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INTERNATIONAL EDUCATION SERIES LETTERS TO A MOTHER ON THE PHILOSOPHY OF FKOEBEL SUSAN E. BLOW AUTHOR OF SYMBOLIC EDUCATION, MOTTOES AND COMMENTARIES OF FROEBEL'S MOTHER FLAY, ETC. NEW YORK D. APPLETON AND COMPANY 1899 Copyright, 1899, By D. APPLETON AND COMPANY. Electrotyped and Printed at the appleton press, u. s. a. TO MY SISTER LIZZIE CHAKLESS AND MY NIECE ATHENA FEODOKOVNA, THROUGH WHOSE BRIEF BUT BEAUTIFUL LIVES I LEARNED TO REVERE IDEAL CHILDHOOD, THIS BOOK IS TENDERLY DEDICATED. EDITOR'S PREFACE. Feoebel seizes the rudimentary activities in the child's mind and discovers means of exercising them so as to educate them by development. He makes a systematic series of plays and games which point prophetically forward to the civilization which re- veals itself in adult occupations. The theory of evolution explains each faculty and habit of man by pointing back to some violence or danger against which the animal aroused all its energies to protect itself. The faculty or habit is a survival of that struggle. Modern educational theory sometimes borrows evolution to explain men- tal activities, and sometimes it supposes that it has thrown light upon methods of instruction when it has shown an activity to be the heir of a supersti- tion which arose through some physical evil in a remote epoch — for example, when it has shown viii LETTEES TO A MOTHER. that some religious doctrine is likewise a reminis- cence of some ancient fear of Nature or some ordi- nance of the patriarchal stage of society. This evo- lution theory in education has one great defect — namely, that it does not discriminate between that class of present activities which are survivals and slowly becoming dormant through non-exercise, and on the other hand those activities which had rude beginnings and imperfectly realized their pur- pose, but have been perfecting themselves more and more with the progress of human civilization. Ac- cording to the former diagnosis the belief in a God would be the survival of an ancient superstition, of the patriarchal family ordinance, or ancestor wor- ship, while according to the latter it would be the result of the growth of man's insight into the pur- pose of Nature and man and the necessity of presup- posing an Absolute Reason to explain the world of evolution in which we live. To show that something is a survival is to dis- credit it. To show that it had a rude beginning, but has progressed onward to a divine realization is to make it precious. Human life points forward as well as backward in evolution. There is not only the vanishing pro- EDITOR'S PREFACE. i x cess which appertains to crude conditions which have been outlived, but also a process of develop- ment by which " good is educed from evil, and good is made better yet in infinite progression." This latter view is the guiding insight for educa- tion; it looks upon the child as the father of the man. Love of life and freedom is not a survival of a crude and violent life experience in prehistoric times, but it is the primordial instinct that has cre- ated the long succession of progressive human con- ditions, crowning the whole with a Christian civili- zation : Striving to be man, the worm Mounts through all the spires of form. The object of the present book is to explain in language addressed to the general public the phi- losophy of Froebel. Its author finds it necessary for this purpose to take up the most important doc- trines one after the other as they were developed in the Mutter und Kose Lieder, and show their equiva- lents in the different systems of thought that pre- vail. In some cases these systems are in harmony with Froebel, and in other cases there is profound disagreement. It is well for all students of the kin- dergarten to deepen their knowledge of his prin- x LETTERS TO A MOTHEE. ciples by seeing their ultimate consequences and understanding how they apply to practical ques- tions in the instruction of the young. The teacher ought to he able to understand things in their causes and reasons, and not rely too much upon mere au- thority. The importance of this will be readily understood by those who have seen in recent years the unprofitable experiments made by kindergart- ners who have only partially understood Froebel, and who have been easily caught by some plausible doctrine brought forward as an improvement, but which is really at variance with the true theory of the kindergarten as well as with that of all sound pedagogy. The readers of the discussions in this book will readily concede that the exposition of the results of the theory of the kindergarten, and also the defense of its practice as against systems that conflict with it, are presented with a clearness and force new in the literature of the subject. In this respect as well as in many others this book is most timely. Froebel's doctrine of the kindergarten stands or falls with that theory of symbolism which teaches that truth can be presented in other ways than in the scientific form. It holds that the first stages EDITOR'S PREFACE. x j of cognition deal largely with symbols, and that only with the increasing power of analysis does the mind become able to discriminate differences as well as perceive identities. A vague perception of same- ness or identity is all that the child can attain to. But when the object is brought accurately into the focus of the mind the definition grows toward com- pleteness. The first stage of the development of the soul, therefore, is that in which feeling pre- dominates over intellect and will. In order to make clear how the earlier stage of the mind differs from the later I have often found it convenient to illustrate it by explaining the dif- ference between mere facts, typical facts, and prin- ciples. Each fact depends on other facts. Every- thing depends on its environment. If we come to investigate what a fact really is, therefore, we see extending on all sides of it long series of relations and dependencies. A fact taken out of its relations would be no fact at all, or at least only an empty form of a fact. It is not sufficient to place us before the reality and expect that we shall know it ade- quately and without effort. That is the mistake of those who believe in perception rather than in ap- perception. Perception sees only what is externally xii LETTERS TO A MOTHER. presented in the object before it. Apperception not only sees the object, but explains it by thinking it in the light of its past history and in its dependency upon distant objects not in the field of perception, thus re-enforcing the experience of the present mo- ment by placing it in relation to all past experience. In seizing a fact, everything depends on how large a portion of its entire compass is reached. The illustration of Isaac Newton and the apple has been often used to make this clear. Newton's per- ception may have been the same as that of the do- mestic animal who ran to devour the apple when it fell. But his apperception was altogether differ- ent. The animal saw only the practical and useful fact that the apple was good to eat and had come within his reach. Newton saw in the fall of the apple the cause acting as the law of gravity, which impelled the apple to the earth and also caused the movement of the moon which he noticed in the sky as he looked up through the branches of the apple tree. The animal had a practical, useful common sense, but it did not give him true knowledge. For the fact of the fall of the apple was not the whole fact. The true fact was much larger than the ani- mal saw, for the fact included this great law of EDITOR'S PREFACE. x iii gravity and the movements taking place according to it in the starry heavens. Without other attract- ing bodies than the apple there would have been no gravitation to cause any movement of falling. A fact as usually observed is only a partial truth — it is a little glimpse of the true reality, it is a symbolic object of knowledge. Such a fact be- comes truth only when it is seen in its scientific principle. Then we see the great whole of which the fact is only a partial manifestation. The animal senses alone do not see the truth, but only a small phase of it, as inadequate as the particular grass blade under our feet would be if it were offered to us as the reality of the whole vegetable world. The law of the fact states what is true under all circum- stances. Midway between facts and principles are typical facts. These are what art and poetry use. The natural symbolism of the mind uses such facts to best advantage. The typical fact is one so complete that it illustrates almost all of the phases of the law or principle. Each fact gives some phases of the law but not all, and is therefore defective. The typical fact should contain all phases. Art and poetry in giving to facts the form of xiv LETTERS TO A MOTHER. types make for us a series of permanent facts. These facts of poetry do not have such historic reality as particular events or individuals have, but a deeper one, inasmuch as they present for us a more correct general impression. Shakespeare's his- torical plays give us an account of the development and growth of the English nation from a mere de- pendency of France and Rome to a mighty nation with a national church and a powerful House of Commons. No history yet written shows us the essentials — the typical facts — like these historical plays of Shakespeare. So, too, a novel of Charles Kingsley or of Walter Scott, of Felix Dahn or Sienkiewicz, may give us the true picture of an historic epoch, while the historian's account may be far from adequate, through its failure to seize the motives of the actors. The mythical epoch of a nation's history fur- nishes symbols of theoretical and moral truths. The Prose Edda in recounting the events of Thor's journey to Utgard presents in an interesting way the doctrine above discussed of the inadequacy of facts merely perceived and not apperceived. Thor was told to lift a cat which he saw in the corner of the room. As he lifted the animal it EDITOR'S PREFACE. xv arched its back and he could not reach high enough to raise all the feet clear of the floor. It was later explained to him by the giant that this cat was a coil of the world serpent which holds the world to- gether. At one time Thor had succeeded in lift- ing one of the feet from the floor. Had he lifted all the feet the world serpent would have lost his grip and the world would have gone to pieces. Thor was told to drink a beaker of mead, but with all his efforts (and Thor was a famous drinker) he could not drain the cup. The explanation subse- quently made to him was that the beaker which ap- peared to him as only a small cup was so connected with the sea that had he emptied it he would have emptied the sea. Every fact is like the world ser- pent in that in its entire compass it involves all the other facts of the world, and without a connecting principle all these facts go to pieces in chaotic con- fusion. Every fact is, like the beaker of mead, con- nected with a sea of facts, all of which must be com- prehended if we truly comprehend the single fact. "W. T. Harris. Washington, D. C, January 12, 1899. 2 AUTHOR'S PREFACE. The preface to Symbolic Education contains a promise of which the present volume is a partial fulfillment, although upon further reflection I have abandoned my original plan of publication. All kindergartners who love and appreciate the Mother- Play will realize that it needs more extended com- ment than that plan provided for, and will, I hope, accept this book as an attempt to show how each motto, song, and commentary should be studied. As these letters may fall into the hands of some readers not familiar with the Mother-Play, it seems well to mention that they deal with comparatively few of the subjects discussed in that remarkable book. They will do most good to those in whom they quicken a resolution to master not only the Mother-Play, but all the works of Froebel. There is an old superstition that no arrow goes straight to its mark unless it has been dipped in the xvii Xtiii LETTERS TO A MOTHER. marksman's blood. The study of the Mother-Play has taught me truths through which, had I known them when I most needed them, I might have avoided many errors and been spared much sorrow. With the hope that my book may help others to avoid my own mistakes, I commit it to the generous judgment of readers, many of whom are already my friends. Susan E. Blow. Avon, December 21, 1898. CONTENTS. LETTER PAGE I. — Heart insight 1 II. — Self-making 35 III. — Prom wind to spirit 67 IV. — Making by unmaking 91 V. — Heaven's first law 127 VI. — The revelation of sense ..... 167 VII. — The soul of the flower 209 VIII. — The discovery of life . . ... 243 IX. — A prophecy of freedom 281 six LETTERS TO A MOTHER. LETTER I. HEABT INSIGHT. FALLING! FALLING! MOTTO. A game to strengthen the whole body. All a mother does or says Is inspired by thoughtful love. "Falling! felling!" she is playing, But her hand the fall is staying, So her love to prove. To her child her life is given, Thought, and word, and deed, and prayer ; And her hold, an instant broken, To his mind is but a token Of her constant care. Soon her arms must loose their hold, Not, as now, in pretty play — Keeping still their circle round him, That no jar or fright may wound him — But for all the day. And for this, her thought and love Must his little life prepare ; Teaching first how she is needed, That through her fond cautions heeded He may learn self-care. Henrietta E. Eliot. 2 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. SONG. • Down goes baby, Mother's pet ; Up comes baby, Laughing yet. Baby well may laugh at harm, While beneath is mother's arm. Down goes baby, Without fear ; Up comes baby, Gayly here. All is joy for baby while In the light of mother's smile. Emilie Poulbson. Your letter, dear old friend, is in the impera- tive mood. You set my duty so clearly before me that I dare neither evade nor postpone it. So here begins the first of a series of letters upon the Mother-Play. Others shall follow as fast as I have time and strength to write them. I hope they may aid you to bring up my godson in the way he should go, and I shall also try to make them helpful to your sister Helen in her work with the children in her kindergarten. As I write, I seem to see you and your dear little Harold before me, and recollections of my last long visit to you crowd upon my mind. Do you remember the morning you made your first ex- periment with the Falling Game, and how happy HEART INSIGHT. 3 you were when, after a few repetitions of the play, your boy's look of fear and anxiety changed to one of delight? Do you remember for how many weeks the minutes devoted to this game were the live- liest of our day; how after a time Master Harold found the Falling Play tame, and reserved his crows of delight for the Tossing Game, and how, without a sign of fear, he would let his papa toss him high in the air? Do you remember his advance from the Tossing Game to the Jumping Game, and with what confidence he sprang from the high mantle into your outstretched arms? If these pictures stand out in your memory as they do in mine, they will interpret the first scene in Iroebel's drama of infancy far better than it can be interpreted by any words. Indeed, all that Froebel ever asks of mothers is to watch their own instinctive play, and define to themselves its latent motives.* Ask yourself, therefore, what impulse incited you to play the Falling Game. Was it not a long- * The reader must not understand that I am recommend- ing mothers to play the Jumping and Tossing games, both of which are dangerous for babies. I refer to them in order to show that maternal instinct has always played upon the strings which Froebel touches in the Falling Game. He has selected the one play of this type which is free from danger. 4 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. ing to speed the moment when Harold should look into your face with recognizing eyes, when faith should spring up in his heart to meet the love in yours, and when the physical union between you and your baby should be transfigured into a union of hearts? Answer these questions, and then read in Froebel's song the lines: " Baby well may laugh at harm While beneath is mother's arm," and you will hold in your thought the key to the Falling Game. Some of the many doors this key unlocks I shall try to show you in this letter. It has interested me to observe that, differing in this respect from every other game in the book, Falling-Tailing implies no manifestation of the child as its point of departure, but springs unso- licited from the mother's heart. Love working from above downward is the condition of faith striving from below upward, and Froebel is hint- ing at rich depths of thought and experience when he begins his book with the picture of ma- ternal devotion outrunning all appeal and seeking to call forth an answer to itself. Understood as a typical experience, the lesson of HEART INSIGHT. 5 the Falling Game is that the nurture of childhood must be rooted and grounded in faith. If this truth seem to you so self-evident that you doubt the ne- cessity of stating it, look within and around you, and you will find that every day and every hour force upon you instances of its violation. Do you know no parents who attempt to guide their chil- dren by explaining and justifying their own com- mands? Do you not know others who rule by mere brute force? Can you deny that you are yourself constantly betrayed into adopting one or the other of these false and futile methods? Are you clearly conscious that the method of force means to its vic- tims a life oscillating between slavery and anarchy, while the method of explanation fosters irreverence and conceit, and is practically an appeal to the igno- rant and inexperienced child to sit in judgment upon the actions of his parents? According to Kousseau, the method of appeal to childish reason was the one upheld by Locke. It may be questioned whether in this matter he did justice to the English reformer, but his strictures upon the method itself are admirable. "Mr. Locke's maxim," he writes, " was to educate chil- dren by reasoning with them, and it is that which 6 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. is now most in vogue. The success of it, however, doth not appear to recommend it, and, for my own part, I meet with no children so silly and ridiculous as those with whom much argument hath been held. Of all the faculties of man, that of reason, which is, in fact, only a compound of all the rest, unfolds it- self the latest, and with the greatest difficulty; and yet this is what we would make use of to develop the first and easiest of them. The great end of a good education is to form a reasonable man, and we pretend to educate a child by the means of reason! This is beginning where we should leave off, and making an implement of the work we are about." The antithesis to government by argument and explanation is government by force, and, as I have said, parents who avoid the former error are often betrayed into the latter. In like manner Rousseau, reacting against Locke, announces as the first prin- ciple of control that the child " be made sensible that he is weak and you are strong, and that from your situation and his he lies necessarily at your mercy. Let him know this fact, and early feel on his aspiring crest the hard yoke Nature hath im- posed on man. By this method you will render his HEART INSIGHT. 7 disposition patient, equable, resigned, and peace- able." From the ninety degraded children whom he mothered at Stanz the gentle Pestalozzi learned that not in force and not in appeals to reason, but in quickening faith must be sought the point of con- tact between the nurturing and the nurtured life. His experience is a classic one in the history of educational reform, and from its theoretical outcome, as given in his most important book, How Gertrude Teaches her Children, I have often thought Froebel may have received the impulse which flowered into the Mother-Play. But be this as it may, the Palling Game condenses into one re- vealing example the whole range of experience de- scribed by Pestalozzi, and defining to the mother her own elemental impulse enables her to discover consciously the true point of departure for the nur- ture of childhood. Faith presupposes experience. Baby is fright- ened when he begins to play the Falling Game; he learns to trust the mother's arm because he finds it strong. In like manner he must learn to trust her wisdom and her love. He can not believe in them if they do not exist; he can only half believe them 8 LBTTEES TO A MOTHER. if they are inconsistent and vacillating. Hence Froebel's insistence upon the need of a mother's be- ing all she would have her children believe her to be, and the solemn warnings which he introduces into his commentaries on Beckoning the Pigeons, and the Knights and the Bad Child. We fail to inspire faith because we fail to deserve it, and a regenerate motherhood is the one indispensable con- dition of a regenerate childhood. If you can win and hold Harold's faith, you will find that you have practically solved the problem of nurture. For if he trusts you he will obey you; he will hide nothing from you; he will not resent your punishments, and when he asks you questions whose true answers are beyond his comprehension he will humbly accept your simple statement that they can not be explained to him until he is older. The conversation between mother and child iu Froebel's commentary on the Weathervane is con- ceived in this spirit, and presupposes a firmly teth- ered cord of faith. While the Falling Song accentuates trust in the mother, the motto and commentary expressly state that the object of the game is the nurture and devel- opment of force. Is there then a contradiction be- HEART INSIGHT. 9 tween the song and the commentary, and if not, what is the tie which binds together the seemingly contradictory statements? Look again into your own heart, and observe if it be not always faith which inspires the effort through which strength is won. If the answer is not conclusive, seek the ver- dict of that larger experience of which your own is but a fragment. Kecall those heart-inspired words, " Frederick, is God dead? " with which old Sojourner Truth revived the dying courage of Fred Douglass. Remind yourself of the noblest motto which has sprung from our national system of uni- versal suffrage : " One with God is a majority." Send your imagination backward through the cen- turies and call forth the image of the great de- fender of Christian truth defying triumphant heresy with the words " Athanasius against the world! " Remember how hordes of faithless Chris- tians fled before Saracen armies inspired by the words of the Koran: " O true believers, if ye assist God in fighting for his religion he will assist you against your enemies." Picture Luther summoned to the Diet of Worms, warned by anxious friends to disobey the summons, declaring stoutly, " "Were there as many devils in "Worms as there are roof 10 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. tiles I would on," and revealing the secret of his courage in his paraphrase of the 46th Psalm. Listen to the Huguenots singing as they march into battle, " The truth of the Lord endureth forever," and hear the same words shouted by Cromwell and his soldiers at Dunbar. Ask yourself why the an- cient Israelites and the English Puritans are the most resolute and unyielding personalities known to history, and read the answer written in their every word and deed that it was because they be- lieved themselves to be fighting with and for the eternal and unconquerable Power "which makes for righteousness." The secret of strength is always the same, and the very words of our Falling Song, " Baby well may laugh at harm While beneath is mother's arm," are but one feeble echo of the faith which has nerved the heroes of all ages: "The eternal God is thy refuge, and underneath are the everlasting arms." V Froebel had insight into the " fine secret that' little explains large and large little." Hence he discerned how the child out of weakness is made strong. The Falling, Jumping, Tossing Games HEART INSIGHT. n are baby's first acts of faith. Waxing faith nerves him to totter toward his mother's outstretched arms. Later it is again faith which inspires him to attempt the task she believes he can do, and attack the prob- lem she believes he can solve. Trusting her trust in him he puts forth all his strength, and through faith-inspired effort wins strength and self-reliance. It is one of the happy paradoxes of spirit that without dependence there can be no independence, and that precisely in proportion to our faith will be our intellectual and moral activity. All indi- vidual relationships and all corporate life rest upon pillars of faith. Children must trust parents, the husband must trust his wife, friend must trust friend, we must all trust the tradesman with whom we deal, the corporations and officials upon whose care depends our safety in travel, the physician to whose integrity, skill, and devotion we appeal in illness, the lawyer to whom we submit vexed ques- tions of justice; the economic system upon which depends the fair participation of each man in the labor of all men; the government which orders and protects other institutions; the church, which dis- cerns, declares, and develops in individual con- sciousness the ideals which have created our special 12 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. type of family life, our forms of civil society, and our republican state. You need only recall our studies of Dante to re- vive your realizing sense of the truth that faith is the beating heart of the body corporate. What a revelation it was to us when we understood why the circles of fraud were placed lower in the Inferno than the circles of violence ! Were robbery, tyran- ny, murder, suicide really less heinous offences than flattery, hypocrisy, thieving, simony, and political prostitution? Was fraud so hateful to God because it "dissevers the bond of love which Nature makes," and striking at combination breaks the tie that unites the world? Was treachery the blackest of sins because it not only loosed the tie of universal brotherhood, but sundered the closer and more spiritual cords woven by free choices of the will? Was all sin in essence the attack of will upon will, and was violence a sin of less degree than fraud be- cause its attack was merely external? Was fraud the slaughter of will by will, the murder of spirit by spirit? Conversely, if faith were the living cord which bound all individuals into one great human- ity, and made possible the hierarchy of human insti- tutions, was not the nurture of faith the beginning HEART INSIGHT. 13 of all true education, and was it not tlie prime duty of the educator to win faith by deserving it? You will remember how with whole hearts we learned to affirm these truths as we studied the great poet who has painted every deed of man in the perspective of its consequences, but I think you will agree with me that we did not in those old days fully realize that faith in fellowmen is as necessary to our intellectual as it is to our ethical life. How very few of the myriad objects in the world does any one individual have the opportunity to per- ceive! How misleading must be his perceptions even of these numerically insignificant objects un- less by comparing his own results with those of others he learns to subtract the errors and exaggera- tions he has unwittingly contributed. A child's un- guided examination of the simplest object will al- most invariably center about non-essential quali- ties, and leading him to search for essential qualities simply means that you are helping him to correct his own perceptions, by the perceptions and re- flections of others. We depend upon reports of our fellowmen for by far the greater part of our knowledge of sensible objects, and it is also through our fellows that we learn to perceive aright even 14 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. the few with which we come into immediate con- tact. Unless we believed their reports we should not try to verify them. So rising to higher planes of mental activity it is because we believe that men are able to draw from experience valid inferences, and to discover beneath experience valid presup- positions, that we exert our powers of understand- ing and strive to recreate their insights. In their light we see light, and through seeing our intel- lectual eye grows strong. Evidently, therefore, faith is both the condition of mental enlargement and the source of mental activity.* The dialectic of faith forces us to higher planes of thought, and I want you now to consider that the active pursuit of knowledge has a root deeper even than trust in f ellowmen. Have you ever won- dered why Asia has no science? or connected this defect with the fact that to the Oriental mind Na- ture is Maia or illusion — a phenomenon without a noumenon, a manifestation without any essence which it manifests? The apparent universe is only an evil dream. Why, then, give oneself the trouble to learn anything aboiit it. Rather let the * Psychologic Foundations of Education, by W. T. Harris, Int. Edu. Series, pp. 74, 75. HEAET INSIGHT. 15 devout mind waken from its nightmare and learn the restful truths that Brahma is nothingness and Nirvana extinction. We owe to Professor Huxley a candid admis- sion of the fact that all science presupposes belief in the reality and intelligibility of Nature. In his view, " the one act of faith in the convert to science is confession of the universality of order, and the absolute validity in all times and under all circum- stances of the law of causation." Differently stated, we search for law and order in Nature be- cause we believe they will be found there, and to believe that law and order exist in Nature is im- plicitly to affirm that Nature is the product of an ordering intelligence. Sir John Herschel once said, " It is but reasonable to regard the force of gravita- tion as the direct or indirect result of a conscious- ness or will existing somewhere." His remark ap- plies not only to all forces, but to all laws which are really only the forms under which forces act, and unless we are ready to admit that scienec is merely a " lucid madness occupied in tabulating its own necessary hallucinations," we must recog- nize in the outer world the expression of an outer mind. All poetry, art, and philosophy imply the 16 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. same truth, and it was because Greece attained first to the faith and later to the insight that there is a personal core to the universe, that she became the fountain head of these highest forms of spiritual activity. I have said nothing about faith as the prompt- ing motive of religion, both because in this sphere its paramount importance is generally admitted, and because I believe that by recognizing its power in other domains of life we shall the more readily understand why without faith it is impossible to please God. Is there a keener stab than distrust, and if we who merit only partial faith are so hurt by doubt what must He feel who alone is worthy of absolute confidence? God has been called "the great Misunderstood," and we begin to comprehend His eternal cross and passion when we reflect that every doubt is a mortal thrust at the heart of love. I said in the beginning of this letter that faith presupposes experience. I must now add that it is a generous venture of the soul beyond experience. It is the divination of a secret of which all ex- perience is but a partial disclosure. It is the active instinct of sonship and brotherhood. It is heart insight, an impulsive leap of the individual toward HEART INSIGHT. 17 the universal spirit, and by its very nature it points toward the perfect communion of man with man and of humanity with God. It is the afferent and efferent nerve of the soul — the electric line over which spiritual life is both communicated and dis- charged. Waxing faith means a heightened recep- tivity to inflowing divinity — waning faith means the rupture of the individual from his own abysmal self, and hence the shrinkage of his powers and the shriveling of his life. Do you see whither my letter is tending? If faith is the miracle by which the soul invades the realm of miracles, if it is the core of love and friendship, if it incites activity, develops force, and creates heroes, if it originates "and sustains in- stitutions and is the antecedent condition of litera- ture, science, art, and religion, if, finally, it seeks and justifies its own presuppositions in philosophy, then may it not be because the little child possesses in larger measure than the man that ardor of trust which overleaps the strict bounds of evidence that we are enjoined to learn from him how to enter the kingdom of heaven, and conversely, must not the terminus ah quo of child nurture be sought in that primordial impulse of motherhood which seeks 18 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. to awaken faith? It seems to me Pestalozzi and Froebel have given no higher proof of their wisdom than in their recognition of this impulse as the point of departure for education, and if you will bear with a very long letter I should like to give you Pestalozzi's insight in his own touching words: " I am unwilling to bring these letters to an end without touching on what I may call the keystone of my whole system. Is the love of God encour- aged by these principles, which I hold to be the only sound basis for the development of humanity? " Once again I look into my own heart for an answer to my question, and ask myself: ' How does the idea of God take root in my soul? Whence comes it that I believe in God, that I abandon my- self to Him, and feel happy when I love Him and trust Him, thank Him and obey Him? ' " Then I soon see that the sentiments of love^ trust, gratitude, and obedience must first exist in my heart before I can feel them for God. I must love men, trust them, thank them, and obey them, before I can rise to loving, thanking, trusting, and obeying God. ' For he who loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how shall he love his Father in heaven, whom he hath not seen? ' HEART INSIGHT. 19 " I next ask myself, ' How is it that I come to love men, to trust them, to thank them, and obey them? How do these sentiments take root in my heart? ' And I find that it is principally through the relations which exist between a mother and her infant child. " The mother must care for her child, feed it, protect it, amuse it. She can not do otherwise; her strongest instincts impel her to this course. And so she provides for its needs, and in every pos- sible way makes up for its powerlessness. Thus the child is cared for and made happy, and the first seed of love is sown within him. " Presently the child's eyes fall on something he has never yet seen; seized with wonder and fear, he utters a cry; his mother presses him to her bosom, plays with him, diverts his attention, and his tears cease, though his eyes long remain wet. Should the unfamiliar object be seen again, the mother shelters the child in her arms, and smiles at him as before. This time, instead of crying, he answers his mother's smile by smiling himself, and the first seed of trust is sown. " His mother runs to his cradle at his least sign; if he is hungry, she is there; if thirsty, she satisfies 20 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. him; when he hears her step, he is content; when he sees her, he stretches out his hand and fastens his eyes upon her bosom; to him his mother' and the satisfaction of his hunger are one and the same thing; he is grateful. " These germs of love, trust, and gratitude soon develop. The child knows his mother's step; he smiles at her shadow; he loves whatever is like her; a creature of the same appearance as his mother is, in his eyes, a good creature. Those whom his mother loves, he loves; those whom she kisses, he kisses. This smile at the likeness of his mother is a smile at humanity, and the seed of brotherly love, the love of his fellowmen, is sown. " Such are the first elements of moral develop- ment awakened by a mother's relations with her infant. They are also the elements of religious de- velopment, and it is by faith in its mother that the child rises to faith in God." Credo ut intelligam, wrote St. Anselm, and his confession not only suggests the process by which religious truth is apprehended, but has a range of meaning coextensive with our entire spiritual activ- ity. Again applying the fine secret that little ex- HEART INSIGHT. 21 plains large and large little, we realize that out of the child's faith in his mother must spring aspira- tion for companionship with her, while on her side the yearning for her baby's trust deepens into yearning for her child's comprehension. You know that you can not be content with a blind obedience even though it be a loving obedience. As the physical union between you and Harold has been transfigured into emotional union, so you de- mand that this unity of feeling shall deepen into unity of thought, and heart insight ripen into the insight of intellect. Tour earlier effort was di- rected toward making your baby physically self- reliant in order that you might win the higher de- pendence of faith; now your effort must be directed toward making your boy intellectually and morally self-reliant in order that you may realize in him that highest dependence of comprehending sym- pathy which is the goal of spiritual intercourse. That Froebel has well understood you he proves by showing you, in the concluding paragraph of his Commentary, how you may aid your boy to become master of himself. Notice with what precision he attacks the defects which must be overcome before the child can be safely committed to his own care. 22 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. The skater tumbles because be is beedless; tbe cbild falls from bis sledge because bis eye is not sure, bis band not strong; tbe boy and girl drop goblet and plate because tbey are overanxious. In inattention, untrained powers, and anxiety mated with weakness, lie tbe sources of inability to rule oneself. Tbe tie between these several defects is obvious. Strength implies training, training im- plies attention, and whoso lacks strength must alternate between presumption and over-anxiety. Not only for tbe children, but for ourselves there is a mine of wisdom in these suggestions. Why are so many mothers and so many kindergartners wavering and inconsistent in conduct? Is it not because they are doubtful what they ought to do? Why are they thus doubtful? Because they lack insight? Why do tbey lack insight? Evidently because they have undertaken tbe most solemn and responsible duties with insufficient preparation. « One word more. Harold can not develop with- out trust in you, but neither can he develop as he ought unless you trust him. I do not mean that you should ignore his faults or exaggerate his merits, for this would only destroy his confidence in you. But I do mean that you should be alert to HEART INSIGHT. 2 3 recognize the utmost limit of his power and attain- ment, that you should let no cowardly fear deter you from granting him freedom to do and dare, and when you are forced to reprove and pun- ish him you should never fail to appeal from his actual to his ideal self. " Could there be," asks Thoreau, " an accident so sad as to be respected for something better than we are? " As applied to the actual self this question admits of only one answer, but it needs the supplementary question, " Could there be a greater incentive to effort than the gen- erous faith which expects of us to become better than we are? " This kind of trust the heavenly Father has in all his erring children; this kind of trust you must never fail to feel in your boy. When we understand that faith is the thrill of fellowship we are ready to pass from the aim of Froebel's first play to its method, and to observe by what process the mother wakens the slumbering feeling of trust. Remember we are studying a Falling Game. Notice in Froebel's Commentary the twice repeated statement that the child shall fall with sufficient force to experience a slight shock. He must feel his fall and have some vague instinct that he is slipping away from his mother's 24 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. care. Out of the fear born of this sense of with- drawn protection rises his joy in the assurance that a loving power watches over his fall and makes it safe. Life is a series of falls, and if it be regenerate life a series of rises out of falls. Eirst come the physical tumbles which must be suffered by each child as he learns to walk, run, climb, swim. Next in order are emotional falls into anger, greediness, and other sins of childish incontinence. With youth begin the intellectual falls into doubt of inherited creeds and defiance of traditional customs. Last of all come the dangerous falls of will, consciously and deliberately denying in act the truths accepted by thqught. Be- neath each height of attainment yawns a deeper and blacker chasm. Upon each loftier summit man is exposed to the danger of a more fatal fall. " The true glory of life," writes Goldsmith, " consists not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." " Jump up," you say to Harold when he has had a tumble, and laughingly kissing the spot that hurts, you divert him from the impulse to cry. When excessive excitement has betrayed him into bad temper, you help the little victim who is not able to help himself by attracting his attention HEART INSIGHT. 25 to some object — a flower, a star, a flying bird. When your boy reaches the age of arrogant self- assertion you will, if you are wise, be patient and forbear to meet challenge with authority. " Who never doubted never half believed," and just be- cause man is born to be self -limiting he must break down all made limits. By interpreting to Harold in childhood the falls of weakness, incontinence, and inattention, and in youth the falls born of presump- tion and of doubt, you will have done what lay in your power to save him from the final and fatal fall of those who refuse obedience to acknowledged obligation. And if at last (which God forbid) there come to you that bitterest of mortal pangs — the pang of knowing that one you have borne and nur- tured is deliberately false to the truth he can not deny — then in your own need recall the words with which you reassured your falling baby, and sit still in the inmost stronghold of the soul — the stronghold of confidence in that Infinite Power and Love which " Forges through swart arms of offence The silver seat of innocence." /To fall and to rise from his fall, such is in brief the history of man, and, since man must learn to 26 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. know himself, such is the ever-recurrent theme of literature. "What is the one story repeated in myri- ad forms in those mythic tales which are the first fruits of man's literary activity? Is it not the story of a princess carried off by a dragon, imprisoned, disfigured, despairing, but rescued at last by the all-conquering hero ? What is the Iliad but the fall and rise of Achilles? "What is the Odyssey but the fall and rise of Ulysses? "What creates the Inferno and Purgatorio but the fall of Lucifer? "Who fill the pit but sinners that have made all kinds of falls? "Who climb the mountain but sinners rising out of all kinds of falls? "What is portrayed in the dramas of iEschylus, Sophocles, Shakespeare, but the cir- cular sweep of the deed? "What is the new word of the last world-poet in his Faust? Is it not once again the fall and the rise, the deepest of all falls, that of the conscious spirit from itself, the closest of all reunions, the reunion of spirit with itself? " I know," says thought-weary Faust in bitterness of soul, " I know that nothing can be known." Wliat, then, is left but the pact with Mephistopheles ? But denial must in the end deny itself, and a pact with the denying spirit can end only in its own undoing. Hence the last world-poem must perforce repeat the HEART INSIGHT. 27 one great cycle of human experience, and urged by his genius its author has portrayed the cycle both in its earliest and its latest form. In the story of Margaret he draws with firm but tender hand the circle which sweeps from innocence, through sin and repentance, to holiness. In the career of Faust he paints with words that flame and burn the cycle of doubt, denial, aspiration, insight. Shall we try to understand why men forever re- peat the fact and the story of fall and rise? Shall we ask what power generates the spiritual curve, always sweeping away from, always returning to itself? "We hold in ourselves the clew to the mys- tery, and we shall find hereafter that it is the clew not only to this mystery but to all mysteries. The mark of man is reason; the mark of reason is self- consciousness; the nature of self -consciousness is to be subject-object, or, in other words, the subject knowing is the object known; the eternal history of consciousness is the oscillation from subject to ob- ject, and from object back to subject. " This," says Hegel, " is the soul of the world, the universal blood," which " pulsates within itself without mov- ing itself, and which vibrates within itself without ruffling its repose." Source of all conflicts, it is 4 28 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. forever at peace; author of all discords, it is the master musician by whom alone all discords are re- solved. Do you remember the description of infancy in Tennyson's In Memoriam? The baby new to earth and sky, What time his tender palm is prest Against the circle of the breast, Has never thought that " This is I." But as he grows he gathers much, And' learns the use of "I," and " me," And finds " I am not what I see, And other than the things I touch." So rounds he to a separate mind Prom whence clear memory may begin, As thro' the frame that binds him in His isolation grows defined. I have quoted these stanzas because they por- tray beautifully that incipient phase of life which Froebel calls the slumber period. It is the slum- ber of spirit because as yet the child lacks self-con- sciousness. He is one with all things because he has not learned to distinguish himself from them. As all physical life begins with a germ alike in tex- ture and in chemical composition, so spiritual life begins in an unconscious unity with self and the world. Physical growth is a process of continuous HEART INSIGHT. 29 differentiation and integration; spiritual life is a process of self-diremption and the re-integration of these self-produced differences into the unity of consciousness. In other words, the movement of spiritual life is from a unity which excludes dis- tinctions to a unity which includes and harmonizes all distinctions. Between these extremes is the storm and stress of life when distinctions are per- ceived but not harmonized, and when the self whose ideal nature is to be a unity in manifoldness wages with itself perpetual war. Within the heart are colliding impulses, within the intellect collid- ing ideas, within the will colliding aims and mo- tives. Prototype of heroes, this self knows no peace not won by fighting, neither may it ever lay down its arms, for each new victory is but the prelude to a more strenuous conflict. Scientists tell us of a struggle for life and a survival of the fittest. Ver- ily Nature is but the visible spectacle of the soul, and the keen and never-ending battle of life a masquerade of the eternal conflict of spirit. As man reveals and beholds himself in litera- ture and art, the child reveals and beholds himself in play. Strange, therefore, would it be, if in in- fantile games we should not find the short and 30 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. feeble oscillations of that pendulum of conscious- ness which sweeps at last beyond the infinite reaches of space and time. If our insight be a true one, children should play the fall and rise, the estrange- ment and return, nor should mother love fail to outrun the children and begin the revelation of the great human experience with the beginning of life. Conversely, if mothers and children fulfill this an- ticipation we should accept the fact as a fresh con- firmation of our thesis. Therefore once again search your own experience, and see if the Falling Game be not the first of a series of plays which sweep through infinitesimal circles of separation and reunion.* Kemember how the baby loves to hide * The following note from Miss Blanche Boardman suggests that in the thought underlying the Falling Game, we may find the explanation of a curious tendency often observed in chil- dren to inflict pain on some especially loved person or object : " Of all the many children in little Mary S.'s family ' An- nie Rooney,' a most dilapidated specimen of rag doll, is the most beloved. " The others, more respectable and dainty, are enjoyed as dolls, but upon Annie the little three-year-old mother pours out a wealth of love. " However, after a few moments of fondling and protesta- tions of ' mother's love,' the doll is often thrown violently on the floor, and apparently only to furnish an opportunity for renewed expressions and more earnest devotion on the child's part, as she takes the fallen baby in her arms again. HEART INSIGHT. 31 and to hear his mother wonder over and lament his absence, how, when somewhat older, he delights in the Cuckoo Game, which through the voice unites the hiding child with the seeking mother, and how " A family friend who is much interested in ' child -study ' has repeatedly watched this play and questioned its meaning. " For a student of the Mother-Play has it not a connection with the instinctive play of the mother, which gave rise to the Falling Game ? " I know a little boy, between two and three years of age, who treats his favorite doll precisely as Annie Eooney was treated by her child-mother. When I myself was a little girl, I used to enjoy keenly plays in which a younger child, to whom I was greatly attracted, was subjected to all kinds of ill treatment, and in which my role was that of deliverer and comforter. Even then I wondered why these plays gave me pleasure, but not until long afterward did I understand that I was enjoying both my own quickened sense of sympathy and protection and the faith with which the little sufferer turned to me as her deliverer. As I grew older I ceased inflicting pain or permitting its infliction for the sake of the pleasure felt in relieving it, but I was continually imagining those I loved as attacked by all kinds of dangers and sorrows, and myself as saving them from the former and comforting them in the latter. I refer to these experiences because they illus- trate one of the many perversions of an impulse which in its normal exercise is essential to our life as social beings. Do they not also in a measure explain why healthy happy chil- dren love to read, and sometimes to write, those morbid sto- ries in which the youthful hero or heroine is conducted through illness, orphanage, and cruel treatment to final joy ? When we have learned to make a wise appeal to the feelings which such stories arouse, we shall have done much to solve the problem of good literature for children. 32 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. countless are the traditional games from whose re- current theme of a beleaguered castle and a stolen bride Froebel caught the idea which he transfigured in The Knights and The Mother. Remember how anxiously Harold grasped his ear when you tugged at it and then professed to show it to him between your fingers; how his eye followed the ball which you playfully jerked by its string from his hand; how eagerly he hunted for a hidden but- ton; how tirelessly he took apart and put together the blocks you had shown him how to build into a cube. Then ponder your memories, and you will soon begin to realize that these infantile games are cast in the one mold of all spiritual activity. What, indeed, is self-consciousness but the play of the spirit with itself — the deliberate scattering of the wealth of thought for the purpose of rewinning it — the voluntary self-exile through which the soul makes itself everywhere at home. Speech, says George Eliot, is but broken light upon the depths of the unspoken. My aim in this letter has been to quicken in your mind a thought which must be created anew by each new thinker. "We can not paint physical motion either with pig- ments or with words, much less dare we hope to HEART INSIGHT. 33 paint the ceaseless motion of spirit. You must feel it, will it, know it in yourself. Then, and not till then, can you really understand why both the drama of history and the drama of infancy begin with the fall. LETTEK II. SELF-MAKING. PLAY WITH THE LIMBS. MOTTO. Watch a mother's answering play, When her happy baby kicks ! She will brace her hands to please him, Or in loving sort she'll tease him With her playful tricks. This is not mere fond caprice — God inspires the pretty strife ; She is leading a beginner Through the outer to the inner Of his groping life. Henrietta B. Eliot, song. Up and down, and in and out, Toss the little limbs about ; Kick the pretty dimpled feet — That's the way to grow, my sweet ! This way and that, With a pat-a-pat-pat, With one, two, three, For each little knee. By-and-by, in work and play, They'll be busy all the day ; Wading in the water clear, Running swift for mother dear. 35 36 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. So this way and that, With a pat-a-pat-pat, And one, two, three, For each little knee. Emily Huntington Milleb. Deak : Have you ever wondered at the helplessness of babies as contrasted with the pre- cocious independence of young animals? Have you ever asked why baby chickens can see, hear, run, scratch, scrape, and peck, and why, on the contrary, the human infant is born practically blind and deaf, is unable to balance his own head, and can neither grasp, hold, walk, stand, creep, nor sit? Knowing you, I am sure you have not only asked these ques- tions, but have read carefully the. answers given to them by Mr. Fiske in his many and lucid explana- tions of the meaning of infancy. You have learned from him the connection between the helplessness of babyhood and man's capacity for progress. You know that the mental life of animals is restricted to a few simple acts which, being repeated through- out the careers of individuals and of species, come to be performed easily and unconsciously. You un- derstand that because animals do very few things and do them often the nervous connections neces- sary for their performance are perfected and trans- SELF-MAKING. 37 mitted, and that consequently throughout the ani- mal world heredity is dominant and education im- possible. Finally, you know that the intellectual chasm which separates the lowest man from the highest animal is marked physically by increase of cerebral surface and by prolongation of the period of infancy, or, in other words, that increasing intel- ligence, increasing brain surface, and a lengthening infancy always go hand in hand. The reciprocal relation of these facts is obvious. With increase of cerebral surface comes increase in the amount of cerebral organization to be completed after birth, and hence an extension of the period of infancy. The extension of infancy in turn brings about increased versatility and plasticity, and produces a further enlargement of the cerebral area. Hence the lengthened and still lengthening period of human adolescence is the guaranty of a boundless capacity for progress. Another and not less important outcome of a long and feeble infancy is the birth of the moral sentiments. The helplessness of childhood calls forth in father and mother protective and self- denying impulses, while conversely the love and care of parents wakens in the heart of the child 38 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. responsive feelings of dependence and affection. Out of the rudimentary sympathies of infancy are developed later the sense of obligation and the idea of duty. The significance of this genetic evolution becomes apparent when we reflect that the ascent of humanity from the savage to the civilized state is marked on the one hand by increasing complexity of social organization, and on the other by a pro- gressive extension of the sense of moral obligation until it finally includes the whole brotherhood of man. The accounts of children who have become im- bruted by growing up among animals and apart from human beings illustrate the fact that the iso- lated individual does not become man. These chil- dren are said to have possessed great acuteness of sense, and to have shown cunning, skill, and en- durance in their search for food, but they ran on all fours, and were entirely without speech. One bleated like a sheep; another had a voice like a bear's; a third acted in all respects like a beast of prey. In all of them the brain was not only unde- veloped, but had so far lost its plasticity as to make any high grade of development impossible. The narratives of such forest and mountain children SELF-MAKING. 39 help us to realize that the infant achieves human- ity through his recoil against and assimilation of his spiritual environment. Pondering the facts to which I have briefly re- ferred, we begin to understand what deep meaning lurks in the contrast between the young animal and the young child. It means that the former is a made being, the latter a self-making being. It means that the animal is an isolated being, the child a social being. It means that the animal is imprisoned in hereditary tendencies and aptitudes, and that his whole life consists of reflex and in- stinctive actions monotonously repeated. It means that the infant is plastic and versatile, and hence that he is not the prisoner of the past, but the prophet of the future. It means that man is a teachable and improvable being, that evolution is apotheosized into education, that each indi- vidual must learn from all other individuals, and must in turn contribute his quota to the common store of human experience. Finally, it means that while the brute is irresponsible and mortal, man is responsible and immortal, for all perishable beings perish through defect, and the characteristic quality of humanity is pre- 40 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. cisely the ability to overcome defect. Hence the helplessness of the infant is the pledge of his dignity and the promise of his unlimited develop- ment.* Now for the relationship of these facts to nur- sery education. Since man is a social being he de- mands from the beginning of life the nurture of his sympathies. Since he is a self-making being he demands from the beginning of life the discipline of his energies. In our study of the Tailing Song we traced the genesis of faith, which is one of the primitive expressions of sympathy. In the Play with the Limbs, which is to be the subject of this letter, we shall find a disclosure of the process by which ener- gy is incited and disciplined. The former play sug- gests the general type of all efforts to nurture sym- pathy, the latter, the general type of all efforts to foster activity. These two games are, therefore, prototypes of all the Mother-Plays whose general aim is to set in balanced motion the centripetal and * Readers interested in the Meaning of Infancy are referred . for fuller statement to Professor John Piske's books, Cosmic Philosophy, The Destiny of Man, and the Excursions of an Evolutionist, to Mr. Drummond's Ascent of Man, and to the Meaning of Education, by Prof. Nicholas Murray Butler. SELF-MAKING. 41 centrifugal forces of the soul, and thus to determine its circular orbit. Scene second in the drama of infancy shows us the baby striking out vigorously with arms and legs, while in response to the indicated need the mother offers her opposing hands as an incentive to effort and a guide to force. The clew to the game is given clearly in Froebel's Commentary, wherein he explains that nothing gives the mother such joy as her child's overflowing life, and that her deepest longing is to nurture life. This statement puzzled me for many years because I was not able to decide just what meaning Froebel attached to the word life. Gradually, however, as I studied his different books I became aware of a number of verbal triads through which he seemed to be struggling to ex- press kindred thoughts. Among them were life, love, light; act, feeling, thought; presentiment, perception, recognition; identity, contrast, media- tion of contrast; child of Nature, child of man, child of God; whole, member, member- whole; uni- versality, particularity, singularity; unity, mani- foldness, individuality. Collecting and comparing these several triads I began to understand them and to recognize that their common key was that in- 42 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. sight into the nature of reason or self -consciousness which I tried to explain to you in my last letter. The self is an " identity pervading its own distinc- tions." The true self in each man is identical with the true self in all other men, and this universal self is the divine self, " the Christ in inan which is the hope of glory." The divine self, however, is transcendent as well as immanent, or, to borrow the apostolic statement, the God who is in all and through all is also over all. Spiritual development is increasing participation in His eternal thought and will. Spiritual death is separation from Him. Activity is the initial manifestation of the indwell- ing divinity, just as faith is the initial form of union between the immanent and the transcendent selfhood. In the light of this truth the first term of each triad becomes transparent. Life is the unconscious totality of being; activity its germinal manifesta- tion; presentiment the witness of its presence; identity the statement of its undifferentiated sim- plicity; unity the disclosure of its oneness with the all; wholeness or universality the definition of its ideal nature; child of Nature the expression of its limitation and its affiliation with those lower orders SELF-MAKING. 43 of being wherein the universal reason sleeps and dreams. With these solutions of the first term of each triad you can easily unfold the other terms yourself, and I will only ask you now to keep clearly in mind the thought of life as that ener- getic wholeness and fullness of being which never during the term of our mortal existence rises into complete consciousness. We are more than we know, and we know more than we do. " The soul is essentially active; the activity of which we are con- scious is but a part of our total activity, and volun- tary activity is but a part of our conscious activity." Our conscious and voluntary lives are therefore merely island peaks rising out of the depths of an unconscious ocean of being. Life is deeper, richer, fuller than conscious thought and will — it is the infinite obscure which eternity must illumi- nate. According to Emerson, the Chinese sage Men- cius perceived that man's chief duty was " to nour- ish well his vast flowing vigor." " I beg to ask what you call vast flowing vigor? " said his com- panion. " The explanation," replied Mencius, " is difficult. This vigor is supremely great and in the highest degree unbending. Nourish it correctly 44 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. and do it no injury, and it will fill up the vacancy between heaven and earth." * The greatest achievement of science has been the reduction of Nature to a torrent of force. In the inorganic world this force appears variously as light, heat, magnetism, and electricity. In the or- ganic world it manifests itself as life. Philosophy resolves this torrent of force into a torrent of will. Energy of life means that the individual soul is flooded with this mysterious torrent, fed with abundant supplies from the inexhaustible fountain of originality and power. Love is energy of life in the form of feeling; genius is energy of life in the form of intellect; heroism is energy of life in the form of will. No wonder, therefore, that each mother's heart throbs with joy as she beholds in her infant that ceaseless movement which is the primal revelation of an unconscious fullness of life; no wonder that her deepest impulse is to nourish well this " vast flowing vigor." " In the beginning is the act." From the act proceed feeling and thought. To the act they return and with deeds fired by feeling^and illuminated by thought the circle of development becomes complete. * Emerson's Essays, second series, p. 75. SELF-MAKING. 45 Strangely enough, while the nurture of life is a deep maternal impulse, the average mother is too often faithless to its promptings, and many of the worst mistakes in nursery education can only be avoided by lifting into consciousness the ideal latent in instinct and revealed by Froebel in his Play with the Limbs. The child is restless and fretful be- cause he is idle. Instantly the mother or nurse be- gins to divert and amuse him. She tells a story, sings a song, acts a pantomime, builds a block house, sets in orderly procession the animals belonging to a Noah's ark. Instead of leading the child to do, she does for him, and thus fosters idleness, exact- ingness, and the craving for passive amusement. Since all passive pleasures create a keener appetite, and since they themselves can only sate and cloy but never satisfy, it is evident that in making the child dependent upon them the mother is sowing seeds of misery for him and for herself. Universal laws can never be broken with impunity, and the universal and inexorable law of habit is that all sensations pall with repetition, while all activities augment their joy. There are two forms of sloth. One is the inertia of a phlegmatic nature; the other is the instabil- 46 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. ity of a frivolous nature. The outcome of the former is that sullenness of character which repels affection; the outcome of the latter is that selfish e^actingness which wears out affection. Dante has branded both types of sluggishness in his Inferno, showing us on the one hand the sullen souls immersed in mire, and on the other the caitiff train of the pleasure seekers chasing forever the whirling banner of change, goaded forever by the hornets and gadflies of capricious impulse and petty vexation. In the beginning of life inertia and frivolity are mere tendencies with which it is comparatively easy to cope. They are enemies whom the soul may meet and vanquish in an open field. Grant them time and they intrench themselves in the strong- hold of habit, and make the soul .their captive. I do not say that for this captive there is no escape. I say only that by failure to incite the child to battle the mother exposes him to a weary siege, and since his power diminishes as his chains are forged, her feeble indulgence must indefinitely increase the stress of his conflict and postpone in exact propor- tion the hour of victory. As I write I hear your protest. It is easy to SELF-MAKING. 47 say what ought to be done, but can I or any other theorist realize how many stumbling stones are strewn along the path of all general principles? I think I can. I know that the science of education is one thing, and the art of education another. I know how different is the insight which merely rec- ognizes a general truth from the prompt and unper- plexed tact which solves problems in the concrete. I simply claim that to know what we must do, helps us to find out how to do it. " Consider," says Froebel, " either the seed or the egg; watch the development alike of feeling and of thought. Out of the indefinite the definite is born." Foster the child's activity, and it will rise to productive energy; exercise productive energy, and it will blossom into original creation. Let the nurture of sympathy go hand-in-hand with the in- citement to activity, and from the union of the two will spring humility and helpfulness. Divorce sym- pathy from activity and it collapses into that in- ordinate craving for approbation which has been de- fined as the " love of love by sin defiled." Divorce activity from sympathy and it will give rise to the lust of power. Refuse nurture to both these ele- mentary impiilses, and from the union of their 48 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. opposites, sloth and selfishness, will spring in the first generation, self-indulgence and presumption; in the second, parasitism and cowardice; in the third, fatalism; and in the fourth, the family line of these ancestral ills will end with defiance and despair. Do I seem to be exaggerating the dangers of sloth? Is it not true that " Idleness standing in the midst of unattempted tasks is always proud," and that he who has done nothing is most ready to be- lieve in his own ability to do everything? Is it not true that when with untried strength he is forced to confront the tasks of life he either falls into the ranks of those who through cowardice " make great refusals," or by reckless scheming involves himself in practical ruin? Is it not true that he who can not lean upon himself must lean upon others, and that he who is himself will-less must fall into the worship of blind chance or inexorable fate? What, indeed, are chance and fate but the projection of his own wayward caprice, and his own blind and hence unregulated passions? Man is only what he makes himself to be. Man can make himself only that which ideally he is. Through activity he creates himself. In activity he SELF-MAKING. 49 reveals himself. Recognizing these truths you will begin to question yourself anxiously as to the meth- ods by which energy may be incited, guided, re- strained, and developed. With this problem in mind turn to the picture which illustrates Froebel's Play with the Limbs. Against the baby's kicking feet the mother presses her hands. The stream has jbeen dammed that its force may turn the mill wheel. Below the dam a little boy has set his toy mill in the stream. His thoughtful brother watches the turning toy, trying to understand how and why the water keeps it going so merrily. The gen- eral thought of the picture is that, lacking con- straint, force diffuses and wastes itself. To be effec- tive it must be pent up. The old myth makes Her- cules begin his career by strangling in his cradle the serpents that attack his life. We must create a tension in order to guide the force of the child in definite directions, and by inciting him to resist- ance fortify in him the love of exertion, and waken in him the sense of power. Applied to the force of will this insight explains the significance of inhibi- tion as the method of specific choice and action. We do one thing by virtue of not doing other things. We give vent to one impulse by inhibiting 50 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. a number of other impulses; we concentrate atten- tion upon one object by repelling the seductions of other objects. To the facts that our minds are be- sieged by colliding sensations, and that our souls are the battleground of colliding impulses, we owe our ascent from involuntary to voluntary activity. After voluntary activity has been attained it is by freely choosing among different and op- posing possibilities that will is exercised and character formed, and it is also by a series of in- tellectual exclusions that we rise from attention to analysis, and from analysis to still higher orders of knowing. The practical application of this insight to early education creates a procedure admirably defined by Miss Garland as the meth- od of restricted freedom. It consists in so far limiting the range of choice as to give a specific trend to activity, and it avoids both the extreme of formalism and that yet more dangerous ex- treme of license which is the hideous caricature of liberty. The evolution of energy through antagonism is a general law. But the particular form which energy will assume must be determined by indi- vidual bent and aptitude. Hence Froebel's picture SELF-MAKING. 5 J shows also the limitations of its principle. Each child in the picture is fascinated by the mysterious force of the swift-rushing stream, but each is incited to a different activity, and in this activity reveals his or her individuality. In a letter to his cousin, Madame Schmidt, Froebel urges her to consider that " wherever healthy life buds forth, there new life only un- folds itself to meet and overcome various obstacles; nay, further, that these obstacles in a certain sense are actually necessary for strengthening and for- tifying the young life." " Let us," he adds, " look closely at the buds of our trees, and see how thick and close are the coverings which lock them up, and how slowly and with what resist- ance these coverings are burst open before the tender little leaves appear; or let us look at the kernel, or the seed-corn, which a still stronger chain holds fettered, till the feeble germinat- ing point can shake itself free; or, finally, let -us look at the helpless infant and its birth. Obstacles," he concludes, " are not appointed by providence with the design of repelling newly uprising life, but with the purpose of strength- ening it at once upon its first appearance, and 52 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. of making evident the meaning of that appear- ance." * That children who are brought up " simply and naturally never evade but rather seek obstacles " has been noticed by Froebel in the Education of Man. " Let it lie," the vigorous youngster exclaims to his father, who is about to roll a piece of wood out of the boy's way; "let it lie; I can get over it." "With difficulty, indeed, the boy gets - over it the first time, but he has accomplished the feat by his own strength. Strength and courage have grown in him. He returns, gets over the ob- stacle a second time, and soon he learns to clear it easily. If activity brought joy to the child, work now gives delight to the boy. Hence, the dar- ing and venturesome feats of boyhood, the ex- ploration of caves and ravines, the climbing of trees and mountains, the searching of the heights and depths, the roaming through fields and forests. The most difficult thing seems easy, the most daring thing seems without danger to him, for his * Froebel's Letters. Translated by E. Miohaelis and H. Keatley Moore, p. 60. SELF-MAKING. 53 promptings come from his innermost heart and will." * I well know how hard it is to resist the fear which deters us from giving children occasion to cope with difficulties, conquer obstacles, confront reasonable perils. Yet I also know that if you wish to develop Harold's strength and manliness you must be ready to let him do and dare. Nor is it less true that if, as he grows older, you wish to develop his intellect you must avoid making the path of knowledge too smooth, broad, and easy, and if you wish to develop his moral energy you must permit him to grapple with moral problems. The parents of a bright child are often victims to senseless exaggerations of his ability and sense- less fears for his health. He is so clever he does not need to study, and so nervous and high-strung that he should not study. So when he is sent to school the teacher is enjoined not to push him, and he is kept in a class where he has nothing to do. Ey the time he is ten years old he has fallen in actual attainment behind the average child, has be- come so idle that it is impossible to make him work, and so conceited that he is an offense to all rational * Education of Man. 'Kallmann's Translation, p. 102. 54 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. persons. His intellectual and moral debauchery is completed by borne indulgence and tbe excuses woven by maternal vanity. As less and less is ex- acted of bim he naturally exacts more and more of others, until at last his petty tyrannies become in- supportable, and the regime of foolish indulgence is superseded by a regime of futile scoldings, threats, and punishments. I should not express myself so strongly on this point were I not sure that hundreds of children are ruined because enough is not expected of them. The keener your realization of this peril, the more earnestly will you incite your infant Hercules to strangle, while still in his cradle, the twin serpents of sloth and selfishness. In your efforts to incite and discipline his energies you must, however, be careful to keep a just balance between his strength and the obstacles you ask him to overcome. Will may be paralyzed as well as dissipated, and through the failures born of attempts to grapple with over- whelming difficulties the child may be made moody and cowardly. Moreover, his affections are re- pelled from the mother or teacher who asks of him what even with his best effort he can not do, while conversely the impetuous currents of his love flow SELF-MAKING. 55 freely toward all those who procure for him that elation of spirit which is the fine flower of success- ful achievement. Finally, it is from many small successes that he wins courage and modesty. Be- coming accustomed to strife and victory, he learns just what he may venture to attempt, and in the end grows capable of that " reasoned rashness " which all great emergencies demand and all great successes imply. By many persons Froebel is supposed to be the avowed champion of two very popular, very plausi- ble, but very dangerous educational heresies, against which his whole system is a protest. One of these heresies has been called sugar-plum educa- tion, the other has been fitly baptized flower-pot education. Sugar-plum education in its moral aspect means coaxing, cajolery, and bribery; in its intellectual aspect it is the parent of that specious and misleading maxim that the chief aim of the educator is to interest the child. Like the theory which wrecks happiness by making it the aim of life, the effort to win interest results in methods which kill interest. The end of life is not happi- ness, but goodness; the aim of education is not to interest the child, but to incite and guide his self- 56 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. activity. Seeking goodness we win happiness; in- citing self -activity we quicken interest. Please say to Helen that unless she wishes her kindergarten to be a wretched parody of Froebel's ideal she will say to herself, not " I must interest the children," but " I must get and hold their attention." The kindergartner who lashes herself into a dramatic frenzy when playing the games, and talks herself hoarse in vain attempts to interest her children in their gifts, too often remains serenely complacent in face of their phlegmatic indifference to her well- meant endeavors. Has. she not done everything to interest them? They must, she thinks, be pecul- iarly unresponsive children; or perhaps they have been spoiled at home ! If she would propose to her- self the objective test", and frankly admit that unless she can hold attention she is a failure, she would hit upon devices appealing more to the self-activity of the pupils. Striving for attention she would win interest. For true interest can neither be se- duced nor compelled; it must be, incited. These hints will help you to understand sugar- plum education. Wow for the flower-pot. Flower- pot education means the effort to make the child wise and good through the influence of an arti- SELF-MAKING. 57 ficially perfect environment. You will take your tender plant out of the common ground and away from the common air and keep it safe by setting it in a sunny window of your own room. The strug- gle for life may mean something for other plants, but you will improve on the divine method in rear- ing your choice rose. Two false assumptions are latent in your procedure: first, the assumption that character may be formed without effort; and sec- ond, the assumption that evil is only outside your child, and not at all in him. Both flower-pot and sugar-plum education are attacks upon freedom. The former holds that the child may be molded by environment, the latter that his blind impulses may be played upon by the educator. Froebel holds that he is a free being, and therefore must be a self-making being. Hence, while sugar-plum education appeals to the activity of the educator, and flower-pot education to the activity of environment, Froebel appeals first, last, and always to the self-activity of the child. Contemporary students of childhood claim such a monopoly of the insight into motor activity as the point of departure for a wise nurture of infancy that it sometimes seems as if they really believed 58 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. that before the rise of the new psychology no one had ever noticed how babies love to kick. The kindergartner, however, may proudly point to the Play with the Limbs in proof of the fact that Froebel at least anticipated the wisdom of our later- day prophets, and if she is courageous she may even insist that in his description of the ascending stages, through which motor activity is transfigured into creative self-revelation, the founder of the kinder- garten and author of the Mother-Play has far sur- passed any recent child student. Froebel's great insight is that the human being is a self -expressing being. As a baby he expresses his abounding full- ness of life in incessant movement. Through move- ment his inner force strengthens and unfolds, and he becomes an imitative being. Making himself into dog, cat, flower, bird, father, mother, brother, sister, tradesman, soldier, preacher, he makes over these objects and persons into himself. Prom imi- tation he rises to transforming and productive activ- ity, and strives to stamp himself upon the little world which through imitation he had stamped upon himself. Finally, he establishes within his soul the two contrasting yet complementary activi- ties of self-revelation and investigation, and while SELF-MAKING. 59 on the one hand he expresses his own ideals in plas- tic, pictorial, verbal, or musical form, he strives, on the other, to discover by ceaseless search the mean- ing of the world in which he finds himself. The duty of education is to utilize the ascending modes of self-activity so as to help them realize their own unconscious aim. The Mother-Play songs and the kindergarten gifts are Froebel's carefully chosen means to this end. The Play with the Limbs and the Falling Song are the terminus ab quo of the whole process of development because they seize upon the primordial manifestations of generic self- hood. Abounding vitality expressed in movement is the primal revelation of the God in the soul; faith is the primal outreaching of the God in the soul toward the God in the world. One more question must be touched upon be- fore we say good-bye to the Play with the Limbs. Why does the instinctive mother love to talk and sing to her child long before he is able to under- stand words or catch melodies? Why does Froebel insist that each of his little games shall be accom- panied by word and song? It is only necessary to put these questions to begin to suspect their an- swers. It is through the frequent association of 60 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. words with objects and acts that the child comes to connect sounds with ideas, and it is through imitat- ing these sounds that he becomes a language i using being. Hence he should hear much speaking, and the connections between words and the objects and acts for which they stand should be often and clearly pointed out. Maternal instinct has met the first of these needs, but has not adequately re- sponded to the second. One great merit of Froe- bel's games is that they associate elementary sensa- tions with the words through which they are desig- nated, and throw into relief the connection between word and sensation by means of gesture. In addition to its intellectual incitement the mother's prattle has a moral influence, and this is augmented when song is added to word. For through prattle and song the child learns to know his mother's voice, and this voice soothes, calms, attracts him though he understands not a word of what is said. Love for his mother's voice renders him at a later stage of development more obedi- ent to its commands, more susceptible to its appeals. "Who shall say how far maternal influence may be increased or diminished by the presence or absence of fibers of experience connecting SELF-MAKING. 61 the conscious with the unconscious periods of life? In Froebel's opinion song has a still deeper im- port, for he recognizes in music the natural lan- guage of emotion, and believes that love, the mel- ody of the heart, is revealed in the melody of the voice. Hence in his commentary on the Kicking Song he explains that the mother's song is born of her longing to nourish her baby's feeling. He shall not only learn through her opposing hands to know her strength and his own: in some slight degree he must feel the tenderness that inspires her act. Hence in song she seeks to reveal herself as love, just as through pressure she reveals herself as power. / Since the presentiments of in- fancy help to determine the thought of maturity, and since in the relationship of the child to its mother is foreshadowed the relationship of the soul to God, I think you can not too seriously consider the suggestion that you should never oppose your boy without revealing love as the motive of your opposition. Love shining through your prohibi : tions and penalties will help him to believe in the love which hides under all the contradictions of life. The rebellious Titan chained to the rock and 62 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. gnawed by the vulture, images the inevitable out- come of finite struggle against omnipotence con- ceived as divorced from love. Job, bereft of prop- erty, health, friends, family, declaring in his ashes and desolation, " Though He slay me, yet will I trust in Him," is the immortal type of strength de- veloped through trial when trial is recognized as coming from God. To conquer an unshaking faith in love as the moving principle of the universe is to win the victory of life. From movement to the life force back of move- ment; from single force to the complex of forces; from the complex of forces to the educational im- port of restrictions and obstacles; from the mean- ing of obstacles to the love which provides them — such has been the path over which this letter has traveled. I hope that from the point we have now reached you clearly perceive that the general aim of a wise nurture is to help the child wear deep chan- nels and rear confining banks for the impetuous cur- rents of life. Diffused force is wasted force, and mere instinctive activity must be transformed into conscious voluntary and specific deeds. You will best follow the evolution of Froebel's ideal by constantly recurring to the definition of SELF-MAKING. 63 life as unconscious participation in universal ener- gy, and to the definition of infant education as the nurture of this hidden yet impetuous force. These insights will teach you what Froebel means by fol- lowing the child. They will explain the crownless tree in the Grass Mowing picture, and declare to you why it was that blighted by the destruction of its life impulse it could yield neither flowers nor fruit. They will help you to understand why so many children hide their real selves from their parents, and in lieu of frank and tender companionship give back to them parrot repetitions of their own max- ims and monkey imitations of their mannerisms. They will teach you why many shallow persons remain throughout life mere dotards of custom or blind slaves of fashion, and do not even give a sign - that somewhere behind this mask there is at least an infinitesimal selfhood. Perhaps they may awaken you to a realization of the sad fact that the origin- ality of sensitive and conscientious children is often sapped and their integrity threatened by the effort to be all they are Ifcught they ought to be, and last but not least, they will make it impossible for you to withhold your pity from souls who have sought in lawlessness the freedom they should have found 64 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. in wisely directed energies. Then npon you as upon me will grow the conviction that Froebel never spoke wiser word than when he declared that the ' aim of true motherhood is the " nurture of life," and that the one unpardonable sin is to quench the mysterious energy in which lies hidden all we are and all we hope to become. We shall not study Froebel's book in Froe- bel's spirit unless before dismissing the Play with the Limbs we seek to win from it help for our- selves as well as for the children. I shall, therefore, bring this letter to a close by suggesting a few of the thoughts which have stirred my mind while I have been writing it. Since man is only that which he makes himself - to be, the vainest of all vain glorying is glory in what he calls his potentialities. The potential is that which is not. There are no deedless Alexan- ders. There are no inarticulate Shakespeares. Deeds made the one, dramas created the other. Ideally each man is all men, actually each man is what he achieves, and the histoA/ of a man, so says Goethe, is his character. Neither is it sufficient to have achieved. Man may never lay back upon his oars. The happy SELF-MAKING. 65 warrior goes from " well to better," and is " daily self -surpassed." Each attained degree of conscious- ness must spur us to invade new realms of the un- conscious. Each attained degree of character is kept only by being outgrown. Sulking in his tent, Achilles is no hero; dallying in Calypso's Isle, Odysseus ceases to be the man of wisdom. But weak as is the man who glories in his pos- sibilities, he who casts the blame of his defeat upon circumstances is weaker still. There are no circum- stances over which man may not triumph by con- quest or by that endurance which is " all the pas- sion of great souls." " I count life," says Brown- ing, "just a stuff to try the soul's strength on." " God," writes the devout Thomas a, Kempis, " grants us occasions of contest in order to bless us with opportunities of victory." Increase in the number and strength of the obstacles which beset the soul, is the pledge of ascent to a higher class in the great school of life. " Then welcome each re- buff that turns earth's smoothness rough " ; wel- come the frost that stings, the. flame that consumes, the rack of pain, the flood of sorrow, the two-edged sword of spiritual conflict, the tragic mystery which concentrates life by limiting its term — the 66 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. whole blessed world-order which clashing with man's ignorant self-will makes possible his ascent into the heavenly realm of freedom. Yet even sloth, and selfishness, and cowardice can not destroy the nature of the soul, and for the free spirit it is never too late. Vainly does material- ism teach the extinction of the will. For will a3 for thought and love there is no extinction. They partake of the eternal. We owe much to the doc- trine of hell for keeping before us its solemn asser- tion of this pregnant truth. Man can not be pun- ished unless he is responsible, neither can he be responsible unless he is free, and therefore capable of amendment. Should he lose his freedom even through his own sin, he could no longer be pun- ished for sinning. Implicit in the doctrine of hell is the insight which triumphs over hell. It was a daring saying of Eovalis that " God wills gods." His will must prevail. Therefore neither should any individual despair for himself, nor parents suffer heartbreak over their erring children, nor teachers lose hope of the most recalcitrant pupil. "For I have seen all winter long the thorn First show itself intractable and fierce, And after bear the rose upon its top." LETTER III. FROM WIND TO SPIRIT. Watch as your baby grows, and you will see That his whole life, wherever he may be, Is a perpetual mimicry. An engine now, he puffs with all his might ; Anon, with brows perplexed, he feigns to write — Or strides his chair, a mounted knight. Brimming with life, but knowing not as yet Even the letters of his alphabet, He imitates each pattern set. And watching him, perchance you question why Each new activity that meets his eye Excites him his own skill to try. His is an instinct ignorantly wise ! Only in doing can he realize The thing that's done beneath his eyes. A stranger 'midst the surging life of men, He to his own life-stature shall attain By taking — to give back again. Henrietta E. Eliot. THE WEATHEEVANE. This way, that way, Turns the weather-vane ; This way, that way, Turns and turns again. Turning, pointing, ever showing, How the merry wind is blowing. Emilie Poulsson. 67 03 FROM WIND TO SPIRIT. 69 Dear : The session of our mothers' class yesterday was an unusually animated one. At the previous meeting I had asked the mothers to notice their children carefully and to report all the imita- tive actions which might occur during the week. The response was general and the results of observa- tion very interesting. A baby fifteen weeks old had tried to purse his lips when his mother went through with this movement close in front of him. A boy of seven months had successfully imitated movements of the head. Several babies aged ten months had noticed and repeated the act of beckon- ing with the forefinger. A little girl of nine months had given her doll a bath, had kissed it as she herself was kissed, and had tried to sing it to sleep. A fifteen-months-old boy had gone through with the movements of shaving his chin. Another of the same age had pretended to read aloud, mov- ing his finger along the lines of a book and modulat- ing his voice. A little girl of twenty months had seen some flying pigeons, and had quickly and re- peatedly opened and shut her fingers in imitation of their movement. A boy three years and a half old had happened to see a butcher kill some pigs, and in a spirit of imitation had arranged pieces of wood 70 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. and prepared to do the same. A somewhat older child had fastened feathers from an old duster to his little coat and hopped about the yard, scratching the ground as he had seen chickens do. A little girl had given herself a bad hurt by spreading her arms for wings and trying to fly from a high porch. Had this effort succeeded she intended her next flight to be from the roof of this same porch, which she could easily reach by climbing through her nursery window. _This child, if I remember aright, was about six years old. Many other observations were reported, but as those already given are amply sufficient to illustrate the subject of this letter I spare you any further examples of the fact of imitation, and hasten to suggest its mean- ing.* It was amusingto watch the change which stole over the spirit of the maternal dream as the reports accumulated. The complacency and pride which were evident in the tones and expressions of the mothers who made the earlier reports contrasted * "Wishing my illustrations to be reliable, particularly as to the ages of children, I have borrowed freely from Pro- fessor Preyer. See The Senses and the Will, pp. 282-292. The imitation of the butcher is reeorded^jy Pestalozzi of his son. FROM WIND TO SPIRIT. 71 amusingly with the matter-of-fact rehearsals of those who followed them. A two-horned dilemma seemed gradually to define itself. Either each of the fifty mothers present was the possessor of a re- markable child, or imitativeness was no mark of unusual mental power. The question was brought to a climax by a spinster of scientific proclivities, whose latest hobby is the Simian intellect, and who followed up the reports of the mothers with a series of anecdotes illustrating the imitativeness of monkeys. A general and hearty laugh fol- lowing her remarks showed which horn of the dilemma had been seized by the collective mind of the class. Surrendering imitation as a mark of individ- ual distinction we win it as the characteristic of an essential stage in the process of psychogenesis. The act of imitation proves that the infant has be- come conscious of his own power to originate move- ments, and that he voluntarily exercises this power. Hence, as Professor Preyer has pointed out, it is the first sure sign of the birth of will. Pondering this fact we begin to understand the psychologic instinct which led Froebel to follow the Kicking Game, whose motive is the solicitation of force, with the 72 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. Weathervane, which is an initial attempt to influ- ence the activity of imitation. Coeval with the nascent consciousness of his own causal power is the child's recognition of causal energy as the source of the movements he repeats. Mr. Howells relates that when his little daughter was puzzled by the attitudes of certain figures in the great pictures which she ambitiously attempted to copy, she took the poses herself and explained that " she. then saw how they felt." This little girl had become conscious of the latent motive which incites to imitation and which is nothing else than an attempt to interpret alien activity by repro- ducing it. As Froebel explains: " What the child imitates he is trying to understand," and his act im- plies an unconscious process of introspection through which he comes to the conclusion that just as he originates his movements, so the movements he perceives are originated by causal energies analogous to his own. If you have followed this analysis of the act of imitation you will understand the delight with which you greeted Harold's first attempt to repeat the activities of persons and things about him. In my last letter I tried to show you that man is a PROM WIND TO SPIRIT. 73 self-making being and hence a free being. My chief aim in this correspondence will be to call your attention to those phenomena of child life which mark ascending degrees in the concrete realization of freedom. Imitation is interesting and important because it is one of the crises in the battle for lib- erty. The child who imitates has formed an ideal, and energizes to realize it. This is the beginning of moral freedom. He has inferred a causal energy as the begetter of a perceptible effect. This is the beginning of intellectual freedom. All higher de- grees of moral freedom will be attained by the gen- eration of loftier ideals and through the self-disci- pline involved in their realization. All higher de- grees of intellectual freedom will be achieved through wider applications of the idea of causality. " A cause," says Dr. Harris, " is worth a whole series of effects. The hen in the nursery tale that laid the golden eggs was a living causal process, while the eggs were mere dead results or effects." Looking back of phenomena to the energies which produce them the mind throws off the tyranny of sense. It is important to add that while imitation re- veals the first stirring of cause, the impulsion of this ij± LETTERS TO A MOTHER. idea is presupposed by all experience. Lacking the thought of cause we could not recognize something objectively existent as the source of a sense im- pression, and lacking such recognition we could never lift sensation into perception.* This insight forces us to startling conclusions. For if the idea of cause is the necessary condition of experience it can of course not be furnished by experience, and those psychologists who attempt to derive it from experience are engaged in the impossible task of proving that an ancestor can be begotten of its own offspring. Again, if it be not derived from ex- perience it must be given in the constitution of the mind, or, differently stated, its source must be the mind's own self-activity. Since, as we have already seen, the ascending degrees of thought are marked by the rise first from things to causes, and next from narrower to wider circles of causal energy, it is evi- dent that mental progress consists in getting farther and farther away from the data of sense, and in more and more consciously directing attention to the energy of mind. Strangest of all is the fact that it is precisely by this withdrawal from sense that * See Psychologic Foundations of Education, vol. xxxvi, International Education Series, p. 53. FROM WIND TO SPIRIT. 75 we arrive at the underlying reality of the sensible world, or, in other words, that we learn to know the material cosmos not by an influx of things but by an efflux of the soul. Being a lover of Browning, you may remember a passage in his Paracelsus which states this pivotal psychologic truth. I always find poetic statements of great help. They illuminate my mind, and the association of a spiritual truth with a visible image seems to give it added authority. A symbol is Na- ture's vote in favor of an idea. I wonder if Nature could clothe a falsehood, and if the very fact that she consents to weave for a thought its visi- ble garment is not a proof of its substantial truth. However this may be, here is my passage from Browning: " Truth is within ourselves : it takes no rise From outward things, whate'er you may believe. There is an inmost center in us all Where truth abides in fullness; and around, Wall upon wall, the gross flesh hems it in. This perfect, clear perception which is truth A baffling and perverting carnal mesh Blinds it and makes all error ; and to ' know ' Rather consists in opening out a way Whence the imprisoned splendor may escape Than in effecting entry for a light Supposed to be without." 7 76 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. If imitation means all that I have said it means why do we feel such a contempt for formalists and pedants? Simply because imitation is interesting as a rudimentary but unsatisfying as a vestigial form of thought and will. It is a mark of progressive de- velopment in the infant, but of arrested develop- ment in the man. Still, it is important that our impatience with the imitators should not go too far. Strong individuals, especially in youth, are often insurgents against social forms, and despisers of the stored-up heritage of wisdom. Duller natures are a kind of balance wheel in the complex machinery of life and should be duly appreciated. Since education is a series of responses to indi- cated needs, how shall the mother meet the new demand imposed by the arrival of her child at the imitative stage of development? I answer: First, by protecting him so far as possible from seeing or hearing what she would not wish him to reproduce. For since each activity in its re- coil contributes its quota to the shaping of char- acter it is obvious that what the child imitates he will tend to become. Next, each mother should notice what special actions attract her child, and in- spire him to most frequent repetition. In this way FROM WIND TO SPIRIT. 77 she will learn something of his specific individual- ity. Finally, there are certain activities whose re- production will have an educative value for all chil- dren. To indicate the most essential of these typ- ical acts is one purpose of the Mother-Play. Before we proceed to the study of these typical imitations a few words of caution are necessary. No imitative play should be taught the child until he is able to associate with it some definite though not necessarily adequate idea. He should not be called on to go through such games for the amuse- ment of older people, neither should he ever be praised for playing them well. They are the seri- ous business of infancy, and should be treated with gravity and respect. Finally, such plays must not be so numerous as to interfere with the develop- ment of independent thought, or to confuse the mind with too many suggestions. Please say to Helen in this connection that a very few additions to the games suggested by Froebel will give her all the plays she can possibly teach the children with advantage to their development, and one of the most disastrous results of the present tendency to mul- tiply song books is that the individual kinder- gartner either overloads the minds of her pupils V8 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. and gives them spiritual indigestion, or that, be- wildered by variety, she sacrifices essential and typ- ical plays to those which have no educative value. Recognizing the fact that imitation is a search for causes we are ready to begin our study of the Weathervane. Remember that the first school of the soul is the " school of astonishment," and that, as Plato long since pointed out, tthe beginning of knowledge is in wonder. Since wonder expresses the tension of subject and object, it is evident that experiences lose their stimulus when they lose their novelty, and we justly esteem it a mark of high in- tellect to be piqued by the still unintelligible com- monplace. Upon thought as upon will custom presses "with a weight heavy as frost and deep almost as life," while conversely objects which are remote, and activities which are infrequent, stimu- late mental energy, and alike for the individual and the race the path to paradise is upon the ascending rounds of "the stairway of surprise." Dream yourself back into childhood, and try to realize the wonder with which the unaccustomed soul must confront the phenomena of wind, storm, lightning, and thunder. You will readily perceive that in presence of the latter phenomena fear FROM WIND TO SPIRIT. 79 blends with amazement, and that the immediate outcome of this complex emotion will probably be superstition and its recoil skepticism. Goethe relates that in very early childhood he began to settle into a serious disbelief in the benignity of Providence, incited thereto first by the shock of the Lisbon earthquake and later by the fool- ish conduct of those around him, " who on the occasion of a terrible thunderstorm dragged the boy and his sister into a dark passage, where the whole household, distracted with fear, tried to con- ciliate the angry deity by frightful groans and prayers.," * Few persons nowadays act quite so insanely as this; still fear spreads by contagion from many a mother to many a child, and you must guard yourself from all unreasoning apprehension, and from all starts, outcries, and nervous frights if you wish Harold to be manly and courageous. The phenomena of wind as distinct from storm inspire no fear, but pure and simple wonder. Hence they stimulate the keenest search for their cause. Himself incarnate motion, the child finds himself in presence of a world in movement. At the same time he feels the breath of the wind and * Lewes, Life of Goethe. 80 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. hears its voices. The first explanation which occurs to him is not that the wind moves objects, but that moving objects cause wind. The only movement of which he knows anything is self-movement, or movement which he easily traces back to self -move- ment. He moves himself; hence the weathervane, the windmill, the trees move themselves. He can cause wind by running, or by waving a fan, or rustling a newspaper. Hence the windmill, the trees, and other moving objects may make the strong wind he feels. So reasons the child. So reason to-day the Arizona Indians. It marks an intellectual crisis when the sus- picion arises that this primitive theory is false, and that the wind is not the product, but the producer, of the varied movements perceived. Historically, this crisis may be traced in many barbaric myths. As an experience of childhood it is doubtless pre- cipitated by intercourse with grown people. With this presentiment thought mounts, from the con- ception of different causal energies behind dif- ferent movements, to the thought of a single causal energy behind many movements. More- over, in ascribing many effects to a single cause the mind learns to separate as well as FROM WIND TO SPIRIT. 81 connect cause and effect, and to conceive cause as an invisible power. Speculations with regard to the nature of this unseen energy next begin to occupy the mind, and by a process of unconscious analogizing the wind is invested with human or quasi-human attributes. Last of all, doubting his qwn solutions, the child carries the burning ques- tion to his elders, whom he besets with eager in- quiries as to what the wind is, and what makes the wind? If you will study carefully Froebel's commen- tary on the Play of the Weathervane you will see that he points out how you may come to the aid of the infant mind, both in the earlier and the later stages of this process of spiritual evolution. Let it be stated at once that you are not limited to any particular imitation, but that the Weather- vane merely stands for the wind-blown object, whatever it may be, which most allures the child's interest. He is incited to repeat its movement, and led gradually to imitate the activity of other objects set in motion by the same unseen force. This is, of course, a process involving time, but it must be remembered that no one of Froebel's plays repre- sents a detached experience, but rather the moving 82 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. principle of many experiences. Each game must be conceived on the one hand as a center from which influence radiates in all directions, and on the other as the vital germ of a particular thought which is to be developed by other experiences and by recurrence to the play itself at different in- tervals throughout the whole of early childhood. Thus the power of the implicit thought is made cumulative, and the watchful mother is able to trace its deepening and widening influence. Emerson has said that language is fossil poetry. Max Miiller has called it petrified phi- losophy. As poetry it preserves those corre- spondences between Nature and the soul which seized upon the imagination of primitive men. As philosophy or psychology it reveals the wings upon which the soul soars into the upper air of thought. Tracing the pedigree of words we learn the ancestral forms of all spiritual ideas. And, since the process of spiritual evolution is alike in the individual and the race, a study of the words under which men originally strove to ex- press spiritual ideas gives us many a valuable hint with regard to the true method of developing such ideas in the mind of the child. It is, therefore, in- FROM WIND TO SPIRIT. g3 teresting in connection with our Song of the "Wind to recall the fact that by savages the soul is often described as " the air or breeze which passes in and out through the nostrils and the mouth," and that the breath has furnished the chief name for the soul not only to the Hebrew, Sanskrit, Latin, Greek, German, and English tongues, but also to many barbaric languages.* " The Latin word anima meant originally blowing or breathing, and was derived from a root an to blow, which gives anila, wind in Sanscrit, and anemos, wind in Greek. In Greek the root thyein, to rush, gave the name thyella to the storm wind, and the name thymos to the soul as the seat of the passions! " f " Spirit, Latin spiritus, is derived from a verb spirare, which means to draw breath. The German Geist, the English ghost, has also the meaning of breath, while the lineage of the word soul shows clearly that our Teutonic ancestors conceived the principle of spirit- ual life as an inward sea, heaving up and down with every breath, like the ocean waves which swell and rise when the wind blows." X * Myths and Myth Makers, John Piske, p. 225. f Science of Language, Max Miiller, Eng. Ed., vol. ii, p. 436. X Science of Language, Max MttHer, Eng. Ed., vol. i, p. 523. 84 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. The recoil of imagination against the mystery of the wind may also be traced in myth. Wind gods and -wind-conquering heroes appear in all mythologies. The mysterious Mani of New Zea- land legend holds all the winds but the west in his hands, or imprisons them with great stones rolled to the mouths of their caves. In American folklore the four winds are personal divinities, each having his distinctive character, and Longfellow has made us familiar with Mudjekeewis the west wind, and his children: Wabun, the morning- bringer, Shawondasee, the lazy south wind, and the fierce Kabibonokka. Classic myth gives us ^Eolus as wind imprisoner; Boreas, born of the Starry Heaven and the Dawn. Finally, our own Teutonic race contributes the beautiful legends of the Erl King and the Lorelei, the conception of " Runic Odin howling his war-song to the gale," and the image of that fierce Hrasvelg, who " sits at the end of heaven, a giant in eagle's disguise, and from whose wings the wind doth come over all mankind." In the effort to repeat these interesting chapters of race experience we must be careful not to carica- ture them. The steep and narrow path of true edu- FliOM WIND TO SPIRIT. 85 cation hugs the dangerous edge of a precipice. Yawning beneath it are the pits of sentimentalism and formalism. We fall into sentimentalism when- ever we forget that the progress of thought is from object to subject, and that the young child lacks all conscious introspection. He knows many things before he begins to know himself. He must know all things before he can completely know himself. Hence we contradict all sound psychology when we attempt to divert his attention from visible and audible phenomena and direct it to the emotions which we imagine these phenomena ought to in- spire. Such effort to develop a premature subjec- tivity is the parent of hypocrisy and self-deception. Add to this sentimentalism the pedantry born of answering unasked questions, and you will have done all you can to destroy integrity and vigor of mind. It has been said that every premature defini- tion of virtue is the seed of a vice. It is equally true that every premature definition, or conscious statement of feeling is the seed of a sham, and that every premature question nips or kills some living seed of thought. Never, therefore, ask Harold such foolish ques- tions as " How does the wind make you feel? " or 86 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. " What does the wind make you think? " Let him wonder without contemplating his wonder. Let him think without thinking of his thought. Rend not with profane hands the veil which shrouds that holy of holies, a human soul. Remember that in reality symbols are the " safeguards of mystery," and that their value lies in the fact that in them there is both " concealment and revelation." Avoid also all questions as to what makes the wind, and above all, shun those crude and easy explanations which extinguish wonder without kindling thought, and whose only effect is to make the child feel that there can be no great mystery in the object so glibly talked about. The object of Froebel's "Wind Song is to abet the unconscious dialectic through which the mind comes eventually to refer a variety of visible phenomena to the agency of a single invisi- ble force. It is a parody of his procedure to ask the question which it is the aim of the organic ex- periences suggested to evolve, and the fact that this and similar questions are asked again and again is one chief reason why his symbolic method is mis- understood and denounced. Observe in Froebel's commentary that even when the child questions about the wind he is not answered, but pointed to FROM WIKD TO SPIRIT. 87 another mystery. "My child," says the mother, " you can see your little hand move, but you can not see the force that moves it." There is but one mys- tery and one miracle, the miracle of free self -activ- ity. " Were it not miraculous," asks Carlyle, " could I stretch forth my hand and clutch the sun? Yet thou seest me daily stretch forth my hand and therewith clutch many a thing, and swing it hither and thither. Art thou a grown baby, then, to fancy that the miracle lies in miles of distance, or in pounds avoirdupois of weight, and not to see that the true inexplicable God-revealing miracle lies in this, that I can stretch forth my hand at all; that I have free force to clutch aught there- with? " Does it seem that in denying the right of ques- tion and explanation I leave but little for you to do? If so, try to realize the influence of music, poetry, gesture, and picture, and, what is still more important, understand that all truth must be rooted in, watered by, and brought to blossom through experiences which, beginning in infancy, recur throughout the whole of life. The Weathervane will mean little either to you or to Harold unless it incites you to give him plenty of outdoor life. Let 88 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. the zephyrs fan his cheek. Let him battle with the storm wind. As he grows older do not fear to let him measure his strength against the wind on water as well as on land. Enrich him with the joys of Emerson's wild-eyed boy, Whom the rain and the wind purgeth, Whom the dawn and the day star urgeth. Open his ears to the psean which sounds through the forest when " the grand old harper smites his thunder harp of pines." Open his soul not only to the influence of Nature, but also to the influence of Nature's interpreters, the poets. Read to him, from the Odyssey, of iEolus holding the winds in his cave; from the Iliad, of the great battle between the Fire-God and the Rivers, wherein the help of the wind gave victory to his ally; from the Vedic hymns of the fierce Maruts, "who toss the clouds across the singing sea, who shake the rocks and tear asunder the trees of the forest " ; and when at last his soul is ready for the message turn his thought both to the transcendent God who " clothes Himself with light as with a garment, and walks upon the wings of the wind," and to that immanent spirit which, like the wind, " bloweth where it listeth." Then shall he understand the presentiments which PROM WIND TO SPIRIT. 39 now haunt his dreaming soul, and wide awake look into the open eyes of Truth.* If I have succeeded in suggesting to your mind the thoughts which Eroebel's Wind Song wakens in my own you will now be ready to recognize the truth that " the union of the one and the many is an everlasting quality in thought itself which never grows old in us." Eeason is itself a unity in mani- foldness, hence it can never be satisfied save as it reduces the manifold to unity. The wonder of the child over the many objects moved by the wind is but an adumbration of the wrestling of mature thought with all forms of the manifold. It was be- cause it proved that each thing in the universe is relative to every other, and hence that the universe * I do not know whether I have made myself clear, but my general thought is that with little children we should limit our effort to bringing them in contact with the actual expe- riences out of which the race through analogy evolved its in- sights. Froebel suggests in his picture that they should notice the different things the wind does. As they grow older they should be led to notice the differences between still air, the gentle breeze, the brisk wind, the gust, the tornado. They should also distinguish the different sounds made by the wind — its whispers, songs, sighs, moans, whistles, shrieks, roars. In a word, they should be impressed with all its actual activi- ties, and left to themselves to make out its spiritual analogies. To give them the spiritual meaning is simply to thwart the whole natural process of development. 90 LETTBES TO A MOTHER. is one, that Newton's thought of gravitation was epoch-making in science. It was because it pic- tured the world " as a whole, moved and animated by internal forces," that Humboldt's Cosmos mer- ited and won its great celebrity. It was the convic- tion that every creature is " a note in the great har- mony which must be studied in the whole," which inspired Goethe's search for the intermaxillary bone. It was his poetic and philosophic craving to reduce diversities to unity which impelled him to botanical research, and led to the discovery of the metamorphosis of plants. It is because it endows all objects in time with the unity which gravitation gives to all objects in space, that the theory of evo- lution has achieved its unparalleled triumph. To solve the problem of the many and the one is the sole passion of thought, and in its ever-widening syntheses we recognize the gathering force of that finally resistless current with which the mind sweeps out upon the world. LETTEK IV. MAKING BY UNMAKING. Oh, have yon thought out all it means When baby comes to know Just this — " My bowl is empty now ; 'Twas full a while ago 1 " Only to soul life is it given To own the hour that's fled, Blest token that we most shall live When men shall call us dead. Henrietta R. Eliot. ALL GONE! All gone ! the supper's gone ! White bread and milk so sweet, For baby dear to eat. All gone ! the supper's gone ! Where did baby's supper go 1 Tongue, you had a share, I know. Little mouth, with open lips, Through your rosy gate it slips. Little throat, you know full well Where it went, if you would tell. Little hands, grow strong ; Little legs, grow long ; Little cheeks, grow red : You have all been fed. Emily Huntington Milleb. 91 MAKING BY UNMAKING. 93 Dear : "Within the past week I have been reading Professor Preyer's book, The Mind of the Child, and, perhaps because my thought has also been dwelling much on the All-Gone Song I have been forcibly struck by the many observations prov- ing that the first general concept attained by his boy was that of change in its two forms of ceasing to be and coming to be. It has also interested me to notice that the recognition of ceasing or vanish- ing preceded by nine months that of beginning or appearing. While still unable to articulate any words other than the primitive syllables ma-ma, pa-pa, at-ta, little Axel formed the habit of saying atta when carried from the house for his daily out- ing. In his eleventh month he uttered the same word when the light of a lamp was dimmed. Later he whispered atta when a face was hidden, a fan closed, and a glass emptied of its contents. From these examples of its use it is evident that the word meant to him " gone, all gone," while from the fact that it was generally whispered it seems fair to infer that some sense of mystery, and some feeling of awe, attended this recognition of disappearance. Finally, the feeling of awe was heightened into visible terror during a railway journey, and the 94 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. child repeated atta again and again as he gazed from the car window upon the ever-vanishing land- scape.* Doubtless every thoughtful mother can recall experiences verifying the observations of Professor Preyer.f Doubtless, too, every mother tries to put into words and action something of what she feels * " The only word that is unquestionably used to denote a class of perceptions is still atta, ha-atta, which during the fol- lowing month also is uttered softly, for the most part on go- ing out, and which signifies away or gone. Beyond this no syllable can be named that marked the dawn of mental in- dependence, none that testified to the voluntary use of articulate sounds for the purpose of announcing perceptions." — Development of the Intellect, p. 122. Record of fifteenth month. "No second concept is proved with certainty to be asso- ciated with a definite sound until the twentieth month, when da or nda was frequently uttered in » lively manner and with a peculiarly demonstrative accent on the sudden appearance of a new object in the field of vision." — Development of the Intellect, p. 138. f The little girl I studied used as her first word All-gone in a highly generalized sense. She said it when an object was put out of sight ; when one was denied her ; when she saw an object that had been denied her ; when she swallowed a mouth- ful of food ; when she slipped back, failing to climb a step ; when she had tried to attract some one's attention and failed ; when a person left the room ; when a door blew to ; when a wagon drove away; when a person passed by, or a wagon ap- proached ; when she wished to go out herself (First Two Tears of the Child). — Millicent W. Shinn. MAKING BY UNMAKING. 95 to be struggling in her child's mind. " All gone," she exclaims, smiling and throwing out her arms in explanatory gesture as baby gazes perplexed into his empty cup. " All-gone, light," she repeats, when the candle is borne out of sight. " Bye-bye, papa," she calls, throwing a kiss as the father disap- pears from the nursery, and " bye-bye, pussie, bye-bye, birdie, bye-bye, ball," she says, and teaches her baby to say as one of these well- known objects runs, flies, or rolls out of the field of his vision. It must, however, be confessed that in this case the deed of the mother is hardly an adequate response to the hint thrown out by the child. Con- fronted by vanishing objects he shows perplexity, wonder, and fear. Evidently his mind is grappling with a problem. Something has gone! Where has it gone? Why has it gone? Will it come back? Such are the questions stirring darkly within him, and we only need to put them into words to realize that the infant soul is having its first wrestle with an enigma which has allured and tortured the mind of man upon every plane of historic develop- ment. Were it not that familiarity with change dead- 96 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. ens our sense of its mystery, we should meet the child's wonder with a more comprehending sym- pathy. Think of fleeting days, of changing seasons, of passing years! Behold in the heavens the set- ting sun, the waning moon, the vanishing stars! Let your imagination wander over the face of the earth until you feel the meaning of rushing rivers and ebbing tides, of fading flowers and falling leaves, of withering plants and dying animals. Consider how the mother vanishes from her child, the child from its mother, husband from wife, and friend from friend. When your heart has dwelt upon these things until you begin to realize what it means to be the denizen of a world which is forever fleeing from itself, and whose air is full of " fare- wells to the dying and mournings for the dead," stretch your thought, and from these commonplaces of change pass to its wider workings. Remind yourself that the earth was once a ball of vapor and afterward a fiery sun, while now she hastens toward the time when, like the moon, she will be cold and dead. Recall her geologic changes, her sunken continents, her vanished oceans, her extinct fauna and flora, the primitive men who roved through her ancient forests and died leaving no MAKING BY UNMAKING. 97 sign. Remember the great historic nations which have been and are not. Then once more expand your thought and try to realize that our planet is but one of an infinite number of worlds whose life process is presumably the same, and that, as a whole, the history of the universe is that of matter diffused through space and aggregated into revolv- ing spheres only to be after some brief span of life again diffused. Why is Turner the greatest painter of Nature? Is it not because he paints a dissolving appearance? " Even while you look at the landscape," say his great pictures, " it is passing away." Piety and poetry speak in similar strain. " The heavens wax old as a garment, and as a vesture shall they be changed." " The great globe shall dissolve, and like an insubstantial pageant faded, leave not a wrack behind." " Nature is giddy with motion, and sun, moon, man undulate and stream." In the alembic of thought all " things that be " melt to " things that seem," and solid Nature dissolves into " one fast-flowing energy," " one rushing meta- morphosis." When you begin to feel as little Axel felt in presence of the flying landscape, consider with what 98 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. thoughts you seek to reassure your quaking heart. Do you not remind yourself that the sinking lights in the heaven will rise again, that the stream which rushes to the sea is but returning to its source, that the fading flower carries in its heart the seed whence new flowers shall be born, that though individual plants and animals die, their species persist? Ris- ing to higher levels of thought, do you not declare that extinct fauna and flora are explained when we contemplate Nature as a whole and read her evolu- tionary history; that no great nation perishes un- less the World-Spirit transcends the idea it em- bodies; that death is in reality the true birth of the spirit, and that though our earth shall one day re- turn to star dust it will not be until she has fulfilled her destiny, and nurtured countless millions of im- mortal souls. Summing up these separate reassur- ances, is it not clear that you explain to yourself the phenomena of change by declaring that they imply unrealized possibility, and that in all seemingly destructive activities you recognize the segments and arcs of great circular, spiral, and vortical pro- cesses? Now, just as you explain change to yourself, you must explain it to your boy if you would help MAKING BY UNMAKING. 99 him to conquer and keep his poise of mind. Your explanations must, however, be limited to those infinitesimal circles of change which fall within the range of his minute experience. Froebel's All- Gone Play shows you the ideal mother fulfilling this double requirement. Baby's supper is all gone ! "Where did it go? Little lips, little tongue, little throat, you can tell. Will it come back? Yes, for see, baby's legs are getting long, and his cheeks rosy. Vaguely at first, but with ever-increasing clearness the child learns to connect his food with his bodily health and growth, and with this syn- thesis makes perhaps his first solution of the enigma of change. In the account of her girlhood days at Keilhau, Frau Schrader confesses that some of Froebel's plays seemed to her ridiculous, and that she found his idea that men might be made noble by playing such games narrow, limited, and unnatural. Every thoughtful kindergartner has probably been forced to combat a similar doubt both in herself and others. JSTo one can get rid of it without the insight that each little play is merely the concrete example of a general method of procedure, and the point of de- parture for a cumulative series of experiences. The 100 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. really wonderful thing about Froebel is his acumen in discerning the nuclei of development, and his power of connecting them with the ideals which are at once their impulsion and their goal. What he says to the mother in each of his little plays is: Learn from what you do in this given instance how to act in all similar instances. What he says in the All-Gone Song is: Learn from the synthesis we have made between baby's vanishing supper and his rosy cheeks how to explain all seemingly de- structive processes. If, therefore, we aspire to be intelligent dis- ciples of the prophet of childhood, we shall seize upon every opportunity of calling attention to the rhythmic movement through which change negates itself. We shall connect the sunset with the sunrise, point out the recurrent phases of the moon, teach children to recognize the brightest stars and the most striking constellations, and to watch for their disappearance and return. We shall call attention to the flight of migratory birds, and to their joyous reappearance. We shall show the links which bind the separate seasons into a circular chain of activity. We shall suggest that all the metamorphoses of plant life find their consummation in reproducing MAKING BY UNMAKING. 101 the seed from which they started. We shall stir childish imagination with the mysterious transfor- mations of the caterpillar into chrysalis and butter- fly. We shall make much of family birthdays and national anniversaries, and avail ourselves of the sweet influence of our great church festivals upon the development of religious emotion and aspiration. In a word, let the idea of the All-Gone Song be- come really alive in our minds, and it will impel us daily to some sympathetic suggestion or interpreta- tion of which otherwise we might never have dreamed. The choice of baby's vanishing supper as a typ- ical illustration of the fact of change is a happy one, because in it the child is himself the change pro- ducer. He unmakes his food in order to make his body. Emerson has described the process of assimi- lation as a physical effort to make over the world into the image of the self. " The snake converts whatever food the meadow yields into snake, the fox into fox, and Peter and John are busy working up all existence into Peter and John." The ideal which this effort implies can, however, not be real- ized upon the physical plane, and the act of assimi- lation points upward to man's spiritual activity in 102 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. subduing, transforming, and idealizing Nature. Realizing this fact do you not begin to see tlie destructiveness of little children in a new light? Why do they empty drawers, tear paper, break their toys? Are they, too, trying to stamp themselves upon their environment? Must they, too, unmake in order to remake? And above all, is it your duty to see to it that the effort of the self to produce its image be not thwarted by the lack of material sim- ple enough to lend itself readily to the transforming and creative impulse? You must often have watched little children at play on the seashore, and you know that for a time they are content simply to fill little pails with sand, which they immediately pour out. Later, they make huts, dig wells, excavate tunnels, lay out gardens, and when several of them play together, whole villages spring up under their combined effort. Change making without aim is transfigured into creation, and individual creativeness increased by social combination. From hints like these Froe- bel was led to the production of the kindergar- ten gifts, and to use them so that they may abet the activity of the child in these several stages of development is to use them in his spirit. MAKING BY UNMAKING. 103 So rrrach for the All-Gone Song. Now for the picture. You will notice that it is divided into two parts. In the foreground of the lower division mother and child sit at a table on which stands a cup from which the child has just been fed. In front of the table a dog who has greedily devoured his food looks in his dish for more. Back of the mother a thirsty boy asks water of his sister, who for an answer holds up an empty glass. As he looks at the glass sly puss creeps up behind him and steals his slice of buttered bread. When he shall turn to get his bread he will find it " all gone." Suspended from the ceiling hangs a cage, and on tiptoe beside it a little girl stands ready to give her canary fresh seed. As she opens the door she turns her head just for a second to see what her sister is doing, and lo! when she looks again at the cage she will find her bird flown. Her little brother tries to comfort her. " Come with me, sister," he says, " for out in the field I know a tree in which there is a nest full of birds." The upper part of the picture shows us the chil- dren arrived at the field. The older boy has climbed the tree to get the nest. The other children 104 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. are so absorbed in watching him that not one of them notices the dog who has followed them to the field, and now stands quietly eating the bread the younger boy holds in his hand. When the little fellow turns round he too will find his bread — all gone. The elder brother has reached the nest. But what does he see? The nest is empty;- the birds have all flown away. One little bird, however, flutters to the ground. " I shall have you, at any rate," says the younger boy, throwing his hat over it. " How glad I shall be to give you to my sister. Wait here, little bird, under my hat, until I pick the beautiful raspberries growing on this bush. How good they will taste ! " But a frolicsome breeze blows over the hat, away flies the bird, and the boy when he returns from the raspberry bush will find his bird flown. Froebel's explanation of this picture shows that by typical illustrations of inattention, inconsiderate- ness, want of forethought, and lack of self-restraint he is seeking to awaken the ideals which these ten- dencies contradict. In other words, he is beginning the moral education of the child by attacking the faults into which all children are betrayed. He knows that higher virtues imply lower ones, and MAKING BY UNMAKING. 105 that the attempt to develop the higher before the lower is the parent of sham and hypocrisy. He knows that until we win inner collectedness there is no possibility of any real spiritual development, that all good is conquered evil, and all character formed by a process of overcoming. Therefore he escapes the too common error of trying to build character by beginning with the roof instead of the foundations. For a long time I was puzzled by the excursion to the field and the attempt to rob the bird's nest, and it seemed to me that the condemnation of this proceeding was by no means sufficiently stringent. The following passage from the Education of Man cleared my vision, and showed me that it was be- cause Froebel understood the child that he did not exaggerate his offense: " Another source of many boyish faults lies in precipitation, carelessness, frivolity, and thought- lessness. The boy is apt to act in obedience to a possibly praiseworthy impulse that holds captive his mind and body; but he has not yet experienced in his life the consequences of gratifying this par- ticular impulse, and it has, indeed, not even occurred to him to consider the consequences of the action. 106 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. ... A boy throws stones for a long time at the small window of a house near by, trying very hard to hit it. He has no idea, nor does he realize that, if a stone strikes the window, the latter must neces- sarily break. At last a stone hits the window, the 'window breaks, and the amazed boy stands rooted to the spot. " Again, another boy, by no means malicious, but, on the contrary, very good natured and fond of pigeons, aimed at his neighbor's beautiful pigeon on the roof, with perfect delight and an intense de- sire to hit his mark. He did not consider that if the bullet should hit the mark the pigeon would be killed, and still less that this pigeon might be the mother of young ones needing her care. He fired, the bullet struck, the pigeon fell, a beautiful pair of pigeons were separated, and a number of un- fledged young ones lost the mother who had fed and warmed them. " It is certainly a very great truth — and failure to appreciate it does daily great harm — that it gen- erally is some other human being, not unfrequently the educator himself, that first makes the child or the boy bad. This is accomplished by attributing evil — or at least wrong — motives to all that the MAKING BY UNMAKING. 107 child or boy does from ignorance, precipitation, or even from a keen and praiseworthy sense of right or wrong." * Interpreting the attempt to rob the bird's nest in the light of these illustrations, is it not clear that Froebel recognized as its inspiration the boy's kind- ly impulse to make good to his sister the loss of her canary, while, on the other hand, by saving the nestlings and suggesting their right to their home and their freedom, he attacks the heedless-, ness which might so easily harden into wanton cruelty? Test this interpretation the next time you show Harold the All-Gone picture. Say to him: "It was kind of the little brother to want to give his sister another bird, but he should have thought how, the poor little bird would miss its home and its mother, and how the mother would grieve for her nestling." On the other hand, learn from this illu- minating example how important it is to overcome the tendency to give pleasure at no cost to one's self, and without considering the cost to others. Train Harold to recognize that before he permits himself to give he must consider whether what he * Education of Man, Hailmann's translation, pp. 123, 124. 9 108 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. is giving is his own. Otherwise he may fall into the habit of preying upon the time, strength, and possessions of others in order to gratify alike his selfish and his generous whims, and in the latter case even plume himself on his exceptional kindli- ness. Buddha felt so sorry for the hungry tiger that he offered himself as its supper. This was the reductio ad absurdum of self-sacrifice. But it is worse to gratify your momentary sympathy with the tiger by throwing him your neighbor or your friend. Are you asking what possible connection there can be between these moral lessons and baby's van- ishing supper? Some tie must bind them together, ,or our picture is no picture at all. A true picture is a unity in the manifold. Some one idea is ex- pressed in all of its different objects, and each ob- ject or group of objects presents this idea from a different point of view. Obviously the All-Gone picture presents the general fact of disappearance. The supper, the canary, the nestlings, the slice of bread all vanish away. This merely superficial con- nection, however, leaves us dissatisfied, and we seek a deeper unity in the thought of return or re- MAKING BY UNMAKING. 109 action. The child's supper returns, and so does his deed. The return of the one has a positive, the re- turn of the other a negative, outcome. Baby's bread and milk is transmuted into rosy cheeks and sturdy limbs. Heedlessness and want of consideration de- stroy the continuity of experience, and cause each new moment of time to eat up its predecessor. The ability to recognize change enables the child to observe the recoil of his deeds, and thus makes pos- sible a process of self-changing through which a merely animal type of existence is transfigured into truly human living. The child unmakes his food to make his tody. He unmakes in order to remake his environment. He must unmake in order to make himself. The activities of sense, the power of motion, the rudimentary impulses of sympathy, the faculty of imitation, the young child shares with young animals. With the recognition of change he parts company from the brute, and enters upon his dis- tinctive career as a human being. The conscious- ness of change presupposes an act of comparison. Something-which was is contrasted with something that is. Such comparison implies that a past mo- ment is held in mind, and such holding of a van- 110 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. ished moment shows that the child is no longer a creature of mere sensation, who, heedless of his ceaseless transit, is whirled along the rushing stream of Time. He has climbed the banks of the Time river and, stationary himself, watches its ever-flow- ing currents. Thenceforward he need never fear being drowned in its waves. But though the consciousness of change assures its possessor of endless life, it does not free him from temporal life. Shakespeare has described ap- petite, or merely natural impulse, as a universal wolf, which, making, perforce, a universal prey, at last eats up itself. When each successive moment de- vours the deed of the preceding moment life is for- ever vanishing and beginning anew, and though it should persist forever it would remain forever finite and temporal. It is only as we learn to do deeds, each of which re-enforces all the others and is in turn re-enforced by them that mere endlessness is transfigured into eternal life. The recognition of change gives the point of departure for the con- version of endlessness into eternity. For from con- trast between what was and what is, the mind, under the impetus of the idea of cause, advances to their connection, and thus becomes conscious of the cir- MAKING BY UNMAKING. m cular sweep of its own energies. Observing the re- sults of his deeds, the child begins to define their nature. Defining their nature, he discriminates good from evil and generates ideals. Generating ideals he becomes morally self-directing, and thus frees his soul from external seduction, and fortifies it against external attack. There are three kinds of change. The first is . that which is wholly produced by outside influence. Rocks are worn away by water; iron is corroded by air; forests are destroyed by fire; water is frozen by cold and converted into vapor by heat. In the second form of change there is both outside influ- ence and self-determination. To this type belong the vital processes of nutrition, respiration, and reproduction, the adaptive modification to environ- ment, by which all existing species of plants and animals have been produced, and that progres- sive transformation of Nature through which it be- comes the image and revelation of human selfhood. In the third form of change external influence van- ishes, and the process is self-produced and self-sus- tained. The self -changing being creates its own en-'' vironment, furnishes its own stimulations, acts 1 upon itself as object, and transforms itself as result. 112 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. This type of change is realized through the ascent of thought to the contemplation of causal energies, and in the self-determination of the will through altruistic ideals. To attain the stadium of self- change is to become free and immortal — free be- cause emancipated from external coercion and se- duction, immortal because possessing the power of realizing all potentialities and transcending all de- fects. We are becoming familiar with the idea that the condition of the young child presents many analogies to that of the hypnotic patient, and that as the latter responds to the suggestions of the operator, so the former responds to the suggestions of his environment. Professor Baldwin tested the regularity of the operation of suggestion by arrang- ing attractive objects about a room in such a way that only after reaching one could his little daugh- ter see the next. He found her, of course, the vic- tim of this device, and she rushed with avidity from one object to another.* It is, however, important to remember that all children do not respond in the same manner to the same suggestion. Approach your face to one baby and you get a scratch, ap- * Mental Development, James Mark Baldwin, p. 385. MAKING BY UNMAKING. 113 proach it to another and you receive a caress.* Hold up before one child a number of attractive objects, and his mind is paralyzed by colliding de- sires. Hold the same objects before a different child and he immediately seizes one and neglects all the rest. The individuality of each child influ- ences the form of his reaction to external stimuli, or, differently stated, the native bias of tempera- ment acts as an unconscious motive in determining the choice. Moral life begins when conscious mo- tives take the place of blind impulsion. "Where these are lacking there is self-determination in the forms of impulse and desire. Where they are pres- ent there is self-determination in its highest potency as free will. Even while the child is still borne along by the current of mere natural impulse the mother may do much to help or hinder his moral development. By appealing to activity, sympathy, kindness, generos- ity she may increase the energy of these elemental forces; by appealing to selfishness and vanity she may augment the power of these despotic passions. * " Caligula recognized the legitimacy of his daughter be- cause of the early brutality with which she attacked the eyes and cheeks of other infants who were presented to her as play- fellows." — De Quincy's Csesars, p. 86. 114 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. But the highest privilege of motherhood is to aid the child to generate conscious ideals and win him to obey them. The means of realizing this double purpose are worthy examples, well-considered ap- proval, reproof, and punishment; the direction of the child's observation to the recoil of his deeds; stories, songs, poems, and pictures, portraying right and wrong actions belonging to the level of consciousness he has attained. Several cautions are necessary. The first is that in judging the actions of children we must be care- ful to study their motives, and avoid the too com- mon error of reading into them our own stronger and more conscious feelings. Little children are neither so bad nor so good as we think them when we ex- plain them by ourselves. Much of the injustice done them arises from imputing to them deliber- ately evil intentions impossible in a stage of devel- opment whose characteristic mark is simple inconti- nence, while conversely our undue praise of their virtue arises from transferring to them by analogy our own spiritual struggles and victories. The sec- ond caution is that since the child can appreciate only the consequences which follow close upon the heels of action he must be incited to effort and self- MAKING BY UNMAKING. 115 control, not by the remote but by the immediate fruits of his deeds. Our moral appeals are often fruitless just because we are blind to this truth, and instead of calling attention to near results threaten the child with that distant and to him indifferent future when he shall be a man, or appeal to him by motives borrowed from the more remote and hence less potent hereafter of death. Finally, since good is conquered evil, and we learn what is right by finding out what is wrong, it is of prime importance to hold up to imagination examples of deeds to be shunned, and this is the reason why Froebel in the All-Gone picture shows the outcome of those impul- sive errors into which little children are most prone to fall. In the commentary on Falling Falling, in the pictures and commentaries relating to the Fishes and the Light Bird, in the Broken Window, the Shadow Songs, the Knights and the Bad Child, he likewise portrays negative deeds, and shows their results. That in many songs and pictures he pre- sents actions to be emulated goes without saying. Like our traditional tales where the virtues of the hero or heroine are thrown into relief by contrast with a bad brother or sister, like the Bible stories of Cain and Abel, Noah and the wicked world, 116 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. Esau and Jacob, Joseph and his brethren, David and Saul; like the revelation of good in Dante's Purgatory through positive and negative examples, the Mother-Play allures the heart by the beauty of the ideal, and defines this ideal by picturing the outcome of deeds which contradict it. One of the commonest mistakes in education is the presentation of ideals for which the mind is not prepared. Whenever this is done it either con- fuses the child's intellect, leaves him indifferent, arouses his antagonism, or betrays him into hypoc- risy. Kousseau tells a good story of a little boy whom he heard glibly relating the celebrated anec- dote of Alexander the Great and his trusted physi- cian. The latter had prescribed for the king a medicinal draught. Alexander was told that it was poisoned. But he had reason to trust the character of his physician, so he quietly told the latter what he had heard, and then drank the medicine. To understand the point of this story it is necessary to know how many dangers beset one who wears a crown; how discerning must be the mind of him who, surrounded by false and faithless men, clearly recognizes those who may be trusted; and how heroic is the heart which dares to stake life rathet MAKING BY UNMAKING. H7 than to doubt a proven character. Naturally a young child can appreciate neither such dangers, such discernment, nor such heroism; and there- fore when Rousseau, who suspected that he had been listening to a parrot recitation, questioned the narrator he found that the boy, who had himself recently been forced to take a nauseous draught, was simply admiring Alexander for drink- ing with calmness what must have had a very bad taste. Why is Hamlet the Sphinx * of literature? Is it not because so few people know the morbid in- trospection, the too curious consideration which paralyzes the will? Literature is purgatorial when it reveals both the motive and the outcome of deed. We understand the revelation only in so far as we find something analogous to it in our own con- sciousness. I am sure that many stories we tell children are not only valueless but pernicious, be- cause the deeds portrayed remain opaque to imag- ination, and I am no less sure that one reason we tell such stories is because we do not consider that good is conquered evil, and that the only ideals the young child can understand are those which * See Mr. D. J. Snider's Shakespearean Drama. 118 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. point to conquest of the faults into which he is constantly betrayed. If you will remember this you will know how to save Harold from staggering about in garments of thought which fit his mind about as the trousers and coats of his long-legged, broad-chested father would fit his little body. The Chinese are said to have the golden rule in a negative form. The Hindoo knows there is a contradiction between his natural and ideal self, but has never been able to make a positive solution of the problem which such a contradiction involves. The ten commandments are specific and prohibitory; the Christian law of love is universal and affirma- tory. The educational discipline of many centuries was required to bridge the gulf between the two revelations. Genetically " Thou shalt not " ante- dates " Thou shalt," and though evil can only be defined as the negative of good, it is none the less true that good arises by the process of overcoming evil. Looking at evil " under the form of eternity," we may confidently repeat the affirmation of St. Augustine: "I inquired what iniquity was and found it no substance, but perversion of the will from the best and highest good." Looking at good under the form of time we are forced to admit its MAKING BY UNMAKING. 119 evolution from evil, and to realize that both for the individual and the race the making of the ideal in- volves the unmaking of the natural self. We have ceased to talk of original sin, but we reaffirm the thought which inspired that formula in the statement that " man must throw off his brute inheritance." Froebel's wording of this in- sight is that man is born the child of Nature, but is destined to become the child of God. Goethe has rekindled its light in many minds by his declara- tion that "it is only with renunciation that life, properly speaking, can be said to begin." The mys- tic teaches the same truth when he bids us remem- ber that we must " die to live," and philosophy defines its complete implication in the profound paradox that the negative must negate itself. Under all forms of statement the one great idea is that self-making is self-changing, and that it is only by annihilating self that we achieve selfhood. I wonder if, when as a child you listened to the story of Jacob and Esau, you felt as I did. How I despised Jacob for his timidity, his bargaining, his deceit! How my heart went out to the gener- ous, impulsive, affectionate Esau! How unjust it 120 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. seemed to me that his crafty supplanter should be preferred as father of the people of God. It has taken long years of experience to reconcile me to Jacob. Slowly I came to see that from the begin- ning he showed a susceptibility to the ideal which Esau wholly lacked. I began to appreciate his rev- erence for the despised birthright. I admitted that a man who could serve fourteen years to gain the woman he loved deserved respect. I recognized in all the details of his life the merit of resolute and unbending purpose. I beheld the gradual up- lifting of his aims, the gradual ennobling of his en- deavor. I entered into the meaning of that night of agony wherein he wrestled with an adversary whose name he knew not, and won his own new name of Israel, the prince of God. I confessed that his was the triumph of one who overcomes, and re- luctantly admitted that his more attractive brother remained forever the child of impulse, one "who did eat and drink, rose up and went his way." Finally I recognized in history the vindication of the divine choice. In the wrathful monarch who slew the babes of Bethlehem and in the heartless voluptuary who as the reward of a seductive dance gave the head of a prophet, I learned to condemn MAKING BY UNMAKING. 121 their wavering, fickle, and unruly progenitor, while my heart did tardy justice to the wrestling and pre- vailing Jacob as I realized that from the race who were called by his name, and who perpetuated his character, there sprang in the fullness of time that mighty One who, having overcome the world and the flesh, death and the grave, shall reign forever king of kings and lord of lords. Have I wandered far from the All-Gone pic- ture? To me it does not seem so, for in its gentle incitement to consideration and self-restraint I rec- ognize that Froebel is guiding the child's first feeble steps upon the steep and narrow path which mounts toward the ideal I have been describing. Our " sugar-plum " and " flower-pot " education, on the contrary, beguiles him to self-indulgence, and creates in him the vicious expectation of success without effort, love without merit, and character without conquest. Every thoughtful mother must consciously ask two questions: What is the universal law of de- velopment, and what is its goal? To these ques- tions the answers are written in characters which he who runs may read. "What mean the " struggle for life," and the "survival of the fittest"? 122 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. What means that nobler struggle for the life of others shown in the care of the plant for its seed, the bird for her nestlings, the mammalian mother for her suckling? What mean the lov- ing sacrifices of human, parents, the devotion of patriots, the self-surrender of heroes, the voluntary martyrdom of saints? Dare we hesi- tate to draw the inevitable conclusion that crea- tion is a via dolorosa upon whose summit stands the cross? " If thou be the son of God save thyself and come down from the cross! " Ah, if we but knew it, could we but realize it, that is just the one thing the son of God may never do. And now, dear mother of my little godson, do you trust me enough, do you love me enough to accept at my hands the wounds of a friend? May I say to you with perfect frankness that in the education of your older children you seem to me to have violated the principle sug- gested in the All-Gone picture and commentary. I have often wondered why you who have so strenuously wrought, so triumphantly over- come, should fail to incite your children to noble warfare. Does your too sanguine love blind you to MAKING BY UNMAKING. 123 the dangers which beset their gifted, sympathetic, attractive, yet wayward and pleasure-loving na- tures? Is it that you have thought it sufficient to hold up general ideals of conduct and trust to the " spontaneous spring of the soul toward truth " for the reaction of such ideals upon the formation of character? May it be that your over-sensitive feel- ing of personal accountability betrays you into assuming responsibilities not your own, that there- fore you seek to shield your children rather than to arm them, and that in your fear of arousing antag- onism you fall at times into an unworthy ac- quiescence? Or, is it possible that you feel the allurement of the higher life, but not its compul- sion; that you actually do not know that sun and moon are set in array against wayward caprice; that the stars in their courses fight against self-in- dulgence, that a militant cosmos defends its own ideal of rational freedom? I ask these questions, but I can not answer them. I only know that while you have chosen for yourself the life of con- quest you have not seemed to expect it of your chil- dren. Begin to do so, and with your Benjamin begin so early that you may avoid for him the tragic crises from which it may be you can not 10 124 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. now save his older brothers and sisters. Do not be discouraged by past mistakes, but set your- self the valiant task of undoing their results. Claim for your loved ones as for yourself the ceaseless strife and the two-edged sword, the noble failure which transcends all petty successes, the " divine discontent " sweeter far than all fi- nite joys. The goal of all spiritual activity is its return upon a higher plane to its point of departure. The infant lives only in the vanishing moment. Win- ning the final triumph of character he lives again in the moment, but he freights the moment with eter- nity. The madness which mortgages the whole of life to its fleeting moments, and scoffs at inevitable con- sequences in the violence and recklessness of its de- sires is portrayed in the legend of Faust. But a world-poet has transfigured the myth by giving it a different ending. Itself immortal and divine, the soul of man can never find satisfaction in the finite and ephemeral. Goaded by aspiration it must dis- dain all petty joys, and the only moment to which it can say, Ah, still delay, thou art so fair, is the moment of love, of service, and of sacrifice, into MAKING BY UNMAKING. 125 which is compressed eternal life. Over such a soul the spirit of evil, which is the spirit of finitude, can have no lasting power, and in its noble un- rest we read the blessed promise of its final per- fection. LETTER V. heaven's fihst law. Oh, teach your child that Order's law Is ever truly kind, And will his life to music set ; While those who this same law forget No rhythmic sweetness find. The clock is not a master hard, Euling with iron hand ; It is a happy household sprite, Helping all things to move aright, With gentle guiding wand. Its quiet tick still seems to say, " Though time pass velvet shod, It guides the universal round Of worlds and souls — for it is found Deep in the thought of God ! " Henrietta E. Eliot. TICK! TACK! Swing, swong ! this is the way Goes the pendulum night and day. "Tick! tock! tick! tock!" Never resting, says the clock. " Time for work and time for fun, Time to sleep when day is done. Tick ! tock ! " Hear the clock ! "Time to rest each little head ; Time the children were in bed." 127 12S LETTERS TO A MOTHER. Swing, swong ! sure and slow Goes the pendulum to and fro. "Tick! took! tick! tock! In the morning says the clock. " Time to wake from slumber sweet, Time to wash and time to eat. Tick ! tock." Hear the clock, "Tick, tack, tock ! " it cries, "Children, it is time to rise ! " Emily Huntington Milleb. It was in the Eads kindergarten, one bright morning many years ago, that there came to me my first genuine insight into Froebel's Play of the Clock. At that time Mrs. Hubbard was director of the kindergarten, and her manner of playing Froe- bel's games always helped me to interpret them. I used to watch her very closely, for it occurred to me that from her intuitions might be deduced gen- eral principles which would be helpful to all kin- dergarteners. She had so disciplined her body by suitable exercises that it was the pliant instrument of her will. Her voice and manner were quiet, and her whole personality suggested repose in the midst of energy. Her gestures were never vague and un- meaning, but really definitions of thought through movement. She never allowed a number of chil- dren to stand idle on the circle while a few played in the center, but invariably found some way of en- HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 129 listing the activity of all in each game. Thus, if five or six children were flying birds, those on the circle became trees; if the few were butterflies, the many were flowers; if the few were fishes, the many became a flowing stream or an undulating lake. But the feature, of what for want of a better term I must call her method, which most impressed me was her complete identification of the little players with the persons or objects whose activities they imitated. Were the children, for example, playing carpenters and playing carelessly, she would never say to them " You are not planing or sawing as the carpenter does," but " I am afraid I shall have to get better carpenters to build my house." Children who failed in the rhythmic swing of the arms and legs which represented the pendulums were clocks out of order and needing repair. Tiny tots who found the flying movement /difficult were consoled by the suggestion that of course baby birds couldn't fly so fast or so far as the mamma bird, but they mustn't mind, for their wings would soon be stronger. All who have watched the spontaneous play of little children know that its characteristic mark is precisely this merging of their own identity in the being of the 130 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. object represented. Thus a little girl who was playing the part of a robin mother and tenderly feeding imaginary nestlings with imaginary worms became not only pale, but breathless and palpita- ting with terror at her own mother's rather thoughtless suggestion of an approaching cat. Nor was her equanimity restored until she had trans- formed the robin into a farmer who, as she eagerly explained, was not afraid of cats. But to return to the Clock Play. \ I had gone bright and early to the Eads kindergarten, for I wished to see the opening exercises, of which Froe- bel's game of the Tick-Tack was a daily feature. As I entered the room the children were rising to play it. A moment later a little girl followed me, and seemed about to greet the director and children when the opening strains of the Tick-Tack melody transformed her into a clock. I looked around; there were no children in the room, nothing but animated clocks — arms, legs, bodies swaying to the rhythm of the song. They were children again when the game was finished, but the spontaneous punctuality and exactness of all their work proved that they were children who had developed a clock consciousness. Then I said to myself, Froebel is HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 131 right, and to imitate the activity of any object is to become yourself the object you imitate/) In my letter on the "Weathervane I tried to show you that imitation is the child's first way of getting back of phenomena to their causes, or, dif- ferently stated, his first way of explaining the world in which he finds himself. But this interpretation of environment is only one aspect of the function of imitation, and I want you now to consider its other aspect and to realize that it is by and through imitation that the child begins to create himself. Have you ever thought how strange it is that the baby knows himself first as an object like any other, calling himself as he calls other things by a particular name, tugging to pull off his leg as he pulls off his stocking? Have you realized that it is only in contrast with a plurality of objects that he discriminates himself as I, or universal subject, and " rounds into a separate mind? " Have you ever pondered the fact that each new experience teaches us something about ourselves we did not know, that every natural scene, every human relationship, every book we read, every picture we see, every song we hear, reveals to us some power or some de- fect in ourselves? In a story whose name I have 132 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. entirely forgotten, the heroine gives as her reason for wanting to travel that until she has seen the whole world there will be something about herself she does not know. This remark has mingled itself in my consciousness with Whitman's poem of the child who became the objects he looked upon,* with Mr. Alcott's orphic saying that man is omni- present and lies all about himself, and with the puzzling metaphysical statement that the world is mind turned inside out. The precipitate I get from this compound solution is that the contents of mind * There was a child went forth one day, And the first object that he looked upon, that object he be- came, And that object became part of him for the day or a certain part of the day, Or for many years or stretching cycles of years. The early lilacs became part of this child, And grass, and white and red morning glories, and white and red clover, and the song of the phoabe bird, And the apple trees covered with blossoms, and the fruit af- terward ; and woodberries and the commonest weeds by the road, And the schoolmistress that passed on her way to the school And the friendly boys that passed, and the quarrelsome boys, And the tidy and fresh-cheeked girls, and the barefoot ne- gro boy and girl, And all the changes of city and country wherever he went. Walt Whitman. HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 133 are ideas, and that could we turn mind inside out and, as it were, spill its contents without destroying their order, the result would be the display of all possible ideas as separate objects in an articulated system. Such an outpouring of the divine mind is the universe; only as he becomes its mirror does man have ideas of his own, and only as he possesses ideas does he achieve concrete individuality or true personality. Opposed to this true personality is the natural or abstract self which is simply a plastic energy molding experiences into a specific form. Obviously, therefore, the concrete individuality will be rich or poor in proportion to the range of experience, and it is literally true that until we know the universe we can neither be nor know our real selves. "With insight into the truth that the progress of mind is from object to subject, from the world to the self, we get new light on the significance of imitation. The child makes himself into a weath- ervane, a clock, a bird. This means that he makes over these objects into himself. Notice, moreover, that since he imitates the activities of these objects he defines and assimilates not their outer semblance, but their informing idea. Through imitation he 134: LETTERS TO A MOTHER. penetrates from the sensuous fact to its producing energy, and produces in himself a reflection of this energy. Thus it is that by imitating the rhythmic utterance of the clock, and the rhythmic swing of the pendulum, he begins on the one hand to understand the nature of the clock as a measurer of time, and on the other to develop in himself those ideals of order and punctuality which are the soul's practical responses to time measure- ment. You must be getting tired of iny repeated insist- ence upon the fact that the Mother-Play singles out for imitation objects and actions which have both an allurement for all children and a general edu- cative value. It is superfluous to give illustrations of the fascination of the clock, but you will learn much of the nature of mind by considering its source. This source is a life veiled in mystery, and expressing itself in rhythm. All mystery quickens the imagination; a rhythmic mystery stirs it pro- foundly because of " a certain remote kinship with the form of our soul activity." To define the tie between rhythm and spiritual activity will be to understand the allurement of the clock, but be- fore attempting such a definition I want to sug- HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 135 gest to you a sufficient number of related facts to awaken a premonition of the reason imbedded in all. Why do children love rhythmic games? Why do youths and maidens delight in dance and song? Why " does the sailor work better for his yo-heave- o," and the " soldier march better and fight better for the trumpet and drum? " Why were the first dances regularly repeated leaps, the first poetry metrical chants, the first musical instruments those which marked off or measured sound? Why can we speak of a scale of color and define architecture as frozen music? Why do we feel that in a very deep and true sense music is the soul of all the arts? Why do we cherish Job's thought of morning stars singing together for joy, and cling to the Pytha- gorean conception of the music of the spheres? These questions are answered by reflecting that art is the self-revelation of spirit, and hence that all its products must bear the image of consciousness which is the distinctive characteristic of spirit. Consciousness is " the knowing of the self by the self." This implies an annulled distinction be- tween subject and object. Such an annulled dis- tinction is identity, and the ever-repeated move- 136 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. merit from distinction to identification can be de- scribed by no better word tban rhythm. Hence all rhythmic movements and all rhythmic sounds may be translated into the tireless affirmation I am I. What rhythm is to the arts of movement and sound, proportion or visible rhythm is to architecture, sculpture, and painting. Finally, since the world is the self-revelation of the divine mind, it too is a work of art into which the supreme Artist has breathed his own life. Quickened by this insight, I remember with strange pleasure that the very word rhythm points by its derivation to the un- dulating stream. The swaying grass, the waving wheat, the rhythmic flight of the bird, the accord- ant colors of flowers, touch me with new emotion. I find deeper meaning in " the primal chimes of sun and shade, of sound and echo." I picture to myself the mazy courses of the stars and their harmoni- ously proportioned periods. I behold the " dance of Nature forward and far," and hear the very " atoms marching to tune." At last I learn from science that " the flux of power is eternally the same, that it rolls in music through the ages, and that all terrestrial energy, the manifestations of life as well as the display of phenomena, are but HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 137 the modulations of its rhythm." * Then my soul is filled with mystic awe, and in the ceaseless pulsa- tions of persistent energy I read the cosmic procla- mation of that great name by which God revealed himself to his ancient people — Jehovah — the ab- solute and eternal I Am. And so the infant, a rhythmic soul in a rhyth- mic body, is born into a rhythmic universe. Strange indeed would it be if he gave no signs of the universal impulse, or if simple mother-wit had failed to detect and respond to his intimations. That there has been no such failure is proved by nursery games like Pat-a-cake and Shoe the Mare, by the gentle pats and strokes which soothe the rest- less baby, by the song which lulls him to sleep, by the dancing and dandling to which he responds with gleeful laugh. Almost equally strange would it be had Froebel omitted to notice either the hint of the child or the response of the mother, or had he failed to elicit and apply the educational principle latent in their joint suggestion. He vindicates our reasonable demand upon his insight by calling at- tention in the Education of Man to the maternal procedure, by explaining that through rhythmic * The Idea of God, John Fiske, p. 146. 138 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. movements the child is made to feel his own inner life, and by insisting that the development of such movements increases harmony of character, dimin- ishes wilfulness and coarseness, fosters firmness and moderation, and awakens appreciation of Nature and art.* He vindicates our demand upon him as a practical educator by creating his Mother-Plays and his kindergarten games with their threefold rhythm, f In this connection it seems to me important to ask Helen if she has consciously faced a question upon whose answer depends the direction in which kindergarten games shall hereafter develop. Some kindergartners are beginning to feel that no game should have a fixed form, and a few even question whether there should be any fixed games. It is suggested that each day should evolve its own plays, and that these should be the joint product of kin- dergartner and children. Under this hypothesis the rhythmic form of the games tends to disappear, as does also their association with definite poems and * Education of Man, Hailmann's translation, pp. 69, 70, 218, 219. f See Pedagogics of the Kindergarten, Miss Jarvis's trans- lation, pp. 336-285. HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 139 melodies. Thus far the movement in this direction is a vague and shifting one; indeed, it is rather a tendency than a movement. It seems to me a dan- gerous tendency. I believe that the prototype of the kindergarten game is not the capricious play of the individual child, but the traditional ring, dance, and representative game of which King Wil- liam, Oats, Peas, Beans, and the Mulberry Bush are familiar illustrations; and the original games of analogous type produced by a group of playing children as described by Froebel in the Pedagogics of the Kindergarten. I believe that it is dangerous to invade the realm of the spontaneity of the child by introducing into the kindergarten the type of play ordinarily determined by the free self-impul- sion of individual children. The value of such plays depends upon their very caprice and arbitrariness. It is because in them the child exercises his powers according to his natural proclivities that they de- velop his individuality. Mothers and kindergart- ners should carefully observe such plays in order that they may understand the children committed to their care. They should refuse to tamper with them because all mature interference tends to de- stroy their spontaneity. They belong not to the 11 140 LETTEES TO A MOTHER. kindergarten, but to the nursery and the play- ground. Their introduction into the kindergarten, and above all their guidance by the kindergartner, is not an extension of the child's freedom, but a dangerous attack upon it. The traditional game, on the contrary, is an expression not of the par- ticular child, but of universal childhood. Its sub- ject-matter is generally suggestive, sometimes ques- tionable, occasionally pernicious. Its poetic form is nearly always bad. Froebel seized upon the traditional game, caught the hint suggested by its recurrent subjects, eliminated its objectionable features, recognized the charm of music, poetry, and measured movement, and thus created the kin- dergarten plays. Ask Helen to give these thoughts her serious consideration. Then, if she allows her- self to be borne along upon the stream of present tendency she will at least know whither she is going. From these byways of thought I return to the clock, the secret of whose fascination I hope you now clearly understand. Its swinging pendulum is the visible image of our oscillating consciousness, its monotonous tick-tack-tick an audible symbol of our self-repelling, self-attracting ego. No wonder HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 141 the child wants to know what it says. No wonder that Froebel translates its rhythmic utterance into the call to lead a rhythmic life. A time to wash, and a time to eat; a time to play, and a time to sleep! Out of the chaos of the infant conscious- ness the four great events of his daily life emerge as points of light, and with their dimmest recogni- tion he begins inwardly to order his thought, and outwardly to order his doings. My sensitive consciousness of the adverse critic makes me anticipate a protest even from you. What need of Froebel or his song of the clock? Everybody knows that " order is heaven's first law," and every sensible mother tries with all her might to make her children orderly. Ear be it from me to question either assertion. Were order not a universal law Froebel would not have con- cerned himself with it. Did sensible mothers not try to make their children orderly he would scarce- ly have endeavored to rouse all mothers to the same effort. Perhaps, however, he may have no- ticed a tendency to force order upon the child in- stead of developing it from him; perhaps he may have recognized that while no good habit is formed without struggle, struggle itself should be the spon- 142 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. taneous answer of the soul to spiritual allurement; perhaps, therefore, he may have imagined that the charm of the clock might be consciously used as a means of wakening the ideal of order, and through this ideal inciting the effort necessary to form habits of order. A rigidly enforced order tends to produce an inward recoil of the soul against order. Froebel's ideal is to stir the child's soul with premonitions of the importance of order, and of the beauty of order, and through these premonitions nerve him to the conflict with indolence and wayward im- pulse which the habit of order implies. The conversation between mother and child in the commentary is a further appeal to the sympa- thies stirred by the play. The child wants mamma to show him a picture, but it is his time for the afternoon bath. So the mother points him to his kitten, who is smoothing her fur as if expecting welcome visitors, reminds him that papa will soon be home and will want to find his darling neat and clean. The child must deny himself the picture-book, but if the self-denial is to have any educative value it must be voluntary. More- over, the motive of giving pleasure to papa lifts HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 143 mere punctuality into an act of loving considera- tion. After this conversation Froebel makes what seems at first sight a digression from the subject of punctuality to that of cleanliness. A little reflec- tion, however, shows us that there is an intimate tie between the two virtues. Punctuality is order in time. The unpunctual man is always where he should not be. Cleanliness is order in space. Un- cleanliness puts matter out of place. It belongs to the ground, not to the human body. From the thought of physical cleanliness the commentary rises to that of a clean heart. In the Tick-Tack Song also, Froebel suggests a connection between orderly activity and spiritual purity. It is easy to develop his idea. You should have risen at half -past six, and you indolently lie in bed until seven. You hurry to be ready for breakfast. In your haste you tear a garment, burst off an important button, or produce some other irritating catastrophe. Al- ready nervous, you enter the breakfast room ten minutes behind time, to find the other members of the household disarranged by your tardiness. Your husband mentions that he will be late for an important business engagement. The children are 144 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. hurried off to school, and are fretful in conse- quence. There is no time for the pleasant ameni- ties of a family breakfast. During the morning household work is indifferently performed, and your servants are quick to blame the late break- fast. You begin to feel it is hard that you can't once in a while take a morning nap without so much direct and indirect reproach. You are get- ting into a bad temper. Then comes the unex- pected strain and you are betrayed into some act of passion, self-love meantime asserting stoutly that you are ill used. Evidently your inner cosmos is falling into' primeval chaos; there is no light or order in your spiritual world — nothing but a tu- mult of colliding emotions. It is well, however, to remember that procras- tination is not the only, perhaps not even the worst, thief of time. To overcrowd time is as dis- astrous as to empty it. To steal for one purpose time which rightly belongs to another is to defeat all true purposes. How many men steal the break- fast hour to read the newspaper! How many men and women steal for work the hours which belong to sleep, and then to avoid physical bankruptcy steal for sleep the hours which belong to recrea- HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 145 tion ! In how many families are the cords of affec- tion strained and broken because there is no time for participation in simple joys or for kindly sym- pathy in petty woes! How many men by persist- ent thefts from the hours which belong to sleep, to meals, and to recreation, steal years from their allotted period of life! Reminding yourself of these commonplace facts, you will realize that we never outgrow the need of the clock's call to a rhythmic life, and that not only for your children, but for their busy mother it is important to have " a time to wash and a time to eat, a time to sleep and a time to play. Ordered time means serenity, power, self-command, liberty. Slothfulness, pro- crastination, and overwork recoil upon some na- tures by periods of morbid depression, and expose others to the danger of being tossed about by gusts of passion as the rudderless ship is tossed on the stormy sea. A quick-witted maiden of my acquaintance de- fends her boredom in the society of a dull admirer by remarking, with a yawn, that his thought has only chronological connections. Her remark has a general application, for there is no surer test of either a stupid or an uncultivated person than the 146 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. absence from consciousness of all relations save those of time and place. Coleridge calls our atten- tion to Shakespeare's humorous portrayal of this characteristic in the narratives of illiterate persons, and gives as an illustration " the easy yielding Mrs. Quickly's relation of the circumstances of Sir John Falstaff's debt to her." " Falstaff. What is the gross sum that I owe thee? " "Host. Marry, if thou wert an honest man, thyself and the money, too. Thou didst swear to me upon a parcel-gilt goblet, sitting in my Dol- phin chamber, at a round table, by a sea-coal fire, upon Wednesday in Whitsun week, when the prince broke thy head for liking his father to a singing man of Windsor; thou didst swear to me then, as I was washing, thy wound, to marry me and make me my lady thy wife. Canst thou deny it? Did not goodwife Keech, the butcher's wife, come in then and call me Gossip Quickly? — coming in to borrow a mess of vinegar; telling us she had a good dish of prawns; whereby thou didst de- sire to eat some; whereby I told thee they were ill for a green wound, etc." While it indicates a lack of culture to empha- HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 147 size merely local and temporal connections, the fact that objects and events recur in memory united with their original accompaniments in time and space suggests that the reaction of order upon intel- lect is no less important and beneficial than its re- action upon emotion, and that to have a time and place for everything, and everything in its time and place, is to begin the preparation of the mind for logical thinking. Hence Froebel only realizes our expectations when to the Clock Song, which deals with the organization of time, he adds the plays of the Bird's Nest, the Pigeon House, and Numbering the Fingers, illustrating in the two former the order or relativity of objects in space, and pointing in the latter to the organization of space through the mastery of number. From these initial forms of order he rises to the order of rhythmic games and regulated productive activity. In the use of his gifts he insists upon obedience to two fundamental rules, the first of which is that in each exercise the child shall recognize and respect the relationship of whole and parts; the second that he shall develop each new form from its pred- ecessor. Obviously, the one rule rests upon the principle of unity or relativity in space, the other 148 ' LETTERS TO A MOTHER. upon the principle of evolution or connectedness in time. The so-called Froebelian law of the Media- tion of Opposites in its most frequent application ' is simply a recognition of aesthetic order and unity as illustrated upon the plane of development which has advanced beyond simple repetition to the rec- ognition of correspondence. Just as peoples in a low stage of assthetic culture insist upon making the human form symmetrical by matching the face on the front side of the head with a face at the back, and the arms directed forward with arms directed backward, so the young child constructs " forms of beauty " by consciously applying with- in proper limits the principles of symmetry.* Finally, alike through intercourse with kinder- gartner and comrades, and through games symboliz- ing the family, civil society, state, and church, the young soul is stirred with premonitions of social order and its correlative idea, social responsibility. * It is, I hope, needless to explain that no intelligent dis- ciple of Froebel claims for such symmetrical figures any great aesthetic merit. The claim urged in their behalf is the psy- chologic one that they represent the stage of iesthetic devel- opment reached alike by little children and primitive peoples, and that the mind must climb through symmetry in order to reach the higher plane of culture 'which creates and enjoys harmony. HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 149 In connection with the thought of social order it is interesting to remember that it is really the parent both of punctuality and the clock. The savage lives a detached and timeless life. Mr. Drummond relates that when he went to Africa he " was innocent enough to include a watch among the presents which he took with him to propitiate the native chiefs." He adds that he "might as well have taken a grand piano, for the idea of time has scarcely penetrated the African intellect, and forms no element whatever in its calculations. In the morning the native rises suddenly from the ground where he has lain like a log all night. Often he neither washes nor eats. His sole indus- try is to grow millet, and apart from the little time given to this rough tillage his only occupation is to talk." With this timeless existence contrast the measured days of civilized man, and you will not only realize the relationship between social organi- zation and the clock, but will be more than ever anxious to cultivate in Harold a prompt and sympa- thetic obedience to its call, as well as to the sum- mons of the musical gong, which by announcing meals regulates the order of family duties, to the school bell, the church bell, and all the other sig- 150 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. nals whereby our complex corporate life is meas- ured and harmonized. Punctuality is essentially a social virtue. To be tardy is to be selfish and inconsiderate. By awakening in children a recognition of this truth we dignify the effort to be punctual and make it one means of forming an unselfish char- acter. Another message for Helen! One of the great- est needs of the kindergarten is a well-balanced division of time. Many questions will have to be settled before it can be made. What amount of time should be given to general opening exercises, to stories, to talks? How long may little children be expected to concentrate their attention on pro- ductive exercises? How long may they safely use their eyes for sewing, weaving, folding? How long is it well to stand on the circle? How long may they sing without strain to their voices? What is the relative value of the different kindergarten exercises? How many times during the morning do the children need entire relaxation? These are only a few of the problems which suggest them- selves for careful consideration. Upon success in solving them will depend in great measure the edu- HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 151 cational outcome of the child's experience in the kindergarten. Unless I am much mistaken only one question remains to be touched upon before we dismiss the Clock Song, considered in its first aspect as a point of departure for child nurture. You must have no- ticed in Froebel's commentary that he seems not fully satisfied with the several explanations of the clock's allurement given in his third paragraph, and expresses his conviction that the delight of chil- dren in watching, imitating, and making time- pieces springs from a dim presentiment of the im- portance of time itself. In my own judgment the different explanations apply to different periods of development. The mysterious life in the clock, its rhythmic utterance, its oscillating pendulum, at- tract the young child. A dawning sense of the im- portance of time, explains the boy's love of making time-pieces. There are three ascending stages of interest in the clock. The baby watches it, the young child imitates it, the boy tries to make it. In other words, the baby feels the allurement of rhythm; the child through imitation develops a rhythmic consciousness; the boy aspires to create the instrument which makes possible a rhythmic 152 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. life. In the picture accompanying the Tick-Tack Song, several children are shown setting up a clock of their own manufacture. It would seem natural that the soul which begins early to assert its mas- tery over Nature should strive to subdue and order time. These moments always coming, always go- ing, how shall the boy catch them, count them, measure them? The clock accomplishes these feats* Could he then make the clock he would be master- ing and ordering time, and so mastering and order- ing his own life. Since both you and I believe that child nurture implies self -culture, and since we recognize that the intimations of child life waken in the souls of de- vout mothers problems whose solution taxes the power of the deepest thinkers, I dare not bring this letter to a close without putting into words a ques- tion which has been ringing through my mind all the time I have been writing it. We have recog- nized as the source of the clock's allurement the correspondence of rhythmic sound and vibratory motion with the perpetual oscillation of thought between subject and object. I must now ask you to reflect that time itself is this same pulsation. We talk of infinite time; we picture time as a never- HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 153 ending line. In truth, however, time is a series of points; a succession of moments, only one of which is ever real; an actual now, trembling between a past and a future, both of which are not. What is this strange thing we call time, this ever-vanish- ing, ever-reappearing point; this ever-dying, ever- living moment; this self -repelling, self -attracting unit; this " eternal flight from the alone to the alone? " I think our wrestle with the paradox of time be- gins earlier than most of us imagine, and that the reason we ignore the prescient anticipations of childhood and youth is because in maturity we in- continently dismiss the enigma without solving it. Whoever finds its solution will become aware of its haunting presence from the dawn of his conscious thought. Have you forgotten your perplexity over Grimm's story of the king who questioned how many seconds there were in eternity, and your dis- satisfaction with the answer of the sage little shep- herd boy? Did you never grapple with the paradox of the tortoise and the swift-footed Achilles? Did you feel no strange thrill when you first learned that looking up at the nightly heavens we behold the distant stars, not as they are, but as they were 154 LETTERS TO A MOTHEE. long ages ago? Have you never read with baffled amazement sayings like that of the Cherubmic Pil- grim: " The rose which here thine eye externally doth see Hath blossomed thus in God from all eternity." And when in your ardent youth you pored over Sartor Resartus, did nothing in your inmost self respond to its challenge to " sweep away the Illu- sion of Time," to its assurance that so doing " you should know this fair universe, were it in the mean- est province thereof to be in very deed the star- domed city of God," should realize that " through every star, through every grass blade, and most through every living soul, the glory of a present God still beams? " Knowing you, I am sure that these memories of my soul will stir echoes in yours, and I shall therefore not forbear the effort to show you the insights in which they seem to me to find their vin- dication and their solution. The maxim of science that objects must be studied in their history applies no less to things of thought than to things of sense. To trace the original evolution of any great insight is to begin HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 155 to understand it. In a minor degree it is helpful to know how any individual learns to rethink an al- ready known truth. So I intend to be biographical, and my hope is that by retracing the broken and winding path by which I plodded toward insight into the true nature of time I may help you to see what I see. Since, moreover, time and space are but different phases of a single mental act, I shall not attempt to separate them in relating my rem- iniscences. My first genuine insight "was into the revolu- tionary truth which, as everybody knows, is the burden of Kant's message to the world. Experience is partial and contingent. Therefore, no ideas pos- sessing the marks of universality and necessity can have been thence derived. Space and time are both universal and necessary ideas; universal or infinite, because they can be bounded only by them- selves; necessary, because they are the pre-supposi- tions of all experience. Since they are not deriv- able from experience, they must be given in the constitution of the mind itself. There is no other alternative. Never shall I forget the afternoon when this in- sight first broke upon me, but I will not imitate 12 156 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. Mrs. Quickly and expand this already long letter by relating the external setting of an intensive experi- ence. I will only say that I was listening to a lec- ture, and that I had heard the very same lecture just a week before without perceiving in it any real meaning. The light seemed to flash upon me all at once, though I now feel sure it had been slowly dawning during the days which elapsed be- tween the two lectures. My first consciousness was that I stood upon a new plane of thought, and that henceforth my entire mental landscape must take on a changed aspect. My next thought was that I had found an anchor of the soul sure and stead- fast. Up to this time I had held myself to faith in spiritual realities by an effort of will, but I knew that in its inmost citadel my soul was without se- cure defenses. Again and again I had said to my- self: " Things seem to me to be thus or so, but how can I be sure they will not seem quite differ- ent to-morrow? " My thought, chameleon-Hke, changed its color with every book I read, every sermon I heard, every discussion in which I bore a part, above all with every deep experience either of sorrow or joy. In a word, " dream delivered me to dream, and there was no end to illusion." But HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 157 from the moment I really understood that there were universal and necessary ideas, and that they were indigenous to the soul, I knew once for all that there was a land of pure delight, a realm of thought wherein all was light, peace, assurance, and permanence. There is a new birth of the intellect as well as a new birth of the heart, and it gives one feelings very like those of a religious convert. Whoever has experienced this mental regeneration knows that no matter how many thinkers have possessed and described the insight which transforms his mind, and no matter how often he may have read or heard such descriptions, the vision when it comes is as new as if no spiritual eye had ever gazed upon it. The visible world is created afresh for each newborn child, the spiritual world is a " fresh divine improvisation " to every regenerate thinker. His solitary bliss is, however, soon enhanced by the consciousness that he is admitted as member into the church invisible. He pictures to himself the victorious thinkers who across the ages have flashed to each other electric messages from the mountain peaks of thought. He is inwardly aware that if he will forsake the easy plain and climb the peak, 158 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. he too may behold the unrolling panorama of the universe. For some years I was more interested in the general fact that all universal and necessary truths were constitutive forms of mind than in the rela- tionship of this fact to the ideas of space and time. Of course, if time and space were forms of thought, then idealism was true, and we were deni- zens of a spiritual cosmos. I admitted this truth, but my recognition of it was lifeless and inert. Meantime I was thinking much about self -activity. All Froebelians talked about it. Few of them seemed to know just what they meant by it. I per- ceived that it was exhibited in ascending degrees by plant, animal, man. I became aware of the fact that these ascending degrees were character- ized by a progressive diminution in the power of environment. I comprehended that in its highest potency as pure thought self-activity was also self- environment; that it originated, impelled, sus- tained, and developed its own processes, and that in so doing it was forever realizing and fulfilling it- self. Finally, it became clear to me on the one hand that being the highest, thought must also be the parent form of all self-active processes, and on HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 159 the other that the so-called " forms of thought " must not be conceived as static molds into which sense-impressions were somehow poured, but as greater or small cycles of organizing energy. The several insights I have described were re- inforced by a gradual recognition of the process through which the mind ascends from perception to conception. It is commonly said that language is the criterion of the human as distinguished from the animal soul. It is also generally recognized that language deals not with particular but with general objects, actions, and relations. The noun man includes men of all races, colors, and condi- tions; the verb to love is used to express all varie- ties of this universal passion; the prepositions above, below, refer to all particular examples of these general relationships. We call our recogni- tion of such general classes of objects, acts, and re- lations concepts, in contradistinction to percepts which are identifications of particulars as belonging to these classes. "What I now came to see was that our knowledge of concepts or general classes arises through an act of introspection wherein the mind contemplates its own activity in recalling a sense- perception. We know that we can mentally revive 160 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. any given perception, that we can repeat this pro- cess at will, and thus produce an indefinite series of images each of which resembles all the others. Projecting this mental experience we infer that back of the particular objects perceived by sense must be generic activities which are their causes or cre- ators, and recognize each object as one product of an ancestral energy whose possible offspring are in- finite in number but similar in kind. Hence the word rose means really rose-producing energy; the words plant and animal mean plant- and animal- producing energies; the word man means man- producing energy; the common noun in each case referring to an active cause which generates par- ticular images of its own ideal. Smaller circles of causal energy are differentiations of larger ones, the rose-producing energy, for example, being a specification of the more general plant-producing energy. Finally, just as particular objects are mere manifestations of causal energy, and lesser causal energies differentiations of greater ones, so all causal energies are specifications of one inclu- sive and transcendant energy, and the movement of thought from objects to classes, from smaller to larger classes, from all particular classes to the gen- HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. iqi eral cpncept of force, and from the concept of force to its definition as creative thought is simply a vortical descent into the abyss of its own being, or, better, its vortical ascent into the divine mind.* This new insight began to associate itself with an image. I pictured the moon revolving on her axis, while at the same time performing her circuit around the earth; the earth in turn making her diurnal revolution, while, bearing along the tethered moon, she circled around the sun; the sun, sweeping through space, while with him jour- neyed his whole retinue of planets and their at- tendant satellites, innumerable solar systems mov- ing in complex curves around some unknown cen- ter of the universe. Surely these "circles of the heavens correspond to the circles of intellect," are indeed the visible symbols of divine thought which at once transcends and includes all smaller cycles of causation in its infinite sweep. Surely, too, the human mind through retracing these ascending and widening circles frees itself from the thrall- dom of sense, and learns to rethink the thought of God. * See Psychologic Foundations of Education, pp. 190-197. 162 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. If you have followed the narrative of my men- tal experiences you will be ready for the synthesis I shall now try to make. I had learned that the mind possessed universal and necessary ideas, that such ideas were really plastic energies, and that in proportion to their recognition was our discovery of the truth of the external world. It seemed to me very wonderful that only by withdrawal from sense could sensible phenomena be explained, and that in the " abysmal depths of our own personality " we should discover the secret of objective processes. I began to understand that mind was one and indi- visible; that in so far as we possessed it we were partakers of divine activity; that universal and necessary ideas were the ideas of God, and that our discovery of them was his revelation. Caird's Phi- losophy of Eeligion fell into my hands, and I read that " thought is the blank form of an infinite content." The blank form of thought could mean nothing but the energy of thought apart from its specific contents. The characteristic of this energy was consciousness, and consciousness was the distinc- tion of the self from the self, the recognition of the self by the self. This self-distinction and self- identification must, therefore, be the infinite cycle HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 153 within which all lesser cycles revolved. The state- ment that space and time were forms of thought began to mean something to me. Amiel's Journal helped me by the suggestion that " space and time were dispersion, mind concentration, that in the state of thought the universe occupies but a single point, while in the state of dispersion and analysis this thought requires the heaven of heavens for its expansion." " God," it was added, " is outside time because he thinks all thought at once. Nature is within time, because she is only speech, the discur- sive unfolding of each thought contained within the divine thought." The resemblance of space to that phase of consciousness which distinguishes the self from the self dawned upon me, and just when I was ready for the message I read in Dr. Harris's Logic of Hegel the statement that " everywhere in space the point is outside of every other point, but each point is unreal. Only the separation of points is real, the points themselves are unreal in space." * What were these unreal points with their real separation but an affirmation of the form of consciousness without its content? the " self perfectly empty outside the self as per- * See Dr. Harris, Hegel's Logic, p. 265. 164 LETTEES TO A MOTHER. f ectly empty " ? And, again, what was that " self- repulsion of the point," which we call time, if not the other phase of personality, the " identi- fication of the self by the self which completes the act of consciousness " ? Infinite space, infinite time, were they anything but the ceaseless swing of the pendulum of divine thought, the primal revolution of " the wheel on which all beings ride"? Empty space and time of their contents and you have the blank mold of divine consciousness. Fill both with the infinite universe and you have that consciousness in its concrete realization. View the universe under the form of space and it appears as an articulated whole, a living organism, " which is all symmetry, full of proportions," and wherein " each part may call the farthest brother." View it under the form of time, and it becomes a great musical drama, enacting in swift rushing scenes the ascent from chaos through matter, motion, star dust, revolving spheres, organic life, and human institutions, to the blessedness of the archetypal church. View it under the form of eternity, 1 which is the form of thought, and it shines forth a structural system of divine ideas, a perpetual HEAVEN'S FIRST LAW. 165 revelation of divine love. Always complete, al- ways renewed, it merges past and future in one concrete eternal moment. All that has been persists, all that shall be is. The first second of eternity never passes. The archetypal rose blossoms forever. " There past, present, future shoot Triple blossoms from one root. Substances at base divided In their summits are united. There the holy essence rolls, One, through separated souls ; And the sunny ajon sleeps, Folding Nature in its deeps.'' Dear friend, I have seen something, and I have tried to tell you what I saw, but I can not make the vision stand out in words as it stands out in my mind. If, however, you have caught my hints, you know at least that Jehovah is not the true name of God. His higher name is Father. His highest name is Love. The rhythmic undulations of per- sistent force are his lowest self-revelation. His higher revelation is the concrete universe, his high- est revelation the being made in his own image, his perfect image one who said : " He that hath seen me hath seen the Father." Supply with your 166 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. thought the defects in mine. Confirm my vision by beholding it, heighten my joy by sharing it, fortify by your mental regeneration my hope of a time when all men shall seek that piety of the in- tellect which is no less essential to true living than piety of the heart and will. LETTER VI. THE EEVELATION TO SENSE. TASTE SONG. As each new life is given to the world, The senses — like a door that swings Wo ways — Stand ever 'twixt its inner, waiting self And that environment with which its lot Awhile is cast. A door that swings two ways : Inward at first it turns, while Nature speaks, To greet her guest and bid him to her feast, And tell him of all things in her domain, The good or ill of each, and how to use ; Then outward, to set free an answering thought. And so, swift messages fly back and forth Without surcease — until, behold ! she, who Like gracious host received a timid guest, Owns in that guest at length her rightful lord, And gladly serves him, asking no reward ! This parable, dear mother, is for you, Whom God has made his steward for your child. All Nature is a unit in herself, Yet but a part of a far greater whole. Little by little you may teach your child To know her ways, and live in harmony With her ; and then, in turn, help him through her To find those verities within himself, Of which all outward things are but the type. So when he passes from your sheltering care 167 168 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. To walk the ways of men, his soul shall he Knit to all things that are, and still most free ! And of him shall be writ at last this word, "At peace with Nature, with himself, and God." Heneietta E. Eliot. TASTE SONG. Here's a berry ripe and sweet Taste, my darling, taste and eat. Now this sour fruit instead, — Ah ! my baby shakes his head. Here's an almond, taste it, pet, Bitter things we sometimes get. Bitter, sour, sweet, he tries, Tasting makes my baby wise ! Sweets we must not always choose Sour, bitter, too, we use. Fruits unripe we'll let alone Till they fully ripe have grown. Emilie Potjlsson. Deae : Nowhere in the Mother-Play does the connection between revealing example and principle revealed seem at first sight so obscure as in the Song of Taste. On the one hand we are shown the mother playfully inciting her baby to distinguish between the sweet, the sour, and the bit- ter; on the other our thought is impetuously hurled toward that eminence from which all material ob- jects are seen to be afire with spirit, and the sensible world is revealed as a bodily and visible gospel. Our inward eyes are too weak to gaze undazzled THE REVELATION TO SENSE. 169 upon the view which expands before them, so we shut them tight and declare there is nothing to be seen. Forget for a while, dear friend, the baffling vision, and sit down humbly and patiently at the feet of your own maternal memories. You have sent me notes affirming that on the fourth day of his life Harold stoutly refused cow's milk diluted with water until a few grains of sugar had made it acceptable to his taste,* and that aged seven weeks he made a wry face and a gesture of refusal at the mere sight of a bitter medicine, f a single dose of which had previously been given him. You remember your terror at the way he used to pick up pins and carry them into his mouth, and the many devices by which you tried to break up this habit. You know that even when he was seventeen months old he insisted upon tasting the hyacinth you had given him to smell, £ and you will recall your own delight when, a month later, he began to put the sweet-smelling flower to his * The Senses and the Will. Preyer, p. 124. \ Perez, the Pirst Three Tears of Childhood, translated by Alice M. Christie. % The Senses and the Will, Preyer, p. 135. 170 LETTERS TO A MOTHER. nose, keeping his mouth meantime tightly shut. You are inwardly aware of the fact that, impelled by instinct, you did all the things which Froebel pictures you as doing, and since I, the mere on- looker, remember, you, the mother, can not have forgotten with what joy you assured yourself by repeated experiments that Harold associated with the words sweet, sour, bitter, the sensations to which they refer. To interpret your pleasure recall what Froebel says in his commentary on Play with the Limbs, that " developing activity is the oil which feeds the sacred flame of mother love." When Harold re- fused unsweetened milk it was a sure sign to you that he was sensitive to differences of taste. His wry face at sight of bitter medicine showed that he remembered an earlier sensation of taste; while the habit of carrying all things to his month told you that he had begun to use it as a " test organ by which to ascertain the qualities of objects." When he ceased to put sweet-smelling flowers into his mouth you knew that he had learned to distinguish between sensations of smell and sensations of taste, and to refer each to its appropriate organ. Finally, when he responded intelligently to the words sweet, THE REVELATION TO SENSE. l