth that character is formed. The minds of the young are plastic, and are readily 5 2 6 4 4 "'i CHARACTER molded by the hand of circumstance into a vessel of honor or a vessel of dishonor. The old man’s character is as iron which needs the forge and hammer to chana:e its form. You remember the story of Absalom’s rebellion. You remember how, as King David’s captains went forth to battle, he gave them charge to deal gently with the young man Absalom. You re- member how King David sat in the gates waiting for the tidings of the bat- tle upon which depended his life and his throne. A messenger comes, pros- trates himself at the king’s feet, and announces the joyful tidings: ‘‘All is well.” But there came from the aged king no exclamation of joy, no words of thanksgiving, no song of praise — only 6 CHAEACTER the anxious question: “Is the young man Absalom safe?” A second messen- ger comes and confirms the report — the enemies of the king; are scattered, his kingdom is established forever. But it is not the king anxious for his throne, but the father anxious for his erring child, who sits in the gate. Again from the trembling lips the anx- ious question: “Is the young man Ab- salom safe?” It was a father’s ques- tion, but it should have been asked years before. If David’s love for Absa- lom had been as wise and watchful as it was fond and foolish, he would not have waited nntil he had lifted his hand in wicked and impious rebellion before giving charge concerning his wel- fare; he would not have waited until he 7 CHARACTER had died the death of a traitor before asking the question: “Is the young man Absalom safe?” He would have noted the first wayward steps, the first indi- cation of a turbulent and reckless spirit, the beginnings of those evil as- sociations that corrupted his nature, and would have won him hack to filial duty and a righteous life. Long before his doting father had become anxious for his safety, Absalom had gone the way of death and ruin. It was not the spear of Joab, but the blindness of Da- vid, that wrought the death of the young man Absalom. ^ Youth is the raw material of man- hood. The old man is simply what he began to he in his youth. Manhood can only mature and age can but har- 8 CHARACTER vest the seed that were sown in the springtime of life. It is in youth that the work must he done and the influ- ences brought to bear that are to mold the character and shape the destiny of the man. I shall deal with you as practical men who themselves must deal with a very practical world. You would proba- bly prefer an address ahoundinar in wit and rhetoric; hut one of the flrst things you need to learn is that you cannot always get what you want, and you may as well learn it now and from me. “Life is real, life is earnest;” and ear- nest words of truth and soberness are what you need to hear. You may think that when you have quit the school- room you have quit school. In reality 9 CHARACTER your school days have .iust begun. Though you go forth from one of the gi’eat universities of the land, you have hut passed through a preparatory school and are about to enter as a freshman that great university from which you will he graduated at the grave. You have hut exchanged kind and patient instructors for one whose tasks are heavy, whose rule is harsh, who will show but little indulgence for unlearned lesson or the broken rule. The world is now your school, experience your teacher, and life your lesson. But if in this school sloth and wickedness are scourged with rod of iron, diligence and virtue are rewarded with happiness and honor. What you have learned at school is 10 CHARACTER trifling indeed compared with what you have yet to learn, and much that you have acquired here with much toil will fade from you with the great- est ease. But the taste for study, the habit of mental application, the intel- lectual discipline you have here received, will remain with you, I trust, forever; and, indeed, this is the most important part of your education. It is a good thing for a man that as a hoy he learned to play ball, climb trees, and turn handsprings, though as a man he has ceased to practice these useful ac- complishments. And so, even though you should fall into my own lamenta- ble condition, and not know a triangle from a parallelogram, or whether “homo” is a noun of the third declen- 11 CHARACTEE sion or a verb of the first conjugation, it will still be a good thing for you that in the study of Latin and of ge- ometry you have trained, strengthened, and developed your mental sinews and that you have learned how to learn. The education you have received at school is hut a tool, an implement, and you have yet to acquire skill in the use of it. I once heard a story of an old darky whom his master employed to skin a calf. As it was Christmas and a holiday, he thought it but right to pay him for it; and so when the task was done, he asked him how much he owed for the job. “A dollar,” replied Sambo. The old master, a little shocked by the exorbitant price, said: “Sam, I don’t think your time was worth more 12 CHARACTER than fifty cents.” “I know dat, mars- ter,” replied the old darky. “I only charges fifty cents for de time; de ud- der fifty cents was for de know hoiv.'” So, young gentlemen, when you get out into the world, you will find that the important thing about knowledge is not simply to know, hut to know how. The learned man knows; a practical man knows how; and the man with hut lit- tle knowledge, hut who knows how to apply that knowledge to the affairs of life, is an overmatch for the man who knows everything, hut who knows how to do nothing. The knowing that is not translated into doing is a tree that hears foliage, hut no fruit. A black- smith who can shoe a horse well is bet- ter educated than the man who can 13 CHARACTER read Greek, but cannot make a living for himself or lend a helping hand to his neighbor. I have said that you have just en- tered the great University of Life. This work of acquiring knowledge and of learning how to apply it will go on as long as you live; and while life is brief, think how vast a sum of knowl- edge a man might acquire in the du- ration of an average lifetime, if he would only learn one thing every day, if , he would only make one daily addi- tion to the sum total of his knowledge. It would seem that no day could be so full of cares, incidents, and pleasures that an alert and inquiring mind could not learn one thing. So, young gentle- men, whatever may be your occupations 14 CHAEACTER or distractions, make it an infallible rule of life and let no day pass over your bead without levying upon it some tribute, without learning from it some lesson. It will astonish you to find how much you can learn by habit of attentive observation. I shall not talk with you to-day about the training of your intellectual faculties or the acquisition of knowl- edge. Not all knowledge is to be found in- books. “Wisdom crieth in the streets.” I would rather impress upon you that the strongest and most disci- plined mind cannot of itself bring you honor or happiness, cannot make you a good and useful citizen, or entitle you to the respect of your fellow-man. The great thing is character; and the great- 15 CHARACTER est men, whose names are honored and revered by all mankind, were great, not because they were mighty in intellect, but because they were grand in soul. England has produced greater intellects than Alfred, but she has never pro- duced a greater man. She has never produced one who labored with loftier, purer, more unselfish zeal for the wel- fare of his country. America has pro- duced abler men, perhaps, than Wash- ington, but she has never produced a more devoted and self-sacrificing pa- triot. Not long since a distinguished German author wrote of our own Rob- ert E. Lee, that great as he was as a commander; he was incomparably greater as a man. And this is the kind of greatness I would have you learn to 16 CHAEACTEE admire, and it is from such great and shining examples that I would have you light the lamp that is to guide your feet in the dark ways of life. Let me heg you, young gentlemen, not to he satisfied to achieve a mere reputa- tion without achieving the character to sustain it. The mere love of reputa- tion, of self-advertisement, and desire to have one’s name “stand rubric on the wall,’’ is one of the deadliest forms of vanity that ever cursed the children of men. The boy who fired the Ephesian Dome, the demagogue who fires with madness the passions of the people and gives to destruction the slow creations of wisdom and of years, the conqueror who thunders his name from the can- non’s mouth and writes it in the blood CHARACTER of the world— these are but great mani- festations of that little vanity which never yet brought real happiness to any man and has brought woes unnumbered to mankind. And this vain little pas- sion is the plague of neighborhoods as well as the curse of nations. How often we see in everyday life men who are eager to be thought what they make not the slightest effort to be! Un- derstand me. I do not undervalue rep- utation for its own sake. There never was a good man who was indifferent to the opinions of other good men. What men think of you on the street is by no means to be despised; but the main thing, so far as your own peace and happiness is concerned, is- what you honestly think of yourself, in bed. You 18 OHAEACTER may derive a hollow and transient pleas- ure from the praises of your deluded fellow-men; but when you have retired to the solitude of your chamber and blown out the candle, you will see in the darkness the hypocrite who was in- visible in the light. Then you will try to kick your conscience out of bed, and you will roll over on the other side to get away from yourself; but, in spite of everything you can do, you will look down into the depths of that whited sepulcher and shrink and wither in your self-contempt. Trust me, young gentle- men; there is one man whose honest good opinion is worth more to your peace of mind than all the world be- side. That man is yourself. 19 -X CHARACTER “ One self-approving hcrur whole years outweighs Of stupid starers and of loud huzzas, And more true joy Marcellus exil’d feels Than Caesar with a Senate at his heels.” So, while striving by all honorable means to win and to retain the good opinion of all good men, remember, after all, that a man’s reputation is only what men think him to he; his character, what God knows him to he. And remember that you cannot long pass a counterfeit character for the gen- uine coin on this shrewd old world; and remember also that if you have the character, you cannot long miss the rep- utation. A genuine coin may sometimes be mistaken for the counterfeit until it is tested; but whenever a counterfeit is even suspected, its currency is gone for- 20 CHAKACTER ever. You test the genuineness of a coin by ringing it down upon some bard substance. Sooner or later, young gen- tlemen, tbe metal of your character will be thrown down upon tbe bard stone of adversity, and then all tbe world will know whether or not you are the gen- uine coin. Let me impress upon you that no man is so sure to lose tbe respect of all good people as tbe man who has a morbid craving for popularity or a mor- bid dread of unpopularity. Saul dis- obeyed God because he feared tbe peo- ple, and be lived to bear in bitterness of soul tbe people acclaim another as greater than be. He lived to bear that applause which was tbe very breath of bis nostrils bestowed upon a man who 21 CHAKACTEB feared God more than he feared the people. You cannot always tell what public opinion is; you never can tell what it is going to he. The wiser plan, as well as the most honest plan, there- fore, is carefully and conscientiously to form an opinion of your own, and then have the manhood to stand by it, even though you stand solitary and alone. I do not mean by this that you should he opinionated. Don’t he too confident that every opinion that you have hastily formed is so absolutely and unquestionably correct that you can afford to close your mind to all further evidence upon the subject. Benjamin Franklin once said that as he grew older, he came to doubt more and more his own infallibility and to listen with 22 CHARACTEE greater respect to the opinions of other men. As you grow older, yon will find that many of your so-called opinions were hut accidental impressions or prej- udices, which larger knowledge and wider experience would require you to correct. It would be better for you in the earlier years of your life to be re- ceptive and reflective rather than dispu- tatious. Polonius’ advice to Laertes should he laid to heart by every young man, “Take each man’s censure, hut re- serve thy judgment” — that is, thy opin- ion. Keep an open mind always for further knowledge; hut let your search for truih he fearless and sincere, and never for the sake of popularity or for the sake of any temporary advantage 23 CHARACTER impose upon yonr mind an opinion which it cannot honestly hold. Never fear to he on the side of good morals and honest government. Let me tell yon, yonng gentlemen, that the power wielded by the vicions elements of society is dne only to the dread of that power. They owe their strength and their protection to the cowardice that fears to assail them. That men who aspire to hear the respect of their fellow-men shonld consent even by si- lence that vice and crime or ignorance and folly shall wield political power, that they shall make or administer the laws in any commnnity, is a disgrace to manhood and to citizenship. Yonng gentlemen, this world needs men. Yonr conntry, yonr commnnity, yonr State, 24 CHARACTER need men who will stand erect in the pride of their own integrity and oppose their own honor to all the powers of evil. “ Be bold, be just, and when your country’s laws Call you to witness in a dubious cause. Though Faleris plant his bull before your eye. And, frowning, dictate to your lips the lie. Think it a crime no tears can e’er efface To purchase safety with compliance base. At honor’s cost a feverish span extend And sacrifice for life life’s only end.” I have sought to impress upon you the importance of character, because too much stress is often laid, relatively speaking, on the mere acquisition of knowledge and the improvement of the intellectual power. We are prone to make an ideal of mere intellectuality and to worship it as a god. We are 25 CHARACTER in the habit of saying that ignorance is the mother of vice, though all history and everyday experience teach us that mere culture of the intellect is not cul- ture of the heart, and that often mere difference in degrees of culture simply mark the difference between the vulgar and the accomplished scoundrel, between a Pagin and a Verres, between the thief vdio pilfers from a hatrack and the thief who plunders a province. We know that nations have risen to the noblest heights of intellectual great- ness while stooping to the lowest depths of moral decay. What was Greece in the time of Aristotle and Demosthenes, or Rome in the time of Cicero and Vir- gil? We know that Bacon was one of the wisest and greatest, yet meanest, of 26 CHARACTER mankind. What a commentary it is upon the dignity of human intellect when we see the great author of “No- vum Organum” crawling at the feet of an upstart favorite and bartering his country’s liberties to win a fatuous smile from a crowned baboon! Great philosopher, profound jurist, fawning courtier, and bribe-taking judge! Did ever human intellect soar to grander height or human character stoop to meaner depths? Even the light of Solomon’s wisdom, though it was the direct gift of Al- mighty God, though it shone down upon him direct from the throne of heaven, could not keep his feet from the paths of sin and shame. The intellect of an archangel could not save Satan from 27 CHAEACTER hell; and your intellect alone, young gentlemen, will not save you, even though you be as wise as Solomon or as smart as the devil. "What is the lesson taught by that great master of human nature in the tragedy of Macbeth? No man could have realized more vividly or have por- trayed with more pitiless fidelity the baseness and brutality of Duncan’s mur- der than did Macbeth himself while the purpose was yet forming in his mind. His king, his kinsman, his guest, and the gentle virtues that plead like an- gels, trumpet-tongued, against the deep damnation of the deed — he saw and felt and understood it all. Yea, more; he foresaw that his own peace of mind would perish with the murdered Dun- 2S CHAEACTER can; that the golden opinions won by loyal valor, the love, honor, obedience, troops of friends, would vanish forever and would be succeeded by vain splen- dor and hollow pomp, an enforced mouth-honor and hidden hate, in his own breast a gnawing conscience, a dismal world weariness, a loathing, a disgust for life. He saw and felt and understood all this; but he dallied with temptation, he gave audience to evil promptings, he trifled with his immor- tal soul, and went with open eyes to foreseen destruction. How different the conduct of the brave and simple- hearted Banquo, who prayed to be de- livered even from those evil suggestions that came to him in his dreams! What is the lesson*? We speak of 29 CHARACTER the “lordly intellect,” the “Godlike reason;” and yet this “lordly intellect,” this “Godlike reason,” is hut the ser- vant of the feelings; it is hut the slave of the desires. We sometimes say of a man that he has suffered his intellect to become the slave of his passions; hut this is no more true of one man than it is of another — it is true of all men. The difference is only in the character of the passion. Washington made his intellect serve his passion for liberty; Napoleon, his passion for fame; Bacon, his passion for court favor; Solomon, his passion for luxury and splendor; the devil, his passion for rule. What- ever a man’s master passion may be, whether it he the accumulation of dol- lars, the preservation of his country, or 30 CHAEACTER the salvation of souls, it will rule his intellect with a rod of iron. Whether it he low and mean or a hia:h and mighty intellect, all its powers will he exerted to gratify the cravings of the heart. The important education, therefore, is that which disciplines the feelings, which schools the desires. You may say that if a man is taught to know the consequences of right and wrong, he will do right; hut who knew better than Solomon that the way he had chosen was vanity of vanities? Such is the perversity of human nature that a man may actually know, he may thor- oughly understand, he may have proved to himself by hitter experience over and over again, that the way of the 31 CHARACTEE transgressor is hard; yet he will con- tinue to transgress. He may give his mental assent to the Golden Rule, and yet remain a hard and selfish man. My friends, the difference between an honest man and a thief is not in what they know or think, but in how they feel on the subject of stealing. If all of this were not true, philosophy would long since have taken the place of re- ligion and Moses would have been the Christ. Every young man, therefore, should seek to reduce to order what has been aptly called the “inner anarchy of de- sire.” “He that ruleth his spirit” is greater than “he that taketh a city.” In this education of the heart, every man must in a large measure be his 32 CHARACTER own schoolmaster. There can he no greater mistake than for a young man to give his days and nights to extend- ing the range of his knowledge and training of the powers of his intellect, while leaving his character to take care of itself, to be formed without thought or plan by the accidental circumstances of its environment. “But how,>” you ask, “can a man form his character?” The rule is sim- plicity itself, though the application be difficult. A man may form his charac- ter to a very great extent through the sheer power of habit. An act often re- peated hardens into a habit, and a habit long continued petrifies into char- acter. We often say of a man that he is the victim of a habit, without paus- 33 CHARACTER ing to analyze and understand the deep significance of the expression. ‘‘The victim of a habit” — that is to say, not of some innate or inborn propensity to evil, but of an acquired vice — of some vice which through the sheer power of use over the mind has become second nature to the man and a part of his character. Young gentlemen, a great deal of misery may he spared in this world if young men would only realize in the beginning how much easier it is to do a bad act a second time than it is to do it the first time. As a bough that has once been bent will bend the more easily in the same direction when subjected to the same force, so the soul that has once yielded to the seductions of evil loses something of its power 34 CHAEACTER of resistance. On tlie other hand, every successful resistance of tempta- tion strengthens the man and weakens the power of evil. Because of the in- creased self-respect, the pride and pleas- ure derived from such a victory, he feels himself better equipped for the combat when his enemy renews the at- tack. No man has ever overcome a strong temptation that he has not found afterwards that his mind had become more open and susceptible to good in- fluences and suggestions than before. We are told that when our Savior had resisted the temptations of the devil, an- gels came and ministered unto him; and so when a young man puts temptation under his feet, purer thoughts, nobler resolves, and higher aspirations descend 35 CHARACTER like angels to strengthen and refresh the will. I would impress upon you that a good habit may become as potent and controlling as a bad habit. A man may become the slave of a good habit, as well as the victim of a bad habit. A man may conquer a native disposi- tion to evil by simply extorting from himself a course of conduct contrary to his inclination until custom has made it habitual and agreeahle; for, as Hamlet said, ‘‘use can almost change the stamp of nature.” But you must cultivate habits of thought, as well as habits of action. “As a man think eth in his heart, so is he.” Yet there is good even in an en- forced conformity to the rules of right 36 CHARACTER living, for a habit of doing will help to beget a like habit of thinking. But it must he something more than passively refraining from evil. No man ever yet overcame a habit or conquered a temp- tation simply by folding his arms and saying: “T will not.” He must drive it from his path and out of his life. He must put it not only from his hand, but from his heart. ‘‘Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” But you must resist him as Christian did Apoll- yon — not with the shield only, but with the sword. There is nothing truer than that an idle brain is the devil’s workshoD. To resist the obsession of evil thoughts is sure sooner or later to lead to the resistance of evil deeds. Every young man should store his mind 37 CHARACTER from Ms conversation, Ms reading, or his observations, with innocently agree- able and instructive subjects of con- templation to which he may turn his thoughts at will in an idle or unoccu- pied hour. Nature abhors a vacuum, and you cannot keep vicious thoughts from rushing into an empty head. You must expel them or- bar their entrance with good thoughts. ‘‘Be not overcome of evil, but overcome evil with good.” That is the only way it can be done. In that precept is the true philosophy of right living. You cannot overcome evil by simply resisting evil; you must supplant it. You may uproot all your weeds with the plow or bum them with fire; but if your fields lie fallow, if they be not sown with good seed, the 38 CHARACTER weeds will grow again. So though you may think you have extirpated every bad habit from your life, if you do not plant actively good habits in their place, the bad habits will grow again. While I am on this subject of habit, let me say a few words on a somewhat hackneyed theme. Don’t imagine that 1 am going to turn this into a temper- ance lecture, and don’t be too much disgusted with me if I insist on deal- ing in matters of practical advice in- stead of charming you with flowing pe- riods and brilliant imagery. I had rather leave a thought in your mind that may be helpful in your after life than to win your admiration and ap- plause and do you no good. All the chances are that some of you young 39 CHARACTEE men who hear me to-day will go out from here burning with high hope and eager anticipation, only to end their ca- reers in a drunkard’s grave. Bright young men full of liveliness of spirit are prone to conviviality; and in that way, young gentlemen, lies danger. I wish I could know that not one of you would ever take me drinh. Many a man, you say, drinks habitually with no perceptible harm; and that is true. But many another cannot drink without drinking to excess; and many another cannot drink without becoming a sot, a vagabond, or a criminal. There are these three classes of drinkers, and you will never know to which class you be- long until you have taken your first drink. Let no one tell you that any 40 CHARACTER man of real strength can control his appetite. I have known men — masterful, strong-willed men — who could not. Al- exander of Macedon died a victim of strong drink; and if I were you, I would not be too eager to join battle with the conqueror of the conqueror of the world. You may hear it said that ‘‘strong drink lends brightness to the intellect and courage to the heart;” but no really sensible man or brave man needs to carry his brains in a bottle or buy his courage by the jug, and, so far as I know, there is no case on rec- ord of a fool having found wisdom at the bottom of a glass of whisky or of a sober coward becoming a drunken hero. ‘ I give you my candid opinion, young gentlemen, that there is nothing 41 CHARACTER in this world that a man cannot do better without whisky than he can with it, except get drunk. If you have started out to do that, it will help you some. Now, I beg your pardon for this digression; and I will only say, in con- cluding the subject, that if you follow my advice there will never be an hour in all your lives in which you will re- gret it. If you don’t follow my advice, some of you will surely regret it in rags and poverty, in shame and dis- honor, in sorrow and bitterness of soul. You are going into the world, young gentlemen, and you are going with bright hopes and eager anticipations. I don’t wish to discourage you, hut I feel that I ought to warn you that the world which now seems so rosy will get 42 CHARACTER very drab before you bave looked at it long. Many a young man gets dis- heartened early in life because the world turns out to be so different from what he expected, and the fame and fortune which he expected to find wait- ing for him with open arms at the schoolhouse door seem so distant, so fugitive, so elusive. It has been said that ‘‘for life in general there is but one decree — youth is a blunder; man- hood, a struggle; age, a regret.” This / does not seem to present a very at- tractive prospect, but it is better for you that the gay color of your hope be sobered by solemn warnings of the per- ils that lie before you. Yet success is within the reach of all. There may be a few who are bom to misfortune, a 43 CHARACTER few who have misfortune thrust upon them, but a great majority of those who fail achieve their own misfortune. The great secret is to begin right. You are this very day at the crisis of your fate. Every young man at the begin- ning of his career stands at the cross roads of life where the choosing of di- rections is perilous. The chances are that he will follow to the end the way he first takes. Though he may discover after choosing wrong the error of his way, he must retrace his steps and be- gin again when footsore and weary and the day is far spent. It is difficult, but it is important for you to realize the awful brevity of life as compared with its work and duties. You hear it said that '^^nnua’ men must sow their wild 44 CHARACTER oats. I say to you that this is but a mis- erable apology for wickedness and folly. The world has no use for your wild oats and you have no time to sow them. If you begin sowing wild oats, the chances are that you will never sow and never reap anything else. The sooner you begin to contemplate life as a serious matter, the better. You have absolutely no time to lose. Every pe- riod of your life has its own peculiar work which will be the foundation upon which to build the next. You have a work to do in the next ten years, which, if done well, will smooth the road to fortune. If not done then, if you spend the next ten years in idle- ness or play, you may depend upon it that you will never have time to play 45 CHARACTER afterwards. The men who succeed in this world are the men who utilize to the utmost the energy and enthusiasm of their youth. Don’t go out into the world expect- ing to find great opportunities lying in wait for you. These may never come. It may he that your lot is to he cast in the common ' walks of life. But that doesn’t mean that you are doomed to failure, if you know what it is to suc- ceed. You may be happy and you may make others happy. You may be a good and useful citizen and spread abroad the blessing of a good example. Go forth determined to do your duty as you find it. Remember that it is in the little things of life that men fail, it is in the little things of life that 46 CHARACTEE men succeed, it is tlie little things of life that make life. Only to the few is given the chance to do great and shin- ing deeds, to link their fame with some mighty achievement. But to every man it has been given to act well his part — to perform the many duties, each sim- ple in itself, hut whose sum is vast, whose effects are enduring. You may not climb to brilliant heights of glory, hut you can glorify the common way of life and make the lowliest path shine as with light from heaven. Have you ever read attentively the parable of the talents? “Because thou hast been faithful in a very little, have thou authority over ten cities.” “Be- cause thou hast been faithful in a very little” — do you suppose that this par- 47 CHAEACTER able teaches simply the generosity of the master in bestowing a reward out of proportion to the value of the serv- ice or to the merit of the servant? No; the story is of an austere man, of one who has managed his affairs with prudence, and chose his servants with care, and exacted of them the full measure of tlieir duty. He needed a man; he had been looking about him to find a man who had the capacity to rule over ten cities, and, with a true knowledge of human nature, he found him in the servant who by his zeal, dil- igence, and fidelity in small matters, had proved himself equal to high duties and great responsibilities. Such is the les- son of the parable, and such is the les- son of life. It 'is only those who do 48 CHARACTER the little things well who ever prepare themselves for the performance of great things, and these only are visited by great opportunities. Napoleon Bona- parte was perhaps the greatest com- mander of armies the world has ever seen. History teds us again and again how he observed some little act of a common soldier — an act which an or- dinary commander would have passed with little notice; but this great demo- cratic despot, with his great insight into human character, looked upon that little act of the common soldier and said: “Here is a man who is fit to be a Marshal of France.” And thus is true greatness of soul revealed in the most commonplace incidents of life. My friends, the clear head, the brave 49 CHARACTER heart, the pure and upright character, are needed in the affairs of the neigh- borhood as in the affairs of the nation. But whether you walk the mountain ranges of human greatness or whether your habitation he in the lowly valleys below, the duties of life will call for the very best that is in your mind, heart, and soul; You will fail or succeed in life through your relations with your fel- low-men. Don’t expect too much of hu- man nature. All the world is not young, all the world is not just out of school, and many you will meet who have been calloused or corrupted by their hard contact with the facts of life. But don’t become cynical or lose faith in your kind. God Almighty 50 CHAEACTEE made man; lie breathed into bis nos- trils tbe breath of life, and there is yet something’ of the breath of God in every human soul. Human nature is not vile, except to the vile. To the mean man this is indeed a mean world. To the selfish man it turns its selfish side. The faithless and inconstant man finds faithless and inconstant friends. The world shows itself to every man just as he shows himself to the world. It is a mighty mirror in which every one sees his own image and calls it man. Let me impress upon you, therefore, not to be too swift in forming harsh judgments upon your fellow-men. As you go through life, it will be your fate over and over again to be misun- 51 CHARACTEE derstood, to suffer from harsh misjudg- ments. Let that teach you to be char- itable in your judgment of others. The man whose judgment leans to the side of charity will be less often mistaken than he who leans to the side of sever- ity. Remember, too, that the world shows little mercy to the man who him- self is merciless in his judgment. “With what judgment ye judge ye shall he judged.” Show no tenderness for human depravity, but be ever char- itable to human weakness. Edgar Allan Poe once said you could' call a thief an honest man until he became so. This is, of course, a poetic exaggeration; hut it contains the germ of truth, for even in the worst of men there is something good which may respond to the proper 52 CHARACTER appeal — a ^ood which, recognized and stimulated, may finally obtain the mas- tery over the worse parts of his nature. At any rate, you will he a happier man for thinking well of your neighbor, and your neighbor will be a better man for knowing he is not utterly despised. While thus giving your main thought to the inner man, you must not neg- lect the outer graces. Good manners, a gentle bearing toward others, unfail- ing courtesy and politeness, will do much to smooth your road to fortune; but remember always that^ the soul of good manners is a kind heart. No man can truly have the manners of a gen- tleman who is not a gentleman at heart. And the heart that really over- fiows with good feeling will lend a 53 CHARACTEE grace and gentleness which, no school of culture could give, I wish you would let the thought sink deep into your hearts that apart from the inner luxury of doing good, which, after all, is the highest earthly happiness, there is nothing that repays such heavy ma- terial interest as the little acts and words of kindness which you may scat- ter about you without special effort as you go along. ‘‘Cast thy bread uplon the waters: for thou shalt find it after many days;” and often when you have only cast a crumb you will find a loaf. Do not undervalue nor overvalue the material things of life. Every young man should try to accumulate enough of this world’s goods to deliver him from those distressing cares and anx- 54 CHARACTEE ieties that wear out life, and that sense of dependence on the favor of others which impairs self-respect. But beware, above all things, of that base passion for money which is the root of all evil. If you have set your heart upon get- ting rich, if you have determined that at any cost you will he rich, the chances are that you will succeed. I never knew a man whose whole soul was possessed by greed for gain who didn’t get, it. If you are willing that every faculty of your mind, that every emotion of your heart, shall stoop to the low level of this one base desire, if you are will- ing to be rich and despised and mean, you can succeed. There was once a man walking along the highway who 55 CHARACTER found a coin lying in the dirt, and ever afterwards throughout the course of a long life as he walked along the road he kept his eyes upon the dirt, hoping to find another coin. The flow- ers that bloomed by the wayside, the rippling waters, the singing birds, the pleasant meadows, the fair waving 1 trees, were all lost to him; and when at last he died, a rich old man with a chest full of gold, he had never seen anything of this fair and beautiful world except a dirty road in which to pick up dirty money. Above all things, young gentlemen, put your whole soul into your work. '‘Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might.” Be earnest. All things are possible for a man who 56 CHARACTER is in earnest. There was an old su- perstition that if the hunter would dip the point of his arrow in his own blood, it would go unerringly to the mark. If you wish your thought, your pur- pose, your etforts, to succeed, let them he dipped, as it were, in the very blood of your heart. A man of moderate tal- ents, but who is in dead earnest, is an overmatch for cunning, for talent, for genius itself. If you have prepared your minds and nerved your hearts to meet the world, you will find work and opportunity in abundance. There never was a time m.ore propitious for intellectual achieve- ment than now. The world has out- lived the last vestige of that tyranny over the mind which for centuries nar- 57 CHARACTER rowed and confined the range of intel- lectual freedom. The minds of men have at last overpowered their keepers. Thought is no longer the bondman of dogma, no longer servant of kings, no longer a patient ass for the priest to ride. It is a fearless knight errant, ex- ploring every nook and corner of the world of knowledge and lifting its keen lance against the most cherished faiths and traditions of the past. There is no longer a tree of knowledge whose fruit we are forbidden to eat, no longer a sacred ground whose precincts we are forbidden to enter. There are those who tremble at the licentious freedom of modern inquiry; and we may in- deed deplore that lack of reverence for old faiths and traditions which is the CHARACTEE great anchor of popular government. But we may pardon something to the spirit of liberty and need never fear for cause of truth. The licentiousness of modem thought is like a stream which, having burst the artificial har- riers which long impeded its course, pours forth a devastating tide until, having wasted its flood, it sinks again into its channel, and, with steady flow and even current, moves onward to the sea. Finally, let me remind you that you have not only a life to live, hut a soul to save. Many young men seem to think it evidence of intellectual freedom to question the traths of the Bible or the existence of a divine Providence. I dispute no man’s freedom of opinion. 59 CHARACTER though why any one should he willing to believe that man has no preeminence above a beast I do not know. You say that you cannot believe the miracle of the resurrection. Let me tell you the story of a greater miracle than that. It is the story of a poor peasant, a member of a despised and subject race, himself despised, the very place of his birth despised, even by his own countrymen. With a few ignorant fol- lowers he went forth to teach. There was nothing in his gospel attractive to the carnal man. So far as this world was concerned, poverty and self-sacri- fice, scorn and contumely, persecution, strife, and death, were all that he of- fered to his followers. He never wrote a line except some forgotten words 60 CHARACTEE which he traced with his finger upon the sand. He scattered his precepts abroad and left them to memories of men. In a little while he died a fel- on’s death, and all the world about him forgot that he had ever lived. Yet somehow his words lived on. Philoso- phy, with all its wisdom; priestcraft, with all its terrors; kings wielding the iron power of all the world, united to resist and to destroy the strange, mys- terious power which this dead peasant had left behind him in the world. But over armies, over empires, over dying dynasties and crumbling thrones, through rivers of blood and seas of fire, that power swept on and on until it had made conquest of the earth, until every king on every throne hows in ad- CHARACTEE oration to the dead peasant of Gialilee, and the very instmment of his felon’s death has become the symbol of salva- tion to all mankind. Do you believe that story? It is, to me, the story of a greater miracle than that a man died and arose again from the dead. Young gentlemen, he not you among those who scolf at religion, which is the last hope of the world, whose consolation you yourself will need in the time of affliction and in the hour of death. “ When ranting round in pleasure’s ring, Religion may be blinded. Or if she gie a random sting, It may be little minded; But when on life we’re tempest driven, A conscience but a canker, A correspondence fixed wi’ heaven Is sure a noble anchor.” 62 CHARACTER And now, ladies, I nmst not close withont a word to you. Woman is happily exempt from most of the grosser temptations that beset her brother man, and nature has endowed her with a spirit of reverence and of faith which comforts and sustains where the courage of man would falter and his strength would fail. However vain and frivolous she may seem, to nearly every woman there comes with wifehood and motherhood a deep sense of responsibility and consecration to duty. It has been said that the world knows nothing of its greatest men. It surely knows nothing of its greatest women. They are around and about us, in cottage and in hovel, where the 63 CHARACTEE lean hand of poverty breaks the ashen crust, and in the stateliest homes of luxury and pride. When a man’s dreams have vanished and his Lopes have died, he is apt to become a hater of the world and of his kind. The woman can sit amid the wreck and ruin of her vanished castles in the air with a heart warmed by love and sustained by faith. There are among the humblest women in the humblest homes examples of a diviner heroism than that of Joan of Arc when she led her mail-clad war- riors to battle; of heroines, all uncon- scious of their heroism, who walked with bleeding feet the stony paths of martyrdom, unseen, unknown, and un- praised of men. 64 CHARACTEE And do not imagine that you must wait for marriage to find the duties and responsibilities of life. Men to-day are as responsive, for good or for evil, to the influence of woman as when knighthood was in flower. Many a man has been led by woman’s wiles into the jaws of death and the mouth of hell, and many a man has turned from the downward path of death to follow the shining raiment of the pure woman he loved until they passed through glory’s morning gate and walked in paradise. Ladies and gentlemen, it is not the throned and sceptered king, it is not the dark statesman with his midnight lamp, it is not the warrior grimed with smoke and stained with blood; it is the queen of the home who under God 65 CHAEACTER rules the destinies of mankind. There is the center from which radiates the light that never fails. I say to you that the sweetest wisdom of this world is a woman’s counsel, and the purest altar from which human prayer ever went to heaven is a mother’s knee. 66 Date Due P.5-.W 1] uioT A Quat'^ ' J"i!3’aiit Oct'V^’40 ' 1 1 m^i .11 1 M. 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