BJ 1481 "42 1905 M » THE # .:.^f CHARLESW- ELIOT 3J ajowll tewsitg f itavg THE GIFT OF ,A- (^i.'^to MU^iios 4534 Cornell University Library BJ1481 .E42 1905 Happy '«&^i'j;fia^'lss,.,&aiiii '3 1924 029 199 572 olin (€^e i^oppp £ife 4 1^ w^m fm T/ ^^H m ' "'^ 'i^^H Ia ■«Tf Jji i^'.sdH ■^ [ /;.,;nr7n/'t /'/oiyfi,.-'/ /-/ ,*//. /,' /w/ '^rffc^ » 'CCbt'ximvXLiit TB^ (C^arfee W, (Sftot, ££,0, pvmbent of^avvatb U^nivneitf Gl^^^ f}ew :2ot:k fC^omae :B. €tovoe(t^€o. pu6ti$ijet6 D Cornell University Library The original of tliis book is in tlie Cornell University Library. There are no known copyright restrictions in the United States on the use of the text. http://www.archive.org/details/cu31924029199572 i fC?e 0^ota( p[iv\>06e of ttje Unhctee Y subject is "The Happy Life." I address here especially youngpeo- ple who have passed the period of childhood, with its unreflecting gayety, fleeting shadows, gusty griefs, and brief despairs, and have entered, under condi- tions of singular privilege, upon rational and responsible living. For you happiness must be conscious, considerate, and consistent with ha- bits of observing, reading and reflecting. Now reflecting has always been a grave business, "Where but to think is to be full of sorrow And leaden-eyed despairs;" and it must be confessed that our times pre- sent some new obstacles to a life of thought- ful happiness. Until this centilry the masses of mankind were almost dumb; but now their moans and complaints have become audible through telephone, telegraph and rotary press. (^Be The millions are now saying what the moody ^appv poets have always said : iCife " The flower that smiles to-day To-morrow dies, All that we wish to stay Tempts, and then flies. What is this world's delight? Lightning that mocks the night, Brief even as bright." The gloomy moralist is still repeating: "I have seen all the works that are done under the sun, and behold ! all is vanity and vexation of spirit." The manual laborers of to-day, who are much better off than the same classes of laborers have been in any earlier times, are saying just what Shelley said to the men of England in 1819: " The seed ye sow another reaps. The wealth ye find another keeps, The robes ye weave another wears. The arms ye forge another bears." They would adopt without change the words in which that eminent moralist^ Robinson Crusoe, a century earlier, described the condition of the laboring classes : "The men of labor spent their strength in daily struggling for bread to main- tain the vital strength they labored with ; so liv- ing in a daily circulation of sorrow, living but to (^^e work, and working but to live, as if daily bread i^appj> were the onlyend of wearisome life, anda weari- iZife some life the only occasion of daily bread." Matthew Arnold calls his love to come to the window and listen to the "melancholy, long- withdrawing roar " of the sea upon the moonlit beach at Dover ; and these are his dismal words to her: "Ah, love, let us be true To one another! for the world, which seems To lie before us like a land of dreams. So various, so beautiful, so new, Hath really neither joy, nor love, nor light, Nor certitude, nor peace, nor help for pain ; And we are here as on a darkling plain Swept with confused alarms of struggle and flight, Where ignorant armies clash by night." The poets are by no means the only offenders; the novelists and scientists take their turn. The fiction of this century deals much with the lives of the wretched, dissolute, and vicious, and with the most unjust and disastrousconditions of modern society. A fresh difficulty in the way of natural happiness is the highly speculative opinion, lately put forward by men of science I^Rg and promptly popularized, to the effect that ex- foappv *^'""'^' nature offsets every good with an evil, j£;jf^ and that the visible universe is unmoral, or in- different as regards right and wrong, revealing no high purpose or intelligent trend. This is, indeed, a melancholy notion ; but that it should find acceptance at this day, and really make people miserable, only illustrates the curious liability of the human intelligence to sudden collapse. The great solid conviction which sci- ence, within the past three centuries, has en- abled thinking men and women to settle down on is that all discovered and systematized knowledge is as nothing compared with the undiscovered, and that a boundless universe of unimagined facts and forces interpenetrates and encompasses what seems the universe to us. In spite of this impregnable conviction peo- ple distress themselves because, forsooth, they cannot discern the moral purpose or complete spiritual intent of this dimly seen, fractional universe which is all we know. Why should they discern it? It iCoxoet anb i^is^et pieaeutec |T is, then, in spite of many old and some new discouragements that we are all seeking the happy life. We know that education spreads, knowledge grows, and public liberty develops; but can we be sure that public and private hap- piness increase? What the means and sources of happiness are in this actual world, with our present surroundings and with no reference to joys or sorrows in any other world, is a natu- ral, timely, and wholesome inquiry. We may be sure that one principle will hold throughout the whole pursuit of thoughtful happiness, — the principle that the best way to secure future happiness is to be as happy as is rightfully pos- sible to-day. To secure any desirable capacity for the future, near or remote, cultivate it to- day. What would be the use of immortality for a person who cannot use well half an hour ? asks Emerson. In trying to enumerate the positive satisfac- tions which an average man may reasonably 5 fC^e expect to enjoy in this world, I of course take ^appw no account of those too common objects of hu- ;Cife man pursuit,— wealth, power, and fame; first, because they do not as a rule contribute to hap- piness; and secondly, becaijse they are unat- tainable by mankind in general. I invite you to consider only those means of happiness which the humble and obscure millions may possess. The rich and famous are too few to affect ap- preciably the sum of human happiness. I begin with satisfactions of sense. Sensuous pleasures, like eating and drinking, are sometimes described as. animal, and there- fore unworthy. It must be confessed, however, that men are, in this life, animals all through, — whatever else they may be, — and that they have a right to enjoy without reproach those pleasures of animal existence which maintain health, strength, and life itself. Familiar ascetic and pessimistic dogmas to the contrary not- withstanding, these pleasures, taken naturally and in moderation, are all pure, honorable, and wholesome. Moreover, all attempts to draw a line between bodily satisfactions on the one hand, and mental or spiritual satisfactions on the other, and to distinguish the first as beastly indulgences, and the secotid as the only plea- sures worthy of a rational* being, have failed, 6 and must fail ; for it is manifestly impossible to ({£(je draw a sharp line of division between plea- j^appp sures, and to say that these are bodily, and £^ife those intellectual or moral. Are the pleasures of sight and hearing bodily or mental? Is de- light in harmony or in color a pleasure of the sense, or of the imagination? What sort of a |oy is a thing of beauty? Is it an animal or a « spiritual joy? Is the delight of a mother in fond- ling her smiling baby a physical or a moral de- light? But though we cannot divide pleasures into animal and moral, unworthy and worthy, we can, nevertheless, divide them into lower and higher pleasures : the lower, those which, like eating and drinking, prompt to the mainte- nance and reproduction of life, and which can be impaired or destroyed by prolongation or repetition; the higher, those which, like the pleasures of the eye or ear, seem to be ends in themselves. In the lower there can bte destruc- tive excess, in the higher excess is impossible. Recognizing, then, that there are higher plea- sures than eating and drinking, let us clearly perceive that three meals a day all ojie's life not only give in themselves a constantly renewed innocent satisfaction, but provide the neces- sary foundation for all other satisfactions. Tak- ing food and drink is a great enjpyment for 7 (^^e healthy people, and those who do not enjoy eat- ^apvf ingr seldom have much capacity for enjoyment ^ifc or usefulness of any sort. Under ordinary cir- cumstances it is by no means a purely bodily pleasure. We do not eat alone, but in families, or sets of friends and comrades ; and the table is the best centre of friendships and of the do- mestic affections. When, therefore, a working- man says that he has worked all his life to pro- cure a subsistence for himself and his family, he states that he has secured some fundamen- tal satisfactions, namely, food, productive em- ployment, and family life. The satisfaction of eating is so completely a matter of appetite that such distinction as there is between the luxu- rious and the hardy in regard to this enjoyment is altogether in favor of the hardy. Who does not remember some rough and perhaps scanty meal in camp, or on the march, or at sea, or in the woods, which was infinitely more delicious than the most luxurious dinner during indoor or sedentary life? But that appetite depends on health. Take good care, then, of your teeth and your stomachs, and be ashamed not of enjoy- ing your food, but of not enjoying it. There was a deal of sound human nature in the unex- pected reply of the dying old woman to her min- ister's leading question : " Here at the end of a 8 long life, which of the Lord's mercies are you |^«g most thankful for?" Her eye brightened as she foapntt answered : " My victuals." jt jr^ Let us count next pleasures through the eye. Unlike the other senses, the eye is always at work except when we sleep, and may, conse- quently, be the vehicle of far more enjoyment than any other organ of sense. It has given our race its ideas of infinity, symmetry, grace, and splendor; it is a chief source of childhood's joys, and throughout life the guide to almost all pleasurable activities. The pleasure it gives us, however, depends largely upon the amount of attention we pay to the pictures which it in- cessantly sets before the brain. Two men walk along the same road: one notices the blue depths of the sky, the floating clouds, the open- ing leaves upon the trees, the green grass, the yellow buttercups, and the far stretch of the open fields ; the other has precisely the same pictures on his retina, but pays no attention to them. One sees, and the other does not see ; one enjoys an unspeakable pleasure, and the other loses that pleasure which is as free to him as the air. The beauties which the eye reveals are infinitely various in quality and scale ; one mind prefers the minute, another the vast; one the delicate and tender, another the coarse and 9 m^c rough ; one the inanimate things, another the j^appv* animate creation. The whole outward world is ^ife the kingdom of the observant eye. He who en- ters into any part of that kingdom to possess it has a store of pure enjoyment in life which is literally inexhaustible and immeasurable. His eyes alone will give him a life worth living. Next comes the ear as a minister of enjoy- ment, but next at a great interval. The average man probably does not recognize that he gets much pleasure through hearing. He thinks that his ears are to him chiefly a convenient means of human intercourse. But let him expe- rience a temporary deafness, and he will learn that many a keen delight came to him through the ear. He will miss the beloved voice, the merry laugh, the hum of the city, the distant chime, the song of birds, the running brook, the breeze in the trees, the lapping wavelets, and the thundering beach ; and he will learn that fa- miliar sounds have been to him sources of pure delight— an important element in his well- being. Old Isaak Walton found in the lovely sounds of earth a hint of Heaven: " How joyed my heart in the rich melodies That overhead and roun4 me did arise! The moving leaves —the water's gentle flow - Delicious music hung on every bough. ^g^ Then said I in my heart, If that the Lord fo^jp. Such lovely music on the earth aecord; jTir^ If to weak, sinful man such sounds are given, Oh! what must be the melody of heaven!" A high degree of that fine pleasurewhich mu- sic gives is not within the reach of all; yet there are few to whom the pleasure is wholly de- nied. To take part in producing harmony, as in part-singing, gives the singers an intense plea- sure, which is doubtless partly physical and partly mental. I am told that to play good mu- sic at sight, as one of several performers play- ing different instruments, is as keen a sensu- ous and intellectual enjoyment as the world affords. These pleasures through the eye and ear are open in civilized society to all who have the will to seek them, and the intelligence to cultivate the faculties through which they are enjoyed. They are quite as likely to bless him who works with hand or brain all day for a living, as him who lives inactive on his own savings or on those of other people. The outward world yields them spontaneously to every healthy body and alert mind ; but the active mind is as essential to the winning of them as the sound body. I^gg There is one great field of knowledge, too jboppv '""ch neglected in our schools and colleges, jTifg which offers to the student endless pleasures and occupations through the trained and quick- ened senses of sight, hearing, and touch. I mean the wide field called natural history, which com- prehends geography, meteorology, botany, zo- ology, mineralogy, and geology. Charles Dar- win, the greatest naturalist of the past century, said that with natural history and the domes- tic affections a man might be truly happy. Not long ago I was urging a young naturalist of twenty-six to spend the next summer in Eu- rope. He thought it was hafdly right for him to allow himself that indulgence ; and when I urged that the journey would be very enjoyable as well as profitable, he replied : " Yes ; but you know I can be happy anywhere in the months when things are growing." He meant that the pleasures of observation were enough for him when he could be out of doors. That young man was poor, delicate in health, and of a retiring and diffident disposition; yet life was full of keenest interest to him. Our century is distinguished by an ardent re- turn of civilized man to thatlove of nature from which books and urban life had temporarily diverted him. The poetry and the science of our times alike foster this love, and add to the de- ^gg lights which come to lovers of nature through ^apov the keen senses, the delights of the soaring im- jTic^ agination and the far-reaching reason. In many of our mental moods the contemplation of Na- ture brings peace and joy. Her patient ways shame hasty little man; her vastnesses calm and elevate his troubled mind; her terrors fill him with awe; her inexplicable and infinite beauties with delight. Her equal care for the least things and the greatest corrects his scale of values. He cannot but believe that the vast material frame of things is informed and di- rected by an infinite Intelligence and Will, just as his little animal body is informed by his own conscious mind and will. It is apparent from what I have said of plea- sures through the eye and ear, and from contact with nature, that a good measure of out-of-door life is desirable for him who would secure the elements of a happy life. The urban tendency of our population militates against free access to out-of-door delights. The farmer wdrks all day in the fields, and his children wander at will in the open air ; the sailor can see at any moment the whole hemisphere of the heavens and the broad plain of the sea ; but the city resident may not see a tree or a shrub for weeks together, 13 Cife ^fip and can barely discern a narrow strip of sky, as foaopv ^^ walks at the bottom of the deep ditches we call streets. The wise man whose work is in the city, and indoors at that, will take every pos- sible opportunity to escape into the fresh air and the open country. Certain good tendencies in this respect have appeared within recent years. Hundreds of thousands of people who must work daily in compact cities now live in open suburbs ; cities provide parks and deco- rated avenues of approach to parks; out-of- door sports and exercises become popular; safe country boarding-schools for city children are multiplied, and public holidays and half- holidays increase in number. These are appre- ciable compensations for tl^e disadvantages of city life. The urban population which really utilizes these facilities may win a keener en- joyment from nature than the rural population, to whom natural beauty i§ at every moment accessible. The cultivation of mind and the increased sensibility which, city life develops heighten the delight in natural beauty. More- over, though man destroys much natural love- liness in occupying any territory for purposes of residence or business, he also creates much loveliness of grassy fields and banks, mirror- ing waters, perfectly developed trees, graceful 14 shrubs and brilliant flowers. In these days no (j£R^ intelligent city population need lack the means jbapi and opportunitiesof frequentout-of-doorenjoy- -fi^ifg ment. Our climate is indeed rough and change- able, but, on the whole, produces scenes of much more various beauty than any monoto- nous climate, while against the occasional se- verity of our weather artificial protection is more and more provided. What we rhay wisely ask of our tailors and our landscape architects is protection in the open air from the extremes of heat, cold, and wind. The provision of an equable climate indoors is by no means suffi- cient to secure either the health or the happi- ness of the people. IS tit ROM the love of nature we turn to family love. The domestic affections are the principal sojurce of human happiness and well-being. The mu- tual loves of husband and wife, of parents and children, of brothers and sisters, are not only the chief sources of happiness, but the chief springs of action, and the chief safeguards from evil.The young man and the young woman work and save in order that they maybe married and have a home of their own ; once married, they work and save that they may bring up well a family. The supreme object of the struggling and striv- ing of most men is the family. One might almost say that the security and elevation of the family and of family life are the prime objects of civili- zation, and the ultimate ends of all industry and trade. In respect to this principal source of hap- piness, the young mechanic, operative, clerk, or laborer is generally better off than the young professional man, inasmuch as he can marry earlier. He goes from the parental roof to his i6 own roof with only a short intervali if any, be- l^^e tween. The workingman is often a grandfather ^appf before he is fifty years old; the professional man ^ife but seldom. Love before marriage, being the most attractive theme of poetry andfiction, gets a very disproportionate amount of attention in literature, as compared with the domestic af- fections after marriage. Concerning these normal domestic joys, any discerning person who has experienced them, and has been intimate with four or five genera- tions, will be likely to make three observations : In the first place, the realization of the natural and legitimate enjoyments in domestic life de- pends on the possession of physical and moral health. Whatever impairs bodily vigor, animal spirits, and good temper lessens the chance of attaining to the natural domestic joys, —joys which by themselves, without any additions whatever except food and steady work, make earthly life worth living. In the second place, they endure, and increase with lapse of years ; the satisfactions of normal married life do not de- cline, but mount. Children are more and more in- teresting as they grow older ; at all stages, from babyhood to manhood and womat^hood, they are to be daily enjoyed. People whothink they shall enjoy their children to-morrow, or year 17 (^R( after next, will never enjoy them. The greatest iboppv pleasure in them comes late; for, as Hamerton j£lfg mentions in his " Human Intercourse," the most exquisite satisfaction of the parent is to come to respect and admire the powers and charac- ter of the child. Thirdly, the family affections and joys are the ultimate source of civilized man's idea of a loving God, — an idea which is a deep root of happiness when it becomes an abiding conviction. They have supplied all the conceptions of which this idea is the supreme essence, or infinite product. It deserves men- tion here that these supreme enjoyments of the normal, natural life— the domestic joys — are woman's more than man's; because his func- tion of bread-winning necessarily separates him from his home during a good part of his time, particularly since domestic or house in- dustries have been superseded by factory me- thods. i8 pieaeute in llSobiif