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Great Life of all ! my grateful heart Turns first to thee With sense of kinship and new dignity ; For is it not through my glad pain That once again, As in creation's morn, From out thine over-brooding life A soul is born ? Dear husband — father of my child — From the first thought Which gave us each to each, we have been taught, By love, love's sacredness and strength; But now, at length, We know it is from heaven, Binding our souls for aye through this Dear child, God-given. Dear child, through fear and pain thou cam'st ! But rest thee now Upon our loving hearts, the while we vow To nourish in thee, day by day, As parents may. By grace that God doth give. That life divine by which alone All truly live. 43 THE MOTHER IN UNITY WITH HER CHILD. 43 O Father God ! Life of all life ! Love in all love: In whom we have our being, live, and move — Let this, thy life, flow undedled Within our child ; That we may be Bound ever closer in thy love To him and thee ! II. THE MOTHER IN UNIT? WITH HER CHILD. Tell me, my little one, soft and pure. What comes from thee to me. Stirring me dimly, as stirs the spring. With the joy of things to be ? " 'Tis the faith which looks from my trusting eyes, Faith in thy brooding care ; 'Tis the love which speaks iu my happy smile, For I know no ' here ' nor ' there.' " Only to lie in thy sheltering arms. Where darkness cannot fright; And to draw my life from thy loving breast, Where, with fingers clinging tight, " I tell, as only a baby can. Of the hope that thou shalt be In the coming years to my opening life What thou art now to me ! " Dear baby, again look into my eyes While I look into thine ; Together we'll spell life's lesson out ; Thy faith shall still teach mine ! 44 MOTHER PLAY. All that thy clinging, helpless love Has told me I should be — All that thy fond hope prophesies — I'll strive to be for thee. For the faith of thy innocent eyes forecasts A larger faith than thine ; And as thou drawest life from me, I draw from the life divine. III. THE MOTHER'S JOT IN BEHOLDING HER CHILD. Who can tell the mother's meaning, When above the cradle leaning, Where her baby lies, She with it holds sweet communing ? Broken words, or wordless crooning For her need suffice ; But within them, self-surrender. High endeavour, patience tender. Live as prophecies. Oh, tell me, child, what fairy spell in thee Makes all about thee still more dear to me ? Why do I find in each caressing play Such joy as angels in Heaven's service may ? Ah, 'tis thy growing life ! which, like a flower Now in the bud, brings with each newer hour New promise of a beauty yet to be — New joy with each fulfilling prophecy ! All peacefully within its green defence The young bud lies : so wrapped in innocence Thou liest, dear; and as the opening bud Unknowing gives its beauty to the wood. THE MOTHER AT PLAY WITH HER CHILD. 45 So thy sweet eyes make brighter all my day, And shed their angel light upon my way ; For as the sun shines in each flower we see, Thy soul, from out thine eyes, doth shine on me ; While like a victor claiming all his spoils Thy baby lips, too, hold me in their toils ! Yes, eyes and lips, all that thy ringlets crown, Speak to my soul and mirror forth thine own. Thy dimpled limbs, which now refuse thy weight, Forecast a strength that shall make war with Fate ; And all which now I fondle, kiss, and hold. Is type of huTnan greatness manifold. Thy very weakness seems a proof to me Of human nature's higher dignity ! For, full-equipped for all its lifelong round. Each bird and beast at birth is ever found. Ah. that is why my own best life is stirred With every tender service or fond word Bestowed on thee. To man — distinction proud ! — Alone 'tis given to share the work of God ! IV. THE MOTHER AT PLAY WITH HER CHILD. Whene'er your gaze with watchful love is bent Upon your child, think well of what is meant By each part needed for ao fair a whole. You learn their value, knowing their intent. And BO can teach them all to serve his soul. I'm so proud of you. Baby, my darling, my own ! Now listen : I'll tell you how you may be known. 46 MOTHER PLAY. Your dear little Head is too heavy, as yet. But that's as it should be with babies, my pet. Beneath your fair Forehead shine two happy Eyes : I pray they may never grow too worldly wise !' A " War of the Roses " is waged in your Cheek ! (My fine phrases, sweet one, to you are but Greek I) Your Ears, like pink shells, are to hear when I sing; I hope they'll ne'er listen to any wrong thing. Your queer little Nose is so cunning and round. And your sweet baby Mouth beneath it is found ; And when in your sleep your rosy Lips part. Their silence is singing a psalm to my heart ! And here is your Chin — pretty dimple and all; It holds thousands of kisses, although it's so small. Your white Throat and Neck are softer than down ; And your fine little Back shows how strong you have grown. Your tiny, plump Hands, with their small Fingers five, Are telling each day of a Mind that's alive. In each Arm at the turn a dimple is set; When they have grown strong, what a hugging I'll get! Here's a fine, sturdy Chest, and beneath it I feel Your tiny Heart beat. O ! through woe and through v^eal. May it ever beat true, and learn by-and-bye How the Life that we live is fed from on high. Here's a strong little Leg — a leg that can kick ! Before we can think 'twill be striding a stick. And here, at the last, are your ten little Toes, Like tiny pink buds in two little rows. Ah, sweet one! ere long you'll be running alone; Tlien where will my own little Baby have gone ? THE MOTHER OBSERVING HER CHILD. 4Y I shall miss the dear treasure I've held in my arms. With its dimples and cooings and sweet baby charms. Yes, out of his babyhood Baby must grow ; A Soul is born with him — it stirs even now ; 'Twill unfold like a flower in God's sunshine and air: May he help me to guard it, and keep it still fair! V. THE MOTHER OBSERVING THE DEVELOPMENT OP HER CHILD. As the mother hour by hour Feels her child's awakening power, Earnestly she prays That the God of love will fold it In his sheltering arms, and hold it Ever in his ways. But she knows that she is sent To fulfil his love's intent Towards her little one ; And she quickens each endeavour. For his love and care are ever Working through her own. How my baby is growing and changing apace ! Each night a new dimple, each day a new grace. His head grows so shapely, his forehead so fine! With the gladness of seeing, his happy eyes shine. His ear leans attent to each song that I sing, And he eagerly smells every flower that I bring. When I hold him upright, he springs on my knee. And with mere joy of motion he laughs out in glee. Already he grasps for a ball or a flower. And holds it fast, too, with all his small power. 48 MOTHER PLAY. And when in his bath he splashes and springs, He feels the life in him, as birds feel their wings. The life ? — yes, the life — and what does life mean? It means the soul in us, the God-force unseen, Which thrills into action through each wakening sense; And through action brings slowly — we can not tell whence — A conscious self-seeing — we learn to say " I." With the conscious " I icork " comes life's full ecstasy ! VI. THE MOTHER TALKING TO HER CHILD. The mother who is true to her Bweet trust. Feels herself richer every day. Not only as a mother must — Owning her babe — but in a way Untenable to those who know it not, And which, once known, can never be forgot I With each caress, each care, each merry play. Her own soul deepens for God's love ; And as the sun with fervent ray Draws each small flower to look above, She draws her child's soul forth to meet her own, And learns that love, in earth and heaven, is one. Come, let me look into your heart, dear, Through your beautiful, wondering eyes; Now smile at mamma, and kiss her In pretty baby wise. And reach out your hands to mine, dear; They shall bind our hearts in one! Then put them up about my neck, As you have often done. THE CHILD AT ITS MOTHER'S BREAST. 49 Next show mamma your little ears Like sea-shells, pink and white. Ah, here they are, for me to kiss ! Your curls had hid them quite. Now stiffen your chubhy, round legs, dear, And stand up straight in my lap ; I hold you now — ere many moons You'll stand alone, mayhap. But your life will still lean on mine, dear. For mother and child must be Drawn together through all their lives. As the constant moon draws the sea. Drawn together, though long miles should part — Together, even as now. While I fold you close to my loving heart. And press a kiss on your brow. VII. THE CHILD AT ITS MOTHER'S BREAST. It is not food alone. Thy little one Asks for from out thy store — He craves far more. With instinct deep and true. He asks from you That whioh you iirst must have. If you would give — A love God-sent, That grows with being spent ! With what a pretty greed A baby seeks its food ! Rounding its sweet, expectant lips, Pressing its rosy finger-tips With inborn aptitude. 50 MOTHER PLAY. A lovely parable For mother's reading writ ! Your baby's soul expectant stands, Waiting for food from out your haads- See that you nourish it ! FROEBEL'S INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. FROEBEL'S INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. You are gazing, dear mother, at your child. You revere in him a great gift from God. You believe that God intrusts him to you for thought- ful consideration, for careful nurture. Your soul is inflamed by an intuition of the truth that in this dear little one the Father of all being grants you a revelation of himself. You know- that God is One, and since your child is in his image you are sure that he, too, is a unity indi- visible and indissoluble. But while you are thus assured of the unity of your child's being, there streams through your soul a presentiment that this unity must develop into and manifest itself through manifoldness and particularity. Nor is this all ; but with this prophetic anticipation of the form of your child's self -revelation your soul thrills with the certainty that in his manifestation of unity in the manifold you shall behold as in a mirror your own spiritual image. Since your child is unity and yet must reveal himself in and through manifoldness, it follows as incidental to his self-revelation that there 53 54 MOTHER PLAY. must arise contradictions and dissonances. In the midst of such contradictions, however, your own soul may be at peace ; nay, more, you may win inexpressible blessedness from the convic- tion that in and through the process of life all contradictions shall be solved, all antagonisms harmonised. As the varied appearances of the outer world are reflected in harmonious relation- ship in the clear sea of your eye, so the varied phenomena of your child's self -revelation become mutually explanatory when life is apprehended as one great whole. The idea of the whole is the ocean of joy which mirrors in their relationship and unity the isolated phenomena of a progres- sive experience. Through reading the soul of your child, dear mother, you will learn to harmonise the contra- dictions of his self-revelation with the unity of his essence. The movements of his body, the exer- cise of his limbs, the activity of his senses, do they not all relate to and react upon the one cen- tral and controlling impulse to reveal and com- prehend life as a unity in the manifoldness of particulars ? Do they not declare the effort of the ego to feel itself, to represent itself, and to ap- propriate, assimilate, and re-create the external world ? Does not even the healthy tree appro- priate matter from its environment, and, true to the law of its own nature, transform it into foli- age, blossom, and fruit ? Ponder this analogy, and gradually, through recognition of the accord and identity of all life, you will gain insight into the truth that the One Great Life utters itself in INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. 55 the manifestations of your child, and there will dawn upon you the consciousuess of your child's true essence — the essence of spirit. Reflective and contemplative mother, strive to define to yourself what it is which rejoices you in your child, and how it is that you find your own life mirrored in his. Does not your joy spring from the fact that identity of selfhood manifests itself progressively as essence, life, soul, spirit, "and rises through instinct, feel- ing, perception, consciousness to clear self-knowl- edge " ? And the source of your crowning bless- edness, is it not that this self-identity is revealed in the manifoldness — yea, let me dare to say it, in the discords and contradictions — of life ? Let it be your aim to overcome the contradictions be- tween your child's isolated manifestations by a wise and tender nurture ; so shall you help him to win that harmony of life which is a synthesis wrought of discords. Through your effort to strengthen and develop your dear one's power, through your nurture of his affections, and through pondering reverently the varied forms in which his inner life seeks ex- pression, there will gradually arise in your mind the conviction that the child not only feels the unity pf his own being, but has also a yearning presentiment of the truth that there is a core of unity in each and every being. Nor is his pre- sentiment limited to the sense of many distinct and separate unities. On the contrary, just in pro- portion as he feels in himself a single source and fountain of life, his mind is lighted by a fore- 56 MOTHER PLAY. gleam of the truth that back to this living foun- tain is to be traced the life of all things. In other words, his mind anticipates in feeling the insight which you, devout mother, consciously possess — the insight that his soul is a spark of the divine Life and therefore itself divine, and, furthermore, that all existing things and all living creatures manifest in various forms and in ascending de- grees the life of God. Illuminated by this insight, it becomes your highest joy, your most sacred duty, to educate your child as a unity, whole and complete in himself and yet related essentially to Nature, to Humanity, and to God. In a single word, recog- nising him as implicitly the child of God, your devout aim will be so to educate him that he shall become actually the child of God. Yes, you say, that is my aim. But in what way and by what means may this aim be real- ised ? The answer to this question is written in your own heart, and utters itself artlessly and un- consciously in all your simple motherly ways and words. Through them you speak to yourself and tell yourself what to do. And what says your instinctive procedure ? It points you for the ways and means of develop- ment to the child's bodj^ in its manifoldness and unity. It points you to his limbs and senses ; to the hints he gives you that he has begun to notice the things about him; to his wrestlings and grapplings with the outer world, as shown in the effort to reach, grasp, and hold. It points you to his nascent feeling of personality, and to INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. 57 his awakening sense of relationship to yourself and to all the persons with whom he is brought into contact. Such are the hints thrown out by your own instinctive words and deeds. O devout and contemplative mother, revere their truth and obey their suggestion ! Your child must be educated in conformity with his own nature, in relationship to his total environment, and in obedience to the laws which govern both. Through his body he is united with the world of matter ; through his limbs he is connected with an environment which he is ever creating anew out of himself ; through touch and taste, smell, hearing, and sight, he receives incitement from the world of sense; through his nascent feel- ing of self, through the stirrings of phantasy, through a dreaming and half-waking conscious- ness he is related to — nay, shown to be in essence — one with the total world of life and thought. To comprehend him in his essence and mani- festation, in his self-activity and independence, and yet in his relationship to and fundamen- tal identity with his environment — finally, to guard him, to nurture him, and to develop him in harmony with the demands implied by his nature and his relationships — such, devout mother, is the aim of education ! What, then, are the phenomena through which the nature of your child reveals itself ? What can they be other than the phenomena present wherever an invisible i;nity of essence manifests itself in form, whether it be in the realm of plant life, of animal life, or of human life ? 6 58 MOTHER PLAY. Compare the seed and the egg with the full-grown plant and the fledged bird. Study the analogous development of feeling and of thought. Out of the indefinite the definite is born. The indefinite is the husk of a rich kernel of life. Watch this inner life as it struggles for expression in the swelling buds on the trees, in the growth of young animals, in the impulses of infancy. It will rejoice you to behold the life of your child overflowing in activity. It will re- joice you none the less to observe his suscepti- bility to the incitement which the life outside of him offers to his own. Like young plants and young animals, he responds to the subtlest changes of light and heat. Akin to his suscep- tibility is his excitability. The strings of his soul vibrate responsive to the lightest touch. Even so the tender plantlet and the unfledged bird are affected by almost imperceptible influences and modified by the least change in their environment. Too often the susceptibility and excitability of your child bring grief both upon him and upon you. Nevertheless it is through them that, like the germinating seed and the growing bird, he attracts to himself the influences necessary for his development, and achieves spontaneously his own distinctive bodily type and his own mental individuality. More potent, however, than all external stim- uli is the child's passionate impulse towards a development of his own inner being which shall be on the one hand spontaneous and on the other in accord with the universal trend of life. INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. 59 This passion declares itself in his incessant ac- tivity and during the periods of infancy and early childhood manifests itself particularly in bodily movement and in the energy of sense. Hence, notwithstanding the purity of its motive it often begets misunderstanding and gloom, wrong-doing, strife, and pain. In the education of your child, therefore, let your point of departure be an effort to strengthen and develop his body, his limbs, and his senses. From this development of body, limb and sense rise to their use. Move from impressions to per- ceptions ; from perception to attentive observa- tion and contemplation ; from the recognition of particular objects to their relations and depend- encies ; from the healthy life of the body to the healthy life of the spirit ; from thought immanent in experience to pure thinking. Ascend thus from sensation to thought ; from external obser- vation to internal apprehension; from physical combination to spiritual synthesis ; from a for- mal to a vital intellectual grasp, and so to the culture of the understanding ; from the observa- tion of phenomena and their relations to the recognition of their final cause, and hence to the development and culture of life-grasping reason. By such procedure there will be formed in the pupil at the goal of his education the clear and transparent soul-picture of each particular being, including himself, of the great whole to which all particular beings belong as members, and of the truth that the particular being reflects as in a mirror the universal life. 60 MOTHER PLAY. Lead your child from the fact to the picture, from the picture to the symbol, from the symbol to grasp of the fact as a spiritual whole. Thus will be developed the ideas of member and whole, of the individual and the universal. Educate yoiir child in this manner, and at the goal of his education he will recognise himself as the living member of a living whole, and will know that his life mirrors the life of his family, his people, hu- manity, the being and life of God who works in all and through all. Having attained to a clear vision of the universal life, his conscious aim will be to manifest it in his feeling and thought, in his relationships and his deeds. Through the self-consecration begotten of this lofty ideal he will learn to understand nature, human experi- ence, and the prescient yearnings of his own soul. His individual life will flow with the cur- rents of nature and of humanity, and move to- wards a realisation of the divine ideal immanent in both. Hence his life will be a life of peace and joy, and the yearnings which you felt as you carried your unborn babe beneath your heart will be fulfilled. II. Have you ever asked yourself, thoughtful mother, what means the fervent glow which both warms and illuminates your soul as you sit gaz- ing upon the dear child lying so peacefully in your arms ? Have you ever asked yourself what it is that clothes with dignity and grace each sim- INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. 61 pie service you render ? what enables you to per- form without repulsion duties in themselves not only commonplace but disagreeable ? what gives you the calmness, patience, courage, and self- sacrifice to meet those phenomena in your child's life which cause you . anxiety and pain ? I an- swer for you : It is because each ' trivial deed, whether it concern the cleanliness of your child, his nourishment, or the orderly succession of his little experiences, is grasped by you in its relation to and recoil upon the whole of life. It is because, if not with the vision of the intellect, yet with the premonition of the heart, you survey your child's life in its unity, and realise that each detail of his experience will continue to influence his history with a power that augments as life proceeds. In a word, it is because your soul forecasts his future, and in the seeds of the present anticipates the har- vest that is to be. If you aspire so to nurture your child that he shall hereafter fulfil the duties of his calling as you fulfil the duties of your maternal vocation ; if you wish him to be faithful in least things, never to shirk repulsive duties, and to conquer the virtues of forethought, courage, and temper- ance, you must endeavour not only to stir his soul with a premonition of the wholeness of life, but also, so far as possible, to lead him to a con- scious realisation of the fact that experience is a connected process, and that he must hold fast to this continuity both in thought and in deed. In so far as you illuminate his mind with a fore- gleam of this truth will his life manifest upon 62 MOTHER PLAY. each plane of development those noble qualities which your own life now displays. A dream of the unity of life is characteristic of childhood. Because this dream is treated as an illusion and torn from us, our mature years are empty, shallow, and ineffectual, and we fail to re- enforce the minute by the hour, the hour by the day. Missing the insight into which our childish vision might have been transfigured, or gaining it too late, we lose the fairest years of life and learn no lesson from those experiences which were richest in their possibilities. What is the fairest phenomenon of human life ? What phenomenon is freighted with deep- est and tenderest suggestion ? To what phenome- non does art most tirelessly recur ? Is it not the phenomenon of infancy, or, rather, is it not in- fancy and motherhood in inmost unity and reci- procity ? Art, however, presents this phenomenon under only one of its aspects, though it conceives this aspect in its loftiest and most ideal form. But where are the countless other aspects of mother-love fostering and developing the infant life ? They are lost in a sea of forgetfulness. Yet, if we but knew it, they are the waves upon which the storm-tossed ship of life might ride safely into harbour. And now, dear mother, let me try to state briefly what I offer you in this little book of songs and plays. It is an attempt to aid you to recognise in the period of earliest childhood the germ of all later life. It aims to interpret to you your own instinctive words and deeds, and to help INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. 63 you to a clear consciousness both of what you are trying to do for your child, and of the inner im- pulse whence your effort proceeds. Accept the book in a kindly and thoughtful spirit ; study the plays ; study especially the pictures. Be not too critical of the form of the one or of the artistic merit of the other. Remember that the aim and spirit of the book are. novel, and that I am break- ing a path through unexplored regions of experi- ence. My success must necessarily be partial and imperfect. Nevertheless, I hope to make clear to you truths which you have felt but have not ap- prehended, which you have therefore often mis- interpreted in your actions, and which at best you have applied in a detached and hence ineffectual form. If my book lifts your hidden impulses into the light of consciousness, and teaches you so to relate your actions as to make them truly educa- tive, you will not be critical of its literary short- comings. But this book has a mission to fulfil for your child as well as for you. As a mother's book, it illuminates the present and forecasts the f iiture. As a child's book, it preserves a too easily forgot- ten past and endows the early years of life with continuity. This mission can be fulfilled only as song, story, and picture are vivified by your thought and warmed by your heart. When, therefore, your child has entered upon that stage of development wherein thought mounts from object to picture, and in the picture discerns the symbol, use this book so that it may preserve for him the first tender buds of thought and experi- 64 MOTHER PLAY. ence, and help him to conceive his life not in the isolation of its particular acts but in the unity of its process. By so doing you will bridge the gulf between the unconscious and conscious periods of life. You will make the plays of infancy a round in that ladder of experience over which the soul climbs towards self-realisation and self-knowl- edge. You will also be preparing your child for the retrospective glance which shall assign to each round of this ascending ladder its own pe- culiar place. Recall the feelings which were wakened in you by the sight of your firstborn child. Re- mind yourself of the thrill with which, as he lay cradled in your arms, you noted his feeble and aimless movements. Are not these feelings, with their tender and yet peremptory incitement to nurture, worthy of being themselves nurtured ? Is not their nurture essential to the well-being of your child and the peace of your own soul ? Should we not spurn the suggestion that they can be ephemeral ? Were they not well-springs of ineffable joy ? Did they not stir your soul with a blessedness too deep for utterance ? Did they not transfigure you into a being of nobler and fairer mould ? Did not your outer semblance take on a new, strange beauty born of the celes- tial purity of your transfigured soul ? Why was your soul thus exalted, your coun- tenance thus transfigured, as you gazed upon your infant child ? You need no words of mine to an- swer this question. Your whole nature was up- lifted by your realisation of the truth that an in- INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. 65 expressible blessedness is conferred whenever a new soul comes into being. We scout the suggestion that the feelings wakened in you by the sight of your newborn infant can ever die. Yet must not we — must not you — admit that in the effort to give him phys- ical care and to meet his practical needs, these feelings too often grow cold, too often pass away ? Should you reconcile yourself to their loss ? Are they granted to you only as the sweet reward of those unspeakable throes through which God's heavenly gift receives earthly being ? or is the consecration to which your soul is stirred by a celestial breeze wafted from your helpless babe, destined to rise into ever clearer consciousness and to bless you and him so long as he shall live, or at the very least so long as he needs your fos- tering care, and until he stands before you a free, self-determining, and responsible man ? My own faith you will have already divined. May I illus- trate by a picture drawn from my own experi- ence ? In my early boyhood, when a feeling for na- ture was just beginning to stir within me, I found one day, hidden beneath a hedge of white roses, a tiny five-petaled flower of rosy colour and having in its centre five golden points. Hundreds of f ai rer flowers blossomed in my father's garden and were cultivated by him with anxious care. This sim- ple child of Nature bloomed unheeded in a hid- den spot. Yet it was precisely this insignificant floweret which more than any other attracted and held my imagination, andiwhen I peered into 66 MOTHER PLAY. its heart and saw the golden stars I seemed to myself to have discovered a bottomless depth. For months and years, whenever this flower was in blossom, I was wont to stand by the hour gaz- ing into its mysterious heart. It seemed to be forever trying to say to me something which I could not understand. I never grew tired of looking. I was always sure that some day I should read its secret. ^ With just such a love, such a longing, such a presentiment, do you, dear mother, gaze at the child opening like a bud before your vision. You look into the clear sea of his eye ; in this sea you behold the whole heaven reflected. My gaze into my flower was like your gaze at your child. Hence, without the mediation of words I under- stand you and you understand me. But the boy wandered from his home — put far behind him the lovely garden, and forgot the flower. In youth he rediscovered it, and this time in the early spring, and in the close neighbourhood of a hazelnut bush. The latter plant had also meant much to him in an epoch-making moment of life.* Picture to yourself the joy with which the * I was often a mute witness of the strict way in which my father performed his pastoral duties, and of the frequent scenes between him and the many people who came to the parsonage to seek advice and consolation. I was thus again constantly attracted from the outer to the inner aspects of life. Life, with its inmost motives laid bare, passed before my eyes, with my father's comments pronounced upon it ; and thing and word, act and symbol, were thus perceived by me in their most vivid relationship. I saw the disjointed, heavy-laden, torn, in- IKTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. 67 youth, now on terms of close intimacy with Na- ture, found in this close conjunction the two plants which had stirred his childish soul with deepest presentiments. The old longing awoke in him. It was in a measure satisfied, for the flow- ers declared to him in their own speech the secret of existence and the mysterious law of develop- ment. But once again the secret was forgotten — whirled by the vortex of life into the unconscious depths of the soul. harmonious life of man as it appeared in this community of five thousand souls, before the watcliful eyes of its earnest, severe pastor. Matrimonial and sexual irregularities especially were often the objects of my father's gravest condemnation and re- buke. The way in which he spoke about these matters showed me that they formed one of the most oppressive and difficult parts of human conduct; and, in my youth and innocence, I felt a deep pain and sorrow that man alone, among all crea- tures, should be doomed to these separations of sex, whereby the right path was made so difficult for him to find. I felt it a real necessity for the satisfaction of my heart and mind to reconcile this difficulty, and yet could find no way to do so. How could I, at that age and in my position? But my eldest brother — who, like all my elder brothers, lived away from home — came to stay with us for a time ; and one day, when I expressed ray delight at seeing the purple threads of the hazel-buds, he made me aware of a sexual difference in plants. Now was my spirit at rest. I recognised that what had so weighed upon me was an institution spread over all Nature, to which even the silent, beautiful race of flowers was submitted. From that time humanity and Nature, the life of the soul and the life of the flower, were closely knit together in my mind ; and I can still see my hazel-buds, like angels, opening for me the great God's temple of Nature. — Autobiography of Friedrich Froebel, trans- lated by Emilie Michaelis and H. Keatley Moore, pages 11, IS. (58 MOTHER PLAY. In mature manhood, when I had foucd my life-calling and consecrated my strength to it, I once more came across my flower. The presenti- ment which the frail and perishing blossom had awakened in my soul had ripened into insight, and I had recognised its true symbol in the deep- rooted, wide-branching, long-living tree. I had rediscovered that mystic tree of knowledge of good and evil that grew in paradise, and learned from it to discriminate between right and wrong, between illusion and reality. Now, at last, after fifty years, I know why in my musing boyhood I loved to peer into the heart of the flower. It was because my soul was stirred by a presentiment , of the depth and meaning of life. What I beheld in symbol you, mother, behold in reality in your dear baby. Must fifty years pass over your head, as over mine, before you understand what his life is telling you about itself and about all life ? Must you, too, wait until life is nearly over be- fore you know what it means ? Of what avail will such tardy knowledge be to you or to your child ? What shall we learn from our yearning look into the heart of the flower and the eye of the child ? This truth : Whatever develops, be it into flower or tree or man, is from the begin- ning implicitly that which it has the power to become. The possibility of perfect manhood is what you read in your child's eye, just as the perfect flower is prophesied in the bud or the giant oak in the tiny acorn. A presentiment that the ideal or generic human being slumbers. INTRODUCTION TO THE COMMENTARIES. 69 dreams, stirs in your unconscious infant — this it is, O mother, which transfigures yoii as you gaze upon him. Strive to define to yourself what is that generic ideal which is wrapped up in your child. Surely, as your child — or, in other words, as child of man — ^he is destined to live in the past and future as well as in the pres- ent. His earthly being implies a past heaven; his birth makes a present heaven ; in his soul he holds a future heaven. This threefold heaven, which you also bear within you, shines out on you through your child's eyes. The beast lives only in the present. Of past and future he knows naught. But to man be- long not only the present, but also the future and the past. His thought pierces the heaven of the future and hope is born. He learns that all human life is one life ; that all human joys and sorrows are his joys and sorrows, and through participation enters the present heaven — the heaven of love. He turns his mind towards the past, and out of retrospection wrests a vigorous faith. What soul could fail to conquer an in- vincible trust, in the pure, the good, the holy, the ideally human, the truly divine, if it would look with single eye into its own past, into the past of history ? Could there be a man in whose soul such a contemplation of the past would fail to blossom into devout insight, into self - conscious and self - comprehending faith ? Must not such a retrospect unveil the truth ? Must not the beauty of the unveiled truth al- lure him, to divine doing, divine living ? All 70 MOTHER PLAY. that is high and holy in human life meets in that faith which is born of the unveiling of a heaven that has always been ; in that hope born of a vision of the heaven that shall be ; in that love which creates a heaven in the eternal now. These three heavens shine out upon you through your child's eye. The presentiment that he car- ries these three heave as within him transfigures your countenance as you gaze upon him. Cher- ish this premonition, for thereby you will help him to make his life a musical chord wherein are blended the three notes of faith, hope, and love. These celestial virtues will link his life with the divine life, through which all life is one ■ — with the God who is the supernal fountain of Life, Light, and Love. MOTTOES AND COMMENTARIES. iStrampfclbefn. „ SBenn Sinbd)en jur Suft 3(rra' 3n bet 2)}»ttrt bit SpieHufl mi( bem Jttnbe fid) regt. Sum ©ij)6t>fct ill itir bits jut 3Deifung gege&en : Sf^on fritfe im Sinbe ©etoflnbt, gellnbc Dutd) Sug'rea ju tiflegen fein innereS £ef'en ; Durii ©(^cije unb ®fiel£ unb flnnigeS 31tc(en ©efiifcle, gmpjiiibuns unb nu roerfen." 73 I. PLAY WITH THE LIMBS. Watch a mother's answering play, When her happy baby kicks ! She "will brace her hands to please him, Or in loving sort she'll tease him With her playful tricks. This is not mere fond caprice — God inspires the pretty strife ; She is leading a beginner Through the outer to the inner Of his groping life. Is it not true, thouglitful motlier, that in all you do for and with your child you are seeking one aim, returning forever to one central point of endeavour ? This aim is the nurture of life. The impulse to foster life is the very core of your motherly being. It gives unity to your feeling, thought, and action. It explains why your feel- ing, thought, and activity rise in unison to meet each manifestatiou of life and activity in your child. Nothing gives you greater joy than this ebulli- ent life, provided that its manifestations are strong, calm, and in accord with the laws of nature. Unless your motherly instinct has been warped by habit, prejudice, or misunderstanding of itself, it responds at once to the movements of your 7 73 74 Mother play. cliild. You will foster his impulsive movements, exercise his strength, cultivate his activity, and prepare him through doing for seeing, through the exertion of his power for its comprehension. In a word, you will seek through self -activity to lead him to self-knowledge. Your child lies on a clean cushion hefore you. He has been invigorated by his morning bath. He is now enjoying a strengthening air bath. In the bliss of perfect health he is striking out with his little arms and kicking about with his chubby feet. Your instinct tells you that he is seeking an object against which he may measure his strength, and by measuring increase and en- joy it. To the need indicated by his lively move- ments your motherly love promptly responds, and you hold your hands so that the little feet may alternately strike against them. But you are not satisfied with this merely physical nurture. You long to nourish your baby's feelings, to stir the pulses of his heart. He shall not only learn through your strength to know his own. In some way, in some slight de- gree, you must make him feel the love which in- spires all you do. Hence, as the little play goes on, you begin to sing ; and love, the melody of the heart, is revealed in the melody of the voice. The theme of your song is suggested by the lamp which burns beside you through the long nights during which your sleepless love watches over your baby. It was by an evenly exercised strength that oil was pressed from hemp and poppy seed. As your child matures you may find PLAY WITH THE LIMBS. Y5 in this symbol a means of leading him first to feel, and later to understand, that his harmoniously developing activity is the oil which feeds the sacred fire of your love. The picture which accompanies this game shows you an oil mill. Near it grow a poppy plant and a hemp plant. Use this picture to explain to your child, as he grows older, how oil is made. Avail yourself also of any opportunity which may offer to show him the oil mill itself. The upper part of our picture shows a moth- er who has found occasion to visit an oil mill Avith her little family. Each child is busy repro- ducing in his own fashion his new experience. Wishing to stir the imaginations of her children with a presentiment of the Hying, loving, active power which works throughout Nature, the mother has led them into the mountain valley close by the mill. At the head of the stream which flows through this valley the older boy has found a place to set up his toy mill. The water keeps it going merrily. The younger brother looks on in mute amazement. He shades his eyes from the blinding sun that it may not prevent him from gazing at his brother's work. The sister seeks ends of her own, and seeks them in the shortest and simplest way. Wading with sturdy bare feet in the clear brook, she kneads the fine sand into a plastic dough. Surrounded by her busy children, the mother sits musing. She is asking herself why it is that, with the same nurture and under the same influ- ences, each child shows a different individuality. 76 MOTHER PLAY. In the mirror of their spontaneous play she be- holds the later life of her three children. Each child feels the fascination of the water and its mj^sterious force ; yet each is differently affected by the one fascination. The elder boy (so thinks his mother) will one day bend the force of life by means of his intelli- gence to purposes of his own choosing. The little girl will not know how to use external means to gain her ends. She will hold her aims in her heart and pursue them through her own deed and sacrifice. The younger brother will follow still another path. He is one who will strive to un- derstand the nature of force and the method of its activity. Each one of the playing children is living a present life which is rich and full. The mother is enjoying the wealth and fulness of the future and the past as well as the wealth and fulness of the present. She has noticed the woman who, basket on arm, is climbing the hill. " Where are you going, my good woman ? "' she asks, and the latter answers : " I am going to the oil mill, to see if the rich miller will not give me oil in return for what I am carrying to him in my basket. My little baby is ill, and I must watch all night beside him. I want bread, too, for I cannot earn anything now, and yet my poor child must eat." These words bring back to our mother's mind the little game she played with her babies in days gone by, and as she looks at her children and thinks about them, she asks, " Will their future lives thankfully reward their mother's love ? " II. FALLING! FALLING! A GAME TO STRENGTHEN THE WHOLE BODY. All a mother does or says Is inspired by thoughtful love. '' Falling ! falling !" she is playing, But her hand the fall is staying, So her love to ^trove. To her child her life is given. Thought, and word, and deed, and prayer ; And her hold, an instant broken, To his mind is but a token Of her constant care. Soon her arms must loose their hold. Not, as now, in pretty play — Keeping still their circle round him, That no jar or fright may wound him — But for all the day. And for this, her thought and love Must his little life prepare : Teaching first how she is needed. That through her fond cautions heeded He may learn self-care. It often happens that what lies close at hand is overlooked. Through such an oversight this little game is without a picture to illustrate and explain it. The song and motto, however, ex- plain themselves, and the game is a perfectly'' simple one. 77 78 MOTHER PLAY. You are standing, dear mother, beside a table upon which lies a soft cushion, or perhaps beside your baby's crib. Your darling is half-sitting, half-lying on his plump back in a basket which you have made out of your hands. You hold him thus a little above the cushion, then, gently with- drawing your hands, let him fall upon it with just sufficient force to give him a slight shock. This game may be played in another way. The child lies before you on a cushion. You take hold of his hands and raise him into a sitting position, then, letting go his hands, you allow him to slip back again on the cushion. In this case, too, he experiences a slight shock. Through this falling or slipping play, in which he is watched over by your love and protected by your care, your baby increases both his strength and his consciousness of strength. As he grows older you will find many opportunities to show him that without such watchful care slips and falls may easily become serious, and even dan- gerous. Yonder is a child gliding in his sledge over the slippery snow. His eye is not sure, his hand is not strong ; he falls. Fortunately he gets only a slight bruise on his leg. What says his pain ? " Train your eye, exercise your strength, so that in future you may avoid a fall." Yonder, again, is a boy skating. Heedlessly his eye wanders from one thing to another ; heedlessly he lets his feet and legs go where they will. He falls, but happily only grazes his hand. Collect your mind, fix your eye, rule your feet and legs, that FALLING! PALLING 1 79 you may not fall again — so says his aching hand. But see ! here a little girl has dropped a plate, yonder a boy has let fall a goblet ; yet neither girl nor boy had once looked away from the object in their hands — both had been watchful and careful. Why, then, had they dropped what they were carrying ? Their grasp had not been strong ; they had not really used the strength of their hands and fingers. Many a fall and many a loss come from anxious care mated with weak- ness. Draw these pictures from life for your child and set them before him as need and occa- sion call for them. So doing, both you and he will learn the lesson of the falling game, and neither of you will miss the illustration which should have accompanied it. 80 in. THE WEATHER VANE. A GAME FOR EXERCISING THE JOINTS OF THE HAND AND ELBOW. Watch as your baby grows, and you will see That bis wbole life, wherever be may be. Is a perpetual mimicry. An engine now, be puffs with all his might ; Anon, with brows perplexed, he feigns to write — Or strides his chair, a mounted knight. Brimming with life, but knowing not as yet Even the letters of its alphabet. He imitates each pattern set. And watching him, perchance you question why Each new activity that meets his eye Excites him his own skill to try. His is an instinct ignorantly wise I Only in doing can he realise The thing that's done beneath his eyes. A stranger 'midst the surging life of men. He to his own life-stature shall attain By taking — to give back again. The forearm and hand of the child are held as nearly upright as possible ; the fingers are spread out to form the tail of the weather-cock ; the flat hand makes its body, the little thumb its throat and head. The hand is moved to and 81 82 MOTHER PLAY. fro in imitation of the movement of the -weather- cock. " This play," you say, " is too simple." Yet it delights your child, and it is long before it ceases to give him fresh pleasure every time it is played. He is not yet able to speak, yet see not only with what pleasure but with what seriousness he moves his little hand whenever you bid him show how the weather-cock turns ! Why is he so pleased and yet so serious ? Have you never moved an object before him in such a way that the motive power is not apparent ? Have you never noticed that to search for this motive power gives him greater pleasure than to watch the moving object ? His pleasure in moving his hand comes from the same source. He feels and controls the origin of a movement, the cause of an effect ; this it is which fills his heart with such serious joy. He is experiencing the fact that a moving object has its ground in a moving force ; soon he will con- clude that living objects have their ground in a living force. On a windy, almost stormy day your dear children go with you to the drying place in front of your house. Where do children not love to follow a mother who is active and busy ? Hark ! how the vane creaks on the tower ! The wind keeps it going merrily to and fro. Here come a hen and rooster ; they cannot turn about so quickly as the weather-cock, but the wind blows the feathers in their tails from side to side. How the clothes flap and rustle on the line! THE WEATHER VANE. 83 They seem to be telling about the strong wind. Their flapping and rustling delight the children. Yonder little boy was about to bathe in the stream, but the wind is too strong ; so he binds his bath towel to a tall staff, and high in the air it waves and chatters of the wind. Close beside the boy sits a little girl who is watching with delight the waving handkerchief in her out- stretched hand. A third child is flying a kite. He gives it more freedom than his brother gives the towel, or than the sister gives her handker- chief ; therefore it rises higher in the air and gives its owner more pleasure. Clap ! clap ! clap ! The wind is driving the windmill round and round so fast that its sails strike. Clap ! clap ! clap ! Hearing the sound, out runs a little boy with his paper windmill. It turns faster and faster as he increases his speed. Whatever a child sees he loves to imitate. There- fore be careful, you, his elders, what you do in his sight. " Do you see the mother yonder ? She can scarcely shield her little daughter from the power of the storm. Do you see the man near her ? He finds it hard work to keep his balance and not stagger in the raging wind." " Mother, this is a very fierce wind ; it makes everything bend and shake. See how sister's hair is flying about, and how the clothes dance on the line ! Where does the wind come from, mother, this wind that moves so many things ? " " My child, were I to try to explain to you whence comes the wind, you would not under- 84 MOTHER PLAY. stand me. I miglit as well talk to you in a for- eign tongue as to tell you that ' the pressure of air, or its altered density, or a change in its tem- perature, causes wind.' You would not under- stand a single word of this explanation. But one thing you can understand even now : A single mighty power like the wind can do many things great and small. You see the things it does, though you cannot see the wind itself. There are many things, my child, which we can be sure of though we cannot see them. There are also many things which we can see but which I can- not explain to you with words. Your little hand moves, but you cannot see the power that moves it. Believe in and cherish the power you do not see. Hereafter, though you will never see it, you will understand better whence it comes." IV. ALL GONBl A GAME TO EXERCISE THE WRIST JOINTS. Baby has eaten all his food, And mother says, " All gone I " , The while his questioning eyes are fixed The empty bowl upon. Oh, have you thought out all it means, When baby comes to know Just this — " My bowl is empty now ; 'Twas full a while ago " ? He's proved his title to a soul I The creatures of the wood Know not of now or then, but live Cramped in the instant's mood. Only to soul-life is it given To own the hour that's fled. Blest token, that we most shall live When men shall call us dead I Every one knows the waving movement of the hand (the oscillation from an upright to a horizontal position) which tells in gesture that some person has gone away, or that of some cov- eted object nothing is left. Like the Weather Vane, this game exercises the wrist joint, but exercises it in a different manner. The idea em- bodied in the All Gone is also a reversal of the idea embodied in the Weather Vane. In the 85 sfi ALL GONE! 87 Weather Vane attention is directed to a present fulness ; in tlie All Gone it is directed to a pres- ent lack. The former points to permanence ; the latter to cessation, The one concentrates the child's interest upon the present; the other at- tracts his attention to the past, pointing him again and again to something that has been in contrast with something that is. The supper is all gone ; the plate is empty ; the candle is burnt out. The dog has been with father to the field; greedily he devours his food ; he seems to be still hungry, but his supper is — all gone. The boy is thirsty. " Please, sister," he says, " give me some water." "It is all gone," she replies, showing him a glass which she holds upside down that he may see for himself it is empty. This un- expected and unwelcome answer distracts his attention from the slice of buttered bread lying beside him. Sly puss seizes the opportunity, creeps softly near him, and steals his bread. When the boy turns to get it he will find it — all gone. Look at the little girl standing on the bench. I am sorry for her. She meant to give her canary something to eat, but she carelessly left the door of its cage open while she turned to look at the empty glass in her sister's hand. "Where is your canary, my child ? " "0 dear ! dear ! it is gone ! it has flown away ! " The little girl's brother tries to comfort her. "Come with me, sister," he says; "come to the field, for I know a tree where there is a nest with 88 MOTHER PLAY. many little birds in it. I will get it for yoii^ and you shall have many birds instead of one. Only come ! come ! " The children have all gone to the old tree. The older boy has climbed it to get the nest. The other children watch him so intently that not one of them notices the hungry dog, who has followed them to the field and now stands quiet- ly eating the bread the younger boy holds in his hand. When the little fellow turns round he too will find his bread — all gone. The elder brother has reached the nest. But what does he see ? The nest is empty ; the birds have all flown away. One little bird, however, fliitters to the ground. " I shall have you, at any rate," says the younger boy, throwing his hat over it. " How glad I shall be to give you to my sister ! Wait here, little bird, in the dark, under my hat, "till I pick the beautiful raspberries growing on this bush. How good they will taste ! " But a frolic- some breeze blows over the hat, away flies the bird, and the boy, coming back from the rasp- berry bush, cries out: "My bird is gone! my bird is gone ! '' "Mother, I don't like this picture. I don't want to look at it again. Nothing in it stays, and no one keeps what he has." "My child, if we want to keep things we must be watchful and careful, and we must not let our- selves be tempted by everything we see. In order to have things when we need them, we must plan for them beforehand. The boy forgot his bread in thinking of his drink ; the little girl lost her ALL GONE! 89 bird through carelessness. The boy was doing wrong who tried to steal the birds from their nest. I am glad their courage and strength saved them from being caught and put into a cage. The other boy lost his bread by forgetting it while he watched his brother ; and because he could not resist the temptation of going for the raspberries, he missed the pleasure of giving a bird to his sister." " Mother, let me look again at the little bird that is getting away from under the dark hat." V. TASTE SONa As each new lite is given to the world, The senses — like a door that swings two ways — Stand ever 'twixt its inner, waiting self And that environment with which its lot Awhile is cast. A door that sv/ings two ways : Inward at tirst it turns, while Nature speaks, To greet lier guest and bid him to her feast. And tell him of all things in licr domain. The good or ill of each, and how to use ; Then outward, to set free an answering thought. And so, swift messages Hy back and forth Without surcease — until, behold ! she, who Like gracious host received a timid guest, Owns in that guest at length her rightful lord, And gladly serves him, asking no reward ! This parable, dear mother, is for you. Whom God hay made his steward for your child. All Nature is a unit in herself. Yet but a part of a far greater whole. Little by little you may teach your child To know her ways, and live in harmony With her; and then, in turn, help him through her To iind those verities \A'ithin himself, Of which all outward things are but the type. Si-i when he passes from your sheltering care To walk the ways of men, his soul shall be Knit to all things that are, and still most free ! And of him shall be writ at last this word, " At peace with Nature, with himself, and G-od." Like the Falling game, and for the same rea- son, this song is without a picture. Fortunately, 90 TASTE SONG. 91 however, illustration is even less necessary in this case than in the other. Who does not know how you, dear mother, turn everything you do with your baby into play ? Who does not rejoice that you are able to clothe the most important truths of life in the garment of play ? " Bite the pear ! " " Oh, how sweet it tastes ! " " Come, baby, taste this pretty currant ! " " It puckers your little mouth. Is it sweet ? Is it sour ? "' By such pretty devices you try to nurture and develop your child's sense of taste, By similar playful tricks you cultivate the other senses. What is more important than a wise culture of the senses ? And what sense needs such cul- ture more than the sense of taste, particularly if under the word taste we include not only its di- rect physical meaning, but also its metaphorical significance ? Who would wish to have bad or low taste ? Who is not glad when it may with truth be said of him, "He has good and pure taste?" Why do we commend a man for good taste ? Is it not because through taste the essence or soul of objects is revealed ? The taste of a thing tells whether the thing itself is beneficial or baleful, life-giving or life-destroying. Indeed, all the senses exist in order that through them the soul of things may be made known to the soul of the sensitive being. It is a striking fact with regard to the objects of sense that their inner being or essence is 92 MOTHER PLAY. stamped upon and revealed through their phe- nomenal being or manifestation. This is espe- cially the case when the sense-object possesses harmful qualities. It is well known that almost all poisonous plants warn and repel man either through their appearance, their odour, or their taste. Think of the deadly nightshade, the oak apple, the spurge laurel, and the henbane. Are you not aware that each one of these plants utters its own word of warning ? If the form and colour of a plant are silent with regard to its nature, its scent and taste will speak the more clearly and declare its danger through the loathing they ex- cite. Through a similar loathing, taste and smell warn us against the excessive enjoyment of an otherwise harmless and pleasurable sensation. Thus, with excess, the fragrance of lilies produces faintness, and the taste of honey becomes nause- ating. He who truly cultivates his senses and is then pliant to their suggestions will learn through them to recognise the true nature of sense-ob- jects, and will avoid on the one hand injury to his health, and on the other the necessity of de- stroying the sense-object in order to get enjoy- ment out of it. The nature of external objects is revealed in the totality of their attributes. Through their material and cohesion, through their taste and odour, through their form, colour, tone, size, and number, and through the endless variation of de- gree and relationship in these several qualities, the objects of sense speak to us and tell us what they are. The words of the sage, " Speak, and I TASTE SONG. 93 will tell you who and what you are," are relevant not only to human beings but to all beings. Through a wise culture of the senses we learn to read this language of things. Such a culture is essential alike to the development of the child and to the well-being of the man. It differs entirely from the merely physical training of sense given by savages. Its aim is to seek the inner nature in the outer manifestation. This aim is realised only as the activities and attributes of sense- objects are systematically observed, compared, and connected. Who is a man of fine and true taste ? It is he who reads aright the language of things. It is he who, having discerned the inner being in its manifestation, is thereby incited to prompt activ- ity. It is he who repels the deleterious and in- vites the wholesome influence. In a word, it is he who through sensation is aroused to deed. Therefore, dear mother, let it be your aim so to train the senses that you shall at the same time cultivate the heart and intellect ; and in order that you may realise this aim, make clear to yourself the correlative truths that the soul-activity of your child manifests itself in his sense-activity, and that through sense-activity he struggles towards the soul of things. We have seen that the right use of the data of sense enables us to classify objects, to recog- nise their reciprocal relationship, and their influ- ence upon each other and upon man. I should add that it also enables us to determine the stage of development attained by any given object, or, 94 MOTHER PLAY. in other words, to recognise whether such object is ripe or unripe. In its metaphorical applica- tion this discrimination is one of paramount im- portance. How many of the evils which pervert and destroy individuals, families, trades, and so- cieties have their ground in jjremature or unripe activity, or arise from expecting the fruition of deeds before they have had time to put forth leaves and blossoms. It is dangerous to force a premature activity. It is dangerous to interfere in any way with a ripening process. It is dangerous to seize objects until they are ripe and ready for seizure. It is most dangerous to set unripe things to work upon other unripe things. Therefore, mother, if you would assure the well-being of your children and your children's children, begin early to stir the souls of your darlings with premonitions of these truths. Begin to stir such premonitions while your children are still babies and eager to bite and taste everything around them. As they ma- ture, teach them to recognise the definite stages of development from unripeness to ripeness. Show them that the use of unripe things is con- trary to Nature. Lead them to understand that the use of what is unripe is dangerous alike to physical, intellectual, and moral life — is destruc- tive both to the individual and to society. If you can teach your children this truth and make them obedient to its warning, you will be one of the greatest benefactors of the human race. VI. FLOWER SONG. The Life Supreme, that lives in all, Gives everything its own ; A soul remains itself despite Life's ceaseless shift — Death's sure, cold might Itself— though changed or grown. And something to a soul akin Looks out from every flower ; A lily is a lily still. On mountain bleak, by meadow rill, In sunshine or in shower. Ten thousand roses June may boast, All differing each from each ; And still the rose-soul in each one Glows fervent, as if there alone Its silence had found speech. The importance of cultivating the senses has been suggested in my commentary on the Taste Song. In the same commentary I have pointed out the peculiar significance of the sense of taste as the organ through which the inmost nature of external objects is suggested to the percipient subject. Closely allied to the sense of taste is the sense of smell. Indeed, these senses are like twin sis- ters in their intimate union and their reciprocal influence. By complementing each other they enable us to recognise external objects as bene- 95 96 MOTHER PLAY. ficial or detrimental ; and this not only in rela- tion to i^hysical life, but to the higher life of the spirit. Very difficult would it be to say where the purely physical influence of sensible objects ends and where their spiritual influence begins. In sensation the physical and psychical, the merely vital and the intellectual, the instinctive and the moral, melt into each other. Hence the importance of sense culture. Hence particularly the importance of cultivating, ennobling, refin- ing the senses of taste and smell. Rightly regarded, taste and smell are seen to be not two distinct senses but two aspects of one sense. Moreover, they not only complement each other, but supply the deficiencies of the other senses. Thus in many cases where the data of sight and taste leave us in uncertainty with re- gard to the nature of objects, the sense of smell makes it clear to us. I have already pointed out the fact that things which are injurious to health give warning of their danger to the sense of sight by their gloomy and repellent appearance ; to the senses of taste and smell by producing nausea and aversion. It may be added that they also often warn the sense of hearing by emitting hol- low or discordant tones. As an illustration of this I may mention the ring of difi'erent metals. Hence we say, metaphorically "Such or such a person has the true ring."' Finally, as has been already suggested, things in themselves good and healthful, but which become injurious when par- taken of in excess, warn us by faintness and nau- sea to be temperate in our enjoyment of them. FLOWER SONG. 97 Thus the scent of lilacs becomes oppressive in a small room. In general, excess engenders dis- gust, and disgust becomes loathing. Rightly in- terpreting and obeying these warnings of sense, we shall avoid what is physically or morally injurious. All these truths, dear mother, you may clothe in a garment of play. You Txia,j then lift them nearer to the light of consciousness by your talks with your child about his play. Do not forget the fact that the data of smell, like those of taste, are important not only in their literal but in their metaphorical sense. It is significant that in the transfer of the phenomena of smell from the physical to the moral realm there is usually im- puted to them an evil meaning. Thus we speak of the odour of hypocrisy ; or we say " a man's name is in evil odour." " Mother, my head aches." "What have you been doing to make it ache ? " " I don't know. I have only gathered a great many beautiful flowers and put them in water." " That is just what is the matter. You have brought a great many strongly scented flowers, and particularly a great manj^ lilies, into a very small room. Their fragrance makes the air op- pressive, and this it is which has given you a headache. One may do too much even of a good thing. Besides, that which is good in itself needs plenty of room for its activity in order that its influence may be good. If this were not so, men — yes, and little children too — would 98 MOTHER PLAY. selfishly try to gather and keep for themselves the things that are good and beautiful, and would not remember that the good and the beautiful are for all." " mother, the plants and flowers love us, just as you do ! '" * * See Appendix, note vi. VII. TICK-TACK. A GAME TO EXERCISE AND DEVELOP THE AKJIS. Oh, teach your child that those who move By Order's kindly law, Find all their lives to music set ; While those who this same law forget Find only fret and jar. The clock is not a master hard, Ruling with iron hand ; It is a happy household sprite, Helping all things to move aright, With gentle guiding wand. Its quiet tick still seems to say, " Though time pass velvet shod, It guides the universal round Of worlds and souls — for it is found Deep in the thought of God ! " This game is easy to play. Your child may sit in your lap or stand upon a table. All that is necessary is that his arms should be free so that you may swing them to and fro like a pendulum. It goes without saying that the movement should be made alternately with the right and left arm. It may, however, not be superfluous to suggest that you may further the harmonious physical development of your child by also swinging his legs. Such varied exercises will contribute to his zia, zaa: TICK-TACK. 101 healthy growth as well as to his beauty, litheness, and grace. " Shall we now talk a little together about the picture ? You know all I have to say better than I know it myself. Indeed, I learned it from you — learned it by watching your thoughtful, moth- erly play." Your instinct has taught you truly that every- thing in the nature of a timepiece has an irresist- ible charm for children. Why is this ? The movement of the pendulum has given us the clew to many a truth of mathematics and mechanics. Can it be that a presentiment of its suggestive- ness in these directions explains its allurement ? There is a certain remote kinship between the rhythmic swing of the pendulum and the form of our soul-activity. Is this the secret of its charm ? Or, setting aside both these suggestions, shall we say that the movement, the turning wheels, the apparent life in the clock are the sources of its allurement, and that this allure- ment is heightened by a sense of concealment and mystery ? That each of these explanations throws some light upon the source of the child's interest in the clock I freely admit. That any one of them or all of them fully account for his interest I must deny ; for it is not alone the clock which fascinates him : his imagination is stirred by any kind of timepiece. Thus, children love to watch the slowly running sand in an hour- glass. They also love to make and watch sun- dials, though in these there is no movement 102 MOTHER PLAY. save the almost imperceptible progress of the shadow. My own conviction is that the delight of chil- dren in watching, imitating, and making time- pieces springs from a dim presentiment of the importance of time itself. This conviction of mine hurts neither the child nor any one else. In its practical outcome it is helpful to the child and to every one. Who does not know how much depends upon the right use of time ? Who does not know the importance of order and punctu- ality in all the relationships of life ? To me it seems that there is no single thing which, from the day of his birth, is more important for man than the doing of things at the right time. In the first moments after birth, indeed, his life itself may be said to depend on the right use of time. It is therefore of the highest importance to make the allurement of the clock the point of departure for so educating the child that he shall carefully consider, truly apprehend, and worthily employ time. Use my little arm game in this spirit. Lead your dear child through playing it to begin thinking about time, and to begin to feel that there is a right time for whatever he has to do. If you train him in this way he will understand j'ou when, later, you deny him a pleasure because it is time for doing something else. " Mother, show me this pretty picture." "My child, see what your kitten is doing. She is cleaning and smoothing her soft fur so that it will be a pleasure to look at her. She TICK-TACK. 103 knows it will soon be time for some welcome visit- ors to arrive. Come, darling, come, and be made neat and clean, like your kitty, for two dear friends will soon be here to see you. Do you know who they are ? They are your father's dear eyes. They must find you fresh and clean." The child is always having visitors. The bright rays of the sun come to see him ; so do the twinkling stars, the shining moon, the white doves, the fair, sweet flowers. They love to see and play with a clean, sweet child. Teach your child, mother, to love these pure friends, and to make ready for them by being clean and pure himself. " Do you see in the picture five little children who are playing ' clock ' ? * These five children are surely five little fingers who want to learn to tell the time, so that they can do everything at just the right moment. Come here, you dear little fingers on my child's hand, and learn something from the five children in the picture."' * It is characteristic of childish thought to link activity with its object. Hence children often form active verbs from nouns. For example, a little child said, " I will road it," instead of, " I will go play in the road." This tendency should not be too abruptly corrected. It furnishes a key to many peculiarities of dialect. Thus, in one part of Switzerland people say, " What clock's it ? " instead of " What o'clock is it ? " 104 VIII. MOWING GRASS. AN ARM GAME. Take from out the sweetest song Just one note — the sweetest one ; You may sound it full and strong, But its music is all gone ! And the children learn to see, In a little game like this, That in true activity Nothing unrelated is. Your child's hands are both at rest. The forearms are extended in a horizontal position. The palms of the hands are downward and the fingers are bent. They grasp your hands, which are likewise extended, but have the palms upper- most. Yon give your child's arms a movement which somewhat resembles that made in mowing grass. This movement exercises the elbow joint, and increases the child's power to stand in an up- right position. Nothing is more dangerous to the health of the intellect, nothing is more prejudicial to the culture of the heart, than the habit of looking at particular objects and events in detachment from the great whole of life. I admit that it is often necessary to ignore the connection between dif- ferent objects and acts. When your child, for example, tells you he is hungry, you must often 9 105 106 MOTHER PLAY. simply send him to the cool-f for a roll or to the taker for a bun. You should, however, correct the tendency to which this manner of satisfying his wants gives rise by making perceptible to him as often as possible the series of conditions which must be fulfilled before it is possible to say to him, " Run to this or that person and get such or such things." You may achieve this result by making a judicious choice of pictures representing the activities of farm, garden, and trade, by show- ing them in their natural and logical order, and by connecting with them short and graphic sto- ries of the life they portray. Doubtless this idea has already occurred to you, and you have in some measure worked it out. With your per- mission we will hereafter look through a selection of pictures and mature the scheme. Through the little play of Mowing Grass, which I now offer to you, together with the illus- tration which accompanies it, you may easily lead your child to feel that for his bread and milk he owes thanks not only to his mother, the milk- maid, the cow, the mower, and the baker, but also and most of all to the heavenly Father, who through the instrumentalities of dew and rain, sunshine and darkness, winter and summer, causes the earth to bring forth grass and herb to nour- ish the cattle whose milk and whose flesh nour- ish man. He will understand you the more readily if, catching a hint from the little boy in the picture, you encourage him to share the life of his elders by imitating their activities. As he grows older you should let him plant his own MOWING GRASS. IQT garden, gather his own harvest of fruit and flow- ers, learn through his own small experience some- thing of the influence of sun, dew, and rain, and gain thereby a remote presentiment of the recip- rocal energies of nature and a reverent feeling for the divine life and law expressed in nature. The two children in the picture who sit oppo- site to each other weaving dandelion chains ex- pect to join these chains in one connected whole. They know that if they work quietly and steadi- ly, joining link to link, the chains must at last meet. So is it with the child who by linking even a few activities begins to weave the chain of life. The very nature of his activity implies a goal, and he feels that some day, to his joy, the chain shall be rounded into a circle. But what says the tree beside which yonder little lad is sitting ? Its form and general ap- pearance warn us, in language not to be misun- derstood, against grafting what is base or false upon an originally noble nature. If we neglect this warning we must expect stunted growth, gnarled branches, bitter fruit. And what says the tree against which leans the tiny maiden ? Its trunk is like a broken shaft. In some way its life impulse has been de- stroyed. Beware, parents, of killing through ignorance or thoughtlessness the impulses of growth and development in your children. Other- wise you will have to grieve over lives which will never crown themselves with completeness, but, like this blighted tree, will yield wood and foli- age but neither blossoms nor fruit. n~^_^:;t IX. BECKONING THE CHICKENS. Because he lives himself, the child Oft thinks that all things live, And pours his little heart upon That which no love can give. But when his life, outreaching, meets With answering life around. His wistful eyes are lit with joy That comrades he has found. The picture illustrating this play shows clearly the mother's beckoning hand and the dear little bent fingers of the baby, who tries to imitate what she is doing. That this move- ment exercises and strengthens the fingers is self-evident. This mother has doubtless heard what we said to each other as we looked at the picture of Mowing Grass. See the child in her arms. No- tice his exuberant health and vigour. Notice how he keeps his eye fixed upon the turkeys, hens, and chickens, and how delightedly he lis- tens to their gobbling, clucking, and peeping. Surely his mother has taken him out of doors in order that he may see in the looking-glass of na- ture the fresh, eager life that throbs in his own 109 no MOTHEE PLAY. pulses, and that through seeing this life outside of himself he may feel it more keenly within himself. Several groups of children, some of whom are her own, have followed the mother. Who would not follow where such motherly nur- ture leads the way ? What child, especially, could resist its charm ? Watch these children. Notice the health, the mirth, the thoughtfulness which are shown in the expression of their faces and in their movements. Look at the three little ones yonder on the right where the middle child is kneeling. The life of nature works upon them like a magnet. It works so powerfully upon the vigorous boy that he needs more sharers of his joy than the two little girls beside him; so he turns to call the three children who are looking so intently through the great branches of the tree at the picture they frame. But these chil- dren do not respond to his call ; they are fasci- nated by the beautiful view that lies before them. And just see the child on the left! Crouched on the ground, she watches intently the chicken family, that none of its doings may escape her. The elder girl, on the contrary, stands erect, and beckons to the hen and rooster ; she wants them to come to their chickens. In her stir the motherly impulses of watchfulness and care. Each child has a vision of his own inmost life in the mirror of nature. This inmost life gains fresh strength through beholding its reflection. So, too, the child sees his life in the mirror of his mother's eye. BECKONING THE CHICKENS. HI Surely all these children will grow up in strength and beauty like the luxuriant climbing vine in our picture, and in their mature years they will stand steadfast like the tree under whose shade they are now rejoicing in the life of nature ! X. BECKONING THE PIGEONS. The mother acts out for her child His thoughts unformed and dim. He love.s the pigeons ; he'll be glad To think that they love him. What the child has seen out of doors the mother repeats for him in her indoor play. Thus the game of Beckoning the Pigeons is an indoor repetition of the experiences described in my commentary on the play Beckoning the Chickens. The mother sits by a table; her baby is on her lap. Her fingers patter along the table to- wards him. These pattering fingers are the little pigeons, chickens, or sparrows which he has seen running or hopping out of doors. The sympa- thetic life in the child moves him to do what he sees his mother do, so he, too, tries to make his little fingers patter across the table. Through his play he exercises his finger joints. So much for this game on its external side. Life attracts life. The picture preceding this one showed nature attracting the life of children ; this picture shows how joyful and loving child life attracts the life of nature, particularly the life of birds. With what trust the pigeons come when the child calls ! Running, fiuttering, flying, 113 114 MOTHER PLAY. they hurry towards him from all sides. It would almost seem as if children and pigeons had some common language, and as if they understood each other all the better because they do not under- stand our human speech. Mother, is there not something analogous to this fact in your own experience ? Did not your children respond more quickly to your words when they were too young to understand the meaning of words than they do now when this meaning is clear to them ? Why is this ? Must the animals teach us ? In their language, word and fact, fact and word, word and deed, deed and word, are always one and the same. XI. THE PISH IN THE BROOK. A CHILD regards with new delight Each living thing that meets his sight ; But when within the limpid stream He sees the fishes dart and gleam, Or when, through pure transparent space The bird's swift flight he tries to trace. Their freer motion fills his heart With joy that seems of it a part — A joy that speaks diviner birth. While yet he treads the ways of earth. The child sits upon a table in front of his mother, or, it may be, upon her lap. Her left arm is thrown gently around him. Keeping her two hands parallel, the mother extends them and then alternately stretches and bends her fingers to imitate the movement of swimming. So much for the way of playing this little game. Birds and fishes, fishes and birds ; why is it that in these the child finds an ever fresh delight ? Is it not because they seem to move with such perfect freedom, the one in the clear water, the other in the pure air ? -Unimpeded activity in a pure element — this is the magnet which attracts the child to bird and fish. Yet the child tries to catch fish and bird. Is not this a contradiction ? Nay, mother, to me it seems not so. In the bird 115 116 THE PISH IN THE BROOK. HY your child is trying to catch its glad flight, in the fish its swimming, skimming, diving, gliding movements. But no catching of bird or fish can avail him. The fish lies motionless on the grass ; holding the bird he loses its flight. Within must freedom be won, within must purity be con- quered. The soul must create the pure element in which it can move freely. Mother, make your child's delight in such free self-movement the point of departure for stirring in him a con- sciousness of this truth, and you will be helping him to achieve life's perfect peace, life's holi- est joy. "Brother, catch me one of the fishes swim- ming so merrily in the brook. Look at this little one— now it is here, now it is there. Some- times it is straight, sometimes it is bent; it is so pretty whatever it does. Oh, if I could only swim and glide and dip ! if I could wriggle and slip, how I would tease you, brother, if you tried to catch me ! Please, brother, catch me a fish." " Here is a fish for you, little sister, but hold it tight or it will slip away." "But, brother, it doesn't move any more; it only lies stretched out straight. But it is alive, for it gasps. I will lay it on the grass ; then it will begin moving again. Oh, it does not move even in the grass ; it lies quite straight and still. Why won't it move ? " " Don't you know, little sister, that fish only move in the water ? Look again at the fishes in the brook, how merrily they are swimming 118 MOTHER PLAY. about; sometimes they are perfectly straight, and then how crooked ! " Mother, do you realise how essential it is that your child should clearly seize the distinc- tion between the crooked and straight, especially when these words are used not in a literal but in a metaphorical sense ? " He is a straightforward man. He follows a straight path. He has an upright character." Who does not rejoice when such words may with truth be said of him ? On the other hand, who is not mortified when told he is walking in crooked paths, or that he is en- gaged in a crooked business ? This opposition between crooked and straight seems to have been in our artist's mind when he was designing the picture of the fish in the brook. Straight and crooked are the little fishes ; straight and crooked flows the water ; straight and crooked grows the tree and around the straight, slim arum the serpents are coiling. Seek to direct your child's attention to the dif- ference between what is straight and what is crooked. Plant in his heart a love for all that is straightforward in thought, word, and deed, and a hatred for whatever violates this ideal ; so shall the mark of rectitude be upon his life and deeds, and, using his developed strength in its right element, he will be active, joyful, and free, like the fish in the clear brook and the bird in the pure air. XII. THE TARGET. However meaningless this game may seem, There is within it, more than one would dream. As hidden in the uncut gem ther(j lies, A rainbow waiting to delight our eyes ; In it, things differing and tar apart Are brought together — wakening the thought Of complex unity — and others still. If, to see truth in play, we have the will ; But while we search, a child sees all with ease : He does not reason, but can quickly seize Impressions which, we know not how, are wrought Into the forming fibre of his thought ; And while with pretty earnestness lie eyes Upon his rosy palm the lines crosswise. Ideas are waking iu his little brain Of number, form, proportion, rightful gain ; And larger knowledge, later on, will come Into a mind where it will be at home. Hell learn proportion's rhythmic power to know — A power that seems with growing thought to grow. Little by little, he will come to see That through activity comes unity. And that each one, who in his place and age Does wholesome work, should have his proper wage. Dimly at first, but clearly by and by. He'll see how everything — earth, air, and sky. Plants, beasts, and men — are knit in one great whole. Interdependent, while the ages roll. This lesson, that the world spells out so slow. The child may come insensibly to know ; And with this lesson taught each opening life. Will come at last the end of man's long strife. With this play we enter upon a new and dis- tinct stage of development. As a traditional 119 9Iu(5 Immer miig' erfd)drteit, 'SReH aU man mogc meinen. Der, reenn er nun gef^Uffen, 93om Slug' mtt Suft crgriffen. Sn ©in'gung fld) luoM fintet; 3u (Sinem fldi ucrlnnbet ; £a§t fciefed ©utel er!unben Sffiaftrfeeil, Bom ©piel umwunben ; ©0 TOunber&ar Uli n^net, Den SBeg jum ®tnfet)'n taftnel. — 3u einem ©atijen fiifire, Sin tict)t^9cr Coftn gcbii()rc; Die ©a(i)en fid) bebtngcn, 2Iu« 51tlem gern witl bringen : Unb im ©efiibl, erfaffen ; 3m Seben and) nic()t laffen." THE TARGET. 121 game it is found in some form in every district of Germany. It is common to all German dia- lects, whether High or Low. It would seem, there- fore, that it must meet some essential need of the child, and correspond with some plane of his de- veloping life. In my judgment, it has also im- portant bearings upon his whole career, for it opens a path which leads gradually towards the life of knowledge and the life of trade. The manner of playing this game, mother, is doubtless familiar to you. Your child stands or sits in front of you. He holds out one of his hands towards you, with the palm uppermost. With the forefinger of his other hand, or with your own forefinger, you draw upon his extended palm two lines intersecting each other at right angles. At the point of intersection you pretend to bore a hole, and finally you lay your free hand upon your child's palm. While going through these varied movements you sing the song of the Target. As I have already said, this little play is com- mon to all the districts and dialects of Germany. What is the reason of its diffusion and popular- ity ? I frankly confess that I see in it the earli- est traces of an endeavour to attract the child's attention to form and position and to the phe- nomena necessarily arising from and connected with these qualities. The one line is the line of length, the other is the line of breadth. Through combination the one is accentuated as vertical, the other as horizontal. They cut each other through their centres, thus forming four equal 10 122 MOTHER PLAY. and therefore right angles. Both, lines with their four ends lie on one plane, as is doubly proved by the position of the hands. But what do I hear you saying ? You do not understand one word of all this, and, how then, can your child understand it ? You are quite right. Your child could not understand a single word of what I have said. Some vague idea of the facts which the words express, however, he must have, or he would not be so much interested in the play. Hence, thoughtful mother, you may assure yourself that some recognition of facts precedes the understanding of words. If, therefore, you wish your instruction to be natural and impres- sive, begin by giving concrete experiences. Do you ask why this method is impressive and why its results are abiding ? I answer : That which we have ourselves experienced makes a deep im- pression ; for in experience three things are al- ways present : the particular fact, its universal implication, and the relationship of both to the person who has the experience. The universal truths implicit in this play of the Target relate to form, size, and number, or, in other words, to the most characteristic qualities of all material objects. Since it directs the child's attention to these characteristic, qualities, this little game may be said to point towards the intellectual mastery of all objects in time and space. Do you see in the picture three bowmen aim- ing their separate arrows at the same mark ? Do you see the three little boys going off with the THE TARGET. 123 target, each feeling in his heart the same pleas- ure ? What is our artist trying to hint to us ? Form, size, and number open three paths to a single goal. That goal is comprehension of and power over the physical world. 134 XIII. PAT-A-CAKE. SuKELY there is nothing hid In this little game, That is not quite plainly told By its name 1 Search a moment — you will iind Something deeper taught; In the world's work each must heJp^ As he ought. Like the Target, Pat-a-cake is a familiar nurs- ery game. It is played not only in Germany but in England. It is said to be the only repre- sentative in the latter country of the hand and finger games of which Germany possesses so rich a collection. Its wide diffusion points to the fact that simple mother-wit never fails to link the initial activities of the child with the everyday life about him. What the natural mother does incidentally, intermittently, and disconnectedly, we must learn to do with conscious intent and in logical se- quence. We must recognise the reason implicit in instinct, learn its methods, and, without losing its naivete develop into a systematic procedure its incidental suggestions. The human spirit is a living unity, and should never be content with a 125 126 MOTHER PLAY. fragmentary expression of its wholeness. Hence " the sweet reasonableness " manifested in the simple intercourse between mother and child must not be suffered to remain forever a blind impulse. It must unfold, on the one side, into conscious and spiritual motherhood, and, on the other, into that ideal childhood whose love and yearning and prescient hope testify that it holds the " all " in its heart. For the immanence of the whole in feeling is the necessary presupposition of the penetration of the whole by thought. On its external side Pat-a-cake is so well known that only a few hints need be given with regard to the manner of playing it and to its physical effects. The child stands or sits in front of her who so tenderly cherishes his life. Hold- ing his hands in an upright position, with the palms toiiching each other, the mother claps them energetically. The physical points of the game are the attitude of the whole body, the po- sition of the arms, and the exercise of the elbow- joint. I have already said that this game had its ori- gin in an effort to make the impulsive move- ments of the infant the means of introducing him to a knowledge of the activities about him, and to their reciprocal relationships. The bread, or, better still, the little cake which the child likes so miich, he receives from his mother; the mother, in turn, receives it from the baker. So far so good. We have found two links in the great chain of life and service. Let us beware, however, of making the child feel that these links PAT-A-CAKE. 127 complete the chain. The baker can bake no cake if the miller grinds no meal ; the miller can grind no meal if the farmer brings him no grain ; the farmer can bring no grain if his field yields no crop ; the field can yield no crop if the forces of Nature fail to work together to produce it ; the forces of Nature could not conspire together were it not for the all-wise and beneficent Power who incites and guides them to their predetermined ends. Doubtless the little children in our picture, who are playing "Bake bread, eat bread," have been taught to feel this inner unity, connected- ness, and harmony of life. Do not disturb their ingenuous play. Rather avoid noticing it, unless your own heart responds to the devout feeling which inspires it. These children are not pro- faning what is holy ; they are nurturing the im- pulse out of which shall spring the consecration of secular life. How shall your child, either now or hereafter, cultivate his sense for what is holy, if you nip that budding germ of devotion which seeks child- like expression in serious play ? Such play, how- ever, must be spontaneous, artless, and free from all attempts at show. Beware, therefore, of any look or word that may destroy the simplicity of an action which originally springs unsummoned from that holiest of holies, the young child's heart. 128 XIV. THE NEST. In the pretty picture Of the nested birds Baby reads Ms " love-song " Written without words — Hears the nestlings calling, And his heart calls, too ; As they need their mother, So his heart needs you. The picture illustrating this game shows clearly the position of the hands. I need only explain that at the beginning of the game the thumbs are turned downward and inward, to make the eggs in the nest. At the words " The eggs are hatched," the tips of the thumbs rise, to represent the throats and heads of two little birds. At the words " Mother dear, peep ! " the thumbs move, to show that the little birds are seeking their mother. It goes without saying that in the first in- stance this game is played by the mother or nurse, the baby merely looking on. As he de- velops, however, the instinct of imitation will prompt him to make the nest, eggs, and birds himself. 129 130 MOTHER PLAY. The mother who thoughtfully observes her child's life and obediently responds to its mani- festations, knows that development is a gradual process, and that no great truth can be taught in a single lesson. The feeling that all life is one life slumbers in the child's soul. Only very gradually, however, can this slumbering feeling be transfigured into a vciking consciousness. Slowly, through a sympathetic study of Nature and of human life, through a growing sense of the soul and meaning of all natural facts and of all human relationships, and through recreating in various forms that external world which is but the objective expression of his own inmost being, the individual attains to a consciousness of the connectedness and unity of life (Lebens- zusammenhang und Lebenseinheit) and to a vision of the Eternal Fountain of Life. Through the play of The Birds' Nest, mother, you take a few short steps upon one of the paths which lead towards this goal, viz., the path which starting from sympathy with Nature, runs through study of Nature to comprehension of the forces, laws, and inner meaning of Nature. You are incited to enter upon this path by your feeling that a prophetic sense of the inner connect- edness of Nature stirs and dreams in your child's heart. You also feel that there is no single object in Nature which has more power to lift his dreaming presentiment into waking conscious- ness than a bird's nest. Consider the time when the bird builds her nest : it is the early springtime, when all Nature THE NEST. 131 begins to unfold. The warmth of spring and summer gives the nestlings an opportunity to develop and grow strong, and an increasing supply of food keeps even pace with their in- creasing need of nourishment. By the time that the chilly autumn and frosty winter have come the nestlings are so strong that they can seek the food they need, and either bear the cold or fly away from it. Consider, again, the places in which birds build their nests. They always choose a spot where they can find plenty of food. Near human dwell- ings are many flies, gnats, and spiders, so, as our picture shows us, sparrows and swallows build between the rafters of houses. In the hedge, which is so rich in insects, the hedge-sparrow and the robin make their homes. The titmouse builds in hollow trees where there are jslenty of worms ; the stork near some spot where frogs abound. No less important tlian time and place is the style of nest-building. Thus the nest of the finch, built between the branches of the apple tree looks so much like its bark that it is scarcely possible to distinguish one from the other ; and the long- tailed titmouse protects her young from danger by building a nest which looks like a bundle of moss. To these and analogous facts with regard to the time and place of nest-building, and to that wonderful mimicry through which birds insure the safety of their nestlings, the child's attention should be often and sympathetically directed. 132 MOTHER PLAY. Nothing, however, will so tenderly stir his heart as the nakedness, softness, and weakness of little birds, and to his young imagination all Nature will seem to share his wish to shelter and feed them. " Mother, mother, only see the nest full of baby birds which these children have found! It is a good thing that the children have come, for the little birds were all by themselves. Their father and mother had left them. I am so sorry for the poor little things ! " " You are mistaken, my darling ; their mother has only gone to find some gnats and worms to feed her babies. She will soon come back. And see, there is the father, sitting near by on the bough of the tree. He is watching his babies so that nothing may harm them while their mother is away. And while the mother seeks food and the father keeps watch, the kind, warm sun peeps into the nest and takes care of the birdies just like the mother herself. Only see how comfort- able they are ! " In the branches of the tree is another nest. There are little birds in it, though you cannot see them. Their mother also has gone to seek food for her hungry nestlings. As she flies about she says to herself, ' If I can only find plenty of worms for my babies, how glad I shall be ! " " Sometimes, darling, I am like this bird- mother. I cannot always be close by joii ; but you must not cry because yon do not see me. You are my own dear little child, and wherever THE NEST. 133 I may be I am thinking of you. Besides, even when I am away from you you are not alone, for you have the dear heavenly Father's sunlight. But remember, the sunbeams do not like a crying child ! " 134 XV. THE FLOWER BASKET. Welcome each small offering That a young child's love may bring, Though perchanee he stint himself Of some childish joy or pelf; For love grows with being spent, But starves in its own plenty pent. The position of the hand is clearly shown in the drawing. The little finger of the right hand is laid upon the index finger of the left, the finger tips of the right hand are placed in the angle be- tween the thumb and index finger of the left ; in this position the palms and fingers form a hemi- spherical hollow. Manifestly the relative posi- tions of the hands may be reversed. In both cases, however, the tips of the thumbs are bent outward. The physical object of the game is to exercise the hand in bending, and thus increase its flexibility. Its spiritual aim is to strengthen the invisible cord by which the child is tethered to his fellows, and it pursues this aim in the simplest and most natural manner by making family relationships and affections its point of departure. "Why are the children so busy gathering flowers to fill this pretty basket ? Why is their mother cutting the beautiful lilies ? " 135 136 MOTHER- PLAY. " Let me look at the picture, darling, and I will tell you what I think. It must be their dear father's birthday. Yes, that is just it. Yonder in the summer-house on the hill sits the father, and if I see rightly he has a pencil in his hand. I am sure he is drawing a pretty picture for his children. He wishes to give them a pleasure on his birthday. Perhaps he is drawing the hills in the early morning light, with the beautiful sun rising so quietly. Perhaps it seems to him that this still sunrise is something like the life of his dear children, or like his own life when he was a little child. His youngest daughter seems to have something of the same feeling. She cannot wait until the large basket is filled with flowers. She has filled a little basket all by herself and runs to give it to her father. 'Here, dear papa,' she says, ' here are some flowers for your birthday. Do you like them ? Mother and sister and brother have some more flowers for you, and oh, such pretty ones ! ' " ' Why, my darling,' says her father, ' your little flowers are beautiful, too. They are so fresh and pure. How glad they make me ! How glad everything makes me to-day ! ' " " Mother, why is the father so glad ? " " My child, he is glad because the sun shines kindly, because the sky is so blue, because the air is so mild, because the birds are singing and twittering so merrily, because the field is so gay with flowers and so sparkling with dew. Even the old tower yonder in the wood looks as if it was trying to say 'Good-morning' and 'Happy THE FLOWER BASKET. 137 birthday.' All these things help to make the father glad ; but he is telling his little girl that they could not make him happy if he had no sweet daughter, and she had no sister and no brother." "And no dear, good mother. The father is sure to say that, too." " Yes, of course he is saying that, too ; for he loves the mother, and he knows how dearly she loves him, and all her little children. And what else do you think he is saying ? ' Do yon know, darling,' he asks, ' who I must thank for all these good things ? ' The little girl thinks to her- self : ' Father ought to have everything that is good, because he is so good himself.' But the father says : ' I must thank God who gave me life, God who gives life to all, God who is the Father of all. He gives me the many good things which make me so happy to-day. When mother and sister and brother come we will thank him to- gether.' * " This is what the father is saying to his little daughter. Shall you and I thank God, too ? " " Mother, when is my father's birthday ?" * Here Proebel inserts some rhymes, of which Miss Lord gives the following translation : " Just as the birds all thankful sing, As larks poise high on fluttering wing. As swallows praise Him in their flight. And flowers bloom towards the light ; And, in the lovely early dawn A happy smile is on the lawn. All things with a shout and song Give forth thanks most glad and strong." 11 -^-^£»^ 138 XVI. THE PIGEON HOUSE. A GAME TO EXERCISE ARMS, HANDS, AND FINGERS. Children ever are projecting Into play tlie life within, Like a niagie lantern throwing Pictures on the waiting screen. Glad outgoing, sweet home-coming, In this little game they see ; At the real home-cominga, mother. Gather them about your knee ; Ask them of eaeli sight and happening In the quiet twilight hour ; Help tlicm weave it all together Like a garland, flower'to flower. With the years, the larger knowledge Of life's wholeness then will come, And its twilight liour will find them With themselves and God at home. The position of the liamls is shown with toler- able clearness in the drawing. The left arm is vertical and represents a pole ; the hands so joined as to suggest a quadrangular form make the pigeon house. The fingers of the right hand are extended and bent to show the opening and clos- ing of the pigeon-house door. By various other movements they represent the pigeons. In order 139 140 MOTHER PLAY. to exercise and develop both arms equally, the right arm may sometimes make the pole on which the pigeon house is set, while the fingers of the left hand represent the opening and closing door and the flying pigeons. The baby is delighted to watch his mother play the Pigeon House. When he is old enough to play it himself it gives him still greater joy. The source of this joy is that the game helps him " to stretch his own little life " so that it may include something of the great life of Na- ture. The yearning to inhale the life of Nature awakens early in the human soul. The young child loves to take it in with long, deep breaths. Hence he longs to be out of doors, and especially to watch the quick, free movements of birds and animals. Mother, cherish this longing, and, when- ever possible, give your child that intimacy with Nature which he craves ; but do not imagine that his craving can be stilled by any merely external experience. His soul seeks the soul of things. His spirit strives, however unconsciously, to pene- trate the phenomenal and transitory ; to find the absolute and abiding ; to recognise in the particu- lar a deep-lying universal ; to discern unity and community in what appears detached and soli- tary. As child of man, or, in other words, as a particular incarnation of generic humanity, as " child of God," a single vital spark of the divine flame, he seeks and must ever seek Unity, the Being that is One in and for itself — God. Foster this eifort of the soul, and make your child aware of it as a moving impulse even while its source THE PIGEON HOUSE. 141 and meaning are still incomprehensible to Mm. Dare not to say to yourself that such spiritual nurture may be given too early. Too early ! Do you know when, where, and how spiritual life begins ? Can you trace the boundary line be- tween its being and its non-being ? In God's world, just because it is God's world, all things develop in unbroken continuity. Therefore re- vere the impulse which stirs within you to fan the first faint sparks of spiritual life. So doing, the impulse itself will grow strong and clear, and what you bear in your heart will manifest itself increasingly in your life. It is never too early to begin the nurture of spiritual life. Such nurture may, however, be begun in a wrong way. The mistake lies not in the " when " but in the '" how." Your baby must learn to step before he can learn to run ; he must learn to stand before he can learn to step; he must strengthen and develop his legs, and indeed his whole body, before with ease and pleasure he can learn to stand. If you force him to stand and walk too soon he will have weak bowlegs ; if you keep him too long from walking and stand- ing he will be stiff, clumsy, and awkward. In the law of physical evolution you may read the law of spiritual evolution. Force a premature development of spiritual life and it will be weak and distorted ; retard it unduly and it will lack freedom, expansiveness, and grace. How many men and women do we, all of us, know who are going through life with dispositions as deformfed as the child's bowlegs ? How many do we know 142 MOTHER PLAY. whose souls are wholly unfledged, or have at best mere rudimentary wings ? Mother, mother, never forget the interdependence of all the separate stages of life ; rear your child in harmony with the universal laws of continuity and degree, and adopt as your motto the words, "The earthly destiny of man is to make his own life a whole, and to understand the wholeness of all life." But we must not forget our Pigeon House nor the simple law of life which it illustrates. This law seems to be alive in the heart of the mother. It is also stirring in the pulses of every child in the picture. The healthy, active, gleeful baby sitting so securely in his mother's arms never once turns away his glance from the pigeons on the ground ; he seems to be trying to catch them with his eyes that he may take them home with him. The little boy in front of the mother stands motionless, his enchanted gaze fixed upon a tit- mouse who is sitting on a tree near by. From this tree a rotten branch has been cut, and in its hollow stump the titmouse has made her home. She longs to slip into the hole where her babies are waiting for her ; yet, in order not to betray them, she sits with head averted from her nest. The little boy is so interested in watching her that he forgets the apple in his hand and comes near dropping it. He is afraid of startling the bird, and whispers so gently that he can scarcely be heard : " Mother, look at the tree yon- der ; do you see where the bough has been cut away ? do you see a little hole ? I think there is a nest in it." His sympathetic mother begins to THE PIGEON nOUSE. 143 walk more slowly and softly, and turns her glance towards the anxious little mother bird. The two children who are coming home from a walk must have seen something of real impor- tance to their own lives, for they are evidently completely absorbed in what they are saying to each other about it. On the right of our picture sits a mother talk- ing with her little son. Let us listen to their conversation. " Tell me, dear, where you have been." " In the yard, in the garden, in the field, in the meadow, at the pond, by the brook." "And what beautiful things did my darling see ? " " Pigeons and chickens ; geese and ducks ; swallows and sparrows ; larks and finches ; ra- vens, magpies, water wagtails and titmice ; bees, beetles, butterflies, and humble-bees." "Where did you see the pigeons and chick- ens?" " In the yard, mother ; they were picking up grains of wheat and eating them. How fast the little chickens ran whenever they found anything to eat, or when the old rooster called to them that he had found something ! The pigeons could not run so fast as the chickens; neither could the ravens I saw in the field. One raven ran almost as a pigeon runs, and the black pigeon when it was running looked like a raven. But how the ravens and magpies could hop! So could the water wagtails and the sparrows. It is such fun to see them hopping about on their little 144 MOTHER PLAT. stiff legs! Oh, mother, you must go with me to tlie fields some day and let me show them to you. And the geese and ducks, how they swim and dive! They can fly, too, for they flew straight over my head and away to the pond. How they frightened me ! "' "Why shouldn't they fly, my child? They are birds, just like the pigeons and chickens, the swallows and sparrows, the finches and the larks." " Mother, are pigeons and hens birds ? " " My child, haven't they feathers, haven't they wings, haven't they two legs, as all other birds have ? " " But pigeons live in the pigeon house, and chickens don't fly ! " " Chickens have only forgotten how to fly be- cause they fly so little. If we wish not to forget a thing we must always keep on doing it. As for the pigeons, why shouldn't they live in the pigeon house ? Sparrows and swallows are birds, and they live in houses and under roofs." " Mother, are bees and beetles and butterflies birds, too ? They have wings, and can fly much higher than chickens and ducks." "Yes, they can fly, but they have no feathers and build no little nests. Besides, there are many things birds have which bees and butter- flies have not. They are animals, for they can move as they wish. They also have some- thing which birds have not. Look at this beetle, and then at this little fly. See, they have a notch here, and another there. We call these THE PIGEON HOUSE. 145 notches sections, and the little notched creatures insects." * " Mother, when I again go out of doors you mnst go with me."' " I cannot promise to go with you, my darling, for I have much to do. I must put the house in order, cook you something to eat, and make you some little clothes. Out of doors everything is in beautifi\l order ; each thing has its own place, each has its own work, which it does with joy. It seems to me I can hear the dear God who made this beautiful, orderly world saying to me, 'Wife, mother, in your little home everything must be in order, and every person in the house must do his work at the right time.' But this is not all he says to me. He tells me that every person in the whole world must find his right place, and do his right work at the right time. He tells me that while my child is still young and small he may flutter about, exercising his strength as birds exercise their wings. After a while he must be like the firmly rooted apple tree, so that his life may bear healthy fruit. But be sure, dear, when you go out of doors to see all you can, so that you may have much to tell me when you come home." " Mother, to-morrow I am going again to the fields. When I come home I shall have new things to tell you, and you will explain to me again what the dear God is saying." * I borrow this translation of Kerben and Kerbthiere from Miss liord. 140 MOTHER PLAY. Postscript. — TeacMiig and learning go on all tlirough man's life. The oldest teacher has much to learn, and must always be ready to let himself be taught by animals, trees, and stones, as well as by men. Here is a lesson I have learned lately from the pigeons : While making a round of visits, I spent some days with a friend who was a great pigeon fancier. My room was near the pigeon house and I often heard the birds talking to- gether, particularly when they had been off for a flight. This experience led to the following ad- dition to my pigeon song : And when they get home you will hear them say, " ' How happy we were out of doors to-day — Coo-coo 1 coo-coo ! coo-coo ! ' "' The children were pleased to think that the pigeons told each other about their merry flights, and were the more ready to tell all they had them- selves seen and heard when out of doors. Mother, a story told at the right time is a looking-glass for the mind.'' XVII. NAMING THE FINGERS. CouMT your baby's rosy fingcre, Name them for him, one by one ; Teach him how to use them deftlj"^, Ere the dimples are all gone ; So, still gaining skill with service, All he does will be well done. Everybody knows how to count on the fingers, and how to hold the hand while so doing. The position of the hand is also shown clearly in the picture. It is necessary, however, to say a few words with regard to the significance of this little play. The traditional counting games, so well known in every nurserj^, seemed to me either to be silly and meaningless, or to say many things I would not willingly have children hear. On the other hand, some form of counting game appeared to me important from several points of view. These points of view I have endeavoured to make clear in my little songs and in the mottoes prefixed to them. I have also tried to preserve some echo of the traditional words. Naming the Fingers, the first of my series of counting plays, directs the child's attention to the names of his fingers (index finger, middle 147 148 NAMING THE FINGERS. 149 finger, ring or gold finger, little finger), and sug- gests how these names arose. I have not thought it necessary to give the genesis of the word thumb, which undoubtedly comes from dam, and has been applied to the thumb because it seems to form a dam or barrier.* Simple connections of this kind between word and thing should, whenever possible, be pointed out to children. By noticing them the mind escapes from super- ficiality and forms habits of comparison and reflection. The artist has intentionally represented the fingers of the left hand as women and little girls, those of the right hand as men and boys. Is he hinting to us the harmony which should exist between the intellect and the heart ? If I under- stand him aright, he has striven in many ways to suggest that high and noble accord, that cheerful co-operation so necessary in family life and in the larger institutions of civil society and state. "Look at the mother who is carrying her lit- tle daughter on her ai'm. What is she doing ?" " I think she is teaching baby the names of her fingers. She is also trying to teach her how to use them. She hopes that when baby grows older she will be like the two little girls who are busy sewing and spinning; like the two children in the garden who are planting flowers ; like the * Froebel is not reliable in his etymologies. Thumb is from a root signifying to grow large or increase, and so means the thiek finger. — Translator. 150 MOTHER PLAY. sturdy boy wlio is climbing a tree to get them some plums." " Mother, may I climb a tree ? " " Yes, when you are stronger, and when you have learned to keep your balance." XVIII. THE GREETING. Ah, what a wondrous gift of God Our humau bodies are, V Still serving us from day to day, Both in our work and in our play, Without a break or jar ! Dear mother, when you see your babe Play with his tiny hands. As though just learning they were his, Eemember, here a lesson is For one who understands. Oh, help him, as his body grows To feel it is God-given, So that in all earth's happy ways, Through peaceful nights and busy days. Ills life may forecast licuvcu ! The manner of playing this little game is ex- plained by song and picture. Its inner meaning is disclosed by the motto. It requires, therefore, only a few words by way of commentary. There is a general and increasing lament over the indelicate actions into which little children in their blindness are prone to fall ; and, alas ! the most cursory observation proves that the lament is only too widely justified. Experiences of this nature wound the delicacy, destroy the modesty, and stain the purity of the soul. What shall we do to get rid of this sneaking pestilence 151 153 THE GREETING. 153 which poisons all that is noblest in the child, and whose taint continues to infect his later life ? There is but one means of avoiding wrong activity; but rejoice, friends of childhood and humanity, for it is a sure preventive. This pre- ventive is right activity — an activity as per- sistent as it is fit and lawful ; an activity which is not of the body alone, nor yet alone of the heart or head ; an activity wherein are blended body and soul, feeling and thought. To capacitate the child for this pure and complete activity, we must begin in infancy to exercise and discipline hands and fingers. In order to avoid vacuity of mind we must make this exercise a means of opening to the soul the inner life of surrounding objects. To point out how this double aim may be accomplished is one of the prime objects of my nursery plays. 12 !t)ic Orogmama unb SUiuttcr licb ull^ n"*- „tiai OTcfirere tin OoiiitS (Inb, Iiic§ ai)nft ttml)! fcf)on ftiift ctn ^inb ; 2)'nim lcf)rt bic SOIuttet au^ mtt giEig g« fennen ben ganiilien- SreiS." '^'''"3^f\l. mf^ XIX. THE FAMILY. When baby's eyes first open to the light, The same dear household faces meet his sight, Which, as months change to years, he learns to lore. Oh, teach him that the dear ones of his home, Both now and in the years which are to come. Beneath one roof, or wheresoe'cr they rove. Are one di'ar fainily ! — more closely l)0und By love than if by iron Lflrtled round. If there is one thing which more than any other demands to be rightly apprehended and reverently cherished it is the life of the family. Family life! Family life! Who shall fathom thy depths ? Who shall declare thy meaning ? How shall I compress into the few words I may permit myself any idea of thy sacred import ? Thon art the sanctuary of humanity; thou art the temple wherein the flame of divinity is kept alive and burning. Let me be frank and outspoken. Thou art m.ore than school and Church ! Thou art greater than all the institu- tions which necessity has called into being for the protection of life and property! Without the conscience to which thou givest birth, with- out the reflection which thou dost foster, the school is but a sterile egg — an egg which con- 155 156 MOTHER PLAY. tains indeed nourishing material but lacks the germ of life. Without thee, what are altar and temple ? Thou must anoint thy members with the oil of consecration. Then shall they seek with heart and mind, with love and thought, the altar of the one true God, learn with reverence to understand his revelation, and with strenuous will obey his law. And once more, O family ! thou art the security of all institutions, offensive and defensive, whose object is to maintain law and justice. For he who is reared in a family unhal- lowed by the presence of justice and of law tends to become a scoffer of the one and a rebel against the other. Therefore, mother, strive to awaken in the soiil of your child, even in infancy, some premo- nition of the nature of a living whole, and partic- ularly some glimpse into the meaning of the family whole. So doing you will lay the founda- tions for true and vigorous and harmonious life. For where wholeness is there is life, or at least the germ of life ; where division is, even if it be only halfness, there is death, or at least the germ of death. In picturing the family, the relationships of grandfather, grandmother, father, mother, and child should be thrown into clear relief. In the relationship of his parents to his grandparents the child beholds, as in a mirror, his own rela- tionship to father and mother. As he stands to his father and mother, so they stand to his grand- father and grandmother. Conversely, parents behold a reflection of their relationship to their THE FAMILY. 157 child in the relationship of his grandparents to themselves. To apprehend the manifold aspects of this double relationship is undoubtedly of the highest importance for the inner life and devel- opment of the child. Doubtless our artist felt its significance, for he shows us repeatedly in his picture a living whole of five members, giving us hints of it even in the forms of flowers. In con- nection with these flowers there seems to have hovered before his mind a fancy which it may be worth while to mention. Not only all kernel and stone fruits, but all plants belonging to the family group they represent, accentuate the number five in their blossoms. Has the pleasant flavour of these fruits anything to do with this pervading law ? )p5 W '^' gtetn ! ter ^en^^ ei iud)t ermi§t; SSJelcbe ^unft, er at)net '« taunt, AjVJrjJC-':^ ©t^ ju finben in bem SRaum. ;^^7f '-^''^^ 3a. bo^ rid)t^9e 3cifiicn Cefert unS SRecfcte^ rcoMen, fiebrt urt«